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  • @SoraFlora95
    @SoraFlora95 Місяць тому +37

    Its understandable that you grieved such a wonderful friend and person for so long, your love for her and her love for you will always be with you. Welcome back, and no pressure to put out videos if you don't feel like it. Missed you and Hugh's humor and lovely, unique personalities so much.
    You guys are not old! Just tired lol Please take care of yourselves

  • @MyKoreanHusband
    @MyKoreanHusband  Місяць тому +38

    한국어 자막이 없어서 미안해요ㅠ
    Sorry there are no Korean subtitles! It's kinda impossible at the moment because of lack of time, and also UA-cam no longer has the option for others to upload subtitles for us.

    • @monicastamant
      @monicastamant Місяць тому

      UA-cam lets you choose the language of the video and then can auto translate it to other languages. It works decently well and takes less work/time than doing it yourself so give it a try! It uses AI I think.

  • @konglishbubu
    @konglishbubu Місяць тому +7

    Feels like an old friend suddenly turns up on your doorstep Welcome back!

  • @rang1499
    @rang1499 14 годин тому

    Thank you for making more videos. I have always enjoyed them over the years

  • @Wooplot
    @Wooplot Місяць тому +12

    You're not old! Older yes, but you're not old. And you look great

  • @estherk5786
    @estherk5786 Місяць тому +3

    It's like seeing family that we haven't seen in a while! ❤
    I'm so sorry for your loss, Nicola.

  • @kkckoz144
    @kkckoz144 17 днів тому

    So happy you guys are back! Your videos and comics have helped me so much in my own multicultural marriage, and we also now have kids. It was difficult even as a veiwer when Sara passed and I cant imagine what you all went through. But im looking forward to whatever content you decide to post!

  • @MelanieMurrish
    @MelanieMurrish Місяць тому +2

    Great to see you guys back! Honestly you are so natural and keep it real, I just love your videos.
    I would love to know more about your struggles with learning Korean, as I know a lot of people think you just magically pick up a foreign language if you are immersed and have a partner who is a native speaker.
    I also know that it's very easy to lose yourself when you have young kids-your illustrations and videos are such a big part of you so very happy to see them coming back, even if it's slowly but surely.
    I'm loving following along with Hugh's "new" venture and would definitely like to know a bit more about how that evolved.
    Also, I feel you about getting old (even though you are not old haha) and good on you both for getting back on track with fitness-I truly wish I had started taking care of myself long before I did so I admire you doing it with very young kids.
    Welcome back-looking forward to seeing you more. 😍

  • @ArtSmartSvcs101
    @ArtSmartSvcs101 Місяць тому +6

    I’m an OG subscriber from way back in the beginning. One of my favorite videos was when you would take simple bike rides through the countryside when you guys lived with your in-laws. It’s nice to see you guys back!

  • @apawula2545
    @apawula2545 День тому

    Welcome back! I'd be happy to see something about Korean school, how it works for younger kids, what kind of extracurricular activities they have.... also, give us a tour of your house plants kingdom😅

  • @OfficialCrystalSings
    @OfficialCrystalSings Місяць тому +5

    I’m so glad to see you’re back! I’ve had a lot of changes in my life, and seeing a new video from y’all is like a breath of fresh air! The hiatus was definitely understandable, though 🫂
    As far as content suggestions…I’m curious about your plant collection, so maybe something about the plants you own, plants you’d like to own, growing plants in South Korea vs Australia, etc…
    I’m also curious about Hugh’s job working with influencers. It seems exciting!
    And of course, I hope the kids are doing well! I’m curious about their favorite shows and as parents how you feel about the content they engage with (I love Bluey, too!).
    Take care!

  • @pasta4me786
    @pasta4me786 Місяць тому +1

    I’ve been watching you & Hugh from the beginning on your You Tube channel. So happy to have you back!

