APPLY THESE and they'll give you PRIORITY: 9 Powerful Psychological Strategies (STOICISM)

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  • @StoicismConqueror
    @StoicismConqueror  6 місяців тому +52

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    • @cosmic_sky_mountain
      @cosmic_sky_mountain 6 місяців тому +2

      your work in this channel is the work of legends..

    • @kwasiadu1486
      @kwasiadu1486 6 місяців тому +1

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      @nittydada1302 6 місяців тому

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    • @danniezollner6532
      @danniezollner6532 3 місяці тому +1

      So helpful at this moment in my life. It's a tricky thing to learn though since my first instinct is to be the lover. Not the lovee. But these lessons are so helpful....love yourself is utmost important

  • @PositiveEnergy733
    @PositiveEnergy733 6 місяців тому +882

    To everyone reading this, I sincerely pray for that whatever is causing you pain or stress will pass. May your negative thoughts, excessive worries and doubts disappear, replaced by clarity and understanding. May your life be filled with peace, tranquility and love

    • @stuford
      @stuford 6 місяців тому +14

      Thank you for these lovely words. Much love and peace to you too 👍

    • @thewanderer5083
      @thewanderer5083 6 місяців тому +7

      Thank you kind person.
      May the light of love and inner peace shine upon you.

    • @Gulfraz.
      @Gulfraz. 6 місяців тому +3

      Amen thank you ❤ not "pass" but we will overcome and overpower 💪

    • @LD-io9zv
      @LD-io9zv 6 місяців тому +2

      And also with you 🙏🏼

    • @brianking7757
      @brianking7757 6 місяців тому +2

      God bless you.

  • @GymGarageMan
    @GymGarageMan 7 місяців тому +1725

    Was called too old at 50! Started training in crumbling garage lifting rocks doing PUSH UPS on paint cans pull UPS on beams got ripped af at 52 years old!!!

    • @davehopkin2329
      @davehopkin2329 7 місяців тому +66

      Just checked your channel garageman BRUTAL training keep it up old man🔥

    • @MrAnonymousCitizen
      @MrAnonymousCitizen 7 місяців тому +24

      Keep it up big dog

    • @jaisel8469
      @jaisel8469 7 місяців тому +15

      Awesome 👍👍

    • @charliehaven8517
      @charliehaven8517 7 місяців тому +20

      Proving it on your channel garageman holy sh🔥t subbed 👊

    • @christinesotelo7655
      @christinesotelo7655 7 місяців тому +39

      I’m 74! I’m in great shape and health too! Good for you; it’s never too late! The body and the mind rejuvenate with use ! So glad to hear of your new-found Philosophies and LIFE!

  • @changeMakerQAU
    @changeMakerQAU 7 місяців тому +917

    1. Command your space 2. Forge your joy 3. Master the art of presence by absence 4. Keep your orbit 5. Hold a power to step back 6. Cultivate a fear of losing you 7. The allure of the unsaid 8. The currency of investment 9.You the architect of your own worth and master of your destiny.

    • @plusbonus1165
      @plusbonus1165 6 місяців тому

      ​@@josephleonard1724no, the algorithm is that the longer our attention is on it the more they get paid etc.
      Hence all the long winded Ai content sneaking in !

    • @wakandabodyfitness6983
      @wakandabodyfitness6983 6 місяців тому +4

      Excellent job 👏

    • @simplyerinnsunisexsalon
      @simplyerinnsunisexsalon 6 місяців тому +4

      Thank you

    • @indianmilitary
      @indianmilitary 6 місяців тому +5

      9th one is the power of silence.

    • @mattg9823
      @mattg9823 6 місяців тому +4

      This is outstanding, I'm barely figuring this out at 36 and it's so powerful, thank you, God bless

  • @peaceandquiet1983
    @peaceandquiet1983 6 місяців тому +552

    I was overlooked my whole life because i was indoctrinated to be self-loathing. Now I know my worth and I manifest easily. I am powerful because it is written. AMEN

  • @miawilliams4615
    @miawilliams4615 7 місяців тому +379

    “I value myself not to settle.” Powerful. Thank you!

    • @StoicismConqueror
      @StoicismConqueror  7 місяців тому +12

      @miawilliams4615, it's messages like yours that make it all worthwhile. So glad that line resonated with you! Remember, your value is non-negotiable. Keep embracing your worth, and thank you for being part of the journey!

    • @lolife1981
      @lolife1981 6 місяців тому

      Thanks for the "letter". Appreciated.

    • @godisgreatallthetime3121
      @godisgreatallthetime3121 6 місяців тому

      I am always intrigued to learn words of wisdom from the wise. God bless us all❤

  • @thechosenone7875
    @thechosenone7875 5 місяців тому +29

    Self love kills self hate. Cheers to a prosperous, joyous, and abundant 2024!!

