I’m sorry you lived in an abusive relationship and am so glad you’re free from that now. I hope this channel and your other business endeavors are hugely successful!
One easy way you can help this family (even if you don't have very much money)...is by NOT skipping the ads. If her channel is monetized she makes a little off the ads when they play. Let them play every time you watch her videos...and you may find a product you are interested in.
God bless you and your children. I was a single parent to 2 sons. Sometimes we talk about we don't know how we made it. I put them in best school ,best church, boy scouts, talked til blue in face, whoop buts. I loved every minute. Praying for you. Love and happiness. Amen.
@@valeriemacrae8441 The trick is gaining the 1000 followers and having the viewing time to get monetized, which you have. Then UA-cam contacts you through email, or you apply to have your channel monetized. For folks interested, there are a lot of videos showing how it's done.
Listen she shouldn't have had so many children, when she was constantly in poverty and struggling her whole life,... it's not far to the whole family to live like that😒
@@FloridaGrowingwho in the world are you to judge this sweet lady, how in the world was she supposed to know her world was gonna crash down around her, you should be ashamed of yourself and I will pray for ppl like you and hope nothing like this happens in your life at least she picky up her boot straps and is making it on her own, I am very proud of her see we women ought to lift each other up not tear each other down, don’t judge harshly
@@FloridaGrowing Her husband was a doctor. She could afford her kids.. It's not her fault he went off the deep end and left her to fend for her and the kids.
Please create an Amazon wishlist. So many people would feel truly blessed to be able to send you something you would like and picked out yourself. Maybe some essential items like batteries or something frivolous like new kitchen curtains.
It takes a lot courage to do that because when some bless you, some also blame you, and people who struggle don't want struggle more. Sometimes it's obvious what they need, pretty much what everybody need, like laundry detergent and etc. Gift card to Amazon, Walmart are also very helpful.
My heart goes out to you. I come from a family of 16, and we really had to trust the Lord for so many things. I myself had 7 living children and homeschooled We also gave thrifted gifts at Xmas and on birthdays and didn’t eat out or go many places. That you are doing takes courage. Your children are WORTH it! God bless you!
Wow! Big family! Thanks for your kind words and encouragement! Thanks for saying my children are worth it. It means a lot to me. I will remember it when I feel guilty for not working out of the home more.
I am happily married, but I so much appreciate your videos. Your frugality amazes me, because you all seem so full. Full of the holy Spirit, and it is such a blessing to watch. I thank God, for showing me your channel. I know this video is going to help me in some way, just like your others. God bless you and your family!
You are very inspirational. I’m Packing a small box for you now with pajamas that you mentioned your sons need. Please keep your viewers posted and if there are people who want to bless you they will know how.
I would love to see you put a cookbook together ! Frugal Cooking! I would buy it! Being home with your children is so special! I have 2 and I was home with them. I wouldn’t trade that time for anything! You definitely will be rewarded from our Father for putting your family first! 🙏🏻
You are an amazing mama! I raised four kids on my own, and I did a lot of the frugal tips that you mentioned! My kids didn’t have fancy birthday parties either! I shopped at yard sales and thrift shops for clothes and gifts too! God always provides and knows our needs. We used to go to a food pantry where they shop for you and bring the cart to your car and pray with you at your car and they asked what we needed and I said, our gas was going to be shut off, and could we pray for that help. We prayed and when we were done, the man handed me a $100 bill. Then another time we belonged to a food bank program for working people and every time that I prayed for something we needed, it was there for us the next time we’d go! Another time, my car broke down, and I went to pick it up from the mechanic and the bill had been paid. Another time I went to pay the water bill and someone else had paid it. God is everywhere and continues to bless us. I know He is blessing you as well! You are keeping your beautiful family together with the help of our Lord! God Bless you beautiful family!
I raised 8 and we'd have old fashioned partys.Like walk with a clothespin between their knees and drop it in the bucket.Everyone take a balloon and pop it by sitting on it.Have a race with a plastic egg on a spoon They said it was the best party ever! These days its pretty ridiculous how much is spent.❤
I was raised in a city but we didn't have heat on the second floor. You learned real quick to open the door to the upstairs to get it warmer up there. We also put on socks and a sweater if you were cold and in the summer you opened windows. I didn't realize we were poor. I thought everyone ate boiled cabbage and onions or chicken gizzards or go to the butchers to get free dog bones (we didn't have a dog) but the bones made a great soup with cabbage,onions and potatoes.
Budgeting is not as difficult as many believe. Myself and Family live on a low but managed budget. We roughly have the same income each month, deduct all the essential bills for that month including rent, food etc and divide what is left for the days of the month ahead. We know it we stick to that daily budget we won't fall short. Bless you all 🙏
I can't wait for you to get monetized if you haven't yet! (Not sure what the perimeters are on that). You are so wise and so easy to listen to. Very relatable which is great. So many folks are making life look perfect which is great if that makes them happy but most of love to live (and see) simple folks living a simple, happy life. I know life has it's challenges but you sure are graceful and bring a lot of inspiration!! -Jess in Wyoming
@@singlemomonafarm I’m watching on my television and have another of your videos running on my iPad! I hope it helps you! You are giving yourself and your children a wonderful life!❤
I grew up the oldest of 10 and even though we were poor as it gets we was a close happy family I think it makes you closer I love how your family lives simple and happy
That horse is amazing your daughter made! We live much the same. Mama of 7 here. The simpler the life the richer in love! It teaches that God provides and he loves to show us His love.
I empathize you having been married to a spouse on the autism spectrum. I was too. It lead to divorce. My kids and I had to survive. Some ideas for you- check out the Ozark Family Homestead utube channel for budgeting and cheaper living strategies ( many you already do). Also , you can season frozen ground turkey to taste like sausage and save money- I got this from that Utube channel. Another great Utube channel for ideas is Three Rivers Homestead. A strategy I found useful as a single mother employed at two full time jobs or one full time and one part time was to have a town job ( we lived in town) where I could check on my kids or bring them to work with with me. Also- What is the one thing I can do to make the next thing easier? In addition- Buritos! I made them on Sunday night late after getting home from my weekend job and freeze them. The kids could warm them up in the microwave to eat while I was at work. I pray for you and your family. God does indeed provide!! God bless!
