Don't let your son bring his deadbeat father here to stay. The bio father and his wife will become your son's burden! Leave them living in Laos and your son can just occasionally send his rotten father a little money. Remember, it's more expensive to live in America, and therefore, it will cost a LOT of money for your son to take care of his bio father in America----cheaper to just send a $100/mo in my opinion. Don't let your son make the kind of mistake that will result in regrets because he WILL end up slaving for a bio father who never even wanted you and him in the first place! Your son doesn't owe his bio father anything, but OWES YOU EVERYTHING (you allowed him to live and raised him by yourself) so you have every right to express your decisions to him!
To the mom with the gay daughter, it is better to accept her as is than to lose a relationship of a lifetime. Give yourself time. You lost the daughter that you dreamed of, and it is normal to mourn the change. Start practicing to live with acceptance. I wish you both the best!
I am so happy for my niece and her partner which’s her fiancé now and they’re getting married this fall. I’m super excited to attend and make new memories. I love her so much and still she’s my favorite’s’. You’re not alone. Think of all others parents that may have similar issues with their daughters or sons. Have the best relationship and time with her while you can and don’t hold anything back. Love her just way she is❤❤you both need each other!
To all the Hmong parents, why we keep blaming our daughters/sons, we should turn around and ask ourselves instead. Our children, gays/lesbians, have no choice to choose to be born. Can you?
@@lueherr8007men are born to like and be attracted to pretty women, does that mean they can go around committing adultery and marry multiple women? They are born that way aren’t they?
To the mother: it’s not your life, it’s your daughter’s life. Accept what you can’t control. Don’t stress yourself out. Life is much better when you accept and embrace change. Support and love your daughter.
Story 1.. just accept your daughter decision. Just love them whether you approve or not. You dont want to ruin your relationship with your daughter just cause you dont approve of her choice. At the end of the day, she is still your daughter. Love and respect her partner like you would have done if it's a guy. You are gonna get a lot of love return from them if u just accept, and you are gonna be a lot happier, too. You dont want to create a bad relationship just cause of that. If your daughter is happy, then be happy for her. We as parents want our children to be happy in whatever they choose and do, so they want to live long with us and not put stress or guilt on them. I really hope that you can accept her and her partner and build a new relationship with them, then lose them .
To the sister of the story. Do not bring him over! It would be a big mistake. Don’t have a soft spot for this man that abandoned you and your son. Now that your son benefits him he sees your son. Don’t bring stress to your son’s life.
To the mom: love and accept your daughter and her lover. Don't judge them and don't hate them. Consider you gaining a daughter too. I'm sure they will give you lots of love in return. Txhob xav lub siab qub2 xyoo 75 lawm. Tiam 21 lawm es peb cov laus yuav tau hloov thiab nawb mog. Tsam lawv khiav tag ces koj haj yam mob siab kho siab nawb. Txhob txiav kev hlub tsam lawv tuag ces koj ho khuv xim ces lig2.
Raws li peb cov tuaj mloog koj zaj neej neeg mas qhov zoo tshaj rau koj thiab koj tus me tub ces txhob tos niag pob zeb siab phem ntawd tuaj rau tebchaws no cia nws nyob nws tim nplog thiab txhob cia tus me nyuam ris nws txiv lub xeem lawm. Yav tas ces cia dhau mus tsis txhob muab rub rov qab los rau tagkis nws tsis muaj tus nuj nqis dabtsi zoo rau koj thiab koj tus tub neb lawm, yog tsis muaj koj tus txiv Hmoob mékas no los rub neb ob niam tub tes ces neb twb tsis muaj lub neej li hnub no yog yuav hlub ces hlub tus muaj txiaj ntsim rau yus xwb thiaj li tsis muaj txojkev khaum kev npam. Yav tas los lawm ces cia muab hnov qab mus nej thiab peb sawvdaws yeej paub zoo hmoob nplog lub maib yuav ua li cas thiaj tau noj ? Yam twg uas luag tau ua mob koj los lawm tsis txhob ua lub siab muag rau lawv tej lus mos lus muag yuav dag ntxias koj vim koj txojkev ruam thiaj li qaug lawv quav zaum tas zaum tuaj mas lawv muab koj saib qis dhau lawm. Peb ua neeg nyob yus tsuas ua zoo rau tus hlub yus xwb, tus ua phem rau yus los dua lawm cia khaws tseg ua kev kawm kom yus ntse tuaj tsis txhob ruam li qub lawm.
Sister, it is better to accept her than losing her forever. It is good to see and be happy for her. You can not change the facts that she is the way she is. So sorry, sister. Life is full of surprises nowadays, you just have to change and accept it with time.
A mother's true love is wholeheartedly accept of her child for who they are. Despite her being gay, she is a wonderful person with a successful career. ❤
Sister Jenny, if you're going to start doing a question time with people's questions, can you please do a separate channel like Mab Vaj has? I just want to listen to stories. If I want to listen to questions, I'd rather listen and answer on a separate channel. I also think the story owners may appreciate this too.
@@hthor1825 that's fine and all but I thought if you skip then the channel owner doesn't get paid. That's my understanding. That's why I'd rather have her do another channel so I don't have to skip. So DO YOU KNOW or not? Tell me please!
Is Pob Zeb visiting or staying? It's not easy to bring someone like him here as he's a liability. It doesn't sound like any of you is closed to him so I'd say NO. Please update us if he comes to the US, relationship of him & your son.
Just love and support your daughter and live life. There is nothing you can do about it and just take care your health once you accept that then your in better health and less stress.
To the mom with the daughter at the beginning of the story: Times have changed. Our traditional way of thinking is not always right. Keep the good things of our culture and let go of the bad. As a parent, what is most important for me is to know that my child is happy and healthy regardless of their sexual preference. A daughter-in-law can give you just as much love (if not more) as a son in law. I feel that once you accept the situation of your daughter, you too can find happiness and solace within yourself. Good luck. Wish you and your family nothing but the best. To the Mom in the story: what you went through at such a young age is so sad and traumatizing. You have every right to feel the way that you do. One can forgive but can never forget. Allow your son to have a relationship with his dad BUT I personally would not help bring him over. People who are ungrateful will always be ungrateful and it is these kinds of people that you want to stay clear of. They do more harm than good.
Naim tais aw, peb nyob mekas teb no kawm, koj tsis txhais koj tus txhias,ces koj yeej tsis pom koj tus txhias tag mus ib txhim lawm os mog..tsis muaj ib leej tug yuav xav yug los zoo li koj tus txhias os mog, lub ntuj tso nws los lub siab nyiam li nws nyiam os mog, koj ua naim lawm,ua siab ntev ,kav tsij ua ib leej naim kom zoo rau koj tus txhias es koj los nej tsev neeg thaij li muaj kev kajsiab os mog.
Please except your daughter 100%. Life is too short and you wouldn't want any regrets. A child wants nothing more than the love of their parents. The love you give will be the love you receive, but 100 times that.
Love the comments. It's what we are here for. 🙂. Topic 1: Partner Preference - I think, intimacy in love is not really a choice but can be impacted by environment. It is a natural gravitation that reside deep within a person and most know this by adolescent age. To hold relationships better, parents should openly talk about it when children start becoming aware of serious friendships. It is the first sign that they are showing deeper friendship relations and may be ready for the decision and understanding. Talk to each other and don't assume. Knowing and accepting is the first step to a wonderful relationship into the future. Topic 2: Emojis or the proper us of them - yes, please use the correct ones. Using the wrong one can send the wrong impression and can confuse the reader. Remember, you want people to understand you, so clear and accurate. Take a little to make sure that it is really what you want to display, and the little time taken could also be a great way for you gain more insight into your own thoughts. 🙂 On the main story, please be respectful of unfortunate natural causes. Somethings we can predict or prepare for. These are the real tragedies and compassion should be given.
