@@SandraAlexander-xi5lbShe should've let him go when he said, he couldn't have waited on her or have her back if she were to go to jail, she should've ran🏃🏾♀️💨🏃🏾♀️💨
When he told you that he wouldn't wait for you if you were to go to jail should have been the key for your azz to leave. You held him down while he was in prison and he stated he wouldn't do the same. This let America know he was a grimy ninja.
Yandy loves that man… whole heartedly. Her actions proved that. He took care of this man. She had NOTHING to gain from him. Before Yandy started taking care of him it was Erica’s job. He is jealous of Yandy, bc she’s a go getter. He’s using her independence as an excuse to leave her.
Her money doesn't matter to him! She wanted him because he was the type of street nigga to match her toxic bullshit so she gotta accept all the consequences thereof. She should have been left him if she was smart but she had her priorities all in the wrong places.. No Sympathy..
If she did she would've discovered long ago that it wasn't ANY VALUE in that stock, and would've traded it for stock with higher value@@keetagreer1126
I can see it from a person who has been dealing with this type of behavior on my daughter's dad he would only be happy for me when I got jobs that was stress me out if I got jobs that were easy and paid more than he would say that I was barely working I wasn't doing s*** he can do it better and all this other stuff and it was because he wasn't doing nothing at the time and then once he got him a job he was unhappy and he wanted to just be happy so he wanted to leave now he's down and out and he's back in love but I'm not I just want him to be here for my child that's it
The one thing I have learned and I’m speaking from experience and therapy. A man will resent you if you help him become the person he is because he knows he didn’t earn it. He looks at you and it’s a constant reminder of the man that he would not be without you. So he moves on to the woman that needs him.
I don't understand why any female would want to stay with any ninja thats mentally abusive & hates her guts,Because he's intimated & jealous of her success ✌️👿
Mendeecees gave Erica a car when yandi got pregnant..proof they were still together..saying he wouldnt hold her down..proof he didnt love her..i woulda BEEN gone
Erica was the "duffle bag girl". That is it. He was selling drugs and she is lucky that she was not taken down with him for all those items she say was in her name. He is not married to Erica and is she wants to keep being a slide then so be it
I believe that's the reason he got with her in the first place, so she could pay his baby mothers money whilst he's in jail, bcuz from the minute he came out and got settled again, he started to be and look distant and forcing her to speak with little Mendeces mother Samantha
Yall are hateful and mean. NOBODY DESERVES TO HAVE THEIR HEART OR LIFE PLAYED WITH PERIODTTTTT!!!!. You may not like her but why wish hate on anyone? And she was never the side chick. She HELD HIM DOWN!!!
@@melaniebarringer1437 TELL the TRUTH and SHAME the DEVIL, SISTER‼️👑. SOMEBODY IN HERE TOLD THE WICKED JUST WHAT THEY NEEDED TO HEAR. NEVER WISH ILL ON ANYONE and NO ONE DESERVES to be USED and HUMILIATED. WHAT DO SOME of YOU WANT FROM HER? THAT'S JUST WICKED, HATRED and JEALOUSY, NOT TO MENTION IGNORANT. GOD WILL SEND YANDY SOMEONE WHO RESPECTS, LOVE AND WHO IS WORTHY OF HER. - THANK YOU, SIS👑
Yandy, it takes time to heal from a divirce or broken relationship. Start now, Sis. Stop the arguing, and fighting with other women about him. You're not stupid and you can read between lines. He doesn't want to be in a marriage or relationship with you. Girl, you're fine and intelligent. GOD will send you someone who's worthy of you and you worthy of him, when it's time. PLEASE, LEAVE MENCEEDEES ALONE!!! AREN'T YOU TIRED OF HURTING and CRYING? SMH💔
@@yerimarchai3483 She fell in love with his pretty boy looks. Nose wide open you could drive a truck through it. Made a complete spectacle out of herself and all the rest of those females. Silly women.
YANDY WAS ALWAYS TOP TIER AND TOO GOOD FOR THAT BROKE ASS, FELON. GIRL, STOP HUMILIATING YOURSELF, AND MOVE ON. I KNOW IT HURTS, BUT THINGS WILL SHINE AGAIN FOR YOU IN THE LOVE DEPARTMENT. NEVER BUY OR HOLD A MAN DOWN. PLEASE DON'T DO IT, SISTERS.
Mendecee, after All Yandy has done for you jailbird, you do this. Karma is a Bite and you will get what's coming to you. Yandy drop that zero and get you an Real HERO, Real Man
Life is to be celebrated. If someone wants to be with someone else, you have to let them go. No matter how much you love them. Everyone deserves to be with someone who at the least wants to be with them. Having a partner is suppose to make your life happier...not bring you sadness and pain.
A woman is not built to work this hard in relationship to hold A man down…were not I built physically mentally or emotionally to do that that’s not the way God created us. That’s not what he created us to do.
