Just because a man and woman can be a parent does NOT mean that they should, 75% of parents are monsters and selfish. They are more about themselves and good for the children that are born of parents who want them and love them
I refuse to bring another slave to the american system. I would rather save dogs and live my life with my husband. Anybody who has a completely different opinion, good for you. I dont care! Im too busy living my life childfree!! Im happy to see women out here choosing their lives over what society tells them to do!!
I mean look at how men are treating women, especially with children, these days. I don't blame anyone for opting out, after all it is one's choice that no one else has business dictating after all. At least they aren't coming on the internet to "vent" over children they chose to birth...sounds more like complaining about choices they willingly made to me
I refuse to be fruitful and multiply my bills. My unborn kids are a lot better where they are at, in peace and not of this toxic world. Childfree FOR LIFE!.
Period, lol cuz not everyone is religious. I believe people should do what’s best for them. In this economy/ climate having children is getting put on the back burner and I’m putting myself FIRST.
I love this conversation and the fact that women can have it freely. I'm in my 50's and tell my children to not let anyone guilt or pressure them into having children, including old folks. It's not fair to the child. Not having children is only bad for social engineers. But I agree, your partner should be 100% on board.
I’m 30 with no kids but I do have a cat . Kids are expensive so unless i become rich it’s not happening for me …. I would hate to take my anger out on my kids after coming home from work because I’m stressed about bills or whatever I would want to actually be present in their lives , and teach them things .
I’m 100% for it, I opted out of motherhood in my early twenties. I’m happy to see women prioritizing their desires without caring about the opinions of others
Im 44 years old and also made the same decision. I refuse to be single mother. I seen too many divorcee being single mother and its not easy. I love my freedom now and enjoyed my parents.
I’m also 44 who made this decision in my 20’s with no regrets. My husband and I just weren’t interested and I made it well known when we first started dating. There were more cons than pros. I saw and still see it would have been a hard life for me and it was never a desire of mine. Even at a super early age and my mother would always get upset when I said I didn’t want kids. I did have a moment or two where I thought about it, but I’d hear a baby cry or a parent yelling at their kid and that moment went away real quick. lol
Single and childfree 🙌🏾. I have never wanted kids and I don’t want marriage. I like coming home to a quiet, clean home that smells good and is so peaceful. 😊🥰
Interesting. I feel bad for not having anything. It’s nice to have if you have an awesome person but I am with you. Almost impossible to find a decent human. Soo I am good lol
When I was a child, I told myself I would never put a child through what I went through. Now as an adult I wouldn’t put another adult through what I’m going through especially dealing with my aging parents. It’s a lot of stress to put on another person. Children are more than status, slaves, or ATMs. Children are human beings that have to find their way through this life and what kind of life is this in 2024? To me, having kids intentionally with no plan is extremely selfish.
Child free by choice here 🙋🏻♀️ my husband and I have been married for 10 years. Together 12 and we decided early on that we didn’t want to have kids. We travel the world, save, help and invest. And I don’t have to be responsible for another human being. That’s a LOT of work and commitment that I am not willing to do.
@@agentofsecurity1794 it becomes an issue because men want a wife that is solely devoted to him but men also want kids. Men want kids as a proof of their ability to produce babies, but men have no desire to raise kids. Men expect the women to do that. Marriage and kids is more like a nightmare packaged as a fairytale to entice women; and women are waking up and saying NO!
As a mother i don't shame anyone who choose not to have kids. Its not easy especially when you raising them by yourself. Which 90% of mothers had to raise their kids alone. I feel the women that choose not to have kids is wise. They don't want to repeat the struggles of motherhood as their mothers did and I don't blame them. Live your life maidens and enjoy your freedom
My life is soooooo much harder because I have kids. I have two and my ex share them, a week on and a week off, I work 10 hour shifts and the week I do have them, my house is a mess, I have to constantly be cooking and cleaning up after them, I gotta make sure I have food, they are ungrateful, my daughter is 17 and has no respect, they don’t keep their rooms clean, my daughter has given me nothing but problems for the last 3 years. They are always asking for money, fast food, gas money, etc. it’s exhausting and horrible. The week I don’t have them, my house is clean, I can come home and rest after work, my kitchen isn’t a constant mess, the laundry isn’t piled up. I honestly dread the week they are with me, I don’t blame people who don’t want kids. Smart move!! It definitely sucks to not have money and having to cook and clean all the time.
@@EricaChavira-on4oz you didn’t know that being a parent was hard BEFORE you had them? Everyone knows being a parent is hard. It baffles me how people still act oblivious to this.
