You can start celebrating. Pride month was started by the people it celebrates. It starts from within, so if you want a military month to be recognized, acknowledged, and pandered to by big companies, you gotta take the first steps in making it a reality.
@@iRazenrak man I don't really even care about the military. I just don't actively hate them. You really think a pro vetarln movement would get nearly as fatr. Basically no one cares anymore whearher your gay or not.
What does it say about my mind that I want a follow up line to be like, "Thanks, it was a big challenge for me. There are just absolutely so many pussys I've wanted to completely devour."
Thanks for sharing! I’m really glad to know there are things like that! I’m a woman but I’ve worked in mental health and men’s mental health is not discussed enough!
"Why isn't there a white history month" "Same reason there is no straight pride month or english independence month. It's a basic bitch default. It is a sandbox game with no mods!"
@@cameronmorgan8759 its not about receiving special treatment solely for being 'different'. Its about highlighting and educating others on a group of people who are heavily discriminated against. In a world where all races are systematically equal, all sexualities are treated the exact same with no funny looks or innapropriate comments, then by all means, either get rid of every specialty month, day, or give everyone their own, I don't care. But there is very much a 'default' within our society, and until there isn't, those outside of the default will be criticised, and will deserve a chance to highlight that.
@@CoRLex-jh5vx that might be because everyone of y'all keeps preaching the same thing. "White people are bad and they're oppressing everyone else" when in fact it's the older generation of whites who happen to also run this country, not fucking all of them. Military should be appreciated and celebrated way more because that is an earned thing, too bad we're worried about stupid shit that doesn't matter, like sexuality. Who cares, do what you want, just leave me and everyone else who doesn't want to participate, out of it.
I'm just here thinking about the commercialisation of pride, especially by hypocritical companies that carefully pick and choose how and where they compete for attention during it
@@SakuraMoonflower I'm not convinced that's a good idea. Take for example Disney, which acts like it's friendly to us, but behind bars has its own don't say gay rule
Them just released an article listing the companies that "rainbow-wash" in June, but then donate money to anti-LGBTQ politicians. Of course, Amazon is on there. 🙄 I appreciate companies that actually donate to our community during Pride (and the rest of the year), and I hate the hypocrites.
@@kileylikesgames I mean, in general I respect people and organizations for being forthright about their beliefs even if it loses them money and causes criticism, buuuuuuuuut in the specific case of Chick Fil-A, I refuse to respect them for being conservative evangelical bigots. It's a nope from me.
@@kileylikesgames I'm glad that your friend's individual experience has been a positive one. I hope that they continue to feel safe in their workplace.
We were talking about Womens history month in class and some kid said "what about mens history month?!" The whole entire class including the boys looked at him like he was stupid It was hilarious
Yes! I was gonna say the same. And all the veterans and all the soldiers who are active duty that are part of the community getting to celebrate and/or be celebrated some more 💜🏳️🌈
@@bruhimdumb6385 What she means is the soldiers who are currently serving and have served in our armed forces who can now freely express themselves. We used to have a policy known as 'dont ask, don't tell' where topics like LGBTQ, and being queer would get your chain of command involved. You could lose rank, be removed from the army, moved units etc. and the social stigma even today is a hurdle many of us have to face. The military is slow moving and archaic, celebrating modern victories as well as past ones are important.
I think my favourite allegory I ever saw over this topic was "Straight People feeling left out over not having their own pride parade is like the kid at school pouting because they want to get a cast signed, just like Jeremy who broke his arm." EDIT Credit for the allegory goes to Scott Frerichs aka "Kaiserneko"
I was actually in a twitch chat just yesterday and someone came in with the "why don't veterans get their own month?" - I was very proud of the chat going, "you just missed it, maybe you should pay attention if you care so much."
Its really sad that people who've never served need to use the men and women who have to put others down, trust me a lot of em hate it and don't appreciate it and personally I find it quite repulsive and disgusting, if you care about veterans then show it instead of just claiming it when its convenient to you
@@justhere630 Those people transparently use others as ideological pawns, I'd be more surprised if the people invoked like that as a cudgel didn't hate it.
i once put on my status "happy womens day!!" and then this guy in my class replied with "thats sexist this is why we need meninism theres no mans day".. mans day is on the 19 nov my guy
@@ahmetahmetahmet8076because once again, it’s about a group of people overcoming lots of struggles and inequality to get their rights, while men had lots more rights for most of history. But no one’s stopping you from celebrating men’s day. Celebrate how ever much you want, throw parades, cheer on men
Oh my god gay people never once needed a parade, they wanted it. it's something that they wanted and got but then turn around and say they needed it... my god get over yourselves Edit: my babysitter as a kid was a gay person. My very first crush is a gay person. My best friend was a gay person. I just think that there's a very fine line between being gay and being a fairy and usually most of people who want the parades, an entire month dedicated to them, all that rainbow s*** like rainbow sidewalks is just the fairies wanting everything handed to them. Gay people in my life are the farthest thing from that and could care less if there was a pride month at all
PLease go to Jesus he is coming soon he took me to hell he told me that being gay and trans isn’t a sin and told me how the Bible was mistranslated to say being homosexuality is a sin I saw tortured souls and impaled bodies please pray the rosary and please pray for live feeding animals to stop because it’s animal abuse and pray for animals to stop being abused and stop fake rescue videos for money Jesus and Mary helped me escape my homophobic family please go to them!! Please call the animal shelter And tell them not to kill dogs for not being adopted please also call pet smart and tell them not to feed live animals to other animals. Please also don’t kill bugs it says in the book of Enoch from the Bible that animals will judge people for treating them badly please do not Call animals pets because they are not pets they are people and they deserve to be treated as people please also don’t say oh my god or say bad words because it’s using the lords name in vain.
PLease go to Jesus he is coming soon he took me to hell he told me that being gay and trans isn’t a sin and told me how the Bible was mistranslated to say being homosexuality is a sin he also told me you need to sacrifice your day to pray the rosary because it saves lives and I saw tortured souls and impaled bodies please pray the rosary and please pray for live feeding animals to stop because it’s animal abuse and pray for animals to stop being abused and stop fake rescue videos for money and please pray to Mary for suicide anger depression and addiction to stop. Jesus and Mary helped me escape my homophobic family please go to them!! Please call the animal shelter And tell them not to kill dogs for not being adopted please also call pet smart and tell them not to feed live animals to other animals. Please also don’t kill bugs it says in the book of Enoch from the Bible that animals will judge people for treating them badly please do not Call animals pets because they are not pets they are people and they deserve to be treated as people please also don’t say oh my god or say bad words because it’s using the lords name in vain.
PLease go to Jesus he is coming soon I used to be a atheist and a satanist he took me to hell he told me that being gay and trans isn’t a sin and told me how the Bible was mistranslated to say being homosexuality is a sin he also told me you need to sacrifice your day to pray the rosary because it saves lives and I saw tortured souls and impaled bodies please pray the rosary and please pray for live feeding animals to stop because it’s animal abuse and pray for animals to stop being abused and stop fake rescue videos for money and please pray to Mary for suicide anger depression and addiction to stop. Jesus and Mary helped me escape my homophobic family please go to them!! Please call the animal shelter And tell them not to kill dogs for not being adopted please also call pet smart and tell them not to feed live animals to other animals. Please also don’t kill bugs it says in the book of Enoch from the Bible that animals will judge people for treating them badly please do not Call animals pets because they are not pets they are people and they deserve to be treated as people please also don’t say oh my god or say bad words because it’s using the lords name in vain.
@@filipmalicek4638 didn’t no nut november “replace that” i didn’t know about movember till i started watching the office (smile if you love mens prostates)
@@beanie8944 I think the bigger point is one is plastered everywhere and is constantly celebrated throughout the month and the other is more of an after thought to most people.
I was today years old when I learned this. I guess I didn't know this because it hasn't been capitalized yet. Like throughout the whole month, it would've been like the 4th of July 24/7.
@@jacobgardiner9267 yeah, it goes super unnoticed, which is really fucked up because people will always bring up how minorities are taking too much with a month when veterans only get a day and it's like THE MONTH IS RIGHT THERE AND YOU CHOOSE NOT TO LET IT BE A KNOWN THING YOU ASS. Like people need to hear about it because the ones that are apparently devoted to vets don't celebrate it because it doesn't benefit them.
To the people saying that Mens mental awareness month is being ignored due to pride month, maybe you should try to raise awareness of the month yourself? And one month can share two topics, like Valentine’s Day and Mothers day
@@KilaKaKa True, True. Well what about March then? It has both national disabilities awareness month and women’s history month. They’re both celebrated even if they are both in the same month. Or black history month and breast cancer awareness month. All it took was a quick Google to find other months with two or more topics
What people who seriously ask that question need to understand: Gay pride is not about taking pride in _being_ gay, it's about taking pride in _surviving_ being gay in a world that spews hatred and discrimination at them.
It holds no place in my heart. June is also men’s mental health awareness month. Yet people prioritize their damn feelings over mental illness. I myself am mentally ill as my doctor diagnosed me with ADHD. I don’t need any support as mine isn’t that bad but there are many others out their who do need support for their mental illness wether it be autism, ADHD etc. I also think pride month is a heap of garbage because we have Remembrance Day. Fucking VETERANS OF ALL AGES GET ONE DAMN DAY WHILE YOU GET A WHOLE FUCKING MONTH!
but you guys litterly contol everything like how is that discrimination to speak out about you guys cancelling people if they disagree with you. Why should we celebrate you for liking the same gender. it's giving delusional
@@crimson-py1lq First of all, I'm not LGBT. Secondly, no one is asking you to celebrate them. They are celebrating themselves, and they have every right to in order to counteract the degradation they receive. You don't have to join in. Just don't join in with the degradation either.
Hahaha, I suppose that's true, but even as a gay man, if all they want is an excuse to party, why not? We humans are always looking for bullsh*t to celebrate.
Everyone knows why the military doesn't get a month. Like are they insane? 😂😂 HELLO. It's warcrimes, fake ops, murder, lies, and propaganda just like any other government with a military knocking! They'd like to come in and talk! (; Just talk! Just to talk!
@@hatch1892 lgbt people are in the military fighting for the US and in the government making positive changes, and are teachers educating the next generation. Strange that.
@@hatch1892 And Pride Month is appreciation for those who fought for years for our equality & gave up their lives for us ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ they absolutely deserve to be celebrated too
@@hatch1892 they really don't. majority if not all who go to military just do it for to go to college for free, have special privileges, have the right to shoot a gun and get away with killing (same with the police force), and even in the past during fights or wars most were just drinking all the time or having sex with other woman with and without consent. heck most dudes in the military are actually gay yet ya'll are so homophobic that you don't realize gay people are actually the one saving lives... and probably drinking and fukin dude. at least with consent. and even today the way how they treat their "soldiers" now is horrible. it's literally like forced to live in an incredibly toxic household that most people who join the military ultimately regrets it in a week. with the only good thing bout it is when u actually make friends. the military is awful in majority of places and history. don't deserve a lot of the credit ya'll give them.
@@emanuelstornello8009 The point made in the video is that the celebration is really a thing after a certain global group overcomes a significant issue that affects them. And... To my awareness, there weren't really any global issues of straight people that are related to their heterosexuality that they had to overcome, so... That person might as well look for self-gratification from different sources, such as their birthday
@@emanuelstornello8009 they were complaining about ‘not being celebrated’ so the other character made a sarky joke about their birthday, that they have a whole day every year of people celebrating them yet they claim they aren’t celebrated
It seems like a lot of people here are forgetting what pride actually celebrates. Pride is about celebrating the people that were lost in the Stonewall riots and every riot and persecution the community has faced as a result of being non-heteronormative. It isn’t a celebration to celebrate being born gay or whatever, it’s a celebration that gay people and the community can openly be themselves without worrying about persecution, torture or executions, which have all happened throughout the years. There’s no straight history month or celebration because you have never suffered threats just because you were straight. You might have suffered as a straight person, but I can almost guarantee straight people didn’t have to fight for their right to be straight. People don’t walk into clubs and shoot up straight people because they’re straight, whereas there have been plenty of mass shootings in gay clubs and at gay people in general. And as a side note, just because you’re straight does not mean you can’t join in the pride festivities. I’m cis and straight and I always go to pride festivals near me with friends that are in the community, it’s not a no straight people zone, it’s a celebration that they’re alive and can live without the fear of their very existence being illegal or a target on their back.