  • @XLittleXRed
    @XLittleXRed Місяць тому +2

    Oh gosh! I watched you and Hugh so much starting about ~10 years ago (I looked back and I had watched some of your first vlogs!) but I stopped watching youtube so much around 7 years ago, so I hadn't checked out your channel in years (sorry!). Just yesterday I came across Sara and Hyun's story on another website and I watched some of her vlogs and felt so heartbroken. I watched the vlog where Sara and Hyun revealed their relationship, and they talked about meeting through you and Hugh, and all my memories of watching your vlogs came back and I had to see how you are doing, so what a coincidence that you have just posted this video. I'm so sorry about what happened to Sara. Even just watching a few of her vlogs it seems like she was such a kind, funny, beautiful person and I can imagine she was such a precious friend. I'm going to watch more of her vlogs.
    It makes so much sense that you took a break, although I look forward to catching up on your lives if you do post more videos :) I don't think you look old at all to be honest, I was surprised that you look just how I remember you! And it's so lovely to see your children, and your family enjoying life between Aus and Korea. I'm a kiwi and I was living in Japan when I originally watched your vlogs, so a lot of the discussions on the difference between Aussie/Korean culture was really interesting to me, because it felt a bit like being neighbours with Aus/NZ and Korea/Japan! Anyway sorry for this novel of a comment, just wanted to share some thoughts especially since you mentioned some of us might be watching you after a long time - here I am! Haha

    • @MyKoreanHusband
      @MyKoreanHusband  11 днів тому

      Thank you... yes Sara deserved so much more..

  • @grticecream
    @grticecream Місяць тому +10

    Oh my goodness, I didn't know until now Sara had passed away. She was a beautiful soul. So sorry for your loss.

    • @MyKoreanHusband
      @MyKoreanHusband  Місяць тому +8

      Cancer took her very quickly... I miss her every day.

    • @littlebigkicker
      @littlebigkicker Місяць тому

      is she the one that had the asian bf?

    • @thetitaniumwoman5561
      @thetitaniumwoman5561 13 днів тому

      @@littlebigkickerthere’s heaps with Korean bfs. But they got married and were about to start their new life together then she was diagnosed shortly after and passed.

  • @RavenzWingz
    @RavenzWingz Місяць тому +2

    Welcome back! It's so good to hear from you and your family again.

  • @vero21arias87
    @vero21arias87 Місяць тому +2

    So happy to see you and your family again!! Glad you're fine and your children are growing fast! Lots of love from Chile!!

  • @mangmangmangobri
    @mangmangmangobri Місяць тому +3

    welcome, back! so happy to see this notification and on instagram! take care of yourselves and don't get too stressed about what kind of videos you make because ultimately it should make you guys happy as well!! 💜💜 (and you absolutely do not look old!!)

  • @EK3K
    @EK3K Місяць тому +2

    Wonderful to see you all back on UA-cam 🫶 Can’t believe you are in your 40s! You both look great!

  • @kerrihealey9418
    @kerrihealey9418 Місяць тому +2

    Yay, welcome back! Excited to see more from you guys 🥰 (when you can find the time!)
    Also, hope it's okay to say, but I imagine it's hard coming back to this space without Sara. I've been really missing her presence here. Wishing you and Hugh healing every day. ❤️

    • @MyKoreanHusband
      @MyKoreanHusband  Місяць тому +2

      @@kerrihealey9418 Yes, it's been hard without her. I know lots of people are missing her...

  • @bluekimchiandrea4476
    @bluekimchiandrea4476 Місяць тому +5

    Woo hoo, you are back here anyway! ❤❤ I follow you on IG. I like that you are protecting the kids. You are beautiful! You also had the other stuff going in for Hugh. 😢 sending hugs.

  • @dora6156
    @dora6156 Місяць тому +1

    It’s so great to see a new video from you and time has gone by so fast..The kids are growing up to fast 2… and Hugh is busy working but before you know it Yul will be taller his father and jisoo is just so beautiful just like her Brother 👍 Thank you for sharing this video with us…. Hope the weather is not to hot there. Take care 👌

  • @musicbkim
    @musicbkim Місяць тому +2

    Hi, really missed you guys. I've been watching you almost from the beginning. Got your book too. I've had special interest in your channel because I'm Korean & married to Aussie husband & have 2 little kids. It's so lovely to see your kids growing and that your whole family seems well.