I live on a shoestring budget too and I’m thankful I was raised to squeeze a penny. When I “ waste” money I feel guilty. Learning balance. God blessings to you and your family
Wow! Just found your channel. I'm sorry for your struggles. But thankful to finally find someone else out there who actually knows what real financial troubles are like. Someone to relate too. Our family has had financial issues our whole life but the Lord has carried us through. Praise God!!!
I have 8 children. We do the same thing for birthdays. We don't do parties. I tried it once when my oldest daughter was turning 6. It ended up costing 3x what I planned and while I know she enjoyed the activity, the extras for the "party" seemed to make little to no difference.
I relate so much to you. My family can’t afford to do birthdays or restaurants or trips or anything. I garden and go to a food bank once a month but it’s a constant stress filling the gaps with groceries and household items. I have furnished my whole house with hand me downs. When you graciously accept them people will always think of you when they’re getting rid of things which is great! It’s nice that I stocked up on a lot of items when we were better off. I haven’t had to buy toothpaste, deodorant, cold and flu meds, or cleaning supplies for years. I also have a nice stock of staples like beans, rice, and oats. We eat a LOT of beans lol
Love your videos!! Ideas: (1) many food pantries give products more then food like hygiene stuff and household stuff like toilet paper; (2) use baking soda and water mixed in a paste and flavored as you like for toothpaste; (3) you could do secret shopper gigs where you visit a store and get paid to send in a store prices report; (4) there are other homestead channels who homeschool and talk that they no longer use their old stuff and might be willing to give them? You are a wonderful mother. God bless!
Being frugal just makes you more creative. Now that the kids are raised and we retired we no longer have to be so frugal but we just like to. I am 70 but still do canning because I want to. I would rather eat my food than store bought food. You are one smart cookie and I am sending you a virtual hug.
Just found your channel and I’m so emotional right now because we lived below the poverty line for our family for about 5 years with no government assistance because we knew we had irresponsibly put ourselves in that situation. I am still so in awe of how God provided our needs through the generosity of people and in the most miraculous ways.
Aww, I love this. Thanks for sharing. I'm sure because you were humble and honest about admitting you had been irresponsible (something people don't do), God blessed you with so many miracles.
I’m so impressed with how frugal you are. Some great ideas for jobs on your farm - very resourceful! 💡 I have few shoes, and tops / pants as well. And make up is mascara and blush, and even then I don’t wear it every day. No jewelry… I’m simple too. You could totally list your frugal living tips or even draw more people to your products by having an invite to emails, and dropping a few at a time every 2 wks or so.
Thank you for sharing your story. I love the creativity and blessings! I do not know your story as this is the first video I have watched. I am surprised that your ex-husband is not required by law to pay child support?
He is in a mental hospital. Welcome to my channel! I'm glad you found me. Yes, I have a video "My Story" that explains how we moved here and a bit more history.
An idea I got from the utube channel Heartway Farms. They do not buy much toilet paper as for wet waste only ( not solid) they use old rags or old wash clothes just to wipe and throw them in a covered bucket for washing. That way you can reuse them. It’s an idea? When I was a young girl we had clothe period pads we put in our underwear and washed them and reused them. Feminine hygiene pads that are disposable are expensive. Just another idea? Your situation just has me ( old retired lady) thinking and thinking. God bless!
You are simply amazing. I am inspired and touched by all your stories. I'm so glad that you were able to purchase the farm for your children to grow up and enjoy activities outside. You must have a tremendous amount of faith! Thanks for sharing your journey.
My 1st husband in the 80s was making a 6 figure salary. He was wanting to kill himself. Not for me and our daughter. It was tough but I made it. Finished college and have had a great career. Lots of debt that is gone now. 16 years later new husband and life is great. Good luck young lady❤
I appreciate you sharing this. We live on a tiny income, and it’s refreshing to see someone else who is making it with a good attitude to boot. We do have a mortgage but that’s all we will owe after next year. Anyways, thank you for putting this out here. I’ll be praying that the Father will bless you all!
Maybe you could put that cook book together and sell it. I would buy it! God Bless! Super cute cake! Also when your youngest gets older ,she can get riding lessons for free when helping a stable with work.
God bless you !!! I truly pray that over your life. My mom had schizophrenia she was in and out of the psych hospitals almost my whole life. Shes in Heaven now. God has her. No more chaos in her beautiful mind. Sorry about your ex.
Thank you so much! I'm sorry to hear about your mother. That would truly be hard for a child to grow up with and not understand. I really feel for you.
Living frugal is not living poor. Your family is rich with blessings and love! You're teaching your children valuable lessons that will ground them for becoming productive adults! More people need to learn these lessons so they can teach their kids to be successful! God bless you!
hello :) you are doing an amazing job keeping you and your children going ! im a mum in the uk. me and my husband seperated 4 years ago and even though i am in a new relationship we dont live together. my total yearly income is £10950 and i have 5 children who i home school. it can be very tight but we make it work. x be proud of yourself xx
I ❤ u large fam. The kids will never be alone. I learned if a person has 1 kid they may as well have another back to back so they fight and entertain and learn social skills together. Large families are great too.
Your sweet attitude about your life is a wonderful example. I think you mentioned the church you belong to and I’m sure you can get paper supplies, toothpaste, hygiene items, etc from the bishop’s storehouse. Please don’t feel bad about asking for that help.
I didn't know that. But Bishop does help with gas so my kids can go to activities. You're right, it's very hard to ask for help. Especially as it's ongoing and getting embarrassing. I had hoped my curriculum would be selling more by now. Thanks for your compliments and encouragement.
@@singlemomonafarmI was left as a single mom and my third ended up being disabled. I lost my career and everything. I did eventually get everything back together but please accept those blessings now and someday you will bless someone else ❤
As a former RSP I did many food orders for women in our ward from the bishops storehouse. We had like 12 at one time and our bishop ran the storehouse. I had a few who totally abused the system, and a single woman who would get 60 lbs of meat and enough fruits and vegetables every 2 weeks that should last a year, but she had 2 big dogs and slipped once when talking to me about giving her dogs that food. Ugh! She was a taker and never showed up to church, but had a Costco membership and I saw her in the store with a cart full of electronics. I filled the back of my van with the back seats down and it was filled all the way with storehouse food and products. It took me 45 mins to unload it at her house, I guess she also passed things on to her sister who lived in another city. She used me and my gas and time to benefit her selfish ambitions and it left a bad taste for me. This was 1 middle aged single woman who also had a roommate, and 2 big dogs. The storehouse has all sorts of paper products as well as all the staples and canned goods and dairy products and feminine hygiene and soap and shampoo and toothpaste. It is there for people like you! You need to just ask your bishop. It is all done online now I hear, so it is much easier for the RSP to do, and patrons go and pick up what they asked for in their order.
