A very difficult situation, I would be thinking of my children, if I didn't do something and create a new life for myself, then one day they might find themselves in a similar situation and have no one to go to. Also, even though it may not seem possible now, you too will one day have a better life when you can be yourself.The only thing that's certain in life is change, and that's a good thing, never lose hope. x
I was in that cage once. Wore hijab , abaya , mosque everyday. 10 years later im no longer muslim and marrying a non muslim. When i was a muslim i couldnt believe how much hatred there is in the community & towards other religons. I had sucidal thoughts during my time being muslim because of so many negative things & nearly ended my life. Cut out people who arent worth it and stop going to the mosque. I was a revert but mixed raced .
Praise be to Allah The Muslim should praise Allah, may He be exalted, and thank Him for the blessing of Islam and right guidance, for it is the greatest of blessings, as Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning): “Is he who was dead (without Faith by ignorance and disbelief) and We gave him life (by knowledge and Faith) and set for him a light (of Belief) whereby he can walk amongst men, like him who is in the darkness (of disbelief, polytheism and hypocrisy) from which he can never come out? Thus it is made fair-seeming to the disbelievers that which they used to do” [al-An‘aam 6:122]
Today is the anniversary of my mom's passing - when I was 21 - she decided to take her own life. It was not about a religion - but it doesn't really matter what creates this feeling of despair. It can happen to anyone at anytime. I wish I had known how to handle it - how to be more supportive. You have so many good ideas - ways of making sense of such difficult situations - when we are not allowed to express ourselves, or feeling like noone gets it. I do think this remains a huge problem - people not knowing how to communicate - how to express when they are feeling down, who to tell, what to do. There should be lots more facilities, tools for people to help in hectic situations. Thanks for being an inspiration.
Praise be to Allah The Muslim should praise Allah, may He be exalted, and thank Him for the blessing of Islam and right guidance, for it is the greatest of blessings, as Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning): “Is he who was dead (without Faith by ignorance and disbelief) and We gave him life (by knowledge and Faith) and set for him a light (of Belief) whereby he can walk amongst men, like him who is in the darkness (of disbelief, polytheism and hypocrisy) from which he can never come out? Thus it is made fair-seeming to the disbelievers that which they used to do” [al-An‘aam 6:122]
My dear brothers and sisters, If you have any problems in your life including Islam religion. The best solution is pray (Talk) to the real God Jesus Christ. If you are a sincere and Righteous person, real God Jesus Christ will help you. This is hundred percent true. Because, real God Jesus Christ is our best friend and heavenly father. You don't have to spend money to fix life issues. You just need to spend time with real God Jesus Christ. 🙏✌️❤️👍
WHAT A WASTEMAN OR WOMAN TRASH YOU ARE !!! SWEAR TO GOD THAT YOU A TRASH TALKING LIAR AND THE ONLY WORDS THAT GREIVE US ARE YOUR DIFFY STINKING LIED FILLED WORDS! ALLAH IS THE GREATEST AND MUHAMMAD IS MU ROLE MODEL AND YOU ARE SOME TRASH TALKER WASTEMAN/ WOMAN TALKING OUT YOUR JACKSIDE WASTEPERSON
Can I just say that it's so refreshing and wonderful to see videos on this site that help out atheists trapped in other religions besides Christianity? It really puts things in perspective that even though some come from different places or former faiths; there are people out there going through similar struggles with themselves, their loved ones, and other people in their lives.
You are really amazing and you don’t know how much these type of videos help others ❤️as an exmuslim myself I can relate to every point you made. And talking to my friend about it did help so much that’s absolutely true!
Lol. How do you tell someone who is on your heel for not praying on time that you are doubting Islam. Doubt is a big word and very close to outing yourself as a murtad. The best to start with is to stray away from praying on time, then irregularly, then only jumas and so on.
My beloved brother took his own life. I know that if he even caught a glimpse of the agony he would cause his loved ones he would never, NEVER had taken that final, tragic step.
You know mimzy, there are many Moroccan UA-camrs(maybe 5 with significant subscribers, I just said that because you're part Moroccan IDK lol) married to Korean men and all their channel is based on this concept of korean- arab marriage are claiming that their husbands became suddenly Muslims once they got to know them and marry them lol. I want to say that this whole situation explained in your video can depend on what religion represents to a person. I just notice that Muslim born in Islamic countries don't take religion seriously as Muslims who were born in foreign countries. When I am looking to Muslim UA-camrs outside the Muslim world they tend to focus all their content in Islam while muslims from Muslim countries tends to consider religion more like a culture to be respected rather than their main focus. I am sorry , my English is not that good but I just want to clarify this from my point of view.