  • @Frank-sy1po
    @Frank-sy1po Місяць тому +2

    Missed you guys so much! WELCOME BACK! I love watching you guys from here in NY. Both my kids are the same age as yours and I totally understand you protecting your children.

  • @pjscafe
    @pjscafe Місяць тому +2

    Omg, been following you guys seemed like atleast 9 or 10 yrs. You're one of the first mixed couple I follow on UA-cam. Welcome back guys!🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @hyosays
    @hyosays Місяць тому +1

    I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU GUYS ARE BACK. I WAS 18 WHEN YOU GUYS USED TO POST AND NOW I AM 28.

  • @thearn5671
    @thearn5671 Місяць тому +2

    A pleasant surprise! Welcome back, good to see the family is well.

  • @emilyfromalaskax63
    @emilyfromalaskax63 Місяць тому

    Sending you encouragement
    🧚‍♂️🪄💫

  • @senfulsarah6663
    @senfulsarah6663 29 днів тому

    So glad you 2 are back. I remember when I started watching you guys and Texan in Tokyo at the same time. Nice to see you coming back into vlogs. Like an old friend coming home.❤ I'd honestly love to see you guys get together to with josh and Ollie. That was so good. Lol welcome back p.s. now I'm in the mood to go and binge some older vlogs,,, what happened with the purple couch. Or did I not pay attention. Lol😂

    • @MyKoreanHusband
      @MyKoreanHusband  11 днів тому

      Purple couch was given away when we moved into a bigger apartment haha

  • @Korea4Me
    @Korea4Me Місяць тому +4

    You look lovely, Nicola. You look in your twenties to me xxx

  • @lz738
    @lz738 Місяць тому +2

    I'm curious about your work and business situation during the time you all have been off UA-cam. For instance, I know Hugh has a business of some sort, but I can't remember hearing any details about what that business is or what Hugh does. Are you a stay-at-home mom full time now, or have you also been working? Just curious about how you guys support the family since not doing UA-cam. I would also be interested in day-in-the-life videos, from all your different perspectives. Like a typical day for Hugh from his perspective, a typical day for you, and a typical school day for each of the kids. And I wouldn't necessarily want an "interesting" or "exciting" day where you travel or go to cool cafes, but just curious about what a normal day looks like, taking care of kids, working, doing chores and errands, hanging out, etc.
    Also you mentioned Yul doesn't go to afterschool hagwons. I would be interested in a video about that decision, since I know in Korea parents feel pressure to have their kids basically always studying and there's tons of pressure on kids, academically.

  • @AndreaJF
    @AndreaJF Місяць тому +1

    It's so nice to see you guys on YT again! Welcome back! 🎉😊
    Btw, you're in your 40s and still gorgeous! Not looking old at all!

  • @user-zk3dw9nk8z
    @user-zk3dw9nk8z Місяць тому +4

    Welcome back :)

  • @twinrcr
    @twinrcr Місяць тому +6

    I miss Sara so much! It was heartbreaking to watch even the few videos she posted regarding her cancer journey. It’s been gut wrenching to watch her husband go on without her. I can’t imagine how much this has affected you. Big hugs and prayers to you and I’m so glad to see you back! 🫰🏻

    • @oceanstaiga5928
      @oceanstaiga5928 Місяць тому

      How hard that must be to be freshly married and lose your wife that quickly 😢

    • @MyKoreanHusband
      @MyKoreanHusband  11 днів тому +1

      ​@oceanstaiga5928 he moved on pretty quickly (while maintaining his public grieving) so please don't waste empathy on him when he has had no empathy for anyone else 😢

    • @twinrcr
      @twinrcr 9 днів тому

      @@MyKoreanHusband I didn’t know this 😭💔

    • @oceanstaiga5928
      @oceanstaiga5928 5 днів тому

      @@MyKoreanHusband I don’t know any of you personally so I can only offer the same amount of sympathy.
      I find it strange however that he doesn’t mention you guys but you keep on dragging him in public. As a cancer survivor myself who lost many friends I made on the ward to this illness I know how different grief can look and how it might be suppressed or only come up in waves for many years later or how some people need the closeness of another person to get through it. In my personal opinion there is no right way or speed to grieve, so it does leave a bad taste on my tongue when people in the public eye call out others for exactly that I have to be honest.
      I don’t think losing someone to cancer is easy on anybody despite what it might appear like on the outside. In the end you can do as you please and of course I don’t know behind the scenes of your life. I wish you all the strength to get through this, it’s been a span of 9 years for me losing friends I’ve made in hospital and I certainly don’t fall into as deep of a pit anymore as the first death I grieved, not because I’m heartless but because my brain is protecting me to be able to survive.

