Can Autistic Kid Become a Good Car Salesman?
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- Опубліковано 28 чер 2023
- Car Salespeople are generally extroverted and have a lot of people skills. But can an obsession with car knowledge overcome the odds and actually make for a better salesperson? Let us know your thoughts!
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I'm 18 and have autism. My dad and I flip and sell used cars to dealerships. He does mostly finance, and I do most of the work on the cars. I hope Ian will find a job where he can express his love of cars.
How do u cope up when u feel something is bothering u...my 3 yo has autism..hence asking
WOW!👏👏
Short answer, yes. I have Septo Optic Dysplasia, which caused me to be born totally blind, and it also caused me to be on the autism spectrum. I want to be a musician, because one of my hyperfocuses is music. My husband, who is also totally blind and autistic due to having SOD loves cars just as much as Ian.
Wonderful, thank you
I believe you can do it! One of the best things about music is Having such a great ear as I am a musician and as much as I am a music reader I do also listen to so much by ear, and with the hyperfocus you have you can go far and learn a lot! It especially helps if you are learning really difficult songs and/or pieces because I listen to them over and over again to make sure that I can get it right for the next rehersal or concert (yes, sometimes reading the music really doesn’t help at first if you’re sightreading something really exorbitant, so like I would always listen to the recording and listen closely to my part) so yeah I think you got it! I believe in you!
@@Owen2131_ I actually play by ear. I even have perfect pitch. This is one of the reasons why if I mess up or if I get pitchy in my voice I get so annoyed with myself. I’m actually working on not limiting myself and I’m working on it through music. For example, I don’t allow myself to show emotions because I feel like in order to be a musician I only am allowed to show emotion of happiness and peace. I’m not allowed to show emotions of sadness, I’m not allowed to cry or express emotions of anger or grief.
Ian is so knowledgeable about cars and he got convinced he is a car salesman. I think Rob was getting at with his mom's car people can be too commercial and too speedy. Ian definitely is knowledgeable and understands what he is saying, giving strong advice and a low-pressure attitude.
Excellent vocation ❤
God bless him
I still will I’m autistic too
"Hi ladies and gentlemen" He is so polite and smart! I really adore how far he has come, from when I started watching you. Really good parenting!
It's so great how Ian's developing. He can be really proud of himself. With his shirt and his knowledge of cars, he seems like a salesman. I would definitely prefer to buy something from someone who gives honest and objective information. Because of my autism, I am similar to Ian and I know people who prefer that. I really hope for Ian that his dream of working with cars will come true. Many greetings from the country of the Porsche (Germany)
I think Ian will do really great at being a car salesman. Also speaking of the workforce. Next year I’m going into a program called the Transitional Vocational Program which teaches young adults with mild developmental disabilities who’ve finished high school the skills needed to find and keep a job. I have a couple of ideas for career choices but I’m still not exactly clear what my career choice is yet. Luckily this program will help the students decide and also try many different jobs and have the employment specialists guide us. It’s a 1 year program but if individuals are still not successful in employment they can go back for another year. I think it will be really beneficial for me, also considering that there aren’t much support options for people like me. People like my older brother who’s severely autistic have lots of support systems and people with no disabilities are very independent so they don’t need much support. I’m really happy that programs like this exist so people with mild disabilities get support as well. This program seems like would be really good for Ian except for the fact that you live in a completely different area.
I've turned my music/music gear special interest into a business. I did very well at Guitar Center when I worked there because I was very honest with what was good and what was just expensive crap, and I have an encyclopedic knowledge of gear that's available. People respond really well to an honest and non-pushy salesman. I was top sales most months, had customers who asked for me by name, and ended up even moving into B2B (business to business) sales with invoices in the six figures range. Now I'm on the "mechanic" side building my own guitars and effects pedals, and eventually drums and amps when I have space. With a lot of practice and experience I think autistic people can be GREAT at sales. You can always learn the personality side that way. When he hits job age try to get into retail, especially in a smaller/local shop who can be a bit more accommodating. I learned so much about selling and working with customers at my first job.