It is a deeply rooted identity crisis in almost all Muslim nations. Islam never ever created a pan-Islamic civilization in the sense the Europeans did. Muslims are Arabs, Indians, Pakistanis, Indonesians, Malaysians, Chinese, Albanians, Chechens, and I could go on and on. But in terms of culture they have very little in common. For example, Western classical music is a Western cultural phenomena; It is all over Western culture. This is, one reason, I think that Muslims in non-Muslim countries become "more fanatically Muslim" in such places. Islam is all they have to fall back on. Otherwise they share very little among themselves. Go check out mosques in foreign non-Muslim nations. It is shocking but they are broken down by race and culture: Arab mosques, Somalian mosques, Iranian mosques, Lebanese mosques and so forth.
You are so right. I grew up in the middle east and the only time we prayed was on friday and that was it. Yes some woman wore hijab but very loosely. When I moved to the States I was shocked at how more religious people were. It's scary tbh. But my theory is because these people moved to the west for freedom of religion because during the 60's and 70's it was the age of secular dictatorships and the people that fled were islamists. Vs the people like me who left in the 80's, 90's and 2000's to make more money. Islam to me was and is something I do on friday, ramadan and eids. Thats it. American muslims are ok but the UK is crazy! Freaking salafis and full on daesh types. My advice, be a good person and who cares about other's religion?
Mimzy, did you listen to music growing-up? I can’t imagine not having music in my life or raising my children without music in its so many genres. I’m fascinated to know what it feels like to only experience the joys of music later in life. What music moves one after such a famine...
My current situation is being an ex muslim since a year. My husband is very tolerant to my personal non beliefs but he doesnt seem to understand why i left or not very interested in the topic as if he was afraid to leave too... im quite sure he wont leave because he ll feel guilty of breaking a tradition of his family or cant really get out of the closet. He is not practicing a lot (just fasting ramadhan) . Everytime i try to debate or talk with him he is annoyed and tells me he needs time to read and think , a thing he never does. ... how can i get him interested in analyzing his own faith/religion without him feeling guilty or annoyed ? Lately ive been avoiding things about religion when we discuss.
@@karate2252 thank you so much !! :))) i ve been talking about the circumcision because we dont have kids yet. I told him it was a mutilation that a kid could attack his own parents on justice for it. Then he agreeed to let our children choose at 18 y o. I know he is very rationnal and logical but it seems like not being the favorite child in his family has pushed him to please them no matter what, he suffered from a very toxic mother who is also very religious and judgemental to her sons.
@@ayakaayaka2296 oh . I understand situation. Sister i think you can change him by making him feel important and love ( i hope u already do😁). Actually i am sikh but i am observing increasing number of exmuslims. On of my friend from morocco was ex muslim. Im observing increasing number of exmuslims. before that i thought muslims never leave religion 😅. Where do you live ??
@@karate2252 i live in France. My husband is very happy and loved but i need him to be true to himself and not follow blindly. Truth is leaving Islam is dangerous. Either you go to prison or get a death penalty in islamic states either you take a huge risk to lose your family and friends :/ slowly i see more muslim by heredity leave once they are in a western country. Islam is growing thanks to births in muslims families not thanks to conversions. There are plenty of ex muslims in the closet. I know that 4% of the american population is atheist and 14 %of Saudi Arabia answered to be secrètely atheists. .. that means we have a big problem with Islam. Being christian doesnt narrow your rights in your everyday life but being muslim is a constant battle in every action..every thought... every hope or desire. Especially as a woman ! I left islam because of the lack of womens rights. I always say : im not anti Islam but Islam is anti-me ^^
Read... Praise be to Allah The Muslim should praise Allah, may He be exalted, and thank Him for the blessing of Islam and right guidance, for it is the greatest of blessings, as Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning): “Is he who was dead (without Faith by ignorance and disbelief) and We gave him life (by knowledge and Faith) and set for him a light (of Belief) whereby he can walk amongst men, like him who is in the darkness (of disbelief, polytheism and hypocrisy) from which he can never come out? Thus it is made fair-seeming to the disbelievers that which they used to do” [al-An‘aam 6:122]
Jeng Anik I heard if you look into a mirror you'll finally find an ignorant boob who'll finally take your message of ""faith"" seriously. You'll get along great, I think! 👍
Praise be to Allah The Muslim should praise Allah, may He be exalted, and thank Him for the blessing of Islam and right guidance, for it is the greatest of blessings, as Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning): “Is he who was dead (without Faith by ignorance and disbelief) and We gave him life (by knowledge and Faith) and set for him a light (of Belief) whereby he can walk amongst men, like him who is in the darkness (of disbelief, polytheism and hypocrisy) from which he can never come out? Thus it is made fair-seeming to the disbelievers that which they used to do” [al-An‘aam 6:122]