    • @MyKoreanHusband
      @MyKoreanHusband  5 днів тому +2

      @oceanstaiga5928 I am very sorry that you and others have been mislead by him and think it's just grief. But I understand because all Sara's friends and family have been struggling with this over a year. We gave him so much time and energy and sympathy but he gave us nothing in return.. no he did give us something in return- abuse and manipulation. We all wanted to think it was just grief but as the time went on, more and more horrifying and insidious things were revealed. Please stop projecting your own experiences onto this situation and listen to Sara's friends and family. We have all said we do not want him using her social media and especially don't want him using her UA-cam channel. We want it to be memorialized. I have also barely said anything publicly besides this one comment here and Instagram stories which I quickly delete (because I am scared of abusive messages). So I don't know where you get this idea what I am constantly dragging him in public? You know why I haven't publicly called him out in a public statement? Because he has been threatening. He has access to all Sara's accounts and all her personal chats with her best friends and has been through them, which is a huge violation of her privacy and ours.
      Do you know why he doesn't mention us? Because he has no use for us anymore once we saw who he really was. Hugh and I have been grieving and not once has he ever asked how we were, yet we all dedicated so many hours of time to him. Again, that must just be grief right??? People with empathy think that at first...we want to assume it's just grief. This is why it took over a year to come to the realization he is a covert narcissist and was still in the love bombing stage with Sara (so she never knew the real him). She never knew all the things he would do after her death and that he didn't fulfill any of her wishes except for trying to further his own fame and attention. I can't even begin to explain how traumatic this has been for everyone. But the bottom line is that all Sara's friends and family are upset and disgusted by him. Some family members never want to see him again ever and all Sara's friends have been slowly putting together the pieces of who this guy really is. Lots of Sara's fans have also realised something is up and are unsubscribing. I regularly get messages from her followers who are upset by his behavior. They are only seeing the surface level stuff. I can't even go into the truly messed up stuff on here. I have been traumatized by slowly realizing who he really is and sickened by the way he has been using people. It's only a matter of time before more comes out...

  • @kathleensauerbrei5199
    @kathleensauerbrei5199 Місяць тому +1

    I was thinking about you all the other day. I have been watching your artwork, it’s good to see you all. I’ll get on with watching the video now.😘

  • @mariaazul9152
    @mariaazul9152 Місяць тому

    Welcome back!!
    I would be interested in how you would like your kids to grow up; in Korea or Australia? How do you see this competitive Korean system for your kids?
    How do you integrate English into daily life? Do you have a "family language"?
    What is Hugh doing now and what is your work now? Are you still drawing? Are the kids drawing as well?
    Just a random collection of question. :)
    Wishing you and your family all the best!

  • @kerri01
    @kerri01 Місяць тому

    It’s really nice to see you back on UA-cam 💜 I think about Sara quite often. She must be so missed by her family and friends. I look forward to seeing future videos. 💜🐨💜

  • @BethRaddatz
    @BethRaddatz Місяць тому +1

    Hiiiiiii!!! Miss you!!!! So glad to see your face back on UA-cam.💜

  • @noeinroad7294
    @noeinroad7294 Місяць тому +1

    Doesn't feel like it's been 2 years. In some ways longer, in other ways more like just the other day. Take your return at your own pace. The videos you make should be something you enjoy as well.