  • @jeanetteswain1760
    @jeanetteswain1760 6 місяців тому +223

    The part about valuing my time and not be so available at the whim of others hit home with me. I love to help and didn't realize that always being available to others is not a good thing.

    • @katiechisholm
      @katiechisholm 6 місяців тому +9

      It’s not just about helping…it’s about always being available every time someone calls. Always answering right away. Always being free to hang out. In other words…have a fulfilling life outside of that connection…one that requires time away from your phone and for you to have to say “no” sometimes.

    • @godisgreatallthetime3121
      @godisgreatallthetime3121 6 місяців тому +3

      Dont be hard on yourself. it's how we were born, and many persons value constant efforts but continues to suppress us instead

    • @ShushaSofia
      @ShushaSofia 4 місяці тому +2

      With the right people in your life, half of this video can be ignored. Just saying

  • @CoachKathiTheFitSpirit
    @CoachKathiTheFitSpirit 6 місяців тому +70

    It's not about being hard to get but being hard to forget! Love it

  • @mdjunetali
    @mdjunetali 6 місяців тому +140

    01:43 Command You Space
    02:26 Forge Your Own Joy
    03:19 Master The Art Of Presence By Absence
    04:20 Keep Your Orbit
    05:45 Hold The Power To Step Back
    07:26 Cultivate The Fear Of Losing You
    09:03 The Allure Of The Unsaid
    10:32 The Currency Of Investment
    12:03 The Art Of Silence
    13:52 You Are The Architect Of Your Own Worth And Master Of Your Destiny
    14:14 What These Strategies Do!

  • @sooaboutthat..5439
    @sooaboutthat..5439 6 місяців тому +42

    As much as I appreciate the stoic mindset. A man lost me because he couldn't see past himself. He constantly made me feel like I had to earn his time and it was the most heartbreaking thing. I told him he was stoic like and I was so in love. But he was hurting me constantly by trying to "command" respect and his importance. He always made me feel like I could lose him at any moment. He couldn't rest in me or himself. It was like my love was a loaded gun...and in my stoic way I had to walk away from him...as a declaration of my worth..

    • @Mindsetmattersbreathwork
      @Mindsetmattersbreathwork 5 місяців тому +8

      I came to say the same thing.. he lost me by following these exact “tips” and the behaviour was hurtful. I’m sure stoicism can be used for positive reasons, not to always act these ways with the people that love us 😢

    • @rachelo8294
      @rachelo8294 5 місяців тому +9

      why are chasing after a man? He isn’t a stoic. He just doesn’t want you.

    • @sooaboutthat..5439
      @sooaboutthat..5439 5 місяців тому +5

      There was no chasing involved, purely love. Always. Love for who he is and realization. Love for myself and walking away.

    • @ivyscarlet8949
      @ivyscarlet8949 3 місяці тому +6

      The most important part of stoicism is the "balance". Your ex did not follow it properly. He has become arrogant and self centered. That is not the teaching of stoicism.

    • @grumblydoore8551
      @grumblydoore8551 3 місяці тому

      @@ivyscarlet8949it’s because he was hurt and will never experience that pain again. Don’t listen to what these women say. Just study their nature. That was a strategy to lure him out of his masculinity to test his character. But he didn’t wither even at the risk of loosing her that’s how it’s supposed to be 💪🏽 never let them take your power. They only want you as long as you provide something otherwise they’ll just use you for whatever they can be it money or attention and validation. Neber our then first focus on yourself. She’ll regret it later, and he’ll still be better and evolved and can still get a younger virgin. Men have to BUILD our worth cause we’re not born with it. But once they hit the wall it’s over for them.

  • @MissionRidgeRoad
    @MissionRidgeRoad 2 місяці тому +3

    It's so interesting that when you share, (not oversharing) you are taken as being weak( I am generalizing) BUT being stoic keeps people guessing and interested. Hold your some of your cards guys and gals!

    • @KingStoic101
      @KingStoic101 2 місяці тому

      Great observation!
      How do you strike the balance between sharing and maintaining an air of mystery?

    • @MissionRidgeRoad
      @MissionRidgeRoad 2 місяці тому

      There in lies the dance. @@KingStoic101

  • @matthewmitchell68
    @matthewmitchell68 7 місяців тому +40

    I just got out of three bad friendships and room mates the moment I got out my happiness increased exponentially! I’m now making myself only available to those who help me to grow and not detract myself in life.

    • @StoicismConqueror
      @StoicismConqueror  7 місяців тому +3

      @matthewmitchell68, congratulations on taking such a bold step towards personal happiness and growth! It's not easy to leave behind negative influences, but it sounds like you've made a significant positive change. Surrounding yourself with people who contribute to your growth is a wise decision. Keep nurturing those healthy relationships and continue on your path to a fulfilling life.