Spectacular presentation Ian! Thank you for sharing your knowledge and enthusiasm! 💗
Love this, Ian is an awesome salesman. 😊
I love how much Ian knows about cars. He’s the expert that I need when trying to find the right car for me cause from what I’ve seen in this video, he could tell me everything I want to know, which is way better than some social person who doesn’t know all the answers to my questions. It’s a clear answer for me, I’d choose Ian
If Ian wants to be a car salesman, that's good luck for him.
Nice Ian!!! Great video. Nice salesmanship. Great information. Ian really knows his cars!!!
Additionally, Ian has a lot of soft skills that are employable in most jobs and there is always time to fine-tune skills.
I think both a salesman and a mechanic have their goods and bads. A mechanic might cause sensory issues with the noise and oil. But someone might ask something out of the box when buying a car, which could trip up a literal thinker. I personally think he'd be great at either one, he just has to find a job that can work with his autism; that's MUCH easier spoken than applied.
Good luck in whatever you decide to do, Ian.
Great job Ian, I'm sold!!
I would definitely prefer someone who is very knowledgeable and honest and kind of social awkward and to be honest, I'm kind of like that and I also have high-functioning autism and I also like cars and buses. And I can see Ian being a pretty good car salesperson or mechanic if he wants to do that when he's older. I know that I want to do something with cars or buses when I'm older but I'm not quite sure yet. And also, we used to own a 2007 Toyota Yaris sedan that we bought in May of 2006 when my mom got into a crash in her 1993 Honda Accord (I wasn't even born yet) and that car I called my childhood car. We got rid of it in December of 2022 and replaced it with a blue 2023 Hyundai Elantra SEL (we also own a black 2021 Hyundai Elantra SEL that replaced a black 2015 Mitsubishi Mirage) and I helped my parents buy both of our Elantra's (I will admit though, when we were buying our 2021 Elantra in March of 2022, I was excited and probably kind of over obsessive) but my parents did say that I did help them a lot when we were buying them.
I’d buy from you Ian. 100% prefer genuine enthusiasm and honest facts over the typical up-seller. They are exhausting to listen to!
I'd buy 2 from him.
Awesome job Ian ✨
Absolutely yes! My grandson is autistic and I would love to see him selling cars like this young man!
Great knowledge of Ian on cars! He definetly will be one of the best in the business in the future and I’m excited for him!!! My knowledge of music and such is hoping to make me become a composer in the future or be a studio recorder for video games, so yea I do hope We both get our careers!
Well done Ian great job 💯
I might get a job at the Nike campus that is really close to where I live, where I would get paid for checking fire distinguishers, to see if they are still good or if any of them needs to be replaced. What I like about the Nike campus is that it is surrounded by quite a lot of greenery, which is one of the things I would really enjoy about working at the Nike campus if I get the job.
Thanks for this video.
I LOVE cars of all kinds, and know EVERYTHING about them. I’m a very nice person and I try not to be pushy, but I’d look for answers about details. I try to be honest about it and not be pushy.
Right before the lockdowns happened in 2020, I was a dishwasher at Portland State University, and for the most part I was a excellent dishwasher, except I wasn't very good at training or supervising a new dishwasher, since I am on the part of the autism spectrum where I am too reserved and shy to train or supervise a new co-worker. And there was another dishwasher at PSU who was also on the autism spectrum who wasn't nearly as reserved as me and a lot more outgoing who had no problem training or supervising a new dishwasher.
Great topic! I have had a hard time with jobs, it was all social fumbling without me realizing. People are quick to judge so they didn't give me much of a chance, it was frustrating to understand that people weren't being particularly mean, they just didn't understand. I'm a lot like Connor with autism light so most people didn't see that I was having an issue. It helped me so much to intentionally focus on having a great working relationship with my bosses and to have the interview cool turkey without mentioning autism first, I brought it up later and explained a few things about myself. My clothes fitting right and having a job that gives me space from others sometimes is very important to me. It made me feel so relieved to know that my managers actually "got it" they help me with little things when I need it but they understand my pride and how I work too. It was so bad before but now it's much better, selling myself correctly seemed to make the difference. I tried many times to explain autism before but it didn't seem to help, I will keep trying to explain more another time.
