I WAS RACIALLY DISCRIMINATED!🥹// AWFUL EXPERIENCE! 💔

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  • @Nanaducy
    @Nanaducy 6 місяців тому +97

    That woman will get her karma. Obviously your beauty was too hard for her to handle and you kept your dignity 🩷😍😘🫶🏼

    • @mimilay3680
      @mimilay3680 4 дні тому

      😂lol omg I was saying the same thing that was the first thing that came to mind...she probably was envious of her beauty inside and out🎉❤

  • @T.Marodza
    @T.Marodza 6 місяців тому +223

    Racism is only understood by those that have experienced it💔

    • @oliviaatugonza
      @oliviaatugonza 6 місяців тому +7

      😢😢😢

    • @Clauronica
      @Clauronica 5 місяців тому +4

      💯

    • @AnnetteandSlavi
      @AnnetteandSlavi  5 місяців тому +7

      💯

    • @Am_Manasa
      @Am_Manasa 5 місяців тому +4

      I experience that all the time

    • @joycem.9889
      @joycem.9889 5 місяців тому +11

      Totally! And when they stare; I stare right back - african style (head to toe) with my head up.

  • @melokris6350
    @melokris6350 3 місяці тому +7

    Evil spirits even at the airport sis. They are everywhere. Keep praying even for people like her. I am sorry you all had to go through that.

  • @antoinette9074
    @antoinette9074 6 місяців тому +32

    Sad 😢 She was jealous because you beautiful.

  • @dolcesweet5173
    @dolcesweet5173 6 місяців тому +127

    I dealt with a similar situation. You’re beautiful & black, some people can’t stand that aka jealousy. That was an envious “stare”. I know it’s against our better judgement to not make a scene BUT this is what works. The first sign of disrespect was stalling with your documents then she tried to only let your husband and son in. Your husband did the absolute right thing by voicing he’s staying with you. Always speak firmly, directly and point out the wrong doings and that’s what does the trick. I’m sorry that you had to experience this. Trust me, they don’t think you’re going to blow up the place, they actually admire you. I’m black with a biracial daughter and unfortunately have to deal with this nonsense. Don’t be upset, instead understand that she’s unfortunately full of hate but that isn’t your problem.

    • @AnnetteandSlavi
      @AnnetteandSlavi  6 місяців тому +21

      The fact that she told my husband to go in with our son as I wait, was appalling!

    • @jacintaongira6959
      @jacintaongira6959 6 місяців тому +4

      @@AnnetteandSlavi I have heard Turkish people rarely see black people, maybe she put you through that just to stay with you longer. I hope that's the case.

    • @nkepileramokopu4120
      @nkepileramokopu4120 6 місяців тому

      ​@@jacintaongira6959 No she has negative energy against black people.She knows that black people are existing, she hates us 😢

    • @sharonlorna8255
      @sharonlorna8255 6 місяців тому +10

      ​@@jacintaongira6959Us too in my country Kenya where I come from,I had never seen a Turkish person b4.Is when I travelled is when I came to see them.But there is no day I have ever treated them horribly.But them they want to treat us black People horribly because of our skin color.Thats there problem cos we are very much blessed

    • @patriciaiha-breithaupt
      @patriciaiha-breithaupt 6 місяців тому +12

      I agree totally, speak up to tell them and not allow them to treat you unfairly . That’s a very unfair inhumane treatment you have experienced . So sorry.
      I have experienced this before too and recently I experienced this in Germany on my way driving to Austria . Almost reaching the border by car to Austria , the civilian police pulled me aside with their siren . I was shocked but obediently followed . They introduced themselves as from this State ( won’t mention it ) in Germany near the border , and I gladly told them which German State I came from. They asked for my papers and I had everything. I quickly questioned why they picked on me amongst all the cars on the motorway . They didn’t respond well and I bluntly told them , it’s all because of my skin color that they pulled me aside , they said no no no continuously. I insisted that I was right . They had no good reason , they asked if they could open my car boot and I said go ahead but there is nothing to hide , what are you searching for ? Look at me ,do I look like …... I only had a little suitcase, a bouquet 💐, traveling to visit my sister who had birthday on that day I would arrive.
      I became so loud to them saying they were racist picking me out from the line of cars like that . I could see they were shocked that I knew what they thought . I was right it was because of my skin color but they could not admit it.
      I was so furious and this experience bothered me for weeks. I got home safe thank God .
      I do not know why they spoke English to me instead of German language. Maybe because I was driving alone and of course my skin color ? We would never know what goes on people’s heads.
      I had everything they wanted to see and they found no fault, so why the stop , a terrible experience I had . I confirmed later on with somebody I know that it is true that they do that by purpose to pick on us black people because of past experiences.
      But there are so many with their skin color driving either illegal things or illegally and they are too blind to pick on their own people .
      My experience was last year few months ago and I had forgotten about it . But your experience made me so outrageous thatI remembered mine and wanted to also share it . I don’t experience a lot of this here though . But one experience as such never goes away easily . I pray for peace in our hearts , in your heart especially because you are carrying a beautiful innocent one in you . Blessings 🥰🙏🏽

