"She dragged Daddy Mike! 😲😢😲" Jaymikee responded! || Kulture Shock 🚨💥
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Editor- Daniel Olajugba
Camera- Daniel Olajugba, Ayokanmi lawrence
Light - Ayokanmi Lawrence
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Jaymikee
Ife James
Mary Ajobo
Jeremiah
Programs Manager - Daniel Olajugba
Executive Producer- Joshua Mike Bamiloye
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This lady in red is beautiful.
Lady in red, the sisterhood is proud of you 😍
the lady on red is filled with wisdom for real.. i love her
Key point: Do what works best for you👌I once worked with a colleague(male) that said his duty is just to provide for the house only. I remember vividly that our boss(male) told him that Ogbeni! You never ready for marriage with this kind of mentality, as God would have it, He got married the following year and his wife took in, He told us that he has swallowed those words back because he got to understand that pregnancy was another journey entirely. Person wey talk say na only to provide be him duty, he said he does the chores and would even sing a whole album while doing them🤣🤣. He then told us that he now realized that his father was unfair to his mum if this is what pregnant women go through and yet his mum does the whole chores when they were much younger.. Personally, communication is key in marriage. What works for Mr A might not work for Mr B... God Bless Y'all for shedding more light on this.. Nobody can drag our Daddy Mike ooooooo😘
This your colleague even adjusted. Some if you like be dying, that version of masculinity wey them sabi they will stick to it, even some believers are like this. May Jesus permeate every area of our lives even what we have been taught as per background.
I love how the Jaymikee, Jeremiah and Ife James were holding appliances that depicts women's role and Mary holding a plier and wires that depicts the male's role 😂😂😂😂 very creative
What stood out for me is parents training their girl child to be a good individual not just only for their husband house.
Do not build a doctrine out of your pain.
Don't play the victim.
Kai...That line...
Do not build a doctrine out of your pain.
I just appreciate the way Joshua responded to the lady with wisdom. What applies to family A must not apply to family B. And we should pay attention to what we listen on social media. Alot of people just use it nowadays as a platform to express their frustration and if you believe what they are saying, you might get into your own mariage with a mindset prepared for frustration.
The world should be more intentional about the boy's child... The church can rescue the world.😍
The problem all started when we played this games as kids “mummy in the kitchen cooking rice, Daddy in the palor watching film, children in the garden playing ball, change your style….”
Our culture as Africans has done more than we thought
Haha we in Cmrn played that game as well
@@cygwanfogbe246 wow! Maybe it’s a African thing then
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This reminds me of the day i followed my friend to show him where to grind his bean.
We got talking so i was there till the woman was done blending.
My friend carried his bucket of powdered bean and next thing this woman said i should collect it from him now.
In my mind i laughed. The truth is that our culture caused all of this not the church
I'm the only one seeing the inscription on Jaymikee's tee?😅
First thing my eyes fell on. I was like they don born child!
Who else saw the reaction to "jaymikee do you read the comments?"😂😂😂
12:15 omo after hearing all these, I'd like to give a shout out to my parents. I can't relate with this. I kukuma follow them go play the ball 😂😂😂so who go pick who clothes
Ife James has a message inside of him... it's like a river. Thank God he is a child of God, the Holy Spirit will expand it for him and his voice will be heard.
Thank God for these guys, they've really touched this matter with God's wisdom ALONE!!
“IF WE OVERSTRETCH EVERY TRUTH, WE GET TO AN EXTREME“
I'm seeing "lady in red" a lot...I think she's Mary..."thank u Mary" I remember jaymikee and uncle Jerry on one episode mentioning her name a lot
The lady is reallly talking from a place of hurt. I actually feel for her,
I believe this problem starts in the home. Parents do not actually train their male children to also do chores like the female do. I believe that solving this problem should start from home. I have a bro who does not do house chores, he often says " why should I do them when I have sisters". Am always angry whenever he speaks like, but I always tell him that I will tell his future wife before they get married that he does not do chores and he does not even want to learn how to do them. I personally does not like men with such mindset and I wouldn't also want my sister-in-laws to suffer from my brothers. Women are priceless rubies, please brothers be the superman in your home and your wife will also adjust to help a superman. The Lord will help us.
I appreciate your comment, but then don't generalise.
I have four sons and they all do chores,cook and all.
Who washes the dishes; women. 😱How dare u...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Every Marriage has its own uniqueness.
The standard of God can't be compromised. Hence, the problem. 🤷
This world is not my home, watching from heaven with Angel Mike and Angel Gab and laughing at what is going on on earth 😂😂😂.