@@EricaChavira-on4oz also…..make your kids do some chores. They are old enough to help cook and clean. When I was growing up with had CHORES. We washed clothes, cut grass, cooked, cleaned, etc. seems like you didn’t raise your kids right and now you’re complaining about it. I will say this tho…….i respect your honesty.
Happiness is innate. I have never cared what people think about me. God 1st, always. A retired single woman here. Child free. Debt free. No regrets. Not broke. In spite of today’s uncertain ridiculous inflationary times, our family of retirees is gratefully blessed, thriving and enjoying a well earned comfortable retirement. God is providing. So no worries or fears here. Freedom and Peace of mind. This is true wealth.😊
I’m mother and I love my children so much and wouldn’t have it any other way but I rather see people who decided not to have children than children who are neglected and abused
I had a partake in raising my siblings..No thanks. At this age, I want to be childfree as my siblings are now getting out the nest..Ik if I had kids of my own, they would irritate me. Ik that's bad to say, but it's truee.Now imagine me having a child of my own. That's too permanent, and I can't put it back, so it's best I remain childfree.
@@Driponics you don’t have to be fruitful if you don’t want to. God commanded Adam and Eve ONLY to be fruitful and multiply. Jesus Christ didn’t have kids. Paul didn’t have kids (most of the disciples didn’t have kids, most were single if not all) and lastly God told Jeremiah to remain single and that he would not have kids. Amen.
@@Driponics the Bible was written by men for men. It was written so that men will have a blueprint on how to behave righteously and with love like Jesus lived. Where in the world do you see men behave this way collectively in a society?
My husband. And I are 40 and we are child free by choice. Also, we have a bunch of pets LO. L we love animals. We are the only ones in both of our families that decided to voluntarily not have a kid at all. I can say is that we don't envy them. But they envy us because we travel international every year. And have more money for fun stuffand Going Out. And we don't make a lot. He's a mailman making 23 an hour. And I do caregiving a making 15 but without the expense of a kid, you have more money to enjoy how you want to. We have 0 regrets. And I really glad that we don't have a kid, especially in this economy. A lot of our friends and family members also have kids with issues so they spend a lot of money on insurance and therapy and medication. So don't think that just because you're healthy. That your kid will be. Your kid could have any kind of issue. So that's also something to consider.
@@mamiemoore8069 Then there's no difference! Kids don't take care of their parents when they're old! That's what nursing homes are for! Once those kids are GROWN and don't need you anymore, they're going to go live THEIR OWN lives! They won't be able to take care of you and themselves and their own families! Kids aren't required to wipe your a** when you're old! Having sex just to get knocked up with a kid in the hopes that they'll be your retirement plan and caregiver is sickening, selfish, inconsiderate, narcissistic and disgusting! This is another reason why people are opting out! This is ALSO another reason why people go no-contact with their parents that they NEVER asked, nor chose for themselves! Having pets is better!
@mamiemoore8069 If the only reason why you have a kid. Is because you're expecting then to take care of you when you're older. I suggest that you volunteer or work at a rehabilitate nursing home., senior facility lol bc I do that work and like 90% of them have adult children n grandkids n no1 visits them no1cares lol if their kids did care/ take care of them then their would be no senior facilities or need for caregivers lol
@@mamiemoore8069 Then there's no difference! Kids don't take care of their parents when they're old! That's what nursing homes are for! Once those kids are GROWN and don't need you anymore, they're going to go live THEIR OWN lives! They won't be able to take care of you and themselves and their own families! Kids aren't required to wipe your behind when you're old! Having sex just to get knocked up with a kid in the hopes that they'll be your retirement plan and caregiver is sickening, selfish, inconsiderate, narcissistic and disgusting! This is another reason why people are opting out! This is ALSO another reason why people go no-contact with their parents that they NEVER asked, nor chose for themselves! Having pets is better!
@@mamiemoore8069 Then there's no difference! Kids don't take care of their parents when they're old! That's what nursing homes are for! Once those kids are GROWN and don't need you anymore, they're going to go live THEIR OWN lives! They won't be able to take care of you and themselves and their own families! Kids aren't required to wipe your behind when you're old! Having sexual intercourse just to get pregnant with a kid in the hopes that they'll be your retirement plan and caregiver is sickening, selfish, inconsiderate, narcissistic and disgusting! This is another reason why people are opting out! This is ALSO another reason why people go no-contact with their parents that they NEVER asked, nor chose for themselves! Having pets is better!
03:20 true on my side. I grew up with struggle and I definitely wouldn't want that for someone I love, especially when it's not their choice if I bring them to this world.
