My youngest sister tried multiple tims to ruin my relationship and wedding. When nothing she did worked she wisely stayed far far away from our wedding. Some people just are petty and cant handle other people being happy.
I've come across some thick headed people in my time but Jennifer takes the cake! She has no one but herself to blame for her current situation: she brought it on herself. I would go full NC with her and I think OP should do the same. Some people just don't want others to be happy.
your sister's not stubborn she's slimy that's why she wrote that letter to your husband right before your wedding the only reason why she came back was to create more drama and it took that incident for your mother to realizethat her baby girl is a slimy person!!I don't blame you I keep her out of my life no contact everthen your mother comes to a sentence it says she cut her offthat's hard on your motherI wouldn't want an apologyI don't care if she went to the pope and had it blessed I would not want her apology I just would not want anything to do with her!!after talking to your motherto your mama now you find out if she's tired of being compared to you she was jealous of you she's wicked that's all there is to it you don't need another explanation you don't want the apology go on with your life I wish you all the happiness in the world with your marriage!!
It's really sad to see a family member cause harm, but I can understand why you felt hurt and betrayed. However, exposing her in front of everyone might not have been the best way to resolve things. Communication and understanding are key in these situations. Maybe having an open conversation with her about how her actions affected you could help heal the situation and prevent further conflicts. It's important to try to find a way to resolve issues without escalating them, especially within the family. Hopefully, you both can work through this and come to a better understanding of each other.
NTA, but your mother still has a point. You could have handled it a bit more gracefully. Not for your sister's sake, but for yours. But maybe exposing your sister is how you two interact.
"but your mother still has a point" Hell no to that.... the one who creates the monster has NO business telling anyone else how to handle the monster. (by 'create', i mean spoiling, not birthing)
I get the feeling OP is just as bad as her sister is tbh, with how her mind always immediately turns to revenge before anything else, and she always thinks she is in the right. I don't think that first part of the sister's letter was a lie as much as it was the sister's perception of things.
I like your comment the most, because the first time I heard the story, I was thinking - OP is hiding something. And even the events are as in the story - OP is too vindictive. Without knowing more details my opinion is split in this story, even feel sorry for little sister, because in my opinion she need to go to therapy and live her live without contacting OP.
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My youngest sister tried multiple tims to ruin my relationship and wedding. When nothing she did worked she wisely stayed far far away from our wedding. Some people just are petty and cant handle other people being happy.
It's not all about being vindicated...it's about making it's SO bad the sister wouldn't do that again!!
Sister got utterly humiliated in HS but didn't learn her lesson.
OP is fire, Jennifer, how're you gonna get burned again?
Everyone has a lil bit of senses of whats right or wrong... But OP sister keeps making mistakes back to back.
Ironically her confrontation is likely what prevented ANYONE from believing her in that post.
I've come across some thick headed people in my time but Jennifer takes the cake! She has no one but herself to blame for her current situation: she brought it on herself. I would go full NC with her and I think OP should do the same. Some people just don't want others to be happy.
I'm a direct confrontation sort of soul. I wouldn't have gone for public humiliation. Maybe I'm highschool, but not now.
NTA. Your wedding, your call. Mom can pound dirt.
Family drama is on another level in this story 😳
I'm not here for the snake slander from OP.
your sister's not stubborn she's slimy that's why she wrote that letter to your husband right before your wedding the only reason why she came back was to create more drama and it took that incident for your mother to realizethat her baby girl is a slimy person!!I don't blame you I keep her out of my life no contact everthen your mother comes to a sentence it says she cut her offthat's hard on your motherI wouldn't want an apologyI don't care if she went to the pope and had it blessed I would not want her apology I just would not want anything to do with her!!after talking to your motherto your mama now you find out if she's tired of being compared to you she was jealous of you she's wicked that's all there is to it you don't need another explanation you don't want the apology go on with your life I wish you all the happiness in the world with your marriage!!
Sooo no one is going to talk about how the person walking almost got ran over???
It's really sad to see a family member cause harm, but I can understand why you felt hurt and betrayed. However, exposing her in front of everyone might not have been the best way to resolve things. Communication and understanding are key in these situations. Maybe having an open conversation with her about how her actions affected you could help heal the situation and prevent further conflicts. It's important to try to find a way to resolve issues without escalating them, especially within the family. Hopefully, you both can work through this and come to a better understanding of each other.
NTA, but your mother still has a point.
You could have handled it a bit more gracefully. Not for your sister's sake, but for yours. But maybe exposing your sister is how you two interact.
"but your mother still has a point" Hell no to that.... the one who creates the monster has NO business telling anyone else how to handle the monster. (by 'create', i mean spoiling, not birthing)
Giving me signals = I live in Delulu land
I get the feeling OP is just as bad as her sister is tbh, with how her mind always immediately turns to revenge before anything else, and she always thinks she is in the right. I don't think that first part of the sister's letter was a lie as much as it was the sister's perception of things.
As someone with multiple siblings who fought them a lot, i got that as well because i was responsible for those fights
I like your comment the most, because the first time I heard the story, I was thinking - OP is hiding something. And even the events are as in the story - OP is too vindictive. Without knowing more details my opinion is split in this story, even feel sorry for little sister, because in my opinion she need to go to therapy and live her live without contacting OP.