A quick bit about relationships with employees is that it helps to slowly drop hints or small conversations about autism so that people can organically adapt to the potential differences in the way you socialize without too much conflict. People often will help resolve conflict in the background and that isn't to say I am not trying for my own part. It helped a lot in particular to have authority figures too. The big thing for me was trying to take on responsibility and to make it seem casual while still acknowledging and requesting help.
Ian has great knowledge about car and would make a great cars salesman, as he gets older he’ll grow in confidences he already has a lovely way of explaining things. And such delight in all the different car facts which makes others excited about the car, I’m not interested in cars, but Ian made them sound interesting.
Blessings to Ian 🙏
Fantastic Idea & goal 🎀🌹👍🔨
Anybody can be in sales and excell. The difficult part of being in sales is emotional intelligence and emotional regulation.
Was very moved ❤ anyone sensible would much rather buy from someone honest, sencire and above all has all the information, like a true expert🙂. Very unfortunate that some people perfer the standard bo matter what.
Wiah for Ian to follow his dreams and abition and that people will go according to honesty, determination and knowledge and not according to whats "accepted" and according to whats the "standard" and therefor will always pick him! 🙏
All the best Ian, love from The Holy land Israel 🇮🇱
More honest than an Autistic salesman who Points Out the technical Details is noone 🎀🌹👍🔨
I used to sell things and I got good at it, it helped to have a lot of "blocks" of talking points. Because the relationship between customer and sales rep is short, it's very easy to lean on repetitive talking points without "showing". It is possible for an autistic person to have a very well adapted conversation and even seem better than a typical person in a certain context.
The biggest tip for sales for me was to realize when I had actually made the sale and when to stop
Ian is going to be an amazing car salesman, and my dream job is to become a DJ/EDM producer, I love music so much(especially EDM)
Ian should be a car sale man I support him how is Connor doing today I hope he can make a UA-cam video
I have mild Asperger’s syndrome and I know cars,technology, and photography. Btw I'm so smart. Ian would be great for a car sales person and a job tbh. I worked multiple jobs and volunteered 2 train museums in Southern California. Btw I'm from Glendora California from the San Gabriel Valley near Los Angeles California and I'm 30 years old.
What's your favourite photography subject? I LOVE nature.
Me transportation and etc. I have a go pro and love it.
@@SuperMissblueeyes Transit stuff trains,buses,airplanes.
@@metrolinkfan8007 Cool.
I'm sure he can. You can do anything you put your mind into it.
Maybe he cold open his own car business, I think he has what it takes to be successful. You put yourself out there don’t worry what people think you keep your head up high and keep reading about the cars you want to sell.
Ah man that Porsche GTS is so amazing looking.
Ian sure knows his cars. I think his knowledge would be an asset. I like cars but I'm not as knowledgeable. How often does he currently talk about cars?
Every day ;)
@@AutismFamilyChanneli think Ian and Connor voice is getting deeper
Such a good sales man ,that's he would make an excellent sales man .
That seems like the perfect job for Ian!
My dream job is to be a writer for Studio C (my special interest), which breaks the stereotype that people on the spectrum don't have a sense of humor. I've written 16 sketches so far and sent four to Studio C to apply for a writer's job already. Unfortunately, I didn't make it, but that was during my early sketch writing days. Hopefully, in the future, I'll get the job.
Also, this is off-topic, but what do you guys think of the BYUTV show A Kind of Spark? I would love to hear your thoughts.
We haven't seen that show yet, but I wish you well on your writing career.
Did Ian get his braces off or does he still have braces on
@@AutismFamilyChannel Thank you!☺
The cars are amazing.
To know something this well? I wish I knew anything this well.
Ian did great! Cars are fun. Selling cars could be a good career for him.
