Disrespectfully - Addressing the Elephant in the Room | Episode 13
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- Опубліковано 9 лип 2024
- Today we are addressing the elephant in the room… We also talk g*rthmasterr, basement, and other frickin crap.
00:00 - Start
5:35 - Vanderpump Drama
19:20 - Vessi
21:07 - Shopify
25:32 - Down Under
45:05 - Rocket Money
46:46 - Liquid IV
48:24 - Jenni Kayne
50:30 - Embarrassing stories
59:40 - Soft Girl
1:05:29 - Basement
1:10:35 - Heuxmetown Hero
1:15:40 - WWDD
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Tom Sandy cheeks Sandoval consistently looks like he robbed the closet of a pre pubescent girl. Just saying lol
Sheena used to be obsessed with Max. Maybe that was why she is still concerned about his “safety”. 😂
I was thinking the same thing!
She bought him an Apple Watch 💀
Next episode can I just hear you guys go OFF on Lala's recent behavior? I was a big Lala fan but I am SOOOOOOO over her. Scheana poisoned her brain or something, idgi.
She’s overcompensating going on all these talk shows. Think her PR person is having her smooth her image before reunion.
@@TheFedoras93 I can't wait for this reunion because her behavior since then is unhinged. I was thinking perhaps Ariana was exposed on a hot mic saying something but, what you said makes a ton of sense.
@@sh.boogiesright! Like why would she keep going on random shows, she’s not promoting anything specific and it’s not like a cast interview or even anyone else doing interviews. Like Lisa is the only one doing interviews cuz she’s promoting her new show.
But why is LaLA
Schena, Tom and Tom and James and Katie aren’t doing random pop up interviews
She is giving Lisa’s errand girl.. or protege. Over Lala.
Omg me tooooo. I cannot believe how horrible she is. She's completely hypocritical, insufferable, and so obviously money chasing. It's disgusting and someone needs to put her in her place.
Katie is by far the most underrated and most misunderstood on vpr. i hate that she always gets a villain edit just for being real
I have always loved her for this! She is human .❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Love this podcast too!!!!
I’m
I admit I misjudged her and looking back she was literally right about everyone and everything she said
She is 100%, my favorite. I don’t think she has received equal loyalty from anyone on the show.
So happy to see her start over. 😊
@@feelfreetoimpressme so real
Im sorry Katie but i cant watch the show anymore. Lala being so ruthless threw me. Thank god you have the pod cause i want to still support you. Thanks for being the real voice of reason for the entirety of the show, even when i thought i didn't like you. I was wrong and feel like you should hear that from the audience after the past 2 seasons. I'm glad you and Ariana are just yourselves and honor your beliefs. We love you!
Lala being ruthless?? Lol part of it is her personality which she's been like for multiple years but also ariana is the real ruthless one in my opinion lol
So happy to be able to listen to Katie’s takes on things. Not just VPR but life in general. Watching the show back and seeing how the show always gave her a negative edit is so frustrating. She is shining as the real ass person she has grown to be and I am HERE for it. 💙
Yes! 🙌 couldn’t agree more!
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Same!!
Me too. She has matured. Always been beautiful. Now stunning!❤
Why, for some, is it so much bigger of an issue that Katie slept with Max than that Max slept with Katie? The misogyny of the show is showing in that and so many other ways this season. Sadly.
Yesss I’ve been commenting this everywhere!!!
I liked Katie’s honest/open explanation of the Max situation. Folks weren’t surprised about Max being with (yet another) female, but more surprised Katie wanted to go there knowing his awful rep. But it happens & makes more sense now.
I think it is more like do not sleep with your friends ex situationship?? eff Max lol
I wish I could like this comment 100 times.
Tom and the rest of the group have some balls to make it about Katie being the one who shouldn’t have done it, while no one is challenging Max for sleeping with his best friend’s ex wife. WTF?
Also can we talk about how gross Max comment was after, like “I was drunk and she was conveniently close” - this man is trash 🤮🤮🤢🤢🤢
I totally think max is the one that's a complete jerk. I felt happy that Schwartz finally got a taste of what its like to have someone betray you. Schwartz never had katies back or respect her.feelings. so Katie didn't bother me. Max on the other hand is a complete jerk for doing that to his best friend and would have probably never told schwartz. You don't do that to you friend.
I haven’t even listened to the episode yet but just want to show my support for Katie! I’m loving her this season and in this era! ❤
This season is excruciating to watch because of Lala and Scheanas flip flopping and hypocrisy, and the way producers are gaslighting the audience to feel bad for Tom and villanize Ariana after what he did to her. I feel so enraged on behalf of Ariana and I truly hope this is the last season of this show. Its disgusting.
