10 Traits That Can Actually SCARE People Away
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- Опубліковано 2 лют 2025
- Are you scaring people away? If you’re wondering why your strong personality might be intimidating, this video is for you! We gathered ten traits that can actually scare people away and make your interactions more uncomfortable than they should be. Even though these qualities are mainly positive, your strong character can inadvertently make people feel uncomfortable around you if you are not careful.
So, if you want to know why people distance themselves and how to stop scaring people off unknowingly, then pay close attention to this list!
We explain the subtle behaviors that drive others away and highlight the unintentional habits that create distance in interpersonal relationships. We also go over what makes people feel uncomfortable in general so that you can make some adjustments to come across as more friendly and relatable without sacrificing your authenticity.
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If someone is scared of me? Well then they’re not my peeps….😂
A LOT of people are weak in todays world...
Amen
@@VegasD702exactly
Same here.
You are not scaring them by threatening them. You are scaring them just by being yourself. This is an amazing quality of a sigma woman
I have most of these traits without even realizing it. They're are good traits and I'm not a people person anyway. So thanks, I working on them more.
You said what I was thinking
I struggled throughout my youth to fit it. The social phenomenon of isolation just tore me up internally then. In my more matured life, I gave up and accepted the self refection and understanding that I am one of the "scary" people. I have many of these characteristics in the video above and gave up on being "with" others socially. As of today, I have had five days off from work and yet to talk with one person.
I don't diminish my light...
One either likes me or they don't...
Someone's inadequacies or perceived inferiority isn't really my issue...
blunt and to the point,that`s me. I hate talking to people that take 5 min to tell you a 30 sec story
If you ‘hate’ those people, you shouldn’t be living in a society!
Why don’t you claim some mountain and stay there!
I hate people like you - arrogant and full of themselves! You are just nuisance for the rest!
So don't be yourself around stupid, insecure, inauthentic, emotionally unexpressive, shallow, fearful people. Got it.
Uh Oh! Just as I thought-I have every one of these traits. 🤔😁
Hemm... We are being our authentic self so we can't help it if we scare them away. Not necessarily we are not compliance but to what cause; can we not think like the crowd & always think out of the box so life is never a dull moment;
failure is an opportunity for growth to solve problem; see problem as a task & not a destiny.❤
I have a strong personality but in a nice sensible way
Me too!
You are powerful. I have been saying this about you for weeks.
1# should be people who can't stop talking. I run from these people!
Their conversation never ends, it is dominated by their narcissism, so any topic brought up they will make about themselves.
So relatable - I'm an accursedly gifted listener, but I know when enough is enough, and those people who can talk so much without saying anything of value are not impressive in a good way.
If they can’t stop talking, it’s not a conversation-it’s a monologue.
@@KarlLetcher, agreed, Karl.
Valuable insights. Brilliantly done.😊❤
What I hear is, "If you're thinking about being authentic, don't. Read the room and stick to predetermined scripts like everybody else." This is essentially a guide for how autistic or neurodivergent people can mask as neurotypicals. -A good reminder of how limited neurotypicals can be.
No need to even watch that video... I went straight to comments box....
I am a kind, humble person. But assertive when needed, particularly when facing unfairness, ect.... And won't let people walk over me or take advantage of.... and if people feel they are being scared away... each to their own to think whatever they please.
Exactly my thoughts. I won't reduce my value so that someone else might feel better about themselves. Nope, not happening.
I refuse to lessen myself to make others feel better. Grow TF up, jmamfj
These are good points. I'm too Independant and need to tone down a few other points.
1:51 I dig this channel but, what's up with this scene? Pause and look at it. He's drinking a mug of beer. There appears to be two opened wine bottles. There are two bowls of snacks. And what looks like two bottles of medication? Now, I know that this is stock video footage. So why do I bring this up? Because it's just so unrealistic and artificial. The image undermines the overall topic. Just IMHO.
thank you so much
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As someone who possesses almost all of these traits - if not all - and who engages in retrospection every single day, I do have one thing I never compromise. For anyone. That thing is: I will not make myself small or lesser so that someone else can feel better about themselves. The moral of the video's story is on a good basis, but it goes a bit too far.
What he said!
@@JameeSkidmore, just the facts. 😉
Clicked in trepidation, watched with satisfaction knowing these are good traits and if anyone has a problem with them then the problem is their's alone and they probably find fault anywhere, with anyone, anything anyway....................
Ive had several people tell me theyre afraid of me....😮
thanks, good video
I want to find out these 10 traits, I want to find how to make people afraid of me, that sounds cool. 👻😂
Your video and I like it that you’re not only point out the traits but then how to adjust it so it doesn’t put off people.
Yes. I scored a perfect 10
Screw friends
How about as a people person some being afraid because they think ur hitting on them or others referring to you as "too friendly"
Honestly, this is a turn off from living authentically except for the last one.
Autistic people tend to have all of them, just like I have all of them. We're very scary people!
i'm chase autismian, ive been diagnosed Pba.
Good.
What if though you've been on the side having felt intimidated by how any else come across
if you have any kind of personality and self-awareness, you will scare people away..
No thanks. I'm good, lol
Far too hard to trust people
Pull my finger, where'd everyone go?
😂🤣🤣 That's a good one
In other words, coddle them and feed them your fish, but never teach them to fish because women, children, and weak minded men rather be entertained or entitled than be enlightened or empowered.
I agree with some of the points here, but one other Brainy video theme is:it’s okay to be intelligent and have few friends??Not sure of the discrepancy by the same author
It depends on what you want for yourself. Do you want a lot of friends you have to walk on eggshells around? Not me.
Carry on🚶➡️ I'm not accommodating .
Thanks brainy ❤️😊👍🏻
GET TO DA CHOPPA!!
I am the most non scary person ever. But I scare people because I am serious about everything I do.
This describes me.
Facts 100 ❤🎉
Food for thought
I have at least 5 of them in the list..
But I am always have a high standards..😂
I enjoyed this video
I am aleader of agroup and when I asked for a feedback on an a project they said I don't know what I am doing one said I should give up of
Being a leader. I gess you can please people all the time. You got to stay focus.
I don't want o be a part of the trembling flock of neurotics you want the world to be.
Yeah, well, it’s not my fault they don’t make men like they used to. 😅😢
This advice would’ve been useful 30 years ago. Now I just wonder if you’ve been spying on me.
Well, you've got one here - generation of '96. ☺
Good… run… I wouldn’t like you anyway.
That's usually true.