  • @taribella9638
    @taribella9638 Місяць тому

    Welcome back! I’m so glad to see you guys making videos again. I’ve been a subscriber for many years and was heartbroken at your loss. Strangely enough, I lost my best friend two months ago to a sudden illness. Somehow watching your video made me feel there is hope for doing things we did together again, and in her memory, in time. So thank you. I look forward to seeing more of you and your wonderful stories.

    • @MyKoreanHusband
      @MyKoreanHusband  Місяць тому

      @@taribella9638 I am so sorry. It's so hard. It's important to grieve and feel all the awful, hard feelings. In time, grief becomes manageable. You will be able to do those things again.

  • @katecubed
    @katecubed Місяць тому

    Done is better than perfect. So happy to see you back. The two culture life is always interesting. The art process that you have. General life with children in Korea, school, play, things that are different. And if and when you can - food. I miss your friend and the pure joy she gave off with sharing her love of food. But only if it is right. Welcome back to YT. Good to see you on the insta place.

  • @mimimimi00000
    @mimimimi00000 Місяць тому

    I'm so happy you guys are back! The absence is absolutely understandable and if there's ups and down in the process, I'm sure this community understands ❤ lots of love to all of you!

  • @GT-hv6ir
    @GT-hv6ir Місяць тому

    So glad you're back! You can do this. FIGHTING!!! 🎉

  • @Gill2097
    @Gill2097 Місяць тому

    Welcome back. I’m an old time viewer. I’d love an update on the kids. How are the kids going at school/daycare? Do they still only speak to you in English at home?

  • @rachelandnick
    @rachelandnick Місяць тому

    Yay! Welcome back!! 🎉miss ya 😊

  • @sayitskay
    @sayitskay Місяць тому +1

    I would like to see some recipes you are enjoying at the moment.

  • @TheMoulin_Rogue
    @TheMoulin_Rogue Місяць тому

    I think about her all the time. Not wanting to make content in the wake of an unimaginable loss is so valid.

  • @Wooplot
    @Wooplot Місяць тому +1

    It'd be cool to have a 'plant tour' video. Also maybe some videos on your experience living in Korea now, as times have changed since you first moved there.

  • @woojungkim8154
    @woojungkim8154 Місяць тому

    welcome back, I am glad I can see you guys again here

  • @kudos7408
    @kudos7408 Місяць тому

    Love your children! They are just adorable❤

  • @silkspinner7010
    @silkspinner7010 Місяць тому

    Great to see you back, missed you both.

  • @MrJasonMcintyre
    @MrJasonMcintyre Місяць тому

    It's so good to see you all back on UA-cam! 👍 🇰🇷🇦🇺

  • @ruthuitime5424
    @ruthuitime5424 Місяць тому

    Welcome back. You were missed. ❤ 😊

  • @FGsquared
    @FGsquared Місяць тому

    Welcome back! Saw this pop up in my feed today and it put a smile on my face so thank you for that! :D

  • @hoaenz4676
    @hoaenz4676 Місяць тому

    You did it! Great to see you back!

  • @secondamazonprime-kv5xo
    @secondamazonprime-kv5xo Місяць тому

    Wow it’s been awhile since I even saw the channel. At least 4-5 years for me. Good to see you guys are doing well.

  • @Applefromthevine
    @Applefromthevine Місяць тому

    Welcome back, Yul and Jisoo have grown up so much. ❤❤❤

  • @ThatsTravelUSA
    @ThatsTravelUSA Місяць тому

    Great video! 😊

  • @MajidMushtaqOfficial
    @MajidMushtaqOfficial Місяць тому

    So soo glad to see you guys back! Plz upload more videos 😍 Say Hi to Jisoo ~ she is so cute ☺️

  • @kendybetancourt4556
    @kendybetancourt4556 Місяць тому

    Welcome back 🫶🏻 more videos please ❤

  • @Moco_Cork1
    @Moco_Cork1 Місяць тому

    So happy you're both back 💓

  • @Dawn-24-27
    @Dawn-24-27 Місяць тому

  • @tankq888
    @tankq888 Місяць тому

    WOW! wondered where you guys been! Welcome back =)

  • @Edel16656
    @Edel16656 Місяць тому

    Missed you guys🤗I’m sure the kids are getting older🥰

  • @HiThereHeyThere
    @HiThereHeyThere Місяць тому

    Really doesnt seem like you were gone. Time flies!