  • @deniseloua8625
    @deniseloua8625 6 місяців тому +128

    GM Annette, I agree that that woman was jealous and envious of your beauty. Obviously, she’s a miserable person. I am an African American woman who lives in the USA. Unfortunately, I have experienced racism too often. It’s happened so often that I recognize what’s going on very soon. I confront them whenever it happens. So sorry you experienced it, it’s a bad feeling. Much love to Slavi for staying with you. He’s a great man/husband and father. God bless you and your beautiful family! Much love❤️🙏🏽

    • @inezsinclair757
      @inezsinclair757 6 місяців тому

      This woman is jealous o your beauty you are pretty and sexy

    • @rbm960
      @rbm960 6 місяців тому +4

      I said the same thing

    • @wambosunshine5600
      @wambosunshine5600 5 місяців тому +4

      Please give us tips / words that we can use to confront racist attacks especially the passive aggressive

    • @Jejireh
      @Jejireh 5 місяців тому

      Turks are not white, majority of them are arabs and the reason most of them are racists,

    • @bmswisdom9824
      @bmswisdom9824 5 місяців тому +6

      You right, Sister, jealousy, low self esteem, ignorance and lack of eposure to the outside world are the basis of racial discrimination. Sadly, it happens in most of the so-called 'civilised' countries. 🤎

  • @noelinenassaazi3863
    @noelinenassaazi3863 6 місяців тому +33

    So sorry girl, what those people forget is that we have different colors but the same color of blood. It pains so much!!!!

  • @RUZHOFFS
    @RUZHOFFS 5 місяців тому +7

    Istanbul is terrible!! I had the same experience years ago( with a 3 months old baby, breastfeeding 🤱, husband). They let my husband through and said he can go tour the city if he likes- to which my husband said” that’s my wife and son!”. They answered “ you can take the son since he is German “
    My husband of course blew up & made it clear that their behavior was in acceptable!!!
    That was the last time I flew through Istanbul ‼️
    So sorry about your experience 💖

    • @AnnetteandSlavi
      @AnnetteandSlavi  5 місяців тому +4

      Oh noooo! The audacity to separate interracial families is just despicable!

  • @kittsgreen6745
    @kittsgreen6745 6 місяців тому +21

    Traveling while black these are some of the experiences we have to go through - it happened to me in France years ago - sad sad - glad you made it home safely.

  • @BridgetL-kg9mo
    @BridgetL-kg9mo 6 місяців тому +12

    That employee should be fired. Sick racist individual-shameful😢

  • @annathorson2798
    @annathorson2798 6 місяців тому +17

    Sorry to hear you were treated that bad in Turkey:/ People can really be sick

  • @Loti433
    @Loti433 5 місяців тому +6

    Darling it’s good to get reminders because some of us forget and get comfortable. This will help you to deal with future situations. You must be strong.

  • @cherylsmith2576
    @cherylsmith2576 6 місяців тому +10

    I'm so sad that you had to go through this nonsense terrible stay strong Annette 💪 🙏🏾 ❤️

  • @babydollkincaid4584
    @babydollkincaid4584 6 місяців тому +6

    My Annie I'm so very very sorry for you're horrible experience 😢
    some people are so ignorant they are just jealous of you're beauty.
    So sorry just remember that this probably won't be the last time it's this crazy world we live in. I can relate.
    xoxo❤🇺🇸🙏

  • @button-73
    @button-73 6 місяців тому +39

    That is not her job. She's just a flight attendant. She overstepped her boundaries. She's not immigration and boarder patrol. She's just prejudiced, and you're living the life wants, plus you're more beautiful inside and outside.
    Girl, enjoy your life, for you will have haters.
    Many blessings to you and your family

  • @ilseboyd4557
    @ilseboyd4557 6 місяців тому +58

    Racism is everywhere. I am a white South African. Married to an British man for 24 years. When we emigrated back to Britain I experienced the rudeness, and they segragated me for an hour from my family. Still after being here in the u.k for 15 years I get treated as a foreigner. Here is a lot of racism.

    • @catherineikovwa3401
      @catherineikovwa3401 6 місяців тому +1

      Even in german at working place in train

    • @nkepileramokopu4120
      @nkepileramokopu4120 6 місяців тому +17

      @ilseboyd4557 I'm black South African and white South African treat us like that every day you know it, it's our daily bread....

    • @ilseboyd4557
      @ilseboyd4557 6 місяців тому +14

      @@nkepileramokopu4120 I am realy so sorry that you have to experience racism every day. In South Africa you still of course get some people that is racists. Not just white on black, but also black on white, black on black(from other African countries) , black on coloured etc. But I do think the majority of South Africans are trying to work together. Espesialy the younger generation. I think it is out of fear for each other. Some people never want to make the efford to get to know each other. My mother was murdered on her farm at the age of 86 last year, in S.A. I do not hate black people for that. It was just a sick murdering individual.

    • @nkepileramokopu4120
      @nkepileramokopu4120 6 місяців тому +3

      @@ilseboyd4557 I'm so sorry for your loss may the Lord continue to comfort you 💞

    • @irenediseko
      @irenediseko 6 місяців тому

      The problem with white South African,they never take responsibility when black people mention their racism. Black South African only retaliate from the racism they receive from whites South African. Someone being killed in a farm,is the same as one killed in township,it is crime.

