work-life diaries | starting my new job!
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- Опубліковано 17 вер 2024
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Hello friends,
Welcome to the very first episode of my Work-Life Diaries! After taking a little break from UA-cam, I spent some time figuring out the direction I want to take with my content. I initially thought that wrapping up my job search series was an opportunity for me to move away from work-related videos. But the truth is, work is such a huge part of my life, and there’s still so much I want to share with you all.
Thanks to your feedback and encouragement, I’ve decided to continue sharing snippets of both my professional and personal life. In this episode, I’m diving into my first week at my new job and sharing how I’m crafting my work persona. I hope you enjoy following along as I navigate this new chapter!
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Julia
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I understand your thought process about being yourself but not to much at work for this or that reason, but something my mom taught me many, many years ago was everyone puts their pants on one leg at a time. You are a young, hard working woman who definitely deserves the work position you have, or you wouldn’t be there. You are naturally a great person, don’t hide yourself. If others have a problem or can’t move beyond the past, that is their problem, not yours. You are amazing, show the world that!❤
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Julia, it is called decision fatigue. You're making all of these new decisions (new work environment, new work commute, new people) that you're initially being overwhelmed. You'll be okay after 2 -3 weeks. You can do this!
8:30 I resonate with this 100% being an East Asian woman and looking younger than my counterparts. People always tell me it's a compliment if someone thinks I look young but they don't understand the struggle of not being taken seriously in the workplace. Definitely something I am also working on in improving the way I carry myself, speak, etc
Being Asian has nothing to do with anything 😂 Google ceo is Indian loll so what womp womp
The way you dress also says a lot about you... There is a way and a way... I'm also a non-Asian and they always tell me I look like 14 years old. But if I dress appropriately I look like my age and with a certain difference
If you know enough, they cannot deny you. Just keep on grinding.
I know what you mean, Julia. Coming from a heavily male-dominated industry, as a young-looking woman (young for my age, anyway lol) I had to carefully craft my image. Assertiveness was key but in a way that earned respect. It was a daily task lol but was such a game-changer for me. I ended up loving my teammates and was treated with respect.
Many times we have to become one of the guys lol but without losing our identities.
Loll 😂
pls can you share some tips about how you practically did it?
totally relate to not being taken seriously in the workplace as someone that looks really young. I also have a soft spoken, higher pitched voice. such a hard line to straddle between being seen as assertive but also social and fun. i haven't quite figured it out yet.
Going back to a routine schedule is exhausting. Rest up and give yourself permission to rest. ❤
i think its a good thing that you listen to yourself and sleep 10-12 hours until your body adjust and its pretty normal honestly. All the new information, environment & being with new people must be exhausting.
have you ever consider paying someone to edit your video ? idk just a random idea to help you manage how busy you are. ❤
Sleeping 10 hours sounds like a dream :D My anxiety in my first week didnt allow me this luxury hahah
I don't miss those days of me art journaling till 2:00 a.m. 😢
WOmen have naturally a lot of anxiety, it comes from internal insecurity. Its Natural.
@@rodrigo100kk Seems like you have more personal experience.
I'm a new sub and after binge watching 10ish video I'm happy to say I absolutely love your content! I can't say I relate to your life too much, I'm a 30 something mum but maybe that's why I enjoy it and I love your personality. You're officially my new comfort youtuber.
wishing you all the best.
Here’s my recommendation for your new Work Life series: “Dare to Lead” It’s a book by Brene Brown. The subtitles on the book jacket say it all: “Daring greatly and rising strong at work” “Brave Work. Tough Conversations. Whole Hearts.” Good Luck, Julia!
Hi Julia, thank you for sharing. I’m in a similar situation at work, where it's male-dominated, and most of my colleagues are much more experienced. I’ve definitely made the mistake of revealing too much about myself. Before switching to finance a few years ago, I worked as a flight attendant, which was a choice I made because I wanted to. Although I don’t have many years of experience in finance, I’ve been continuously studying and learning. Still, I often feel belittled at work, and there are times when I’m spoken to as if I’m less competent. It’s fascinating how people’s perceptions can change based on your job, background, or ethnicity. In reality, I graduated from the top university in my country and speak several languages.
Currently, I’m learning data analytics online and aim to move into the finance tech space. Side note: I’m also a Cantonese speaker working in North America
finally!!!!! was eager to know how you were doing good to see a vlog 🫧🎀💗
Sweetie, in the black community we call it code switching. And it is exhausting.
I found your videos at the right time. I have been looking for a new job since separating from the Air Force. I've felt lost and worried about what the future holds for me. I'm happy to say that I have found a new job that pays me what my experience and clearance is worth! Thank you for posting and being transparent!
Dang Julia, that camera is NOICE! I have a niece who's about your age and I think she has potential to become a content creator. This would make a good Christmas gift for her. 😸
I'm so excited for this work-life series!!! You're my new fave youtuber hehe
I’m wishing you nothing but the best Julia❤
I’m so happy for you Julia! Congrats again on your new job!
I'm happy to see you have an update. So excited that I'm commenting while waiting for the first time for the advertisement to finish.