@@singlemomonafarm …I’m also a former RSP and as @Mp162 said, some people abuse the system, but you’re not one of them. People who attend meetings, hold a calling, minister…those are the people it is a joy to help.
You have a beautiful family and you are doing a great job! Many times in my life God has provided for me in the way of strangers through bags of clothes, Monetary gifts ect. I thoroughly enjoy watching your family, they are being raised as I was. I am not a materialistic woman, although God Blesses me with extras now that my children are all grown. We went to many parks, staying a couple days a year in a Motel(mostly for the pool lol) and inexpensive things as well. Keep up the great work! God continue to bless you and your family in Jesus Holy name!
What a wonderful inspiration you are to all the single Mom's out there struggling. I am so sorry for all you went through with your husband and sad for him that things did not work out with his dream of being a doctor unfortunately there is a lot more to being a doctor than medical books it can be extremely stressful caring for patients and not being able to "cure" them.. I look at the team of doctors who treated my husband when he was diagnosed with cancer and all the different treatments they tried to save him and how they all must have felt when he died. I don't know your husbands situation or your marriage but you are right, he does need prayers. Anna In Ohio
Thank you! I did make a wish list but so far can't think of much. We really are doing fine and are very simple people. My greatest wish is to work really hard this summer and be able to do some little trips in the fall when the weather and leaves are beautiful. Take the kids to a national park or go camping or see historical homes like Monticello. See Kitty Hawk. A few things like that each year. I took the older kids but the younger ones weren't born yet. Now they're growing up fast and at good ages to appreciate history and our country's beauty. So just pray that I can be successful with my blog and curriculum and channel and nature camps. And if there are things I need I'll add them to the list. Wish I could put a hotel stay or a tickets to Monticello on there, haha. Thank you so much!
I really admire you placing time with your children over material items. I feel the same way about big birthday parties. They are overwhelming for children. You said your birthdays aren’t special but I really think your plan makes the birthday child feel very special. Getting to plan the activities for the whole day is very special especially in a large family. Also as a previous homeschooler I like your book idea. I particularly liked ones that included all the subjects in the reading of the book. Like geography, something to cook/bake based on the book, maybe a craft. All things based on the book but covering lots of subjects.
Thank you for the wonderful ideas and for being so candid. I hope your business picks up and maybe you can monetize your channel. You're an encouragement and inspiration! 💛
Recently remarried but was a single mom who left an abusive marriage. I left my dream property and rural life to save my life and my daughters. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. I’m new to your channel and looking forward to hearing your story and supporting you! What an incredible gift you have given your children! I don’t even know you and I’m so proud of you! I volunteer with single moms in my area now and will share your channel with them for inspiration and great tips and advice!
I'm a new subscriber. I appreciate your honesty. So many UA-cam channels are full of terrible advice and focus on things like clothes, makeup, etc. when many families are struggling to just make ends meet. I would suggest an Amazon wishlist for your family as there are many who would love to help your sweet family. You might also look into developing some of your lessons for Amazon's Audible - so many people are switching to home schooling. God bless. I also have a couple flea market booths - you can sell those clothes that don't fit, things from around the house and things you find at garage sales or thrift stores. I typically earn at least $200 a month for minimal input. Just some ideas. Thank you for sharing - I look forward to your videos as God blesses you.
Our library loans out toys and puzzles. Also, my kids enjoyed the books that are read to you along with the book. They used to be tapes, then cds. I don’t know if they have something similar now days because that was in the 2000’s. We used our local library lots. Free programs for the kids. Free movies and music and computer usage and cheap photocopies. Also, they have access to a lot of the community free programming. Our city offered free low income programs for my kids for 5 years. They had $200 a year for individual interest programs and they could access the community Centres anywhere in the city for free. The Centers had pools, rinks, field houses gyms etc. The library knows about so many programs for kids. I love our library
Wow, that's cool! I wish we could access the pool. That would be fantastic. My kids love to swim but it's so expensive per child. A few times a summer I try to take them to my sister's apartment pool 2 hours away and she's been great to teach them to swim while I work. I'll look into your suggestions. Thank you.
CloudLibrary is a free app that you can use to link your library account to access free streaming book rentals. Libraries also have seasonal passes that you can reserve for local zoos and entertainment venues. If you tell your local children's museum that you receive assistance, you are granted free access. You can become an affiliate marketer for Amazon, Walmart, etc. for no cost and when people use your links, you get a small commission. Also, always tell viewers in your videos that watching ads on your videos, liking and subscribing are small things that they can do to make a big impact for your family.
@@LyndaWalsh-WinWithTwins Good information! I will ask about passes to the zoo, because my children would love to go there. I did take the kids to a museum but those on assistance were given entrance for $4 a person with a limit of 4 people. Regular price is $15, so that's a big discount. But still an expense. And only a few of us can go. I wish I could find one that would let us come for free. But I understand their need to make money. Yes, I am an affiliate for Amazon. I have been for a couple of years. Any links on my blog you can click on and then buy what you want within 24 hours (doesn't need to be the book I am suggesting you buy) and I get a small commission. I haven't had enough followers on my blog to earn more than a few dollars, but I'm hoping in time I will get more income from this. Thank you!
@singlemomonafarm I love that I've come across your channel. I tell my kids that gift shops are for people who forgot to bring their own toys/hats/etc. when I take my kiddos out to avoid spending on trinkets. They usually don't beg to go inside and shop because they remembered their toy. 😅
What a beautiful faith in God and His tender faithfulness for you and your dear children ! God is good ! You are a brave amazing Mom!! 🙏❤ If I had lots of money to send, I wish I could!! My prayers and provision for you and your beautiful family! We are all in a great battle! Let us pray for each other. Fiat!