I knew since I was 19 that I NEVER wanted to be linked to anyone that I dated for a minimum of 18 years. I watched the older females in my family being stressed tf out with raising kids. I took a trip every weekend in the month of August and the only thing I had to worry about was who is gonna watch my dog and if I was going to drive to the airport or take an Uber…no childcare arrangements necessary lol. I get to do whatevvvvvveerrr I want with my money and I don’t have to ever speak to any of my exes ever again lol
Having a family is one of the most rewarding things YAH blessed us with. I respect their choices, but I’m sad the world has forced ladies into feeling like this.
My wife and I have been married for 15 years and we are child free. I remember after we got engaged she told me that she didn’t want kids and if I wanted them that we shouldn’t get married. I told her I never really thought about it. We are now in our 40’s and have no regrets. On our days off of work, we sleep 10 - 13 hours 😂
"dog mom/dog dad" makes me cringe so hard. you have a pet, not a "furry child". fine don't have children i could care less, but u aint no parent specially when you can't even do the most basic task of potty training them. imagine daily fighting with your partner over your "dog children" 😂
I recently learned that God hates it when we call ourselves pet parents. The implication is that I gave birth to a dog or a cat, which is gross. I love the dog, but he is not my child.
@@ennuiblue4295 no offense taken and i'm not bothered. It is what it is just a fact, it's a pet not a child. the clip i am speaking of speaks for itself couldn't even potty train the pet she claims to have a mother/child relationship with and proceeds to blame the pet for it's behavior. she was right about realizing she shouldn't have kids though so I agree and respect that. i just don't respect the comparison of a child with a pet. 🤷
I feel like either way you’re going to live with regret. If you have children, you’ll wonder what life would’ve been like if you didn’t have kids. If you don’t have kids, you would wonder what your life would be if you did have kids. At the end of the day, people know themselves the best. Do what makes you feel right in your life. Make sure you weigh all options. Another thing is besides missing fathers, if you don’t have a great community around you to help raise your child then it would be extraordinarily difficult to raise children. Nowadays, there is no community support in real life and inconsistent fathers. And I didn’t even get into the economy lol.
Can you do a rant video on people who have been fired from their jobs of 10 years or longer? ...or people who face a hard time in getting unemployment benefits?
And how TF would you know what kind of parents these people grew up with?! Also, how the TF does SAVING & SPARING a child from this world, whom NEVER asked, nor chose, nor consented to be here in the first place, make them a "narcissist"????
I made a decision over twenty years ago not to have children due to my childhood. Now that I'm the oldest daughter and taking care of my aging parents, I'm really glad I didn't. I have no idea how your average everyday working folks do both take care of parents and their kids at the same time. I'm trying to hang on to my sanity as it is, let alone adding a crumb snatcher to the mix.
When God said be fruitful and multiply…..he was ONLY talking to Adam and Eve. They were the only two people on earth at the time. Jesus Christ himself never had kids or got married. Paul never had kids or got married and recommended that everyone stay single and childfree and God told Jeremiah to remain single and that he wouldn’t have any children. So there’s that. Amen.
@@Laoriginal718 my response to that is you and everyone who wants to remain childless should be celibate and unmarried then. Don't use scripture for your own justification. (If you are saying this from the perspective of still sleeping with someone) This of course only really applies to a believer and a follower of Yah. the ones in the world will do what they do. Some are called to be celibate and unmarried so using Christ or Jeremiah in this context to fit your own understanding can be miss leading. The reason it is recommended to stay single as a man is to focus all your energy and time into growing the Kingdom he also says to marry if you can't remain celibate, you left that out. (this could be trivial) but Adam and Eve were not the only 2 in the world, they were the only 2 in the Garden.
I had ONE CHILD, because I knew that's all I could handle! As a child, I saw how much mother's of multiple children suffered! I didn't want that for myself! I knew I could handle one child, even if I had to do it alone! A child is a LIFETIME commitment, I just have to get it right ONCE! My son is 12 now, and I'm so glad he gets ALL of my attention, and doesn't have to compete with another child. My husband and I can afford to provide him a better lifestyle because we ONLY have one child! I'm glad I get to experience motherhood and also get to pursue my dreams! 🥹🥰
@@ennuiblue4295 Not only heard of it, but seen it. Actually, not only seen it, but seem to be living it. I was implying that it’s preferential for them *not* to reproduce. As it is, next generation’s going to be bizarre.
It’s a shame so many pushing and mandating people to not have kids. I say - if a married couple want to have children and certainly if they are able to care for them, then who are you to complain? I’ve seen so many single people who can’t even take care of themselves!
I have children and I'm happy with my choice to have a family of my own. I support anyone who chooses not to be a parent. The world is overpopulated anyway. What I do hope is that people who are child free still have access to their own families and loved ones, as we all need and deserve that in life.