To be fair there is an arguement that all sexualities including hetrosexuality have been represeed by the dominant groups to some level. I think we often dismiss them because they are the majority group but there are in fact arguements for both including straight pride as part of a sexuality pride (though Ironically most people who support straight pride wouldnt be happy with that) and increasing focus on mens month. There is a reason nobody is even aware it is a holiday but we should be using it as a time to talk about things like the victimization of males and similar issues too
Even this comment forgets that the lgbt community does include some heterosexual people, since straight trans people exist. The opposite of lgbt+ is cishet not straight.
@@venusianblivet9518 that is my fault, I apologise for that. It’s just because the topic was straight pride so most of the statement was focused on the word “straight”.
A boy in my class said "ok but why is there a pride month anyway?", to which I answered "did you know that I'm a criminal in over 70 countries for being gay? Death sentence in 11 of those... How many do you have?"
My mom literally said, "why arent there black parades or womens rights parades?" The parade I went to literally included all of that! Even mental health awareness!
similarly men always bitch women aren't "expected" to go off and die in war but it's like.. a) we don't have a draft now, nobody has to. and b) that's the issue with patriarchy my dude.. when women try and go fight for their country now it's just hissy fits across the board from right wing men calling our military 'weak'
i can't help but laugh hysterically at the very quiet 'stop' at the end edit: this is probably the most likes i've ever gotten on a comment but also y'all are goofy as fuck lmao
Ok grate straight couples had us but they can go celebrate themselves but when they start acting homophonic they don’t deserve it and that don’t just go one way I’m not against either one
The thing is, nobody stops them to make a straight pride thing. It is exactly the same when men complain that people do a women thing. They could just as well organise one, but never do.
@@Alltagundsoexactly this 😭 they just want a reason to feel victimised when they receive lashback and then proceed to tell strangers they're sexually confused or that they know people more than those people know themselves
@@individual1st648 Dan Savage always says that carnival in Germany is like a straight parade and I have to agree. They just need to introduce it to where they live. But it's easier for those men to complain, so they won't start anything new by themselves.
"Oh it's mental health awareness month! Let's celebrate all the struggles we've preserved through, all the people who are working through it, and all the people who've supported us along the way." "But I wanna healthy brain awareness month >:(" Edit: changed "normal" to "healthy." The awareness months are typically celebrating overcoming something incredibly difficult that applies to a particular group of folks, I suppose. You can have a healthy brain and have previously had a non-healthy brain, so the awareness month is celebrating the overcoming of the unhealthy brain, or anyone who is fighting through it, whatever the mental illness or unhealthiness is. It takes a lot of effort to uphold a "healthy" appearance if you have a neurodiverse brain
"Congratulations on being straight. You. Did. That. 👏... 👏 ... 👏" killed me 😭 Edit: I think that anyone in the lgbtq community should be respected but I also don't think that that straight people shouldn't be respected. I was just pointing out her tone and choice of words and how it made me laugh. I didn't mean to start a whole argument or discussion one whether straight people should be celebrated or not I just thought it was funny
@@yourfavoriteonedoor I think having pride over your sexual orientation is just strange personally. There's no accomplishment there, you just are what you are.
@@jotaux3652that may be true but to me it’s more of a celebration of how far the community has come in terms of rights and respect from others. I mean, gay marriage was only legalized in America in 2016.
“If we have handicapped labeled parking spaces, why cant we have able-bodied labeled parking spaces?!” Edit: this isn’t my original thought I found it somewhere lol! Also, I’m making an analogy here about how disabled parking spaces are available and widely accepted for those who need them and able bodied people don’t/shouldn’t be using them because it is unnecessary and takes up spaces that are needed more severely by others. I’m not saying queer people are disabled lmao thats a red herring argument at this point
@@BangSubin수빈 i mean....for lots of closeted lgbt people, pride comes at the cost of housing, food, survival, not being abused, etc. we all weigh our pros and cons, just saying "be who you are", while sounding supportive, is kind of tone-deaf to the very real problem that many gay and trans people across the globe actually face. not everyone wants to have to be unhoused as a minor or not able to afford education because they wanted to come out. i sure dont!
I mean, if someone congratulated me for being ace or bi, my unironic response would be, "Thanks! I work very hard at it while simultaneously putting in zero voluntary effort!"
Once a total stranger dropped in in a conversation just to congratulate me in being gay. I told him that there is no reason to congratulate. I didn't pass a gay exam and I didn't earn a gay diploma. I really don't get this "Congratulations in being gay"-stuff...
Pride month is not just a celebration, it's a protest against homophobia. Either way it's not like someone is stopping them from celebrating straight pride or whatever.
It’s not about being the majority. It was made clear in this post alone. It’s because there was never a collective struggle about being straight in history that people had to overcome.
@@Flamezy27Tell me you don't know anything about pride without telling me. And also quit your homophobia. If you'd rather side with the Nazi party than celebrate with your fellow citizens, that says a lot
@@cousinoftheyearwhat??? Hardship for being straight?! I think straight people should be supported and respected as much as the lgbtq community but almost NOBODY goes through hardships because they are straight, but there are SO MANY homophobic jerks out there that ruin lgbtq people’s mood. Straight people do not usually go through hardships because they are straight!
@PapayaKitty 1 it's a joke and 2 you legit just ruined your whole point... You pretty much just tried to invalidate anything I said without realizing that not validating people is a form of hardship. If I somehow DO have a problem with being straight as rare as that is you just invalidated it because of your own prejudices even though I never insulted any lgbtq anything you still decided to message a 3 month old post to say that I am lying or to put me in my place. Also my sister is gay and I support her entirely not trying to start a fight but even she agreed what you said is still unnecessary.
@@cousinoftheyear oh I’m sorry, I misunderstood the point. Also I get people go through hardships, and I apologize, I have seen WAY too many homophobic people online so I sometimes default to that.
@@cousinoftheyear it's okay they don't know our pain 🥺 I'm here (hugs) stand strong I know a few support groups your not alone I know it's rare but there are others like us 😔
I actually let my straight bf celebrate with me during pride month for being a straight man with feminine tastes. He always gets teased about being gay and he hates that people put words in his mouth just because he likes certain colors and cross dressing. Pride is for us being whoever we want!!
@@elijahsabo3846yes, that is true, i believe they meant being whoever people want to be (as long as it doesn’t harm yourself or others) as in being free to do things and have fun without judgement
PLease go to Jesus he is coming soon he took me to hell he told me that being gay and trans isn’t a sin and told me how the Bible was mistranslated to say being homosexuality is a sin I saw tortured souls and impaled bodies please pray the rosary and please pray for live feeding animals to stop because it’s animal abuse and pray for animals to stop being abused and stop fake rescue videos for money Jesus and Mary helped me escape my homophobic family please go to them!! Please call the animal shelter And tell them not to kill dogs for not being adopted please also call pet smart and tell them not to feed live animals to other animals. Please also don’t kill bugs it says in the book of Enoch from the Bible that animals will judge people for treating them badly please do not Call animals pets because they are not pets they are people and they deserve to be treated as people please also don’t say oh my god or say bad words because it’s using the lords name in vain. If you hear someone say oh my god please tell them to say oh my gosh or say bad words please do what’s right and tell them not to say oh my god or say bad words
@@ovrgrown.willow PLease go to Jesus he is coming soon he took me to hell he told me that being gay and trans isn’t a sin and told me how the Bible was mistranslated to say being homosexuality is a sin I saw tortured souls and impaled bodies please pray the rosary and please pray for live feeding animals to stop because it’s animal abuse and pray for animals to stop being abused and stop fake rescue videos for money Jesus and Mary helped me escape my homophobic family please go to them!! Please call the animal shelter And tell them not to kill dogs for not being adopted please also call pet smart and tell them not to feed live animals to other animals. Please also don’t kill bugs it says in the book of Enoch from the Bible that animals will judge people for treating them badly please do not Call animals pets because they are not pets they are people and they deserve to be treated as people please also don’t say oh my god or say bad words because it’s using the lords name in vain. If you hear someone say oh my god please tell them to say oh my gosh or say bad words please do what’s right and tell them not to say oh my god or say bad words
@@nolenbeck1238 PLease go to Jesus he is coming soon he took me to hell he told me that being gay and trans isn’t a sin and told me how the Bible was mistranslated to say being homosexuality is a sin I saw tortured souls and impaled bodies please pray the rosary and please pray for live feeding animals to stop because it’s animal abuse and pray for animals to stop being abused and stop fake rescue videos for money Jesus and Mary helped me escape my homophobic family please go to them!! Please call the animal shelter And tell them not to kill dogs for not being adopted please also call pet smart and tell them not to feed live animals to other animals. Please also don’t kill bugs it says in the book of Enoch from the Bible that animals will judge people for treating them badly please do not Call animals pets because they are not pets they are people and they deserve to be treated as people please also don’t say oh my god or say bad words because it’s using the lords name in vain. If you hear someone say oh my god please tell them to say oh my gosh or say bad words please do what’s right and tell them not to say oh my god or say bad words
For the people in the comments complaining about pride month maybe if men made parades for men’s mental health month and veterans made parades for military appreciation month we wouldn’t have this problem ur using the same logic as if I were to say “ you can’t have such a big party cus it’s distracting from my party” it’s not our fault if we want to make parades and have fun
are they really just parties though? parades started out as riots and protests and now a lot of them have sexual contents since the lgbtq community is kinda inherently sexual
@@vampirzz yeah, nowadays most of them are just parties. The origins and history of the Stonewall riots are certainly not forgotten, and there remains a kind of resistance element to many pride celebrations today. A lot of that resistance may be a kind of rejection of dominant cultural sentiments. In many ways, I feel what you see as borderline ‘protest’ behavior still remaining in pride celebrations is a lot of pent-up feelings of delight on a day to celebrate the hard won civil liberties that gay people have access to today… and to let loose. It’s a great way to meet people who you know will support you in equivocally, which is surprisingly hard to find in your everyday life, depending on where you live. The sexual nature of pride is often due to the intersection of kink communities, and the LGBTQ community at large. Pride parades themselves don’t inherently need to contain sexual elements, and it’s restrictive to believe that the LGBT community is purely sexual in nature. Same-sex relationships contain the same love (not only sexual love, but romantic love) that heterosexual relationships do. It is a celebration of that love. At its base, the LGBT community advocates for equal rights under the law for lesbian gay bisexual and transgender individuals. As in marriage and adoption rights. Visibility. I’ll give you this. Historically speaking, the widening of LGBTQ rights and a country tends to follow a larger, sexual liberalization and move away from sexually conservative purity culture. Perhaps that’s why you see many sexual/kink elements included in the pride, parades in your area. It’s an intersection of communities that tend to support each other, not the same community. Think ven diagram. All this coming me as a US Army vet who served in Iraq, and a straight man from the south whose wife taught me most of these terms and concepts. Open your heart, sit down and listen, and you’ll find there’s a lot to be learned about life from people you’ve never interacted with. It’s all love, man. Love is beautiful.
@@vampirzz by using your logic, I'm fine with straight people, but why do they gotta be so sexual and all up in your face about it? like... why are they always celebrating getting knocked up? They say something like "Weve been trying for a baby" Why do they need to tell everyone that they were rawdogging it and nutting in her every night??? The hetero community is kinda inherently sexual if you think about it 🤔🤔
It's the fact we wouldn't need pride month if people had just been more accepting of the fact that dudes kissing dudes or women kissing women is, in fact, not a world crisis that they should spend their precious time on.