  • @zenammberane3939
    @zenammberane3939 6 місяців тому +4

    Sorry you experienced that and now you will be more strong next time you come across another one. I have gone through the same here in uk and now I also learned to speak up for myself.

  • @DamsLifestyle
    @DamsLifestyle 6 місяців тому +8

    annette it’s very sad you experienced such a thing but take it easy for we are all equal in Gods eyes that’s what is important.black is beauty and it will remain

  • @emmas9928
    @emmas9928 6 місяців тому +91

    I know you’re pregnant and you don’t need any additional unnecessary stress but I encourage you to make a formal complaint. That woman discriminated against you which is probably in violation of the airline’s policy. This was a micro aggression, a malicious employee trying to exert power over you. She had no right to do that. If you have Twitter or Instagram, send them a succinct message. She should not have treated you like that. Once your documents were checked, you should have been allowed to board. If everyone complained about these rogue airline workers, they would be forced to treat all passengers equally, fairly and respectfully. I’m sorry you experienced that nonsense in front of your husband and son. Make a formal complaint.
    I’ve had my own experiences with (and without) my tall “intimidating looking” (their words)African husband in Germany, Canada and France. Trust me, a formal complaint is the way to go.

    • @AnnetteandSlavi
      @AnnetteandSlavi  6 місяців тому +21

      I’ll do that.. what she did was very uncalled for!

    • @emmas9928
      @emmas9928 6 місяців тому +6

      @AnnetteandSlavi Glad to hear it. What she did spoke volumes about her character. Her unprofessionalism was a disgrace to the airline. Expose her! BTW, you look beautiful as a pregnant woman. This is the first time seeing your channel. I wish you a peaceful, uneventful pregnancy and a smooth uncomplicated delivery of your healthy baby.

    • @AnnetteandSlavi
      @AnnetteandSlavi  6 місяців тому +4

      @@emmas9928thanks so much Emma ❤️🫶🏽

    • @emmas9928
      @emmas9928 6 місяців тому +3

      @@AnnetteandSlavi You’re very welcome.

    • @lorrainelambert2943
      @lorrainelambert2943 6 місяців тому +5

      Yes, pl report this
      It's not right do report it....

  • @vivianatieno9854
    @vivianatieno9854 6 місяців тому +11

    Such an awful experience 😭😭😭, so sorry our girl. Stay safe jaber nyiri, so happy you and your family got home safely, sending love and hugs ❤❤❤❤.

  • @yvetterembo
    @yvetterembo 6 місяців тому +3

    You were so patient I would be fuming at that point lol and throwing my mouth left right lol 😅 am sorry you went through all this

  • @risetv1
    @risetv1 5 місяців тому +5

    This is the first video i have ever seen of your channel. Thankfully you have a supportive husband. It will hurt him seeing racism towards you or your children. Unfortunately, racism is a reality for many. I had my first experience at 16 and cried and cried.

  • @Teena-yi9xw
    @Teena-yi9xw 5 місяців тому +1

    So sorry you went through that. Shalom to your spirit. All is well.

  • @zennarhzainab3739
    @zennarhzainab3739 6 місяців тому +2

    Annette sis , I've gone through the same thing 😢and i can tell you for sure I understand you,you got this 👍💗🙏

  • @sophiamensa9570
    @sophiamensa9570 6 місяців тому +18

    Annette so sorry to hear this and I now know how you feel as I have experienced it before. I wanted a seat on a train and the white man refused to allow me to sit next to him. It’s so sad. I live in Europe so I have developed thick skin and just know within my heart that God created me wonderfully, fearfully and beautifully. I love myself too.I can’t believe we are still having issues on race after Covid which had no regard for skin colour. Turkish people are not white either!!!! I think this issue should be highlighted. Pleased to see you’re all back safely. Praise God Loved your holiday vlog btw❤

  • @tracylawino1851
    @tracylawino1851 5 місяців тому +3

    Even before I could go to the middle of the video, I just knew she was jealous. Your a very beautiful and favoured woman with a beautiful family.

  • @nadinerobertson6523
    @nadinerobertson6523 6 місяців тому +3

    I'M SO SORRY YOU HAVE TO EXPERIENE,SOME THING LET THAT😢😢😢😢😢😢VERY HAPPY YOU AND FAMILY IS SAFE AND AT HOME, MUCH LOVE, GOD BLESS❤❤❤❤

  • @jeanettefurneau4579
    @jeanettefurneau4579 6 місяців тому +12

    That's horrible Annette so sorry you had to go through this we are human beings colour shouldn't matter we all have red blood I am so ashamed to call myself white sending you and Slavic and Marcelo lots of love and hugs from Perth western Australia ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ritahwinnie1839
    @ritahwinnie1839 5 місяців тому +13

    Oh my God. I had a horrible experience in Istanbul too when flying to Germany. The staff there are so unfriendly and just mean. Trust me I honestly understand the feeling. I literary felt like crying 😭💔

    • @AnnetteandSlavi
      @AnnetteandSlavi  5 місяців тому +1

      So sorry Rita .. hugs ❤️🌹

    • @freddieevans8223
      @freddieevans8223 5 місяців тому +2

      I suffered racism on Turkish airline and also Instabul. I was returning to Uk I almost missed my flight . I will never use their airline or transit there. They really frustrated coloured people and made us que for the longest time with a lot of interrogation.
      Sorry for what you went through.