Jeng Anik But Jeng! This part of the Quran disproves that! This is from 4:20, I think: "According to all known laws of aviation, there is no way a bee should be able to fly. Its wings are too small to get its fat little body off the ground. The bee, of course, flies anyway because bees don't care what humans think is impossible. Yellow, black. Yellow, black. Yellow, black. Yellow, black. Ooh, black and yellow! Let's shake it up a little. Barry! Breakfast is ready! Ooming! Hang on a second. Hello? - Barry? - Adam? - Oan you believe this is happening? - I can't. I'll pick you up. Looking sharp. Use the stairs. Your father paid good money for those. Sorry. I'm excited. Here's the graduate. We're very proud of you, son. A perfect report card, all B's. Very proud. Ma! I got a thing going here. - You got lint on your fuzz. - Ow! That's me! - Wave to us! We'll be in row 118,000. - Bye! Barry, I told you, stop flying in the house! - Hey, Adam. - Hey, Barry. - Is that fuzz gel? - A little. Special day, graduation. Never thought I'd make it. Three days grade school, three days high school. Those were awkward. Three days college. I'm glad I took a day and hitchhiked around the hive. You did come back different. - Hi, Barry. - Artie, growing a mustache? Looks good. - Hear about Frankie? - Yeah. - You going to the funeral? - No, I'm not going. Everybody knows, sting someone, you die. Don't waste it on a squirrel. Such a hothead. I guess he could have just gotten out of the way. I love this incorporating an amusement park into our day. That's why we don't need vacations. Boy, quite a bit of pomp... under the circumstances. - Well, Adam, today we are men. - We are! - Bee-men. - Amen! Hallelujah! Students, faculty, distinguished bees, please welcome Dean Buzzwell. Welcome, New Hive Oity graduating class of... ...9:15. That concludes our ceremonies. And begins your career at Honex Industries! Will we pick ourjob today? I heard it's just orientation. Heads up! Here we go. Keep your hands and antennas inside the tram at all times. - Wonder what it'll be like? - A little scary. Welcome to Honex, a division of Honesco and a part of the Hexagon Group. This is it! Wow. Wow. We know that you, as a bee, have worked your whole life to get to the point where you can work for your whole life. Honey begins when our valiant Pollen Jocks bring the nectar to the hive. Our top-secret formula is automatically color-corrected, scent-adjusted and bubble-contoured into this soothing sweet syrup with its distinctive golden glow you know as... Honey! - That girl was hot. - She's my cousin! - She is? - Yes, we're all cousins. - Right. You're right. - At Honex, we constantly strive to improve every aspect of bee existence. These bees are stress-testing a new helmet technology. - What do you think he makes? - Not enough. Here we have our latest advancement, the Krelman."
@@maalikislam3735 how do you know that ex muslims were not real muslims ? Do you have a study that proves it ? Because saying this doesnt prove anything . Maybe you think you are all knowing ....?!
@@ayakaayaka2296 Ask her to recite the Tashahhud. Most of these were just born into a Muslim family who were either deviants following some misguided polytheist sect, or liberal and secular without any Islamic knowledge. And they grew up in the west surrounded by disbelievers and athiests and just adopted their way of life. They were never Muslims. So ask her to recite the Tashahhud, or at least some Surahs from Juz 'Amma. I doubt she even knows al-Fatihah.
There are plenty of professed Muslims who also go through the motions. I know this from personal experience, for example, a believing friend who ignores Ramadan EXCEPT when he's around other Muslims. It wouldn't surprise me if this behaviour was extremely common, but of course, you could never know, because few are prepared to break ranks.
Praise be to Allah The Muslim should praise Allah, may He be exalted, and thank Him for the blessing of Islam and right guidance, for it is the greatest of blessings, as Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning): “Is he who was dead (without Faith by ignorance and disbelief) and We gave him life (by knowledge and Faith) and set for him a light (of Belief) whereby he can walk amongst men, like him who is in the darkness (of disbelief, polytheism and hypocrisy) from which he can never come out? Thus it is made fair-seeming to the disbelievers that which they used to do” [al-An‘aam 6:122]
@@SR-df9jd I think that the problem, as with Christianity and with Judaism, is that there are so many interpretations of holy books, so your definition of a Muslim will not all agree with another who is much more hard line. In Islam, there are liberals, extremists, Sunni, Shia, Jain etc. How do we determine who has the real Islam? I find that the diversity of sects within one religion makes for much friction. You've probably guessed that I'm not a believer. For the most part, atheists speak of one voice : that deists have not met their burden of proof that a God exists. After that simple statement, we are free of dogma and can follow such things as scientific enquiry to see where it might lead. We are not bound by anything else that might block the path to knowledge.