It’s been the hardest for me to watch. I can’t stand Lala anymore she is the biggest hypocrite and shows 0 signs of healing BECAUSE she picks and chooses what she thinks and doesn’t think is appropriate or right when it comes to OTHERS healing. She acts like the end all be all of how you get over an affair. She decides what is an appropriate way to leave or feel. I can’t stand it.
Don’t get me started on Scheana lol
I literally had to stop watching it’s so painful. I can only handle listening to recap podcasts and also bc I still want to be in the loop lol
@@kellyalexa1437 yeah I've stopped watching it and honestly might skip the reunion as well. We already know who's side Andy will be on.
Mind you Schwartz and kissed Rachel and he expects Katie to “honor” their agreement? Pfft nah Katie do your own thing girl 🤌🏽
I hate that VPR is giving Tom a redemption arch edit
The 🐘tea was hot!! I was worried about Dana's reaction to this knowing that Max has been a total POS. Katie, I'm sorry your privacy was violated pretty much immediately and on national television. I can't even comprehend how your fellow cast mates are moving this season.
As a fellow Bruja and divorcée I love Katie's point of view! Katie it would be amazing if you write "The Witch of Weho guide to divorce" an alternative guide for dating in your late 30's and early 40's book. Finger's cross!
I am so tired of how Bravo just doesn't care about cast members well-being (yes, Rachel included lol) I am boycotting the new Valley show. A lady from my office also watches VPR and said she is not watching the Valley. Just the way they are trying to Villainize Arianna, is pathetic. And Lala and Scheana are so jealous of Arianna its just sad. I am glad that Arianna is getting all these gigs. I hope you guys continue to grow past that messy drama. I was also so happy to see that Dana and Katie are still friends. I was bummed that she didn't return to VPR. But now, I am glad she isn't back. Do you boo!
Katie, you're refreshing. Sometimes you're delivery has me judging, but then you do or say something and I understand. Teaching me weekly. Disrespectfully judging and coming to the realization of this, leads me to respecting your ways of "riding the waters" because you truly seem to know what you want, where you stand and who you are becoming. It's helpful for many I'm sure.
AM - James said it best " if feel should would be more at peace, if she released" ❤
I feel like I can breathe listening. There is so much misogyny on almost all commentaries/podcasts/UA-cam channels about the show. 😓
Love you both, thank you!
Paused this video to watch a supercut of Scheana being possessive of Max. *boy-crazy echoes on forever*
I’d sign an NDA to be on Katie’s close friends even if it’s only memes 😂
Katie doesn't have to explain what she does or who she hooks up with in her personal life ITS HER LIFE DEAL WITH IT
It blows my mind when people say Ariana should be thanking Tom for her success. YOU DO NOT THANK THE PERSON WHO REAR ENDED YOU, YOU THANK YOUR INSURANCE- which is Ariana’s personality.
If she had a personality like Lala, she would not be getting all this success point blank and Lala does not understand this
It seems easier to say there’s harder things than being alone when you aren’t alone
Love this podcast!! Dayna and Katie are the kind of women I want to hear more of, disrespectfully 😘
If a person you are intimate with is disrespecting, betraying or neglecting you then try thinking of them holding a mirror at you. In what ways are you disrespecting, betraying or neglecting yourself? This is the key to ending those kinds of experiences.
I look forward to every Wednesday because of this pod! ❤❤
I really look forward to Wednesdays because that's when the new episodes come out! It feels like I'm hanging out with two of my best friends. I loved hearing your thoughts on the whole Max situation, especially how it's impacted your friendship. Totally on board with Katie about wanting to be pursued. That is exactly where I am. And Dana, your stance on not settling really resonates with me, especially as someone who's been navigating the single life post-divorce for nearly seven years. It's comforting and empowering to hear you both echo thoughts and experiences so close to my own.
Not that you needed to address this situation with max but I’m glad you get to get your side out and y’all are bosses❤❤❤
Love these two! Another great podcast!👏
Brock : Scheana has everyone's locations
Katie: 👁️👄👁️
I comment every week! But I have to say again! Thank you for this podcast! I hope you guys extend to two episodes! Like a mini would be amazing 🥹
Revisiting this week’s ep because the adult conversation and accountability are so refreshing, and such a relief from the rage bait the VPR cast minus Katie, Ariana, and Ally bring every week
The podcast duo I didn't know I needed, now I can't live without!
So happy to find the video version of the pod! I love you guys and really root for Katie for being real and one of the few adults on the show ❤
This is the only podcast I fully listen to
Katie sleeping with her best friends Ex… and justifying it. When she calls EVERYONE out and is about loyalty and consistency. Lololol
I totally agree with Katie, her life and how she chooses to live it! I think Sheena tracking people is just plain wired!