Erica God remove him for a purpose you might not see now. But he reveal later to you. He might be holding you back what God getting ready to prepare you with. Count it as a blessing.
God don't sleep,this man will end up in jail you'll see,this lady went all the way for this man even took care of his son ,Stay strong ,if I was you I would of sue him for everything I give him
She only took his son so mendecees wouldn't go around Erica ..she knew Erica and mendecees was together..u lose em how u get em..so disrespectful to erica..look now
I totally agree, I’m not going to except myself any longer , my attorney will inform u of my demands & know the universe sees all , so did u know karma , 🤔Well u will Mendeecees 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
furthermore, Yandy is a good businesswoman she does not need him at all. A lot of men would Love Yandy I know it hurts but, pull your head up high and, keep moving, what does he have to offer you nothing he is a nobody let that woman have him he is very insecure and imature, the next man will appreciate you, you have a lot to offer remember that smile it is going to be okay get away from the toxic people you so much to offer the right man May god Bless and Keep you
Remember when he went to jail & right before "they got married "? Then she revealed they weren't legally married after she was exposed. She said she didn't want to legally marry him then to protect her money. Money is important for daily existence but if you 100% love & are dedicated to a person, your commitment should be more important & the two of you can collectively work through money & all other issues. She tried to make him love her and the love scale be equally balanced. I could always see subliminal signs that his body was with Yandy but his heart was somewhere else. There were obvious signs that there was trouble in paradise right before she got pregnant the second time, which I feel she purposely did because many women believe a baby or another baby, will fix things😮. Live and let live, heal and let heal! Let it go, life is too short & precious; especially now in these strange last days, to give energy & time to situations you can't change and won't change.❤❤
This world is crazy. Yaw got Jim Jones married to Brooke Bailey, and Mendecee married Erica. Stop it! I hope they take legal action for false statements.
Originally Yandy was the side piece. However, he was secretly with his girlfriend Erica still. Mendecees never even broke up with Erica because he bought Erica a car a week before Yandy got pregnant. Yandy was taking care of Erica’s baby with Mendecees’ baby brother. Then Erica and Mendecees mom put Yandy on blast for claiming their children her’s. Maybe she miscarried or aborted her baby. IDK. Then she cleared up she doesn’t have children after all.. 💁♀️
She should have filed that marriage certificate & made him go through the divorce process. If he really did that, she just needs to file for child support & get on with her life.
How was Yandy the side chick when he was living with Yandy like that was his wife, she held him down when he was locked up and took care of their children by herself. That doesn't seem like a side chick.
Bingo! Yandy was the stalking side chick when he was with Erika. Yandy makes herself out to be more than what she is. He wasn't even there at their baby shower. She also had a hand in production on the LHHNY show so she spun it how she wanted it to look but a lot of bits and pieces still came out. She's always been his meal ticket, that's it
Something I went through kind of so I know how she feels been with the father of my daughter for 7 years and found out this year he got married to someone else and still acting like the victim narsasistic man
This!! He keep trying to tell her he doesn’t want her. She doesn’t want to let go! 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ She literally keeps saying “ leaving is not an option for her”.
Mendeecee, is no good. Where is Judy, now bet she is laughing. Yandy, move on plz he doesn't love you run as fast as you can. He is a bob head and is a user you didnt know. However, you think your husband is leaving you due to the fact you was going to run for city council. And less not forget you was going to carry your cousin child. Your husband wasnt aboard you did'nt care about his feeling. Yandy, you brought this on youself. Eric, get your man back. He was with Erica, and you knew they was togather. 😮
Some ppl just don’t wanna lose. But It’s a losing battle when the love is unrequited anyways 🤷🏽♀️she has more love for that man then she do her self so sad🤮
She said a long time ago that she never filed for a marriage certificate because she didn't want his legal problems messing up what she worked hard for. They have more of a common law thing going on
She wanted him more than he wanted her. He just used her up to get out of jail to get into entertainment and she used him up to have babies so they both use each other not a might as well just let it go is a beautiful woman somebody will come into her life and appreciate her
He should been left women please stop taking care these men and their families from his in-laws Mandecee wants to be taken care of and Erica just as dumb he dumped you first but being on tv being make you lose respect for yourself we know he didn’t work that Yanddy money stop talking about the other women get rid of that mess or are they all bring up old relationship for clout what Erica need a check so she can finish taking care of him I really pray for children you’re not setting a good example
His sneaky snake *ss is the reason why his mother was always in their business,Because he be talking 💩 about Yandy behind her back...Never trust these momma boyz‼️✌️🤡
0:15 How can you respect a bum who cheats and doesn't work? He used her to get through prison, and when Erica can't afford him, he'll run right back to Yandy, and she'll take him back with her cape flapping in the wind 😂. All these women wasting their time on these Pookies is INSANE!
@keidun9781 also not marrying him legally to protect her money made him not respect her. He won't say it but as a street guy who lives on loyalty that didn't sit right with him.