@@tonybennett4159Satan has succeeded in making your heart blind.. Signs if Allah are around you from nature, animals, different foods, different weather, different human tribes, human body going through different ages.. Yet you deny presence of Allah Almighty. You are tested like everyone else but blinded bh whispers of Satan and his army.
A very well thought out reply to a very vunerable question, showing that you've been in a similar situation so can understand the nuances of all the issues he might be struggling with. I hope the fact that he has made this first step of actually airing his feelings to someone, even if it is anonymously, means that he is starting to get to the point of airing it to somebody in his circle.
Wow, that was so insightful. It's a situation so alien to my own experience I couldn't have imagined it. As a gay man though I can empathise, it's not the same of course but there are similar themes. If you ever read this I think your brave for just going this far. Trust in yourself and your bravery, and do what your heart truly tells you is right. I wish you well, good luck.
My dear brothers and sisters, If you have any problems in your life including Islam religion. The best solution is pray (Talk) to the real God Jesus Christ. If you are a sincere and Righteous person, real God Jesus Christ will help you. This is hundred percent true. Because, real God Jesus Christ is our best friend and heavenly father. You don't have to spend money to fix life issues. You just need to spend time with real God Jesus Christ. 🙏✌️❤️👍
My heart breaks for this guy. I hope he stays strong and can find a safe space for him to be himself as an Ex-Muslim, even for a few hours a week. Your videos really do help people in desperate situations hoping for a helping hand. Keep up the great videos you put out, Mimzy! You're a guardian angel.
Read.... Praise be to Allah The Muslim should praise Allah, may He be exalted, and thank Him for the blessing of Islam and right guidance, for it is the greatest of blessings, as Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning): “Is he who was dead (without Faith by ignorance and disbelief) and We gave him life (by knowledge and Faith) and set for him a light (of Belief) whereby he can walk amongst men, like him who is in the darkness (of disbelief, polytheism and hypocrisy) from which he can never come out? Thus it is made fair-seeming to the disbelievers that which they used to do” [al-An‘aam 6:122]
Jeng Anik 🍻New drinking game!🥂 - Take a shot for every time you see this guy copy paste something from the Quran.🥃 - Eat an entire strip of bacon every time he insults atheists or doesn't respect his fellow human beings of other faiths and religions.🥓 🚫But don't actually attempt this as you'll probably have a lot health issues with consuming waaaay too much of either alcohol or sodium.🚫
@Jeng Anik I agree! I'm half Chinese from Singapore and my people (pork loving Han Chinese) have been eating pork for 5 thousand years. Just in case you didn't get the memo, (Chinese) Singaporeans, Hong Kongers and the Japanese (especially the pork loving Okinawans) have some of the longest lives in the world. Malay Singaporeans, who are almost 99% Muslim have a lower life expectancy compared to ethnic Chinese and Indian Singaporeans. Yup! We are what we eat. I concur.
It’s going to be a struggle tho a lot of times in a specific situation like this. Like disagreements, raising children, and etc. In the end, we all should pray and wish the best for them in their marriage!!
@@MimzyVidz - Tks for the response! Great to hear from "The" Mimzy. I watch your husband all the time. Regarding my wife, we keep it quiet to her family. She is mostly a cultural Muslim. Many Muslims I know here in the USA are cultural and even drink alcohol, rarely pray 5 times a day.
@@Bilsher007 - so men in Islam can have multiple wives and sex with slaves (Quran 23:1-6, 70:29-30, 4:24, 33:50-52). However a man like me that only wants one wife for life cannot marry a Muslim woman? Crazy mixed up ethics.
Poor guy. I’m in a similar situation, just not married yet. It’s hard to break up with someone you love over beliefs but Muslims are generally not accepting of letting others believe what they want. Most Muslims aren’t secular and they try to force their beliefs down your throat. My mum has forced me to fast throughout Ramadan. Normally I don’t do it but this year she’s always been here due to lockdown so I had to fast and I hated it. I even had to pray the first day. It must be horrible to have to wear abayas and actually represent Islam but not believe in it at all. I’m so sorry to hear all these stories, just know you’re not alone.