  • @IAMCEOSHAW
    @IAMCEOSHAW 7 місяців тому +169

    I’ve been very intentional in studying stoicism for the past few months and the teachings are nothing less of life changing. Thank you for this.

    • @StoicismConqueror
      @StoicismConqueror  7 місяців тому +14

      It's fantastic to hear that your deep dive into stoicism is yielding such transformative results, @IAMCEOSHAW. The wisdom of the Stoics is indeed timeless, and when applied, it can provide a profound sense of clarity and resilience. Keep on this path of intentional learning, it's clearly taking you in the right direction. Your journey is inspiring. Thanks for sharing your experience!

    • @vikkihays3869
      @vikkihays3869 6 місяців тому +3

      Thank you for your comment.

    • @mare2723
      @mare2723 6 місяців тому +2

      @@StoicismConquerorThank you so much for posting this. I wish that all of this stoic thought and behavior came naturally to me. My very life depends on me learning it now otherwise I’m gonna die soon and I’m gonna die sad.

    • @oluwajuwonadeosun9572
      @oluwajuwonadeosun9572 6 місяців тому

      How do I read more or access it… share a link if you can

    • @FizzyGravy
      @FizzyGravy 5 місяців тому +1

      Bless you man.

  • @StoicismLegends
    @StoicismLegends 5 місяців тому +17

    "This is the mark of perfection of character-to spend each day as if it were your last, without frenzy, laziness, or any pretending." - Marcus Aurelius

  • @365InnerPeace
    @365InnerPeace 7 місяців тому +168

    “Your days are numbered. Use them to throw open the windows of your soul to the sun. If you do not, the sun will soon set, and you with it.”…by Marcus Aurelius. I love Stoicism, and your video also.

    • @StoicismConqueror
      @StoicismConqueror  7 місяців тому +14

      That Marcus Aurelius quote is epic, reminds us to live fully, right? Glad you're into Stoicism and that my video hit the spot. Let's keep living those bright, bold days!

    • @woofbark4475
      @woofbark4475 7 місяців тому +4

      Kiss his son, or he will be angry and your way will lead to your destruction, for his wrath can flare up in a moment. Blessed are all who take refuge in him. Psalm 2:12.
      For the Lord God is a sun and shield;
      The Lord gives grace and glory;
      No good thing does He withhold from those who walk uprightly.
      - Psalm 84:11

    • @user-jw3yg9nh3o
      @user-jw3yg9nh3o 6 місяців тому

      ​@@woofbark44750:00

    • @turolretar
      @turolretar 6 місяців тому

      I guess I’ll finally have to admit my love for men.

    • @Habib-uk8yc
      @Habib-uk8yc 6 місяців тому

      Holy smoke, the quote is frigging POWERFUL 😮

  • @janakakumara3836
    @janakakumara3836 6 місяців тому +29

    Message to all the compassionate and empathetic people of the world, who feels joy by bringing joy to others :
    RESIST THE URGE TO GIVE. It is better for you and better for the world, if you ration your love and sharing only towards those who appreciate you and show effort. YOU WILL LOSE SOME PEOPLE. BE PREPARED FOR THE PAIN OF THIS LOSS. It is better for you and better for them.

    • @Anon2k12
      @Anon2k12 6 місяців тому +2

      It's weird to see this shared in this light, as if it's something significant. The problem with empathy is people don't do it right. They assume empathy us putting yourself in someone else's shoes and that's it.
      It's not.
      Before you put yourself in someones shoes, make sure you take off your own.
      Compassion is a logical action not an emotional reaction. You don't give if you're without and you don't take if their in need.
      Simple. Get used to people calling you cold lol.

  • @chakichan_uwu
    @chakichan_uwu 2 місяці тому +2

    Turning to stoicism is the best thing that happened to me in 2024

  • @StoicVirtuesyt1
    @StoicVirtuesyt1 2 місяці тому +2

    At its core, Stoicism is a call to mindfulness. By living deliberately and consciously, we can navigate life's complexities with clarity.

  • @AkaitoAchumi
    @AkaitoAchumi 2 місяці тому +2

    There is no joy without pain.
    There is no sunshine without rain.
    U need up n down.
    These is how the world works.
    As, a man u must build yourself.

  • @bustavonnutz
    @bustavonnutz 7 місяців тому +42

    Recently had a falling out with a coworker & we are no longer on speaking terms. I can assure you this is powerful advice, I employed many of these methods without even realizing it. If you don't respect yourself, then don't expect respect from others.