Thanks for sharing Marcie!!! You are my far more "rich" than many wealthy people in this world...which I am sure you know. I love hearing your story and how amazingly God shows up! He does in beautiful ways!
I'm newer to your channel and I'm enjoying your channel and the videos I'm catching up on. I'm also a member of Vine and I'm so grateful you know about the taxes we pay because a lot of people don't realize it counts as part of our income we have to report and we pay taxes on it, so it helps when we know and prepare. But you are so right, we are a home-school family and we choose to live very frugally so it has been a blessing to us now for the last two years helping with things we need around the house and things for our son. Hope you all have a blessed 4th of July and I look forward to more of your videos! Your love for your children and the way you put them first and invest in them is so refreshing.
Do you have a Dollar Tree? Matches, toothpaste, and other stuff is fairly cheap there. Also, if you have Aldi Grocery Store they are resonable groceries.
Im sure without your faith in God, this would be such an excruciatingly difficult season. It sounds like you've had a difficult marriage and your faith in God is whats kept you happy no matter what. Your videos are such an encouragement to people, please keep going. I have 9 kids and a sometimes difficult marriage as my husband has some mental health issues, i pray you will be successful, you already are😊. Just keep going. Much love and God bless your family. X Sarah.
Thank you so much for affirming my feelings and experiences. You are right. Sounds like we are very similar. I will pray for you and your difficult marriage too. Thank you so much for your encouragement and support. It means a lot to me.
I grew up in a very poor family. I am the oldest and noticed it more. I am 56 years old now and was home schooled. We were the only family that home schooled in the county. We were looked down on until the school district made us take standardized testing. We outscored their students and I never had to test again. We were happy even though there wasn't alot of money. I remember those days fondly as I get older. Thanks for sharing your story.
Haha! I loved the part about you outscoring public schoolers and never having to test again. That's funny. Awesome story! Thanks for sharing! So glad you remember those days fondly. As long as I don't stress about it, the kids don't notice we're poor and are just enjoying their childhood. I'm sure we're still better off than maybe even you were because people have so much stuff these days and a lot of people give us things like jump ropes, a trampoline, shoes, dolls, toy cars, etc. We're definitely not poor with stuff kids care about.
I admire your attitude and your willingness to do what you need to do to survive. You reminded me that I need to be grateful for what I have and to help others when I can.
You are amazing and you are showing that if there’s a will there is a way! Your children are blessed and I am so happy to have found your channel. I wish we lived near to you!
I love your thoughts on birthdays and quality time with the birthday child. I think so many people can benefit from thinking outside the expensive gift boxes we've come to believe we must follow or beat, like expensive birthday parties. I remember wondering whether my daughter's 4th birthday idea was going to upset anyone. I only asked 2 sisters and another girl my daughter played with regularly to come and play at our house. The big event was they decorated one cupcake each and we placed them in the shape of a number 4, lit a candle and sang happy birthday, then they each ate their own cupcakes and had a cup of cordial before off to play together again. Anne, Australia 🦘
Yes, that sounds so fun! I'm sure your daughter had a wonderful time. Just a couple of friends to play dress up and decorate cupcakes or dig in the sandbox and things like that is perfect! Thanks for sharing!
I love kids! I have 3 adult children. Also, I work with kiddos. You are so right that they love simple things! They love the Box from the gift. Lol they love pans and spoons and containers!
Very interesting and creative ways of saving. As your youtube channel grows you can start getting sponsored. I know some homeschool moms that love teaching textbooks and have had them as a sponsorer.
I’m sorry you lived in an abusive relationship and am so glad you’re free from that now. I hope this channel and your other business endeavors are hugely successful!
You might consider dumpster and curb diving 😊
Thank you!
One easy way you can help this family (even if you don't have very much money)...is by NOT skipping the ads. If her channel is monetized she makes a little off the ads when they play. Let them play every time you watch her videos...and you may find a product you are interested in.
God bless you and your children. I was a single parent to 2 sons. Sometimes we talk about we don't know how we made it. I put them in best school ,best church, boy scouts, talked til blue in face, whoop buts. I loved every minute. Praying for you. Love and happiness. Amen.
Thank you I didn’t realize that’s how the ads worked
Thank you I didn’t realize that’s how the ads worked
@@valeriemacrae8441 The trick is gaining the 1000 followers and having the viewing time to get monetized, which you have. Then UA-cam contacts you through email, or you apply to have your channel monetized. For folks interested, there are a lot of videos showing how it's done.
I let the ads play for her channel only lol
Let's make this mama rich youtube.
Oh, my gosh, you're so sweet! This made me smile and laugh a little. Thank you!
Agreed 👍 ❤
New to the ch. I need my grandkids to watch those videos
Please let all of the ads on her channel run - fully run - the full length. It puts food on the table for her and the children!
Listen she shouldn't have had so many children, when she was constantly in poverty and struggling her whole life,... it's not far to the whole family to live like that😒
@@FloridaGrowingwho in the world are you to judge this sweet lady, how in the world was she supposed to know her world was gonna crash down around her, you should be ashamed of yourself and I will pray for ppl like you and hope nothing like this happens in your life at least she picky up her boot straps and is making it on her own, I am very proud of her see we women ought to lift each other up not tear each other down, don’t judge harshly
@FloridaGrowing she didn't have enough children... should have had more
@@FloridaGrowing Her husband was a doctor. She could afford her kids.. It's not her fault he went off the deep end and left her to fend for her and the kids.
Why do you say that?
Please create an Amazon wishlist. So many people would feel truly blessed to be able to send you something you would like and picked out yourself. Maybe some essential items like batteries or something frivolous like new kitchen curtains.
Yes, please do!
Was thinking the same
Yes, please, please do! There is so much joy in giving!
I’d be glad to help out in this way too! 💕
It takes a lot courage to do that because when some bless you, some also blame you, and people who struggle don't want struggle more. Sometimes it's obvious what they need, pretty much what everybody need, like laundry detergent and etc.
Gift card to Amazon, Walmart are also very helpful.
I am a mom of 6, Grama of 5. Thank you for sharing basic common sense…which isn’t so common anymore!☺️
That’s so true common sense
You're not poor. You are so rich with a beautiful family. I'm praying God will bless you and your family.
