this used to be my life ... now I've finally found the man of my dreams and he treats me like no one else matters but me I'm so glad we met! so to all you out there dealing with this trust me it really does get better I promise
I'm in tears at the moment..... How can anyone do this to another human being? I may not have dealt with it first hand but, I've seen what domestic abuse can do to people. Bullying isn't any different FYI. Just because you can't see the bruises doesn't mean they don't exist. To quote one of my friends " Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can leave deep psychological wounds that may never heal." Did you know that Suicide catches every ones attention. It's the actions and thoughts that lead to it that always go unnoticed. If any one knows an organization I can get involved with personally to help stop domestic abuse please let me know. And if you are one of the victims and you are reading this remember that no matter what anyone says You are too beautiful and strong to have to live through this!
My mum was abused by my ''father'', this song has made me realize just how she might have felt. She didn't deserve to be treated in that way. Good job the psycho man is dead, now she can carry on being the beautiful woman she is. No one deserves to be abused by ANYONE. Just please tell somebody so you can get help or support
You are too beautiful to let a man hit you as if your nothing. He is a waste of your time and truly deserve better for yourself. Someone to love you unconditionally just for who you are in this world. :)
I think the one of the worst parts about the whole domestic abuse ordeal is that society has been trained to believe that only women can be victims of it. Yes, you hear a lot more about men being the abusers, but many are also victims of it, whether from women or other men. To hear that many people ignore their cries for help solely based on the fallacies that women can't be abusers and that men can't be victims is almost as sickening as knowing that this happens to ANYONE!
1:36 actually pertains to a story I'm writing. The main character falls in love with whom I perceive to be Death, and he doesn't have control over his anger. The main girl has a black ring around her wrist and a black skeleton hand on her cheek from where he grabbed her wrist/hit her, and instead of being abusive, this verse actually means something. He thinks that since he's Death, no one could possible love him. "You don't know what I've been through. He yells and he says, You don't know what I've done for you! and hits her again." He thinks he's protecting her by not letting himself fall for her, but he's actually hurting her. I don't know if you understood what I tried to write, but i hope so. It's not exactly abusive, but more of... I don't know how to word it.
That's a part of the fifth book, it's a series ^-^ You'll probably remember me whenever it's published and be like, "Hey, I talked with her when she had a youtube channel!" ^-^ hehe...
"She's feeling it all now.. But she doesn't cry.." I remembered the first time I listened to this song, probably 2 years ago and i cried so much hearing this line.. It's sad to know that there are people in the world who would commit such cruelty.. Then I realized, this song hits me very close to home.. I may not be a victim of physical abuse, but mine was verbal.. I'm at this point of my life where I have no idea what my life will be and I have no idea why I'm still living.. I look back remembering the words that was said to me and it's like a broken record that keeps playing in my head.. It's exhausting that people keep telling me I should just forget and find activities that I love.. The truth is, I'm not even sure I want to live anymore.. Nor am I sure I have reasons to..
meychon93 You have every reason to live. Live for the little things in life, like cute animals and vacations and days off work/school. Also, live for the people who love you, and who would be devistated if you died, and don't try to tell me that there arent any because there are. And most of all, I dont know if you're religious or not, but live for the God who loves you and who put you here on earth for a reason. And if you dont want to live for any of that, live for me, the stranger who cares about you enough to convince you that life is worth living.
Just remember this verse from the bible. " For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son to die for their sins." You were put here for a reason, God loves you and beleived you could do great things. You will always a have a place where you belong. Even though sometimes it doesn't seem like it. So you should always persevere and ignore the negatives in live.
+meychon93 you are beautiful despite what anyone says, you don't deserve to die, you deserve to live and show him that you are stronger than that. you have wonderful people in your life now, I'm sure of it. you are worth the body you live in. Don't give in to it all
To everyone commenting about their abusive relationships and the abusive relationships of people they know and love, I am so so sorry. I went through that with my parents and I hope no one ever has to experience that, sadly, people still have to experience it. You will find someone who truly loves you, stay strong, I am so sorry if you had to go through something like that.