  • @yvonnedyer9782
    @yvonnedyer9782 2 місяці тому +2

    This has been my life once I start loving myself. It’s so beautiful

  • @sr.smokes
    @sr.smokes 6 місяців тому +13

    today i have reached my breaking point, and this leasson is truly valuable, you have my deepest thanks

    • @StoicismConqueror
      @StoicismConqueror  6 місяців тому +5

      @sr.smokes,
      I'm truly moved to hear that my content has reached you at such a critical moment. Knowing that the lessons I share can provide value and support during challenging times is deeply gratifying. Remember, the principles of Stoicism are not just philosophical concepts but practical tools for resilience and inner peace. Please feel free to reach out if you need more guidance or just someone to talk to. Your journey and well-being matter. Stay strong and keep applying these principles. They have the power to transform challenges into stepping stones for growth.

  • @Marz7
    @Marz7 7 місяців тому +9

    “Not playing hard to get,but being hard to forget

  • @rowanblaas2831
    @rowanblaas2831 6 місяців тому +31

    Not sure if anyone noticed but towards the end when it thank us for our time it is utilizing one of the rules of acknowledging our efforts to show that what the video mentions is valuable and not everyone gets the same privilege of receiving such content.
    For the person who created the video, very well done and you earned my thumbs up.

  • @black_european
    @black_european 2 місяці тому +3

    I have decided to walk away from toxic friends and family, I have also decided to take my space from my relationship because I was treated basic, am now coming across this video and I love the fact that am on the right track and ready to learn. 🥰

    • @KingStoic101
      @KingStoic101 2 місяці тому

      Congratulations on your decision!
      What steps are you planning to take next on your journey towards self-improvement?

  • @norafox2803
    @norafox2803 6 місяців тому +24

    I'm naturally a stoic. It's comforting knowing I've been doing this for years. I did have to climb out of anxiety and seclusion, but from that I've chiseled myself into to path of stoicism

  • @Rosemarysummers2
    @Rosemarysummers2 6 місяців тому +31

    I find myself overlooked as I've got older, pushed into the background where once I was respected, Im trying to cope and learn new lessons. Thank you😊

    • @EA50458
      @EA50458 6 місяців тому +4

      That’s their loss. There are so many wonderful books, foods to cook, things to do,etc … far more rewarding than what some confused people think.

  • @Earthalien89
    @Earthalien89 6 місяців тому +21

    I withdrew myself from life..social media, friendships, family..10 years ago. I became kind of like a ghost and it didnt make a bit of difference..no messages or invites, check-ins or phone calls. It was then i knew just how invaluable i was. It was just validation for me for how i had always felt anyway. If i dont change something i know my life is leading me to a sad end.
    All i think i need is to be cared for and loved by a support group but all i ever feel is felt sorry for.
    Im not a dull person..im beautiful, smart, funny, kind hearted...but why am i always undervalued? 💔

    • @darpanmajumdar6947
      @darpanmajumdar6947 6 місяців тому +14

      Go out in the world friend. Volunteer if you may for a cause that connects with you. Expand by contributing will be my proposal. :)

    • @StoicismConqueror
      @StoicismConqueror  6 місяців тому +18

      @oneandonlymj47, It sounds like you've been carrying a heavy burden, and it's important to recognize the strength it takes to share these feelings. Remember, your worth isn't defined by others' recognition or lack thereof. The qualities you possess - beauty, intelligence, humor, kindness - these are intrinsic values that shine regardless of external validation.
      It's never too late to reconnect with the world and find your tribe. People who will see and appreciate you for who you truly are. Sometimes, the first step can be the hardest, but it's a step worth taking. You have so much to offer, and there's a place where your qualities will be celebrated. You're not alone in your journey. 💙

    • @nolashiflett635
      @nolashiflett635 5 місяців тому

      Where are you? God loves you!!

    • @brianneml2979
      @brianneml2979 3 місяці тому +5

      The answer to that is in your statement. You said you knew just how invaluable you were… when you Value yourself you won’t even entertain that thought.

    • @angiep3346
      @angiep3346 3 місяці тому +2

      Every day continue to renew your mind and remind yourself how much you love and value yourself. Forgive yourself for any past self-neglect. You’ll begin to radiate more self-confidence and WORTHINESS. The right people will then be drawn to you and you’ll grow a network that truly values you. God loves you! 💕 Continue to love yourself and you’ll see amazing things happen in your life. ❤

  • @therealHeavensBlessing
    @therealHeavensBlessing 6 місяців тому +5

    I thought am the only one digesting wisdom here but the comments of others are also astounding which means this is invaluable

  • @amraevers2797
    @amraevers2797 3 місяці тому +2

    "balancing kindness with self respect, availability with self importance, investment with self preservation"
    Thank you foe the video. Sometimes I feel frazzled when I have to rebalance, but I'm thinking that just having that observation might be the best thing

  • @LoveYourHuman-Energy
    @LoveYourHuman-Energy 6 місяців тому +8

    Thank you for writing, producing, and posting this content. ❤ It made a difference right when I needed it. Appreciated.
    Keep on, keeping on.