I am kinda the same situation i feel you sis But I just want to told that fasting is very good for the immune system and other health benefits so i told you that so that you don't feel like you have been fasting for nothing and it useless The most part that bother me about ramadam is the tarawih it annoy me that I have to pretend to pray for 2 hours
I don't live in a muslim country, but I know it's really hard to live as an ex-muslim atheist in muslim families, especially in muslim countries. Over there it may be impossible to find any help at all. In those cases, I think it might just be best to stay hidden as an exmuslim, but allow yourself to secretly break your fasts during Ramadan.
Don’t commit suicide. Pray to Jesus constantly and cry out to him to show you what to do. It really worked for me. You need a trustworthy person to talk to who isn’t muslim
A solution would be for local Muslim organizations to approve of marriage between believers and unbelievers, because to other people, those same believers would be regarded as unbelievers in more liberating ideologies. At least it provides the space for each partner to explore the limits of their beliefs.
@boxing to you, please tell me what evidence do you have for Allah and the judgment day? Here it is a threat only. Please provide something more convincing. I don't believe in gods anymore. The day of judgment lost it's threat.
Maybe, could she be feeling his terrible depression & believing that praying, observing more will help him?!? I know as a wife I can feel my husbands unexpressed pain....and I often blame myself! I wish that he could be completely open & honest with his love (I do understand how hard that can be) but keeping this inside is literally killing him 😔
To the man who is trapped, all her advice is good. Seek out counseling and care about your safety. Also, can you begin to gently ask your wife questions, using socratic questioning. See Anthony Magnobosco's interviews on You tube. He uses a technique called Street Epistemology to help people gradually doubt their faith in a friendly non-confrontational way . There is a growing movement here in the USA of people using this method. Good luck to you my friend. You are worthy of a happy life. You are not alone.
I'm stuck in a situation, I've got to know a Muslim guy. We like each other but he said there's no way his family would accept me as I'm an ex Muslim. He said he won't tell his family until later if it becomes serious but by that time our feelings would have developed more strongly for one another and it would be hard to stop talking if his family won't accept me..How would I forget him after talking to him for months or years. It makes sense not to get involved with each other in the first place to prevent from being hurt later. I don't know what to do. I think i'l be on my own for ever. I'm wondering if other ex muslims got married? And was it to a non Muslim or will we have to just be alone for ever?
That’s so weird seeing murtads talking about their “new” live. They trade paradise with Eternal hell and all they care is daily problems. 10-30 years life without Allah and then burning for eternity seems to be like a bad trade
Just like I guided my 12 y out of religion, you should stay,expose the nonsense and enlighten the kids.show them the right way. If you leave, your kids are gone. Will go to extremes of theocracy just to negate you. Stay strong. My wife's changing too. So be hopeful.
It’s a very difficult situation but please do not leave your wife, and do not teach your kids any form of religion. Make this very clear to your wife. Don’t ever allow your children to be brainwashed like you. You are responsible for your children. I was brainwashed to be a religious Christian and I made up my mind never to allow my kids being brainwashed. Let God talk to them if God need them just like Jesus appear to me and also speak to me.
And YES to therapy, you might so benefit off it to manage your family life without jeopardizing your marriage and full, unharmed relationship with your kids. I would be very, very cautious with friends from your Muslim community. this could jeopardize your family at some point..
I was never really Muslims but my parents identify as Muslim and my mum is practicing to some extent whereas my dad is less practicing but fasts in Ramadan and prays sometimes. They always used to slap me as a child whenever I would talk against Islam and were NEVER successful at their attempts of indoctrination. I did get scared of hell but I never liked Islam or called myself Muslim. They always tried to tell me that I was and I had to be. My boyfriend is unfortunately a Muslim and everytime he tells me “pray for this or that” and I just think Gosh how dumb can someone be. He is suffocating me. We have been together for seven years but before I wasn’t a staunch Atheist however now I am and it makes us argue a lot. I try not to speak about it but Islam is a big part of his life and he will try to force his dumb cult on my kids if we get married.