This song has helped me back in 2012 - 2014 and I’m still listening to this in 2018 . Male or Female NO ONE deserves this and me being a Survivor from domestic abuse my inbox is always open to vent or every need advice on how to get out of one 💖
What's worse than hitting someone you love is when you also call them names and leave scars that no one else can see. Because it's more likely that people will not believe you if they cannot see the scars that words leave. But if this is you, I encourage you to tell someone who can help you get out of it.
I've been feeling horrible lately. Not related to beating but when I listened to this song I cried. A lot. Then hit replay... Im sorry for anyone who has or is going through this. I really am.
This song touches me in a way no other song has. It makes me want to appreciate life. Ive been through some stuff, but I want EVERYONE to know right now, YOU are too beautiful, NO ONE deserves to get hit.. and I think YOU are beautiful, yes, even the person thats reading this saying this is so true to everyone but me.. You are beautiful and never forget it.
You are 100% correct, if people are too afraid to say things in other places UA-cam is the perfect place to do it, because there are so many people that are on here that can help them, maybe not much but make those people feel good. I'm glad you said that.
This song makes me cry so does the comments when I read a comment and someone says they been hit or something it makes me sad. Don't ever let any one hurt you because it's not right.
this remind me if when i was eight. and my dad would beat me and then cry about it and say how sorry he was thrn keep doing it...years later i love him mu dad has change i still hate what he did...but he needed. help so how could i hold it against. the man who brought. me here he made me who i am
me and my friend marcus went to a shelter for women who had gotten beat in the past and sang this song they cried and thanked us. we go by every once in a while and visit they ask us to sing for them every time
i remember when i was four, my mother was still with my abusive father. after years of putting up with it she finally found the courage to end it and call the cops. it makes me cry when i remember it, and even when i read your stories of abuse. keep your head up it will get better
I was in this relationship for 3 years and after I heard this song, I cried for 3 whole days.... I finally got help and got out.... He stole my childhood... I was 11 when I met him, 12 when it started, and I'm now 15 and finally free.... This song is the reason I'm alive.... He Is We if you ever read this: Thank you for saving my life. I owe you everything.
I went through a very...bad relationship like this to say the least and that lead to a self harm addiction. I'm in a very happy and healthy relationship with my wonderful fiancé now and got away from my toxic relationship long ago but still every time I hear this song I cry.
I cried from this song... Because the story it tells is just so cruel, but real. He is We just told that woman in this situation now to stay strong, and that she is beautiful. And just these lyrics possibly mean so much. This makes me look at things in such a different way... ♥
I never have heard this song the first thing I hear "What kind of man lays his hands on the women he loves? Calls he angel, but shows no remorse in her blood. He covers her body in bruises and scars> You don't understand just how beautiful you are." I started to cry I love He is We
this is song is truly one of the best songs ever! i was ina abusive relationship for almost 2 years. its hard it really is. sucks even more when your only 15! and what hurts more is waiting for a sorry and instead getting a 'you deserved it' no girl deserves to get beaten the way i and other girls have. im in love with this song.
This song is was talked me out of leaving my abusive ex. Unintentionally things like this is true, it hurts to see the rude comments about the girl not leaving. We are afraid for our lives. That's why we don't leave. If anyone suffers ANYTHING from their partner I am always here to listen if you need help and/or advice. I always here to talk.
This song makes me shake with so much emotion sometimes. He Is We is really good at doing that to me... Truly one of the saddest songs I know, but at the same time it is also one of the most Beautiful.
My mom is still going through an abuse relationship. Don't ever settle for some one less then you deserve. I've learned sooo well that it's better to leave the first time then wait for them to change. It's been almost 15 years now.... I have two younger siblings that have had to watch it all and yet...she still doesn't allow herself to be happy.
this song makes me cry so much well every one of He Is We songs make me cry i have never bin in a aboused family, but reading all these storys make me cry, but please remember God IS with you
This song touches me so much i use to live with mental and emotional abuse...me and my mum are still trying to get away from it...like the song says "She doesn't cry" this is true i don't cause i have to stay strong for my mum. I love you mommy!!!