What a blessing that her sister made her a crocheted horse there is more love in that present then money could ever buy from another present
Aww, you're so right! Thank you for saying that.
Your children have an abundance of wealth in the love you give them.
My heart goes out to you. I come from a family of 16, and we really had to trust the Lord for so many things. I myself had 7 living children and homeschooled We also gave thrifted gifts at Xmas and on birthdays and didn’t eat out or go many places. That you are doing takes courage. Your children are WORTH it! God bless you!
Wow! Big family! Thanks for your kind words and encouragement! Thanks for saying my children are worth it. It means a lot to me. I will remember it when I feel guilty for not working out of the home more.
I am happily married, but I so much appreciate your videos. Your frugality amazes me, because you all seem so full. Full of the holy Spirit, and it is such a blessing to watch. I thank God, for showing me your channel. I know this video is going to help me in some way, just like your others. God bless you and your family!
Marcie, your family is truly your legacy.
I love how you just spend so much time as a family. Thats what kids will remember. Not the stuff.
You are very inspirational. I’m
Packing a small box for you now with pajamas that you mentioned your sons need. Please keep your viewers posted and if there are people who want to bless you they will know how.
Yes great idea!
I would love to see you put a cookbook together ! Frugal Cooking! I would buy it! Being home with your children is so special! I have 2 and I was home with them. I wouldn’t trade that time for anything! You definitely will be rewarded from our Father for putting your family first! 🙏🏻
And I know my God is able to provide all of my needs according to His riches in glory. You are blessed and highly favored.
God truly provides. Continue,do not be anxious, just trust.
What a beautiful story about the money appearing for the van window.🥰
You are an amazing mama! I raised four kids on my own, and I did a lot of the frugal tips that you mentioned! My kids didn’t have fancy birthday parties either! I shopped at yard sales and thrift shops for clothes and gifts too! God always provides and knows our needs. We used to go to a food pantry where they shop for you and bring the cart to your car and pray with you at your car and they asked what we needed and I said, our gas was going to be shut off, and could we pray for that help. We prayed and when we were done, the man handed me a $100 bill. Then another time we belonged to a food bank program for working people and every time that I prayed for something we needed, it was there for us the next time we’d go! Another time, my car broke down, and I went to pick it up from the mechanic and the bill had been paid. Another time I went to pay the water bill and someone else had paid it. God is everywhere and continues to bless us. I know He is blessing you as well! You are keeping your beautiful family together with the help of our Lord! God Bless you beautiful family!
Wow! I love it! So many miracles! Thank you for sharing.
I raised 8 and we'd have old fashioned partys.Like walk with a clothespin between their knees and drop it in the bucket.Everyone take a balloon and pop it by sitting on it.Have a race with a plastic egg on a spoon
They said it was the best party ever! These days its pretty ridiculous how much is spent.❤
Yes, I loved those parties. I grew up with those exact games! I forgot about them. They were so fun.
I was raised in a city but we didn't have heat on the second floor. You learned real quick to open the door to the upstairs to get it warmer up there. We also put on socks and a sweater if you were cold and in the summer you opened windows. I didn't realize we were poor. I thought everyone ate boiled cabbage and onions or chicken gizzards or go to the butchers to get free dog bones (we didn't have a dog) but the bones made a great soup with cabbage,onions and potatoes.
I love your story! Thanks for sharing.
Hi Marci! You are a wonderful person and mom. What a joy and great example for all of us moms!🤗
In my opinion you are rich…your family is priceless! ❤ So proud of you!
Budgeting is not as difficult as many believe. Myself and Family live on a low but managed budget. We roughly have the same income each month, deduct all the essential bills for that month including rent, food etc and divide what is left for the days of the month ahead. We know it we stick to that daily budget we won't fall short. Bless you all 🙏
Great advice!
You got it!!
Your love for your children ,
Is so evident.
Your kids will remember all the memories not so much the material things👏🏼❤️
I can't wait for you to get monetized if you haven't yet! (Not sure what the perimeters are on that). You are so wise and so easy to listen to. Very relatable which is great. So many folks are making life look perfect which is great if that makes them happy but most of love to live (and see) simple folks living a simple, happy life. I know life has it's challenges but you sure are graceful and bring a lot of inspiration!!
-Jess in Wyoming
Thank you! Yes, I'm monetized. Yay! Some days are only $4, but hey, every little bit helps. I feel so blessed that the growth was so quick.
@@singlemomonafarm I’m watching on my television and have another of your videos running on my iPad! I hope it helps you! You are giving yourself and your children a wonderful life!❤
@@WendyReeves-r5dI’m sure that helps her!! That’s so nice of you!
From one single mama to another great job I have similar background have 7 and the best part of it is they know we’re always there for them 🥰
Absolutely!! Love that.
I grew up the oldest of 10 and even though we were poor as it gets we was a close happy family I think it makes you closer I love how your family lives simple and happy
That horse is amazing your daughter made! We live much the same. Mama of 7 here. The simpler the life the richer in love! It teaches that God provides and he loves to show us His love.
I empathize you having been married to a spouse on the autism spectrum. I was too. It lead to divorce. My kids and I had to survive. Some ideas for you- check out the Ozark Family Homestead utube channel for budgeting and cheaper living strategies ( many you already do). Also , you can season frozen ground turkey to taste like sausage and save money- I got this from that Utube channel. Another great Utube channel for ideas is Three Rivers Homestead. A strategy I found useful as a single mother employed at two full time jobs or one full time and one part time was to have a town job ( we lived in town) where I could check on my kids or bring them to work with with me. Also- What is the one thing I can do to make the next thing easier? In addition- Buritos! I made them on Sunday night late after getting home from my weekend job and freeze them. The kids could warm them up in the microwave to eat while I was at work. I pray for you and your family. God does indeed provide!! God bless!
Good advice I also watch these channels and they are good too. God bless you
I live on a shoestring budget too and I’m thankful I was raised to squeeze a penny. When I “ waste” money I feel guilty. Learning balance. God blessings to you and your family
So Peaceful swinging on the porch
Wow! Just found your channel. I'm sorry for your struggles. But thankful to finally find someone else out there who actually knows what real financial troubles are like. Someone to relate too. Our family has had financial issues our whole life but the Lord has carried us through. Praise God!!!