Congress sis.. I am really happy for you. I saw your Job Searching videos and now you get a job.. It's really motivated me..lots of Love...
I like that you are sleeping well. That's my new goal for this month cos the last two months was hell😂
Thanks for sharing!! So exciting for your new job!! Congrats!! Appreciate your videos so much!!❤
Best of luck with the new job!
so glad you've decided to continue sharing about your work life! i personally don't mind ill watch whatever you post haha ❤ but im also super interested in seeing the work aspect of other people's lives and observing different fields/industries!
Soo happy for you Julia much love ❤❤❤❤❤
So excited to see how the new job is going!! I know how exhausting getting back into that routine can be, but you're doing great!
Woww julia, loved loved the candid share on your “branding” in ur new company ❤️ a lot of food for thought around here, and I’m definitely gonna bring this tip to my life.
Wishing you so much success and realization in your new job!!, I’m out here rooting for you ❤
Oh and I would love to hear more from you on branding - it’s so natural how it comes out here in ur channel, “relatableness” was one of the things that caught my attention, and other things like truthfulness, humility ❤️
watching your videos has helped me through my job hunting process from getting rejected to aldi to the next interview getting hired. these videos have helped me not feel alone in the process, thank you. i got hired today and i didnt even leave the mall yet while getting hired lol.
I was waiting so long for you to upload a video!! So happy to see it! Congratulations on starting your new job! Also, totally get what you mean by striking a balance between being intentional and being strategic because I really feel you there 😂 clean slate is right!! Every new place is a new beginning ❤
Love the whole intro!! It feels so refreshing.
Congrats on the new position! Totally normal to be exhausted after jumping back into FTE after some time out of the grind. I use the C922 and I find it can be really zoomed but if I use a program called “hand mirror” (desktop plug-in to check how you look on camera really quickly) it fixes the zoom issue.
5:00 BTW, FTC guidelines require *clear disclosure* of sponsorships, which for videos entails *not just a caption* but a mention in the video itself, it doesn't need to be verbal, it can be a text overlay, but it should be there.
I might have missed it, but that's also kind of the point. Really shouldn't have to be digging to the bottom of your video description to find out that the camera thing was a sponsorship...
Congrats on the job. May it be everything you hoped for.
absolutely enjoying this❤
thanks for the tipp at 7:something - I will start a new job soon & I will implement this! :) also - nice new camera!
nice monitor!
don’t worry you’ll find your way in your competitive field! Alot of us on here are in the same spot as you or have been there! You can do it! ❤
I completely understand with trying to find that balance when it comes to a new workplace. Im naturally an introvert and don’t like unnecessary conversations but I dont want people to see me as mean or stuck up. It’s a little hard to get there but I think I got it 3 months later.
It is incredibly difficult to get respect as a female in tech who looks young (speaking from experience, I'm 5'0", look younger than my age but at least now I'm clearly over 30). It's a bit of a catch-22. If you aren't assertive, you aren't heard. If you are too assertive, well, you probably know the drill. You're a bossy woman. It's a challenge. I've been in tech 24 years and only in the last IDK 7-8 years have I really just settled in with "no, I am skilled and I know this thing and I will speak up."
Anyway, congrats on your new job!
omg i was at the concert too! good luck at your new job.
Congrats on starting the new job!!! Totally understand going back to a company and them still perceiving your old self. I had the same issue with my first job out of college.
Also watching this has me so hyped to see colde in la I love his music.
I was wondering how you got some of the shots, that camera is pretty cool. Congrats on the first day, blow them away like I know you will. 😁
Good luck with your new job.
And, your new camera...does wonders at night, try it you'll see....the image is so much clearer! 😉
omg i can't believe i didn't see you at the Colde concert! it was so much fun! also congrats again on the new job! i def feel you on the feeling tired after a day in the office these days T,T
Thank you for sharing.
i love you videos Julia!
hehe love your videos! i just started a new job in data and i LOVE colde !!!!! - love from London x
Niceeee good luck on your new job!
As a WOC in tech I relate - in my first job I was always seen as the "fresh grad" even after I had progressed and grown upwards. I also look young, and it's tricky to navigate how to get taken seriously, I try to always be serious when it comes to work deliverables / projects
totally relate on the whole age perception at work--i feel like i've been going through the same thing
Soooooo Sweet!!!!!!!!
discovered you on sarah’s podcast and love your energy ❤❤❤❤
That camera concept seems very cool but I would be sooooooo scared to forget it once "stuck" to a wall or whatever.
I think you should always choose a place that celebrates you. I believe positive growth and evolution is possible, but I don’t believe it should be at the expense of your personality. I had a job once where I had to completely change my entire personality and it was terrible for my mental health. Choose peace.
Aww Julia! 🤗 That first pair of glasses looks so good on you!
Hi julia, first at all i love ur content so much. The flow is so good had so much fun watching ur vlog. How many hours did u spend to edit the videos ?
Get an LED video conferencing light. They're small and inexpensive and clip on top of the monitor. Surprised your job didn't give you a webcam and monitor.