Thank you Bro Joshua for that beautiful, sweet and wisdomic response 🎉❤👏👏👏👏👏
I agree with Jaymikee that there is no standard balance. In marriage what matters most is what makes the two individual happy 🤗🥰... Every marriage is unique and has works for them best🤗.
Thank you Zion Kulture for this episode ❤️
IfeJames and words💯💯...
More inspiration 👍🏻
The theme for 2024 international day of the boy child was "BOYS HEALTH AND WELL BEING"
I also saw managing anger and aggression somewhere as the Theme for 2024
Men are becoming more toxic today because we focus on women, called the victims and give them a protected status only for us to leave out training the men they will marry. As long as we do not focus on raising our men to be mature and responsible, we will always have issue in marriages and women who are victimized.
Don't focus on women and forget the men, without men, there will be no women and women can not do without men.
I pray God helps us to raise Godly seeds for such a time as ours
This space is a gift to the body of Christ!!
More grace
“By the grace of God.” 😂😂‼️
I agree completely with Jaymikee about how the “balance” of chores/responsibilities in a home must be agreed upon by both Husband and Wife.
But what I fear or worry about is that society often dictates to women from an early age that their value is determined by how much they do in their homes. So many women unconsciously believe that they are more valuable when they do almost everything that has to do with house chores and raising children, all while having a job or running a business. This burden of responsibility is in no way comparable to society’s expectation that a man is to make money and fix the car if it’s broken, or cut the grass in the compound.
I just love this lady's accent ❤❤
I really thank God for Jaymikee's wisdom in handling the lady's claim, and to Ife James and the other guy, thank you for really fixing the table beautifully well😊😊
Personally I think the balance is LOVE , I mean the 1cor 13:4... Kind of love . I have observed that most people really want to love but are ignorant of How to love so is like you really want to bake cake but you don't know how to bake and then you end up making a mess ,alot of people have entered into relationships with a ready heart to love their spouse but ended up producing jealousy instead of genuine affection simply because they have not learnt to love. If we must stop this gender role fight in our society we must sit to learn how to love the Christ way and then we won't even notice the Gap in between we call flaws. Big ups zion kulture ,I love the fact that balance was mentioned several times using the scripture as the scale of balance.
Exactly...the culture should be blamed and not the church.
Thanks for fixing the table. 👏
Like every organization, having roles is important. You are worse-off without it
Like you said it all boils down to doing things the scriptural way from parenting to marriage.
If you look at parenting advice in the scriptures you'll see that a lot of what you said about raising both gender right is actually there.
In marriage if you take out time to understand the importance of the head to your body, you’ll see the man has way more responsibility than the woman. Submitting as a woman is literally pushing all the thinking, security, provision, etc. to the man’s head while you as a woman do what little you can to lighten his burdens.
At the end of the day ladies are the ones that really chill in marriage if we decide to go with the Zion cultural standard.
I'm glad you guys addressed this. I pray this gets to those who the lady's post misled and bring them back to the light.
24:14 This post was so sweet. And Jaymikee posted this on my birthday, I was so happy to read this 😂😅
The table has indeed been broken and wonderfully fixed👏👏
Halleluyah😁
Exactly!!! Thank you so much Jaymikee for this post. You really helped our hearts. I was almost swayed by this woman's explanation but I now understand better. Thank you so much Zion Kulture for this. God bless you richly.
Wisdom is flowing ❤......but on a very true note, (most brothers lack home training for marriage) most of'em marry to run away from chores and responsibilities, i believe we should be trained and train our children equally, teach your daughter to do house chores as well as your son, as you teach your son financial responsibilities, don't forget your daughter, we are in a Morden world where everyone is working and providing financial assistance at home, but in most homes, in the evening When everyone comes back home, the man rests and the woman starts work afresh... it's not fair!
Otherwise thanks for these wonderful words ....... Brother Ife is so wise and so careful With His words, God bless Him 😊😊
Thank you so much for your wisdom. The lady l love your eloquence. Ife, you don't talk much but only wisdom that comes out
"Love is the balance "❤❤
My brothers can cook
My dad also the best cook in the world and he does it with joy 🎉
Awesome home indeed
now lets wait for Jay Mike's interview with Pastor Leke
It's amazing how Nigerian Christians are more liberal than American Christians. And when I say liberal, I mean nuanced and layered. Uniformity is not the way for human life. The way you guys showed emphaty to what she said is beautiful. Recently I've been seeing reactions to the bear v man issue and men in the US are very salty about it. I've seen some savage reactions from "Christians" in the US and I just shake my head. I've heard more encouraging things for women in the church recently, pastors are telling women their worth and telling men to be better. My pastor even says that the man should help his wife learn to cook if she can't 🤷🏾♀️ after all, there must be other attributes that made him choose her. Even my mom after complaining about my shortcomings will still make the time to say I have strong suits that make me a good companion, which is what a wife is.
