I moved back in w/ my parents at 25 | getting laid off, financial struggles, starting a business? 👀
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- Опубліковано 28 лип 2024
- I honestly have no idea what I'm doing with my life and that's kinda hard to admit. I hope opening up with some of my struggles can help some of you not feel as alone, because I know I do sometimes.
let me know if you like these car chats because I'm kinda down to make more ;) thanks for being here...
xx sav
time stamps:
00:00 - intro
02:00 - why I moved back in with my parents
03:55 - losing my job/getting laid off (again)
04:32 - applying to jobs
05:14 - starting a business
08:25 - more coffee car chats?
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email: savannahbtuma@gmail.com
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tiktok: @sav_surfs
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where do you live? Hilo, HI
what kind of camera do you use for vlogs? canon G7x mark ii
what do you use to edit videos? capcut xx
favorite foamy/beginner surfboard? wavestorm
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just wanted to say thank you to everyone!! 😭😭 you guys are the sweetest & making me feel better about where I am! sending you all love wherever you are 💘💘💘
girl you are still young, take advantage of the opportunity and stack that bread!
yes!! so young, but also feels like everyone else has their life together!! 😅😅 definitely a good time to save and am grateful for that!!
Don't feel bad. You're doing great. You'll just start again, stronger, wiser and better in many ways.
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good point!! thanks!!
My live at home with my parents moment happened right after college for about 2 years. Some have it happen then, others move back in later on - but one things for sure, it’s very common and understandable! I am 33 now but I don’t think I felt like I could truly live on my salary until I was about 28. I know this probably doesn’t make you feel any better but you are young and have plenty of time to do everything you want to. You’ll find your way. It might look like everyone has it all under control right now but trust me everyone feels the same pretty much. 💕
so so true!! i think it’s helpful to hear that other people go through struggles too!! thanks so much for sharing 💘 where do you currently live now?
Yes we want more coffee talks! I'm so glad that you shared all this with us❤️
okay, more coffee talks to come! ☕️ it’s a good excuse to drink more coffee too 😅😂😂
Yes more coffee chats
Hope your doing well
more to come!! thank you, you too! 😊
Ur channel is incredible and real! Pleasure to be here. I know this is special to you but it is special to us too. The journey you have been on and the way you have documented all the areas of your life on this channel is truly magical and shows the ups and downs of life. Moving in to your parents btw is not a down moment at all especially when you have your kind of mindset. Life will be life there’s no right or wrong answers everyone is different and circumstances are forever changing. The only thing constant in life is change. But I hope you continue with this channel as it brings true value to many people out there including my self and others I know who also watch your channel!
you don’t know how much this comment means to me! thank you for taking the time to tune in every week and listen. life if hard and you’re right, change will always be there!! thanks for being apart of this community. so grateful for you! 🥹🥹
@@savtuma no worries just pure facts spoken. Keep going!
Savannah thank you for sharing this part of your life with us! Our lives take surprising turns but in the end it always works out in a perfect way that aligns with our unique life path! loved this coffee chat
totally 💘💘 doing my best to share the good, bad and struggles on here!! more coffee chats to come!!
You're doing great, i already know you going to go some many big places one day. So much love to you 💛
aww thanks so much!! you’re so kind. much love right back to ya! 💘
Carolina I really understand what you going through ...
There see to be struggle nowadays..
God bless u dear..
Best wishes for your future 👍
totally! thanks :)
Somehow UA-cam recommended this vid to me.
I have gone through my 20s. My advice to you is don’t start a business because that is the only choice you have. As a woman, our prime is pretty short so don’t waste time by go blindly into a business that would make you more in debt and loose your time. What I did was I went to college, make my career more stable, travel in vacation globally and have baby. As a woman, if you want children, there is a timing for that, after 35+ year old you might have fertility challenges. Finding a good partner also more limited as we get older. Etc… I would say, “When we are young, we have plenty of time and little money. When we are older, we have money but little time”. Don’t waste your youth :)
Also, in my experience, when we make over $100k, our happiness with making more money does not change much because our necessities have meet.
haha welcome to my channel! :) thanks for your input!! I appreciate it 💘🫶🫶 definitely have more options now that im back at my parents which in a way feels nice!!
hey, sav 🙂 hope you're doing well too 🙏 first of all, wish all the best with the new business, so nice to hear you'll develop one, sounds like a very good idea! on the other hand moving back with your family is not so bad at all i think 🤔 if this makes you feel better, i had to live again with my parents since i was 28 yo (and right now i'm 36, but honestly feeling like 26 hahaha😁) you know, as you said, lots of things are easier in terms of finances and stuff hahah but yeah, really looking forward to live by myself again, with all the good and bad things of it... and everyone life is different, sometimes hard to avoid not to compare with others lifestyle but nothing that bad at all, even if this sounds cliché, everyone has their own path through life, there's no a right or wrong way to live it and stuff, so yeah! coffee chats are nice to watch and to reflect about any kind of topic you want to talk about 😊 have a good one!
aw that’s awesome to hear!!! yeah would def be nice to have my own place again but so nice to not have to think about finances for a change ❤❤❤ hope you’re well!!
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The absolute best thing you could do right now in your life is transition to becoming a Producer rather than a Consumer. Go find people around you that are growing their own organic food, fruit trees, etc. and network and learn from them. The entire World and Economy are about to change and all your " successful" friends that don't have basic skills to produce and grow food are going to realize very soon where real wealth and success lies. By the way, Surfskating is awesome so keep doing that!
THIS!! so so true and i’ve had a feeling for a little while i’m supposed to start a business instead of work for someone else. thank you for the kind words. surfskate content to come 😊
Feeling this.... at 27 ;)
😭😭 we got this!!!
Yes, there is the ocean, yes you can surf there, but i also saw you so happy in Berlin.
Als Quereinsteiger findest du hier in good old Germany bestimmt einen Job als Englischlehrerin. 🙂
i was soooo happy in berlin, you’re right!! but also missed the ocean a little bit more!! it’ll always be a place i can return to most definitely ❤❤
Hi, v interested video. From Pakistan 🇵🇰🌹
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It’s a though word out there right now!! Jesus loves you 💕
totally! thanks
im not sure why moving back with your parents is seen as a stigma . Also the main reason you are mentally suffering is because your mind is comparing yourself to others and their journeys which have nothing to do with you. I would suggest practicing mindfullness whenever those thoughts or feelings come up , which they will since they are not you thinking them but your mind just kicking up random thoughts which you have no control over. What you can do though is recognize when you are getting caught in your minds stories about not being good enough or feeling like a failure and see them for what they are just thoughts. If you can see the thoughts for what they are and create a bit of distance from them it will relieve some of that mental stress.
definitely working on this - yeah same, especially with the state of the economy right now and inflation it seems like a good option for many. my hope i’m having this conversation is to help break that stigma by talking about it.