  • @lindamtshikwana3535
    @lindamtshikwana3535 6 місяців тому +18

    Be strong Annette racism is every where and that lady was just jealous for your beauty 💔💔

  • @zarahok7340
    @zarahok7340 6 місяців тому +1

    Very sorry you went through this, thus what most of us go through everytime travelling. Its very annoying😒

  • @bettygirma4655
    @bettygirma4655 6 місяців тому +6

    Hi Annette I’m glad you are ok. Don’t worry racism is everywhere. I’m sorry you are experienced it’s awful feeling been treated differently without no reason. My fiancée is white never been stopped in airport but I get the bad look sometimes. She was just jealous from beauty.
    Look after yourself. I hope Slavi and marcelo are ok .❤️❤️❤️

  • @JudyT868
    @JudyT868 5 місяців тому +3

    Annette I am so sorry to hear what you went through and of all places, at the Turkish airport. That person had no compassion for your situation, but racism still exists today in a lot of forms. Do not lose your cool. That's what she wanted so she would have an excuse for what she was doing. May God's blessings be with you all wherever you go 🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️👶🏻

  • @ericareynoldsladye9667
    @ericareynoldsladye9667 6 місяців тому +6

    I am so sorry you had to experience that discrimination at the airport. I am a black American and I have do know what it feel like to experience discrimination.
    I pray you will continue to be happy and strong. You are beautiful and talented. I enjoy your show regularly.

  • @mathildap.7705
    @mathildap.7705 5 місяців тому +5

    Hi Annette, I'm so sorry for what you endured at the hands of those evil people. As awful as that experience was for you, it could have been so much worse. I had a family member who was held for a week like a criminal with genuine documents and her husband was informed to leave he refused and as a result he was held for a week in an appalling condition. It was to date the worst of experience of my life. I thought I would never see my loved one again. I still have traumatizing flashbacks of that time just over a year ago. After that experience we heard of business people, medical doctors, people with legal documents, and pregnant women about to give birth held for weeks in some kind of detention center. Praise the Lord you are well and safely at home with your family

  • @LiveLearnGrowwithTeamAA
    @LiveLearnGrowwithTeamAA 6 місяців тому +43

    Hi Annette ❤ we are so sorry that happened. As an interracial couple who is still in long distance, we can only imagine how frustrating that was for you and Slavi. This lady was very cruel because you are pregnant and she didn’t even consider that but just kept discriminating you because you are black. Thank you so much for sharing this because racism is real. We are so proud of you and Slavi for confronting this lady. Much love to you guys ❤

    • @beatricemukami4700
      @beatricemukami4700 6 місяців тому +2

      Ooh!! Sorry Annette,,

    • @loisbarrett1423
      @loisbarrett1423 6 місяців тому +2

      Sorry about the bad experience Annette

    • @charmainebennett2226
      @charmainebennett2226 6 місяців тому

      Sorry friend it his what it is.❤

    • @neidemariasantosgoncalves5548
      @neidemariasantosgoncalves5548 6 місяців тому

      Siga enfrente casal20 amo vcs , pessoas que fazem isso são pessoas frustradas doentes Deus o criador de vcs é o que importa o resto deleta❤❤❤

  • @TheJazzyfame
    @TheJazzyfame 6 місяців тому +9

    You should file a report. That's absolutely horrible. So sorry you had to experience that.

    • @relatable-withlucyk1085
      @relatable-withlucyk1085 6 місяців тому +1

      She should. She kept her waiting in her situation for an hour! So insensitive of her..This airline should be called out

  • @sallyakinyi3638
    @sallyakinyi3638 6 місяців тому +98

    I don't like hearing about racism about our people in abroad it's not always easy ...just recently I saw one of our gal lost a kid in Germanian hospital koz they couldn't attend to her sick kid koz she was black 💔 😢...its really sad

    • @AnnetteandSlavi
      @AnnetteandSlavi  6 місяців тому +15

      It’s awful! Though my experience was in Turkey when when we were travelling back from Maldives

    • @sallyakinyi3638
      @sallyakinyi3638 6 місяців тому

      ​@@AnnetteandSlavimostly these Arabs are the worst ...we are used to them calling us names and saying we smell bad ..yet they don't take a shower for more than a mnth nkt

    • @priscasibandaletrish9455
      @priscasibandaletrish9455 6 місяців тому +10

      Sorry my sister Annie some people dont know God forgive her....l thought white people are nice....she should be ashamed of what she did.....We thank Slavi for supporting❤❤❤❤

    • @veronicaatieno8580
      @veronicaatieno8580 6 місяців тому +4

      It's horrible! Unbelievable!