You are all wise!!!!!!! This is a lot of wisdom you'll
Awnnn Daddy Mike is so sweet o🤗🤗God bless our marriages 😊Jaymikee is so brilliant waowwww I celebrate grace 😊
Thanks for your wisdom
This is sweet sha! wow.everyone is entitled to their opinion, however as children of GOD we should not forget his standard word and requirement for our lives. Thanks zion kulture for this talk, very well said statements.
Kai kai kai.. Thank You, Lord Jesus!! Thank you! @ZionKulture😊
I don't know what happened with the sound at the end.
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Ife James, God bless you! You were quite objective.
Beautiful conversation. Can we have movies showing this trends. Most movies out there portray otherwise
I love the way u guys handled this honestly
I am glad this table was broken and fixed, literally.😁😄
Like you said, creating a balance is unique to each marriage/family. Balance differs and ranges family to family.
THE WORD OF GOD SHOULD BE OUR STANDARD, concerning this issue and in every other areas of our lives.
Thank you Zion Kulture. God bless you!
Jaymikee Is truly an Amazing Dad for him to have changed diapers several times. Keep the good work, but honestly our males should also give helping hand to the female folk as siblings and couples..
Life skills are for everyone...(Ife James, Daalu🎉).
By design we have different roles but by His grace we can stand in for each other if need be . It's a bit tough in Africa because of the way women are treated but there are still Godly homes... She's just burdened...marry a good man , you will have peace. The lady should understand that marriage is service is on both sides...man oh, woman oh.. we are in marriage to serve .
Wow..
This is a whole lot of wisdom
I love this kind of content
I learnt a lot from this
More wisdom to every member of Zion kulture ❤❤
You have all done a good job
Zion kulture much love ❤️ ❤❤
So balanced! ❤️
Such an interesting discussion here😁the perspective brought here is eye-opening, truly submission does not equate to being less. I like how the issue of balance was explained🔥 more grace!!
"life skills are for everyone and not gender-specific" ✨
Thank you Zion kulture.....if you like don't know how to cook 🙂
This is so nice and enlightening. Thanks a lot
Marriage has it's own uniqueness
What a nice episode, i really do think it is important as individuals to allow GOD direct you in your choice of partners, because during the season of waiting HE prepares you in numerous ways like changing your mindset with things like Leading, Submission and lots more.
GOD changes our mindset on certain things through HIS WORD.
I think it is important to trust GOD in totality when it comes to the selection of your partner( by this i don't mean waiting for an angel to drop a package labelled "spouse" on your step.) But by involving GOD in your partner selection process. Good one Zion Kulture,would love to sit with you and chat soon.
I love this, I learnt alot
I really love this episode...thanks so much 🙏
This is such a safe Godly cool space❤
Nice interaction and clarification
Thank you so much for this... There's something I like to make people understand .. everything that is peculiar to each gender has been attached to them and not detachable.... But every other thing that is detachable should actually be a survival skill for everyone,not for a specific gender...and also should be specific to each home,what works for them..... Like women are softer and endowed with all the 'goodies' physically and hormonally tender...... While men are Stronger and more stern physically, sure that's why God focuses on Men in the bible when discipline is missing in the home, cause maybe there won't be that hormonal switch for men, and even after the fall physical work is more on the man.. cause his body is stronger... COVID did help to expose most of these things, some guys starved cause they weren't taught to cook and some women saw that they actually need a man too.... And hopefully more christians read the bible and allow the Holyspirit help us understand, so to avoid some kind of ignorant anger.... Thank God for Daddy and Mummy Mike-Bamiloye, we see a lot to learn.
i love all of Y''all
God bless you Jaymikee, I saw that post on Facebook I think even before this episode and I loved your response to the lady, it was very mature. You guys really did justice to this subject, fixing this table. Good job guys👍
Hmmm it's the lady on Red' seriousness for me oo
"If we overstretch every truth we get to extremes". 👍
Wonderful presentation!
So much to pick here❤😂
Thank you all❤
I grew up in a compound where our landlord children are all guys and they were are groom to do the house chores
Liking before watching because you're 1000% sure it'll be an edifying watch! 🥰😇
This is awesome.