Raff made me notice that I'm beautiful. He made me smile when I was in tears. He always calls me pretty, beautiful, and so on. When I met him. I thought he was just one of those popular kids who gets all the girls, but he has suck a kind heart that begs to find love. He's one of the most perfect people I can ask for. I love you Raff. You're an amazing man. Please never leave my life.
This song hit.. I haven't really dealt with the pain from my past abusive relationships.. Now I'm reliving it.. Never let a guy land a hand on you in any way that hurts. Or A girl. We're not meant to be beaten.
i was emotionally and verbally abused for two and a half years i may never have been hit physically but the pain is the same. I love myself and my family for helping me get out of it. Now the guy dosent talk to me, hard as it is to realize this it is for the better.
This song has always helped me to realize who i really am and not to listen to my abusive ex boyfriend. whenever he would beat me after he was done i would always listen to this song. This song made me realize that no matter what he did to me, no matter how many times he hurt me i was still in my own way beautifl
You begin to really believe that you have done something to earn what is being done to you. You look at all the bruises and you actually believe that you did something to make him that mad.
This is totally true. Especially, if you've tried to get help and all you get told in return is 'deal with it yourself'. As a child being abused that crushed any and all hope I had that somebody will help me. And I started to feel like maybe I deserved this pain. Maybe I deserved the bruises, the self loathing, the depression, the neglect. All of it. Because, if I were a good person or didn't deserve to be treated this way, surely someone would've stood up for me. That's how I felt... I'm still a mess... but now it's only on my really low days that I feel like I deserved half of what I went through as a child... even I know better than to think the other half was deserved. Nobody deserves the abuse I went through... physical, emotional.... or sexual. 💔 😭
Great.. Now my face is all red.. These things happen to so many people daily and it needs to stop. It hurts physically, mentally, and emotionally. The pain will always be there.. For everyone who was strong enough to get out of an abusive relationship, congrats. Many people look up to you
This song goes to my mom who went through violence everyday for more than 11 years from my dad. It was so painful seeing my mom suffer and me feeling useless...I couldn't help her :'( nothing is more painful than seeing domestic violence as a young child..
I've suffered from abusive relationships in the past that nobody knew about. I still refuse to tell anyone, but I met my current boyfriend and he changed my life. My whole life I went without knowing what true love really was, but he showed me and that's all I could ever ask for.
I listened to this song in my friends car and i didnt understand. Now that I've read the comments and lyrics. I cried. I agree with almost all the comments. People arent ment to be beaten
This reminds of me of what I went through a year ago today... My mother broke my ex and I up because he was beating me and I didn't see that, all I saw was his pretty face, his anger was a huge problem even though I looked past that and it put me into danger but I was so naive at the time that I didn't see it and I cried for months. I'm seeing it all now and he's an idiot for doing something like that to me, he's also the reason why I'm afraid to love anyone anymore. I have a boyfriend now and his heart is so kind and he said he'd never put me through the situation that I did with my ex, I don't know who to trust anymore or I can't be loved. I love him though and I do trust him, we've been together for about a month and he gets along with my family and everything. I love this song so much and my friends told me to listen to it when we broke up and I really felt it and all I could do at the time was cry.
This describes my life at my age of 9 years old...... Isn't it sad that *no one* told me this until years later and it was my best friend two states away that had said it...... I will *N e v e r* Forget her......
Dear mum, ilysm you . I'm sure daddy didn't mean half the things he said to you . When he hurt(ed) you it put such a rage in me , You're such a great fighter . I love you .
yeah every now and then i break down and cry because of it... its messed with my whole life and it affects me everyday.... sometimes its all just too much to handle and other days i couldnt be more happier but deep down inside its there haunting my life i have to live with the thought that he could get out anytime now
OH MY GOD I suddenly became a fan when I listened to Kiss it better (got me all depressed btw) and now I've decided that every song shall be on my playlist (literally got my sorry ass up just to find the stuff to download songs). And half of the songs on my playlist are Set it Off.