    • @T-T-gmom
      @T-T-gmom 6 місяців тому +4

      Sorry that you experienced that 💔

  • @kathleenbila5778
    @kathleenbila5778 6 місяців тому +2

    I am awfully sorry for what you guys had to go through!
    I read JEALOUSY and ENVY all over that lady's attitude towards you...she started giving you "eyes" from the minute you were walking towards her...she probably was like " how can she be black, beautiful and curvy with two hunks beside her...( a son and a husband) annddd on top of allllll that be carrying another bundle of joy"? It was too much for her to bear...just forgive her and pray for her to find some happiness in her life! Mos matek jaber! God has your back😍

  • @katenkosi1389
    @katenkosi1389 6 місяців тому +1

    Annette and Slavi am so sorry you had go through this situation and anyway you managed to get home safely 🙏 ❤️

  • @gracemasetlane1857
    @gracemasetlane1857 6 місяців тому +9

    Sorry Annie for the worsed experience. We love you and your entire family ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @lilymabasa2271
    @lilymabasa2271 6 місяців тому +3

    Am really sorry Annette I feel your pain.

  • @bathshebahmonyangi2578
    @bathshebahmonyangi2578 4 місяці тому +2

    Love you girl so sorry for that experience, we treat them well when they are around Kenya

  • @asinatikagoya8757
    @asinatikagoya8757 5 місяців тому +1

    Sorry for the bad experience.Happy New Year Ann and your family 🥰🙏🥰.Calm

  • @VeraEkwa
    @VeraEkwa 6 місяців тому +6

    This is awful 😢 racism is real some of those mean individuals are always everywhere. I am glad Slavi stayed back with you . Shame to that lady!! Sorry you went through this darlings

  • @denisewalker7217
    @denisewalker7217 6 місяців тому +3

    Annette, I must say that you have been very lucky/fortunate to have experiencee racism just now for the very 1st time! Racism has been around since the world was created, and it has no plans on leaving! Everyone's country, states & cities have people experiencing 'RACISM'! It's an 'UGLY' word, but it's reality. We even experience racism , within our own culture & people & race. Try figuring that one out! Continue to not take this to heart and continue to pray for people like that! Happy Thursday!

  • @lavenderallen2767
    @lavenderallen2767 5 місяців тому +1

    I literally felt sad about this dear...sorry for your experience 😢❤

  • @Rhulani_
    @Rhulani_ 6 місяців тому +1

    The sadness in your voice😢. So sorry mama Marcelo

  • @berlindaburnett6583
    @berlindaburnett6583 6 місяців тому +5

    Shame on that woman......
    I am so sorry that you and family had such a foolish experience with this situation.
    But I am glad that you all made it home safe.
    Evenn though it was your first, I pray that your next trip will be a lot more less stressful 🙏🏾

  • @margretogada8044
    @margretogada8044 5 місяців тому +6

    I have waited forever for you to talk about this, and I am glad you did, and I'm really sorry you even had to experience it even worse in a situation as bad as that. Listening to your story made me so angry, more so because no one thought there was a problem with holding a pregnant legal German citizen hostage in a fucking airport just because she's black! Awuoro. Makes me so furious that people spread hate for no reason because of skin color, and it's something that's literally passed down to generations. My heart bleeds for my continent people!

    • @vanettp2491
      @vanettp2491 5 місяців тому

      Yes it is a generational curse 😩

  • @kaijukyospecioza5468
    @kaijukyospecioza5468 5 місяців тому +1

    Sorry about the unfortunate incident dear. We pray it never happens again. We thank God you had not experienced it before and as you've mentioned it Im also among those who fear Germany because of the racism they about there

  • @simplysony7308
    @simplysony7308 6 місяців тому +1

    Sorry girl report them.!
    That you are strong.
    Love love love love 😍

  • @essiechelaa7005
    @essiechelaa7005 6 місяців тому +35

    This is so damn sad. We encounter a lot as blacks when we travel and I think the airline should be called out. That is so wrong!

  • @maplenoire6759
    @maplenoire6759 6 місяців тому +40

    Dear Annette , i agree with many of the posters that point out the fact that your supermodel looks as well as your ability to travel to the Maldives with your beautiful family will incite envy from racists. They believe African/black people should not have access to respect or the ability to travel to destinations they can only dream of. Please continue to travel and share your stories with us (the good and the bad). Love from Canada.

    • @janelucywambui7015
      @janelucywambui7015 5 місяців тому

      You're black and beautiful.
      Well spoken confident and most loved

  • @divine5582
    @divine5582 6 місяців тому +1

    Oh my lovely.. From the UK bad experience to this again. Its horrifying. I'm so sorry that you jad to experience this. That's so rude, unethical and inhuman. Pole sana

  • @joyabban5469
    @joyabban5469 5 місяців тому +1

    U r so patient gal, I would have lost it right there.

  • @ivylinstubbs4144
    @ivylinstubbs4144 6 місяців тому +3

    Happy Thursday to you guys, listen my friend that woman don't have a man/ husband to treat her well like you and your husband, she witch you for your color and your husband, her mind is bad bless up yourself and your family God is always watching over you guys from Mobay city in Jamaica 🇯🇲🇯🇲 nuff respect.