@@Laoriginal718 as members of civilization, the social contract we all agree to entitles us to a basic level of belonging, which is why all human cultures have some basic unit of social membership, such as a family. Aside from this basic level of belonging we are essentially feral free agents, which is no way to live.
These people say they wanna be free and that's why don't want Kids, but also working doesn't make you free, when you are at the job 40 hours (or more 😬) per week. You can attain holidays but is an illusion, you don't still be free.
there's no 'free' in a physical world. it's a perpetual struggle whether it's the need to devour food, your health failing, competition for resources, violence. no matter what anyone chooses, it's a snare
That's scary because judgment comes with that. 1 Tim 2:15 Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.
All those saints/disciples that did 't have children are still considered children of God. Y'all are brainwashed. You DO NOT need to have children to be accepted by God/spared from hell.
@@fancybeingawesome Not saved "by who" saved "from what". Too many of you women seem to think there are no laws above your selfish wants, no punishment for getting away with the things you do to men. In the world to come, look at how things are in this world and reverse them. Now which side are YOU on in that world. That's what "they" call Armaggedon. It's the end of their world not the end of life on earth. Saved from God's wrath. That's what he's warning you about. There's always a price my sister. We love you but it does change the cost.
Grow up! Did you pass away with her? No! She passed away the same way she came into this world: alone! Standing next to someone at the end of their life doesn't make you a good person! You have a God complex and it shows!
Honey its been twenty one years since I got fixed. LMAO! After watching what all of my friends have gone through, I'm sooo glad I never had kids. Some of them have kids in their thirties (she had one young) and they seem more of a headache now then when they were little. My homegirls have even said I was right not to have any kids lol
Most of them are forced to accept the reality of their earlier choices. They have to accept this reality now after wasting their younger years. That clock has ticked away. They lost the game time ran out. It’s coping with the reality of their choices. Father Time catches up to all of them. It’s influenced by those who played with their time. It is in their nature to nurture and reproduce. No matter what they say, they cannot fight nature. Let them try though. I will enjoy watching.
The juice isn’t worth the squeeze. I fully support Women staying single and childfree.
@@xysarenottheprize facts.
Just because a man and woman can be a parent does NOT mean that they should, 75% of parents are monsters and selfish. They are more about themselves and good for the children that are born of parents who want them and love them
I refuse to bring another slave to the american system. I would rather save dogs and live my life with my husband. Anybody who has a completely different opinion, good for you. I dont care! Im too busy living my life childfree!!
Im happy to see women out here choosing their lives over what society tells them to do!!
If you don’t care, then don’t care what you say and you learn to deal with it when people call you out.
@@SuicuneSui Exactly!
I mean look at how men are treating women, especially with children, these days. I don't blame anyone for opting out, after all it is one's choice that no one else has business dictating after all. At least they aren't coming on the internet to "vent" over children they chose to birth...sounds more like complaining about choices they willingly made to me
I refuse to be fruitful and multiply my bills. My unborn kids are a lot better where they are at, in peace and not of this toxic world. Childfree FOR LIFE!.
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❤❤❤ a lot of people are choosing a child free life. I don’t blame yall! ❤️
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Period, lol cuz not everyone is religious. I believe people should do what’s best for them. In this economy/ climate having children is getting put on the back burner and I’m putting myself FIRST.
I love this conversation and the fact that women can have it freely. I'm in my 50's and tell my children to not let anyone guilt or pressure them into having children, including old folks. It's not fair to the child. Not having children is only bad for social engineers. But I agree, your partner should be 100% on board.
I’m 30 with no kids but I do have a cat . Kids are expensive so unless i become rich it’s not happening for me …. I would hate to take my anger out on my kids after coming home from work because I’m stressed about bills or whatever I would want to actually be present in their lives , and teach them things .
@@Orphic_museum I’m childfree by choice and I don’t understand the point of having a pet. It’s just a child with fur.
@@Laoriginal718 cool story bro , but I love my cat soooooo yeah
I’m 100% for it, I opted out of motherhood in my early twenties. I’m happy to see women prioritizing their desires without caring about the opinions of others
Im 44 years old and also made the same decision. I refuse to be single mother. I seen too many divorcee being single mother and its not easy. I love my freedom now and enjoyed my parents.
