Thank you so much for watching and supporting our channel! 🙏 02:08 1. The Silent Sting: Let Your Absence Speak 07:19 2. The Breadcrumb Strategy: Spark Curiosity, Not Desperation 13:31 3. Pull the Rug: Be Unpredictable 19:16 4. The Hook They Can’t Shake: Get Stuck in Their Mind 25:18 5. Play It Cool: Confidence Over Desperation 31:31 6. The Spark of Nostalgia: Reignite the Connection 37:54 Conclusion: Own the Silence, Command the Connection Stoicism Relationships
I don't play ignorance,i go straight to the point and leave it there i don't waste my energy. Ither you are with me or without me no games playing. Have a good life you don't deserve my time.
It sounds like you’re standing firm in your self-respect, which is admirable. Stoicism aligns with this mindset-invest your energy where it’s valued, and let go of what you can’t control. Staying true to your principles shows strength. How does it feel to take this stand for yourself?
Exactly! Walking away with your dignity intact shows strength-it's a powerful reminder that self-worth should never be compromised for someone who fails to value you.
Interesting video. I used the silent response and never never looked back even though the person sought me out. That is: No contact forever! Nostalgia may set in after a long time, even decades after breakup. The nostalgia part is a good inspiration if one wants to reconnect, but knowing that the period you shared together is forever gone, since both have taken different paths and have families of their own. One just lives with the good shared memories….we can’t have everything we want in life; certain things are not meant to be , even if it hurts a lot. Courage and strength to all who are struggling.
Your insight reflects Stoic wisdom-cherishing good memories while accepting the reality of change. As Marcus Aurelius said, “Accept whatever comes to you woven in the pattern of your destiny.” How do you turn nostalgia into a source of peace rather than longing? 😊
You asked: How do you turn nostalgia into a source of peace rather than longing? There’s longing alright for something that could have been but didn’t. One tries tolook at it with acceptance and gratefulness. It was a good relationship. , and I’m happy something beautiful passed my way. Good things just last enough to become unforgettable.
That’s a beautiful way to see it-accepting and being grateful for the beauty of what once was, without letting it consume the present. Cherishing the memories while finding peace in their impermanence is a powerful act of strength. 🌟 As you reflect on those unforgettable moments, how do they inspire you to embrace the beauty of your present and future? 😊
I took this one step further, I simply blocked the person on my phone because I was tired of all the BS including them lying to me and especially lying to themselves. It’s simple one and done. I won’t even know if they tried reaching out or not. Don’t care anymore.
That's a powerful decision to prioritize your well-being. As Epictetus said, "It's not what happens to you, but how you react that matters." Stay focused on your growth and surround yourself with those who truly value you. You've got this! 💪✨
That’s a strong approach too! 🌟 Silence can speak louder than any action, showing calm confidence and self-respect. How has this mindset helped you move forward? 😊✨
@ I agree I’m not blocking the person anymore I just don’t recognize her anymore because the actual blocking was putting more emphasis on her existence in my life whereas I just don’t care to interact anymore. If you understand what I’m trying to say? One involves active engagement whereas the other involves no engagement because I no longer care, i.e. releasing the past and moving on, if that makes sense.
When you are ghosted, the person ghosting you is actually saying I don't respect you,. Your feelings don't matter to me. You are not important to me. So why should I stay with someone who devalues me? Not me. I block them, turn into a real ghost and walk away with my self esteem, self image and self respect intact.
You're absolutely right-choosing to walk away from someone who devalues you is a strong act of self-respect. As the Stoics teach, "You have power over your mind-not outside events." By blocking and moving on, you're taking control of what you can and leaving behind what doesn't serve you. How has this approach helped you grow stronger?
Family dynamics can be much trickier. In such cases, Stoicism reminds us to focus on our responses, not their behavior. Set boundaries where you can and protect your peace without creating unnecessary conflict. What small steps could you take to maintain your well-being in this situation? 🌿
@@jacksaintjack2844 absolutely! I did what you suggested after listening to the mesage/ video. I took my power back after I messaged him what you suggested. . He hasn’t responded but, that’s ok. Im stronger than he thinks I am. He wants to play games, he should be prepared for someone who is better at it. I deserve better and will find someone who doesn’t treat women this way. Thank you for opening my eyes and your words and support
Beautifully said! Your love, poise, and grace are reflections of your inner strength. As Seneca reminds us, “As is a tale, so is life: not how long it is, but how good it is, is what matters.” How will you nurture your love and grace today, just for yourself? 💖
I have done this practice numerous times. It does work and maintains your dignity. If the person never responds then woo hoo you have eliminated who doesn’t serve you. And you are open to continue searching for who does serve you.
Exactly! 🎯 By stepping back and focusing on your dignity, you filter out those who don’t align with your values. As Marcus Aurelius reminds us, *"The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way."* Their lack of response clears the path for healthier connections. Who or what will you focus on attracting next? 🌟
I have had a falling out with my oldest daughter this has gone on for far too long. My attempts to. Reconcile with her have gone unappreciated. As a result I decided to no longer go where I am not wanted. In short I had given up hope. Having listened to many of your suggestions i think it’s worth another try. I’ll keep my message short and open ended. If I can spark a shared memory with her she may respond out of curiosity. Wish me luck !
I'm truly sorry you're experiencing this, but it's inspiring to see your willingness to try again. As Epictetus reminds us, "We cannot choose our external circumstances, but we can always choose how we respond to them." Sending a thoughtful, open-ended message can be a meaningful step towards reconciliation. What shared memory are you thinking of mentioning to spark her curiosity? 😊
Thank you for your kind words and prayers! 🙏 Family is indeed important, and your support means so much. Sending love and hope for reconciliation and healing. 🎉💖✨
Silence can give poeple space to feel there ownselves and can confront the void they are not willing to confront in tgere selves. My presence is optional not to be taken fir granted. That last statement right on.
Silence speaks volumes-it gives others space to reflect and reveals your worth when you're no longer readily available. As Stoics say, "Your worth is not diminished by others' inability to see it." 🌿 How will you honor your value through quiet strength?
That’s a powerful decision! By stopping the chase, you reclaim your energy and self-respect. As Epictetus said, “You have power over your mind-not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.” How will you redirect that energy toward yourself today? 🌟
Absolutely! Encouraging others to live their own life and recognize their inner strength is so uplifting. Thank you for spreading positivity-your words can inspire so many! 🌟 How do you plan to embrace your own strength today? 😊
After listening to the whole thing and contemplating, learning from the places my mind travelled to while listening i’m shocked- troubled- reading the comments. Why? Because it seems most posts are dealing with people’s children or mentioning their romantic relationships. And in my mind while listening I heard mostly about business, friends, and coworker relationships that could’ve managed better. Very little ‘romantic’ relationship applications crossed my mind. If one has a more ‘intimate’ relationship in which the need for catastrophic profound silence arises the YOU are the problem for letting it get that “complicated.” Just my opinion. George Washington wrote, “be courteous to all, intimate with few, and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence.” Few words but naked truth.
Thank you for sharing your insightful perspective! 😊 You’re right-Stoicism applies to all types of relationships, helping us navigate them with clarity and respect. George Washington’s advice is truly timeless. What other topics would you like to explore? 🙏✨
This message is so empowering! It’s a reminder that valuing ourselves is the first step to transforming how others perceive us. The silence we embrace can truly speak volumes. Thank you for this insight!