  • @HindustaniQueen
    @HindustaniQueen 6 місяців тому +6

    The narrator is like the father I always wanted

  • @nightowl4546
    @nightowl4546 4 місяці тому +2

    I use silence all the time. I don't usually go to bars, but when I do, I usually play pool by myself to practice. A lot of people I've met multiple times walk in, but only a couple say hi. Shows who I can trust I guess.

  • @MotivationSportPodcast
    @MotivationSportPodcast 6 місяців тому +4

    *Every effort will be rewarded, the road to success does not allow you to stop*

  • @user-zi4rg9mx4u
    @user-zi4rg9mx4u 6 місяців тому +6

    Thank you! Keep the Stoicism flourishing!!😊

  • @ostune-pe6nv
    @ostune-pe6nv 7 місяців тому +4

    I love that in your videos you show characters of people who look smart as well as athletic, which points to the wonderful perfection of man.👍

  • @StoicWisdomyt5
    @StoicWisdomyt5 Місяць тому +1

    "The Stoic practice of negative visualization helps me appreciate life's blessings even more."

  • @user-hm2bs9vo3q
    @user-hm2bs9vo3q 6 місяців тому +4

    Im at a point in my life where i don't care what anyone thinks ,and that's a dangerous mindset for someone 20 years young but listening to other people has led me to be a complete and utter failure if im being honest but you know what, its not about where you start but where you finish and im somehow exactly where i started moral of the story is people will take advantage of you if they can so keep your circle small and take the opinions of others with a grain of salt cause at the end day they don't have to look at you in the mirror

  • @ttbay2
    @ttbay2 6 місяців тому +5

    I’m grateful for this. I pray every person that hears this is blessed with wisdom.

  • @Peppelini_
    @Peppelini_ 6 місяців тому +18

    This video is sincerely a work of art. The ancient greeks were truely wise when they created this fine knowledge, and your presentation is just as astonishing. This video has already made an impact on myself and my self-reflection. The best video that i have seen in a long time. Genuinly impactfull. You have earned my respect.

  • @Callmethebreeze902
    @Callmethebreeze902 6 місяців тому +4

    New to the stoicism teachings but the tips in this video align with my scorpio mentality and life long behavior.

  • @Stoic-Monarch
    @Stoic-Monarch 2 місяці тому

    “I appreciate myself for not settling. Beautiful video and great work😍

  • @joycemhango4353
    @joycemhango4353 7 місяців тому +5

    Stoicism is powerful oh my God!! Very realistic🔥🔥

  • @markomarjanovic8348
    @markomarjanovic8348 7 місяців тому +4

    Love this, the best most practical stoic video out there!

  • @Djworkvan
    @Djworkvan 7 місяців тому +4

    I sure wish I had learned this earlier in my life but I am glad I am seeking this now.

  • @wongfrancis
    @wongfrancis 3 місяці тому +3

    i am so thankful to find this video by chance, just when i really needed the wisdom on my difficult love life. ❤

  • @jeremiahdearagon1676
    @jeremiahdearagon1676 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much for this video.
    It took me an hour to go through the entire video as I took down notes.
    I will read this every morning to remind myself to be a better man.
    Cheers to stoic serenity!

  • @360deyo2
    @360deyo2 6 місяців тому +5

    Needed to hear this. 🙏🏾
    You earned a subscription!

  • @timhennings6955
    @timhennings6955 6 місяців тому +5

    Having been the stomach mine at extremely early age I think the key to this is knowing when to apply when to pull back for example and went to engage in deep communication because what can happen is your self-worth can quickly take priority over the self-worth of others and therefore you are always in a manipulative controlling mindset to make the situation of each relationship go in your favor. It is not about things going in your favor it's about deep self-love for yourself and respect. I have a tendency in my last few decades to always be sharing you could say too much of myself and I will work on that now. Still human relationships are usually quite surface and I like to get deep with people into what's going on on the inside and share mine as well so in some ways the stoic mind is quite shallow a sort of game that you may win but in so doing you lose.....

  • @Kloops
    @Kloops 6 місяців тому +3

    I overshared way too much with my husband. So much so he knew how to play me. He knew my plans of my life. While he was always, after the wedding , guarded in what information he gave me right from the beginning decades ago.
    I used to think if I was an open book he would be too.
    He had been open and honest when we dated. When we got married he changed immediately to being closed off and he actually lied about so many things small and big things.
    I asked him a few years ago why he changed. He said because he wasn’t courting me anymore.
    And I said well we’re courting again this time for a divorce. Lol
    I hope his future wives have more self confidence than I had.

  • @juliehay
    @juliehay 6 місяців тому +4

    This is extremely important me, I have to constantly reset my boundaries.