Dear brother in humanity if you (or anyone else needing advice) read this: I am about to give you very unidealistic, morally doubtful advice. If we grow up in the West, we grow up in the expectation that life is ours to take, that we are ourselves and special in our own way, that we have a right to be acknowledged as we are by our community, society and especially our family. And we ARE, please do not take this as if I wanted to tell you have no right to be accepted and loved as much by those close to you no matter what you CHOOSE to believe. BUT: Please dear brother, tread very lightly. I am sure you adore your children, you want to be part of their lives as their full-time dad, not be separated from them. Your wife if she chose to divorce you, maybe succumbing to pressure, maybe because at a certain point for whatever reason it might suit her (even a lot later), she will take so much from your children away from you. And she might throw a shade on the relationship and love of your children for you for the rest of your lives! The pain of such a development is hard to bear. Please at all stages be sensible.. if you feel your children are more important than your sense of self actualization by being who you are inside on the outside, keep it inside, find a way to live with it. Maybe tell your surroundings "oh I am not so strict", "oh I choose not to take things so literally", "oh I am not as practicing as I would like to be", "oh life gets in the way", "I am more of a spiritual believer", "I choose to admire god in his creation" when talking about nature etc etc. Do you feel you need to be "out", do you feel you are not fully yourself, but want to be? OF COURSE. But always think about what you risk losing. Think about it carefully before you do things you might not be able to solve. Maybe wait to tell your wife and children until your children are old enough to have a very strong bond with you no matter what. I am telling you from experience - I had to break free from my parents strict practice of religion. I am forever harmed by ways this damaged our relationship. For me it was not an easy choice because I was sick of the practice and still a teenager living at home. I wanted to stop practicing, and remained on that path. My relationship to one parent and a large part of the family from that was forever broken. Not able to revive or safe it. They never accepted me for who I am. And that is "ok" as ok it can be. But losing out on one s children's time and love and development I believe I could not live with. You are lucky to be the man of the household. You could gently remind your wife that islamically (which I do not believe) it is not her obligation or even right to chastize you as a man. You have fewer pressures to practice by people being in a position to order you. And if ppl push you, why not resort to the quotes above? Being "moderate" is in a way very idealized in Muslim communities. thrive off that, be a "moderate". Your wife might be happier for having a moderately religious husband than for having a strict doctrinated one.Likewise your children. Show them from small age on what it means in practice to not be a religious oppressor - respect and nurture their sense of self, their passions and interests wihtout "harams"! This growing up will let them be strong human beings, and when lookin back later when you can reveal to them you were no Muslim at al, there is a big chance they will se e the positive. "Dad never put thought control on me", "Dad encouraged me to be a critical thinker", "Dad let me be myself". Put to practice what you psoitively believe in as a non-believer in the scripture, raise your children that way. Leave the explicit coming out for later in life if you still want to. I believe you can have a fulfilling family life without fully foregoing who you are in mind and heart! And please know I KNOW it is wrong and harmful that you cannot speak your truth! Believe me brother I KNOW! And feel your pain!
I used to be a Muslim before I learnt the truth and left it for good 4 years ago, I am so happy now. LOOOOOOL JK YOU AINT FOOLING NOBODY HAHAHAHHA ALHAMDULILAH FOR ISLAM ❤️
I'm in the exact same position. I made the mistake of getting married to a girl from Pakistan, thinking it was the right thing to do. I'm now moving away from the faith and cannot talk to anyone about this. Talking to my wife will not work, she is completely blinded by faith and will not understand at all. Wish it was easy to split up but we have two young children. I can't just put myself first in this situation. Really difficult position to be in so completely understand the guys situation in your vid. It is really depressing
There are reasons he stopped believing. He could start questioning his wife saying he started to have doubts because of some issues and see how she can still believe, showing her that Islam doesn't make sense. For instance, say that someone mentioned to him verse 33:53. Believers think that the Quran existed forever and was revealed to Muhammad. Then how to explain a verse that says to wait to be invited to go in Muhammad's house and leave quickly after eating, and that his wives couldn't marry anyone else after he dies? Isn't it obviously made up by an old guy who was jealous that his beautiful young wives were being looked at? Or the verse allowing Muhammad unlimited number of wives? Another made up? How many more? The wife will probably ask an imam for responses but those will certainly be flawed since there is no logical explanation other that Muhammad made up everything. Maybe that way he can deconvert his wife.
@@wsfggf don't you see that Muhammad used "revelations" to get anything he wanted? The sura that tells him not to marry one is because he didn't want to marry her and he needed an excuse to refuse.
Ok seriously, every family is different. It isnt only religion that people cant talk about it could literally be ANYTHING...there are parents that want their kids to be straight A students but they always get F and they cant talk to their parents..or you want a certain way for your son to grow up being a gentleman but he grows up bisexual getting women pregnant and getting STIs and passing them round...its not ONLY MUSLIMS gosh woman..chill out and be fair!
