She Took You For Granted And Now She Regrets It
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
- She took you for granted and dumped you and now she regrets it and wants you back. So what are you gonna do?
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“She don’t even want you back, she just misses the attention” 💯
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Well it means she misses only part of you. But its still not worth it.
The only way she doesn't 'really' want you back is of she lost respect for you at some earlier point in the relationship, for whatever reason, regardless of whether the reason was valid one. If you treated her well and you weren't a simp, she likely does 'really' want you back. Now, whether she has the virtue and the relationship skills to be a good girlfriend is a different conversation.
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facts bro, raw truth
Great message!Bottom line:she doesn't value you,or appreciate you,move on to someone who will.I'm in this position now.Not a break -up for me,but I liked a girl a lot,and she knew it.Same principle.If she doesn't like you back,that's her decision,and her loss.
They told me..”This is why I ain’t fukkin with you no more!” Ice cold!! Naturally, I tried to stay in my Step-daughters life but finally woke up and said fuck them too… Now I moved on, don’t bother to look at NONE of her social media (WatsApp). Mind you, for years she never bothered to look at my statuses.. Now after 2 months of me not even breathing on her side of country, every day she checks my status. Yeap, she sees I’ve moved on. Not a jealous tactic, I did the same with her.. Oh well, now your replacement is getting the attention.
It just better to cut your losses all together. Giving her another chance is like handing her a gun with an additional bullet in it in a game of Russian Roulette.
I concur. Second chances rarely work...I'm living proof.
Oh she can get a second chance alright....a second chance at deez.
Thank you for this
Totally agree. I had that. Walk away yup.
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ignore her 100% no smashing no talking or anything, it's s a life sentence! what'll happen is she'll regret that decision for the rest of her life
Real Spill 💯 & get a woman that's better than her in every aspect. She'll be getting ran thru crying herself to sleep every night when you do that
Right on
Last year I went through a break up.
Your videos helped me a lot.
Months later, I find out she’s getting used by other guys for stuff, obsessed with validation and dopamine.
I dodged a huge bullet with her, I’m glad it didn’t work.
Thank you for helping me Shaun.
No problem bro
Fantastic video bro. NEVER take a woman back. EVER. It is impossible.
If she’s had another man in her, that woman should be dead to you. If she spent more than 2 weeks away from you, no matter what she says, she had another man inside. That woman will never EVER EVER be yours EVER after that point. There is no transience.
These women make the world they live in harsh and cold, and they treat others exactly as that. Let them live in the world they’ve created.
Absolutely
Well said and all 100% true.
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Your pfp is link which he travels and goes through anything to save that princess right? Idk seems contradictory to what you’re saying here.
I checked my ex gf's phone cuz she was acting weird for a few weeks, I told her I needed to make a phone call and asked for her phone, pulled up to a gas station, and went into the men's restrooms so I could peep through her phone with no problem, and Indeed she was cheating, texting inappropriately to multiple guys, doing lot a crazy shit behind my back and hiding stuff from me (completely attention whore), I caught her and not gonna lie I was hurt, basically my "my princess" turned out to be the biggest 304 on tha city, but I had the balls to cut her off right there immediately, went back to her and told her to explain herself, she backlashed at me and tried to manipulate me saying that why I was checking her phone and blah blah, just trying to turn the tables off and trying to manipulate me, told her to get tf out my car, she blocked me from everywhere as soon as she stepped out of my car, cause she didn't want to face the consequences of her acts, so she blocked me everywhere right away.
One week later, she unblocks me from Instagram and reaches out to me, saying that she was so sorry, she had everything with me and that she loved me, she did wrong and blah blah blah, I just told "It's over shawty, FOREVER and please don't reach out again" and gave her the deuces, then she blocked me again from everywhere.
Went fucking ghost mode for a few months, and started fucking grinding, hitting the gym, working on my projects, getting myself right, my money up, going out and networking, treating myself right, looking good and just straight fucking grinding and living my best life.
Just few days ago, I noticed she unblocked me again cause I saw her stalking my socials, and she started watching my stories, her profile since we broke up, looks now straight up like she boutta open up an Only fans lol (straight up 304). She even started following new friends I met recently in the music scene, since that's what I do (how tf she knows what people I'm meeting??? and she follows them on IG just to see what I'm up to, and to see what I be doing, the stalking IS CRAZY), at this point I said, "aight" and blocked her off myself cause I don't wanna pay no mind to this 304.
Guys, they be watching I swear, they wanna see if you fail, to make themselves feel good and make sure they took the right decision, but I'm just starting lol, I'll be leveling up day by day, and I don't even do it to make her feel stupid (She is), but for MYSELF, cuz I love myself and I'm gonna win in life NO MATTER WHAT, and oh boy she gon be watching!!.
FOCUS ON YOURSELVES AND NEVER GIVE A FUCK ABOUT NO 304!!!
Good shit bro. I respect the grind. How old are you.
Respect bro!