Yandy sometimes God will remove people out the way so he can bless you with the right one it's better now than later .So I say this to you will have the last laugh.🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Never invest in a man more than what he would invest in you , and dont ever beg a man to.love you or be with you,, God will never remove someone out of your life that's worth keeping, yandy. You are a very beautiful woman, and you worth more than he can possibly give, he was not the right person for you, he served his time and it's time for him to go. There's a season for every thing in life. ,never beg a man to love you. He has to go ,he was just a place holder God will send the right person in your life, someone who will bring joy and peace, you have to know your worth, stand strong ,stand tall.. walk with God, he will never leave you or forsake you.. God will work it out ,and one day you are going to be so happy, ,never give the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket.. God bless you and your kids
When a man leaves you let him he was never for you. GOD got you and your children 🙏 🙌 ❤️ believe that your greater is coming. GOD has to remove the wrong man out of your life to bring the right one in. I know this from experience. Put your trust in God not man love you ❤️ 🙏 praying for you and your family 🙏
Da first bm I truthfully respect HER for cause she sa8d it herself that he REALLY LOVE ERICA PLUS 1ST BM RESPECT THAT AND SHE IS DOWN WITH ERICA WITHOUT BEEF
Narcissists never build up their partners they're afraid of you being more successful than your partner!! Women and men should build each other up , doing that is how you build a powerful relationship and successful career. Encouragement for one another is doing nothing but strengthening the marriage.
Yandy leave divorce him because he is not the man for you. You deserve happiness. He is a street dude. Don’t feel bad you supported him and was a great step-mom to his kids. Love your kids and yourself and your King is waiting for you.
I think and Yandy should uphold herself she is a very gorgeous and intelligent woman and has the thrive to if necessary move forward...one step at a time
Papoose was hurt by Remy.🤬 Mercedes is doing it to Yandy🤬. The world is a ghetto 😳 when the right becomes wrong! and wrong becomes right! Love doesn't live here anymore.
A snake is a one you never, trust no matter, what man or wm. Dry your tears and let go all the wasted time and move on. Let it go and let God. People that do wrong pay a severe price one day just don't hate them watch and see.
He's just not for this BS. He doesn't have to answer to anyone. He's his own man. Hell the damn kids always playing pranks on him. I think he's a soft. But walks soft but carries a big stick. Don't sleep on him.
He is going through that midlife foolery. In the streets like Kirk and trying to pull young women to prove he's still got it. Move on Yandy because he upgraded when he got with you. Let him have the streets...he will want back in.
For divorce not to be an option for one the partnership will never be equal. She proved that she would hold him down period. Sometimes you have to cut your losses and pack your own bags before someone else take off with your bags. He would not have held her down the way she dis him and for him to verbalize it the way he did, the hesitation spoke volumes....
Mendeecee's a liar he claims marriage is for life however he has changed his mind and wants to do backwards. He used her to build him self up and money . Yandy , knew how to get to the bag and that's what he wanted baby girl kick his ass to the curve and move on to bigger and better because there's others that wants you . For that man he's a street guy and will always be that 💯
Yandy is holding a string over Mandecees head like a puppet. Men are natural born providers and chasers . Mandecees is going to always be reminded he can't provide or match what Yandy is bringing to the table in the relationship.
This is why these women on these shows need to stop acting like they got these men locked down. Since they’ll never know when one may walk away. U can have all the $ in the world, u can have the biggest ass, and u can have the nicest body. That won’t keep a man!
We need to really listen when people are telling you how they feel about you. This is so sad I understand marriage is important but nobody deserves to be cheated on or lied to. Sometimes you need to walk away and keep your self respect and dignity and make room for some one who will treat you better or just treat yourself better and be okay with being alone.
Hell nawl then if he married to someone else well that just means the rumors are true.... They weren't married in real Life then that's the only way I see him marrying somebody else. Somebody make it make sense... This isn't right ... Wow bruh after holding his ass down for 8yrs... He gonna do her like that... That's that bitchness right there. You can only keep a man if they wanna be kept... And obviously he doesn't... Allow your heart to heal and move on...
Did yall see him tell her on the show that he wasn’t comfortable with her giving her cousin/sister🙄 her eggs…then she did it anyway! I was like oh, this man checked out right at this very moment! Think he stopped wearing the ring after that. She kinda brought that on herself, with that total lack of regard to his feelings on such an important issue. It was very disrespectful as his wife…imo
@@missmeans217 yeap I remember that... She said it on love and hip hop... Because he's on child support. So it would interfere with the business she had...
So 😫 sick. Betrayal is the worst from a man u love. Holding men down a lot of times when incarcerated can b a big mistake, nothing like jail house so-called love and promises. The man that goes in definitely is not the one coming out.
Girl... Judge Lynn said don't let a man tell you more than once he don't want you. That man don't love you. Walk away.. His loss
Yes ma'am I understand I'm going through the same shit
@@brendavandepool6505 that man loves her
That part!! Leave and boss up
He loves her he's just not in love with her anymore
How do you know it's his loss? Y'all act like y'all know these people personally
Yandy supported him through thick and thin, and for him to take off his ring shows his true character.