I noticed it was Logitech brio cam before you introduced it, as I got the exact same one a week ago. And my comments exactly same as yours 😂😂😂“I thought she got the Logitech cam but it’s too zoomed in and I’ll return it“ I told my friend right before you shared your review😂😂😂
Congrats🎉
Hey Julia! Congrats on the new job!!! Just a heads up, the first few shots with the magnetic camera after the train were a little unstabled, gave me a slight motion sickness feeling...
Webcams are really bad even the pricey ones, I use my sony A7C II as a webcam, it is recognised as a webcam automatically when connected (in the usb streaming mode) without any additional software (usually not allowed on company's laptops), highly recommend this option, if you have a vlogging sony camera give it a try ;)
Whenever I'm in a new workplace, I don't like to show my cards too early. Under-promise, then surprise them with the delivery, with each subsequent project getting progressively better and better according to feedback. Hope it's going well :) P.S. Logitech c920x hd pro webcam is the way to go -- usually you can get it for about $60. I don't think that a webcam under $30 is going to do you any favors.
Colde was amazing, saw him yesterday
nice video julia! what’s your new company if i may ask?
Hello... Have a wonderful day... 🌻🌈🎉
First time I see you, Te di mi apoyo.
730am is early?? Most adults are already up before 6am 😂
Which keyboard do you have? It‘s so cute❤
Just a small tip: Never use your computer chair as a step on and stand on. 4:39 Since it has wheels, it can be dangerous and cause an accident. Many people have injured themselves falling from it.
normally yes but I have that chair and let me tell you, it ain’t going anywhere 😂😂
@@ila9063 That’s what these people said at the hospital. 😳😂🤣
@@deusx.machinaanime.3072 no I mean literally, that chair is so heavy and difficult to move. It's also super wide and doesn't slide randomly. It's the only office chair I've ever sat on that behaves that way (and I've sat on plenty of office chairs).
@@ila9063 Yeah OK. You’re old enough, I guess.
When you do get an accident, please post it too on UA-cam. It’ll be funny 🤣
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Hi Julia, I liked to watch your videos, maybe sometime you can give the advice on being data scientist and recommend the free sources for data scientist.
I think one good thing to do is in groups, be a basic bitch (My hobbies are cooking, traveling and finding ways to stay active) but when developing work friendships it's okay to be more specific (I love traveling to see my family in China and am in a K-Pop tribute dance group). In a group setting if you say the latter they'll just go "Oh okay apply all Asian stereotypes to this one." But also, no need to share too much in general. Boundaries are our friends.
Womp womp
COLDE IS ON TOUR>?????
Big W. I also started a new role but sadly its mostly in office
They couldn’t perceive you would’ve changed since you were an intern 4 years ago?? That’s honestly so small minded…. There’s no reason for someone to ever treat someone like that. They chose to perceive you that way intentionally, which is sad. This next job they will know exactly who you are (or how you want to be perceived), and hopefully no more small mindedness!
Exactly! Doesn't really seem that progressive at all
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May I know the bran of the screen you unrolled at 2:28? Thanks~
what camera did you use in the subway?
7.30 is almost sleeping in on a workday, I'm sorry 😃
4:20 Anyone know what the green thing at bottom left of the monitor is? Hot key keypad?
You can use your phone for webcam :D
I worried when you stood on the wheeled office chair.
Do you have to use the top angle camera to wfh? Its an awesome shot but then I thought about it more and was curious!
Hi Julia! Would you be willing to share books or other resources that helped you learn how to craft your professional image, conversational tone, etc? I want to improve my communication at work.
Who's your new employer?
Dont ask just enjoy! She just started
@@mollymo6229 Enjoy what?
That’s private information. If hasn’t shared that is her choice. And if one day she chooses to share, then she will! I hope ahead keeps that information private since there are people that have all different motives behind wanting that information.
At 6:26 you're doing barbell squats incorrectly. You need to be squatting to at least pararalell (your hip joint needs to be below your knee joint) or below. If you can't do that you need to reduce the amount of weight
Hello what is the item beneath the bottom left corner of your monitor?
Oh my please dress professionally. The pleated skirt is too young and rings “I’m a coworker not a boss”.
dress in pant suits or business suits not ever in pleated skirts that remind them of young, grade school girls. That is your professional reality.
The skirt is professional enough, leave her alone.
The skirt is fine. It didn't ring school-girl. She would be terribly out of place in a high tech environment wearing a suit.
@@ila9063 i’m not picking on her. I’m trying to help her as a person in management who works in a tech company. Always dress for the role, no matter what.
@@EastCoastPlusForty I'm yet to see a person working in tech wearing a suit. Personally, I'd rather not work for a company that requires one so maybe it's good she wouldn't get hired in a place like that anyway. Plenty of tech companies out there where business casual is fine (even overdressed).
thank you for sharing your experiences and opening up, i feel you as a fellow young woman in stem! 🥲 i wish you the best in your new job!!❤️❤️
Congrats on the new job once again. I hope it all goes accordingly 🥹💘