  • @alicenyambz3786
    @alicenyambz3786 6 місяців тому +16

    I can feel you Annette racism is real it happens to me in instanbul airport l was connecting my flight to Madrid ,the time for boarding they took me aside to check my visa asking if it was real or fake 😢 and my Kenyan passport,we were with my boyfriend he was told to board the flight when l was left behind good thing he refused, after checking my documents like 5 times they said everything is okay , from the word go l knew they doing this because l am black and my boyfriend is white. So sorry girl ❤❤

    • @AnnetteandSlavi
      @AnnetteandSlavi  6 місяців тому +6

      So those workers at Istanbul airport are notorious for this 🤦🏾‍♀️ just absurd! Sorry dear ❤️

    • @alicenyambz3786
      @alicenyambz3786 6 місяців тому +1

      @@AnnetteandSlavi yeah they are like that very racist

  • @iamnkirote
    @iamnkirote 6 місяців тому

    So sorry Annette, that was a whole bad experience 😢

  • @LornaFoster
    @LornaFoster 6 місяців тому +2

    Annette, glad you all made it home safely, in spite of your bad experience.

  • @KisakyeRobinah-ed4ek
    @KisakyeRobinah-ed4ek 6 місяців тому +4

    Sorry dear, but just stay strong because that's life, it's everywhere

  • @japhethgodson9114
    @japhethgodson9114 6 місяців тому +6

    We love you @ Annette....i'm in NAIROBI ....WAKILETA ZA OVYO RUDI NYUMBANI we will receive at JKIA like a QUEEN...PRAYING FOR YOUR SAFETY🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @AnnetteandSlavi
      @AnnetteandSlavi  6 місяців тому +9

      Such experiences make you realize east or west,home is the best 🇰🇪❣️

    • @winniekungu1385
      @winniekungu1385 6 місяців тому +1

      Karibu nyumbani nyathiwa

    • @jacquelinerasugu6744
      @jacquelinerasugu6744 6 місяців тому +1

      She's okay in Germany. This happened in Turkey.

  • @olgagarcia6931
    @olgagarcia6931 6 місяців тому +1

    So sorry that happened Annette she was very cruel she just didn't have a good heart thank God you are okay and home with Salvi and Marcelo God bless you and your beautiful family ❤️🙏

  • @NatukundaClare-bb1zy
    @NatukundaClare-bb1zy 6 місяців тому +2

    Sorry for whatever happened. Take it easy my dear

  • @delycethomas
    @delycethomas 6 місяців тому +4

    So sorry to hear. Those things do happen and it's sad, because we're all one.Just different skin tone. Great you have the love and support of your husband. You're a very beautiful dark skin woman.Continue stepping out with your head high.Lots of love to you all .Take care of yourself and baby.

    • @katwasiena2508
      @katwasiena2508 5 місяців тому +2

      Those who discriminate are just but miserable losers. Perhaps she wished your husband was hers. Keep shining baby girl you are beautiful!

  • @cynthiaadams7689
    @cynthiaadams7689 6 місяців тому +4

    Ann so sorry about that experience. I love how Slavi stood firm with you, he's a great partner.
    I can't imagine how you felt standing for an hour.
    That lady should be fired, she was obviously a racist and jelousy. Such a bitter soul.

  • @justinaorojuogun3174
    @justinaorojuogun3174 6 місяців тому

    I am so sorry this bad experience you had while returning to your home country. Some times it’s just idiots that are jealous of you and your beautiful family.

  • @prosperoussharon3776
    @prosperoussharon3776 6 місяців тому +1

    Oooh dear. Sorry 😞about that rude experience . You are Loved❤by us🇺🇬, your family 🇰🇪 and above all by your sweet hubby Slavi💕💕 Germany 🇩🇪and his entire family💕💕💕 💖.

  • @christineakinyi2590
    @christineakinyi2590 6 місяців тому +6

    Sorry Annette for the worsed experience. Feel loved wetu❤❤

  • @user-btmbangalore
    @user-btmbangalore 5 місяців тому +2

    Systemic racism is tougher to navigate than individual. You got to be as cool as her to stand your ground. Good for you lady.

  • @aminajumaswaleh3002
    @aminajumaswaleh3002 6 місяців тому

    Sorry you experienced that in your condition, I hope the airline concerned hears this and action taken.

  • @cynthiaatta-baah4475
    @cynthiaatta-baah4475 6 місяців тому +2

    Thank God you are arrived home safe!!❤

  • @rosediamond1005
    @rosediamond1005 6 місяців тому +9

    Sorry to hear about your terrible experience. It feels terrible but what works is to report it right away so that an investigation is started. You have social media presence so telling your story is a great start. The airline needs to reach out to you for the humilation, distress it caused you and your family due to an incompetent employee. You cant pay your money and be mistreated like that. I always call it out and a few years ago threw a fit in amesterdam on a flight to the US when I noticed I was the only one being told to remove my mask to see my face as we boarded and no other person was being told to. I chewed that lady out right there and she turned all red and s***. Everyone got uncomfortable and were "maming me stupid." They realized they had landed on the wrong one.I got home, wrote to the airline and made a big fuss. So you cant pay your money and accept to be treated poorly. We must leave this world a better place for our children and their children and that's always in my thoughts. All the best❤

    • @mohlatlegomaloba4904
      @mohlatlegomaloba4904 5 місяців тому

      I share your thoughts Rose and let racism be confronted without fear or hesitation so the culprit won't repeat it again. ❤🇿🇦

    • @wambosunshine5600
      @wambosunshine5600 5 місяців тому

      Exactly which words did you use ? I want to be ready for when this happens . Do you say , “Are you treating me like this because I look different ? “ or what do you say ?