I hope with every bit of my being you don't have to experience it. But, do be patient with people that are the victims. It's a rather complicated situation and love is a powerful thing. But hold on to that. Keep in mind that you're freaking amazing (and this goes for everyone) and your partner should treat you like it. In return, treat them right too! But much love! Have a great day!
Its different for people who are looking from the outside in and is just as different for the person in it.....every story is different....every person had their own reason for staying in something like that and no one will understand it but that person
I've been out of an abusive relationship since I was 19 (I'm now 31) and everytime I hear this song it hurts my heart knowing how much abuse I've put up with over the years, even if its emotional.
He calls her angel...my ex used to call me angel to get me to say yes to him..even when I said no he'd still do it anyway...guess sometimes the grip is greater than your words..
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this used to be my life ... now I've finally found the man of my dreams and he treats me like no one else matters but me I'm so glad we met! so to all you out there dealing with this trust me it really does get better I promise
i hope this is still your story. all the best
If a man ever hits you.. you're to good for him...
Same goes to the men who get abused
I'm in tears at the moment..... How can anyone do this to another human being? I may not have dealt with it first hand but, I've seen what domestic abuse can do to people. Bullying isn't any different FYI. Just because you can't see the bruises doesn't mean they don't exist. To quote one of my friends " Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can leave deep psychological wounds that may never heal." Did you know that Suicide catches every ones attention. It's the actions and thoughts that lead to it that always go unnoticed. If any one knows an organization I can get involved with personally to help stop domestic abuse please let me know. And if you are one of the victims and you are reading this remember that no matter what anyone says You are too beautiful and strong to have to live through this!
comments are always apreciated!
Similarly to a quote I seen on the wall one time: ,,not all wounds are visible,,
My mum was abused by my ''father'', this song has made me realize just how she might have felt. She didn't deserve to be treated in that way. Good job the psycho man is dead, now she can carry on being the beautiful woman she is. No one deserves to be abused by ANYONE. Just please tell somebody so you can get help or support
I am totally with u on this
You are too beautiful to let a man hit you as if your nothing. He is a waste of your time and truly deserve better for yourself. Someone to love you unconditionally just for who you are in this world. :)
That is a beautiful comment
krissie dee murray thank you
Freddy Garrison it is❤👍
Alyssa Ramos why thank you for your comment.👍
I'd replace the word man with anyone. You shouldn't let anyone hit you, whether man or woman
I think the one of the worst parts about the whole domestic abuse ordeal is that society has been trained to believe that only women can be victims of it. Yes, you hear a lot more about men being the abusers, but many are also victims of it, whether from women or other men.
To hear that many people ignore their cries for help solely based on the fallacies that women can't be abusers and that men can't be victims is almost as sickening as knowing that this happens to ANYONE!
+TheTaleOfTwelvesEyebrows I agree. Everytime I say, "you know, men get abused too," people just laugh. They don't think it happens, but it does.
AlienWithABox that is so true
1:36 actually pertains to a story I'm writing. The main character falls in love with whom I perceive to be Death, and he doesn't have control over his anger. The main girl has a black ring around her wrist and a black skeleton hand on her cheek from where he grabbed her wrist/hit her, and instead of being abusive, this verse actually means something. He thinks that since he's Death, no one could possible love him. "You don't know what I've been through. He yells and he says, You don't know what I've done for you! and hits her again." He thinks he's protecting her by not letting himself fall for her, but he's actually hurting her.
I don't know if you understood what I tried to write, but i hope so. It's not exactly abusive, but more of... I don't know how to word it.
That's a part of the fifth book, it's a series ^-^ You'll probably remember me whenever it's published and be like, "Hey, I talked with her when she had a youtube channel!" ^-^ hehe...