He is very good unlike many autistic and honestly most kids older than Ian don't listen as well to the questions asked. I know I have had issues with knowing the limit of revealing too much. I think Ian would be really good not selling someone just doing a good honest work.
Autistic? Give me anyone who knows a great deal about something and I’m sold!
To all People haveing autism we can do what ever we want nearly we just need the speciel intrestest that we have then we can do it
Ian can I fly you out to pick up to buy a car? Another idea I don't know if it's common where you are but we have a car guy with the credit union. He gets cars from around the state and brings them for our members. More phone calls less face to face too just a thought.
Ian probably knows more than anyone. .
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I have autism and i just bought a Porsche myself!
Wow!
How old were the boys when they got diagnosed with autism and were the young?
I would definitely buy it from Ian he is selling me a car not the car salesman pitch and dad you know what I mean lol. ❤ you Ian
I would hire him to come with me to car shop.
I think I might know a perfect game for Ian , If you have heard of the Forza franchise such as Motorsport and/or Horizon , do you think Ian would really like the Forza Franchise?
He has a couple of those games and loves them.
@@AutismFamilyChannelCool
I have an eBay Account,and I made 31 Sales as of the time of commenting.
Has Ian got a drivers license yet or is he going to because I’ll need that for car salesman is the owner, regular modify diploma to graduate high school
He should have stay in school till 21. If he doesn’t need the grade requirements I would do that if I were him because I made a bad choice about graduating high school I got a modified diploma I should’ve stayed in high school till I finish the rest.
In the next 2 years. Ian is only 14
Realistically no. Sales are going to hire the most extroverted person. Sales is about an emotional connection, anyone can learn the information and memorize it. His skills would be much better in an auto shop, and even then there are a lot of workplace bullies in blue collar environments. If he can navigate that, and deal with possible sensory issues, he would excel in mechanics.
Hi it's alstar Hughes have you got a update about the legal process and team thanks and I would buy from a autisc
No, it will be a while because we need funding first and so far not that many people are donating at all. Sorry.
@@AutismFamilyChannel I will do it for free to help and I do not want money I want to give my help
I think anybody can become successful
I’d buy a car from Ian definitely
Ian, if you see this. You do it better than the majority who gravitate to sales due to blatant extroversion, many of whom don''t know their a_ _ from 3rd base.
Ian, the most important tenant of success is:
Do what you love. Listen to 'your' mind and heart. Nobody will ever be good at something they don't like facing every day. Figure out what you like in life and do it.
Many of the greatest minds in history were autistic including Elon Musk and current world champion chess champion Magnus Larsson. Bobby Fischer was too.
PS. never accept any 'label' people put on you. Autism, if the spectrum is to be believed, for many is a super power.
I would much rather buy a car from someone on the autism spectrum. Pushy salesmen/women annoy me to the point where I will leave (politely, but let them know they're too much) if they get too pushy. Has Ian thought about opening his own car showroom (or car repair shop) with other people on the autism spectrum when he's older & made enough money? I would far rather go there than a "traditional" (for want of a better word) showroom/mechanic. And I'm sure they would quickly get a good reputation for being much more interested in what's best for their customers than making mega bucks.
Ofcourse someone with autism can be a carsalesman.
Same as they can become a docter a nurse or a psychologist... for woman there are plenty of nurses and psychologist with autism cause they made from the age of 2 a study out of looking how people do there thing to understand and copy. i would say they make a better psychologist because they are willing to look how a person really is and think in sollution outside off a protocol. if needed.
Everyone has its own strenghts and weaknesses same as NT´s so its finding the right fit not a question off can someone with autism... i would say what if you flipped that question the other way around could a NT become a.... whatever and then the same answer aplies not everyone can only if it suites them...
A person who knows what car is best for me
What's Ian's favorite car??
Lambo SVJ and Porsche GT3
Which one does he like more? Both are cool cars.
Watched autism and hobbies video. Ferrari has to be up there.
Yes if he's taught .certainly.
The latter 😊
That's expensive 😂
More like an Asian driver than a car salesman.