  • @breannamack2258
    @breannamack2258 6 місяців тому +14

    I used to also run an educational UA-cam channel. This video is spot on, beautifully written script with valuable content and eloquent vocabularies. Liked and subscribed! Keep up the good work!

  • @jamesferrantino5294
    @jamesferrantino5294 7 місяців тому +9

    One of the best I’ve seen on self worth. Thank you!

    • @StoicismConqueror
      @StoicismConqueror  7 місяців тому +2

      @jamesferrantino5294, your comment just made my day! Thanks for watching and for the kind words. Stay tuned for more!

  • @thomasfoster2597
    @thomasfoster2597 7 місяців тому +10

    "You're the Emperor of your own self-regard." Awesome!

  • @smithav9393
    @smithav9393 6 місяців тому +35

    I don't know much about stoicism, but this was such a well articulated video and an amazing concept. I am intrigued. I give too much of myself to others and feel like I make them my priority while they don't. I will listen to this a few more times and apply this concept. Deeply grateful ❤

    • @StoicismConqueror
      @StoicismConqueror  6 місяців тому +1

      @smithav9393, it's wonderful to hear that the video sparked your interest in Stoicism and resonated with your experiences. Recognizing the importance of balancing giving to others with prioritizing your own well-being is a key step in personal growth. Revisiting and applying these concepts can indeed be transformative. Feel free to share how these strategies impact your journey. Your gratitude is deeply appreciated!

    • @terryjenkins7327
      @terryjenkins7327 6 місяців тому +1

      You and I both. As a former teacher, we were trained to give much of ourselves beyond what’s typical. At 60, I must break that chain cause taken for granted sucks. Gotta set personal limits or crumble in silence.

  • @reseecup100
    @reseecup100 2 місяці тому +2

    I needed to hear this. Thank you!

  • @user-qp6yp1dk3o
    @user-qp6yp1dk3o 6 місяців тому +2

    I needed to see this so much, thank you💜

  • @aaroncoers8057
    @aaroncoers8057 5 місяців тому +1

    Just watching this calmed me and slowed down my swirl of thoughts.

  • @danielastoica3354
    @danielastoica3354 7 місяців тому +11

    I find this video brilliant! Please continue on this path! We need real growth and not the BS that people want to hear

    • @StoicismConqueror
      @StoicismConqueror  7 місяців тому +2

      @danielastoica3354 Really appreciate your encouragement! Sticking to genuine content is the plan. Thanks for the support!

  • @juanderuano8969
    @juanderuano8969 6 місяців тому +55

    Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.

    • @juanderuano8969
      @juanderuano8969 6 місяців тому +1

      wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

    • @juanderuano8969
      @juanderuano8969 6 місяців тому

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

    • @michaelclark7536
      @michaelclark7536 6 місяців тому

      You have the power to control you thoughts. It’s just that simple not easy but simple. We are on parallel paths. Use the wisdom here to help you in that journey. Get better so you do not have to repeat you need to love you first then let go then move on. ❤

    • @indianmilitary
      @indianmilitary 6 місяців тому

      @juanderuano8969 Focus on your breath (vipassana) which can quell your mind chatter. This is just an experience without knowledge of self. If there is knowledge of the self and its relation with the material realm, it is very easy to calm mind chatter without doing any meditation technique. Here is a small hint. The conscious, impassive and omnipresent experiencer (the true self) is just one and NOT the doer of any action. Experience or intelligent energy (thoughts/body/world/universe) is multiple and doer of everything but does NOT experience anything.
      ERWIN SCHRODINGER (ONE OF THE FOUNDING FATHERS OF QUANTUM MECHANICS) Schrodinger's biographer Moore wrote -- “His system - or that of the Hindu Upanishads/Vedas - is delightful and consistent: the self and the world are one and they are all. He rejected traditional western religious beliefs (Jewish, Christian, and Islamic) not on the basis of any reasoned argument, nor even with an expression of emotional antipathy, for he loved to use religious expressions and metaphors, but simply by saying that they are naïve--and will NOT understand Quantum physics and consciousness. (CONSCIOUS, IMMANENT AND OMNIPRESENT SELF = SHIVA and THOUGHTS/BODY/W0RLD/UNIVERSE = SHAKTHI OR THE INTELLIGENT ENERGY)
      Erwin Schrodinger wrote: “Vedanta teaches that consciousness is singular, all happenings are played out in one universal consciousness and there is no multiplicity of selves.”

    • @alexvince461
      @alexvince461 6 місяців тому +1

      It takes time probably a lot of it and you need to avoid trying to replace them with someone else until you're properly back on your feet or possibly never once you learn to appreciate your own value, there is no short cut

  • @winstoic_offical
    @winstoic_offical 23 дні тому

    I like "The Fear Of Losing You" the most. Because it is true to my experience and I have received valuable lessons from you. Thanks for sharing. It helps me a lot!

