he probably deleted the app. I use to do that when I was feeling bad or something and it didn't matter if I talked to any guy. if you really like him I hope it would work out. love you 😘
I love you sir! I've been through these same sorts of trials as well and trust me, I can understand. Keep your head up and know you're not trash at all. You're adorable, handsome, and very talented.
Chris, I could literally listen to you for hours and all your asides as well. Sorry about the Grindr guy, and I totally get those feelings of being undesirable. I so get you, and that's one of the reasons I watch your videos.
Yay, another grindr story! I love these - not that I wish you to meet strange/rude people there but your stories are interesting and funny :) I hope he'll text you again! (Also, that snapback is Awesomeee xD)
There are times I matched with someone, we either don't talk at all, or I was not in the status for chat, like sleeping or driving. So the conversation went really awkward and closed within sentences. I usually wonder if it was me being too hard to approach, or I'm just one of their many options. I'm not that attractive to them so they don't really care. Anyway it is not a good feeling, I think I could kinda relate to you here.
Many times i have this hahaha... When i have one man i'm interested in so much, he never come back logging into the app... Finally just waiting, then forgetting and then finding new guy(s) lol...
I just started using Grindr and find many of the same things you have experienced. You can always visit Atlanta and I would be honored to ask you out on a date! Or, if I'm in LA...the same! Stay awesome! :)
Don't think he'd be interested. He seems to talk about dating other Asian guys a lot and when he does refer to white guys...he's putting them down and using them as examples of bad behavior.
Gah...I love you so much. Lol. I was on Tinder for a total of 2-3 days. I was done. Of course, I'm also an aspie so, non-verbal, social context scares the ish out of me...*hugs*
So if a gay person who's uncomfortable with using Grindr (for a slew of reasons) wants to look for prospective dates, what are the other available options?!
I'm waiting a Filipino guy i saw last week on Grindr. Seems he was visiting my town (Jakarta, Indonesia). I've been waiting for him for about more than a week. Now the status in his account is offline. I really like him from his charisma. Idk will he pay the same interest to me hehehe.... Just make a hope.... hehehe...
ah i wish I remembered to mention this. I totally asked him and he was like "oh i'm not comfortable sharing personal information yet!" and b/c I liked him I wanted to respect it even though I TOTALLY SAW THIS COMING
I have such a love/hate relationship with grindr. I downloaded it for a hot 2 seconds last week and was so overwhelmed. The amount of middle aged men sending dick pics is not worth it for the select few decent guys I met (although I am grateful for the few that I still am in contact with). Idk, will I download it when I move to socal? Most definitely. I totally have been where you are in this story and where he is in this story. I have little doubt to think he will not contact you again, as you are amazing.
I would vote for trump.... I don't tell other gays that tho... It's a big turn off for most LGBT people.. He's low key my idol because I think he's funny and he's a really good, and powerful speaker.
6:06 ,why white ? Why do people always assume they are nieve and cultureless ,thanks for feeding into the stereotypes ,how progressive
he probably deleted the app. I use to do that when I was feeling bad or something and it didn't matter if I talked to any guy. if you really like him I hope it would work out. love you 😘
If you only go for the ones that might not be into you then you always gonna find your self in this situation
I love you sir! I've been through these same sorts of trials as well and trust me, I can understand. Keep your head up and know you're not trash at all. You're adorable, handsome, and very talented.
Chris, I could literally listen to you for hours and all your asides as well. Sorry about the Grindr guy, and I totally get those feelings of being undesirable. I so get you, and that's one of the reasons I watch your videos.
Aww thanks Paul! That means a lot since my voice was made fun of a lot growing up
Yay, another grindr story! I love these - not that I wish you to meet strange/rude people there but your stories are interesting and funny :) I hope he'll text you again! (Also, that snapback is Awesomeee xD)
Thank you! I bought it at Pop Killer
You're such a cutie! Don't let it get you down! It's a shitty feeling when you think it's going well and then it just dies off. Keep your chin up boo!
Thanks so much! That's nice of you to say!