So basically he started his relationship with a lie just shows what a awful person he is and he should’ve been honest from the start he had no right to marry someone by lying to them that’s disgusting poor women n children I feel for them and they rather live without this lair they will have a better life with out this awful person
i am 37 years old ,, Pakistani man working in dubai, left islam 4 years ago, no one know in my community, i connot share to anyone, even i am oppressed to fasting in Ramadan month and prayers. still single and finding none muslim soulmate , willing to leave muslim community but failed.
This is what Edited and want to get more like, i see the small likes over there. I'm sorry ,talk about something else, i can show you so many ways to be famous
GOOD ON THE WIFE. GIRL GO CORRECT YOURSELF YOU ARE NO INTELLIGENT PERSON TO GIVE ANY ADVICE. YEAH MIND PLAYING TRICKS IS SHITAIN 🤦🏼♀️ I HIGHLY ADVISE THAT MAN HUSBAND GO PRAY LOL!! Ask God to guide you n help you.
I say get divorced. I’m sure she’ll agree as I don’t think she wants to continue screwing a disbeliever. Let the wife take custody of the children so that they can grow up to be good muslims. Divorce is a better option than suicide. Win win situation for all
Born Free no, he should actually use islam against her! He is the leader of the household; she should obey and respect his wishes. If she doesn’t accept his leadership towards integration, she should be reminded that the children will be taken from her in a sharia divorce. She should also be held accountable that she believes koran 4:34 is the word of god😉
Born Free he should move the family to a no-muslim neighbourhood far away from mosques and family. Put the kids in a christian school (catholic). Find a very devout christian woman to befriend the wife. Learn the koran and hadiths and challenge the wife on those that are obviously impossible in a western society. Ask the wife if she would like to move to the Gulf states or to Pakistan or Afghanistan or Iran .....
Is Islam growing due to converts or due to having kids born in the faith ? Also if converts where is the evidence that there are not 100 leaving for every convert?
@@family-peace-love Allaah will never ever let ISLAM decrease, haven't you read the noble Qur'an??? Of course you haven't... you get your knowledge from BBC1 or is it non muslim sites??? Don't worry I already know the answer...
@@family-peace-love what made you an apostate? Which sect was you following out of 73? Know that you've left, what's your purpose in LIFE? please don't tell me you're gonna contradict the noble Qur'an??
@@freemanontheland507 I'm reading the bible now and call myself a Christian following Jesus but not attending a church as I cant find one that I agree with, as like in Islam there are sects and different ideas in christianity and I just wanna follow Jesus as I feel he was more than just a prophet and he defeated death, nobody else has. God made him stand out.
My dear brothers and sisters, If you have any problems in your life including Islam religion. The best solution is pray (Talk) to the real God Jesus Christ. If you are a sincere and Righteous person, real God Jesus Christ will help you. This is hundred percent true. Because, real God Jesus Christ is our best friend and heavenly father. You don't have to spend money to fix life issues. You just need to spend time with real God Jesus Christ. 🙏✌️❤️👍
He’s obviously struggling with mental health issues apostasy doesn’t even seem to be the real issue. Also that he should contemplate an alternative reality to being with his wife ?Appalling advice to suggest it’s ok to break up somebody’s home. You might want to consider your words more carefully going forward even choosing to air this email in a video is diabolical give his details to the police his mental welfare should be safeguarded you’re clearly trying to unhinge it further. Wow just wow
Praise be to Allah The Muslim should praise Allah, may He be exalted, and thank Him for the blessing of Islam and right guidance, for it is the greatest of blessings, as Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning): “Is he who was dead (without Faith by ignorance and disbelief) and We gave him life (by knowledge and Faith) and set for him a light (of Belief) whereby he can walk amongst men, like him who is in the darkness (of disbelief, polytheism and hypocrisy) from which he can never come out? Thus it is made fair-seeming to the disbelievers that which they used to do” [al-An‘aam 6:122]
A very difficult situation, I would be thinking of my children, if I didn't do something and create a new life for myself, then one day they might find themselves in a similar situation and have no one to go to. Also, even though it may not seem possible now, you too will one day have a better life when you can be yourself.The only thing that's certain in life is change, and that's a good thing, never lose hope. x
I was in that cage once. Wore hijab , abaya , mosque everyday. 10 years later im no longer muslim and marrying a non muslim. When i was a muslim i couldnt believe how much hatred there is in the community & towards other religons. I had sucidal thoughts during my time being muslim because of so many negative things & nearly ended my life. Cut out people who arent worth it and stop going to the mosque. I was a revert but mixed raced .
I'm confused, what do you mean by revert? Were you originally a non-muslim who went back to being a non muslim?