I’m also 44 who made this decision in my 20’s with no regrets. My husband and I just weren’t interested and I made it well known when we first started dating. There were more cons than pros. I saw and still see it would have been a hard life for me and it was never a desire of mine. Even at a super early age and my mother would always get upset when I said I didn’t want kids. I did have a moment or two where I thought about it, but I’d hear a baby cry or a parent yelling at their kid and that moment went away real quick. lol
Single and childfree 🙌🏾. I have never wanted kids and I don’t want marriage. I like coming home to a quiet, clean home that smells good and is so peaceful. 😊🥰
Interesting. I feel bad for not having anything. It’s nice to have if you have an awesome person but I am with you. Almost impossible to find a decent human. Soo I am good lol
When I was a child, I told myself I would never put a child through what I went through. Now as an adult I wouldn’t put another adult through what I’m going through especially dealing with my aging parents. It’s a lot of stress to put on another person. Children are more than status, slaves, or ATMs. Children are human beings that have to find their way through this life and what kind of life is this in 2024? To me, having kids intentionally with no plan is extremely selfish.
this.
@@JuhsentuhHeed your hypocrisy on selfishness.
Child free by choice here 🙋🏻♀️ my husband and I have been married for 10 years. Together 12 and we decided early on that we didn’t want to have kids. We travel the world, save, help and invest. And I don’t have to be responsible for another human being. That’s a LOT of work and commitment that I am not willing to do.
Your husband doesn’t want kids because he wants a wife that will be devoted to only him!
Hell yeah!! That's me and my husband and we are having the time of our lives!!
Child free women are winning!
@missamerica2694
The words wife and devotion put in the same sentence in 2024 screech
@@agentofsecurity1794 it becomes an issue because men want a wife that is solely devoted to him but men also want kids. Men want kids as a proof of their ability to produce babies, but men have no desire to raise kids. Men expect the women to do that. Marriage and kids is more like a nightmare packaged as a fairytale to entice women; and women are waking up and saying NO!
As a mother i don't shame anyone who choose not to have kids. Its not easy especially when you raising them by yourself. Which 90% of mothers had to raise their kids alone. I feel the women that choose not to have kids is wise. They don't want to repeat the struggles of motherhood as their mothers did and I don't blame them. Live your life maidens and enjoy your freedom
I don’t want kids, america makes it hard to afford yourself.
I don’t care how “selfish” it sounds. Lol I’m good.
@@Pixiedust6 facts
Truthfully kids ARE a burden .. 🤷🏽♂️
True!!!
Yes they are
Yes, and I wouldn’t want a child to feel like they are. Keep them in heaven, Lord. It really isn’t worth it.
I really think ppl can't stand to see happy women..I aint never been mad at a man who doesn't want to provide for me..🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️
My life is soooooo much harder because I have kids. I have two and my ex share them, a week on and a week off, I work 10 hour shifts and the week I do have them, my house is a mess, I have to constantly be cooking and cleaning up after them, I gotta make sure I have food, they are ungrateful, my daughter is 17 and has no respect, they don’t keep their rooms clean, my daughter has given me nothing but problems for the last 3 years. They are always asking for money, fast food, gas money, etc. it’s exhausting and horrible. The week I don’t have them, my house is clean, I can come home and rest after work, my kitchen isn’t a constant mess, the laundry isn’t piled up. I honestly dread the week they are with me, I don’t blame people who don’t want kids. Smart move!! It definitely sucks to not have money and having to cook and clean all the time.
It will be alright...you got this ❤
@@EricaChavira-on4oz you didn’t know that being a parent was hard BEFORE you had them? Everyone knows being a parent is hard. It baffles me how people still act oblivious to this.
@@EricaChavira-on4oz also…..make your kids do some chores. They are old enough to help cook and clean. When I was growing up with had CHORES. We washed clothes, cut grass, cooked, cleaned, etc. seems like you didn’t raise your kids right and now you’re complaining about it. I will say this tho…….i respect your honesty.
Happiness is innate. I have never cared what people think about me. God 1st, always. A retired single woman here. Child free. Debt free. No regrets. Not broke. In spite of today’s uncertain ridiculous inflationary times, our family of retirees is gratefully blessed, thriving and enjoying a well earned comfortable retirement. God is providing. So no worries or fears here. Freedom and Peace of mind. This is true wealth.😊
Awesome! God always PROVIDES for his children!! 🥹✝️❤️
Is the god here with us?
@@happylistener4628 You should then obey what God says about those who chose to get married.
I’m mother and I love my children so much and wouldn’t have it any other way but I rather see people who decided not to have children than children who are neglected and abused
I had a partake in raising my siblings..No thanks. At this age, I want to be childfree as my siblings are now getting out the nest..Ik if I had kids of my own, they would irritate me. Ik that's bad to say, but it's truee.Now imagine me having a child of my own. That's too permanent, and I can't put it back, so it's best I remain childfree.
Being fruitful doesn’t mean getting pregnant by randoms unmarried.
@@Driponics you don’t have to be fruitful if you don’t want to. God commanded Adam and Eve ONLY to be fruitful and multiply. Jesus Christ didn’t have kids. Paul didn’t have kids (most of the disciples didn’t have kids, most were single if not all) and lastly God told Jeremiah to remain single and that he would not have kids. Amen.