Zoo siab nrog koj thiab zam txim vim thaum ntawd ob leeg yeej zoo siab ib yam nkauj tsi muaj dabtsi los pauv tau li ces zam txim thiab cia lawv tig los sib hlub thiab es yeej yog nws li kab lawm thiab os tus niam tsev hmoob...Txaj muag tsi txaj los twb txaj muag tag thaum ub lawm ces cia rau nws thiab tus tub nkawv rov los sib hlub thiab zoo os.
Tus me viv ncaus ntawm zaj lus nug. Yog koj hlub koj tus me ntxhais ces kawg zoo siab txais tos li koj tus me ntxhais nyiam xwb os mog. Zoo dua li tsis muaj yus tus me nyuam lawm nawb. Lub neej niam no ces peb yuav tau hloov mus yoog tej me nyuam tsis txhob txaj muag li twb tsis yog yus tus me nyuam ib leeg thiaj nyiam li ntawd xwb muab xav rau cov nyiam li ntawd thiab es zoo nrog koj tus me ntxhais os nawb.
Cov me kwv tij hmoob me niam tsev aw ua neej tiam no ces xav tsis nrog xav yog koj xav ntau thiab ntshaw ntau ces koj mob strok koj tus kheej xwb koj yuav tsum hlub koj tsis tas li los koj yuav tsum muaj plan 1 2 and 3 for your life live in the United States no nawv peb cov niam txiv tiam tam sis no nawv tus niam tsev aw nco ntsoov kom koj tau burger no xwb mas nawv txhob txhawj22 txog tej niag me nyuam uas kawm txawj xwb tsis ntshe no nawv. Tos kuv hais li no los txij thaum xyoo 2000 los no ces kev khaum ces ua hnub no khaum hnub no tsis tos lwm tiag lawm nawv.kuv zaj lus no hais rau tus niam tsev muaj ntxhais poj niam yuav poj niam nawv.
Tus viv ncaus ua muaj tus ntxhais nyiam poj niam, siab loj thiab os mog. Kuv Los muaj ib tug ntxhais nyiam poj niam li koj tus thiab, kuv paub koj txoj kev xav, kev nyuam siab li cas lawm. Taum is kuv tus qhias rau peb li 5 xyoo dhaus los kuv kuj laj txhais kawg tabsi koj yuav tau xav li no. Lub neej no yog nws lub, nws muaj kev xaiv tus nws hlub nws nyiab, koj yeej xav kom nws muaj neej mus yuav txiv muaj xeeb tswv rau koj tabsi nws tsis xav li ntawv. Yog koj hlub koj yus me nyuam ces koj yuav tsum xav kev dav tsuas yog koj tus me myuam muaj kev sib hlub kev zoo siab kev kaj siab xwb. Nws nyiam poj niam xwb zoo dua ua yus tus me nyuam tuag no. Qib koj lub siab txhais tom ces koj yuav tsis muaj qhov xav cim/tsis txhais tos li lawm, xav thiab nws lub neej xwb tsis yog koj lub. Kuv tus ntxhais nas, twb tsis qhias lossi invite peb mus rau nws lub wedding tos peb paub ces twb sib yuav tas lawm xwb. Siab loj thiab os mog.
#1 if you surely love your daughter let her be happy. Her happiness is more important than your shame plus you shouldn’t be a shame you should think about your ignorance.
Topic #2: Some people especially oversea people use the laughing emoji as a crying emoji. Why? Idk but they do. They use it to show how realistically ugly you look when you cry with your mouth looking like that.
To the mom it’s better to accept than losing your daughter. Is not like she’s a bad person she found love. She’s done everything you have asked her to do now she found love accept her love. Why is emoji matter lol. We have better things to worry about. lol Story: let your son decide. If he wants to let him. Your ex boyfriend already got his karma. Be the better person and let your son decide.
God had created a man and a woman to be married in order to create new generations in this world. But today’s children and society are behaving more and more like animals including same sex marriages. It is sad but it is a fact. As parents we are disappointed and very shameful because what they do does affect the parents in many ways. But to the children, all they want is the free will to behave in any way they want including same sex marriage. In 50 years, the lives of humans will change even more and likely worst than we could ever imagine.
Nws muaj mob li ntawd lawm yog tos tuaj ces koj tus tub nyab yuav haj yam poob nyiaj ntau xwb thiab muab tos tuaj tsam nws tau zoo ces nws tsi yog tuaj nyob zoo nws yuav rhuav nej cov neej es qhov zoo tshaj ces cia nws txiv nyob tim ub es yus muaj li cas yus mam hlub li ntawd xwb txhob muab hlub tshaj tshaj ua li luag hais yug nab tsam lwm hnub hnav loj nab rov tom yus os es txhob pub tos tuaj vim twb tsi lees paub thiab twb tsi hlub neb ob niam tub cia nws nyob nws tim ub es tub nyab muaj li cas lis hlub li yus hlub tau xwb mog
Sister txhob xav ntau os lub neej Tam si no peb ua niam ua txiv txwv tsis tau tej me nyuam lawm cia lawv xaiv tus lawv nyiam xwb thiaj xwb txawm yuav yog poj niam txiv neej los zoo siab nrog lawv lawm xwb os mog ❤
To the mother, just accept ur daughter as is because if u don’t then she going to leave u n go far away from u. Just to let u know my sister have one daughter is a police n she is the same as ur daughter n my brother-in-law is not but our whole family tell him to accept it n they going to get married this October. So u r not alone sister….
Tus muam zaj thib 1 na. Koj thiab koj tsev neeg tseem poob qab deb os. Koj nyuam qhuav muaj Ntxhais es rov qam nyiam poj niam tam sim no xwb? Peb twb muaj tub rov qab nyiam txiv neej hos Ntxhais rov qab nyiam poj niam twb yuav tau 20 lub xyoo los ni lawm os. Ua siab loj, nov yog tiam 21 txheeb neeg lawm. Tus muam uas zaj thib 2. Muaj ib txhia twb tsis yog lawv tso lub emoji xwb hos lawv thaij duab in front kiag ntawm lub hleb thaum tseem nyob hauv tsev txias lawv tseem luag rua ncauj loj li loj na. Yeej tsis thwj toob li lawm vim yus tus neeg tuag dai ncuv tab sis thaij duab mas di ncauj tsis vov hniav li. Sorry no comment for the 3rd story but just don’t mess around with peb cov muam thiab Ntxhais Hmoob Thoj ntxiv lawm nawb.
To the mother who has a son that she worries about her son brining his dad to the States. Don’t let your son bring his dad and his wife to the states. It will only cause you more drama and stress. Especially when your son will have to take care of his dad later on in life. Let them find someone else to bring them to the States.
Tus txiv pob zeb mas tsi Tsim nyog tos tuaj rau teb chaws mekas. Nws siab phem dlau heev. Yog nws yog ib tus txivneej hlub poj niam, nws yeej tsi cia tus niam tsev yug me nyuam nws ib leeg. Kuv Thov qhuas tus me niam tsev muaj Pheev xwm heev. Ua tsaug rau koj txoj Kev hlub rau koj tus me nyuam os. Hlub koj Tshaj os..
First question: It sucks to you but her happiness comes first. You don't have to accept it but just don't disrespect her. Just know that this country is freedom so they can choose to love whoever they want. Just make sure they respect you not liking it and don't display affection in front of you in case you end up in the hospital again. In the end, it's her life bc you won't be with her forever. And also rest assured not all marriages last forever...it's something I have to accept as well. Maybe later she might change her mind and go back to a man. Not all marriages (man or woman) last forever li os even with kids or even when you think your life is complete. Txhob muab xav rau qhov phem es tiaj tsis nyuaj siab os. And don't worry too much about her take better care of yourself. Second question: No I do not agree that he deserves to come to America. Now he is worried about old age so he need your son and nyab to take care of him. But did he take care of your son when he was a new born? If he wants to come then have his relatives in America bring him over. Since they were so cocky. If not then your son don't owe him anything. Your son can love him but he have to find a way to come himself. That's only fair to how he treated you and your son.