It's over. He's showing her that he doesn't want her. LEAVE THE MAN TF ALONE!!! DAMN‼️
@@SandraAlexander-xi5lbShe should've let him go when he said, he couldn't have waited on her or have her back if she were to go to jail, she should've ran🏃🏾♀️💨🏃🏾♀️💨
Sneaky snake dog yandy your too wise got so much understanding let that God go your the best thing that happened to him and his children 🙏 for you
For Erica
Correction let that Dog go
This man is jealous of her! Run Yandy!!😢😢😢
@@vernearobinson583 yes he is
Absolutely jealous and insecure
No lies detected!!! Facts!!
When he told you that he wouldn't wait for you if you were to go to jail should have been the key for your azz to leave. You held him down while he was in prison and he stated he wouldn't do the same. This let America know he was a grimy ninja.
Exactly!
Stop with these lies you'll don't know these ppl personally
, Ummmmm, you MISSED that episode🤔⁉️ He mos def told her that when she asked🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️‼️@@LatonyaDickerson
No man stays with you when you pay down pon it😂 ladies make excuses just another form of a pickme
Everybodys played the fool sometime, keep ur head up Yandy and be the boss that u"ve always been, THIS TOO SHALL PASS sis!
Yandy loves that man… whole heartedly.
Her actions proved that. He took care of this man.
She had NOTHING to gain from him.
Before Yandy started taking care of him it was Erica’s job.
He is jealous of Yandy, bc she’s a go getter.
He’s using her independence as an excuse to leave her.
Her money doesn't matter to him! She wanted him because he was the type of street nigga to match her toxic bullshit so she gotta accept all the consequences thereof. She should have been left him if she was smart but she had her priorities all in the wrong places.. No Sympathy..
A real man doesn't need an excuse to leave. Tell her the TRUTH and move on. YANDY is too good for him anyway.
Yandy treats him like a business deal
If she did she would've discovered long ago that it wasn't ANY VALUE in that stock, and would've traded it for stock with higher value@@keetagreer1126
I can see it from a person who has been dealing with this type of behavior on my daughter's dad he would only be happy for me when I got jobs that was stress me out if I got jobs that were easy and paid more than he would say that I was barely working I wasn't doing s*** he can do it better and all this other stuff and it was because he wasn't doing nothing at the time and then once he got him a job he was unhappy and he wanted to just be happy so he wanted to leave now he's down and out and he's back in love but I'm not I just want him to be here for my child that's it
You can not keep a man that doesn't want to be kept Yandy. Spend that same energy Loving Yourself...
Yandy it time for yourself I understand you love him but it time for you to love yourself never want nobody who don’t want you
My sentiments exactly
💯💯💯💯% Facts! She has Sacrificed waay too much for this guy And he seems to be so nonchalant about her from the very beginning. ✌🏾🕊️
Remember you have your Children watching, you wouldn't them to put up with this Subpar treatment
Periodt!
She needs to let the PROBLEM go, and that's the man himself.
The one thing I have learned and I’m speaking from experience and therapy. A man will resent you if you help him become the person he is because he knows he didn’t earn it. He looks at you and it’s a constant reminder of the man that he would not be without you. So he moves on to the woman that needs him.
This is so accurate
This is powerful
Wow powerful
@taramay9866, Honey your comment needs to go VIRAL!!!
This is true! A lot of times this is why men would cheat on a woman that’s been “holding him down” with someone that has nothing or less than her.
Mendeecee is not a catch. What does he do for a living? Has no real bag, and Erica was traveling on drug money. Nothing to brag about.
Right
Yeah. I never got it (after he got out)
Yande you don't need him you a boss
So women who are bosses don't need a husband?
@@AntoinetteAshford BOSS VS. BUM
@@C.Riggs14 IF THEY WANT A HUSBAND, NOT NEED A HUSBAND. SHE NEEDS A DECENT, KAW ABIDING, RESPECTFUL, AND GAINFULLY EMPLOYED MAN.
Yandy is not a boss of nothing she is a low self esteem person with no standards boundaries or expectations she needs therapy
@@SandraAlexander-xi5lbno we need a husband tf you talking about
He can’t handle your Worth
Bingo
I don't understand why any female would want to stay with any ninja thats mentally abusive & hates her guts,Because he's intimated & jealous of her success ✌️👿
That's not true.
Do you know them?
Facts I can see it!!!
This relationship is over. You can’t make anyone love you. And just because you’re married doesn’t mean you own that individual.
EXACTLY!!