You're so relatable! I go through this over and over.
There are times I matched with someone, we either don't talk at all, or I was not in the status for chat, like sleeping or driving. So the conversation went really awkward and closed within sentences. I usually wonder if it was me being too hard to approach, or I'm just one of their many options. I'm not that attractive to them so they don't really care. Anyway it is not a good feeling, I think I could kinda relate to you here.
I fking hate Grindr, a guy lead me on there for 3 days...and then he blocked me the day we would hang out. Try surge or tinder guys :3
UGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHH this happens so much right?
Finally! Missed your videos
??? I post every week!
hahaha
Many times i have this hahaha... When i have one man i'm interested in so much, he never come back logging into the app... Finally just waiting, then forgetting and then finding new guy(s) lol...
You're so cute tho like, these guys who ghost you after however long are really missing out.
I never expect these types of comments haha I mean that genuinely thank you
awww hopefully he logs back on
I just started using Grindr and find many of the same things you have experienced. You can always visit Atlanta and I would be honored to ask you out on a date! Or, if I'm in LA...the same! Stay awesome! :)
Don't think he'd be interested. He seems to talk about dating other Asian guys a lot and when he does refer to white guys...he's putting them down and using them as examples of bad behavior.
Gah...I love you so much. Lol. I was on Tinder for a total of 2-3 days. I was done. Of course, I'm also an aspie so, non-verbal, social context scares the ish out of me...*hugs*
Awww thanks I love you too
Why did you not just get his number.
So if a gay person who's uncomfortable with using Grindr (for a slew of reasons) wants to look for prospective dates, what are the other available options?!
I'm waiting a Filipino guy i saw last week on Grindr. Seems he was visiting my town (Jakarta, Indonesia). I've been waiting for him for about more than a week. Now the status in his account is offline. I really like him from his charisma. Idk will he pay the same interest to me hehehe.... Just make a hope.... hehehe...
why didnt you exchange numbers? i dont get it. why do people leave through the internet and not real life. sigh
Keep politics out of your content. Your job as a UA-camr is to entertain me, not scold me for believing/voting a certain way.
Why didn't you just ask for his number? It seems like you guys were in that space to do so. That could have solved a simple issue.
ah i wish I remembered to mention this. I totally asked him and he was like "oh i'm not comfortable sharing personal information yet!" and b/c I liked him I wanted to respect it even though I TOTALLY SAW THIS COMING
@@ChrisLam Is a phone number personal information? Not to me ;)
Hey Chris I LOVE YOU SO MUCH
LOVE YOU TOO!
It's GIF not jif, please don't be one is those ppl
I have such a love/hate relationship with grindr. I downloaded it for a hot 2 seconds last week and was so overwhelmed. The amount of middle aged men sending dick pics is not worth it for the select few decent guys I met (although I am grateful for the few that I still am in contact with). Idk, will I download it when I move to socal? Most definitely. I totally have been where you are in this story and where he is in this story. I have little doubt to think he will not contact you again, as you are amazing.
HE BETTER. Thanks Jacob
I really enjoy your videos but he would have given you his number if he was serious. What happened btw?
fml same thing happened to me
YEAH I MATCHED WITH SOMEONE ON TINDER AND WE STARTED TALKING MORE FOR LIKE 2 WEEKS AND THEN HES LIKE I VOTED FOR T R U M P (of course cis white guy)
and this was the first time i actually attempted to date people after a year of nothing lol
ugh you feel like it's just the biggest middle finger from the universe right?
YES zeus and friends are definitely working against me
I would vote for trump.... I don't tell other gays that tho... It's a big turn off for most LGBT people.. He's low key my idol because I think he's funny and he's a really good, and powerful speaker.
Every day I thank ALLAH I am not woke or a millennial.
u need to adopt more alpha male characteristics and drop the beta male insecurities its putting u in a lot of emotional turmoil
::subscribed as soon as I saw your pretty face::
It’s too bad that you are too close minded to talk to anyone with differing opinions. Shame on you.