    • @rosediamond1005
      @rosediamond1005 5 місяців тому

      @@wambosunshine5600 With racism, you just know. So you put the racist person on the defensive. Use "I" statements and explain exactly what you saw the person do or say. Ask why questions and always ask for a manager or supervisor when you feel the person isn't hearing you. Ask people around you to video tape the situation and always throw in how you will be contacting your lawyer. This has always worked and I don't mince my words and I have no shame with raising my voice and making a scene. It's one life my friend. Never ever keep quiet about an injustice you see or feel.

    • @wambosunshine5600
      @wambosunshine5600 5 місяців тому

      @@rosediamond1005 thanks for your response . I have also experienced racism , now I know how to handle the situation.

    • @Jejireh
      @Jejireh 5 місяців тому

      ​@@wambosunshine5600 if it's at the airport just say let me talk to your boss or the manager here, and insist on that until a manager comes to listen to you.

  • @supidia5863
    @supidia5863 6 місяців тому +48

    Racism should be condemned in the strongest terms possible. Sorry dear Annette! Let us hold our heads high because we are all the same except for the colour of our skins.

    • @sophiamensa9570
      @sophiamensa9570 6 місяців тому

      Racism shows ignorance and the evil that lies in a person’s heart without the love of God in their life. Nothing will change unless the hearts of people change to a heart of love…just thought I should say this

    • @ronny-lb1cr
      @ronny-lb1cr 5 місяців тому +1

      My biological brother's and sister's and myself's colours of our skin is not the same. It's crazy that we are not treated the same either

  • @MariahG959
    @MariahG959 6 місяців тому +1

    Its so sad indeed ,sorry Annette❤

  • @Joyroberts-254
    @Joyroberts-254 6 місяців тому

    That’s so mean of her! That can really make me feel bad😢

  • @sophiasophia9713
    @sophiasophia9713 6 місяців тому +10

    Most of the time it's so hard to be black in foreign countries, i have experienced the real hate myself, even thinking about it makes me so sad😢

    • @eilenedecali2195
      @eilenedecali2195 6 місяців тому +1

      Yes. I still have PTSD from the racism I experienced living and working in Mexico City for two and a half years. I experienced it on a daily basis there. I came back to the USA 17 years ago, and my blood pressure still spikes whenever I think about it. But I try NOT to think about it.

    • @sophiasophia9713
      @sophiasophia9713 6 місяців тому

      @@eilenedecali2195 ❤

  • @Asia-ew9wx
    @Asia-ew9wx 6 місяців тому +17

    I can feel ur pain Annette racism is real and it hurts i remember the first time i went to a certain resturant here in canada but all people left the area 😢😢i know how exactly it feels.sorry

    • @AnnetteandSlavi
      @AnnetteandSlavi  6 місяців тому +4

      Whoa 🤯 sorry you had to go through that . That’s terrible 🥹

    • @jenniferakali8408
      @jenniferakali8408 5 місяців тому

      So sad

    • @mw6175
      @mw6175 5 місяців тому

      What??? And the way Africans are welcoming back at home

  • @faboge
    @faboge 5 місяців тому +1

    i have experienced that in the US as well. Well, its the earth we are living in, nyathiwa!

  • @BarabaraBarabra
    @BarabaraBarabra 13 днів тому +1

    Sorry baby girl . Very sorry for wat u went thru.

  • @BridgetL-kg9mo
    @BridgetL-kg9mo 6 місяців тому +5

    Annette: Do not stress anymore, relax you are pregnant save your energy.
    There are sick people in the world.

  • @carmenjones2870
    @carmenjones2870 6 місяців тому +5

    I follow this lady on UA-cam an she lives in Germany also an she complains about the same thing. She also a Black Woman an she went threw it during her pregnancy stay in the hospital.. This is so sad that us People of Color still go threw this crap in 2024 it makes me so damn angry & its sad😢 God Bless you and your family🙏🏽

    • @AnnetteandSlavi
      @AnnetteandSlavi  6 місяців тому +4

      My goodness I hope when I go to give birth I’ll have non racists medics attending to me

    • @carmenjones2870
      @carmenjones2870 6 місяців тому +2

      @@AnnetteandSlavi me too I hope not.. Her baby is now almost 2yrs ole. But I hope u have a great stay at the hospital with your family. An I hope u Never have to go threw being treated like that ever again. An I'm so so happy your husband was with u🥰🙏🏽.