Facts 🎯🎯🎯🎯
Thiiiiiiiis this man was going threw it with her not about money especially when he CHOOSES TO BE WITH SOMEBODY THAT HAS LESSER THOU
Mendeecees gave Erica a car when yandi got pregnant..proof they were still together..saying he wouldnt hold her down..proof he didnt love her..i woulda BEEN gone
Exactly 💯
Erica was the "duffle bag girl". That is it. He was selling drugs and she is lucky that she was not taken down with him for all those items she say was in her name. He is not married to Erica and is she wants to keep being a slide then so be it
FACTZ
What’s sad is that he keeps telling her he don’t want her. She just doesn’t want to let go. 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Mandeceee ain’t S!!! This man is defeated because she makes more money than him!
Exactly!!!
I believe that's the reason he got with her in the first place, so she could pay his baby mothers money whilst he's in jail, bcuz from the minute he came out and got settled again, he started to be and look distant and forcing her to speak with little Mendeces mother Samantha
@@asinc2110 she is a fool,mendece ain't all dat
Totally agree
That part
Yall are hateful and mean. NOBODY DESERVES TO HAVE THEIR HEART OR LIFE PLAYED WITH PERIODTTTTT!!!!. You may not like her but why wish hate on anyone? And she was never the side chick. She HELD HIM DOWN!!!
IT'S OVER. MOVE ON YANDY. YOU'RE GORGEOUS AND INTELLIGENT.
She doesn't deserve that. I hope she bounces back ❤
he would not have done this for her, like he said himself
She should level up with a rich man and still divorce him royally like Mariah Carey divorce his ass.
@@melaniebarringer1437 TELL the TRUTH and SHAME the DEVIL, SISTER‼️👑. SOMEBODY IN HERE TOLD THE WICKED JUST WHAT THEY NEEDED TO HEAR. NEVER WISH ILL ON ANYONE and NO ONE DESERVES to be USED and HUMILIATED. WHAT DO SOME of YOU WANT FROM HER? THAT'S JUST WICKED, HATRED and JEALOUSY, NOT TO MENTION IGNORANT. GOD WILL SEND YANDY SOMEONE WHO RESPECTS, LOVE AND WHO IS WORTHY OF HER. - THANK YOU, SIS👑
I see another story plot just like rasheeda and Kirk.They must have said to them your time is nearly up on the show give us something juicy
😂😂😂
Yeah like Ray J and Princess. They're doing real good with businesses now. They don't have to pretend they're a toxic couple anymore for that LHH bag
Yandy, it takes time to heal from a divirce or broken relationship. Start now, Sis. Stop the arguing, and fighting with other women about him. You're not stupid and you can read between lines. He doesn't want to be in a marriage or relationship with you. Girl, you're fine and intelligent. GOD will send you someone who's worthy of you and you worthy of him, when it's time. PLEASE, LEAVE MENCEEDEES ALONE!!! AREN'T YOU TIRED OF HURTING and CRYING? SMH💔
Mandecee never wanted Yandy. They used each other.
She used him for what again ?
@@yerimarchai3483
She fell in love with his pretty boy looks. Nose wide open you could drive a truck through it. Made a complete spectacle out of herself and all the rest of those females. Silly women.
@pamelasmart4968 the question must've went over your head. Im what way did she use him?
@@pamelasmart4968USE HIM FOR WHAAAT CHILE
@@yerimarchai3483
Didn't go over my head. Didn't respond to the question.
YANDY WAS ALWAYS TOP TIER AND TOO GOOD FOR THAT BROKE ASS, FELON. GIRL, STOP HUMILIATING YOURSELF, AND MOVE ON. I KNOW IT HURTS, BUT THINGS WILL SHINE AGAIN FOR YOU IN THE LOVE DEPARTMENT. NEVER BUY OR HOLD A MAN DOWN. PLEASE DON'T DO IT, SISTERS.
💯
Mendecee, after All Yandy has done for you jailbird, you do this. Karma is a Bite and you will get what's coming to you. Yandy drop that zero and get you an Real HERO, Real Man
Life is to be celebrated. If someone wants to be with someone else, you have to let them go. No matter how much you love them. Everyone deserves to be with someone who at the least wants to be with them. Having a partner is suppose to make your life happier...not bring you sadness and pain.
@@veroniquebullard7389 Amen. This is so true. Although it may hurt like hell, not letting go is ki!!ing yourslef slow…let it go❤️
This not real
A woman is not built to work this hard in relationship to hold A man down…were not I built physically mentally or emotionally to do that that’s not the way God created us. That’s not what he created us to do.
THIS‼️‼️‼️
Luv me some Yandy
Me too
Erica God remove him for a purpose you might not see now. But he reveal later to you. He might be holding you back what God getting ready to prepare you with. Count it as a blessing.
Yess 🎉Amen
Yes you are a strong woman and a good supporter. Now it's time for Yandy. God's blessings to you. You got this.😊
Can't hold a man down and think he's going to be loyal
Fact i learn that
I LEARNED THE HARD Wy 🤯☝🏾🤲🏾🤒😢😭💔💔💔⚠️‼️ LORD‼️❗️💥😬😵💫
I’ve learned that the hard way
And me as well 😢
They're never loyal!