Marriage doesn’t guarantee anything.
@@ladybug3380 so basically it’s screw the Bible then huh.
@@Driponics the Bible was written by men for men. It was written so that men will have a blueprint on how to behave righteously and with love like Jesus lived. Where in the world do you see men behave this way collectively in a society?
@@ladybug3380 So far your Anti-men and anti-god. That concludes my response.
My husband.
And I are 40 and we are child free by choice. Also, we have a bunch of pets LO. L we love animals. We are the only ones in both of our families that decided to voluntarily not have a kid at all. I can say is that we don't envy them. But they envy us because we travel international every year. And have more money for fun stuffand Going Out.
And we don't make a lot. He's a mailman making 23 an hour. And I do caregiving a making 15 but without the expense of a kid, you have more money to enjoy how you want to. We have 0 regrets. And I really glad that we don't have a kid, especially in this economy. A lot of our friends and family members also have kids with issues so they spend a lot of money on insurance and therapy and medication. So don't think that just because you're healthy. That your kid will be. Your kid could have any kind of issue. So that's also something to consider.
Pets are expensive too amd like having kids the only difference is that pets can't take care of you when your old.
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Then there's no difference! Kids don't take care of their parents when they're old! That's what nursing homes are for! Once those kids are GROWN and don't need you anymore, they're going to go live THEIR OWN lives! They won't be able to take care of you and themselves and their own families! Kids aren't required to wipe your a** when you're old!
Having sex just to get knocked up with a kid in the hopes that they'll be your retirement plan and caregiver is sickening, selfish, inconsiderate, narcissistic and disgusting! This is another reason why people are opting out! This is ALSO another reason why people go no-contact with their parents that they NEVER asked, nor chose for themselves! Having pets is better!
@mamiemoore8069 If the only reason why you have a kid. Is because you're expecting then to take care of you when you're older. I suggest that you volunteer or work at a rehabilitate nursing home., senior facility lol bc I do that work and like 90% of them have adult children n grandkids n no1 visits them no1cares lol if their kids did care/ take care of them then their would be no senior facilities or need for caregivers lol
@@mamiemoore8069
Then there's no difference! Kids don't take care of their parents when they're old! That's what nursing homes are for! Once those kids are GROWN and don't need you anymore, they're going to go live THEIR OWN lives! They won't be able to take care of you and themselves and their own families! Kids aren't required to wipe your behind when you're old!
Having sex just to get knocked up with a kid in the hopes that they'll be your retirement plan and caregiver is sickening, selfish, inconsiderate, narcissistic and disgusting! This is another reason why people are opting out! This is ALSO another reason why people go no-contact with their parents that they NEVER asked, nor chose for themselves! Having pets is better!
@@mamiemoore8069
Then there's no difference! Kids don't take care of their parents when they're old! That's what nursing homes are for! Once those kids are GROWN and don't need you anymore, they're going to go live THEIR OWN lives! They won't be able to take care of you and themselves and their own families! Kids aren't required to wipe your behind when you're old!
Having sexual intercourse just to get pregnant with a kid in the hopes that they'll be your retirement plan and caregiver is sickening, selfish, inconsiderate, narcissistic and disgusting! This is another reason why people are opting out! This is ALSO another reason why people go no-contact with their parents that they NEVER asked, nor chose for themselves! Having pets is better!
03:20 true on my side. I grew up with struggle and I definitely wouldn't want that for someone I love, especially when it's not their choice if I bring them to this world.
I knew since I was 19 that I NEVER wanted to be linked to anyone that I dated for a minimum of 18 years. I watched the older females in my family being stressed tf out with raising kids. I took a trip every weekend in the month of August and the only thing I had to worry about was who is gonna watch my dog and if I was going to drive to the airport or take an Uber…no childcare arrangements necessary lol. I get to do whatevvvvvveerrr I want with my money and I don’t have to ever speak to any of my exes ever again lol
Having a family is one of the most rewarding things YAH blessed us with. I respect their choices, but I’m sad the world has forced ladies into feeling like this.
Nah Yah a fraud religion is lame and this a fallen world
Child FREEEEEEEE🎉
My wife and I have been married for 15 years and we are child free. I remember after we got engaged she told me that she didn’t want kids and if I wanted them that we shouldn’t get married. I told her I never really thought about it. We are now in our 40’s and have no regrets. On our days off of work, we sleep 10 - 13 hours 😂
It's not a bad thing It's been the norm to have kids early in life before you really have your life figured out.
That's the problem. 😒
And that is a bad thing! I'm glad more people are choosing to be childfree and changing the "norm."