You're right bro, a lot of women don't like it when you give them a taste of their own medicine👏💯
You can't even look her in the eyes if and when she returns. Doesn't even matter being freinds with benefits. When trust is broken and being disrespectfull its all gone.
This.
Literally just got the I took you for granted text today 😂
what did you say
@@antonios2002 nothing . She doesn’t deserve a response
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Definitely and then they want to run back like they didn't break your heart naw stay over there...we winner's over here they don't miss a real one until we gone , great video my guy let's gooooooo 💪🏿💪🏿
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The amount of personality disorders out there these days is mind boggling . Stay safe.
Stay aware of the signs. And most importantly, stay self aware ! Peace
When u treat them good… they always comeback…😉 Living proof….
I doubt you'll see this but I've been rewatching this video daily and it's seriously helping me get over my breakup. My ex discarded me like trash even though I was the best guy she's ever had.
She will regret it for sure.
Normally they are run through and the spirits of other men will constantly be at war with you in your relationship
Another great message. Let them feel the regret further down the line. The best kind of revenge.
Never go back. Ever.
Bad relationships- realize a poor investment, cut your losses and move on ….
the best words a woman can say is : I SHOULD OF KEPT YOU. then you'll know she knows she screwed up. they always go out looking for someone they thought was better and things dont go right. she'll try to make up ways to try again. let them learn the hard way when they get a good man, keep him.
Facts G
Circled back like a hawk Big Bro!... FACTS... Blessings to these lessons and teachings... Keep pushing bro. ✌️
It's better to walk away. The world is filled with beautiful women, looking for that dude. Don't waste your life energy on a failed going G's.
The problem is when you commit to her she doesn't believe you will ever leave her
Yep.
FK That “good heart” BS!! She’s gone she is GONE!!!
🤔🏆 Perfect Video 🎯
Just in time. I'm guilty as charged since I walked away from my 3 years LDR/LTR girlfriend. She bluffed the fake break up & I disappeared for 3 years.
She didn't stop trying to contact me. I kept silent and distant. Focused on mySELF (Fitness, Finance & not 🚫 giving a F@#k)
But then her grandma passed away & this is when the $#it hit the fan. We talked again, she wanted to rekindle things. But I never made her the center of my life again.
You have to force people to know they CANT treat you like a peasant ..F@#k that $#it.
Respect ThySELF ⛳⛵
Damn Shaun, this is the energy it takes to pragmatically deal with these grown kids. No contact no care no finger lifted to get her back,
God Bless!!! you Shaun. Treated my live in EX gf like a Queen. Her thanks was messing with a bunch of guys while I was at work. She GONE!!
Its a old saying my mother always told me ONLY A PIG goes back 2 their slop
I never want my ex's back. You cross me once it's FU forever.
Think the grass is greener
That’s what she thought lol
Yeah went through this with my ex. We were meeting for sex after we broke up. She told me she couldn't see a future with me. Then why did she want to see me etc. I'm not giving her any validation anymore. We cut contact. She definitely took me for granted and one day she'll realise it when she's 35+ and alone and no one wants her haha..
Your gonna be in your prime at 35
Remember Kings, it wasn't Adam who bited the apple 🍏in Eden's Garden... U all got it
Women like that don't really love you, you're just a convenience to her to get whatever she needs from you at the time. Once she disrespects you and you give her another chance she'll never ever respect you again.. That's facts I had to find out the hard way she was never my woman it was just my turn.. As a man the most hurtful part about it is when you've invested your all in that woman then you find out she really didn't give a damn about you and loved her but she didn't love you back the same way.. Always pray to the Lord to give you direction, put the Lord first in everything and always love yourself more.
I meet a girl it was OK for her to text her ex but if I text my girl mates not exs just mates she will kick off on me
Today woulda been 4 years. And just over one year since I dodged a bullet!!!
I totally feel you
Greatly appreciate your videos. It can be a difficult mindset to establish, especially at an older age and when you're a well meaning, good hearted man but it is what most be done with these women. They can't help themselves, they will take you for granted eventually, especially the more you do.
@dee953 I agree. Being older and all, I learnt that kindness can be dangerous. Some of these women are ruthless, brutal and cold when they '"feel" you no longer make them happy(whatever that means). It's something you'll learn the hard way. I used to wonder how some men ended up living under a bridge until I got very close to being in that situation. Had it not been for my inner circle brothers and my sister( the only woman I know who will never betray me or her disabled hubby), I would've ended up on the streets or, worse, deleting myself from this planet. By the grace of God, I bounced back. My ex is now in that "coming back" phase. The problem is I'm a "new man" (as Agent Smith said in The Matrix), and I perceive women differently from before. Strangely, there are plenty plus offers, but I don't even feel for them. My ability to discern whom I should give my precious time to has matured so much that I don't even give second chances to anyone who flakes on me. I still have a place for my ex, but as Shaun said, she has to do arduous work to wear the crown again. Intense hard work that starts with cleansing my image she smeared so severely I was cast out of the circle of friends and relatives I used to be part of, get a job and the wages come to me to handle, individual therapy, etc. The hard work. Else, I'm fine doing my thing and smashing others when I want to.