Yandy stay strong u are awesome don't let no man put u where u don't need to be this is straight up bs yandy
👏👏🏾👏👏🏾
God don't sleep,this man will end up in jail you'll see,this lady went all the way for this man even took care of his son ,Stay strong ,if I was you I would of sue him for everything I give him
She only took his son so mendecees wouldn't go around Erica ..she knew Erica and mendecees was together..u lose em how u get em..so disrespectful to erica..look now
I totally agree, I’m not going to except myself any longer , my attorney will inform u of my demands & know the universe sees all , so did u know karma , 🤔Well u will Mendeecees 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Why he gotta end up in jail..you evil as hell..grow up
furthermore, Yandy is a good businesswoman she does not need him at all. A lot of men would Love Yandy I know it hurts but, pull your head up high and, keep moving, what does he have to offer you nothing he is a nobody let that woman have him he is very insecure and imature, the next man will appreciate you, you have a lot to offer remember that smile it is going to be okay get away from the toxic people you so much to offer the right man May god Bless and Keep you
Remember when he went to jail & right before "they got married "? Then she revealed they weren't legally married after she was exposed. She said she didn't want to legally marry him then to protect her money. Money is important for daily existence but if you 100% love & are dedicated to a person, your commitment should be more important & the two of you can collectively work through money & all other issues. She tried to make him love her and the love scale be equally balanced. I could always see subliminal signs that his body was with Yandy but his heart was somewhere else. There were obvious signs that there was trouble in paradise right before she got pregnant the second time, which I feel she purposely did because many women believe a baby or another baby, will fix things😮. Live and let live, heal and let heal! Let it go, life is too short & precious; especially now in these strange last days, to give energy & time to situations you can't change and won't change.❤❤
This world is crazy. Yaw got Jim Jones married to Brooke Bailey, and Mendecee married Erica. Stop it! I hope they take legal action for false statements.
Yes it's all lies
This is why you never say The other woman is the side chick cause 💥
Originally Yandy was the side piece.
However, he was secretly with his girlfriend Erica still.
Mendecees never even broke up with Erica because he bought Erica a car a week before Yandy got pregnant.
Yandy was taking care of Erica’s baby with Mendecees’ baby brother.
Then Erica and Mendecees mom put Yandy on blast for claiming their children her’s.
Maybe she miscarried or aborted her baby. IDK.
Then she cleared up she doesn’t have children after all.. 💁♀️
She should have filed that marriage certificate & made him go through the divorce process. If he really did that, she just needs to file for child support & get on with her life.
They were married.
@@loveybooneno they weren’t.
@@adennis2529 yes, they were, it’s public record…. Not to mention we watched it play out on national television.
@@loveyboone Wow! I thought they pretended to get married for the show, but the marriage wasn't official.
@@daisysdaughter_crystal the entire situation played out on the show
He never loved her, it was just convenient being with her. It showed all the time. She just didn't want to accept it !!!
THIS‼️‼️‼️
Yandy played herself!!! She tried to play Erika and make her less than what SHE was. YANDY was the side chick.
YANDY IS SO INTELLIGENT AND GORGEOUS. MR. RABBIT IS JEALOUS OF HER SUCCESS. YANDY WAS ALWAYS TOO GOOD FOR HIM. BROKE ASS FELON.
How was Yandy the side chick when he was living with Yandy like that was his wife, she held him down when he was locked up and took care of their children by herself. That doesn't seem like a side chick.
@@Guyana227he was with Erika and yandy was the side girl. Go back to the episodes from years ago! He lived with Erika.
@@Guyana227 AMEN AND AMEN. SICK MINDED HATERS AND JEALOUS PEOPLE WILL SAY ANYTHING TO TRY TO PUT SOMEONE DOWN. IT'S SAD.
Bingo! Yandy was the stalking side chick when he was with Erika. Yandy makes herself out to be more than what she is. He wasn't even there at their baby shower. She also had a hand in production on the LHHNY show so she spun it how she wanted it to look but a lot of bits and pieces still came out. She's always been his meal ticket, that's it
Literally “been Playing her in her face since Day 1!”
She needs to let him go she can do waaay better
It takes a fool to learn that love don't love nobody 😢💔
God is love baby come again❤
@@safiyadiaz2278 facts All DAY 💯
Something I went through kind of so I know how she feels been with the father of my daughter for 7 years and found out this year he got married to someone else and still acting like the victim narsasistic man
That's the problem..she thinks he's her fan...he is a man! He loves a certain type and she's not it!
Girl, please. When are you male centered women going to learn. Damn. Ugh.
Well "GOD don't like UGLY", "KARMA", "What Goes AROUND Comes AROUND", "VENGEANCE is MINE saidth the LORD".🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Amen
HE ALWAYZ LOOK LIKE HE DNT WANT TO BE THERE
The writing was on the wall all along. Yandy just wanted to prove a point to Erica so bad that she tried to bury the skeletons.