I’m so glad this resonated with you! 🌟 Valuing ourselves sets the tone for how others treat us, and silence, when used with intention, can indeed be a powerful message of self-respect. What’s one way you’ll prioritize yourself this week? 💪✨
I’m so proud of you for taking steps toward healing and rediscovering yourself. It’s a beautiful journey, and you deserve all the adventures and love life has to offer. How are you planning to embrace this new chapter of growth and freedom? 💖🌟
I might be the only person on this planet, but I am happy to say that I do not agree. I leave people for good when they use silent treatment on me. Silent treatment does not speak confidence for me. Silence is ignorance. When you love someone, you don't play games with them. What message does one's slient send? Our relationship only works if we play game?? I am simple, and I want a simple life. Playing games is not my forte.
You’re right-silence as a game is not respect. True love is open and honest, not manipulative. Your value for simplicity and directness is a strength. How do you stay true to that in your relationships?
@stoicharmonyus i prefer talking honestly, even if it is hard to hear. I do not like to keep wondering. I ask the hard question and not afraid to hear the answer. I pursue if they say yes, I let go when they say no. Silence can be taking as yes. If your answer is no, say it and free yourself from follow up calls.
I was about to say that 😂 This philosophy worked when I was in high school. But now I don't like playing games. It's exhausting and very immature. Life should be simple. Humans need to evolve and communicate well. It's just that simple.
That’s amazing to hear! 🎉 It’s clear you’ve been living with a strong sense of self-worth and independence, which aligns perfectly with Stoic principles. Validation through logic and philosophy only strengthens what you already know deep down. How has this approach shaped your relationships over the years? 😊
Thank you for your kind words! 🌟 I’m so glad the video resonated with you. Emotional intelligence and self-actualization are key to building fulfilling connections. What’s one insight you’re excited to apply in your journey? 😊✨
Wow, this is such a powerful perspective! The reminder that 'silence isn't weakness, it's self-respect' really hits home. Truly inspiring-thank you for sharing this wisdom!
Thank you so much for your kind words! It’s amazing how embracing silence as self-respect can shift our perspective and strengthen our boundaries. Keep leaning into that power-you’re creating space for the respect and love you truly deserve. What’s one way you’ll honor your self-respect today? 🌟💪
Yes I am just wrong to go beyond my limitations but now i have to stop to value my self-worth respect and self-love I thank you for your message mind heart touching❤❤
You’ve made a profound shift-recognizing your worth and embracing self-love is a powerful act of courage. As Marcus Aurelius said, “The soul becomes dyed with the color of its thoughts.” Keep painting your life with love and respect. What’s one thing you’ll do today to honor this newfound strength? ❤️✨
Silence truly is powerful-it creates space for clarity and reveals more than words ever could. Sometimes, letting others fill the quiet shows you their true thoughts and intentions. As they say, “Still waters run deep.” 🌊✨ What truths has silence uncovered for you lately? 😊
The idea that 'your presence is a privilege, not a guarantee' is such a powerful mindset shift. This video is a masterclass in reclaiming self-worth. Thank you for sharing these strategies!
Thank you for your kind words! 🌟 Embracing the mindset that your presence is a privilege truly transforms relationships and self-worth. It’s amazing how this shift empowers you to set healthy boundaries. How will you honor your worth in a new way this week? 💪✨
That’s great to hear! When something resonates and uplifts you, it’s a sign you’re aligning with the mindset that empowers you. What’s one positive action you feel inspired to take next? 🌟
Beautifully said. Forgive, let go, and walk forward with quiet confidence. The best validation is the better tomorrow you create. What’s your first step toward it? 🌱
Absolutely-silence is a profound form of power. It speaks of strength, self-control, and the ability to rise above noise. How has silence empowered you on your journey? 🌟
@stoicharmonyus it's empowered my independence my believe to hold out for what I deserve seeing who I really am without convinces someone who probably has no idea who they are . I fought through the battles since I was a kid , God saved me in 1999 he never let's me sink as low as that Time. He is authority over all the Angels to lift me quietly up in my 2 yr isolation and many spiritual attacks and physical attacks brought to me.. I am here I am still standing and I'm singing again and putting the songs he wrote with my hand on the pen , after 2 sinus surgeries sepsis , thyroid surgery, hit by a car , attacked in my car, I'm here through much more than that. GOD BE MAGNIFIED !!! Amen
Your journey is a powerful testament to resilience, faith, and the strength of the human spirit. Despite facing so many battles, you’ve stood tall and let your light shine through. It’s beautiful that you’ve turned your experiences into songs-what a way to share your story and glorify God! 🌟 Your unwavering faith and courage are inspiring. What’s one message from your journey that you hope others can take away and hold onto? 🙏✨
Wow, the analogy about gripping sand really hit home. It’s incredible how letting go can not only restore self-respect but also shift the dynamic entirely. A game-changer for relationships and personal growth!
I’m glad the analogy resonated with you! 🌟 Letting go truly empowers you to reclaim your energy and self-worth, creating space for healthier dynamics. What’s one area in your life where you’re ready to loosen your grip and let growth happen? 🌱✨
@@stoicharmonyus I don't wanna let go because deep down i Love her,and it's because of my Emotional BS with someone else that i've Hurt this person😢😢 This person never thought i would abandon them,or hurt them,but i did😥Now don't get me wrong,i've moved on but,those feelings have lingered,an it's going on 3 years🤔
It takes courage to acknowledge this, and that’s already a step forward. Stoicism teaches us to focus on what we can control-your actions today and the lessons you’ve learned. Forgive yourself for the past, and use it as a guide to act with love and integrity moving forward. What’s one step you can take to bring peace to your heart and honor the lessons from this experience? ❤️
Absolutely. Silence can be one of the most powerful forms of communication. It forces others to sit with their thoughts, actions, and the absence of your energy. As the Stoics teach, mastering restraint and embracing stillness reflect inner strength. 💬✨ What do you think silence has taught you about yourself or others?
@@stoicharmonyusPeople are selfish and don’t care man. This is the world we live in today. They ain’t sitting and thinking about anything, they already moved on to the next one.
I hear you, and it can feel disheartening at times. Some people may move on quickly, but that’s a reflection of them, not your worth. Stoicism reminds us to focus on what we can control-our thoughts, our actions, and our values. When others show selfishness, it’s an opportunity to double down on your self-respect and invest in those who truly value you. 💪✨ What helps you stay grounded and protect your peace in moments like these?
@@stoicharmonyusI stay crazy busy. I work around 10 hours and day, have a side biz, and go to the gym a lot. Not time for anything else outside of that. Plus staying single is my key to being grounded. I have a deep distrust of everyone.
It sounds like you’ve built a full and disciplined life, and staying focused on your goals is clearly important to you. Trust can be tough when it’s been shaken, but it’s also worth remembering that not everyone you meet will let you down. 🌱
Haha, the irony of both partners reacting the same way while watching something about handling emotions is gold! 😂 It’s a reminder that we’re often more similar than we think, even when upset. Wisdom, especially Stoic wisdom, teaches us to pause and reflect rather than react. What’s one nugget of wisdom you think your spouse would appreciate if they leaned into it? 🤔✨
I still believe in bursting out what I may be feeling and walking away in silence. This is not doing it for him but doing the favor to myself bcoz I do not want to keep bottled feelings. I make sure I got the last words that will be buried in his mind forever! Once I turn my back on someone I never look back no matter how they chase me to go back. Quite recently I wrote to a man and disclosed what I felt about him and walked away. He's leaving the city where we are and said my farewell! I'm moving on now but at least I don't have to keep bottled feelings about him. If we're fated to meet again then it's destiny. I can always look straight into his eyes painless and confident.
You expressed yourself, walked away, and freed yourself from "what ifs"-that’s true strength. Stoicism isn’t about bottling emotions but mastering them, and you did just that. If fate brings you together again, you’ll meet with confidence, not regret. Do you feel lighter now?