Edith Coronado Well, nothing's official but the title I"m thinking of is My Deathbed Is Where I Belong.
Nightcore Noelle dont worry i would love to die right now life is shit TOO MANY SHITY ASS MEMORYS @m@
I want to read this
I want to read too! 😄
"She's feeling it all now.. But she doesn't cry.."
I remembered the first time I listened to this song, probably 2 years ago and i cried so much hearing this line.. It's sad to know that there are people in the world who would commit such cruelty.. Then I realized, this song hits me very close to home.. I may not be a victim of physical abuse, but mine was verbal.. I'm at this point of my life where I have no idea what my life will be and I have no idea why I'm still living.. I look back remembering the words that was said to me and it's like a broken record that keeps playing in my head.. It's exhausting that people keep telling me I should just forget and find activities that I love.. The truth is, I'm not even sure I want to live anymore.. Nor am I sure I have reasons to..
meychon93 You have every reason to live. Live for the little things in life, like cute animals and vacations and days off work/school. Also, live for the people who love you, and who would be devistated if you died, and don't try to tell me that there arent any because there are. And most of all, I dont know if you're religious or not, but live for the God who loves you and who put you here on earth for a reason. And if you dont want to live for any of that, live for me, the stranger who cares about you enough to convince you that life is worth living.
Just remember this verse from the bible. " For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son to die for their sins." You were put here for a reason, God loves you and beleived you could do great things. You will always a have a place where you belong. Even though sometimes it doesn't seem like it. So you should always persevere and ignore the negatives in live.
+meychon93 you are beautiful despite what anyone says, you don't deserve to die, you deserve to live and show him that you are stronger than that. you have wonderful people in your life now, I'm sure of it. you are worth the body you live in. Don't give in to it all
Who else would cry to see "He Is We" Split Up??
im dead xo
+-Death Will Do Us Part- the singer is still producing music though
+prop of steel She does? What name does she go by? I MUST FIND HER MUSIC
She use The name 'She Is We'.
+Comico Chanel Very clever XD
To everyone commenting about their abusive relationships and the abusive relationships of people they know and love, I am so so sorry. I went through that with my parents and I hope no one ever has to experience that, sadly, people still have to experience it. You will find someone who truly loves you, stay strong, I am so sorry if you had to go through something like that.
This song has helped me back in 2012 - 2014 and I’m still listening to this in 2018 . Male or Female NO ONE deserves this and me being a Survivor from domestic abuse my inbox is always open to vent or every need advice on how to get out of one 💖
When I first heard this song I was crying so much.. At the time I was in an abusive relationship
Don't forget whether you are male or female. weak or strong. You are better than whoever may be hurting you. Stay strong and never stop being you!
What's worse than hitting someone you love is when you also call them names and leave scars that no one else can see. Because it's more likely that people will not believe you if they cannot see the scars that words leave. But if this is you, I encourage you to tell someone who can help you get out of it.
my best friend sent this to me saying this describes her relationship with her ex and it kills me to know this.. it makes me want to to cry so bad..
man or woman theres no deference they can both be victims of abuse. And the strong people who have been abused my hart is out for you
Rielly Ladd sure, but men are physically stronger than women, so an abusive boyfriend or husband is the most common.
im a guy and this song is still sad to me . i cried
that proves you are human ... bless you for that ...
Usually I fast forward and relay my favorite part of a song . But this song if all my favorite part . First time ever
I've been feeling horrible lately. Not related to beating but when I listened to this song I cried. A lot. Then hit replay...
Im sorry for anyone who has or is going through this. I really am.
This song touches me in a way no other song has. It makes me want to appreciate life. Ive been through some stuff, but I want EVERYONE to know right now, YOU are too beautiful, NO ONE deserves to get hit.. and I think YOU are beautiful, yes, even the person thats reading this saying this is so true to everyone but me.. You are beautiful and never forget it.
I'm gonna sing this to my mom, although we got out of this situation, it still has relevance to our past situation. I love you mommy!