Exactly
This!! He keep trying to tell her he doesn’t want her. She doesn’t want to let go! 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ She literally keeps saying “ leaving is not an option for her”.
Plus he already told her he wouldn't have waited for her if she was in prison!
She is dumb as hell! She should have been left him!!! You lose them the way you got THEM!
Mendeecee, is no good. Where is Judy, now bet she is laughing.
Yandy, move on plz he doesn't love you run as fast as you can.
He is a bob head and is a user you didnt know.
However, you think your husband is leaving you due to the fact you was going to run for city council.
And less not forget you was going to carry your cousin child.
Your husband wasnt aboard you did'nt care about his feeling.
Yandy, you brought this on youself. Eric, get your man back.
He was with Erica, and you knew they was togather. 😮
Like Peter Gunz and Tara and Amina. Silly women 😂
Some ppl just don’t wanna lose. But It’s a losing battle when the love is unrequited anyways 🤷🏽♀️she has more love for that man then she do her self so sad🤮
Yandy let him go his pride is in the way seems like to me she so independent she's not needly no more she grew up
I thought he was married to Yandy so how can he marry someone else???? What’s really going on here 🤔
Everyone living one big lie 😒
They were never married from the beginning. Yandy never filed their marriage certificate ever.
They were not married
She said a long time ago that she never filed for a marriage certificate because she didn't want his legal problems messing up what she worked hard for. They have more of a common law thing going on
@@michaelhardie8533
They got married in another country when he came home.
Awwww little Mendecees is so cute ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
He moving like his children feelings about their moms being hurt dont mean a thing.What example is he setting.
She wanted him more than he wanted her. He just used her up to get out of jail to get into entertainment and she used him up to have babies so they both use each other not a might as well just let it go is a beautiful woman somebody will come into her life and appreciate her
He should been left women please stop taking care these men and their families from his in-laws Mandecee wants to be taken care of and Erica just as dumb he dumped you first but being on tv being make you lose respect for yourself we know he didn’t work that Yanddy money stop talking about the other women get rid of that mess or are they all bring up old relationship for clout what Erica need a check so she can finish taking care of him I really pray for children you’re not setting a good example
His sneaky snake *ss is the reason why his mother was always in their business,Because he be talking 💩 about Yandy behind her back...Never trust these momma boyz‼️✌️🤡
0:15 How can you respect a bum who cheats and doesn't work? He used her to get through prison, and when Erica can't afford him, he'll run right back to Yandy, and she'll take him back with her cape flapping in the wind 😂. All these women wasting their time on these Pookies is INSANE!
Damn and yandy literally stuck by his side throughout all of his legal troubles and fought so hard for him.
She was adopting kids on him… giving her eggs away and Yandy was doin tooooo much…
So yall know he ain’t that crazy
Yup she was making moves without talking with him first she just did what she wanted to
@keidun9781 also not marrying him legally to protect her money made him not respect her. He won't say it but as a street guy who lives on loyalty that didn't sit right with him.
Yandy, you're gonna be alright. Your life goes on with him or without him. You will be okay 👍. Put your trust in God and not in man.
Mandeecee always has been a player. 🎉
I really don't see why?
Yancy, the sooner you let him go, the sooner you will receive your 🤴 in waiting.
Get you Someone Else. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Dude ain't never been shiiit and yeah when he said he wouldn't held her down in jail that should have told it all right there.
He's not going to be with Erika long.
Yandy sometimes God will remove people out the way so he can bless you with the right one it's better now than later .So I say this to you will have the last laugh.🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Never invest in a man more than what he would invest in you , and dont ever beg a man to.love you or be with you,, God will never remove someone out of your life that's worth keeping, yandy. You are a very beautiful woman, and you worth more than he can possibly give, he was not the right person for you, he served his time and it's time for him to go. There's a season for every thing in life. ,never beg a man to love you. He has to go ,he was just a place holder God will send the right person in your life, someone who will bring joy and peace, you have to know your worth, stand strong ,stand tall.. walk with God, he will never leave you or forsake you.. God will work it out ,and one day you are going to be so happy, ,never give the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket.. God bless you and your kids
Yandy should have learned to respect other women. How you claim to love a women child and talk to her like ish.
Facts
I agree. The lil boy was cute. Men DC is a pretty boy. She fell head over heels for him. He was running circles around all of them. His moma said it.
Everyone was given a choice and yandy made her own
How she got him his old boo that's how she gone lose him.
Yandy, girl you're fabulous and will only get stronger from this situation.
When a man shows you the first time he dont want you listen to him
When a man leaves you let him he was never for you. GOD got you and your children 🙏 🙌 ❤️ believe that your greater is coming. GOD has to remove the wrong man out of your life to bring the right one in. I know this from experience. Put your trust in God not man love you ❤️ 🙏 praying for you and your family 🙏
Yandy you should be celebrating 🎉🥂
Da first bm I truthfully respect HER for cause she sa8d it herself that he REALLY LOVE ERICA PLUS 1ST BM RESPECT THAT AND SHE IS DOWN WITH ERICA WITHOUT BEEF
Yandy wants to be the man. She doesn't seem to be the submissive type at all.