Actually, I silenced myself after finding out that she had started a relationship with another man. She wasn't making a decision to commit to either one of us. So I walked away. It was never easy. But it was the best decision for all of us. Since when was making the right decision easy?
Walking away from that situation took incredible strength, and you're absolutely right-making the right decision is rarely easy. By stepping back, you chose self-respect over uncertainty, giving everyone involved the clarity they needed. It’s a hard path, but it’s also the path to peace and growth. How have you been focusing on yourself since taking that step? 💪✨
You’re right-walking away shows strength and self-respect. Moving forward is about focusing on your own growth. How do you stay focused on your journey? 🌱
That’s a great approach! Focusing on financial growth and setting goals keeps you on track and moving forward with purpose. What’s the first goal you’re working on to level up? 💪💼
This absolutely resonates in my situation! I am going to try this strategy as I'm tired of being an option I deserve a lot more and I realize that this person is selfish and doesn't deserve me only wants things on their terms! I sent the message: I guess I will have to find someone else! If I don't get an answer I guess I did. the right thing as it will tell me what I mean to them.
It sounds like you’re taking a strong, self-respecting step-well done! 🌟 Recognizing your worth and setting boundaries shows incredible strength. No matter their response, you’ve already made the right choice by prioritizing yourself. How are you planning to focus on your growth and peace moving forward? 💪✨
You’re so welcome! Taking back your power is a transformative step toward a stronger, more confident you. Remember, as Marcus Aurelius said, “The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.” What’s your next move in fully owning this newfound strength? 💪😊
Acknowledging that is a great first step! Clear and confident communication starts with understanding your own needs and boundaries. What’s one area of communication you’d like to focus on improving? 🌟✨
I’m so glad it resonated with you! 🙌✨ Number ONE-you’re starting strong, and that’s the energy that will carry you forward. What’s your next move to keep this momentum going? 💯❤️
Absolutely! These techniques truly empower you to maintain self-respect and attract healthier connections. 🌟 What’s been the most impactful change you’ve noticed while using them?
Absolutely! Silence often speaks louder than words. It’s a powerful way to protect your peace and let your actions reflect your self-respect. How do you plan to use this quiet strength moving forward? 🌟💪🏾
That’s a great realization! Silence is such a powerful strategy-it lets your actions speak and gives others space to reflect. As the Stoics say, "Stillness is the key." 🌿 How do you plan to use this new strategy in your relationships? 😊
I’m so glad you found it reassuring! 🌟 There’s always more to explore when it comes to self-worth and emotional resilience. What specific topics or insights would you like to dive deeper into? 😊✨
You're very welcome! 😊 It sounds like something resonated with you deeply today, and I'm glad it could offer some clarity or encouragement. Out of curiosity, which part of the message struck the biggest chord with you? Sharing your thoughts might inspire others on a similar journey. 🌟
Yes! Silence is powerful-it brings clarity, peace, and strength. As the Stoics say, "Let your actions speak louder than words." 🌿How will you use your silence to empower yourself today? 😊
You're so welcome! I'm glad it resonated with you. Remember, you're stronger than you realize, and every step forward is a victory. What’s one thing you’ll focus on today to keep building that momentum? 🌟💪
That’s a great insight! Practicing silence and measured responses is a powerful way to cultivate emotional discipline. 🌿 Next time you feel the urge to react quickly, what will you remind yourself to stay calm and centered? 💭✨
Absolutely, it does! Silence is a powerful response that allows you to stay in control and let your actions speak for you. 🌟 How do you plan to use this newfound strength to navigate challenges ahead? 😊✨
I’m so glad to hear that! 😊 Feeling good is the first step to embracing your power and moving forward with confidence. 🌟 What’s one thing you’ll do today to keep this positive momentum? ❤
You're welcome! I'm glad you found the responses helpful. Keep exploring and studying these concepts-you’re taking steps toward personal growth and understanding. What part of the material resonates with you the most so far? 😊
@@stoicharmonyusI've been on a self improvement mission over the past several months. Feeling a bit stagnant, I felt stuck...until I had this experience. Fortunately, I didn't react. I just went silent. You confirmed I did the best thing. It showed me that I am respecting myself by not demanding a response. .
That’s incredible growth! Staying silent and choosing not to react shows immense self-respect and emotional strength. As Epictetus said, “It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.” How has this new approach changed the way you see yourself and your relationships? 🌟
You’re so welcome! 🙏🏽 I’m glad it resonated with you. Wishing you strength, peace, and continued growth on your journey. How are you feeling about your next steps? 🌟
That’s great to hear! Stoicism teaches us that action rooted in clarity and self-respect leads to growth. What’s one specific step you’re ready to take today to move forward with strength and purpose? 💪
That's a fair approach-mirroring energy can protect your peace. Just remember, sometimes choosing grace over reaction can be even more powerful. 💪 How has this worked for you?
That’s a powerful metaphor-"a hole in my love cup" beautifully captures the idea of giving while feeling unfulfilled. It’s a reminder to fill your own cup first, just like these teachings encourage. And yes, they absolutely apply to friendships too-healthy relationships should always be mutual and nourishing. How will you start applying this perspective in all areas of your life? 🌟
@stoicharmonyus I have been. Tonight, I listened to my girlfriend vent and spill her heart out in tears over her pain. She is finally opening herself up to me, over her past. And she heard my plights too. All I said to her was, "I wanted to share something with you, but you either fell asleep or were busy." She called me and we talked for 3hrs.
That’s a beautiful moment of connection-true vulnerability and deep listening are the foundation of meaningful relationships. It’s clear both of you are opening up and creating space for trust to grow. 🌱 How do you plan to continue fostering this openness and balance in your relationship?
I understand the philosophy,specially for us 50yr olds believe it or not it’s never been more easy,a little gray,some stoicism,and keeping your texts and answers short and vague is what attracts their attention,specially if you’re trying date a younger woman,whatever you do don’t pour your heart out when she sends you a pic on her yoga pants at the gym Lol.
You've got it figured out! 😄 Confidence, a touch of mystery, and staying grounded go a long way, especially in dating. Keeping things light and stoic definitely adds to your charm. Thanks for sharing your insight-sounds like you’re navigating things with wisdom and humor! 👍✨
@ My pleasure sharing my thoughts,and thank you for sharing this wealth of knowledge for everyone to hear and hopefully learn to live a much fulfilling and less stressful life. 🙏🏼
Thank you so much for your kind words! 😊 I’m thrilled to hear that the content is helping you live a more fulfilling and less stressful life. Your support means a lot. What other topics would you like to see covered to continue your journey with Stoicism? 🙏✨
I just think that speaking out is better way. It depends on what has happened. But as long as there is no mental/physical violence i think speaking out is best thing you can do in a relationship. I know people who have ended up in hospital because of silent treatment. I think silent treatment is abusive. People make mistakes. They can grow emotionally in a relationship. Always speak through.. its unfair to leave someone you love in silence. I can tell them what they have done wrong or that they hurt me. People deserve open conversation. I hate social media. Blocking and ingnoring the loved ones. Traumatising..
You’re absolutely right-open communication is essential for healthy relationships. 🌟 Addressing issues directly fosters understanding and growth for both partners. How do you encourage honest conversations in your relationships? 😊✨
I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. Remember, as Marcus Aurelius said, "You have power over your mind-not outside events." It's never too late to make positive changes. How can you start moving forward today? 😊
You're absolutely right-scarcity often increases value, not just in material things but in relationships too. When we focus on self-respect and independence, we naturally become more attractive because we show we’re not dependent on external validation. What’s one way you’ve practiced this principle in your own life?