I have 8 children. We do the same thing for birthdays. We don't do parties. I tried it once when my oldest daughter was turning 6. It ended up costing 3x what I planned and while I know she enjoyed the activity, the extras for the "party" seemed to make little to no difference.
I relate so much to you. My family can’t afford to do birthdays or restaurants or trips or anything. I garden and go to a food bank once a month but it’s a constant stress filling the gaps with groceries and household items. I have furnished my whole house with hand me downs. When you graciously accept them people will always think of you when they’re getting rid of things which is great! It’s nice that I stocked up on a lot of items when we were better off. I haven’t had to buy toothpaste, deodorant, cold and flu meds, or cleaning supplies for years. I also have a nice stock of staples like beans, rice, and oats. We eat a LOT of beans lol
Love your videos!! Ideas: (1) many food pantries give products more then food like hygiene stuff and household stuff like toilet paper; (2) use baking soda and water mixed in a paste and flavored as you like for toothpaste; (3) you could do secret shopper gigs where you visit a store and get paid to send in a store prices report; (4) there are other homestead channels who homeschool and talk that they no longer use their old stuff and might be willing to give them? You are a wonderful mother. God bless!
You have such a great attitude!
Your so right babies and toddlers love to play with Tupperware
You have a beautiful family and your a very wise lady. Thanks for sharing your life with us.
Being frugal just makes you more creative. Now that the kids are raised and we retired we no longer have to be so frugal but we just like to. I am 70 but still do canning because I want to. I would rather eat my food than store bought food. You are one smart cookie and I am sending you a virtual hug.
Just found your channel and I’m so emotional right now because we lived below the poverty line for our family for about 5 years with no government assistance because we knew we had irresponsibly put ourselves in that situation. I am still so in awe of how God provided our needs through the generosity of people and in the most miraculous ways.
Aww, I love this. Thanks for sharing. I'm sure because you were humble and honest about admitting you had been irresponsible (something people don't do), God blessed you with so many miracles.
I think an Amazon wishlist is a good idea. You get items for free and then film the unboxing.
I’m so impressed with how frugal you are. Some great ideas for jobs on your farm - very resourceful! 💡
I have few shoes, and tops / pants as well. And make up is mascara and blush, and even then I don’t wear it every day. No jewelry… I’m simple too.
You could totally list your frugal living tips or even draw more people to your products by having an invite to emails, and dropping a few at a time every 2 wks or so.
Thank you for sharing your story. I love the creativity and blessings! I do not know your story as this is the first video I have watched. I am surprised that your ex-husband is not required by law to pay child support?
He is in a mental hospital. Welcome to my channel! I'm glad you found me. Yes, I have a video "My Story" that explains how we moved here and a bit more history.
An idea I got from the utube channel Heartway Farms. They do not buy much toilet paper as for wet waste only ( not solid) they use old rags or old wash clothes just to wipe and throw them in a covered bucket for washing. That way you can reuse them. It’s an idea? When I was a young girl we had clothe period pads we put in our underwear and washed them and reused them. Feminine hygiene pads that are disposable are expensive. Just another idea? Your situation just has me ( old retired lady) thinking and thinking. God bless!
You are such a good Mom! I love what you do for your kids on their birthday! Keeping it simple but special!!👏
Your birthday celebrations are BRILLIANT! ❤️🎂
You are rich in faith for sure!
You are simply amazing. I am inspired and touched by all your stories. I'm so glad that you were able to purchase the farm for your children to grow up and enjoy activities outside. You must have a tremendous amount of faith! Thanks for sharing your journey.
You are an inspiration to many others. Thank you ❤
It's wonderful that you are willing to share your testimony with all of us. Thank you.
My 1st husband in the 80s was making a 6 figure salary. He was wanting to kill himself. Not for me and our daughter. It was tough but I made it. Finished college and have had a great career. Lots of debt that is gone now. 16 years later new husband and life is great. Good luck young lady❤
Thanks for sharing your story! So glad to hear your life is great.
I appreciate you sharing this. We live on a tiny income, and it’s refreshing to see someone else who is making it with a good attitude to boot. We do have a mortgage but that’s all we will owe after next year. Anyways, thank you for putting this out here. I’ll be praying that the Father will bless you all!
Maybe you could put that cook book together and sell it. I would buy it! God Bless! Super cute cake! Also when your youngest gets older ,she can get riding lessons for free when helping a stable with work.
God bless you !!! I truly pray that over your life. My mom had schizophrenia she was in and out of the psych hospitals almost my whole life. Shes in Heaven now. God has her. No more chaos in her beautiful mind. Sorry about your ex.
Thank you so much! I'm sorry to hear about your mother. That would truly be hard for a child to grow up with and not understand. I really feel for you.
Thank you for sharing your testimonies with us. May God continue to bless you and your family.
Living frugal is not living poor. Your family is rich with blessings and love! You're teaching your children valuable lessons that will ground them for becoming productive adults! More people need to learn these lessons so they can teach their kids to be successful! God bless you!
You are fast becoming one of my favourite channels. Could you share about some of your cooking from scratch?
Sure! That sounds really fun. When I get back from helping my mom I will start working on that. Thank you for your suggestion.
@@singlemomonafarm
You have a great attitude. Kids are not expensive...parents are the expensive one. Thanks for sharing your experience.
Love the window miracle story…it’s always amazing when it is exactly the amount needed
hello :) you are doing an amazing job keeping you and your children going ! im a mum in the uk. me and my husband seperated 4 years ago and even though i am in a new relationship we dont live together. my total yearly income is £10950 and i have 5 children who i home school. it can be very tight but we make it work. x be proud of yourself xx
I ❤ u large fam. The kids will never be alone. I learned if a person has 1 kid they may as well have another back to back so they fight and entertain and learn social skills together. Large families are great too.
Your testimonies of God's provision are a great reminder for all of those of us who are struggling with finances and learning to trust God!
Awww,what sweet little guys you've got! That car was amazing!!😊❤
Your sweet attitude about your life is a wonderful example. I think you mentioned the church you belong to and I’m sure you can get paper supplies, toothpaste, hygiene items, etc from the bishop’s storehouse. Please don’t feel bad about asking for that help.