Thanks Dayna now i went down the Girthmasterr rabbit hole lol
stay tuned...
Ive never been a huge Katie fan. I never thought I would be. But here I am.
You girls just wait. Do not settle! I really feel until VP ends, it is hard to move on. Totally move on. I really felt Katie’s feelings lately, and it is very obvious the pain and disappointment she went through because of Tom. I think she has never looked better! You go have fun and do for you Katie and Dana! ❤
Dana, I really like what you said about cutting out friends that aren’t really friends and that’s how I feel about Scheana and Lala towards Ariana! I don’t feel they’re her friends I think they’re Backstabbers and I really wish she would cut both of them out of her life for good and if it affects the show, so be it!!!
Love you guys! ❤
I do love when you ladies give us an update on the VPR episodes because I know Katie tells it like it is and does not give us any BS!!!
I have to say I can’t even listen to Lala or Scheana anymore, because they have become so hypocritical it’s not even funny. I unsubscribed from their podcast and I’m better for it, but thankfully I now have you amazing women to listen to, and I am loving it❤️
First time here & certainly not the last. Great podcast, kept me interested without relying on talking about VP the full episode. Hilarious ladies . P.s who has gone down the girth master hole? 😂
My friend from LA came down to San Diego to celebrate my husband’s bday this past Friday. He got separated downtown right outside the bar we were at, lots of people around, and he got punched to the ground by 3? guys and his phone stolen (which had his ID and credit card)! I was shocked to hear it is also happening to women in NYC recently. WTF is going on?
Damn this is my first episode to listen to and I’m hooked 😂
Love you girls....🥰 Thank-you
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Like every single episode!! Kinda like visiting my daughters!! Love you both!! 👍🏻🥰💜
Oh I HATE those dreams... like I did not sign up for these feelings
Katie, I'm just so disappointed in what you did to Dayna. As a friend who knows how she feels about Max. I'm sure you had your reasons, it's just difficult to not look at you like the Tom's. What might separate you from the Tom's is hopefully, you learned. Dayna, you're a good friend.
Good episode. Really excellent discussion regarding the elephant in the room.
Schwartz didn’t appear to be bothered about Max, Katie. Not really. Protect your friendship instead.
this is by far my fave episode so far 😂🎉
Thank you!
Two grown ass women right here. Good Job ladies! Look you other guys at VPR - this is called KATIE TAKING OWNERSHIP! Hello two Tom's, Sandoval and Scwartz !!!
I keep finding myself here so I should just stay lol love yall
Katie u slayed ur look at the reunion Woman ur fine! Divorced looks so good on u! I love u both n this podcast is killing it!
To sleep with that man after he dated your friend and verbally attacked her in front of you is wild. Also, blaming the alcohol is ridiculous because there have been multiple times where Katie harasses people for making that same excuse.
1:06:16 I’m in NYC and it’s not just one isolated thing. I had two separate unrelated attacks in midtown. The tensions are high here.
"Oh my heck" makes me homicidal 🤬 love you both 🥰
Why isn’t anyone talking about Schena calling out Katie’s location. It isn’t anyone’s business where you go or who you are with!
What a weird ass podcast 😂😂😂Im here for it though
My two favourite bestiesss ❤️
obsessed with Katie’s style. 😊
You said fu king while saying you dont like cursing .lol😂
Katie, production did you and does you dirty.... It's gross on their part.
I love you ladies
I am 55 and I have NEVER omg I would die!! Why did you have to point out that side of tiktok?? LOL
I totally forgot about Dana & Max, I would feel a certain way about it, I wouldn’t hook up with friends exes, ever off limits
At 1:01 Dayna hit the nail right on the head.
Lmao proof of life “POL” 😂
Dayna has such a big heart that’s why I love her so much because she can be forgiving and the situation that a lot of people would’ve said yeah I’m done personally I couldn’t trust my friend because if you could do that with the guy that you knew that is such a horrible person to me and he was Someone that should’ve already been off limit. He may not owe her anything, but Katie is her friend and she should’ve known better like I don’t care how blackout drunk I’ve been I know who, and I would never cross that line, especially knowing what this guy did to my friend.
Love you two together, but I am surprised Katie went there despite how low he treated Dayna. He doesn’t deserve either of you, not even for an evening. I get it as a revenge F, but honestly Schwartz is so hollow, as is Max, that nothing gets to these men as there’s nothing going inside to get.
I hope Dayna is truly indifferent to this. You have a great friendship and banter and vile people like Max don’t deserve an iota of thought, attention or friction between good female friends.