You are 100% correct, if people are too afraid to say things in other places UA-cam is the perfect place to do it, because there are so many people that are on here that can help them, maybe not much but make those people feel good. I'm glad you said that.
I literally cried my eyes out...
This song makes me cry so does the comments when I read a comment and someone says they been hit or something it makes me sad.
Don't ever let any one hurt you because it's not right.
EXACTLY. I honestly want to know how someone can dislike this? seriously. It's just beyond my comprehension.
73 PEOPLE ACCIDENTLY CLICKED DISLIKE BECAUSE THEY TRIED TO CLICK LIKE BUT THEY WERE CRYING SO MUCH THEY MISSED THE LIKE BUTTON!!
they thought dislike was "dis I like"
+bizarre_blizzard 87 yes. or I like dis
235 now
This song brings me to heavy tears every time I hear it 😭😭😭💧💧💧💧
you dont understand just how beautiful you are
this remind me if when i was eight. and my dad would beat me and then cry about it and say how sorry he was thrn keep doing it...years later i love him mu dad has change i still hate what he did...but he needed. help so how could i hold it against. the man who brought. me here
he made me who i am
HOLY SHIT I WAS JUST TAKEN BACK TO MY CHILDHOOD
me and my friend marcus went to a shelter for women who had gotten beat in the past and sang this song they cried and thanked us. we go by every once in a while and visit they ask us to sing for them every time
"You don't know what I've been through! You don't know what I've done for you!"
So powerful.
i remember when i was four, my mother was still with my abusive father. after years of putting up with it she finally found the courage to end it and call the cops. it makes me cry when i remember it, and even when i read your stories of abuse. keep your head up it will get better
You never know how much you love someone, until they're actually gone.
I was in this relationship for 3 years and after I heard this song, I cried for 3 whole days.... I finally got help and got out.... He stole my childhood... I was 11 when I met him, 12 when it started, and I'm now 15 and finally free.... This song is the reason I'm alive....
He Is We if you ever read this: Thank you for saving my life. I owe you everything.
what kind of people are we? things like this shouldn't happen
I went through a very...bad relationship like this to say the least and that lead to a self harm addiction. I'm in a very happy and healthy relationship with my wonderful fiancé now and got away from my toxic relationship long ago but still every time I hear this song I cry.
Wow was searching youtube for something else and came across this... Very powerful song and images... thank for sharing... beautiful
My mom went through this for 10 years.... I can't even imagine the pain she went through
I've never been in this situation, but the music and lyrics are so powerful that I feel like crying anyway. This is amazing
I cried from this song...
Because the story it tells is just so cruel, but real.
He is We just told that woman in this situation now to stay strong, and that she is beautiful. And just these lyrics possibly mean so much.
This makes me look at things in such a different way... ♥
I never have heard this song the first thing I hear
"What kind of man lays his hands on the women he loves? Calls he angel, but shows no remorse in her blood. He covers her body in bruises and scars> You don't understand just how beautiful you are."
I started to cry I love He is We
That's exactly what I was thinking. Finally someone who has some sense. Props to you.
7 more days and it's a year since I got away ❤️ anyone out there suffering domestic abuse, you're strong enough to leave. I believe in you ❤️
this song is amazing
this is song is truly one of the best songs ever! i was ina abusive relationship for almost 2 years. its hard it really is. sucks even more when your only 15! and what hurts more is waiting for a sorry and instead getting a 'you deserved it' no girl deserves to get beaten the way i and other girls have. im in love with this song.
This song is was talked me out of leaving my abusive ex. Unintentionally things like this is true, it hurts to see the rude comments about the girl not leaving. We are afraid for our lives. That's why we don't leave. If anyone suffers ANYTHING from their partner I am always here to listen if you need help and/or advice. I always here to talk.
You go girl
This song makes me shake with so much emotion sometimes. He Is We is really good at doing that to me... Truly one of the saddest songs I know, but at the same time it is also one of the most Beautiful.