@@Eliel-Lin As a Canadian I can dissapointingly say no it's not just an American thing, some countries made homosexuality illegal and not to mention the amount of homophobic boys at my school
they get to bring home their significant other without being kicked out of their home/beat/k1ll3d. also they aren’t illegal in over 72 countries and their right to live isn’t being debated on a daily basis
Yes and no. Its horrible that the LGBT+ community get weird looks for holding hands, hugging etc. However, when it comes to stronger PDAs, there seems to be a misunderstanding. Most people dont wanna see other people kissing. Straight people snogging each other in public is just as disgusting as any other couple snogging in public. So when gay couples get weird looks for kissing, its not necessarily homophobic, just people being prudish in general towards strong PDAs.
@@tinyspyro8163 Very very true, although in environments like well- cough, American high school… and such, people are sort of “used to” the… intensity of straight PDA while it’s a whole drama stew if you so much as look a little differently in the direction of the same gender
My friend years ago came out gay and wanted me to be gay too so we could have sex. I said no since I am straight and was in a relationship, and was later kicked from the group for being a homophobe and my inbox filled up with messages calling me a hateful homophobic Nazi from their friends. I almost reconsidered because I was suddenly alone and was desperate to have my friends back. Good thing I didn't because they planned to secretly live stream me with a webcam us doing it. They wanted to see a "Gay Virgin" get popped while they played with themselves. But of course I'm straight. It's impossible for straights like me to feel rejected, unwanted and forgotten simply because of who I am attracted to. That was years ago and it sometimes stings. But I'm glad I didn't give in just to fit in.
Reminds me of: "The reason that straight people can't get a pride month is the same reason that you can't get the blue shell in Mario Kart when you're already in first place."
That’s some bs cuz I get the blue shell in first place tf💀 bro there shouldn’t be a month for gay or straight people. No matter what everyone goes through discrimination nd shit so why y’all gotta get recognized?
my grandpa was a closeted gay veteran. people not only forget that gay veterans exist, but also that gay and trans people were banned from the military. if youre mad about not enough celebration for fighting for this country realize that not everyone got that choice to help our country.
They were probably banned cause of romance, at least gay people were, and that trans people would be offended to be put into their original gender place or whatever idk but there are reasons
Your grandpa was a pos. Not for the fact that he may have felt the need to be closeted in his time period, but the fact that he’s a ‘grandpa’ tells me he married a woman and had kids. There’s nothing more disgusting than closeted people who deceive their spouses. He could have stayed closeted and chosen to stay single…
and even now there are a significant number of LGBT military members, often seeking better healthcare, hopes of an education, or fleeing from an abusive home situation.
This is literally my mom and my dad every time Pride Month rolls around. They always ask me why isn't there a "straight pride month" Maybe because for years you didn't struggle with being harassed for being gay or lesbian or whatever.
I used to work at an alternative club that had a a rep as a "gay club" and did drag shows, although a lot of straight and cis people went as well. People would ask me if I was straight or not (I am) then say "Good for you!" which always made me laugh. It's nice of them to be so encouraging!
@@NoOne-bp2jwif you arent cis you're trans babe. Thats litreally all it means. Unless you're making the point that you also dont need to call trans people trans?
@@trashcat5318 Not your babe. Trans women are men. If they want to call themselves woman, they NEED a qualifier. I am an adult human female, aka a woman, and I DO NOT NEED a qualifier. So let's all put the "cis" qualifier down as a passing annoyance and quit using it.
THIS ACTUALLY HAPPENED TO ME ONCE WHEN I PUT "HAPPY WOMENS DAY" ON MY STORY AND THIS GUYS STARTED SAYING THAT ITS NOT FAIR THAT THERES NO MENS DAY, AND GUESS WHAT.. I SEARCHED IT UP AND IT EXISTS...
@@hellsbells29 Babe, the money you give chick-fil-a goes into gay conversion therapy and hate campaigns, so I think the fuck not. You can literally find recipes that recreate the dishes online without putting money into that company.
Chick-fil-A is toxic low quality garbage I've never eaten nor will I ever. I will eat my 100% grassfed pastured steak everyday. It's amazing and healthy! XD
@@DarkCelestialConsciousness More than 500g of red meat in a week isn't great, fyi. Mix it up with other sources of protein, like chicken and oily fish.
That's not necessarily true, though. There are definitely marginalized straight relationships (interracial relationships, for example), and straight trans people do exist. Like, interracial marriage was illegal in some states into the 2000s even if the laws weren't enforced. I'm not saying the majority of straight people need to fear showing affection in public; I just think presenting it as a black and white kind of situation is rather disingenuous.
@@devent10n that has nothing to do with being straight it only has to do with racism and the dehumanization of black people by not allowing them to marry white people who were seen as “better”
my brother and i were playing a fps i was terable at aim ao then he said... “i ve seen gay parades straighter than that” im now hurt edit: I havent looked at this in a month thanks for the likes everyone really means a lot to me!!!!
Saw somewhere that some kid called a family meeting and announced to everyone that they were straight. like a big deal. They gave it great thought and soul-searching. Thought they gotta break it to the parents because that was how their gay friend did it after that friend figured themselves out. I think that's actually nice. That people would affirm their sexuality, no matter what it is.
@@808hearmannxea2 we all grow up and get embarrassed by how we did things when we were younger. They'll just grow even older and look back with nostalgia on them being embarrassed about something so trivial in the long run.
@@CrimsonMeyit’s not really a double standard, though. Coming out as LGBTQ+ is a big deal since straight parents often do not even consider that their child could be queer, and coming out (or being outed, like I was) carries a lot of risk that announcing being straight does not. I was kicked out when I was outed. Even with parents who are supportive, every queer person has stories of being discriminated against by extended family, former friends, classmates, coworkers, and total strangers. We are more likely to be victims of assault or m*rd*r. Coming out as straight carries none of that risk whatsoever, and that’s why it comes across as self absorbed when straight people do it…not to mention that doing it is often a way of deliberately mocking queer people. It does sound as though the kid had the right spirit, so to speak, but also, it was a teachable moment that was wasted. That’s why someone said that he will be so embarrassed some day when he looks back on it…he’ll realize that folks come out as straight “ironically” in order to harm the community. I’m glad that he is an ally to his friend, and actually took the time to figure himself out. He sounds like a wholesome kid. In a perfect world, folks would be more intentional about getting to know their preferences, be more accepting of differences, and coming out as LGBTQ+ wouldn’t even need to happen in the first place, you could just date who you want to date and be who you are without it being any big deal. Unfortunately we do not live in that world.
Throwback to that time that I said the straight “pride” parade was unnecessary and everyone in the comments essentially started calling me heterophobic 😀
I mean... historically... you have a reason to be afraid of straight people... so,, maybe,, yeah you can be heterophobic but they made you to be ****literally**** afraid of them??? But go off straight ppl I guess
White people would HATE white history month. Would probably be one entire month where we learn about all the shitty things our race has done, and then the few good things our race has done. So, that girl is probably stupid as hell, because black people done less bad things and more good things, and they struggled more, so they actually deserve that month.
Do you know what D-Day is? Cause it's a historical event that is forever remembered as the day that led to the end of WW2. Why wouldn't anyone remember/celebrate that?
The reply to that should be "Yes, so let's get the world to a place where *you* don't need one either, and we dont need the parade or the month." If they take offense to that, then it's not about equality, it's about wanting to feel special.
@Isaiah Comfort Easily done. What exactly are we missing that would restore equality? With the amount of support and finances funneled directly into the various demonstrations during June, I'm sure kickstarting a charity specifically designed to restore equality would be a piece of cake. How do we do it? What's the plan?
Might be wrong, but wasn’t there something like that organized and it got protested against? It didn’t even have a good turnout for the people that actually showed up for it anyway lol
@@anubis7457because they tried to have it on a mental health awareness day, because they can’t plan properly which is why they didn’t know they had a day to begin with 💀
@@gameypiettvgamergames7463No? The month of June is Men’s Mental Health month but pride month took over and men like me who struggle with mental health are underrepresented and underfunded
Someone in one of my classes said "why is there no mens history month" and someone else said IN FULL CONFIDENCE "every month of the year is mens history month"
This is bad argument. Because it's the same thing as like trying to say ever day is White History you sort of make it out to be something it's actually not because then you make it seem like these months are like defensive points in time where you finally aren't stuck in everything being all about one type of people which sort of isn't the case. This also specifically doesn't work because if you act like every day is straight pride does that just make gay people straight once pride month ends?
Tbf it isn't. With that logic, every second is a birthday, wouldn't it? Edit because yall insult me being straight when I'm literally bisexual LMFAOOO I know what I'm talking about🤡
@@McNugge. Yeah we don't celebrate every second of every day but some of these people grab months to themselves and even if you don't celebrate every month you damn well know someone on Tik Tok Celebrating this day or doing some challenge where they do some dance they wouldn't normally because of these months. Really wild I don't think these months are the answers when things are days it feels more special but even that's getting oversaturated. Because at some point they might make too many days exist and then what? Like where is Mother's Week or Month? What about Father's Week or Month?
But isn’t every day just.. pride in general? Not straight pride, not LGBTQ+ Pride. Just existence? Or all of the above, since it’s existence that includes everyone.
I'm quite literally the only straight person in my friend group. We've celebrated pride together for over 20 years, and I used to attend the parade with them, back before i was so disabled. It never even *occurred* to me to want "straight" pride. Because everything around us is set up work heteronormative expectations! EVERY OTHER MONTH IS STRAIGHT MONTH, sheesh!
@@nicolebts7090 No, it's not. It's just how they are and have the right to live how they like, but you know, sometime life just hates you, and doesn't even allow you to be who you want to be. It's worth it to appreciate people who stayed strong despite possibly being abandon by families, discriminated, or deemed criminals in quite a lot of places.
I remember my friends asked me once, why i invited them to pride, and i told them "Because pride is a celebrition of all types of love, friends, lovers, family, it doesn't matter if you're straight, queer, or don't like labels, you have the right to love and be loved, and i love you guys."
Tbh if your parents have been shit talking straight people your entire childhood and when you mustered every inch of courage and came out as straight and they were so disgusted with you that they disowned you, but you preservered and made your own group of straight friends and family that accepted you for who you are, then by all means, happy straight day for you 🎉🎉🎉🎉
I’m my opinion I feel like straight people should be celebrated in pride month because we can biologically reproduce unlike gays or transgender women. But also because if you had 100 transgender women and 10 men in an island, 100 years later you will find 110 skeletons. If you put 100 women and 10 men, you will find a village or children running around 100 years later. I feel like the lgbtq community (not all of them) abuse this fact into thinking transgender women have a vagina. Which they don’t. But I still feel like straight people should be celebrated in pride too. so lol please don’t come after me for my opinion.
@@SAIVSS, I guess you only pay attention to what happens to members of the LGBT without actually keeping an open mind and realising we are not the only victims in the world. Soon, people will be disowned for being straight, I bet that lol, I’ve already seen people get kicked out of friend groups for being straight. It’s disgusting how people who are a part of my community who “want equality” and for people to “respect them” treat others this way. I am not saying everybody does, but from my experience; that is how it is.
I cannot get over how much I love their hat, their outfit, and makeup and overall beauty/handsomeness (whichever is preferred), Stanzi is just master class in style and sass and I love it!!!
@@bibliophile6319 Who are you to say they don’t need it? Just because you don’t need it, doesn’t mean nobody needs it. The world doesn’t revolve around just you
Most people know at least one person in the military, most people know what the military does, and why does needing to know somebody in the military have to be a requirement to appreciate what they do?
@@Lance.Gardenhire cause most people don’t actually care, or else they’d donate, celebrate Veterans‘ month etc But they don’t, so they just wish gays don’t celebrate cause they’re homophobic
@@Lance.Gardenhire most people also bring up the military but ignore the fact that there's two days and a whole month dedicated to the military. I mean, if people truly cared about the military, shouldn't they know this?
dear straight people who feel left out because they dont have a parade- you can parade with us!!!!!!!!! you can hang out too and have fun too!!!!!!!! its ok!!!!!!