I gotta say. I’ve never seen someone more bitter and unsupportive than LALA is this season. It gives me the chills and the ick - I was a fan of hers but now only you and Arianna
Katie’s interpretation of her ex 🤣💀
Dayna is a great and mature friend to be willing to forgive this tbf
I just wish Jenni kayne was more affordable. I just checked it out and there’s no way I can justify a 300-500 sweater or dress. Very cute and hopefully good quality but not in my budget.
So mature and also so honest. Max is trashy and you both regret it and I so respect you both because i wouldn't care either and it is on max, he did that to that to his own friend. Max would have sex with anyone, the fact he tried it with Katie shows how little respect he has for both women and men and his friend's. Katie was drunk and he shouldn't be trying it with drunk women in the first place, says a whole lot about his character
I feel like we should be able to see the picture with the wine bottle?
Get it girl!! Fuck that dead weight (your ex)... So proud of you getting yours......xxoo
Dayna!! Girthmasterr is in a “Guess who’s a pornstar”video on the Cut channel. He was so sweet & humble!
You guys could invite him on the podcast when he’s in LA..
I 🩶 you two!!
dammit Danya you gave me a new himbo to follow.
Hey beauties I'm really not in your demographics but I watch Vanderpump & saw you were starting a Podcast which is awesome by the way. I'm in my late 50s was married twice my last husband passed @ 54 unexpectedly. We were separated cause he was dealing with heavy issues that took his life. I've been single now since 2010 & don't want anymore shit in my life. So Dayna I'm with you, I'd rather be alone & deal with my shit than sad & unhappy dealing with anyone else's shit! Cheers to you both & you're both lookin Fabulous with a capital F-ucking F 🙌💕✌️🎉
It’s crazy to me how there’s been so many girls in this friend group that have slept with Max like is there no other guys in LA? This is weird and gross but I guess.😅
She said a malignancy 😂
id like to hang out with these two
I just wanna say it no matter what anyone says. Dayna remember if Production keeps asking you to come back. That means they definitely like you and you were great on season 8, (unpopular opinion) but I loved Season 8 and concept they were going for. But I do understand reality tv isn’t for everyone so I understand you not returning but still miss ya hahaha.
51:33 yeah I think it was Blaire. It’s so scary bc influencers don’t have the same clout/power as celebrities do and won’t have protections put in place for them. It’s wild
The feet thing is not true....my ex wore a size 13. And let me tell you....the shoes didn't match the drapes. If ya know what I mean.
Call her anything but Rachel… RAHCHELLLL😂
The hypocrisy😂
❤❤❤ya Katie, but Katie your so critical when others DRINK,and either say something hurtful or let their morals slip. LALA is one of the people ,im referring too,sometimes a tongue can cut,and isee you standing by Arianna, when what she is asking you to do ,is loyal of you,but wrong of you to judge others, for their beliefs,it wouldnt hurt you cause they were your friends also.😊
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Katie should have shoved lala off her chair when she said Nothing About Her. What a low human. Lala said she didn't even know about opening day. I live in Pennsylvania and I'm not on social media much and I still knew about the grand opening which drew so many people.
I like Katie but it’s sad to hear how Dana was so hurt by that relationship and Katie even witness him mistreating her 6 months ago but then later sleeping with him. I would have never even gave him the time of day knowing how he treated my friend. As women we need to do better and call out men when they are being disrespectful to other women like Ariana should have put Sandoval in place multiple times but she never did.
OMG Dayna take a breath. When you were answering the Max question you talked for almost 10 minutes straight. That’s not a conversation. Katie didn’t get a word in. Otherwise good podcast😊
30 minutes on how dayna hates Max. Meanwhile he has slept with everyone on the show. That is gross. Kristen, Sheana, Dayna, and Katie and probably Jax lol.
He exudes sleaze bucket
Have you guys not seen others like that?? My bf and I look it up a lot! Lol!!! We do it because bf is quite large so when I see bigger I am shocked! It’s abnormal but nice
DANA IS THE SHIT!! I HOPE WE SEE HER MORE THIS SEASON. SHE DOESN'T TAKE ANY SHIT AND I NEED THAT AND DOES IT SO MUCH BETTER THAN KATIE !!! I LIKE KATIE SOMETIMES BUT SOMETIMES I DON'T!!!
Look I curse like a sailor but try to curb it A) at work since I’m in the medical field and B) I have an almost 1 year old that’s learning to talk so that’s the only 2 reasons I’ll say crap, heck etc 😅
Oh Dayna, 💯with you on hex-max! What an awful human being, that fits just perfectly with his puddle-of-mud-best-friend and the other Spacko 🤮
opposite of kegels are queefs? maybe??? just constant queefing.
😂💖💖