When your message is not answered they don’t go crazy.If the women don’t answer means she has someone else and had only one night stand or she doesn’t care.Best thing is to forget all story.There is big world out there.
You’re absolutely right-focusing on what you can’t control only drains your energy. Forgetting the story and moving forward with self-respect is the best choice. 🌍 How will you embrace the opportunities in that big world ahead? 💪✨
Being unpredictable can be powerful! Shift routines-respond at unexpected times, take the lead in new ways, or surprise them with thoughtful gestures. Keep them curious by focusing on your growth and staying one step ahead. What’s one way you can add an unexpected twist today? 🌟
That’s an excellent takeaway! Being "unexpected" is all about breaking the usual patterns while staying authentic. Sometimes, the most surprising twist is simply showing up as the best, most grounded version of yourself. How will you embody the unexpected today? 🌟
Absolutely! Silence can express strength, self-respect, and clarity more powerfully than words ever could. 🌿 How will you use the power of silence to communicate your worth today? 🌟✨
Thank you! This is Great! and The more I think of everything said here, I realise this can also be implemented (Out side of message's) in Life, With People! "Very Useful! = 5*****
You’re so welcome, and thank you for the kind words! 🌟 You’re absolutely right-these principles work in every area of life, not just messages. What’s one way you plan to apply this outside of relationships? 😊✨
So true-cherishing the good memories while accepting life’s imperfections is a mark of wisdom and growth. 🌿✨ How are you finding peace in this acceptance? 😊
I’m sorry you had to experience that. Recognizing the power dynamics in relationships is the first step toward reclaiming your peace. How are you taking steps to protect your boundaries and your peace moving forward? 🌱💖
That’s a powerful mindset to embrace! 🌟 As the Stoics remind us, “The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way” (Marcus Aurelius). Every challenge you face can become a stepping stone for growth. What’s the first thing you’re hoping to learn or explore on this journey? 🙌
That’s a strong and respectful stance! Healthy relationships are built on honesty, mutual respect, and the freedom to be yourself without manipulation or drama. Standing by your values is always the right move. 💪 How do you prioritize these principles in your life?
That’s a beautiful goal. 🌿 Taking small steps toward self-improvement is how true growth happens. Learning to manage emotions is a strength, not a burden. What’s one way you’ll practice this today? 💙
The last one hit me home. Everything makes sense. Im going to use this on my friend that i have always been strong friends with for 6 years, and now, after something changes, she gives me the silence treatment. We have so many memories to help her get them on her mind and have to work on others to make her want me instead.
I'm glad the last part resonated with you! It sounds like you care deeply about your friendship. Focus on staying true to your values and communicating openly-remind her of the connection you’ve built without chasing. If she values the bond, she’ll come around. What's one step you feel ready to take to start rebuilding? 😊
@stoicharmonyus is less of a chase. I will ask ever so often if she wants to do something but is willing to hang out or plan too. But for now, I will just start playing with her mind and start with all the memories we have together and use as a key. We have concerts that we have gone to and our long drives we have done together and hikes together.
Using shared memories is a meaningful way to reconnect without chasing. Stoicism encourages us to focus on our actions and let go of what we can't control. By reaching out with intention and respecting her space, you honor both your friendship and your own well-being. What memory do you think will resonate most with her? 😊
@stoicharmonyus i the memories most that will get her back is us making cookies with her mom, and we burnt some, and after we all got done, she sent home almost all the burnt one home with me.
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02:08 1. The Silent Sting: Let Your Absence Speak
07:19 2. The Breadcrumb Strategy: Spark Curiosity, Not Desperation
13:31 3. Pull the Rug: Be Unpredictable
19:16 4. The Hook They Can’t Shake: Get Stuck in Their Mind
25:18 5. Play It Cool: Confidence Over Desperation
31:31 6. The Spark of Nostalgia: Reignite the Connection
37:54 Conclusion: Own the Silence, Command the Connection
Stoicism Relationships
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that's so, true
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I don't play ignorance,i go straight to the point and leave it there i don't waste my energy. Ither you are with me or without me no games playing. Have a good life you don't deserve my time.
It sounds like you’re standing firm in your self-respect, which is admirable. Stoicism aligns with this mindset-invest your energy where it’s valued, and let go of what you can’t control. Staying true to your principles shows strength. How does it feel to take this stand for yourself?
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Thank you! 😊 Glad you liked it!
Exactly! Walking away with your dignity intact shows strength-it's a powerful reminder that self-worth should never be compromised for someone who fails to value you.
Absolutely! 🌟 Walking away with dignity is a bold declaration of self-respect. How are you continuing to honor your worth in your journey forward? 💪✨
Interesting video. I used the silent response and never never looked back even though the person sought me out. That is: No contact forever! Nostalgia may set in after a long time, even decades after breakup. The nostalgia part is a good inspiration if one wants to reconnect, but knowing that the period you shared together is forever gone, since both have taken different paths and have families of their own. One just lives with the good shared memories….we can’t have everything we want in life; certain things are not meant to be , even if it hurts a lot.
Courage and strength to all who are struggling.
Your insight reflects Stoic wisdom-cherishing good memories while accepting the reality of change. As Marcus Aurelius said, “Accept whatever comes to you woven in the pattern of your destiny.” How do you turn nostalgia into a source of peace rather than longing? 😊
You asked: How do you turn nostalgia into a source of peace rather than longing?
There’s longing alright for something that could have been but didn’t. One tries tolook at it with acceptance and gratefulness. It was a good relationship. , and I’m happy something beautiful passed my way. Good things just last enough to become unforgettable.
That’s a beautiful way to see it-accepting and being grateful for the beauty of what once was, without letting it consume the present. Cherishing the memories while finding peace in their impermanence is a powerful act of strength. 🌟
As you reflect on those unforgettable moments, how do they inspire you to embrace the beauty of your present and future? 😊
@@carmenkamberos1156 wow! Thank you 🦄your experience is well listened to💪😇🎶🥰
I took this one step further, I simply blocked the person on my phone because I was tired of all the BS including them lying to me and especially lying to themselves. It’s simple one and done. I won’t even know if they tried reaching out or not. Don’t care anymore.
That's a powerful decision to prioritize your well-being. As Epictetus said, "It's not what happens to you, but how you react that matters." Stay focused on your growth and surround yourself with those who truly value you. You've got this! 💪✨
I even don’t care to block.Just the silance.
That’s a strong approach too! 🌟 Silence can speak louder than any action, showing calm confidence and self-respect. How has this mindset helped you move forward? 😊✨
Blocking is not necessary. In fact it puts you in a position of weakness. It is only a brief salve for the mental injuries.
@ I agree I’m not blocking the person anymore I just don’t recognize her anymore because the actual blocking was putting more emphasis on her existence in my life whereas I just don’t care to interact anymore. If you understand what I’m trying to say? One involves active engagement whereas the other involves no engagement because I no longer care, i.e. releasing the past and moving on, if that makes sense.
When you are ghosted, the person ghosting you is actually saying I don't respect you,. Your feelings don't matter to me. You are not important to me. So why should I stay with someone who devalues me? Not me. I block them, turn into a real ghost and walk away with my self esteem, self image and self respect intact.
can't do that with a family member.....such as my daughter's husband!!!
You're absolutely right-choosing to walk away from someone who devalues you is a strong act of self-respect. As the Stoics teach, "You have power over your mind-not outside events." By blocking and moving on, you're taking control of what you can and leaving behind what doesn't serve you. How has this approach helped you grow stronger?