Lub ntsej muag tas lauv uas ua 2 lub kua muag luag luag ko ces feem ntau yog Hmoob Nplog/ Hmoob Thaib lawv siv, ib txhia yog cov Hmoob Meskas feem laus siv yuam kev ntau2 zaus kawg. Kuv ntseeg tias lawv tsis ua zoo siab los sis tsis paub. The wronged laughing in tears emoji is mostly misused by Hmong Laos/Hmong Thai and older Hmong Meskas folks. I agreed with the niam tsev suggesting that it doesn't look good putting the wronged emoji in a sad msg.
Tsis pub hlo li os thaum tus me nyuam tseem yog lub dej txog ncua muaj 7,8 lub xyoo nws twb tsis lees txog ncua thaum nws lub neej tsis zoo. hnub no tseem paub tias yuav vam tus me nyuam hlub thiab.tsis pub li os.
Sis, if you need to talk, let me know. I am a parent with the same situation. I support my child all the way we have to learn that no matter what their still our child regardless whatever.
You can still love your daughter without supporting your daughter’s perverted sexual acts. Remember that just bc a Dr or a large group of people is doing something, it doesn’t automatically make it right. Doctors are just as sinful as anyone else.
Sister do not let your son and daughter in law bring him to USA. He didn’t want you acknowledge your son from the beginning and his parents came around knowing that son moving to meka. It’s not true love, it’s pity & fake to come only. If your son brings his dad to USA - your son is responsible for him financially and medically until he gets the green card. He will live with your son, there will tensions in his relationships with his wife. No no no is my answer.
No no no tsis pub tos me ntxhais nws yuav tuaj nws mam ntiav nws lwm txoj kev tuaj xwb os ua phem li ntawv yog tuaj nyob ib lub teb chaw yeej muaj ib zaug ntsib pom li os nyias nyob nyias ib sab ntuj thiaj tsis sib pom
To the mother with the daughter: there’s nothing u can do but to accept it. I know it’s a very hard thing to do because I also have one child that’s like that. If you don’t learn to accept it, you will lose your daughter and you will be the one hurting. She is old enough and successful enough that she doesn’t need u anymore.
Q#1. You have to accept your child the way she is. My brother he told my parents he is gay and he has boyfriend my parents felt the same way but we told my parents is his future let him be and give him loves. Now my parents accepted we still love ours brother and his boyfriend. They married for 10 years and still together now. Loves them she is your child
Teb #1: koj nyaim thiab tsi nyiam los yuav tau leej txais. Koj yuas hloov tsi tau nws lub siab os. Yee ua tau ces nws yuav khia koj mus. Yee ua ntau ib tsa nws nyuaj siab es mu tua nws tu kheej. Thau ntawd koj hos ua quaj thiab khuv xi os....
Q#1. Tus sister, it’s very hard for us as parents to accept what your daughter is doing. However, in these days and society, it’s the norm. We don’t like it but we will have to accept it because it’s a fact. Kuv yeej paub tias yeej nyuab2 rau koj kawg li mog tab sis peb yug tau lub cev peb yug tsis tau lawv lub siab thiab txoj kev xaiv. Yog li koj chim siab npaum twg los learn to let go on. The most important thing is your health and well being. Tsis yog koj tus ntxhais xwb thiab li xsiv txoj kev no. Ntawm peb cov hmoob yeej muaj coob leej ntaus tus yog li no ua siab loj es hlub koj tus kheej nawb. Txhob xav txog kev txaj muag poob ntsej myag. Xav thiab hlub koj tus kheej kom noj qab nyob zoo xwb vim we only live once. Let go of things we can’t control.
Thov hais rau tus niam tsev tus me ntxhais Yog gay. Thov zam zam rau koj tus me ntxhais os. Thov koj txais nws tus hlub nrog rau koj tus me ntxhais. Koj tus ntxhais neb lub neej tseem ntev2 os. Sib2 hlub os sib hawm luv2 os.
For question 1, it was not your daughters choice to be a lesbian. People don't know that gay people and the LGBT people don't even want to be different but they were born like that. It's not like it's a choice where they can choose to be gay or not he gay. So just accept your daughter cause she cannot change. For example like doing drugs you can choose to do that but for being gay you can't choose it is chosen for you.
Rau tus vivncaus tus ntxhais mus yuav ib tug pojniam: yeej tsis tsim nyog peb cov menyuam ua li no…kavliam os mog tsis kav ntev os…lawv uali lawv siab nyiam xwb, as a mother just love and take care yourself don’t worry about them…one day they will realize how wrong they have been
Txhob to tuaj ntshe yuav zoo dua vim trauma sib twb g paub yu lu trauma kawg nw g muaj chaw ny law ce ma Lee's paub xwb tu neeg no siab phem hee yog nw muaj men yuav ntshe nw twb g Lee's paub kj tu tub li
#2....koj tu tub puas yog neeg...koj tu tub puas muaj siab ntsws...yog nws muaj tub ki nws puas nug koj tu tub...nws poob noob lawm nws thiaj li nug moo xwb...koj tu tub ces zoo li tawb quav uas nws tso pov tseg xwb na...yog koj tu tub hlub koj ces nws tsis tos tuaj li nawb...thaum neb 2 niam tub yuav tuag nws puas hlub neb.
Mi viv ncaus aw tam sim no ces hais txog txoj kev li koj tus mi ntxhais ko ces txhob hais txog yuav zoo dua lawm os mog. Lub ntiaj teb no ces pauv tag lawm os mog. Tsis yog koj xwb muaj coob2 heev os mog. Kavliam lawm xwb os mog.
Nyob zoo os muam Pajxyoob koj tus hluas nraug tsis yog neeg zoo txhob pub tos nws tuaj rau Meskas li yog nws tau lub neej zoo lawm ces nws yeej tsis lees paub koj tus me tub kiag txhob xav txog nws lawm os. 5. 7. 24.
Hos hais txog tus txiv neej khaum noob no ces tsis yeem pub koj tus tub tos nws tuaj kiag nawv yog tseem cia tos nws tuaj thiab ces pauj tsis tau koj txoj mi kev nyob nruab hlis es tsis muaj tus txiv los nrog tu kiag li nawv yus yeej lawm ces cia yeej txhob ua niag hle ris zuj zuav li koj ko nawv yog koj cia koj tus tub tos nws tuaj thiab ces koj swb kiag thaum pib txog thaum xaus nawv tus mi poj hmoob aw.
Txhob tos nws txiv tuaj yim nyob teb chaws no yog tsis muaj txoj sia lawm ces yuav tag nyiaj ntau ntau thiab twb tsis tu thaum me thaum pog muaj neej zoo ces mam hlub xwb ces tsum
To the Q#2. Tsi txhob to tu txiv pob zeb tuaj meskas teb tug neeg siab phem no tsi txhob k txog nws yog nws muaj tau me nyuam ces neb ob niam tub nws twb tsi k xav paub tia koj tu tub yog nws tu me nyuam li os.
Tsis Tos li os Kom me nyuam hais rau Tias thaum tus menyuam tuaj yeej teev tsis muaj nws es Tos tsis tau no xwb mas thaum yus txom nyem lawv twb tsis pawb yus na tseem Tos tuaj ua dab tsi
Me niam tais kuv zoo siab tias koj muaj 2 tus ntxhais yuav los hlub koj xwb os mog. Es koj yuav tsum txaus siab rau nws yam nws xav tau mog ib tiam neeg xwb yam nws txaus siab cia rau nwb thiaj xav ua neeg mos.