  • @salimbenjelloun3885
    @salimbenjelloun3885 6 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for the time you invested to make this content.

  • @happywanderer5215
    @happywanderer5215 6 місяців тому +2

    Amazing! Thank you. This is perfect timing for me. Much appreciated

  • @Cynthia-iz5qp
    @Cynthia-iz5qp 7 місяців тому +8

    I am learning so much from Stoic Wisdom. I have retired from several jobs but still working. I work at Wal-Mart. I know...but when i first started customers and coworkers wiuld love to run all over me. But i have set my place and tone. I no longer get disrespected by customers yelling at me, throwing their bags in my face literally or throwing their unwanted items in my small space. Even coworkers delivering formula dont put it in my space but a space close by. Coworkers leave register 18 (nobody likes because it is too busy) clean, no garbage and no items left by customers. Essentially what they should be doing. I just have ine coworker who leaves the place a mess and customers standing in line before i ready the station. But we are always watched by bosses, coworkers, customers, and cameras literally. Sooner or later there will be enough bosses that will say she needs to have a conversation. But i can only control myself. My station will be set up correctly, customers taking care of. Unless of course the demand i put can goods on too of bread or potato chips. Ugh. I like to do it correctly but customer service...

    • @StoicismConqueror
      @StoicismConqueror  7 місяців тому +5

      @Cynthia-iz5qp Your journey towards asserting yourself and setting boundaries at work is incredibly inspiring. It's a testament to the Stoic principle of focusing on what's within our control and letting go of what's not. Keep up the great work, and remember, the only person's actions you can control are your own, and it sounds like you're doing that splendidly. May your station always be an example of order amidst the chaos!

  • @annettekongsooyee3389
    @annettekongsooyee3389 6 місяців тому +4

    I listen every morning to your knowledge you share, I am learning a lot from it, keep the good job up

  • @janebraun4482
    @janebraun4482 6 місяців тому +2

    I agree with the points, I tend to overshare too much, like I get too comfortable while the other person of the opposite sex does not. Then I create doubt upon myself, hard to fix but will keep these points in mind.

  • @kgbkgb7616
    @kgbkgb7616 6 місяців тому +8

    The wisdom in this video is 10/10 quality and much of it is very consistent with the biblical teachings in Proverbs and Ecclesiastes.

  • @TheEmpressxoxo
    @TheEmpressxoxo 6 місяців тому +3

    I love this I’m a female and I been using these techniques all my life I just wish I was more consistent and had a higher vibration back then.

  • @Supreme.9X
    @Supreme.9X 7 місяців тому +4

    Im so glad someone valued me enough to send this to me. I needed to see this video!

    • @StoicismConqueror
      @StoicismConqueror  7 місяців тому +2

      @Supreme_Understanding It's wonderful when someone shows us what we need at the right moment. Cherish that kind of support and keep the wisdom from the video close to heart. Here's to growth and strength!

    • @Supreme.9X
      @Supreme.9X 7 місяців тому +1

      @@StoicismConqueror Thank you 🙏 I appreciate this video. First time hearing your content and have now subscribed. Keep up the great job! Cheers 🥂

  • @justinJ689
    @justinJ689 6 місяців тому +2

    This video is so well done.

  • @DominiqueFrancon
    @DominiqueFrancon 7 місяців тому +6

    This is an EXCELLENT presentation of these ancient principles.

    • @StoicismConqueror
      @StoicismConqueror  7 місяців тому +2

      @DominiqueFrancon, thank you for your kind words! It's always encouraging to hear that the presentation of these timeless principles resonates with our audience. Your support is greatly appreciated, and we'll continue to bring valuable insights from ancient wisdom to our modern lives. Stay tuned for more!

  • @sambandamcecilia1979
    @sambandamcecilia1979 6 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for your valuable suggestions!

  • @AlwinaSG
    @AlwinaSG Місяць тому +1

    Thank you so much for this ❤

  • @JayBel77
    @JayBel77 6 місяців тому +3

    #3 is absolutely crucial. Build your life.

  • @so3710
    @so3710 4 місяці тому +1

    Great content! Cheers for sharing ❤

  • @shawna8797
    @shawna8797 7 місяців тому +5

    Thank you for making such an intriguing video✨ Will watch this video as much as I can so I remember to put it into practice every day

    • @StoicismConqueror
      @StoicismConqueror  7 місяців тому +1

      @shawna8797 It's great to hear the video resonated with you! Repetition is the mother of skill, and watching it regularly is a fantastic way to make these strategies a part of your daily life. Keep on striving for personal excellence!

  • @kravenofspider
    @kravenofspider 6 місяців тому +1

    I feel that this is one of the best videos yet.