As my friend once said back in the day. "Celebrate being straight? How many people were at your wedding? Did you go on dates out in public? What did you and your husband do on your last anniversary? You look like you have kids did you have a baby shower? Valentine's day was a thing did you're hubby get anything for you? Do you either one of you have health insurance that the other is a beneficiary? Yeah. Celebration. Whoo"
Hey guess what, weddings, dates, anniversaries, baby showers, and valentine's day is for EVERYONE! When have straight people ever been celebrated exclusively just for being straight?
@@JustLilyTbh they don’t need to. Lgtbq+ went through many struggles in the past, not just discrimination but literal laws against the way they were born. They still get discrimination now. As a straight person, we’ve got it easy and I’m glad we don’t need our own month. Allow me to go celebrate that my sister can be free to date all the girls she wants :)
@@JustLilyTbh Well say hello to gay marriages being banned, LGBT people getting murdered in broad daylight for showing PDA, and adoption agencies banning gay couples from adopting! If you just did a minute of research or didn't live under a rock, you wouldn't look so obtuse.
@@JustLilyTbhthey definitely are for everyone! the thing is that lots of things weren’t legal for us (at least in the US) till LESS THAN 10 YEARS AGO, I was alive and in high school when gay marriage came to be legalized! in lots of places, it’s STILL not legal to even EXIST as a gay person! i’m glad straight people don’t have to celebrate struggles like being persecuted for their sexuality, because traumas are difficult to push past and through. ❤
*I hate when people use actual, respectful veterans, as an excuse to be homophobic to other people, for absolutely no reason.* *Why you would give a fuck who's smashing parts, when you just fought for your life/country?* Edit: y'all seriously look it up, vets have more than just a day, they have multiple months throughout the year
@@BeachbaIICS I never said they all were, just that some are, and probably more than you'd guess, but yeah just like the regular LGBT: heterosexual percentage of Americans in general, there will be more straight veterans than queer, but they still exist
@@_StrayKidsForever_basically, men haven't faced any major oppression, example: they were always able to vote, I'm not saying guys don't face challenges but they haven't faced any major oppression
As someone in the military. I didn’t even know we had a month until last week.
Yeah because no one gives a shit about it. Probably more of the people that thought this was a good video dislike anyone who's been in the military.
@@hamesparde9888 You do know that you can serve and be gay at the same time….right?
Although that hasn’t always been the case
@@EC-yw5hg yeah obviously.
You can start celebrating. Pride month was started by the people it celebrates. It starts from within, so if you want a military month to be recognized, acknowledged, and pandered to by big companies, you gotta take the first steps in making it a reality.
@@iRazenrak man I don't really even care about the military. I just don't actively hate them. You really think a pro vetarln movement would get nearly as fatr. Basically no one cares anymore whearher your gay or not.
"hetero positive slow clap" killed me
The subtitles are just 😘 *chef’s kiss*
Was just contagious
What does it say about my mind that I want a follow up line to be like, "Thanks, it was a big challenge for me. There are just absolutely so many pussys I've wanted to completely devour."
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DONT forget the MERICA MOJIS
June is also PTSD awareness month and men's health month for those who don't know. What a month.
I thought that was november
And midsummer with solstice 😍
Thanks for sharing! I’m really glad to know there are things like that! I’m a woman but I’ve worked in mental health and men’s mental health is not discussed enough!
And juneteenth
my birthday is in June-
"Why isn’t there a straight pride month?"
"Why isn't there an English independence day??"
"Why isn't there a white history month"
"Same reason there is no straight pride month or english independence month. It's a basic bitch default. It is a sandbox game with no mods!"
But every other race and sexuality should be treated as special just because they're different? Kind of sounds like racism with extra steps
@@cameronmorgan8759 its not about receiving special treatment solely for being 'different'. Its about highlighting and educating others on a group of people who are heavily discriminated against. In a world where all races are systematically equal, all sexualities are treated the exact same with no funny looks or innapropriate comments, then by all means, either get rid of every specialty month, day, or give everyone their own, I don't care. But there is very much a 'default' within our society, and until there isn't, those outside of the default will be criticised, and will deserve a chance to highlight that.
@@CoRLex-jh5vx that might be because everyone of y'all keeps preaching the same thing. "White people are bad and they're oppressing everyone else" when in fact it's the older generation of whites who happen to also run this country, not fucking all of them. Military should be appreciated and celebrated way more because that is an earned thing, too bad we're worried about stupid shit that doesn't matter, like sexuality. Who cares, do what you want, just leave me and everyone else who doesn't want to participate, out of it.
@@CoRLex-jh5vx you shouldn't be celebrated because you exist, we have birthdays for that. And that goes for everyone, not just the LGBTQ+
Can we talk about that eyeshadow and matching nails? Fucking fierce y’all. Fucking. Fierce.
Lmao you cappin, she looks likes Sylvia from Fishtank
@@sekaiyoru01 uhm… clean your glasses maybe?
Her serves are so consistent.
I would KILL for that hat. Like who do I have to pay? Take all my money- take my virginity- I NEED THAT HAT!!!👑
Tbh im living for her fit,she looks hella good
Straight trap Combo unlocked: "Do you utilize your birthday" into a slowclap for full emotional damage
Critical Art finish
I love your pfp
Not _any_ slowclap tho, it's the epic ✨heteropostive✨ slowclap
“That right there is emotional damage “
Trap avoided, I don't celebrate my birthday and I think pride parades are ridiculous and cringe as fuck, as most people do
I'm just here thinking about the commercialisation of pride, especially by hypocritical companies that carefully pick and choose how and where they compete for attention during it
Cool, let the companies "commercialize" and let LGBTQQIA + people celebrate their month how they choose.
@@SakuraMoonflower I'm not convinced that's a good idea. Take for example Disney, which acts like it's friendly to us, but behind bars has its own don't say gay rule
Them just released an article listing the companies that "rainbow-wash" in June, but then donate money to anti-LGBTQ politicians. Of course, Amazon is on there. 🙄 I appreciate companies that actually donate to our community during Pride (and the rest of the year), and I hate the hypocrites.
@@kileylikesgames I mean, in general I respect people and organizations for being forthright about their beliefs even if it loses them money and causes criticism, buuuuuuuuut in the specific case of Chick Fil-A, I refuse to respect them for being conservative evangelical bigots. It's a nope from me.
@@kileylikesgames I'm glad that your friend's individual experience has been a positive one. I hope that they continue to feel safe in their workplace.
We were talking about Womens history month in class and some kid said "what about mens history month?!" The whole entire class including the boys looked at him like he was stupid
It was hilarious
The other boys in ur class are kings
There's women's history month?
@@Certifiedgachakid Yes, in March.
@@rachelfox8108 dang, I never heard of it. I'm gonna start celebrating it.
when the chronically online brings their hateful bs public lol
Then they forget about the veteran float in the parade
You forgot about a battle on June that everyone knows it starts with d
Yes! I was gonna say the same. And all the veterans and all the soldiers who are active duty that are part of the community getting to celebrate and/or be celebrated some more 💜🏳️🌈
@@skinsey85 that’s ww2 there old what you talking bout most of em dead now
@@bruhimdumb6385 ur not very bright are u?
@@bruhimdumb6385
What she means is the soldiers who are currently serving and have served in our armed forces who can now freely express themselves. We used to have a policy known as 'dont ask, don't tell' where topics like LGBTQ, and being queer would get your chain of command involved.
You could lose rank, be removed from the army, moved units etc. and the social stigma even today is a hurdle many of us have to face. The military is slow moving and archaic, celebrating modern victories as well as past ones are important.
I think my favourite allegory I ever saw over this topic was "Straight People feeling left out over not having their own pride parade is like the kid at school pouting because they want to get a cast signed, just like Jeremy who broke his arm."
EDIT
Credit for the allegory goes to Scott Frerichs aka "Kaiserneko"
I love this
There is no better equivalent, good job 😂💀
It's like the bully who broke Jeremy's arm complaining about not having a cast
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@@mn8303 Cause straight people don't need to fight for their sexuality
"Why isn't there straight pride?" You have the superbowl.
LOL
💀💀💀💀
I was actually in a twitch chat just yesterday and someone came in with the "why don't veterans get their own month?" - I was very proud of the chat going, "you just missed it, maybe you should pay attention if you care so much."
Who was the streamer?
@@ratwithblackdeath4377 Pretty sure it was RiverboatJack
Damn
Its really sad that people who've never served need to use the men and women who have to put others down, trust me a lot of em hate it and don't appreciate it and personally I find it quite repulsive and disgusting, if you care about veterans then show it instead of just claiming it when its convenient to you
@@justhere630 Those people transparently use others as ideological pawns, I'd be more surprised if the people invoked like that as a cudgel didn't hate it.
i once put on my status "happy womens day!!" and then this guy in my class replied with "thats sexist this is why we need meninism theres no mans day"..
mans day is on the 19 nov my guy
wtf is meninism
@@TheTrueThanos ikr
why no one celebrate mans day and doing alot of sexism in womans day only special things for womans
@@ahmetahmetahmet8076 go ahead and celebrate mans day then? lol
@@ahmetahmetahmet8076because once again, it’s about a group of people overcoming lots of struggles and inequality to get their rights, while men had lots more rights for most of history. But no one’s stopping you from celebrating men’s day. Celebrate how ever much you want, throw parades, cheer on men
“It’s actually a good thing you don’t need a parade” 😂
Oh my god gay people never once needed a parade, they wanted it. it's something that they wanted and got but then turn around and say they needed it... my god get over yourselves
Edit: my babysitter as a kid was a gay person. My very first crush is a gay person. My best friend was a gay person. I just think that there's a very fine line between being gay and being a fairy and usually most of people who want the parades, an entire month dedicated to them, all that rainbow s*** like rainbow sidewalks is just the fairies wanting everything handed to them. Gay people in my life are the farthest thing from that and could care less if there was a pride month at all
Now imagine if straight heros needed it
PLease go to Jesus he is coming soon he took me to hell he told me that being gay and trans isn’t a sin and told me how the Bible was mistranslated to say being homosexuality is a sin I saw tortured souls and impaled bodies please pray the rosary and please pray for live feeding animals to stop because it’s animal abuse and pray for animals to stop being abused and stop fake rescue videos for money Jesus and Mary helped me escape my homophobic family please go to them!!
Please call the animal shelter And tell them not to kill dogs for not being adopted please also call pet smart and tell them not to feed live animals to other animals. Please also don’t kill bugs it says in the book of Enoch from the Bible that animals will judge people for treating them badly please do not Call animals pets because they are not pets they are people and they deserve to be treated as people please also don’t say oh my god or say bad words because it’s using the lords name in vain.
PLease go to Jesus he is coming soon he took me to hell he told me that being gay and trans isn’t a sin and told me how the Bible was mistranslated to say being homosexuality is a sin he also told me you need to sacrifice your day to pray the rosary because it saves lives and I saw tortured souls and impaled bodies please pray the rosary and please pray for live feeding animals to stop because it’s animal abuse and pray for animals to stop being abused and stop fake rescue videos for money and please pray to Mary for suicide anger depression and addiction to stop. Jesus and Mary helped me escape my homophobic family please go to them!!
Please call the animal shelter And tell them not to kill dogs for not being adopted please also call pet smart and tell them not to feed live animals to other animals. Please also don’t kill bugs it says in the book of Enoch from the Bible that animals will judge people for treating them badly please do not Call animals pets because they are not pets they are people and they deserve to be treated as people please also don’t say oh my god or say bad words because it’s using the lords name in vain.
PLease go to Jesus he is coming soon I used to be a atheist and a satanist he took me to hell he told me that being gay and trans isn’t a sin and told me how the Bible was mistranslated to say being homosexuality is a sin he also told me you need to sacrifice your day to pray the rosary because it saves lives and I saw tortured souls and impaled bodies please pray the rosary and please pray for live feeding animals to stop because it’s animal abuse and pray for animals to stop being abused and stop fake rescue videos for money and please pray to Mary for suicide anger depression and addiction to stop. Jesus and Mary helped me escape my homophobic family please go to them!!