Family dynamics can be much trickier. In such cases, Stoicism reminds us to focus on our responses, not their behavior. Set boundaries where you can and protect your peace without creating unnecessary conflict. What small steps could you take to maintain your well-being in this situation? 🌿
@@jacksaintjack2844 absolutely! I did what you suggested after listening to the mesage/ video. I took my power back after I messaged him what you suggested. . He hasn’t responded but, that’s ok. Im stronger than he thinks I am. He wants to play games, he should be prepared for someone who is better at it. I deserve better and will find someone who doesn’t treat women this way. Thank you for opening my eyes and your words and support
Right on 🦄
#1 gentle, calm, I have love poise and grace. I love. Who sees and accepts it is up to them.
Beautifully said! Your love, poise, and grace are reflections of your inner strength. As Seneca reminds us, “As is a tale, so is life: not how long it is, but how good it is, is what matters.” How will you nurture your love and grace today, just for yourself? 💖
I have done this practice numerous times. It does work and maintains your dignity. If the person never responds then woo hoo you have eliminated who doesn’t serve you. And you are open to continue searching for who does serve you.
Exactly! 🎯 By stepping back and focusing on your dignity, you filter out those who don’t align with your values. As Marcus Aurelius reminds us, *"The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way."* Their lack of response clears the path for healthier connections. Who or what will you focus on attracting next? 🌟
I have had a falling out with my oldest daughter this has gone on for far too long. My attempts to. Reconcile with her have gone unappreciated. As a result I decided to no longer go where I am not wanted. In short I had given up hope. Having listened to many of your suggestions i think it’s worth another try. I’ll keep my message short and open ended. If I can spark a shared memory with her she may respond out of curiosity. Wish me luck !
I'm truly sorry you're experiencing this, but it's inspiring to see your willingness to try again. As Epictetus reminds us, "We cannot choose our external circumstances, but we can always choose how we respond to them." Sending a thoughtful, open-ended message can be a meaningful step towards reconciliation. What shared memory are you thinking of mentioning to spark her curiosity? 😊
Praying everything works out. Family is important and so are you🎉
Thank you for your kind words and prayers! 🙏 Family is indeed important, and your support means so much. Sending love and hope for reconciliation and healing. 🎉💖✨
Silence can give poeple space to feel there ownselves and can confront the void they are not willing to confront in tgere selves. My presence is optional not to be taken fir granted. That last statement right on.
Silence speaks volumes-it gives others space to reflect and reveals your worth when you're no longer readily available. As Stoics say, "Your worth is not diminished by others' inability to see it." 🌿
How will you honor your value through quiet strength?
Silence is golden❤
Absolutely! 🌟 Embracing silence can bring clarity and strength. How has silence empowered you in your relationships?
I am ready to stop begging for his attention, I won’t chase him
That’s a powerful decision! By stopping the chase, you reclaim your energy and self-respect. As Epictetus said, “You have power over your mind-not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.” How will you redirect that energy toward yourself today? 🌟
Exactly!!!! good for you, live your own life! You are stronger than you think!
Absolutely! Encouraging others to live their own life and recognize their inner strength is so uplifting. Thank you for spreading positivity-your words can inspire so many! 🌟 How do you plan to embrace your own strength today? 😊
After listening to the whole thing and contemplating, learning from the places my mind travelled to while listening i’m shocked- troubled- reading the comments.
Why? Because it seems most posts are dealing with people’s children or mentioning their romantic relationships. And in my mind while listening I heard mostly about business, friends, and coworker relationships that could’ve managed better. Very little ‘romantic’ relationship applications crossed my mind. If one has a more ‘intimate’ relationship in which the need for catastrophic profound silence arises the YOU are the problem for letting it get that “complicated.”
Just my opinion.
George Washington wrote, “be courteous to all, intimate with few, and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence.” Few words but naked truth.
Thank you for sharing your insightful perspective! 😊 You’re right-Stoicism applies to all types of relationships, helping us navigate them with clarity and respect. George Washington’s advice is truly timeless. What other topics would you like to explore? 🙏✨
This message is so empowering! It’s a reminder that valuing ourselves is the first step to transforming how others perceive us. The silence we embrace can truly speak volumes. Thank you for this insight!
I’m so glad this resonated with you! 🌟 Valuing ourselves sets the tone for how others treat us, and silence, when used with intention, can indeed be a powerful message of self-respect. What’s one way you’ll prioritize yourself this week? 💪✨
Love your strategy❤️ 13:09
I'm slowly getting better. . After 20 years I'm going to feel better I hope to be able to feel like the me again . Adventures & love life
I’m so proud of you for taking steps toward healing and rediscovering yourself. It’s a beautiful journey, and you deserve all the adventures and love life has to offer. How are you planning to embrace this new chapter of growth and freedom? 💖🌟
LOL
Sometimes a little laughter says it all! 😄 How do you feel about starting fresh and embracing new adventures? 🌟
I might be the only person on this planet, but I am happy to say that I do not agree. I leave people for good when they use silent treatment on me. Silent treatment does not speak confidence for me. Silence is ignorance. When you love someone, you don't play games with them. What message does one's slient send? Our relationship only works if we play game?? I am simple, and I want a simple life. Playing games is not my forte.
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You’re right-silence as a game is not respect. True love is open and honest, not manipulative. Your value for simplicity and directness is a strength. How do you stay true to that in your relationships?
Thank you! 😊 Glad you liked it!
@stoicharmonyus i prefer talking honestly, even if it is hard to hear. I do not like to keep wondering. I ask the hard question and not afraid to hear the answer. I pursue if they say yes, I let go when they say no. Silence can be taking as yes. If your answer is no, say it and free yourself from follow up calls.
I was about to say that 😂
This philosophy worked when I was in high school. But now I don't like playing games. It's exhausting and very immature. Life should be simple. Humans need to evolve and communicate well. It's just that simple.
This approach is something that I’ve been doing since adulthood. It’s good to hear the stoic logic. Validates my experience.thanks🎉🎉🎉
That’s amazing to hear! 🎉 It’s clear you’ve been living with a strong sense of self-worth and independence, which aligns perfectly with Stoic principles. Validation through logic and philosophy only strengthens what you already know deep down. How has this approach shaped your relationships over the years? 😊
No.1 thanks for the first video, it is teaching emotional intelligence, moving from mediocre relationship to self actualization
Thank you for your kind words! 🌟 I’m so glad the video resonated with you. Emotional intelligence and self-actualization are key to building fulfilling connections. What’s one insight you’re excited to apply in your journey? 😊✨
I'm listening. I don't have that kind of intention. I want to come closer, I have a deficiency. I don't want to waste someone's valuable time.
Awareness is key. Focus on honesty, not perfection. 🌟 How can you connect meaningfully today? 😊
Wow, this is such a powerful perspective! The reminder that 'silence isn't weakness, it's self-respect' really hits home. Truly inspiring-thank you for sharing this wisdom!
Thank you so much for your kind words! It’s amazing how embracing silence as self-respect can shift our perspective and strengthen our boundaries. Keep leaning into that power-you’re creating space for the respect and love you truly deserve. What’s one way you’ll honor your self-respect today? 🌟💪
Silence speaks volume!
Absolutely! 🌟 Silence is a powerful tool that conveys strength, self-respect, and confidence. How do you plan to use it to empower yourself? 😊✨
Yes I am just wrong to go beyond my limitations but now i have to stop to value my self-worth respect and self-love I thank you for your message mind heart touching❤❤
You’ve made a profound shift-recognizing your worth and embracing self-love is a powerful act of courage. As Marcus Aurelius said, “The soul becomes dyed with the color of its thoughts.” Keep painting your life with love and respect. What’s one thing you’ll do today to honor this newfound strength? ❤️✨
Silence speaks volumes. He goes Ga! Ga!
