Yes, I would say small goals work better for me, than huge big goals. A bunch of small goals are a lot more productive than one huge goal which you don't know how to get around.
You're dating information is great but I like your life coach stuff even more wish you would do more of that also would be great if you could publish a book list either on your website or wherever
From a personal standpoint, I have to disagree with "flow". I absolutely hate challenge, or anything challenging. If something doesn't come easily to me, I quit, plain and simple. I found, that the harder I try to understand, the angrier, and more frustrated I got, so I don't bother anymore. I have zero patience for learning. I'll listen to UA-cam, and podcasts, and absorb information, but to actively learn something, like a language, or some other skill, forget it. It really does suck, because it's harder to relate to people, and I miss out on a lot, personally, and professionally. Everybody, learn from my failure, you can do better.
To your last question I rushed and been burned so much. if you get to read this I have a question that is really important for me to know the answer to.
SchoolOfAttraction Ok I live with my grandmother and I sleep in her living room on a futon. I have been wanting to get my own place, because I want to have an actual bedroom and a place of my own to have sex with women. The fact that I live and sleep in a living room is causing me to not talk to women as I am insecure about not having my own place. Do you think women care much about whether a man lives in someone else's place or has a place of his own so they can have sex?
Good question Hamid - Sure it's not ideal, sure most women would rather find a guy who has his own place... But When I was learning this stuff, I lived in my parents place 1 hour drive from the city. When one of my head coaches was learning this stuff he lived in the same area with his mum, and drove a work truck with a huge cockroach on the side (he was an exterminator). What matters to women is that you are a man going places, that you have a game plan, that life hasn't BEATEN you. I lived at home because I was saving money to by a property rather than waste it on rent - My coach was at home because he was saving money to start his own business. It wasn't just a lie we told people, we really were guys with a game plan for our lives, for many women that trumps living at home. But if it feels like you're living at home becuase you have no motivation, and you have no plan for your life, your not fighting towards something you believe in and want... Then yeah.. It's totally unappealing. If that's the space you are in now, then find your passion first, and become the man that deserves great women. That doesn't require money, just the mindset.
Yes, I would say small goals work better for me, than huge big goals. A bunch of small goals are a lot more productive than one huge goal which you don't know how to get around.
This is exactly what happened to me when I first started trying to pick up women! I just burned out and couldn't even walk into a bar for 3 months..
I'm in that state. People don't forget to live.
You're dating information is great but I like your life coach stuff even more wish you would do more of that also would be great if you could publish a book list either on your website or wherever
From a personal standpoint, I have to disagree with "flow". I absolutely hate challenge, or anything challenging. If something doesn't come easily to me, I quit, plain and simple. I found, that the harder I try to understand, the angrier, and more frustrated I got, so I don't bother anymore. I have zero patience for learning. I'll listen to UA-cam, and podcasts, and absorb information, but to actively learn something, like a language, or some other skill, forget it. It really does suck, because it's harder to relate to people, and I miss out on a lot, personally, and professionally. Everybody, learn from my failure, you can do better.
To your last question I rushed and been burned so much. if you get to read this I have a question that is really important for me to know the answer to.
Hey Hamid, I definitely do reaad all the comments, I'm happy to answer your question :)
SchoolOfAttraction Ok I live with my grandmother and I sleep in her living room on a futon. I have been wanting to get my own place, because I want to have an actual bedroom and a place of my own to have sex with women. The fact that I live and sleep in a living room is causing me to not talk to women as I am insecure about not having my own place. Do you think women care much about whether a man lives in someone else's place or has a place of his own so they can have sex?
Good question Hamid - Sure it's not ideal, sure most women would rather find a guy who has his own place... But When I was learning this stuff, I lived in my parents place 1 hour drive from the city. When one of my head coaches was learning this stuff he lived in the same area with his mum, and drove a work truck with a huge cockroach on the side (he was an exterminator).
What matters to women is that you are a man going places, that you have a game plan, that life hasn't BEATEN you. I lived at home because I was saving money to by a property rather than waste it on rent - My coach was at home because he was saving money to start his own business. It wasn't just a lie we told people, we really were guys with a game plan for our lives, for many women that trumps living at home.
But if it feels like you're living at home becuase you have no motivation, and you have no plan for your life, your not fighting towards something you believe in and want... Then yeah.. It's totally unappealing. If that's the space you are in now, then find your passion first, and become the man that deserves great women. That doesn't require money, just the mindset.
SchoolOfAttraction Thanks for that advice, I really needed that