I didn't know that. But Bishop does help with gas so my kids can go to activities. You're right, it's very hard to ask for help. Especially as it's ongoing and getting embarrassing. I had hoped my curriculum would be selling more by now. Thanks for your compliments and encouragement.
@@singlemomonafarmI was left as a single mom and my third ended up being disabled. I lost my career and everything. I did eventually get everything back together but please accept those blessings now and someday you will bless someone else ❤
As a former RSP I did many food orders for women in our ward from the bishops storehouse. We had like 12 at one time and our bishop ran the storehouse. I had a few who totally abused the system, and a single woman who would get 60 lbs of meat and enough fruits and vegetables every 2 weeks that should last a year, but she had 2 big dogs and slipped once when talking to me about giving her dogs that food. Ugh! She was a taker and never showed up to church, but had a Costco membership and I saw her in the store with a cart full of electronics. I filled the back of my van with the back seats down and it was filled all the way with storehouse food and products. It took me 45 mins to unload it at her house, I guess she also passed things on to her sister who lived in another city. She used me and my gas and time to benefit her selfish ambitions and it left a bad taste for me. This was 1 middle aged single woman who also had a roommate, and 2 big dogs.
The storehouse has all sorts of paper products as well as all the staples and canned goods and dairy products and feminine hygiene and soap and shampoo and toothpaste. It is there for people like you! You need to just ask your bishop. It is all done online now I hear, so it is much easier for the RSP to do, and patrons go and pick up what they asked for in their order.
@@singlemomonafarm …I’m also a former RSP and as @Mp162 said, some people abuse the system, but you’re not one of them. People who attend meetings, hold a calling, minister…those are the people it is a joy to help.
@@K-sd5so Thank you for sharing your story. And for your encouragement. Yes, I really want to help others someday soon.
You have a beautiful family and you are doing a great job! Many times in my life God has provided for me in the way of strangers through bags of clothes, Monetary gifts ect. I thoroughly enjoy watching your family, they are being raised as I was. I am not a materialistic woman, although God Blesses me with extras now that my children are all grown. We went to many parks, staying a couple days a year in a Motel(mostly for the pool lol) and inexpensive things as well. Keep up the great work! God continue to bless you and your family in Jesus Holy name!
What a wonderful inspiration you are to all the single Mom's out there struggling. I am so sorry for all you went through with your husband and sad for him that things did not work out with his dream of being a doctor unfortunately there is a lot more to being a doctor than medical books it can be extremely stressful caring for patients and not being able to "cure" them.. I look at the team of doctors who treated my husband when he was diagnosed with cancer and all the different treatments they tried to save him and how they all must have felt when he died. I don't know your husbands situation or your marriage but you are right, he does need prayers. Anna In Ohio
Yes, you're right. Well said. I"m so sorry your husband died. My dad died young (63) of cancer too despite trying so hard to save him.
Please make an Amazon wish list of items needed or your address to receive items.
I suggested that too. Would love to help someone who is working hard and teaching her children great lessons.
There's just a fine line with her putting her address out or not.. 1 wrong button clicked the address is out.
@@HughMadBro I agree with that. Po box would be safer.
@@HughMadBro most content creators use a PO Box, which makes it safer
Thank you! I did make a wish list but so far can't think of much. We really are doing fine and are very simple people. My greatest wish is to work really hard this summer and be able to do some little trips in the fall when the weather and leaves are beautiful. Take the kids to a national park or go camping or see historical homes like Monticello. See Kitty Hawk. A few things like that each year. I took the older kids but the younger ones weren't born yet. Now they're growing up fast and at good ages to appreciate history and our country's beauty. So just pray that I can be successful with my blog and curriculum and channel and nature camps. And if there are things I need I'll add them to the list. Wish I could put a hotel stay or a tickets to Monticello on there, haha. Thank you so much!
I really admire you placing time with your children over material items. I feel the same way about big birthday parties. They are overwhelming for children. You said your birthdays aren’t special but I really think your plan makes the birthday child feel very special. Getting to plan the activities for the whole day is very special especially in a large family. Also as a previous homeschooler I like your book idea. I particularly liked ones that included all the subjects in the reading of the book. Like geography, something to cook/bake based on the book, maybe a craft. All things based on the book but covering lots of subjects.
Thank you! Your comment is very sweet and I appreciate everything you said.
Thank you for the wonderful ideas and for being so candid. I hope your business picks up and maybe you can monetize your channel. You're an encouragement and inspiration! 💛
Recently remarried but was a single mom who left an abusive marriage. I left my dream property and rural life to save my life and my daughters. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. I’m new to your channel and looking forward to hearing your story and supporting you! What an incredible gift you have given your children! I don’t even know you and I’m so proud of you! I volunteer with single moms in my area now and will share your channel with them for inspiration and great tips and advice!
Thank you for your kind words. And thanks for sharing my channel. So neat that you serve single moms. I love it.
I'm a new subscriber. I appreciate your honesty. So many UA-cam channels are full of terrible advice and focus on things like clothes, makeup, etc. when many families are struggling to just make ends meet. I would suggest an Amazon wishlist for your family as there are many who would love to help your sweet family. You might also look into developing some of your lessons for Amazon's Audible - so many people are switching to home schooling. God bless. I also have a couple flea market booths - you can sell those clothes that don't fit, things from around the house and things you find at garage sales or thrift stores. I typically earn at least $200 a month for minimal input. Just some ideas. Thank you for sharing - I look forward to your videos as God blesses you.
Thank you for your compliments! Those are great ideas. Thank you for taking time to share.
I just came across your channel so I subscribed and will be watching you from now on
Our library loans out toys and puzzles. Also, my kids enjoyed the books that are read to you along with the book. They used to be tapes, then cds. I don’t know if they have something similar now days because that was in the 2000’s. We used our local library lots. Free programs for the kids. Free movies and music and computer usage and cheap photocopies. Also, they have access to a lot of the community free programming. Our city offered free low income programs for my kids for 5 years. They had $200 a year for individual interest programs and they could access the community Centres anywhere in the city for free. The Centers had pools, rinks, field houses gyms etc. The library knows about so many programs for kids. I love our library
Wow, that's cool! I wish we could access the pool. That would be fantastic. My kids love to swim but it's so expensive per child. A few times a summer I try to take them to my sister's apartment pool 2 hours away and she's been great to teach them to swim while I work.