Silence truly is powerful-it creates space for clarity and reveals more than words ever could. Sometimes, letting others fill the quiet shows you their true thoughts and intentions. As they say, “Still waters run deep.” 🌊✨
What truths has silence uncovered for you lately? 😊
The idea that 'your presence is a privilege, not a guarantee' is such a powerful mindset shift. This video is a masterclass in reclaiming self-worth. Thank you for sharing these strategies!
Thank you for your kind words! 🌟 Embracing the mindset that your presence is a privilege truly transforms relationships and self-worth. It’s amazing how this shift empowers you to set healthy boundaries. How will you honor your worth in a new way this week? 💪✨
I feel Good after listening to it.
That’s great to hear! When something resonates and uplifts you, it’s a sign you’re aligning with the mindset that empowers you. What’s one positive action you feel inspired to take next? 🌟
Forgive and start walking ..silently and confidently.
I need no validation I need a better tomorrow
Beautifully said. Forgive, let go, and walk forward with quiet confidence. The best validation is the better tomorrow you create. What’s your first step toward it? 🌱
@stoicharmonyus silence is power
Absolutely-silence is a profound form of power. It speaks of strength, self-control, and the ability to rise above noise. How has silence empowered you on your journey? 🌟
@stoicharmonyus it's empowered my independence my believe to hold out for what I deserve seeing who I really am without convinces someone who probably has no idea who they are . I fought through the battles since I was a kid , God saved me in 1999 he never let's me sink as low as that Time. He is authority over all the Angels to lift me quietly up in my 2 yr isolation and many spiritual attacks and physical attacks brought to me.. I am here I am still standing and I'm singing again and putting the songs he wrote with my hand on the pen , after 2 sinus surgeries sepsis , thyroid surgery, hit by a car , attacked in my car, I'm here through much more than that. GOD BE MAGNIFIED !!! Amen
Your journey is a powerful testament to resilience, faith, and the strength of the human spirit. Despite facing so many battles, you’ve stood tall and let your light shine through. It’s beautiful that you’ve turned your experiences into songs-what a way to share your story and glorify God! 🌟
Your unwavering faith and courage are inspiring. What’s one message from your journey that you hope others can take away and hold onto? 🙏✨
I agree with a lot of what you said because i've let my Emotions destroy what i'm really after!!
Awareness is the first step to growth! 💡 “You have power over your mind-not outside events.” 💪 What’s one way you’ll take control today? 😊
Wow, the analogy about gripping sand really hit home. It’s incredible how letting go can not only restore self-respect but also shift the dynamic entirely. A game-changer for relationships and personal growth!
I’m glad the analogy resonated with you! 🌟 Letting go truly empowers you to reclaim your energy and self-worth, creating space for healthier dynamics. What’s one area in your life where you’re ready to loosen your grip and let growth happen? 🌱✨
@@stoicharmonyus I don't wanna let go because deep down i Love her,and it's because of my Emotional BS with someone else that i've Hurt this person😢😢 This person never thought i would abandon them,or hurt them,but i did😥Now don't get me wrong,i've moved on but,those feelings have lingered,an it's going on 3 years🤔
It takes courage to acknowledge this, and that’s already a step forward. Stoicism teaches us to focus on what we can control-your actions today and the lessons you’ve learned. Forgive yourself for the past, and use it as a guide to act with love and integrity moving forward. What’s one step you can take to bring peace to your heart and honor the lessons from this experience? ❤️
Silence speaks volumes
Absolutely. Silence can be one of the most powerful forms of communication. It forces others to sit with their thoughts, actions, and the absence of your energy. As the Stoics teach, mastering restraint and embracing stillness reflect inner strength. 💬✨
What do you think silence has taught you about yourself or others?
@@stoicharmonyusPeople are selfish and don’t care man. This is the world we live in today. They ain’t sitting and thinking about anything, they already moved on to the next one.
I hear you, and it can feel disheartening at times. Some people may move on quickly, but that’s a reflection of them, not your worth. Stoicism reminds us to focus on what we can control-our thoughts, our actions, and our values. When others show selfishness, it’s an opportunity to double down on your self-respect and invest in those who truly value you. 💪✨
What helps you stay grounded and protect your peace in moments like these?
@@stoicharmonyusI stay crazy busy. I work around 10 hours and day, have a side biz, and go to the gym a lot. Not time for anything else outside of that. Plus staying single is my key to being grounded. I have a deep distrust of everyone.
It sounds like you’ve built a full and disciplined life, and staying focused on your goals is clearly important to you. Trust can be tough when it’s been shaken, but it’s also worth remembering that not everyone you meet will let you down. 🌱
Silence sure does work
Absolutely! 🌟 Silence is a powerful way to assert your boundaries and maintain your peace. How have you found it effective in your relationships? 😊✨
Great tips... my worth is not dependent on their response
Exactly! Your worth comes from within, not from anyone else’s approval. 🌟 How will you honor your self-worth today?
Imagine you and your spouse watching this video separately and they react same way when they get upset 😂😂😂 pls do not despise wisdom
Haha, the irony of both partners reacting the same way while watching something about handling emotions is gold! 😂 It’s a reminder that we’re often more similar than we think, even when upset. Wisdom, especially Stoic wisdom, teaches us to pause and reflect rather than react. What’s one nugget of wisdom you think your spouse would appreciate if they leaned into it? 🤔✨
I still believe in bursting out what I may be feeling and walking away in silence. This is not
doing it for him but doing the favor to myself bcoz I do not want to keep bottled feelings.
I make sure I got the last words that will be buried in his mind forever!
Once I turn my back on someone I never look back no matter how they chase me to go back.
Quite recently I wrote to a man and disclosed what I felt about him and walked away. He's
leaving the city where we are and said my farewell! I'm moving on now but at least I don't
have to keep bottled feelings about him. If we're fated to meet again then it's destiny. I
can always look straight into his eyes painless and confident.
You expressed yourself, walked away, and freed yourself from "what ifs"-that’s true strength. Stoicism isn’t about bottling emotions but mastering them, and you did just that. If fate brings you together again, you’ll meet with confidence, not regret. Do you feel lighter now?
Actually, I silenced myself after finding out that she had started a relationship with another man. She wasn't making a decision to commit to either one of us. So I walked away. It was never easy. But it was the best decision for all of us. Since when was making the right decision easy?
Walking away from that situation took incredible strength, and you're absolutely right-making the right decision is rarely easy. By stepping back, you chose self-respect over uncertainty, giving everyone involved the clarity they needed. It’s a hard path, but it’s also the path to peace and growth.
How have you been focusing on yourself since taking that step? 💪✨
smart man and when she comes back say sorry but you had your chance and blew it
You’re right-walking away shows strength and self-respect. Moving forward is about focusing on your own growth. How do you stay focused on your journey? 🌱
@@stoicharmonyus focus on money and set goals for yourself
That’s a great approach! Focusing on financial growth and setting goals keeps you on track and moving forward with purpose. What’s the first goal you’re working on to level up? 💪💼
This absolutely resonates in my situation! I am going to try this strategy as I'm tired of being an option I deserve a lot more and I realize that this person is selfish and doesn't deserve me only wants things on their terms! I sent the message: I guess I will have to find someone else! If I don't get an answer I guess I did. the right thing as it will tell me what I mean to them.