  • @mahadewiiii
    @mahadewiiii Місяць тому

    Don’t worry Nichola, I’m now 41 and an old sleep-deprived mum with you! 😅 My older kids are 18 and 15 and half Indonesian. We used to go to Indonesia (including Bali) for holidays when they were in Primary school. They always complained because all their friends went to Queensland 😅 Plus they hated getting needles (vaccinations) which was the main reason they didn’t want to go! 😅

  • @funkyu00
    @funkyu00 Місяць тому

    Welcome back! If I recall, you started your UA-cam channel because you heard Korean husbands make bad husbands on the internet many years back. Any chance of interviewing newly wed Korean husband/Foreign Wife couples about their experiences? And now since you are parents, maybe videos about Korean dads. What is it like to be a Korean dad in this day in age vs when you guys were children. And also it would be nice if you guys added the short "My Korean Husband" intro into your videos as a throwback. One last thing which is if you guys could record some more videos back in the Korean country side (where it all began) when you guys ever decide to make it back there.

  • @maritamadla9570
    @maritamadla9570 Місяць тому

    Welcoming back

  • @PugZeke
    @PugZeke Місяць тому

    Welcome back

  • @tobyk8125
    @tobyk8125 Місяць тому

    Happy to have you back. You've both aged barely a day.

  • @luciedalhya
    @luciedalhya Місяць тому

    i would be interested to see your point of view on how korean government is trying to improve the nataloty ratr in korea and what you think would be more effective than what they are doing now. we are a fench korean family in france (2 kids). we would love to live in korea but some aspects are restrainikg us from making the move , especially that France is such an easy and convenience placr to live with kids. we are just not really happy with the security and education level. i am happy to see your "come back" and hope to see you one day in korea :)

  • @bluekimchiandrea4476
    @bluekimchiandrea4476 Місяць тому

    I SO want to go to Jeju!

  • @christinekim361
    @christinekim361 Місяць тому

    I miss you guys, was wondering what happened. I'm glad to see all is fine. Wondering exactly what kind of line of work you're both in.

  • @yikmedia9106
    @yikmedia9106 Місяць тому

    Yay❤

  • @HughGwon
    @HughGwon Місяць тому

    It has been a long~~~ time ❤

  • @rahummi20
    @rahummi20 Місяць тому

    Hiiii i have been missing you guys

  • @Greta_Andersen_Müller
    @Greta_Andersen_Müller Місяць тому +1

    How hot is it in Sydney? A trip from Frankfurt to Brisbane in January was almost boiling..

  • @koreanmaan
    @koreanmaan Місяць тому

    😊😊😊

  • @mwade29
    @mwade29 Місяць тому

    New subscriber! I can't wait to see more content, Maybe if you could do a new about us, video for new subscribers, also very intrigued into your jobs, life etc x

  • @dmihaela
    @dmihaela Місяць тому

    Do you have a video about after school and what’s the plan to handle it? Just curious how you handle those discussions around school, extra classes homework etc

    • @MyKoreanHusband
      @MyKoreanHusband  Місяць тому

      Don't have a video yet but am planning on making one. ^^

  • @mark_gbkr
    @mark_gbkr Місяць тому

    My daughter likes Gabby's Dollhouse as well, but these days, it's all about TeeniePing.

  • @jeannelau2574
    @jeannelau2574 Місяць тому

    I haven’t seen Hugh for a long time. He looks like he gain some weight. What happened? What happen to the body transformation from 6 yrs. ago? Is it do to life and stress?

    • @MyKoreanHusband
      @MyKoreanHusband  Місяць тому +1

      It was 7 years ago and he maintained a healthy weight for many years but during the pandemic and some big work stresses caused problems. But back working towards a healthy weight again.

  • @m.ch.9673
    @m.ch.9673 23 дні тому

    Damn, i watched their youtube 8-9 years ago and i thought the Korean guy married another woman

  • @lynx7013
    @lynx7013 Місяць тому

    It's been a long time.both of you look healthy and happy.