Txhob tos niag txiv dev npam ntawv tuaj ua rau nej cov niam tub tseem sib ceg. Tuaj ces nej tseem yuav tau tam niag txiv dev thiab ov. Vim nws tsua paub nej xwb nes. Cia txiv dev tuag rhab ceg kug Tim nplog. Yog nws lub neej ci tsam iab ces nej txhob vam nws yuav nav nej nawb. Teebmeem twb tag lawm mas cia tag mus . nyias nyob nyias koj tsis tshuav nws nqi. Koj tus tub los niag txiv dev yeej tsis yuav thaum pib.. tam sim no ces yuav tuag ces yog tuaj kaus xwb
The mom with the gay daughter. Please accept your child and the person she loves. These days it's normal. You should be happy that your child is happy. What you would rather have her marry a man and then be unhappy. I always tell everyone who you love doesn't bother me. If you're happy then that's all that matter.
Tus niam tsev paj xyoob, yog tias kuv yog koj no kuv tsis kam ov. Tus txiv neej ntawd yog nws yug muaj ib co ces nws twb tsis tig pob tw ncaj koj tus me tub lawm na. Twb vim nws khaum nws yug tsis muaj ib tug nws thiaj ua txuj tuaj lees koj tus xwb. Yus yog leej niam yus yuav tsum tiv thaiv yus tus me nyuam tsis txhob tso rau luag teb luag chaws txiav txim. Yog koj cia luag teb chaws txiav txim ces koj yuav yuam kev. Koj twb muab koj tus tub tsa cuab tsa yim tag es koj tseem cia tos niag thaub ntawd tuaj noj koj tus me nyuam zog tuaj ua teeb meem rau koj tus me nyuam ris. Ua zoo tsam lwm hnub koj tus me txiv hlub hlub koj ntawm ko muab koj tso pov tseg los vim yog koj niag hluas nraug siab phem ntawd rov tuaj ua mob koj tus txiv siab nawb. Yog koj cia tos tuaj ces yeej yuav muaj kev ntxhov siab ib hnub twg xwb xwb. Vim koj yeej yuav txiav tsis tau koj tus tub koj pheej yuav mus ntoj mus thuv ces koj tus txiv yuav mob siab. Nws twb rhuav koj ib zaug lawm koj tsis tu siab los cas koj tseem yuav cia tus me nyuam tos nws tuaj rhuav koj dua zaum 2 thiab. Koj niam koj txiv lawv nyob tim ub lawv tseem ruam li cov niag thaum ub koj twb tuaj nyob meskas lawm koj tseem mloog lawv hais thiab ces koj tseem yuav plam koj lub neej ziag no ntxiv dua nawb. Niag thaub mtawd tuaj teb chaws no ua dab tsi naw? Tsis yog tuaj yuav koj ces tsis muaj qab hau rau nws tuaj li os. Kuv hais li kuv kev xam pom xwb
Peb ua ib tus ntxhais tsi txhob yooj yim mog luag lam so ko taw es zoo ua neej nyob xwb...Txiv neej mas yog lawv nyiam koj tiag tiag mas ua txhua tsav txhua yam rau yus li nawb cov poj niam hmoob aw.
Tog tuaj ces kiav txhab yuav rov nti ov. Yog tus tub hlub los xa kis puav nyiaj mus pab xwb, luag twb yeem muab yus tso tseg ces yuav yuav tsum tso taus luag tseg thiab nawb.
Yus tsis yog neeg phem yus tsis tshuav hluag nqi. Tsis pab los tsis ua cas. Nws twb saib tsis tau yus. I hate how hmong people can be bought out by money so easily. I would of turned him down from paying to reinstating his relationship that he cut off from the beginning. I hate how everyones like “its his son”… f that. Everyone treat it like its a play thing. He can be dad one day and pay to not be then pay to be again….you have to learn to put your foot down if you want some respect. Yus tsis yog neeg phem tabsi you ntse los yus ruam xwb.
Don't let your son bring his deadbeat father here to stay. The bio father and his wife will become your son's burden! Leave them living in Laos and your son can just occasionally send his rotten father a little money. Remember, it's more expensive to live in America, and therefore, it will cost a LOT of money for your son to take care of his bio father in America----cheaper to just send a $100/mo in my opinion. Don't let your son make the kind of mistake that will result in regrets because he WILL end up slaving for a bio father who never even wanted you and him in the first place! Your son doesn't owe his bio father anything, but OWES YOU EVERYTHING (you allowed him to live and raised him by yourself) so you have every right to express your decisions to him!
To the mom with the gay daughter, it is better to accept her as is than to lose a relationship of a lifetime. Give yourself time. You lost the daughter that you dreamed of, and it is normal to mourn the change. Start practicing to live with acceptance. I wish you both the best!
I am so happy for my niece and her partner which’s her fiancé now and they’re getting married this fall. I’m super excited to attend and make new memories. I love her so much and still she’s my favorite’s’. You’re not alone. Think of all others parents that may have similar issues with their daughters or sons. Have the best relationship and time with her while you can and don’t hold anything back. Love her just way she is❤❤you both need each other!
I agree with this reply that the mother should accept her daughter’s lifestyle and be happy that she still has daughter.
To all the Hmong parents, why we keep blaming our daughters/sons, we should turn around and ask ourselves instead. Our children, gays/lesbians, have no choice to choose to be born. Can you?
@lueherr8007 they didn't choose to be born gender but they choose to be gay
@@lueherr8007men are born to like and be attracted to pretty women, does that mean they can go around committing adultery and marry multiple women? They are born that way aren’t they?
Love is love. Is a pill hard to swallow for older generations but you gonna have to accept if you love your daughter care about her happiness.
To the mother: it’s not your life, it’s your daughter’s life. Accept what you can’t control. Don’t stress yourself out. Life is much better when you accept and embrace change. Support and love your daughter.
No. Do not let your son do it. He has no kids besides your son. That means when he die, its all on your son. Be smart about it.
No, don’t let him come.
Agree
Story 1.. just accept your daughter decision. Just love them whether you approve or not. You dont want to ruin your relationship with your daughter just cause you dont approve of her choice. At the end of the day, she is still your daughter. Love and respect her partner like you would have done if it's a guy. You are gonna get a lot of love return from them if u just accept, and you are gonna be a lot happier, too. You dont want to create a bad relationship just cause of that. If your daughter is happy, then be happy for her. We as parents want our children to be happy in whatever they choose and do, so they want to live long with us and not put stress or guilt on them. I really hope that you can accept her and her partner and build a new relationship with them, then lose them .
To the sister of the story. Do not bring him over! It would be a big mistake. Don’t have a soft spot for this man that abandoned you and your son. Now that your son benefits him he sees your son. Don’t bring stress to your son’s life.
#2 story txhob tos tuaj nawb nws rov yuav kj tus tub vim nws tsi muaj lawm xwb,yog nws muaj ces nws twb tsi k txg neb ib niam tub lawm os
Agree do not bring this man to USA. Your son can visit him in Laos 🇱🇦.
fr...let him live with his karma
To the mom: love and accept your daughter and her lover. Don't judge them and don't hate them. Consider you gaining a daughter too. I'm sure they will give you lots of love in return. Txhob xav lub siab qub2 xyoo 75 lawm. Tiam 21 lawm es peb cov laus yuav tau hloov thiab nawb mog. Tsam lawv khiav tag ces koj haj yam mob siab kho siab nawb. Txhob txiav kev hlub tsam lawv tuag ces koj ho khuv xim ces lig2.