It sounds like you’re taking a strong, self-respecting step-well done! 🌟 Recognizing your worth and setting boundaries shows incredible strength. No matter their response, you’ve already made the right choice by prioritizing yourself. How are you planning to focus on your growth and peace moving forward? 💪✨
Thank You for showing Me how to take back My Power
You’re so welcome! Taking back your power is a transformative step toward a stronger, more confident you. Remember, as Marcus Aurelius said, “The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.” What’s your next move in fully owning this newfound strength? 💪😊
I definitely need to improve my communication skills number 1
Acknowledging that is a great first step! Clear and confident communication starts with understanding your own needs and boundaries. What’s one area of communication you’d like to focus on improving? 🌟✨
Brilliant! I needed to hear every word of this! Thank you!! Number ONE!
I’m so glad it resonated with you! 🙌✨ Number ONE-you’re starting strong, and that’s the energy that will carry you forward. What’s your next move to keep this momentum going? 💯❤️
Awesome techniques, they really do work!
Absolutely! These techniques truly empower you to maintain self-respect and attract healthier connections. 🌟 What’s been the most impactful change you’ve noticed while using them?
Silence is golden, 14:04 👍🏾✨✨
Absolutely! Silence often speaks louder than words. It’s a powerful way to protect your peace and let your actions reflect your self-respect. How do you plan to use this quiet strength moving forward? 🌟💪🏾
I'm what I am but I change my strategy thanks this simple strategy " silence"
That’s a great realization! Silence is such a powerful strategy-it lets your actions speak and gives others space to reflect. As the Stoics say, "Stillness is the key." 🌿
How do you plan to use this new strategy in your relationships? 😊
Silence speaks Volumes, numger1, number 1,number 1
Silence can communicate so much strength and self-respect.
Very inciting and reassuring. Need more.
I’m so glad you found it reassuring! 🌟 There’s always more to explore when it comes to self-worth and emotional resilience. What specific topics or insights would you like to dive deeper into? 😊✨
The opposite of "to love" is "to ignore". It's also a hard form of abuse.
Ignoring someone can deeply wound and harm emotionally. Protect your peace by setting boundaries and valuing yourself. 🌟
just what I needed to hear this day thank you
You're very welcome! 😊 It sounds like something resonated with you deeply today, and I'm glad it could offer some clarity or encouragement.
Out of curiosity, which part of the message struck the biggest chord with you? Sharing your thoughts might inspire others on a similar journey. 🌟
Silence is awesome!!!!
Yes! Silence is powerful-it brings clarity, peace, and strength. As the Stoics say, "Let your actions speak louder than words." 🌿How will you use your silence to empower yourself today? 😊
Thank for the wonderful advice ❤❤❤
You’re so welcome! ❤❤ Stay strong and keep moving forward-you deserve all the happiness and peace ahead. 🌟 What’s your next empowering step? 😊
Wow!! Thank you I needed to hear this!!!!
You're so welcome! I'm glad it resonated with you. Remember, you're stronger than you realize, and every step forward is a victory. What’s one thing you’ll focus on today to keep building that momentum? 🌟💪
@ I’ve got to learn how not to react so fast and to be silent.
That’s a great insight! Practicing silence and measured responses is a powerful way to cultivate emotional discipline. 🌿 Next time you feel the urge to react quickly, what will you remind yourself to stay calm and centered? 💭✨
@ that silence speaks volumes!!!!
Absolutely, it does! Silence is a powerful response that allows you to stay in control and let your actions speak for you. 🌟 How do you plan to use this newfound strength to navigate challenges ahead? 😊✨
I feel good after listening this
I’m so glad to hear that! 😊 Feeling good is the first step to embracing your power and moving forward with confidence. 🌟 What’s one thing you’ll do today to keep this positive momentum? ❤
Awesome responses! Thank you for the great information. It's much needed and I'll be studying this. NO.1️⃣.
You're welcome! I'm glad you found the responses helpful. Keep exploring and studying these concepts-you’re taking steps toward personal growth and understanding. What part of the material resonates with you the most so far? 😊
@@stoicharmonyusI've been on a self improvement mission over the past several months. Feeling a bit stagnant, I felt stuck...until I had this experience. Fortunately, I didn't react. I just went silent. You confirmed I did the best thing. It showed me that I am respecting myself by not demanding a response.
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That’s incredible growth! Staying silent and choosing not to react shows immense self-respect and emotional strength. As Epictetus said, “It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.” How has this new approach changed the way you see yourself and your relationships? 🌟
This is a very powerful perspective.
Thank you! 🌟 How will you apply this perspective to empower your journey forward? 💪✨
I’m very grateful for your advice 🙏🏽
You’re so welcome! 🙏🏽 I’m glad it resonated with you. Wishing you strength, peace, and continued growth on your journey. How are you feeling about your next steps? 🌟
I am ready to take ACTION
That’s great to hear! Stoicism teaches us that action rooted in clarity and self-respect leads to growth. What’s one specific step you’re ready to take today to move forward with strength and purpose? 💪
Excellent. Lovely msg. Thankyou.
Thank you so much! 😊 I'm glad you found the message valuable. What part resonated most with you?
A HUGE THANKYOU !!!!! YOU REMINDED ME OF MY WORTH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
( AUSTRALIA ❤❤❤ XOXO)
You’re so welcome! 🌟 Your worth is unshakable, and it’s amazing to see you embrace it. How will you celebrate this powerful reminder today? ❤✨🇦🇺
Love this stoicism 😊
So glad to hear that! 😊 Stoicism is such a powerful tool for growth and clarity. How are you applying it in your life? 🌟✨
# 1 this works I just try it thank you
That’s amazing to hear! 🎉 Keep trusting the process and prioritizing yourself. How do you feel now? 😊
Number One. Explanation is Excellent. Thank you
Thank you! 😊 Glad you liked it!
I always treat people the same way they treat me 👍👍
That's a fair approach-mirroring energy can protect your peace. Just remember, sometimes choosing grace over reaction can be even more powerful. 💪 How has this worked for you?
Should promote, there's a whole in my love cup. Good book. Similar teachings. And it applies to friendships too
That’s a powerful metaphor-"a hole in my love cup" beautifully captures the idea of giving while feeling unfulfilled. It’s a reminder to fill your own cup first, just like these teachings encourage. And yes, they absolutely apply to friendships too-healthy relationships should always be mutual and nourishing. How will you start applying this perspective in all areas of your life? 🌟
@stoicharmonyus I have been. Tonight, I listened to my girlfriend vent and spill her heart out in tears over her pain. She is finally opening herself up to me, over her past. And she heard my plights too. All I said to her was, "I wanted to share something with you, but you either fell asleep or were busy." She called me and we talked for 3hrs.
That’s a beautiful moment of connection-true vulnerability and deep listening are the foundation of meaningful relationships. It’s clear both of you are opening up and creating space for trust to grow. 🌱 How do you plan to continue fostering this openness and balance in your relationship?
I understand the philosophy,specially for us 50yr olds believe it or not it’s never been more easy,a little gray,some stoicism,and keeping your texts and answers short and vague is what attracts their attention,specially if you’re trying date a younger woman,whatever you do don’t pour your heart out when she sends you a pic on her yoga pants at the gym Lol.