Please call the animal shelter And tell them not to kill dogs for not being adopted please also call pet smart and tell them not to feed live animals to other animals. Please also don’t kill bugs it says in the book of Enoch from the Bible that animals will judge people for treating them badly please do not Call animals pets because they are not pets they are people and they deserve to be treated as people please also don’t say oh my god or say bad words because it’s using the lords name in vain.
Never forget the 1st pride was a riot. #Stonewall besties ✨✨✨✨
that one punch made history
But I distinctly recall President Obamna saying it was a protest.
I think it's time for a few encores, until all queer rights are safe 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈🧱
I don't think thats a good thing bestie
@@MarcillaSmithbecause he realizes this stuff brings him 💸💸💸
"Why isn't there a straight pride month?"
"Why isn't there a civilian appreceiation month?"
Nice
"Air Breathers Pride Month".
Neurotypical awareness month.
i mean why isn't there a civilian appreciation month? 🤔
That means that you agree there is a difference between gay and straight that they are separate which reinforces separation/segragation
The month of June is also men's mental health awareness month just found that out on June 30th
dont forget about movember.... no one can take movember from us!
It gets overshadowed by gay pride, and nobody in america cares about men
@@filipmalicek4638 didn’t no nut november “replace that” i didn’t know about movember till i started watching the office (smile if you love mens prostates)
@@eggos5779 you can celebrate two things at once, so you can celebrate pride and spread awareness of mens mental health
@@beanie8944 I think the bigger point is one is plastered everywhere and is constantly celebrated throughout the month and the other is more of an after thought to most people.
Finally, someone who knows of military appreciation month
I was today years old when I learned this. I guess I didn't know this because it hasn't been capitalized yet. Like throughout the whole month, it would've been like the 4th of July 24/7.
I didnt know about it since nobody talks about it or celebrates it which is kind of unfair
@@jacobgardiner9267 yeah, it goes super unnoticed, which is really fucked up because people will always bring up how minorities are taking too much with a month when veterans only get a day and it's like THE MONTH IS RIGHT THERE AND YOU CHOOSE NOT TO LET IT BE A KNOWN THING YOU ASS. Like people need to hear about it because the ones that are apparently devoted to vets don't celebrate it because it doesn't benefit them.
@@jacobgardiner9267 I mean u can start
@@springtimung5567 I would make no difference just celebrating it alone though
To the people saying that Mens mental awareness month is being ignored due to pride month, maybe you should try to raise awareness of the month yourself? And one month can share two topics, like Valentine’s Day and Mothers day
EXACTLYY SIAHAH
I was looking for someone who also knows what it is
Its two days out of a month, not two months out of a month. No one calls February "valentines month" or "mother's month"
@@KilaKaKa True, True. Well what about March then? It has both national disabilities awareness month and women’s history month. They’re both celebrated even if they are both in the same month. Or black history month and breast cancer awareness month. All it took was a quick Google to find other months with two or more topics
@@adaptwt8250 wait what, breast cancer awareness is in October, bhm is in February, what kinda Google search were you doing lol
“but why isn’t there straight pride?”
“why isn’t there human appreciation month?”
I agree, non straight people are less than human
@@GlacieraBr1de yeah, there's nothing to apreciate 😂
How bout yall normalize lgbt instead of being extra about it
@@nantae1047 thank god im a video game character from another planet.
@@terrariaguy216 Terraria is bomb!
What people who seriously ask that question need to understand:
Gay pride is not about taking pride in _being_ gay, it's about taking pride in _surviving_ being gay in a world that spews hatred and discrimination at them.
Being gay isn't a choice I guess, you become gay by watching tiktok sad edits to much and hanging around fat people
YES FINALLY SOMEONE WHO UNDERSTANDS 😁🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️❤️❤️👏👏😳
It holds no place in my heart. June is also men’s mental health awareness month. Yet people prioritize their damn feelings over mental illness. I myself am mentally ill as my doctor diagnosed me with ADHD. I don’t need any support as mine isn’t that bad but there are many others out their who do need support for their mental illness wether it be autism, ADHD etc. I also think pride month is a heap of garbage because we have Remembrance Day. Fucking VETERANS OF ALL AGES GET ONE DAMN DAY WHILE YOU GET A WHOLE FUCKING MONTH!
but you guys litterly contol everything like how is that discrimination to speak out about you guys cancelling people if they disagree with you. Why should we celebrate you for liking the same gender. it's giving delusional
@@crimson-py1lq First of all, I'm not LGBT. Secondly, no one is asking you to celebrate them. They are celebrating themselves, and they have every right to in order to counteract the degradation they receive. You don't have to join in. Just don't join in with the degradation either.
"here's your birthday cake Stewie, and here's your equal attention cake Peter"
LMAO
Hahaha, I suppose that's true, but even as a gay man, if all they want is an excuse to party, why not? We humans are always looking for bullsh*t to celebrate.
@@adammatlack4667 they can celebrate pride month then
@@adammatlack4667 go to the parade too then
@@paullossypaulplossy yeah but you can have more excuses to party
as an ace, id like to wish my fellow peoples a happy pride month!!
Happy pride fellow ace❤
I'm ace and I don't care about pride month lol it's just what I am, it's nothing special.
I’m glad absolutely everyone here has met someone who asked “why hasn’t the military gotten a month” and you just have to respond with 👁👄👁
Everyone knows why the military doesn't get a month. Like are they insane? 😂😂
HELLO. It's warcrimes, fake ops, murder, lies, and propaganda just like any other government with a military knocking! They'd like to come in and talk! (; Just talk! Just to talk!
I guess people ask because the Military actually do something to help you and your country. Strange that.
@@hatch1892 lgbt people are in the military fighting for the US and in the government making positive changes, and are teachers educating the next generation. Strange that.
@@hatch1892 And Pride Month is appreciation for those who fought for years for our equality & gave up their lives for us ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ they absolutely deserve to be celebrated too
@@hatch1892 they really don't. majority if not all who go to military just do it for to go to college for free, have special privileges, have the right to shoot a gun and get away with killing (same with the police force), and even in the past during fights or wars most were just drinking all the time or having sex with other woman with and without consent. heck most dudes in the military are actually gay yet ya'll are so homophobic that you don't realize gay people are actually the one saving lives... and probably drinking and fukin dude. at least with consent. and even today the way how they treat their "soldiers" now is horrible. it's literally like forced to live in an incredibly toxic household that most people who join the military ultimately regrets it in a week. with the only good thing bout it is when u actually make friends. the military is awful in majority of places and history. don't deserve a lot of the credit ya'll give them.
“Do you utilize your birthday, perhaps?” 💀
I didn't quite get that one
@@emanuelstornello8009 It continues the previous phrase:
- You wanna be celebrated?
- yeah
- Do you utilize your birthday, perhaps?
@@sammyj6532 doesnt everyone? but not everyone gets the pride? i dont get it.
@@emanuelstornello8009 The point made in the video is that the celebration is really a thing after a certain global group overcomes a significant issue that affects them. And... To my awareness, there weren't really any global issues of straight people that are related to their heterosexuality that they had to overcome, so... That person might as well look for self-gratification from different sources, such as their birthday
@@emanuelstornello8009 they were complaining about ‘not being celebrated’ so the other character made a sarky joke about their birthday, that they have a whole day every year of people celebrating them yet they claim they aren’t celebrated
It seems like a lot of people here are forgetting what pride actually celebrates. Pride is about celebrating the people that were lost in the Stonewall riots and every riot and persecution the community has faced as a result of being non-heteronormative. It isn’t a celebration to celebrate being born gay or whatever, it’s a celebration that gay people and the community can openly be themselves without worrying about persecution, torture or executions, which have all happened throughout the years. There’s no straight history month or celebration because you have never suffered threats just because you were straight. You might have suffered as a straight person, but I can almost guarantee straight people didn’t have to fight for their right to be straight. People don’t walk into clubs and shoot up straight people because they’re straight, whereas there have been plenty of mass shootings in gay clubs and at gay people in general. And as a side note, just because you’re straight does not mean you can’t join in the pride festivities. I’m cis and straight and I always go to pride festivals near me with friends that are in the community, it’s not a no straight people zone, it’s a celebration that they’re alive and can live without the fear of their very existence being illegal or a target on their back.
To be fair there is an arguement that all sexualities including hetrosexuality have been represeed by the dominant groups to some level. I think we often dismiss them because they are the majority group but there are in fact arguements for both including straight pride as part of a sexuality pride (though Ironically most people who support straight pride wouldnt be happy with that) and increasing focus on mens month. There is a reason nobody is even aware it is a holiday but we should be using it as a time to talk about things like the victimization of males and similar issues too
Even this comment forgets that the lgbt community does include some heterosexual people, since straight trans people exist. The opposite of lgbt+ is cishet not straight.
@@venusianblivet9518 that is my fault, I apologise for that. It’s just because the topic was straight pride so most of the statement was focused on the word “straight”.
Sadly pride month is not about that anymore
I’m straight and I want a parade too 🏳️🏴
A boy in my class said "ok but why is there a pride month anyway?", to which I answered "did you know that I'm a criminal in over 70 countries for being gay? Death sentence in 11 of those... How many do you have?"
The same boy said, can we deport you . 😂
My mom literally said, "why arent there black parades or womens rights parades?"
The parade I went to literally included all of that! Even mental health awareness!
When I was a young boy my father took me into the city to see a marching band
Really? I have never heard of anything like a mental health parade. I guess we are finally getting noticed. Depression sucks.
@@damienr6005 He said, "Son, when you grow up Would you be the savior of the broken
The beaten and the damned?"
@@Batshitcrazyfreak I'm literally going on a mcr concert in two days, you killed me xD
@@damienr6005 Yeah, I thought about that too fellow killjoy
“They didn’t even fight for our country”
…..you didn’t let them
Ifkr
Lol right
similarly men always bitch women aren't "expected" to go off and die in war but it's like.. a) we don't have a draft now, nobody has to. and b) that's the issue with patriarchy my dude.. when women try and go fight for their country now it's just hissy fits across the board from right wing men calling our military 'weak'
Ya ya were did there are no restrictions on it you just have to be able to pass the physical test crap there's the issue
@@moosemaster83 have you never heard of don’t ask don’t tell
i can't help but laugh hysterically at the very quiet 'stop' at the end
edit: this is probably the most likes i've ever gotten on a comment but also y'all are goofy as fuck lmao
Same
For a moment i thought i read "i can't help but laugh heterosexually"
Bro this isn’t funny and she said when people get over a struggle then there would be a million holidays
Proud to be a weirdo. Having pride because of ur sex life.
@@restless4978 too bad i ain't hetero i like all sorts of folks !!
The “you.did.that.” must of hurt 😂
Lol meanwhile every person in this comment section can thank a straight couple for your birth. Or what? Your mad they had you?
Sure hurts to want to celebrate being able and wanting to procreate…. Is gay and trans how we’re gonna go about depopulation now?
Ok grate straight couples had us but they can go celebrate themselves but when they start acting homophonic they don’t deserve it and that don’t just go one way I’m not against either one
@@grassandglobs stay mad
@@grassandglobs LOOL
You're missing the part where they start talking about how straight people are being opressed/judged nowadays as a "reason" for straight pride
FRR
HAHA HELP
The thing is, nobody stops them to make a straight pride thing.
It is exactly the same when men complain that people do a women thing. They could just as well organise one, but never do.
@@Alltagundsoexactly this 😭 they just want a reason to feel victimised when they receive lashback
and then proceed to tell strangers they're sexually confused or that they know people more than those people know themselves
@@individual1st648 Dan Savage always says that carnival in Germany is like a straight parade and I have to agree.
They just need to introduce it to where they live.
But it's easier for those men to complain, so they won't start anything new by themselves.
"Oh it's mental health awareness month! Let's celebrate all the struggles we've preserved through, all the people who are working through it, and all the people who've supported us along the way."
"But I wanna healthy brain awareness month
>:("
Edit: changed "normal" to "healthy." The awareness months are typically celebrating overcoming something incredibly difficult that applies to a particular group of folks, I suppose. You can have a healthy brain and have previously had a non-healthy brain, so the awareness month is celebrating the overcoming of the unhealthy brain, or anyone who is fighting through it, whatever the mental illness or unhealthiness is. It takes a lot of effort to uphold a "healthy" appearance if you have a neurodiverse brain
Oh god I feel bad didn’t even know that was a thing. What month is mental health awareness month?