My mom is still going through an abuse relationship. Don't ever settle for some one less then you deserve. I've learned sooo well that it's better to leave the first time then wait for them to change. It's been almost 15 years now.... I have two younger siblings that have had to watch it all and yet...she still doesn't allow herself to be happy.
This is truely one of the most touching songs ive ever heard in my life!!!
My mom was beaten when i was about 4 years old i showed my mom this song and she cried and hugged me and said im so sorry for all of this.
this song makes me cry so much well every one of He Is We songs make me cry i have never bin in a aboused family, but reading all these storys make me cry, but please remember God IS with you
I love this artist, but where does she get her song ideas? Was she ever abused herself?
This song plucks every single one of my tear strings. I don't know if it's because I can relate, or I know people that can.
0 dislikes... DAMN STRAIGHT! this is posibly the most beautiful song i've ever heard
This song touches me so much i use to live with mental and emotional abuse...me and my mum are still trying to get away from it...like the song says "She doesn't cry" this is true i don't cause i have to stay strong for my mum. I love you mommy!!!
this is gorgeous. my new fav song by he is we
i am 10 and this song is stuck in my head every night and day... He is We is the best band in the world... they touched my heart
even after the 50th time listening to this, i still get uncontrollable chills
I wish I'd remembered this song when my dad abused me. Now that its over, every time I sing this song I just cry.
Raff made me notice that I'm beautiful. He made me smile when I was in tears. He always calls me pretty, beautiful, and so on. When I met him. I thought he was just one of those popular kids who gets all the girls, but he has suck a kind heart that begs to find love. He's one of the most perfect people I can ask for. I love you Raff. You're an amazing man. Please never leave my life.
This is one of my favorite bands and songs of all time. :)
This song hit.. I haven't really dealt with the pain from my past abusive relationships.. Now I'm reliving it.. Never let a guy land a hand on you in any way that hurts. Or A girl. We're not meant to be beaten.
i was emotionally and verbally abused for two and a half years i may never have been hit physically but the pain is the same. I love myself and my family for helping me get out of it. Now the guy dosent talk to me, hard as it is to realize this it is for the better.
I'm going to make a music video to this. The message this song conveys is absolutely beautiful.
My mom dedicated this song to me about my ex fiance before she passed away. This song still makes me cry.
This song has always helped me to realize who i really am and not to listen to my abusive ex boyfriend. whenever he would beat me after he was done i would always listen to this song. This song made me realize that no matter what he did to me, no matter how many times he hurt me i was still in my own way beautifl
You begin to really believe that you have done something to earn what is being done to you. You look at all the bruises and you actually believe that you did something to make him that mad.
Andrea Schneider and you're the one that ends up feeling ashamed
This is totally true. Especially, if you've tried to get help and all you get told in return is 'deal with it yourself'. As a child being abused that crushed any and all hope I had that somebody will help me. And I started to feel like maybe I deserved this pain. Maybe I deserved the bruises, the self loathing, the depression, the neglect. All of it. Because, if I were a good person or didn't deserve to be treated this way, surely someone would've stood up for me. That's how I felt... I'm still a mess... but now it's only on my really low days that I feel like I deserved half of what I went through as a child... even I know better than to think the other half was deserved. Nobody deserves the abuse I went through... physical, emotional.... or sexual. 💔 😭
Great.. Now my face is all red.. These things happen to so many people daily and it needs to stop. It hurts physically, mentally, and emotionally. The pain will always be there.. For everyone who was strong enough to get out of an abusive relationship, congrats. Many people look up to you
The song so beautiful and so sad and it makes me cry! D;
i first heard this song MONTHS ago...
but yet, it still manages to give me chills.
This song goes to my mom who went through violence everyday for more than 11 years from my dad. It was so painful seeing my mom suffer and me feeling useless...I couldn't help her :'( nothing is more painful than seeing domestic violence as a young child..