    • @jacquelinerasugu6744
      @jacquelinerasugu6744 6 місяців тому

      ​@@AnnetteandSlaviaki...we pray so Annette

  • @tebbypatricks8261
    @tebbypatricks8261 6 місяців тому

    Oooh God🥺🥺...God knows why it wasn't me being held back for all that while 😢😢acha nikae kae Kenya 😂 sorry about that experience Annie

  • @nakawooyagrace792
    @nakawooyagrace792 6 місяців тому +1

    Sorry about what happened to you dear but some doesn't know that we are one people just colour is different
    Love you so much and your family ❤❤❤❤

  • @stephaniecannon410
    @stephaniecannon410 6 місяців тому +4

    Sad story but it's an ongoing reality for Blacks and people of color including the young and old and children. 😢

  • @cornelcharles9872
    @cornelcharles9872 6 місяців тому +7

    So sorry you went through that experience. You are 100% correct. Racist people stare.

  • @evaakendow8252
    @evaakendow8252 6 місяців тому

    Am so sorry for the bad experience. But take heart cz it's obvious that lady was envious of you as a happy couple and she wished she was the one in yr shoes... pole sana dear❤

  • @nyotawatoto
    @nyotawatoto 6 місяців тому

    Rock! Rock! Rock! my younger sister. Forgive her and do not be afraid. Just keep calm and a proverbial tip as a reminder if you know the dog's name he won't bite you 😅
    Mwamba! Mwamba! Mwamba! dada yangu mdogo. Msamehe na usiogope. Tulia tu na kidokezo cha Mithali kama ukumbusho ukijua jina la mbwa hatakuuma 😅. Barikiwa Nakupenda sana Msalimie Baby Maselo ❤

  • @psalmistmeadestage8691
    @psalmistmeadestage8691 6 місяців тому +6

    It's a big shame racism still exists. Our world and system are broken. Lord have mercy.🎉❤

    • @susanayabei3846
      @susanayabei3846 5 місяців тому

      Racism is everywhere, not only german, even africa

  • @denettebonamy9591
    @denettebonamy9591 6 місяців тому +6

    I'm so sorry that happened to you..My dad is black and my stepmother is Jewish..God is a God of love and on Judgement Day, God will see no color.. Can't people see what is going on around the world.? .. It is still time to get it right! Stop the hate and love everyone like Christ loves... Repent and accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior 🙏❤️ love you all.

  • @delvorinebowman4734
    @delvorinebowman4734 6 місяців тому

    Sorry that you had to go through that horrible situation.

  • @adventureswithsuzanna5667
    @adventureswithsuzanna5667 6 місяців тому +2

    I am so sorry for your experience Annette. You should have filmed it & made a tik tok about it. They would have some apologizing. & given you a free flight

  • @Reesie417
    @Reesie417 6 місяців тому +30

    They get jealous that you're a black woman and a white man chose you as his wife. It's all about racism. Her telling your husband him and your son could go ahead but not you clearly expressed her opinion. I love that he let her know that wasn't going to happen.

    • @AnnetteandSlavi
      @AnnetteandSlavi  6 місяців тому +5

      It was absurd eeh she told my husband to go in with our son as I wait outside 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @faithwachu5073
      @faithwachu5073 6 місяців тому

      My thoughts exactly 💯

    • @kevinmukasa9294
      @kevinmukasa9294 6 місяців тому

      Ya got dam fuckin jealousy omg sorry

    • @haskeke8154
      @haskeke8154 5 місяців тому +1

      She is very jealous 😂😂😂

  • @benitabettard9664
    @benitabettard9664 6 місяців тому +3

    Please write formal complaint to airline

  • @bethgachagua6279
    @bethgachagua6279 6 місяців тому

    pole gal, na hope hikwo kimama kione hii vedio, totally jealously potrayed.. she should read the sweet comments,,,, aumwe sana, people love you annette.

  • @uweraflorence5393
    @uweraflorence5393 5 місяців тому

    Am so sorry dear Annette i can feel what you going through rasism is real and it's hurt

  • @thenjiwedube9639
    @thenjiwedube9639 6 місяців тому +6

    She was just jealous of you Annette sorry for this bad experience it's just jealous and evil that people have nowadays

    • @Iammijaran
      @Iammijaran 6 місяців тому +1

      Exactly what I wanted to say

  • @ladybee8894
    @ladybee8894 6 місяців тому +5

    My dear I can really understand your pain, I am black and I live in a foreign country as an ESL teacher I experience this daily and I get stared down everywhere I go and I just ignore it, but she did that intentionally because she was very jealous of your beautiful family, she is a very wicked woman., she is so sad and lonely and she hated to see such a beautiful BLACK woman with a white man, but don't worry about her, she will get it back, what she sow, she will reap. So happy that you and your family are all good and happy, stay beautiful, blessed, and black.

  • @kgaladipholoto3362
    @kgaladipholoto3362 6 місяців тому

    Sorry my dear for you to go through that in your condition.

  • @chebiwotkoross1066
    @chebiwotkoross1066 6 місяців тому

    OOH NO. SO SORRY ANNETTE AND SLAVI. I FEEL FOR YOU. IT IS WELL