@@PurpleOnix53 Dont feel bad lol, I didnt even know it was a thing until 5th grade lol, its also on May
@@seyli5803 Very cool lol month before my birthday so shouldn’t be hard to remember.
Exactly! It is not wrong to be normal? >:0
@@PurpleOnix53 yo, you were also born on pride month?
Gives off similar vibes as
“I’m not homophobic, I’m an ally :D”
“Thank you for your service..?”
wait what's wrong with that sentence though
I feel like I'm missing context ._.
@@FallenEyes Its from a show: Hearstopper (I believe, I haven't watched the show but I did read the novels)
@@acestick5645 alright ty
also, I just noticed, but is that an ace flag in your pfp?
@@FallenEyes yes lol
@@acestick5645 nice :D
“Hetero positive slow clap” you cant just do that 💀😭😂
And yet
@@nouveau_nouveau she done already had have herses
"Congratulations on being straight. You. Did. That. 👏... 👏 ... 👏" killed me 😭
Edit: I think that anyone in the lgbtq community should be respected but I also don't think that that straight people shouldn't be respected. I was just pointing out her tone and choice of words and how it made me laugh. I didn't mean to start a whole argument or discussion one whether straight people should be celebrated or not I just thought it was funny
I have to kind of shrug at it, because you could also easily say "Congratulations on being gay. You. Did. That. 👏... 👏 ... 👏"
@@jotaux3652 it's kinda ironic tho(idk if that's the right word) bcs u can't really CHANGE it or DECIDE it so...
@@yourfavoriteonedoor I think having pride over your sexual orientation is just strange personally. There's no accomplishment there, you just are what you are.
@@jotaux3652 yeah
@@jotaux3652that may be true but to me it’s more of a celebration of how far the community has come in terms of rights and respect from others. I mean, gay marriage was only legalized in America in 2016.
“If we have handicapped labeled parking spaces, why cant we have able-bodied labeled parking spaces?!”
Edit: this isn’t my original thought I found it somewhere lol! Also, I’m making an analogy here about how disabled parking spaces are available and widely accepted for those who need them and able bodied people don’t/shouldn’t be using them because it is unnecessary and takes up spaces that are needed more severely by others. I’m not saying queer people are disabled lmao thats a red herring argument at this point
😂😭😭🤣
😂😭😂
....wait a min... I get what your going for but...
@@christopherjohnson3614 I mean, same logic lmao
They should actually make those a thing... and put them at the far end of the parking lot.
me to the mirror after successfully pretending to be straight in front of my family for another day: *heteropositive slow clap*
You are perfect the way you are
You are incredible and amazing
Never doubt yourself
Like someone said, "I'm proud of your pride."
BEEEEEE WHOOOOOO YOUUUUUU AAAARRREEEEEEE 🏳️🌈 FOR YOUUUUR PRIIIIIDE 💖
🟥🟥🟥🟥🟥🟥🟥🟥🟥🟥
🟧🟧🟧🟧🟧🟧🟧🟧🟧🟧
🟨🟨🟨🟨🟨🟨🟨🟨🟨🟨
🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩
🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦
🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪
You aren't straight?
@@BangSubin수빈 i mean....for lots of closeted lgbt people, pride comes at the cost of housing, food, survival, not being abused, etc. we all weigh our pros and cons, just saying "be who you are", while sounding supportive, is kind of tone-deaf to the very real problem that many gay and trans people across the globe actually face. not everyone wants to have to be unhoused as a minor or not able to afford education because they wanted to come out. i sure dont!
Kinda wanna tell people now “congratulations on being straight” and “congratulations for being gay”
I might start saying that too
I mean, if someone congratulated me for being ace or bi, my unironic response would be, "Thanks! I work very hard at it while simultaneously putting in zero voluntary effort!"
*on* *for* DIFFERENCES PEOPLE, DIFFERENCES
*slow claps*
Once a total stranger dropped in in a conversation just to congratulate me in being gay.
I told him that there is no reason to congratulate. I didn't pass a gay exam and I didn't earn a gay diploma.
I really don't get this "Congratulations in being gay"-stuff...
Pride month is not just a celebration, it's a protest against homophobia.
Either way it's not like someone is stopping them from celebrating straight pride or whatever.
Honestly this is exactly what happens. Some straights don’t seem to understand that they are the majority and don’t need a parade.
why do non straight people?
It’s not about being the majority. It was made clear in this post alone. It’s because there was never a collective struggle about being straight in history that people had to overcome.
Straight, white, Christian male ... they've been so oppressed *rolls eyes*
@@Laura-it2zb well they have… by themselves. 😂; as they have everyone.
Yeah that’s why I still don’t understand the need to celebrate birthdays. The majority have them.
I like the "be grateful you don't need a parade" angle. I'm going to use that.
Same lmao
I'd rather not have one than have one with sexual deviants and nudists
True, but we dont need a WHOLE MONTH for that either
But I want a parade. Why can't we have that? Not very progressive.
@@CheesyChez421because yk averagely people actually have a thing called personality which they can feel pride in and can often have parades for.
I always tell people like this "You can always become an ally and celebrate with us :D"
I’d rather be an axis then
@@Flamezy27you wanna go to a drag show?
@@JennieJohansson-vj5ks Why would I want to go to a “show” that has men twerking as women?
@@Flamezy27this is so embarrassing that you replied to this half a year old comment with this weak ass comeback
@@Flamezy27Tell me you don't know anything about pride without telling me.
And also quit your homophobia. If you'd rather side with the Nazi party than celebrate with your fellow citizens, that says a lot
As a straight person I think the clap wasn't long enough but the hetero positivity was definitely felt❤
For real I'm just happy to see some support after all the hardship we endure
@@cousinoftheyearwhat??? Hardship for being straight?! I think straight people should be supported and respected as much as the lgbtq community but almost NOBODY goes through hardships because they are straight, but there are SO MANY homophobic jerks out there that ruin lgbtq people’s mood. Straight people do not usually go through hardships because they are straight!
@PapayaKitty 1 it's a joke and 2 you legit just ruined your whole point... You pretty much just tried to invalidate anything I said without realizing that not validating people is a form of hardship. If I somehow DO have a problem with being straight as rare as that is you just invalidated it because of your own prejudices even though I never insulted any lgbtq anything you still decided to message a 3 month old post to say that I am lying or to put me in my place. Also my sister is gay and I support her entirely not trying to start a fight but even she agreed what you said is still unnecessary.
@@cousinoftheyear oh I’m sorry, I misunderstood the point. Also I get people go through hardships, and I apologize, I have seen WAY too many homophobic people online so I sometimes default to that.
@@cousinoftheyear it's okay they don't know our pain 🥺 I'm here (hugs) stand strong I know a few support groups your not alone I know it's rare but there are others like us 😔
I don't know when I'll need a heteropositive slow clap in my life, but I have that in the chamber now ready to go. Thanks Stanzi!
I actually let my straight bf celebrate with me during pride month for being a straight man with feminine tastes. He always gets teased about being gay and he hates that people put words in his mouth just because he likes certain colors and cross dressing. Pride is for us being whoever we want!!
So anyone can be whatever they want to be?
@@elijahsabo3846yes!
@@elijahsabo3846yes, unless they’re not harming anyone😂
@@AcidicGumdrops But I was told people were born gay or trans and there’s nothing they can do about it.
@@elijahsabo3846yes, that is true, i believe they meant being whoever people want to be (as long as it doesn’t harm yourself or others) as in being free to do things and have fun without judgement
Everyone: talking about pride month
Me: Is that earring a cigarette???
FR SAME
Me too 😭
PLease go to Jesus he is coming soon he took me to hell he told me that being gay and trans isn’t a sin and told me how the Bible was mistranslated to say being homosexuality is a sin I saw tortured souls and impaled bodies please pray the rosary and please pray for live feeding animals to stop because it’s animal abuse and pray for animals to stop being abused and stop fake rescue videos for money Jesus and Mary helped me escape my homophobic family please go to them!!
Please call the animal shelter And tell them not to kill dogs for not being adopted please also call pet smart and tell them not to feed live animals to other animals. Please also don’t kill bugs it says in the book of Enoch from the Bible that animals will judge people for treating them badly please do not Call animals pets because they are not pets they are people and they deserve to be treated as people please also don’t say oh my god or say bad words because it’s using the lords name in vain. If you hear someone say oh my god please tell them to say oh my gosh or say bad words please do what’s right and tell them not to say oh my god or say bad words
@@ovrgrown.willow PLease go to Jesus he is coming soon he took me to hell he told me that being gay and trans isn’t a sin and told me how the Bible was mistranslated to say being homosexuality is a sin I saw tortured souls and impaled bodies please pray the rosary and please pray for live feeding animals to stop because it’s animal abuse and pray for animals to stop being abused and stop fake rescue videos for money Jesus and Mary helped me escape my homophobic family please go to them!!
Please call the animal shelter And tell them not to kill dogs for not being adopted please also call pet smart and tell them not to feed live animals to other animals. Please also don’t kill bugs it says in the book of Enoch from the Bible that animals will judge people for treating them badly please do not Call animals pets because they are not pets they are people and they deserve to be treated as people please also don’t say oh my god or say bad words because it’s using the lords name in vain. If you hear someone say oh my god please tell them to say oh my gosh or say bad words please do what’s right and tell them not to say oh my god or say bad words
@@nolenbeck1238 PLease go to Jesus he is coming soon he took me to hell he told me that being gay and trans isn’t a sin and told me how the Bible was mistranslated to say being homosexuality is a sin I saw tortured souls and impaled bodies please pray the rosary and please pray for live feeding animals to stop because it’s animal abuse and pray for animals to stop being abused and stop fake rescue videos for money Jesus and Mary helped me escape my homophobic family please go to them!!
Please call the animal shelter And tell them not to kill dogs for not being adopted please also call pet smart and tell them not to feed live animals to other animals. Please also don’t kill bugs it says in the book of Enoch from the Bible that animals will judge people for treating them badly please do not Call animals pets because they are not pets they are people and they deserve to be treated as people please also don’t say oh my god or say bad words because it’s using the lords name in vain. If you hear someone say oh my god please tell them to say oh my gosh or say bad words please do what’s right and tell them not to say oh my god or say bad words
For the people in the comments complaining about pride month maybe if men made parades for men’s mental health month and veterans made parades for military appreciation month we wouldn’t have this problem ur using the same logic as if I were to say “ you can’t have such a big party cus it’s distracting from my party” it’s not our fault if we want to make parades and have fun
are they really just parties though? parades started out as riots and protests and now a lot of them have sexual contents since the lgbtq community is kinda inherently sexual
@@vampirzz yeah, nowadays most of them are just parties.
The origins and history of the Stonewall riots are certainly not forgotten, and there remains a kind of resistance element to many pride celebrations today. A lot of that resistance may be a kind of rejection of dominant cultural sentiments.
In many ways, I feel what you see as borderline ‘protest’ behavior still remaining in pride celebrations is a lot of pent-up feelings of delight on a day to celebrate the hard won civil liberties that gay people have access to today… and to let loose.
It’s a great way to meet people who you know will support you in equivocally, which is surprisingly hard to find in your everyday life, depending on where you live.
The sexual nature of pride is often due to the intersection of kink communities, and the LGBTQ community at large. Pride parades themselves don’t inherently need to contain sexual elements, and it’s restrictive to believe that the LGBT community is purely sexual in nature. Same-sex relationships contain the same love (not only sexual love, but romantic love) that heterosexual relationships do. It is a celebration of that love.
At its base, the LGBT community advocates for equal rights under the law for lesbian gay bisexual and transgender individuals. As in marriage and adoption rights. Visibility.
I’ll give you this. Historically speaking, the widening of LGBTQ rights and a country tends to follow a larger, sexual liberalization and move away from sexually conservative purity culture. Perhaps that’s why you see many sexual/kink elements included in the pride, parades in your area. It’s an intersection of communities that tend to support each other, not the same community. Think ven diagram.