You've got it figured out! 😄 Confidence, a touch of mystery, and staying grounded go a long way, especially in dating. Keeping things light and stoic definitely adds to your charm. Thanks for sharing your insight-sounds like you’re navigating things with wisdom and humor! 👍✨
@ My pleasure sharing my thoughts,and thank you for sharing this wealth of knowledge for everyone to hear and hopefully learn to live a much fulfilling and less stressful life. 🙏🏼
Thank you so much for your kind words! 😊 I’m thrilled to hear that the content is helping you live a more fulfilling and less stressful life. Your support means a lot. What other topics would you like to see covered to continue your journey with Stoicism? 🙏✨
I just think that speaking out is better way. It depends on what has happened. But as long as there is no mental/physical violence i think speaking out is best thing you can do in a relationship. I know people who have ended up in hospital because of silent treatment. I think silent treatment is abusive. People make mistakes. They can grow emotionally in a relationship. Always speak through.. its unfair to leave someone you love in silence. I can tell them what they have done wrong or that they hurt me. People deserve open conversation. I hate social media. Blocking and ingnoring the loved ones. Traumatising..
You’re absolutely right-open communication is essential for healthy relationships. 🌟 Addressing issues directly fosters understanding and growth for both partners. How do you encourage honest conversations in your relationships? 😊✨
This is excellent psychology. Subscribed and liked. James J Walsh in Limerick city Ireland 🇮🇪
Thank you, James! Your support means a lot-welcome to the journey! 😊 What topics would you like to see explored next? 🇮🇪
❤ Awesome and intelligent Part of life, thsnks for the direction
You’re so welcome! ❤ I’m glad it resonated with you. How will you use this direction to enhance your journey? 🌟✨
I not going to chase any more
Thank you! 😊 Glad you liked it!
Brilliant thanks
Thank you! 😊 Glad you liked it!
Thank you. No.1
Thank you! 😊 Glad you liked it!
# 1....Thank you..
Thank you! 😊 Glad you liked it!
It sure does relate to me 100%
I’m glad it resonates with you! 🌟 What’s the biggest insight you’ve gained? 😊
Thank you!!!
Thank you! 😊 Glad you liked it!
No ,not going to leave breadcrumbs. Don't need to say anything at all.
That's strength in silence. 🌟 As Epictetus said, “Your reaction is what matters.” How does this feel for you? 💭
Thank you
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Thank you for the information. I’ve gone ar it all wrong.
I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. Remember, as Marcus Aurelius said, "You have power over your mind-not outside events." It's never too late to make positive changes. How can you start moving forward today? 😊
People want what they can't have..... it's just how it is.
You're absolutely right-scarcity often increases value, not just in material things but in relationships too. When we focus on self-respect and independence, we naturally become more attractive because we show we’re not dependent on external validation. What’s one way you’ve practiced this principle in your own life?
I totally agree.
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When your message is not answered they don’t go crazy.If the women don’t answer means she has someone else and had only one night stand or she doesn’t care.Best thing is to forget all story.There is big world out there.
You’re absolutely right-focusing on what you can’t control only drains your energy. Forgetting the story and moving forward with self-respect is the best choice. 🌍 How will you embrace the opportunities in that big world ahead? 💪✨
It sure does work 😊
That’s the energy! 😊 When you choose yourself, everything aligns the way it should. What’s the biggest change you’ve noticed since making this choice?
I would love to be unpredictable.
Being unpredictable can be powerful! Shift routines-respond at unexpected times, take the lead in new ways, or surprise them with thoughtful gestures. Keep them curious by focusing on your growth and staying one step ahead. What’s one way you can add an unexpected twist today? 🌟
@stoicharmonyus great question is, use the one in your video. The unexpected of you.
That’s an excellent takeaway! Being "unexpected" is all about breaking the usual patterns while staying authentic. Sometimes, the most surprising twist is simply showing up as the best, most grounded version of yourself. How will you embody the unexpected today? 🌟
Right on
Absolutely! You’re on the right track. Keep that energy flowing! 🌟 What’s your next move to keep building on this good vibe? 💪✨
Our worth doesn’t depend on someone’s reply
Absolutely! 🌟 Remember, your value comes from within. How do you nurture your self-worth every day?
1 I'm ready
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SILENECE SPEAKS WORDS
Absolutely! Silence can express strength, self-respect, and clarity more powerfully than words ever could. 🌿
How will you use the power of silence to communicate your worth today? 🌟✨
Thank you! This is Great! and The more I think of everything said here, I realise this can also be implemented (Out side of message's) in Life, With People! "Very Useful! = 5*****
You’re so welcome, and thank you for the kind words! 🌟 You’re absolutely right-these principles work in every area of life, not just messages. What’s one way you plan to apply this outside of relationships? 😊✨
One just lives with the good shared memories….we can’t have everything we want in life
So true-cherishing the good memories while accepting life’s imperfections is a mark of wisdom and growth. 🌿✨ How are you finding peace in this acceptance? 😊
I was scared at times of him,. That's how he kept me out of our residence, by being the accuser
I’m sorry you had to experience that. Recognizing the power dynamics in relationships is the first step toward reclaiming your peace. How are you taking steps to protect your boundaries and your peace moving forward? 🌱💖
🙏 thx appreciate it
You're very welcome! 😊 Stay strong and true to yourself-you’re on the right path. 🌟 What’s your next step on this empowering journey?
❤❤❤thank you
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So true
Absolutely! 🌟 It’s great to hear that resonated with you. How have you applied this principle in your relationships? 😊✨
Number one.
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Yes, number 1...
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Im ready to learn
That’s a powerful mindset to embrace! 🌟 As the Stoics remind us, “The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way” (Marcus Aurelius). Every challenge you face can become a stepping stone for growth.
What’s the first thing you’re hoping to learn or explore on this journey? 🙌
1 Thank you 😅
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Number one👍
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I dont like make somebody crazy, I dont like intrigs or backtalking. I like humanrights in privat relationships.
That’s a strong and respectful stance! Healthy relationships are built on honesty, mutual respect, and the freedom to be yourself without manipulation or drama. Standing by your values is always the right move. 💪 How do you prioritize these principles in your life?
@stoicharmonyus , nr 1
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Works for Me
That’s the spirit! 🎉 Keep owning your journey and embracing what works best for you. What’s one thing you’re excited to focus on next? 😊
Number one 1
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No. 1
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@stoicharmonyus a work in progress here... But one day... Will get better... 💙
You’re doing great-progress is everything. 💙 What’s your next small step? 😊
@@stoicharmonyus self-improvement. Little by little. Try to contain emotions without being a burden to anyone...
That’s a beautiful goal. 🌿 Taking small steps toward self-improvement is how true growth happens. Learning to manage emotions is a strength, not a burden. What’s one way you’ll practice this today? 💙
The last one hit me home. Everything makes sense. Im going to use this on my friend that i have always been strong friends with for 6 years, and now, after something changes, she gives me the silence treatment. We have so many memories to help her get them on her mind and have to work on others to make her want me instead.
I'm glad the last part resonated with you! It sounds like you care deeply about your friendship. Focus on staying true to your values and communicating openly-remind her of the connection you’ve built without chasing. If she values the bond, she’ll come around. What's one step you feel ready to take to start rebuilding? 😊
@stoicharmonyus is less of a chase. I will ask ever so often if she wants to do something but is willing to hang out or plan too. But for now, I will just start playing with her mind and start with all the memories we have together and use as a key. We have concerts that we have gone to and our long drives we have done together and hikes together.
Using shared memories is a meaningful way to reconnect without chasing. Stoicism encourages us to focus on our actions and let go of what we can't control. By reaching out with intention and respecting her space, you honor both your friendship and your own well-being. What memory do you think will resonate most with her? 😊
@stoicharmonyus i think the one that we made cookies together and we burn some and she sent almost all them with me
@stoicharmonyus i the memories most that will get her back is us making cookies with her mom, and we burnt some, and after we all got done, she sent home almost all the burnt one home with me.
True!
Absolutely! 🌟 How are you applying this truth to strengthen your journey? 😊✨
1for sure
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Number 1😊
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