Raws li peb cov tuaj mloog koj zaj neej neeg mas qhov zoo tshaj rau koj thiab koj tus me tub ces txhob tos niag pob zeb siab phem ntawd tuaj rau tebchaws no cia nws nyob nws tim nplog thiab txhob cia tus me nyuam ris nws txiv lub xeem lawm.
Yav tas ces cia dhau mus tsis txhob muab rub rov qab los rau tagkis nws tsis muaj tus nuj nqis dabtsi zoo rau koj thiab koj tus tub neb lawm, yog tsis muaj koj tus txiv Hmoob mékas no los rub neb ob niam tub tes ces neb twb tsis muaj lub neej li hnub no yog yuav hlub ces hlub tus muaj txiaj ntsim rau yus xwb thiaj li tsis muaj txojkev khaum kev npam.
Yav tas los lawm ces cia muab hnov qab mus nej thiab peb sawvdaws yeej paub zoo hmoob nplog lub maib yuav ua li cas thiaj tau noj ? Yam twg uas luag tau ua mob koj los lawm tsis txhob ua lub siab muag rau lawv tej lus mos lus muag yuav dag ntxias koj vim koj txojkev ruam thiaj li qaug lawv quav zaum tas zaum tuaj mas lawv muab koj saib qis dhau lawm.
Peb ua neeg nyob yus tsuas ua zoo rau tus hlub yus xwb, tus ua phem rau yus los dua lawm cia khaws tseg ua kev kawm kom yus ntse tuaj tsis txhob ruam li qub lawm.
Sister, it is better to accept her than losing her forever. It is good to see and be happy for her. You can not change the facts that she is the way she is. So sorry, sister. Life is full of surprises nowadays, you just have to change and accept it with time.
A mother's true love is wholeheartedly accept of her child for who they are. Despite her being gay, she is a wonderful person with a successful career. ❤
Sister Jenny, if you're going to start doing a question time with people's questions, can you please do a separate channel like Mab Vaj has? I just want to listen to stories. If I want to listen to questions, I'd rather listen and answer on a separate channel. I also think the story owners may appreciate this too.
If u don’t like just skip. Let Jenny do what’s easier and convenient for her!
@@hthor1825 that's fine and all but I thought if you skip then the channel owner doesn't get paid. That's my understanding. That's why I'd rather have her do another channel so I don't have to skip. So DO YOU KNOW or not? Tell me please!
Is Pob Zeb visiting or staying? It's not easy to bring someone like him here as he's a liability. It doesn't sound like any of you is closed to him so I'd say NO. Please update us if he comes to the US, relationship of him & your son.
Exactly!
Just love and support your daughter and live life. There is nothing you can do about it and just take care your health once you accept that then your in better health and less stress.
To the mom with the daughter at the beginning of the story: Times have changed. Our traditional way of thinking is not always right. Keep the good things of our culture and let go of the bad. As a parent, what is most important for me is to know that my child is happy and healthy regardless of their sexual preference. A daughter-in-law can give you just as much love (if not more) as a son in law. I feel that once you accept the situation of your daughter, you too can find happiness and solace within yourself. Good luck. Wish you and your family nothing but the best.
To the Mom in the story: what you went through at such a young age is so sad and traumatizing. You have every right to feel the way that you do. One can forgive but can never forget. Allow your son to have a relationship with his dad BUT I personally would not help bring him over. People who are ungrateful will always be ungrateful and it is these kinds of people that you want to stay clear of. They do more harm than good.
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Naim tais aw, peb nyob mekas teb no kawm, koj tsis txhais koj tus txhias,ces koj yeej tsis pom koj tus txhias tag mus ib txhim lawm os mog..tsis muaj ib leej tug yuav xav yug los zoo li koj tus txhias os mog, lub ntuj tso nws los lub siab nyiam li nws nyiam os mog, koj ua naim lawm,ua siab ntev ,kav tsij ua ib leej naim kom zoo rau koj tus txhias es koj los nej tsev neeg thaij li muaj kev kajsiab os mog.
Tsis pom zoo tos nawb siab phem li ntawv cia nws mob siab kom txaus
Please except your daughter 100%. Life is too short and you wouldn't want any regrets. A child wants nothing more than the love of their parents. The love you give will be the love you receive, but 100 times that.
Love the comments. It's what we are here for. 🙂.
Topic 1: Partner Preference - I think, intimacy in love is not really a choice but can be impacted by environment. It is a natural gravitation that reside deep within a person and most know this by adolescent age. To hold relationships better, parents should openly talk about it when children start becoming aware of serious friendships. It is the first sign that they are showing deeper friendship relations and may be ready for the decision and understanding. Talk to each other and don't assume. Knowing and accepting is the first step to a wonderful relationship into the future.
Topic 2: Emojis or the proper us of them - yes, please use the correct ones. Using the wrong one can send the wrong impression and can confuse the reader. Remember, you want people to understand you, so clear and accurate. Take a little to make sure that it is really what you want to display, and the little time taken could also be a great way for you gain more insight into your own thoughts. 🙂
On the main story, please be respectful of unfortunate natural causes. Somethings we can predict or prepare for. These are the real tragedies and compassion should be given.
Zoo siab nrog koj thiab zam txim vim thaum ntawd ob leeg yeej zoo siab ib yam nkauj tsi muaj dabtsi los pauv tau li ces zam txim thiab cia lawv tig los sib hlub thiab es yeej yog nws li kab lawm thiab os tus niam tsev hmoob...Txaj muag tsi txaj los twb txaj muag tag thaum ub lawm ces cia rau nws thiab tus tub nkawv rov los sib hlub thiab zoo os.
Question 1: Txhob txhawj xeeb os tus niam tais. Hlub koj tus kheej. Tiam no yog 21 lawm. Qhib koj lub siab es txais tos koj tus ntxhais thiab nws tus hlub. Teb zaum, koj tus ntxhais thiab nws tus hlub yuav hlub koj tshaj thiab los tsis paub nawb. Xav hais tias koj tau ib tug ntxhais ntxiv lawm xwb. Tsis txhob txaj muag. Yeej muaj tub ntxhais zoo li kom tam sim no lawm los yog lawv zoo siab ces nrog lawv zoo siab xwb. Cia lawv nrhiav tus lawv nyiam es ua neej thiaj sib hlub, zoo dua mus yuav txiv tabsis tsis sib hlub, sib cav sib ceg, sib ntaus txhua hnub. Tsis txhob muab xav ntau ntau, ua rau koj muaj mob. Muaj mob ces tsis muaj leegtwg xav saib xyuas, tuag ces kawg pam peb hnub xwb. Peb txhua tus, ua neeg nyob txoj sia tseem ceeb heev, yuav tau hlub tus kheej. Koj tus ntxhais rov yuav ib tug poj niam twb tsis yog ib qhov phem phem thiab. Yog tias yam phem phem ma, thiaj tsim nyog chim os.
Tsis txhob tos tuaj nawb. Tsis zoo rau Koj o
Tus me viv ncaus ntawm zaj lus nug. Yog koj hlub koj tus me ntxhais ces kawg zoo siab txais tos li koj tus me ntxhais nyiam xwb os mog. Zoo dua li tsis muaj yus tus me nyuam lawm nawb. Lub neej niam no ces peb yuav tau hloov mus yoog tej me nyuam tsis txhob txaj muag li twb tsis yog yus tus me nyuam ib leeg thiaj nyiam li ntawd xwb muab xav rau cov nyiam li ntawd thiab es zoo nrog koj tus me ntxhais os nawb.