All this coming me as a US Army vet who served in Iraq, and a straight man from the south whose wife taught me most of these terms and concepts.
Open your heart, sit down and listen, and you’ll find there’s a lot to be learned about life from people you’ve never interacted with.
It’s all love, man. Love is beautiful.
@@vampirzz by using your logic, I'm fine with straight people, but why do they gotta be so sexual and all up in your face about it? like... why are they always celebrating getting knocked up? They say something like "Weve been trying for a baby" Why do they need to tell everyone that they were rawdogging it and nutting in her every night??? The hetero community is kinda inherently sexual if you think about it 🤔🤔
"Congratulations on being straight! You. Did. That." Her scenarios are so creative 🤣🤣
I mean.. same can be said about being queer tho?
@@EliMacalikova okay??
@@EliMacalikova It could have been the case if Pride wasn't also celebrating queer history and the people who have fought for their rights yes
@@ott3192 Was 4th of July also a month? Please help me figure that out.
@@jasperzanovich2504 what tf does that has to do with anything I was saying ? 😂
It's the fact we wouldn't need pride month if people had just been more accepting of the fact that dudes kissing dudes or women kissing women is, in fact, not a world crisis that they should spend their precious time on.
It's just men kissing men.
Does anyone actually care? Like really, does anyone? This must be an American thing.
@@Eliel-Lin As a Canadian I can dissapointingly say no it's not just an American thing, some countries made homosexuality illegal and not to mention the amount of homophobic boys at my school
@Joseph Joestar I mean personally I identify as Aromantic, so I find romance in general especially PDA gross so I'd have to agree with you there
EXACTLY
Gay be gay and straight be straight, you do you and don’t hate others for being themselves
They already get to parade around with PDAs that don’t get weird looks so I say we are all even.
FR
they get to bring home their significant other without being kicked out of their home/beat/k1ll3d.
also they aren’t illegal in over 72 countries and their right to live isn’t being debated on a daily basis
Yes and no. Its horrible that the LGBT+ community get weird looks for holding hands, hugging etc.
However, when it comes to stronger PDAs, there seems to be a misunderstanding. Most people dont wanna see other people kissing.
Straight people snogging each other in public is just as disgusting as any other couple snogging in public. So when gay couples get weird looks for kissing, its not necessarily homophobic, just people being prudish in general towards strong PDAs.
@@tinyspyro8163 Very very true, although in environments like well- cough, American high school… and such, people are sort of “used to” the… intensity of straight PDA while it’s a whole drama stew if you so much as look a little differently in the direction of the same gender
True.
"Congratulations on being straight, you did that"😂😂😂
“Why isn’t there a straight pride month” When you get death threats for coming out straight, get back to us 😍
You literally caused monkeypox
My friend years ago came out gay and wanted me to be gay too so we could have sex. I said no since I am straight and was in a relationship, and was later kicked from the group for being a homophobe and my inbox filled up with messages calling me a hateful homophobic Nazi from their friends.
I almost reconsidered because I was suddenly alone and was desperate to have my friends back. Good thing I didn't because they planned to secretly live stream me with a webcam us doing it. They wanted to see a "Gay Virgin" get popped while they played with themselves.
But of course I'm straight. It's impossible for straights like me to feel rejected, unwanted and forgotten simply because of who I am attracted to.
That was years ago and it sometimes stings. But I'm glad I didn't give in just to fit in.
found the person stuck in XIX century
@@dusicasavic6833 It was back when MySpace and Skype were the main sites kids used 😂 I'm not THAT fricken old.
@@cfowler7936 loool i was talking about the comment
Reminds me of:
"The reason that straight people can't get a pride month is the same reason that you can't get the blue shell in Mario Kart when you're already in first place."
I hate when you use it in second and then pass then pass 1st place
I love this
I dont even celebrate pride month and just dont care or listen if they try shoving thinga down my throat
What if you get when you aren't in first place then get in first place and use it🤨
That’s some bs cuz I get the blue shell in first place tf💀 bro there shouldn’t be a month for gay or straight people. No matter what everyone goes through discrimination nd shit so why y’all gotta get recognized?
my grandpa was a closeted gay veteran. people not only forget that gay veterans exist, but also that gay and trans people were banned from the military. if youre mad about not enough celebration for fighting for this country realize that not everyone got that choice to help our country.
They were probably banned cause of romance, at least gay people were, and that trans people would be offended to be put into their original gender place or whatever idk but there are reasons
Your grandpa was a pos. Not for the fact that he may have felt the need to be closeted in his time period, but the fact that he’s a ‘grandpa’ tells me he married a woman and had kids. There’s nothing more disgusting than closeted people who deceive their spouses. He could have stayed closeted and chosen to stay single…
and even now there are a significant number of LGBT military members, often seeking better healthcare, hopes of an education, or fleeing from an abusive home situation.
And the military has there own month too
This is literally my mom and my dad every time Pride Month rolls around. They always ask me why isn't there a "straight pride month" Maybe because for years you didn't struggle with being harassed for being gay or lesbian or whatever.
June is also PTSD awareness month.
Men's Mental Health Awareness month too
It’s also my birthday
@@adaptwt8250happy 30 birthdays then
@@hehedutch Thanks, you too
@@adaptwt8250 my birthday is in october so now i have 31 birthdays
I believe being born is a collective struggle and that is why we celebrate birthdays 🤪
I mean...that's not wrong...
Unless your a Jehovah's witnesses
One more year closer to death!!! Whoo hoo!!!!!!!!😍😁😁😁😁
Honestly fair
Normalize killing civilians
"Hetero positive slow clap" IM LITERALLY DEAD 💀💀💀
I used to work at an alternative club that had a a rep as a "gay club" and did drag shows, although a lot of straight and cis people went as well. People would ask me if I was straight or not (I am) then say "Good for you!" which always made me laugh. It's nice of them to be so encouraging!
stop calling us Cis!
@@aliya6158Yes, I don't need a qualifier. I'm a woman.
@@aliya6158so you're trans?
@@NoOne-bp2jwif you arent cis you're trans babe. Thats litreally all it means. Unless you're making the point that you also dont need to call trans people trans?
@@trashcat5318 Not your babe. Trans women are men. If they want to call themselves woman, they NEED a qualifier. I am an adult human female, aka a woman, and I DO NOT NEED a qualifier. So let's all put the "cis" qualifier down as a passing annoyance and quit using it.
THIS ACTUALLY HAPPENED TO ME ONCE WHEN I PUT "HAPPY WOMENS DAY" ON MY STORY AND THIS GUYS STARTED SAYING THAT ITS NOT FAIR THAT THERES NO MENS DAY, AND GUESS WHAT.. I SEARCHED IT UP AND IT EXISTS...
but the difference is nobody celebrates mens day
I’ve never even heard of a women’s day.
@@northcarrot6994 and how is that our fault? If ur gonna complain about ur day not being celebrated, CELEBRATE IT
@@payt00n i'm not a boy, i'm a girl.
@@northcarrot6994k, point still stands
I read somewhere that a straight pride parade is just traffic...and I think about that a lot.
My favourite is straight pride parade is just a line at chickfila
Aye Chick-fil-A is for every body that shit is good idc if they homophobic
@@hellsbells29 Babe, the money you give chick-fil-a goes into gay conversion therapy and hate campaigns, so I think the fuck not. You can literally find recipes that recreate the dishes online without putting money into that company.
Chick-fil-A is toxic low quality garbage I've never eaten nor will I ever. I will eat my 100% grassfed pastured steak everyday. It's amazing and healthy! XD
@@DarkCelestialConsciousness More than 500g of red meat in a week isn't great, fyi. Mix it up with other sources of protein, like chicken and oily fish.
"Why isnt there straight pride" you have toyotathon
this is one of the funniest things I've ever read I love you
ok this is genuinely hilarious 💀💀
This is going in my quote journal 😂
I don't get it 😅...can someone pls explain? Sorry, y'see, I'm dumb. And also don't get out often 😅...
I'm going to to tell this to anyone who says that from now on
Haha the level of irony and sarcasm in this - I ain’t. She’s too good 😂😂😂
The celebration of being straight is being able to show your partner affection with zero drawback in any way, shape or form.
Fuck yes!!
EXACTLY
That's not necessarily true, though. There are definitely marginalized straight relationships (interracial relationships, for example), and straight trans people do exist. Like, interracial marriage was illegal in some states into the 2000s even if the laws weren't enforced.
I'm not saying the majority of straight people need to fear showing affection in public; I just think presenting it as a black and white kind of situation is rather disingenuous.
@@devent10n that has nothing to do with being straight it only has to do with racism and the dehumanization of black people by not allowing them to marry white people who were seen as “better”
@@devent10n you make a fair point, society sucks and needs to move on from the 1700s
my brother and i were playing a fps i was terable at aim ao then he said... “i ve seen gay parades straighter than that” im now hurt
edit: I havent looked at this in a month thanks for the likes everyone really means a lot to me!!!!
You’re terable at spelling too
Lmao skill issue detected
Im using this next time my friend can't aim in Siege
Bro killed you
The true emotional damage
"The urban dictionary says straight month is in July."- My brother
Straight month is every month that isn’t June :/
I never said it was true I'm just saying the urban dictionary says it and my brother pointed that out
@@pathological8231 so
It's funny because it's the month named after the notoriously bisexual Julius Caesar.
@@marilyncotton6199 I was joking. “bUt WhY nO sTrAiGhT mOnTh” straight month is every month thats not pride month lol
This has the same vibe as "Why isnt there a white history month"
Saw somewhere that some kid called a family meeting and announced to everyone that they were straight. like a big deal. They gave it great thought and soul-searching. Thought they gotta break it to the parents because that was how their gay friend did it after that friend figured themselves out. I think that's actually nice. That people would affirm their sexuality, no matter what it is.
it's cool and all but that kid will grow up so embarrassed when he realizes how he did it
@@808hearmannxea2 we all grow up and get embarrassed by how we did things when we were younger. They'll just grow even older and look back with nostalgia on them being embarrassed about something so trivial in the long run.
@@808hearmannxea2it's weird how it seems so much more self-absorbed when a straight person does it?
@@paulcox2447 double standard much
@@CrimsonMeyit’s not really a double standard, though. Coming out as LGBTQ+ is a big deal since straight parents often do not even consider that their child could be queer, and coming out (or being outed, like I was) carries a lot of risk that announcing being straight does not. I was kicked out when I was outed. Even with parents who are supportive, every queer person has stories of being discriminated against by extended family, former friends, classmates, coworkers, and total strangers. We are more likely to be victims of assault or m*rd*r. Coming out as straight carries none of that risk whatsoever, and that’s why it comes across as self absorbed when straight people do it…not to mention that doing it is often a way of deliberately mocking queer people.
It does sound as though the kid had the right spirit, so to speak, but also, it was a teachable moment that was wasted. That’s why someone said that he will be so embarrassed some day when he looks back on it…he’ll realize that folks come out as straight “ironically” in order to harm the community. I’m glad that he is an ally to his friend, and actually took the time to figure himself out. He sounds like a wholesome kid.
In a perfect world, folks would be more intentional about getting to know their preferences, be more accepting of differences, and coming out as LGBTQ+ wouldn’t even need to happen in the first place, you could just date who you want to date and be who you are without it being any big deal. Unfortunately we do not live in that world.
Throwback to that time that I said the straight “pride” parade was unnecessary and everyone in the comments essentially started calling me heterophobic 😀
Hah heterophobia.
Like she if exsists 🤣. And these people have the audacity to call us snowflakes.
“Heterophobic” 💀
I mean... historically... you have a reason to be afraid of straight people... so,, maybe,, yeah you can be heterophobic but they made you to be ****literally**** afraid of them??? But go off straight ppl I guess
"Heterophobic." 💀
“Heterophobic” 💀
The entire time I was just thinking “Are those cigarettes hanging from her ears”
Ikr I'm so glad I wasn't the only one who noticed them😁
Lol same
They're for the morning after when you're hanging and you've run out 😉😂
Same
NO theyre cocaine pipes. One for a "friend" and one for "them"
Ik tons of people gonna hate this video. I love it, and glad ur speaking up lol ❤
Bro this one girl in my school said “If there’s a Black history month, why isn’t there White history month?”