    • @StoicismConqueror
      @StoicismConqueror  6 місяців тому

      @kravenofspider, it's fantastic to hear that you rate this as one of the best videos yet! We strive to continuously improve and provide valuable content. If there's any specific part that stood out to you or any suggestions for future topics, please feel free to share. Your feedback is greatly appreciated!

  • @unnoun2317
    @unnoun2317 6 місяців тому +5

    It absolutely hit a string with me , it was when you said in a meaning ( putting yourself first is not selfish and it doesnt have to revolve around a challenge with your partner )

    • @StoicismConqueror
      @StoicismConqueror  6 місяців тому +1

      @unnoun2317, it's great to hear that the message resonated with you. Understanding that putting yourself first is essential and not selfish is a crucial aspect of personal growth and healthy relationships. It's about balance and self-care, not just dealing with challenges with a partner. If you have any more insights or experiences to share on this topic, they would be highly valued. Thanks for your feedback!

    • @unnoun2317
      @unnoun2317 6 місяців тому +1

      @@StoicismConqueror all I wanna say is you just earned a new sub , never seen a page where they interact with commenters in this way and I highly appreciate it ,stay stoic 💪

  • @LilyBMi
    @LilyBMi 7 місяців тому +4

    Thank you for this wonderful information.

  • @TheTrueNarthumpulous
    @TheTrueNarthumpulous 7 місяців тому +3

    Really well written.

  • @SomewhatStoic
    @SomewhatStoic 7 місяців тому +36

    Wow, this hit home for me! 🙌 These strategies are a game-changer, and I love how they're rooted in self-respect and inner strength. 🚀 The idea of being the architect of my worth? Powerful stuff. Definitely going to apply these in my life.

    • @StoicismConqueror
      @StoicismConqueror  7 місяців тому

      @SomewhatStoic, it's fantastic to hear that you've found value in these strategies! Embracing the role of architect in building your self-worth is indeed a powerful step. Keep up the momentum and continue applying these principles in your life. Your journey to self-improvement is inspiring!

  • @cosmeticsandpurseswithevelyn
    @cosmeticsandpurseswithevelyn 6 місяців тому +4

    Philosophy Excellence learning about the meaning this word Stoicism is an incredible life changing acknowledgment of wisdom, wish I had known at least some of these valuable treachings when I was younger would have change my life Bravo 👏

  • @Mankind-ik4ie
    @Mankind-ik4ie 6 місяців тому +4

    Valuable Information, that I'll be applying to my life

  • @mariakelleybianchi
    @mariakelleybianchi 2 місяці тому

    Incredibly helpful. Thank you.

  • @simadey1847
    @simadey1847 6 місяців тому +2

    Great suggestions. ❤happy to get your wisdom in my life..

  • @kellya8425
    @kellya8425 6 місяців тому +5

    #1. Respect yourself & command respect from others by doing them as you would have them do you #2. Take joy in your routine, achievements and contemplation (breath & relax) #3. Do what you love the most. Be the star in your own movie! When you do something, make it an event.

  • @jen7834
    @jen7834 3 місяці тому

    Just subscribed wow , I will be applying all of these right now.

  • @StoicWisdom-996
    @StoicWisdom-996 4 місяці тому +1

    Great Video, inspirational!

  • @WaiHninLwin-kn9to
    @WaiHninLwin-kn9to 6 місяців тому

    Omg this work. My bf is obsess with me and always making time just to make sure I'm fine and telling me all abt his days and offering to spoil me like hell. Omg the key is to obsess with yourself first .

  • @winilethomo2988
    @winilethomo2988 6 місяців тому +2

    I needed this , thanks a lot

  • @deanoor9391
    @deanoor9391 6 місяців тому +2

    I've really needed this

  • @user-sd9tq5yj7s
    @user-sd9tq5yj7s 7 місяців тому +2

    Amazing Strategies. Bravo

  • @teresan3763
    @teresan3763 3 місяці тому +1

    This was a powerful help .. Thank you 😊

  • @etchersplace
    @etchersplace 6 місяців тому +1

    I needed to see this today.

  • @TheAnnegallien
    @TheAnnegallien 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you. Great vocabulary ❤

  • @DaveCharbel
    @DaveCharbel 6 місяців тому +2

    I needed this. Thank you

  • @mariaal-shawe875
    @mariaal-shawe875 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you very much for all this helpful information. It’s help to empower myself

  • @Mia-zb2xr
    @Mia-zb2xr 6 місяців тому +2

    such a mindblowing advice ❤❤❤

  • @kevindittler6524
    @kevindittler6524 6 місяців тому +2

    These are the foundational values that all should be raised by. When adhered to communities and society thrive. If not deceit, theft and cynicism set in. Following this will not only benefit yourself but all around you in the world they create. Carpe Diem, The Staff of Salvation is the Bar found on the platform of Olympic Weightlifting!⚡️🏋️‍♂️✨