Cov Ua neej tuaj qaum tsag Mas thumbs thauj khoom es nqa nce toj Mas sab kawg li o
Cov me kwv tij hmoob me niam tsev aw ua neej tiam no ces xav tsis nrog xav yog koj xav ntau thiab ntshaw ntau ces koj mob strok koj tus kheej xwb koj yuav tsum hlub koj tsis tas li los koj yuav tsum muaj plan 1 2 and 3 for your life live in the United States no nawv peb cov niam txiv tiam tam sis no nawv tus niam tsev aw nco ntsoov kom koj tau burger no xwb mas nawv txhob txhawj22 txog tej niag me nyuam uas kawm txawj xwb tsis ntshe no nawv. Tos kuv hais li no los txij thaum xyoo 2000 los no ces kev khaum ces ua hnub no khaum hnub no tsis tos lwm tiag lawm nawv.kuv zaj lus no hais rau tus niam tsev muaj ntxhais poj niam yuav poj niam nawv.
Tus viv ncaus ua muaj tus ntxhais nyiam poj niam, siab loj thiab os mog. Kuv Los muaj ib tug ntxhais nyiam poj niam li koj tus thiab, kuv paub koj txoj kev xav, kev nyuam siab li cas lawm. Taum is kuv tus qhias rau peb li 5 xyoo dhaus los kuv kuj laj txhais kawg tabsi koj yuav tau xav li no. Lub neej no yog nws lub, nws muaj kev xaiv tus nws hlub nws nyiab, koj yeej xav kom nws muaj neej mus yuav txiv muaj xeeb tswv rau koj tabsi nws tsis xav li ntawv. Yog koj hlub koj yus me nyuam ces koj yuav tsum xav kev dav tsuas yog koj tus me myuam muaj kev sib hlub kev zoo siab kev kaj siab xwb. Nws nyiam poj niam xwb zoo dua ua yus tus me nyuam tuag no. Qib koj lub siab txhais tom ces koj yuav tsis muaj qhov xav cim/tsis txhais tos li lawm, xav thiab nws lub neej xwb tsis yog koj lub. Kuv tus ntxhais nas, twb tsis qhias lossi invite peb mus rau nws lub wedding tos peb paub ces twb sib yuav tas lawm xwb. Siab loj thiab os mog.
#2. Cia drama nyob drama tim blog. Txhob tos drama tuaj meskas.
Yuav txiv neej los txiv neej twb hlub tsis kawg, peb yeej tseem tau ua pojnrauj kawg
Yog hloov pauv tau yog tig tau lub sijhawm rov ntshe yuav tig rov mus hloov dua tshiab 😢
#1 if you surely love your daughter let her be happy. Her happiness is more important than your shame plus you shouldn’t be a shame you should think about your ignorance.
Tsi pom zoo tos, txhob tos nawb yog nws yuav koj es sib. Rauj xwb ces tos mas tab si nws yog hluas nraug xwb ces tsi txhob tos😊
Q:1 niam tais koj txhob tu siab mog koj yuav tsum lees txais xwb nawb txhob txaj muag mog peb txhuas tus ntias yeej muaj ib tug zoo li koj tus ntxhais nyob hauv peb tsev neeg mog.. kuv tus nus los twb yog ib tug thiab os...
Txhob pub tos tuaj os tus me viv ncaus
I’m glad you guys make them to apologize 👍
Topic #2: Some people especially oversea people use the laughing emoji as a crying emoji. Why? Idk but they do. They use it to show how realistically ugly you look when you cry with your mouth looking like that.
Tais aw.. tsis pom zoo tos li nawb
To the mom it’s better to accept than losing your daughter. Is not like she’s a bad person she found love. She’s done everything you have asked her to do now she found love accept her love.
Why is emoji matter lol. We have better things to worry about. lol
Story: let your son decide. If he wants to let him. Your ex boyfriend already got his karma. Be the better person and let your son decide.
God had created a man and a woman to be married in order to create new generations in this world. But today’s children and society are behaving more and more like animals including same sex marriages. It is sad but it is a fact. As parents we are disappointed and very shameful because what they do does affect the parents in many ways. But to the children, all they want is the free will to behave in any way they want including same sex marriage. In 50 years, the lives of humans will change even more and likely worst than we could ever imagine.
I agree with the Emoji issues!!! Some people shouldn't be using it, if they don't know what the emoji stands for! 🤦🏻♀️
Nws muaj mob li ntawd lawm yog tos tuaj ces koj tus tub nyab yuav haj yam poob nyiaj ntau xwb thiab muab tos tuaj tsam nws tau zoo ces nws tsi yog tuaj nyob zoo nws yuav rhuav nej cov neej es qhov zoo tshaj ces cia nws txiv nyob tim ub es yus muaj li cas yus mam hlub li ntawd xwb txhob muab hlub tshaj tshaj ua li luag hais yug nab tsam lwm hnub hnav loj nab rov tom yus os es txhob pub tos tuaj vim twb tsi lees paub thiab twb tsi hlub neb ob niam tub cia nws nyob nws tim ub es tub nyab muaj li cas lis hlub li yus hlub tau xwb mog
Sister txhob xav ntau os lub neej Tam si no peb ua niam ua txiv txwv tsis tau tej me nyuam lawm cia lawv xaiv tus lawv nyiam xwb thiaj xwb txawm yuav yog poj niam txiv neej los zoo siab nrog lawv lawm xwb os mog ❤
To the mother, just accept ur daughter as is because if u don’t then she going to leave u n go far away from u. Just to let u know my sister have one daughter is a police n she is the same as ur daughter n my brother-in-law is not but our whole family tell him to accept it n they going to get married this October. So u r not alone sister….
Tus muam zaj thib 1 na. Koj thiab koj tsev neeg tseem poob qab deb os. Koj nyuam qhuav muaj Ntxhais es rov qam nyiam poj niam tam sim no xwb? Peb twb muaj tub rov qab nyiam txiv neej hos Ntxhais rov qab nyiam poj niam twb yuav tau 20 lub xyoo los ni lawm os. Ua siab loj, nov yog tiam 21 txheeb neeg lawm. Tus muam uas zaj thib 2. Muaj ib txhia twb tsis yog lawv tso lub emoji xwb hos lawv thaij duab in front kiag ntawm lub hleb thaum tseem nyob hauv tsev txias lawv tseem luag rua ncauj loj li loj na. Yeej tsis thwj toob li lawm vim yus tus neeg tuag dai ncuv tab sis thaij duab mas di ncauj tsis vov hniav li. Sorry no comment for the 3rd story but just don’t mess around with peb cov muam thiab Ntxhais Hmoob Thoj ntxiv lawm nawb.
Me viv ncaus, ua zoo hais koj txoj kev txom nyem ntawm mom kaum tsev rau koj tus tub mloog. Yog koj tus tub hlub koj ces txhob tos koj niag laus nraug Pob Zeb tuaj rau teb chats no lawm. Nws tsim koj ib zaug txaus lawm, tsis pub muaj zaum 2 no los mas. Oh Ntuj, yeej muaj qhov muag tiag. Pob zeb, siab them, thiaj raug ntuj lem lawn nawj.
To the mother who has a son that she worries about her son brining his dad to the States. Don’t let your son bring his dad and his wife to the states. It will only cause you more drama and stress. Especially when your son will have to take care of his dad later on in life. Let them find someone else to bring them to the States.
Tus txiv pob zeb mas tsi Tsim nyog tos tuaj rau teb chaws mekas. Nws siab phem dlau heev. Yog nws yog ib tus txivneej hlub poj niam, nws yeej tsi cia tus niam tsev yug me nyuam nws ib leeg. Kuv Thov qhuas tus me niam tsev muaj Pheev xwm heev. Ua tsaug rau koj txoj Kev hlub rau koj tus me nyuam os. Hlub koj Tshaj os..
