Dr Carolyne Chakua - Are you a carpenter parent or a farmer parent?

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  • Опубліковано 11 вер 2024
  • Psychotherapist and mother turned parenting coach asks us some vital questions as she shares her parenting journey and the creation of BEing parenting.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 34

  • @polynejuma7589
    @polynejuma7589 4 роки тому +2

    Dear Dr Carol,You are such a gem in matters parenting in this generation.
    Looking forward to listening to you speaking @Engage Talk...and TED too!

  • @shikushishi6820
    @shikushishi6820 3 роки тому

    This never gets old...even after watching a couple of times. It's full of nuggets of wisdom.

  • @gabrielodhiamboachayo4324
    @gabrielodhiamboachayo4324 4 роки тому +1

    I like the farmer analogy for parenting. Plant seeds, tend the plant, and wait for it to bloom at the right season for the specific plant/outcome.
    It's a two way responsibility, the farmer is responsible for providing the right environment for the plant. The plant has a responsibility to grow.

  • @Lazizisfavourites
    @Lazizisfavourites 4 роки тому

    Very inspiring and thought provoking. Am glad I came across this especially now.

  • @emilyomondi9247
    @emilyomondi9247 4 роки тому +4

    This has really impacted me Carol, keep living your purpose.

  • @wairimumukuria959
    @wairimumukuria959 4 роки тому +2

    Yaaaaaaassss Thank you Dr Chakua for everything you do for us parents. You give so much hope in parenting at this time we are in.

    • @carolynechakua938
      @carolynechakua938 4 роки тому

      Thank you Wairimu. We need all the hope in these times. Happy parenting:)

  • @monicamonic9324
    @monicamonic9324 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you this one was for me am single mum rising aboy ad sometimes not that easy.

  • @suziehappy4542
    @suziehappy4542 4 роки тому +5

    This is full of wisdom. Wow

  • @shirleyodongo6439
    @shirleyodongo6439 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you Dr. Chakua......this was an inspiring listen.

  • @lucillea-r9568
    @lucillea-r9568 4 роки тому +1

    Wow this has changed my parenting game

  • @florencemawanda6374
    @florencemawanda6374 4 роки тому +4

    truly nice presentation - thank you

  • @monicabubu5139
    @monicabubu5139 4 роки тому

    This is so so informative Doc

  • @ironladyhawa536
    @ironladyhawa536 3 роки тому

    Wow thank u for this

  • @marthawambui7593
    @marthawambui7593 4 роки тому +3

    Very informative Dr. Carol

  • @lucysaina9873
    @lucysaina9873 4 роки тому +2

    My lecturer. I used to admire you.

  • @lillianmutua6580
    @lillianmutua6580 3 роки тому

    incredible

  • @umuali1905
    @umuali1905 4 роки тому +3

    Beautiful. Thnks

  • @eliciphanjuguna4605
    @eliciphanjuguna4605 4 роки тому

    Very informative... may the farmer in me sprout!

  • @millionairess3723
    @millionairess3723 4 роки тому +2

    General question, coz I see it a lot. Is it really right to discipline a child for refusing to eat? Is it a crime?

    • @nancy5821
      @nancy5821 4 роки тому +4

      It's pointless to discipline a child to eat. Give them another option or simply let them know that if they don't eat what you're offering, then they'll have to stay like that until the next meal.

    • @carolynechakua938
      @carolynechakua938 4 роки тому +3

      @@nancy5821 great answer:)

    • @africanqueenmo
      @africanqueenmo 4 роки тому +2

      The reason parents punish children who refuse to eat is because of control issues as well as hurt egos. Period it's the most unwise and immature behaviour from a parent. Childhood is not just the time to plant the seed you harvest their love all the time their trust and satisfaction if you are parenting properly.

  • @milliamkimani1507
    @milliamkimani1507 4 роки тому +1

    where can someone get you

  • @africanqueenmo
    @africanqueenmo 4 роки тому

    Dr Carol I hope you have gone for professional counseling. You may be a recovering yeller but you're also a recovering child abuser. How on this earth with al your education and especially training as a Dr. Not teach you anything about how to met out punishment to a child that is of equal weight to his crime? So because he did not want to eat your ndegu you were up ready to break his bones? Sorry I didn't hear anything after that. You honestly need to re evaluate yourself because the fact that you can stand there and narrate how you were so heavy handed with your child a boy you hadn't seen in a week and not flinch makes me wonder if really you have recovered. As an adult who received high handed treatment of this kind from one of my parents I can say that I think you need to mend those bridges before you lose your son when he grows up and he wants nothing to do with you. Children remember. You must apologize to him and show remorse otherwise I'm afraid he may turn out to be what he saw in his mum. So how would you feel if your boss beat you with a Mwiko? Just sad! Btw stop forcing your child to eat what he does not want to. Just accept they are not you give him healthy options.

    • @carolynechakua938
      @carolynechakua938 4 роки тому +2

      Mo on the go. There is a BEFORE and an AFTER to my story. Watch the entire video, LISTEN TO EVERYTHING then let us have a conversation, OK?

    • @kaanakega7872
      @kaanakega7872 4 роки тому +1

      I wish you listened to the end.