I'll look into your suggestions. Thank you.
CloudLibrary is a free app that you can use to link your library account to access free streaming book rentals. Libraries also have seasonal passes that you can reserve for local zoos and entertainment venues. If you tell your local children's museum that you receive assistance, you are granted free access. You can become an affiliate marketer for Amazon, Walmart, etc. for no cost and when people use your links, you get a small commission. Also, always tell viewers in your videos that watching ads on your videos, liking and subscribing are small things that they can do to make a big impact for your family.
@@LyndaWalsh-WinWithTwins Good information! I will ask about passes to the zoo, because my children would love to go there. I did take the kids to a museum but those on assistance were given entrance for $4 a person with a limit of 4 people. Regular price is $15, so that's a big discount. But still an expense. And only a few of us can go. I wish I could find one that would let us come for free. But I understand their need to make money.
Yes, I am an affiliate for Amazon. I have been for a couple of years. Any links on my blog you can click on and then buy what you want within 24 hours (doesn't need to be the book I am suggesting you buy) and I get a small commission. I haven't had enough followers on my blog to earn more than a few dollars, but I'm hoping in time I will get more income from this.
Thank you!
@singlemomonafarm I love that I've come across your channel. I tell my kids that gift shops are for people who forgot to bring their own toys/hats/etc. when I take my kiddos out to avoid spending on trinkets. They usually don't beg to go inside and shop because they remembered their toy. 😅
What a beautiful faith in God and His tender faithfulness for you and your dear children ! God is good ! You are a brave amazing Mom!! 🙏❤ If I had lots of money to send, I wish I could!! My prayers and provision for you and your beautiful family! We are all in a great battle! Let us pray for each other. Fiat!
"Beautiful resilience" is the only way I can describe this lovely lady.
Thanks for sharing Marcie!!! You are my far more "rich" than many wealthy people in this world...which I am sure you know. I love hearing your story and how amazingly God shows up! He does in beautiful ways!
I'm newer to your channel and I'm enjoying your channel and the videos I'm catching up on. I'm also a member of Vine and I'm so grateful you know about the taxes we pay because a lot of people don't realize it counts as part of our income we have to report and we pay taxes on it, so it helps when we know and prepare. But you are so right, we are a home-school family and we choose to live very frugally so it has been a blessing to us now for the last two years helping with things we need around the house and things for our son. Hope you all have a blessed 4th of July and I look forward to more of your videos! Your love for your children and the way you put them first and invest in them is so refreshing.
❤ God has provided for you and your kids, simple life absolutely ❤ love your channel
Have you ever thought of having a wish list from Amazon? Maybe pylut it in your description when we can we would sure help.
Love this. Thank you!
Do you have a Dollar Tree? Matches, toothpaste, and other stuff is fairly cheap there. Also, if you have Aldi Grocery Store they are resonable groceries.
Im sure without your faith in God, this would be such an excruciatingly difficult season. It sounds like you've had a difficult marriage and your faith in God is whats kept you happy no matter what. Your videos are such an encouragement to people, please keep going. I have 9 kids and a sometimes difficult marriage as my husband has some mental health issues, i pray you will be successful, you already are😊. Just keep going. Much love and God bless your family. X Sarah.
Thank you so much for affirming my feelings and experiences. You are right. Sounds like we are very similar. I will pray for you and your difficult marriage too. Thank you so much for your encouragement and support. It means a lot to me.
You're doing an awesome job for your family. Your children are so precious.
I grew up in a very poor family. I am the oldest and noticed it more. I am 56 years old now and was home schooled. We were the only family that home schooled in the county. We were looked down on until the school district made us take standardized testing. We outscored their students and I never had to test again. We were happy even though there wasn't alot of money. I remember those days fondly as I get older. Thanks for sharing your story.
Haha! I loved the part about you outscoring public schoolers and never having to test again. That's funny. Awesome story! Thanks for sharing! So glad you remember those days fondly. As long as I don't stress about it, the kids don't notice we're poor and are just enjoying their childhood. I'm sure we're still better off than maybe even you were because people have so much stuff these days and a lot of people give us things like jump ropes, a trampoline, shoes, dolls, toy cars, etc. We're definitely not poor with stuff kids care about.
I have lived on a budget since I started working! I also coupon to save money
I admire your attitude and your willingness to do what you need to do to survive. You reminded me that I need to be grateful for what I have and to help others when I can.
You're such a wonderful, down to earth Mother, nice to see Mums with their Children at their heart ♥
Also bar soap is easy to learn to make very nice to learn this saves a lot of money
I'm so glad I found your channel ❤
You are amazing and you are showing that if there’s a will there is a way! Your children are blessed and I am so happy to have found your channel. I wish we lived near to you!
Stop saying you are poor. Start speaking you are wealthy. Our words are creative forces....
You are so right! Thank you for reminding me of that.
Many blessings to you and your family. You are doing a great job Mama. Keep up the good work!
You are a strong lady
Your boys were just precious at the end ❤
Being made too feel like the day was for them because their special and do family enjoyable things fun, food and games.
I love your thoughts on birthdays and quality time with the birthday child. I think so many people can benefit from thinking outside the expensive gift boxes we've come to believe we must follow or beat, like expensive birthday parties. I remember wondering whether my daughter's 4th birthday idea was going to upset anyone. I only asked 2 sisters and another girl my daughter played with regularly to come and play at our house. The big event was they decorated one cupcake each and we placed them in the shape of a number 4, lit a candle and sang happy birthday, then they each ate their own cupcakes and had a cup of cordial before off to play together again. Anne, Australia 🦘
Yes, that sounds so fun! I'm sure your daughter had a wonderful time. Just a couple of friends to play dress up and decorate cupcakes or dig in the sandbox and things like that is perfect! Thanks for sharing!
When I see your site, I smile and can't wait to learn from you. God loves us so!
I grew up the same way I’m thankful
I love kids! I have 3 adult children. Also, I work with kiddos. You are so right that they love simple things! They love the Box from the gift. Lol they love pans and spoons and containers!
Very interesting and creative ways of saving. As your youtube channel grows you can start getting sponsored. I know some homeschool moms that love teaching textbooks and have had them as a sponsorer.