First question: It sucks to you but her happiness comes first. You don't have to accept it but just don't disrespect her. Just know that this country is freedom so they can choose to love whoever they want. Just make sure they respect you not liking it and don't display affection in front of you in case you end up in the hospital again. In the end, it's her life bc you won't be with her forever. And also rest assured not all marriages last forever...it's something I have to accept as well. Maybe later she might change her mind and go back to a man. Not all marriages (man or woman) last forever li os even with kids or even when you think your life is complete. Txhob muab xav rau qhov phem es tiaj tsis nyuaj siab os. And don't worry too much about her take better care of yourself.
Second question: No I do not agree that he deserves to come to America. Now he is worried about old age so he need your son and nyab to take care of him. But did he take care of your son when he was a new born? If he wants to come then have his relatives in America bring him over. Since they were so cocky. If not then your son don't owe him anything. Your son can love him but he have to find a way to come himself. That's only fair to how he treated you and your son.
Sister, kuv los kuv twb tsis paub yuav ua li cas rau kuv tus daughter thiab os. Same situation like your daughter to. 😢
Seb koj puas xav ntsib nws thiab, yog xav ces yes, hos tsis xav ces no xwb, yog kuv nas.
Second story: don’t let ur son sponsor him over. He doesn’t deserve it. It’s good enough what he’s getting now. I wouldn’t have given him anything!
Lawv twb tsis yuav Koj thaum koj txom nyiam thiab twb kho tas lawm ces cia tas mus. Nyiam ua nyiam neej zoo dua mas. Yog Nws zoo ces Nws twb tsis tig rov saib neb 2 niam tub lawm os.
Lub ntsej muag tas lauv uas ua 2 lub kua muag luag luag ko ces feem ntau yog Hmoob Nplog/ Hmoob Thaib lawv siv, ib txhia yog cov Hmoob Meskas feem laus siv yuam kev ntau2 zaus kawg. Kuv ntseeg tias lawv tsis ua zoo siab los sis tsis paub.
The wronged laughing in tears emoji is mostly misused by Hmong Laos/Hmong Thai and older Hmong Meskas folks. I agreed with the niam tsev suggesting that it doesn't look good putting the wronged emoji in a sad msg.
Viv ncaus pab koj zoo siab kawg npam koj tus hluas nraug loj kawg vim nws saib tsis taus koj nes cov txiv neej siab phem ntau tus yeej npam li koj kawg nrog koj zoo siab os
Tsis pub hlo li os thaum tus me nyuam tseem yog lub dej txog ncua muaj 7,8 lub xyoo nws twb tsis lees txog ncua thaum nws lub neej tsis zoo. hnub no tseem paub tias yuav vam tus me nyuam hlub thiab.tsis pub li os.
Sis, if you need to talk, let me know. I am a parent with the same situation. I support my child all the way we have to learn that no matter what their still our child regardless whatever.
You can still love your daughter without supporting your daughter’s perverted sexual acts. Remember that just bc a Dr or a large group of people is doing something, it doesn’t automatically make it right. Doctors are just as sinful as anyone else.
Sister do not let your son and daughter in law bring him to USA. He didn’t want you acknowledge your son from the beginning and his parents came around knowing that son moving to meka. It’s not true love, it’s pity & fake to come only. If your son brings his dad to USA - your son is responsible for him financially and medically until he gets the green card. He will live with your son, there will tensions in his relationships with his wife. No no no is my answer.
No no no tsis pub tos me ntxhais nws yuav tuaj nws mam ntiav nws lwm txoj kev tuaj xwb os ua phem li ntawv yog tuaj nyob ib lub teb chaw yeej muaj ib zaug ntsib pom li os nyias nyob nyias ib sab ntuj thiaj tsis sib pom
Yog kuv mas kuv tsis pom zoo cia kuv tus menyuam tos li os..kuv xav mas tsis kam kiag li os
Peb cov mi nyuam uas tuaj yug rau Mekas no ces lam kawm ntawv siab2 tiamsis lawv lub hlwb cia yoog Mekas, xav li Mekas, cia li ua lub neej ywj siab, ....tibneeg lam ntshaw2 ua lub neej ywj siab xwb, Vajtswv yawm saib tsis pom zoo li tibneeg nyiam, txawm tias noob neej yuav ua ntau yam Kev phem los Vajtswv yuav rau txim vim Vajtswv tsuas tsim Tus pojniam rau txiv neej xwb,,,pojniam yuav pojniam txiv neej, tsis kav ntev, plaub qaib yeej tsis ciaj ncaig.
To the mother with the daughter: there’s nothing u can do but to accept it. I know it’s a very hard thing to do because I also have one child that’s like that. If you don’t learn to accept it, you will lose your daughter and you will be the one hurting. She is old enough and successful enough that she doesn’t need u anymore.
Told your son to stay away from that good for nothing father.
Kav Liam mas me niam tsev hmoob! Cia koj tus tub Kaus tos nws tuaj saib nws puas xaam phaj tuaj tau os.
Q#1. You have to accept your child the way she is. My brother he told my parents he is gay and he has boyfriend my parents felt the same way but we told my parents is his future let him be and give him loves. Now my parents accepted we still love ours brother and his boyfriend. They married for 10 years and still together now. Loves them she is your child
Teb #1: koj nyaim thiab tsi nyiam los yuav tau leej txais. Koj yuas hloov tsi tau nws lub siab os. Yee ua tau ces nws yuav khia koj mus. Yee ua ntau ib tsa nws nyuaj siab es mu tua nws tu kheej. Thau ntawd koj hos ua quaj thiab khuv xi os....
Q#1. Tus sister, it’s very hard for us as parents to accept what your daughter is doing. However, in these days and society, it’s the norm. We don’t like it but we will have to accept it because it’s a fact. Kuv yeej paub tias yeej nyuab2 rau koj kawg li mog tab sis peb yug tau lub cev peb yug tsis tau lawv lub siab thiab txoj kev xaiv. Yog li koj chim siab npaum twg los learn to let go on. The most important thing is your health and well being. Tsis yog koj tus ntxhais xwb thiab li xsiv txoj kev no. Ntawm peb cov hmoob yeej muaj coob leej ntaus tus yog li no ua siab loj es hlub koj tus kheej nawb. Txhob xav txog kev txaj muag poob ntsej myag. Xav thiab hlub koj tus kheej kom noj qab nyob zoo xwb vim we only live once. Let go of things we can’t control.
Koj niam aw.. sij hawm no ces peb tsis paub ua li cas li os kav tsij lees txais xwb os mog
Thov hais rau tus niam tsev tus me ntxhais Yog gay. Thov zam zam rau koj tus me ntxhais os. Thov koj txais nws tus hlub nrog rau koj tus me ntxhais. Koj tus ntxhais neb lub neej tseem ntev2 os. Sib2 hlub os sib hawm luv2 os.
TSIS TXHOB TOS OS.
Tsis tos li vim nws tuaj ces neb laj sib ntias
For question 1, it was not your daughters choice to be a lesbian. People don't know that gay people and the LGBT people don't even want to be different but they were born like that. It's not like it's a choice where they can choose to be gay or not he gay. So just accept your daughter cause she cannot change. For example like doing drugs you can choose to do that but for being gay you can't choose it is chosen for you.
Rau tus vivncaus tus ntxhais mus yuav ib tug pojniam: yeej tsis tsim nyog peb cov menyuam ua li no…kavliam os mog tsis kav ntev os…lawv uali lawv siab nyiam xwb, as a mother just love and take care yourself don’t worry about them…one day they will realize how wrong they have been
Txhob to tuaj ntshe yuav zoo dua vim trauma sib twb g paub yu lu trauma kawg nw g muaj chaw ny law ce ma Lee's paub xwb tu neeg no siab phem hee yog nw muaj men yuav ntshe nw twb g Lee's paub kj tu tub li
Tsis tas tos nws tuaj li os,tseem tos nws tuaj ua leg ua dab tsi.