"dog mom/dog dad" makes me cringe so hard. you have a pet, not a "furry child". fine don't have children i could care less, but u aint no parent specially when you can't even do the most basic task of potty training them. imagine daily fighting with your partner over your "dog children" 😂
you sound extremely bothered, triflin' and petty. no offense.
It’s AMAZING when I fight my husband over our fur babies, it’s never their fault lol
I hate animals. No pets. No kids.
I recently learned that God hates it when we call ourselves pet parents. The implication is that I gave birth to a dog or a cat, which is gross. I love the dog, but he is not my child.
@@ennuiblue4295 no offense taken and i'm not bothered. It is what it is just a fact, it's a pet not a child. the clip i am speaking of speaks for itself couldn't even potty train the pet she claims to have a mother/child relationship with and proceeds to blame the pet for it's behavior. she was right about realizing she shouldn't have kids though so I agree and respect that. i just don't respect the comparison of a child with a pet. 🤷
I feel like either way you’re going to live with regret. If you have children, you’ll wonder what life would’ve been like if you didn’t have kids. If you don’t have kids, you would wonder what your life would be if you did have kids.
At the end of the day, people know themselves the best. Do what makes you feel right in your life. Make sure you weigh all options. Another thing is besides missing fathers, if you don’t have a great community around you to help raise your child then it would be extraordinarily difficult to raise children. Nowadays, there is no community support in real life and inconsistent fathers. And I didn’t even get into the economy lol.
People who don’t have kids don’t regret it. I have never wanted kids and I have no regrets. 😊
@@flykick1231 You don’t need a community to raise your child. I certainly don’t want meddlers in my family.
Nah nothing to regret about not having kids this is a fallen world
Can you do a rant video on people who have been fired from their jobs of 10 years or longer?
...or people who face a hard time in getting unemployment benefits?
Good thing that all these women's parents weren't so self centered.
Facts wow the narcissism is real today!
And how TF would you know what kind of parents these people grew up with?!
Also, how the TF does SAVING & SPARING a child from this world, whom NEVER asked, nor chose, nor consented to be here in the first place, make them a "narcissist"????
I made a decision over twenty years ago not to have children due to my childhood. Now that I'm the oldest daughter and taking care of my aging parents, I'm really glad I didn't. I have no idea how your average everyday working folks do both take care of parents and their kids at the same time. I'm trying to hang on to my sanity as it is, let alone adding a crumb snatcher to the mix.
When God said be fruitful and multiply…..he was ONLY talking to Adam and Eve. They were the only two people on earth at the time. Jesus Christ himself never had kids or got married. Paul never had kids or got married and recommended that everyone stay single and childfree and God told Jeremiah to remain single and that he wouldn’t have any children. So there’s that. Amen.
Jesus nvr had children because he never existed. So, there’s that.
@@Laoriginal718 my response to that is you and everyone who wants to remain childless should be celibate and unmarried then. Don't use scripture for your own justification. (If you are saying this from the perspective of still sleeping with someone) This of course only really applies to a believer and a follower of Yah. the ones in the world will do what they do. Some are called to be celibate and unmarried so using Christ or Jeremiah in this context to fit your own understanding can be miss leading. The reason it is recommended to stay single as a man is to focus all your energy and time into growing the Kingdom he also says to marry if you can't remain celibate, you left that out. (this could be trivial) but Adam and Eve were not the only 2 in the world, they were the only 2 in the Garden.
@@Billtwiggmeister it's been proven by science that he in fact did exist. Even atheist admit he did, they just deny his power and what he did.
Fairytales don’t exist
@@jeyfrobruv I don’t even believe in your little fairytale. Who are you to dictate what others do?
I had ONE CHILD, because I knew that's all I could handle! As a child, I saw how much mother's of multiple children suffered! I didn't want that for myself! I knew I could handle one child, even if I had to do it alone! A child is a LIFETIME commitment, I just have to get it right ONCE! My son is 12 now, and I'm so glad he gets ALL of my attention, and doesn't have to compete with another child. My husband and I can afford to provide him a better lifestyle because we ONLY have one child! I'm glad I get to experience motherhood and also get to pursue my dreams! 🥹🥰
Did you have a baby with a gentile?
Agree
It just kids now days weak minded my mom use to leave me alone at 7 im cooking and looking out for myself 😅
Like me! 😂
The gene pool thanks these brave Modern Women.
hardly, ever hear of 'Idiocracy'?
@@ennuiblue4295 Not only heard of it, but seen it. Actually, not only seen it, but seem to be living it. I was implying that it’s preferential for them *not* to reproduce. As it is, next generation’s going to be bizarre.