I've suffered from abusive relationships in the past that nobody knew about. I still refuse to tell anyone, but I met my current boyfriend and he changed my life. My whole life I went without knowing what true love really was, but he showed me and that's all I could ever ask for.
I can't even tell you how much I love this band!!
EARGASM ♥
Most powerful song I have ever heard. Period.
I listened to this song in my friends car and i didnt understand. Now that I've read the comments and lyrics. I cried. I agree with almost all the comments. People arent ment to be beaten
This reminds of me of what I went through a year ago today... My mother broke my ex and I up because he was beating me and I didn't see that, all I saw was his pretty face, his anger was a huge problem even though I looked past that and it put me into danger but I was so naive at the time that I didn't see it and I cried for months. I'm seeing it all now and he's an idiot for doing something like that to me, he's also the reason why I'm afraid to love anyone anymore. I have a boyfriend now and his heart is so kind and he said he'd never put me through the situation that I did with my ex, I don't know who to trust anymore or I can't be loved. I love him though and I do trust him, we've been together for about a month and he gets along with my family and everything. I love this song so much and my friends told me to listen to it when we broke up and I really felt it and all I could do at the time was cry.
That is a good point, there aren't many. Self esteem by the offspring is about an abusive relationship but it's mental rather than physical.
This describes my life at my age of 9 years old...... Isn't it sad that *no one* told me this until years later and it was my best friend two states away that had said it...... I will *N e v e r* Forget her......
Dear mum, ilysm you . I'm sure daddy didn't mean half the things he said to you . When he hurt(ed) you it put such a rage in me , You're such a great fighter . I love you .
I can't find this song on iTunes xc
I was crying though out this song
This song, literally made me burst into tears.
I'm sad it's not on Spotify 😥😥😥
Oh my god , when she yell " but she dosnt cry " i just break down of tears
song gives me the shivers and makes my heart drop every time i listen to it!
This song brought me to tears because I'm still abused. And it sounds exactly like this.
Everyone is too beautiful to be abused in any way shape or form. You just have to remember to stay strong. And that, you are too beautiful.
yeah every now and then i break down and cry because of it... its messed with my whole life and it affects me everyday.... sometimes its all just too much to handle and other days i couldnt be more happier but deep down inside its there haunting my life i have to live with the thought that he could get out anytime now
This band though *_* so amazing
OH MY GOD I suddenly became a fan when I listened to Kiss it better (got me all depressed btw) and now I've decided that every song shall be on my playlist (literally got my sorry ass up just to find the stuff to download songs). And half of the songs on my playlist are Set it Off.
same xD
I'm someone that rarely shows emotion. Yet somehow this song managed to make me cry.
If this happened to me id leave and never come back no matter what excuses the guy comes up with
I hope with every bit of my being you don't have to experience it. But, do be patient with people that are the victims. It's a rather complicated situation and love is a powerful thing. But hold on to that. Keep in mind that you're freaking amazing (and this goes for everyone) and your partner should treat you like it. In return, treat them right too! But much love! Have a great day!
Not trying to be mean or disrespectful but sometimes when ur in this predicament theres nothing u can do bcuz of how scared u are
Its different for people who are looking from the outside in and is just as different for the person in it.....every story is different....every person had their own reason for staying in something like that and no one will understand it but that person
lexie miller but still
Lps CutieCandy ive had this done to me and it was my dad but trust me its not all the same
Everybody is beautiful their own way. This song is a great influence to woman and men back there.
He is we songs always make me feel so emotional, I love them
I love it I just got out of a abusive relationship this hits deep 💔🥺
dont let someone else take that smile off of your face. dont let some add marks of abuse to your mind or your skin. stay strong. your not alone.
I've been out of an abusive relationship since I was 19 (I'm now 31) and everytime I hear this song it hurts my heart knowing how much abuse I've put up with over the years, even if its emotional.
He calls her angel...my ex used to call me angel to get me to say yes to him..even when I said no he'd still do it anyway...guess sometimes the grip is greater than your words..