When I heard that I was like..
GIRL WHAT
White people would HATE white history month. Would probably be one entire month where we learn about all the shitty things our race has done, and then the few good things our race has done. So, that girl is probably stupid as hell, because black people done less bad things and more good things, and they struggled more, so they actually deserve that month.
OH DEARRRRR
@@everlyyyyyy EXACTLY😭😭
Pls tell me this is a joke
Now, an Asian History Month on the other hand…
June 6th was the anniversary of D-day so even in pride month ya still got that.
Love that it's one day before my birthday PERFECT
Someone finally pointed that out
And June 14 (today) is the army's birthday, if you want to appreciate a specific branch
@@kelseyd1882 oh that’s neat. I didn’t know
Do you know what D-Day is? Cause it's a historical event that is forever remembered as the day that led to the end of WW2. Why wouldn't anyone remember/celebrate that?
“congrats on being straight”
You....did that
The slow clap takes me out every time😂👏🏽
I actually like that. "It's actually good that you don't need a parade" lol
The reply to that should be "Yes, so let's get the world to a place where *you* don't need one either, and we dont need the parade or the month."
If they take offense to that, then it's not about equality, it's about wanting to feel special.
Remember when some people tried throwing a hetero parade? They were called bigots, racists and every other name in the book.
@@Damon-qt3fw What is your point? Stating this changes nothing in the current discussion. May as well have just said “ I like dogs! “
@@CorwinTheOneAndOnly Imagine missing the point so bad you think you have something to say. Do you say things like this on somebody’s birthday too?
@Isaiah Comfort Easily done. What exactly are we missing that would restore equality? With the amount of support and finances funneled directly into the various demonstrations during June, I'm sure kickstarting a charity specifically designed to restore equality would be a piece of cake.
How do we do it? What's the plan?
Bro this is like when (some) men go: why isn’t there a men’s day?
Women:
There is, we just organised events for ours💀
Might be wrong, but wasn’t there something like that organized and it got protested against? It didn’t even have a good turnout for the people that actually showed up for it anyway lol
@@anubis7457 It was a day to talk about mental health
@@anubis7457because they tried to have it on a mental health awareness day, because they can’t plan properly which is why they didn’t know they had a day to begin with 💀
@@gameypiettvgamergames7463No? The month of June is Men’s Mental Health month but pride month took over and men like me who struggle with mental health are underrepresented and underfunded
@@anubis7457Indeed
This is actually one of Stanzi’s nicest “lemme shut down your stupid viewpoint” characters 😂😂😂😂
I like her
Someone in one of my classes said "why is there no mens history month" and someone else said IN FULL CONFIDENCE "every month of the year is mens history month"
"why isn't there straight pride?"
"why isn't there a non-veteran month?"
They are the reason that you are somewhat safe right now. lgbtq+ is choosing to love the same gender,the military protects your country from harm.
Cuz lgbt events bring more money
@@Backp875 there are queer people in the millitary too but ok. Also being queer is not a choice.
@@ott3192 the hell it isnt
@@pterodactyl662 ??
“Hetero positive slow clap🦅🇺🇸” made me hysterically cough 😂
"Why is there no straight pride?" because literally every single day of our lives is already straight pride
This is bad argument. Because it's the same thing as like trying to say ever day is White History you sort of make it out to be something it's actually not because then you make it seem like these months are like defensive points in time where you finally aren't stuck in everything being all about one type of people which sort of isn't the case.
This also specifically doesn't work because if you act like every day is straight pride does that just make gay people straight once pride month ends?
Makes sense
Tbf it isn't. With that logic, every second is a birthday, wouldn't it?
Edit because yall insult me being straight when I'm literally bisexual LMFAOOO
I know what I'm talking about🤡
@@McNugge. Yeah we don't celebrate every second of every day but some of these people grab months to themselves and even if you don't celebrate every month you damn well know someone on Tik Tok Celebrating this day or doing some challenge where they do some dance they wouldn't normally because of these months.
Really wild I don't think these months are the answers when things are days it feels more special but even that's getting oversaturated.
Because at some point they might make too many days exist and then what?
Like where is Mother's Week or Month?
What about Father's Week or Month?
But isn’t every day just.. pride in general?
Not straight pride, not LGBTQ+ Pride. Just existence?
Or all of the above, since it’s existence that includes everyone.
All of your videos are amazing. But this one really hits ❤️
I'm quite literally the only straight person in my friend group. We've celebrated pride together for over 20 years, and I used to attend the parade with them, back before i was so disabled.
It never even *occurred* to me to want "straight" pride. Because everything around us is set up work heteronormative expectations! EVERY OTHER MONTH IS STRAIGHT MONTH, sheesh!
@@thisisnowmyaltacc5541 my discord can help maybe.
I got a few gay friends and we just dont talk about sexuality. We all have better shit to do.
"Congratulations on being straight. You...you did... that" is now going to be my favorite response to "straight pride" stuff 🤣
Congratulations on being gay. You.. did that, but it’s not an accomplishment.
@@nicolebts7090 No, it's not. It's just how they are and have the right to live how they like, but you know, sometime life just hates you, and doesn't even allow you to be who you want to be. It's worth it to appreciate people who stayed strong despite possibly being abandon by families, discriminated, or deemed criminals in quite a lot of places.
@@nicolebts7090 how many countries is it illegal to be gay?
@@paullossypaulplossy i think like 72 or something
I remember my friends asked me once, why i invited them to pride, and i told them "Because pride is a celebrition of all types of love, friends, lovers, family, it doesn't matter if you're straight, queer, or don't like labels, you have the right to love and be loved, and i love you guys."
@J H if they’re attracted to their own gender?
That sounds like jesus except he wants you to realize you’re living in sin and when death comes its too late
@@iluvmychoppa5411 oh boo hoo🥺so hurtful to people who know it’s a lie and don’t even believe in him🥺
@@Some_chick4780still common sense that dating your own gender is normal and only a man and woman can have babies together
@@iluvmychoppa5411I can guarantee Jesus would not care if someone was gay lmao
this is one of my favorite shorts even now
Tbh if your parents have been shit talking straight people your entire childhood and when you mustered every inch of courage and came out as straight and they were so disgusted with you that they disowned you, but you preservered and made your own group of straight friends and family that accepted you for who you are,
then by all means, happy straight day for you 🎉🎉🎉🎉
People do that :)
They act disgusted when somebody says they’re straight. It happens,
It doesn’t just happen to members of the LGBT (myself included).
I’m my opinion I feel like straight people should be celebrated in pride month because we can biologically reproduce unlike gays or transgender women. But also because if you had 100 transgender women and 10 men in an island, 100 years later you will find 110 skeletons. If you put 100 women and 10 men, you will find a village or children running around 100 years later. I feel like the lgbtq community (not all of them) abuse this fact into thinking transgender women have a vagina. Which they don’t. But I still feel like straight people should be celebrated in pride too. so lol please don’t come after me for my opinion.
thank u
@@C4ntD3c1d3 ????? I need to know who disowned their child because they were straight LOL
@@SAIVSS,
I guess you only pay attention to what happens to members of the LGBT without actually keeping an open mind and realising we are not the only victims in the world. Soon, people will be disowned for being straight, I bet that lol, I’ve already seen people get kicked out of friend groups for being straight. It’s disgusting how people who are a part of my community who “want equality” and for people to “respect them” treat others this way. I am not saying everybody does, but from my experience; that is how it is.
"You did that..." made me spit out my iced lmocha... Yes broo, you go girllll
Boring drink
I cannot get over how much I love their hat, their outfit, and makeup and overall beauty/handsomeness (whichever is preferred), Stanzi is just master class in style and sass and I love it!!!
I agree!
Straight pride would be like “White History Month” or “Abled Awareness Month”.
A prominent figure who happened to be Jewish was asked if he wanted a Jewish history month, he said no. Some people don't want or need it.
The temptation to send this to my auntie who said “pride month is so dumb why do we need it” but I’m not out yet so I can’t-
its ok to not be out yet. whenever you're comfortable ❤ if they dont accept you theres a whole community that will. you are loved
You can. You don’t need to be out to speak out against ignorance
You don't have to be gay to support them. Just send it.
Pride month IS so dumb, and we do not need it. For me, tell auntie she's a God damn visionary in this sea of selfish babies.
@@bibliophile6319 Who are you to say they don’t need it? Just because you don’t need it, doesn’t mean nobody needs it. The world doesn’t revolve around just you
It kinda feels illegal to be this early lol
it's always so funny when they bring up the military as if they've even met someone in the military or understand what they do lmao
Most people know at least one person in the military, most people know what the military does, and why does needing to know somebody in the military have to be a requirement to appreciate what they do?
They also conveniently forget that there are lgbt service members
@@Lance.Gardenhire cause most people don’t actually care, or else they’d donate, celebrate Veterans‘ month etc
But they don’t, so they just wish gays don’t celebrate cause they’re homophobic
@@Lance.Gardenhire most people also bring up the military but ignore the fact that there's two days and a whole month dedicated to the military. I mean, if people truly cared about the military, shouldn't they know this?
@@FaerieLoki Yeah, but you have an entire month plus a day in at least 7 other months.
dear straight people who feel left out because they dont have a parade- you can parade with us!!!!!!!!! you can hang out too and have fun too!!!!!!!! its ok!!!!!!
agreed, we respect our allys
As my friend once said back in the day. "Celebrate being straight? How many people were at your wedding? Did you go on dates out in public? What did you and your husband do on your last anniversary? You look like you have kids did you have a baby shower? Valentine's day was a thing did you're hubby get anything for you? Do you either one of you have health insurance that the other is a beneficiary? Yeah. Celebration. Whoo"
Hey guess what, weddings, dates, anniversaries, baby showers, and valentine's day is for EVERYONE!
When have straight people ever been celebrated exclusively just for being straight?
@@JustLilyTbh they don’t need to. Lgtbq+ went through many struggles in the past, not just discrimination but literal laws against the way they were born. They still get discrimination now. As a straight person, we’ve got it easy and I’m glad we don’t need our own month. Allow me to go celebrate that my sister can be free to date all the girls she wants :)
@@JustLilyTbh Well say hello to gay marriages being banned, LGBT people getting murdered in broad daylight for showing PDA, and adoption agencies banning gay couples from adopting!
If you just did a minute of research or didn't live under a rock, you wouldn't look so obtuse.
@@JustLilyTbhIt's like people forgot that just 10 years ago America was a very different place for for gay people.
@@JustLilyTbhthey definitely are for everyone! the thing is that lots of things weren’t legal for us (at least in the US) till LESS THAN 10 YEARS AGO, I was alive and in high school when gay marriage came to be legalized! in lots of places, it’s STILL not legal to even EXIST as a gay person!
i’m glad straight people don’t have to celebrate struggles like being persecuted for their sexuality, because traumas are difficult to push past and through. ❤
the quiet “ˢᵗᵒᵖ 😔✋” at the end KILLED MEE
*I hate when people use actual, respectful veterans, as an excuse to be homophobic to other people, for absolutely no reason.*
*Why you would give a fuck who's smashing parts, when you just fought for your life/country?*
Edit: y'all seriously look it up, vets have more than just a day, they have multiple months throughout the year
Also gay veterans exist
Same tho
And ah... *cough* *freedom* *cough*
@@menacetosociety471yeah ok, I am sure that’s a VERY high percentage ☠️
@@BeachbaIICS I never said they all were, just that some are, and probably more than you'd guess, but yeah just like the regular LGBT: heterosexual percentage of Americans in general, there will be more straight veterans than queer, but they still exist
when people go “when’s men’s history month?” i always laugh so hard… sir every month is men’s history month
Can you explain that
@@_StrayKidsForever_basically, men haven't faced any major oppression, example: they were always able to vote, I'm not saying guys don't face challenges but they haven't faced any major oppression