@@trapped-ion good for you for fighting to get your life back and improve. No one is coming to help us, we must help ourselves.
That was your best Shaun, because they do that. They always do it, they come back.
Zachary master of truth more love from kenya
You should be on TED talk show tbh
This video is pure wisdom!
Thank you Coach Zachary!
I wished i could save you but It's hard...you lost me...i don't need you
This Dude is dope.
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Truer words have never been spoken. Keep up the good work mister.
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Is it that these women know or dont know how they hurt u
Greetings from Sydney, Australia. Thanks for all your great work. Powerful!
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Mr. Zachary is on point.
I'm a good man, humble, accountabile, and responsible man. I just want to be happy in life. I dropped the ball. Over time in our relationship I allowed my X who was insecure to manipulate and take advantage of my good will. Not sure the real reason as to why she left. She lacks some ways to express herself or make amends. I said, OK, No problem. Goodbye.
Damn right. If a woman wants to have a friend zone and boyfriend zone that's cool. I started a benefit zone and a girlfriend zone. If I am in the BF one and put me the other zone, I just say 2 words no thanks. Life is too short.
Top knotch content once again. Keep speaking the real bro!👍🏾
4 years later she made the “comeback” …….I can forgive everything… except Betrayal. “ V Putin 🇷🇺
I had that happen, immediately she knew she made a mistake it was clear, but I walked away. It was about 6 months ago.
No. Not even friends with benefits. Imagine her but with your baby. Hell nah she aint worthy of propagating my genetics
U cant turn a bad things from a good thing..leave it alone.
Greetings from Somalia. Watching your videos is like reading the finest books .
Thanks for always reminding us that we are the price . We are better because of your priceless videos.
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Just subscribed to you yesterday, your delivery , words of advice, and encouragement hits different. Keep up the good work “THE YOUNG BROTHERS NEED US “!!
Thanks for watching bro ✊🏼
Then you mess up leting them back in,now you look at her way different.to the point,she looks like a wicth coming down the stairs,you like,sayin to yourself,like scared to,like who is this.😢
Appreciate this one fam
im subbing bro i watched a few of your videos , i am 6 months after a breakup feeling so rough about it constantly reminising about the past but like you said, at 8:35 you forget those times you felt that way when she was around other guys or being rude and disrespecful back at you , you only think about the good times, i blocked that bitch on everything yesterday , loving the videos bro literally binge watching them rn im 23 and it helps
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That is hardcore Chilli. Way to go. That shows how much strength you have. Stay strong.
A relationship is only as strong as its weakest link.
YOOOO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 when he said who cares. I felt that
Indeed!💪🏽✊🏽🖤
Walking away... verbalize this or simply eliminate contact
Love these videos
Thank you for all your videos
They really help 👍
My G dropping gems again!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉
Haha, outstanding attitude. Well done
Amen.
The line where you said “she just misses your attention” was spot on 100%
Nice Shaun. Thanks for telling the truth brother. Ya know the simps are falling down. Even simps aren't simps no more.
@7:19 i love that she moved down the totem pole now she’s not number one now she’s two or three she needs to earn number one spot back
I got a question? What good heart? Didn't she destroy that shit?
Yo this one though on point really enjoyed the fucc out of this one
Thanks for the Technology Shaun Zachary. This woman after i closed every form of access used and somehow got my work email to reach out. I left that shit on read.
the only way i'd even remotely listen or deal with someone wanting to come back to be serious is if they legitimately went to therapy/counseling and honestly speaks a real apology. however jumping from rooster to rooster after doesn't count as self help...remember your worth men.
Your right I love your videos!
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I needed to hear this
Good shit my guy! Stay solid kings👊💪
Mate i really needed to hear this today thank you 👍
I fucks with you !! Young Sir !! Keep up the Knowledge , even us old Heads need a refresher course !!
Salute bro I appreciate you checking out my video ✊🏼
Damn i love this guy
This must be so common. I’m glad I’m not the only one
Your voice is relaxing
thank you for this video
No doubt
🤣🤣🤣 I needed to hear this. Good one 👍
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Respect brother, your videos are getting me through a tough time right now, real shit. I have watched several videos on the matter at hand but you provide the best insight and I and many men appreciate your time and guidance. Great job sir, keep it up. ✊🏼🙏
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Fkn aye intro💪🏿
Well said bro
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Real talk ...
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Time is the best
Thank you
6:30 I had the same *sigh* 😂😂😂 cause man that part is a tough decision
Facts 💯💯💯
we're bloods rem?😢that was to make you stay...i regret in my tears..you're beautiful 😍 and off my standards i wished i knew that....i won't blame you it's all God's plans..i will pray 4ya
I needed this film bad. Just got dumped for no reason. This picked me up.
This video sums up my last relationship spot on thank God I left
Ghosting -
when there’s nothing left to say or
when things are better left unsaid.
I was sleeping yesterday and woke up to her crawling in bed.
The moral of the story is it's all about trust man if you have a woman that love you and trust you that's the best feeling ever man