Kudos to my parents.
In my house the guys are the best cooks.
Name the chores; we all do it together and when it comes to football game we play it together
I think it's high time we stop blaming the church but society because before our parents start attending Church, they have been in society and they are still in society.
I really really love the wisdom with which the discussion was made.
Verily on point!💯💯
Well-done Zion Kulture🙌🏽
Of a truth, BALANCE is dynamic not static 👍
I’m proud to say my dad taught me how to cook earlier before my mum, and there is a reason why…… family comes with its own uniqueness and differences. God’s kind of Love is the foundation and pillar for a successful marriage and parenting.
I sincerely believe that there isn't really a gap in knowledge. In African society, boys and girls are typically trained differently, and this is fitting because the family is the primary and most crucial institution. For the family to function effectively, it requires a combination of a man and a woman. Therefore, boys should be trained to become men, and girls should be trained to become women. Boys should learn to embrace their masculinity, just as girls should learn to embrace their femininity. However, there should be a balance. Both men and women should be taught the importance of teamwork in family roles. While specific duties may be assigned within a company, teamwork is ultimately more significant. For instance, sales may be overwhelmed with tasks, and members from other units may need to step in and help. It's important to note that a community that is harsh on girls is often equally harsh on boys. For example, in Hausa culture, boys may be expected to fend for themselves as young as seven, while girls are trained in domestic skills at home. Similarly, an Igbo boy might be sent to Lagos for apprenticeship at a young age, living in less than ideal conditions. On finishing school, many men dont reside with their parents it like an unwritten rule. Thus, while there should be a balance, boys should be trained to become men and embrace their masculinity, just as girls should be trained to become women. Personally, I recall being taught to be sacrificial while growing up. If there was a snake at home and only my mom and sister were present, I was expected to find a solution. I was responsible for cutting the grass and fixing the generator, as well as any other manual labor. If doors were left open at night, I was held accountable. I was taught to prioritize others' needs first. Although my mom also taught me domestic chores, it was secondary to my other responsibilities in the household. Therefore, while versatility should be encouraged, boys should be trained to become men, and girls to become women, and they should embrace these roles.
what a piece👌
More wisdom, you really nail sir @jaymike with your response
The thumbnail😂😂
God bless you all o❤❤
I think our guys need to come to the consciousness of some things in the marriage, I had a conversation with a male friend yesterday who is married and he said the wedding day is for the lady, I was shocked that I had to ask him if she got married to herself because that day calling wedding is two people coming together and its both of them day, I feel it's culture that has made some people think otherwise, and I think our parent needs to start telling our guys that one day they will also get married because that word will also help them in marriage just like the way they ring bell in our hears
23:34 You're not a twitterer 😂
So much wisdom in this episode.
Ife James take your flowers 🌺
The woman is not a beast of burden but a help-mate (Assistant) my take .
Thank you for this. I would love to see a separate and full episode on submission. There's also a lot to unpack there.
Thank you Zion kulture. I must say that, as a Christian, the holyspirit teaches us in all areas, spiritually, academically, financially, socially, etc the life of Christ is not static, and when we talk about the church, it is not a building but us. As Christians, Even though a person is brought up in a particular cultural way, the holysprit changes the individual, for example; if a guy, may be, at 20 Old, says he was brought up in a family where his mum and sisters does all the house chores, sincerely, it will be difficult for that person to start developing how to do all those chores, but I tell you that in Christ, the holy spirit will teach that brother at that age. The holyspirit may just whisper to him to wash some plates he just finish using, with time all his mentality will change. This is not limited to guys only, but ladies too. I am saying these things based on the context of the discussion. The Lord must help us, he must help each one of us to take responsibility and not blame each other. God bless you Zion kulture
Thank you guys
More knowledge to fix tables
Thank you for this.
Your standard must be the word of God.
Have a discussion with your partner. Don't absorb every information you see online.
Kudos to ife james
I never heard of anything like "gender roles" till I got on Twitter. My parents raised us all equally and enforced respect and discipline in each of our heads. I loved the conversation tho, too real 👍
Why is nobody talking about the thumbnail 😂
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At the end of the day, what a man can do, he should keep doing it please o
Hmmm 🤔 we got to make a change
Good day please how about in the case of providing for the family
Who is to pay school fees, buy food stuffs, house rent etc…. Please I’ll like for you to answer this, it is really causing a lot of issues for people around me. Thank you
Thank you this talk, it really enlightened me ❤️🙏