#2....koj tu tub puas yog neeg...koj tu tub puas muaj siab ntsws...yog nws muaj tub ki nws puas nug koj tu tub...nws poob noob lawm nws thiaj li nug moo xwb...koj tu tub ces zoo li tawb quav uas nws tso pov tseg xwb na...yog koj tu tub hlub koj ces nws tsis tos tuaj li nawb...thaum neb 2 niam tub yuav tuag nws puas hlub neb.
Mi viv ncaus aw tam sim no ces hais txog txoj kev li koj tus mi ntxhais ko ces txhob hais txog yuav zoo dua lawm os mog. Lub ntiaj teb no ces pauv tag lawm os mog. Tsis yog koj xwb muaj coob2 heev os mog. Kavliam lawm xwb os mog.
Nyob zoo os muam Pajxyoob koj tus hluas nraug tsis yog neeg zoo txhob pub tos nws tuaj rau Meskas li yog nws tau lub neej zoo lawm ces nws yeej tsis lees paub koj tus me tub kiag txhob xav txog nws lawm os. 5. 7. 24.
Hos hais txog tus txiv neej khaum noob no ces tsis yeem pub koj tus tub tos nws tuaj kiag nawv yog tseem cia tos nws tuaj thiab ces pauj tsis tau koj txoj mi kev nyob nruab hlis es tsis muaj tus txiv los nrog tu kiag li nawv yus yeej lawm ces cia yeej txhob ua niag hle ris zuj zuav li koj ko nawv yog koj cia koj tus tub tos nws tuaj thiab ces koj swb kiag thaum pib txog thaum xaus nawv tus mi poj hmoob aw.
Rau kuv ces txhob tos nawb
Tej laus hais tias, yug dev rog dev tom yus ntog
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Tsis pom zoo tus Pobzeb tuaj Mekas.
Txhob tos nws txiv tuaj yim nyob teb chaws no yog tsis muaj txoj sia lawm ces yuav tag nyiaj ntau ntau thiab twb tsis tu thaum me thaum pog muaj neej zoo ces mam hlub xwb ces tsum
To the Q#2. Tsi txhob to tu txiv pob zeb tuaj meskas teb tug neeg siab phem no tsi txhob k txog nws yog nws muaj tau me nyuam ces neb ob niam tub nws twb tsi k xav paub tia koj tu tub yog nws tu me nyuam li os.
Tsis Tos li os Kom me nyuam hais rau Tias thaum tus menyuam tuaj yeej teev tsis muaj nws es Tos tsis tau no xwb mas thaum yus txom nyem lawv twb tsis pawb yus na tseem Tos tuaj ua dab tsi
Me niam tais kuv zoo siab tias koj muaj 2 tus ntxhais yuav los hlub koj xwb os mog. Es koj yuav tsum txaus siab rau nws yam nws xav tau mog ib tiam neeg xwb yam nws txaus siab cia rau nwb thiaj xav ua neeg mos.
Number 1. Koj tsis tau vauv los twb tau 2 tug ntxhais lawm ne.
Txhob tos niag txiv dev npam ntawv tuaj ua rau nej cov niam tub tseem sib ceg. Tuaj ces nej tseem yuav tau tam niag txiv dev thiab ov. Vim nws tsua paub nej xwb nes. Cia txiv dev tuag rhab ceg kug Tim nplog. Yog nws lub neej ci tsam iab ces nej txhob vam nws yuav nav nej nawb.
Teebmeem twb tag lawm mas cia tag mus . nyias nyob nyias koj tsis tshuav nws nqi. Koj tus tub los niag txiv dev yeej tsis yuav thaum pib.. tam sim no ces yuav tuag ces yog tuaj kaus xwb
The mom with the gay daughter. Please accept your child and the person she loves. These days it's normal. You should be happy that your child is happy. What you would rather have her marry a man and then be unhappy. I always tell everyone who you love doesn't bother me. If you're happy then that's all that matter.
No don’t bring him over
Tus niam tsev paj xyoob, yog tias kuv yog koj no kuv tsis kam ov. Tus txiv neej ntawd yog nws yug muaj ib co ces nws twb tsis tig pob tw ncaj koj tus me tub lawm na. Twb vim nws khaum nws yug tsis muaj ib tug nws thiaj ua txuj tuaj lees koj tus xwb. Yus yog leej niam yus yuav tsum tiv thaiv yus tus me nyuam tsis txhob tso rau luag teb luag chaws txiav txim. Yog koj cia luag teb chaws txiav txim ces koj yuav yuam kev. Koj twb muab koj tus tub tsa cuab tsa yim tag es koj tseem cia tos niag thaub ntawd tuaj noj koj tus me nyuam zog tuaj ua teeb meem rau koj tus me nyuam ris. Ua zoo tsam lwm hnub koj tus me txiv hlub hlub koj ntawm ko muab koj tso pov tseg los vim yog koj niag hluas nraug siab phem ntawd rov tuaj ua mob koj tus txiv siab nawb. Yog koj cia tos tuaj ces yeej yuav muaj kev ntxhov siab ib hnub twg xwb xwb. Vim koj yeej yuav txiav tsis tau koj tus tub koj pheej yuav mus ntoj mus thuv ces koj tus txiv yuav mob siab. Nws twb rhuav koj ib zaug lawm koj tsis tu siab los cas koj tseem yuav cia tus me nyuam tos nws tuaj rhuav koj dua zaum 2 thiab. Koj niam koj txiv lawv nyob tim ub lawv tseem ruam li cov niag thaum ub koj twb tuaj nyob meskas lawm koj tseem mloog lawv hais thiab ces koj tseem yuav plam koj lub neej ziag no ntxiv dua nawb. Niag thaub mtawd tuaj teb chaws no ua dab tsi naw? Tsis yog tuaj yuav koj ces tsis muaj qab hau rau nws tuaj li os. Kuv hais li kuv kev xam pom xwb
Peb ua ib tus ntxhais tsi txhob yooj yim mog luag lam so ko taw es zoo ua neej nyob xwb...Txiv neej mas yog lawv nyiam koj tiag tiag mas ua txhua tsav txhua yam rau yus li nawb cov poj niam hmoob aw.
Thaum yau luag twb tsis lees tias yog luag tub,nim no yus tsis txhob lees los ua yus txiv & tsis txhob tos nkim nyiaj xwb os.
Glad karma got to him. Now he ain't Produce. Don't go back to the man who abandoned you. He doesn't deserve you.
Tog tuaj ces kiav txhab yuav rov nti ov. Yog tus tub hlub los xa kis puav nyiaj mus pab xwb, luag twb yeem muab yus tso tseg ces yuav yuav tsum tso taus luag tseg thiab nawb.
Yus tsis yog neeg phem yus tsis tshuav hluag nqi. Tsis pab los tsis ua cas. Nws twb saib tsis tau yus. I hate how hmong people can be bought out by money so easily. I would of turned him down from paying to reinstating his relationship that he cut off from the beginning. I hate how everyones like “its his son”… f that. Everyone treat it like its a play thing. He can be dad one day and pay to not be then pay to be again….you have to learn to put your foot down if you want some respect. Yus tsis yog neeg phem tabsi you ntse los yus ruam xwb.
Nope!!Something wrong with these youngsters today!!
Tiam tshiab no law ce g ua ca tub ntxhai lo yeej sib yuav law g yog hmoob xwb lwm haiv neeg lo yeej sib yuav law
Txhob tos tus neeg zoo li ntawd tuaj os vim nws yeej ua tsis tau dab tsi zoo rau koj tus me tub