Narcissists never build up their partners they're afraid of you being more successful than your partner!!
Women and men should build each other up , doing that is how you build a powerful relationship and successful career.
Encouragement for one another is doing nothing but strengthening the marriage.
Yandy leave divorce him because he is not the man for you. You deserve happiness. He is a street dude. Don’t feel bad you supported him and was a great step-mom to his kids. Love your kids and yourself and your King is waiting for you.
I think and Yandy should uphold herself she is a very gorgeous and intelligent woman and has the thrive to if necessary move forward...one step at a time
Men can’t take women that has more that them ask nick cannon 😊
When is this
As black women we must adopt a spiritual life and discernment. No human being will protect us. We must turn to the creator. Peace and loves sistas
Papoose was hurt by Remy.🤬
Mercedes is doing it to Yandy🤬.
The world is a ghetto 😳 when the right becomes wrong! and wrong becomes right! Love doesn't live here anymore.
A snake is a one you never, trust no matter, what man or wm. Dry your tears and let go all the wasted time and move on. Let it go and let God. People that do wrong pay a severe price one day just don't hate them watch and see.
I thought I was the only one that thinks like that 💪🏾
He be sitting there like he don’t give a Frig. He their for the check
He's just not for this BS. He doesn't have to answer to anyone. He's his own man. Hell the damn kids always playing pranks on him. I think he's a soft. But walks soft but carries a big stick. Don't sleep on him.
He is going through that midlife foolery. In the streets like Kirk and trying to pull young women to prove he's still got it. Move on Yandy because he upgraded when he got with you. Let him have the streets...he will want back in.
I wonder...how many men wait for women in prison.
Not many. They move on very quickly.
Yandy needs to keep it moving...he's already showed her who he is, and she needs to believe it...she was his backup plan...
For divorce not to be an option for one the partnership will never be equal. She proved that she would hold him down period. Sometimes you have to cut your losses and pack your own bags before someone else take off with your bags. He would not have held her down the way she dis him and for him to verbalize it the way he did, the hesitation spoke volumes....
🗣️ reported every video with this title cause y’all gone stop playing with us!💯💯💯
Mendeecee's a liar he claims marriage is for life however he has changed his mind and wants to do backwards. He used her to build him self up and money . Yandy , knew how to get to the bag and that's what he wanted baby girl kick his ass to the curve and move on to bigger and better because there's others that wants you . For that man he's a street guy and will always be that 💯
Yandy is holding a string over Mandecees head like a puppet. Men are natural born providers and chasers . Mandecees is going to always be reminded he can't provide or match what Yandy is bringing to the table in the relationship.
He is not married to Erica, what's wrong with yall???
This is why these women on these shows need to stop acting like they got these men locked down. Since they’ll never know when one may walk away. U can have all the $ in the world, u can have the biggest ass, and u can have the nicest body. That won’t keep a man!
Mendeecee is very immature man, Yandy you deserved better , go get your strong black man.
He telling your azz what he needed and yiu ignored him. So this is the results
He also said he would not have waited for her if she was doing time like she held him down. Make this make sense. He's deflecting.
How can Mandi be married to someone else when I thought him and Yandy were married? What’s the deal here?
They never got married on paper
Yandy!
We need to really listen when people are telling you how they feel about you. This is so sad I understand marriage is important but nobody deserves to be cheated on or lied to. Sometimes you need to walk away and keep your self respect and dignity and make room for some one who will treat you better or just treat yourself better and be okay with being alone.
Hell nawl then if he married to someone else well that just means the rumors are true.... They weren't married in real Life then that's the only way I see him marrying somebody else. Somebody make it make sense... This isn't right ... Wow bruh after holding his ass down for 8yrs... He gonna do her like that... That's that bitchness right there. You can only keep a man if they wanna be kept... And obviously he doesn't... Allow your heart to heal and move on...
Telllllllllllllll IT
Did yall see him tell her on the show that he wasn’t comfortable with her giving her cousin/sister🙄 her eggs…then she did it anyway! I was like oh, this man checked out right at this very moment! Think he stopped wearing the ring after that. She kinda brought that on herself, with that total lack of regard to his feelings on such an important issue. It was very disrespectful as his wife…imo
It wasn't rumors. Yandy said it herself that they weren't legally married
@@missmeans217 yeap I remember that... She said it on love and hip hop... Because he's on child support. So it would interfere with the business she had...
@@1980SRobinsonone of the many things... the not officially marrying him to protect her money was the first strike. He knew then she won't it
Man, We wouldn't even know Him without Yandy. She done Made You and Your Mama Son Baby Mama Money.
So 😫 sick. Betrayal is the worst from a man u love. Holding men down a lot of times when incarcerated can b a big mistake, nothing like jail house so-called love and promises. The man that goes in definitely is not the one coming out.
I hope things work out for them