@@J3r_B3arok modern man…. Such use you are😂
It’s a shame so many pushing and mandating people to not have kids. I say - if a married couple want to have children and certainly if they are able to care for them, then who are you to complain? I’ve seen so many single people who can’t even take care of themselves!
And I bet you wish those single parents didn’t have kids and you’re here complaining that people don’t want kids?
Your comment is dumb no reason to have kids in this fallen world
I have children and I'm happy with my choice to have a family of my own. I support anyone who chooses not to be a parent. The world is overpopulated anyway. What I do hope is that people who are child free still have access to their own families and loved ones, as we all need and deserve that in life.
We don’t deserve anything. We are lucky to have what we have. “Deserve” sounds like entitlement and we are entitled to nothing.
The world is not overpopulated though and there is no evidence for that claim
@@Laoriginal718 as members of civilization, the social contract we all agree to entitles us to a basic level of belonging, which is why all human cultures have some basic unit of social membership, such as a family. Aside from this basic level of belonging we are essentially feral free agents, which is no way to live.
Nah your comment is silly nobody is coming to save you family and friends irrelevant stop glorifying the human condition fool
These people say they wanna be free and that's why don't want Kids, but also working doesn't make you free, when you are at the job 40 hours (or more 😬) per week.
You can attain holidays but is an illusion, you don't still be free.
Having kids don't make you free either!
there's no 'free' in a physical world. it's a perpetual struggle whether it's the need to devour food, your health failing, competition for resources, violence. no matter what anyone chooses, it's a snare
@@ennuiblue4295
And its sick how people perpetually continue that snare via procreation!
Let's work the 40 hour week job THEN come home to needy kids.
I can't imagine why so many parents leave or go crazy. 🤔
@@marissa._💯💯💯
I work in healthcare and women don't want the "swollen stomach belly syndrome" not 🚫 to mention it's called a "BALANCE SHEET BABY!"
wtf is a balance sheet baby?
What is a balance sheet baby? 🧐
What is a balance sheet baby?
@@Laoriginal718 I guess you don't know "ACCOUNTING."
@@Laoriginal718 not 🚫 to mention "opportunity cost!" Look it up ✌️
That's scary because judgment comes with that. 1 Tim 2:15 Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.
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All those saints/disciples that did 't have children are still considered children of God. Y'all are brainwashed. You DO NOT need to have children to be accepted by God/spared from hell.
We were told to be fruitful and multiply.
Saved by who
@@fancybeingawesome Not saved "by who" saved "from what". Too many of you women seem to think there are no laws above your selfish wants, no punishment for getting away with the things you do to men. In the world to come, look at how things are in this world and reverse them. Now which side are YOU on in that world. That's what "they" call Armaggedon. It's the end of their world not the end of life on earth. Saved from God's wrath. That's what he's warning you about. There's always a price my sister. We love you but it does change the cost.
I jus feel like it’s selfish kids grow up they don’t stay kids long we was put on this earth to pro create
I was by the bed side of woman without kids. I wish she had a child because that was the saddest life ever
Exactly her pets couldn't take care of her then right another human not related to her did.
Grow up! Did you pass away with her? No! She passed away the same way she came into this world: alone! Standing next to someone at the end of their life doesn't make you a good person! You have a God complex and it shows!
70% of women leave men and she blames men… feminism at its best.
As they should. She can be a bish all by herself.
Its called hypergamy
70 percent of women are leaving good men for no reason?
A bunch of selfish people
Womp womp
A bunch of **selfLESS** people
Fixed it!
@@GenZealous
Lol. 😂
That part. 💯
😂😂
When these get to the point in life where they can barely do anything for themselves physically, they're gonna wish they had those children..
Dumb comment this is no reason to impose this problematic early existence onto another
Okay... Better not complain later then...
Rather that than complain about the kids being here.
There’s nothing to complain about. Having kids is overrated.
@@gotohell7338 Facts, but still.
@@Laoriginal718 Okay... Just keep that Energy later then...
Honey its been twenty one years since I got fixed. LMAO! After watching what all of my friends have gone through, I'm sooo glad I never had kids. Some of them have kids in their thirties (she had one young) and they seem more of a headache now then when they were little. My homegirls have even said I was right not to have any kids lol
Most of them are forced to accept the reality of their earlier choices. They have to accept this reality now after wasting their younger years. That clock has ticked away. They lost the game time ran out. It’s coping with the reality of their choices. Father Time catches up to all of them.
It’s influenced by those who played with their time. It is in their nature to nurture and reproduce. No matter what they say, they cannot fight nature. Let them try though. I will enjoy watching.
Huh? I'm in the prime of fertility and I'm not down with being another stereotypical struggling single mom. Whatever you have to tell yourself 😂