Thanks for sharing, you are for sure not alone in this experience. Glad to hear you are in a better place now! much love xx
@@MohseenLala I think she meant that she was muslim not practising and she may have became more religious in some point.
Ah, okay. @@nuriacb7880
Just one word.... CURSED... Oh Allaah please keep me steadfast on this beautiful deen, ameen...
Thank Allah I left Islam prior to getting married
CURSED CURSED CURSED
Praise be to Allah
The Muslim should praise Allah, may He be exalted, and thank Him for the blessing of Islam and right guidance, for it is the greatest of blessings, as Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):
“Is he who was dead (without Faith by ignorance and disbelief) and We gave him life (by knowledge and Faith) and set for him a light (of Belief) whereby he can walk amongst men, like him who is in the darkness (of disbelief, polytheism and hypocrisy) from which he can never come out? Thus it is made fair-seeming to the disbelievers that which they used to do”
[al-An‘aam 6:122]
@@mayasquaw2254 Jazakallah for your kind words sister, but I was not married whilst I was a Muslim
@@mayasquaw2254 do you know that because of people like you , he left islam ??
Karanbir dhaliwal He lacked iman. Ones that’s out of the window might your whole dignity be out the window.
Today is the anniversary of my mom's passing - when I was 21 - she decided to take her own life. It was not about a religion - but it doesn't really matter what creates this feeling of despair. It can happen to anyone at anytime. I wish I had known how to handle it - how to be more supportive. You have so many good ideas - ways of making sense of such difficult situations - when we are not allowed to express ourselves, or feeling like noone gets it. I do think this remains a huge problem - people not knowing how to communicate - how to express when they are feeling down, who to tell, what to do. There should be lots more facilities, tools for people to help in hectic situations. Thanks for being an inspiration.
Praise be to Allah
The Muslim should praise Allah, may He be exalted, and thank Him for the blessing of Islam and right guidance, for it is the greatest of blessings, as Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):
“Is he who was dead (without Faith by ignorance and disbelief) and We gave him life (by knowledge and Faith) and set for him a light (of Belief) whereby he can walk amongst men, like him who is in the darkness (of disbelief, polytheism and hypocrisy) from which he can never come out? Thus it is made fair-seeming to the disbelievers that which they used to do”
[al-An‘aam 6:122]
Sunshine Szavanna I am so sorry to hear this happened to you. I prayed for you. 💐
@@Jill-jb1jg ty
My dear brothers and sisters,
If you have any problems in your life including Islam religion. The best solution is pray (Talk) to the real God Jesus Christ. If you are a sincere and Righteous person, real God Jesus Christ will help you. This is hundred percent true. Because, real God Jesus Christ is our best friend and heavenly father. You don't have to spend money to fix life issues. You just need to spend time with real God Jesus Christ. 🙏✌️❤️👍
Despite being long dead, Muhammad continues to cause immeasurable suffering to so many. #LEAVEISLAM2019
Islam The Natural Way...
Nationalism is garbage...
Jeng Anik Islam is garbage. You wipe your ass barehanded, but bacon is unclean 🤣
#IslamWillPrevail
WHAT A WASTEMAN OR WOMAN TRASH YOU ARE !!! SWEAR TO GOD THAT YOU A TRASH TALKING LIAR AND THE ONLY WORDS THAT GREIVE US ARE YOUR DIFFY STINKING LIED FILLED WORDS! ALLAH IS THE GREATEST AND MUHAMMAD IS MU ROLE MODEL AND YOU ARE SOME TRASH TALKER WASTEMAN/ WOMAN TALKING OUT YOUR JACKSIDE WASTEPERSON
Can I just say that it's so refreshing and wonderful to see videos on this site that help out atheists trapped in other religions besides Christianity?
It really puts things in perspective that even though some come from different places or former faiths; there are people out there going through similar struggles with themselves, their loved ones, and other people in their lives.
You are really amazing and you don’t know how much these type of videos help others ❤️as an exmuslim myself I can relate to every point you made. And talking to my friend about it did help so much that’s absolutely true!
He can start insinuating his believe in form of a doubt. Than to just say it all at once. Everyone in the environment need to know.
Dora LaBelle he could be honor killed
Lol. How do you tell someone who is on your heel for not praying on time that you are doubting Islam. Doubt is a big word and very close to outing yourself as a murtad. The best to start with is to stray away from praying on time, then irregularly, then only jumas and so on.
My beloved brother took his own life. I know that if he even caught a glimpse of the agony he would cause his loved ones he would never, NEVER had taken that final, tragic step.
You know mimzy, there are many Moroccan UA-camrs(maybe 5 with significant subscribers, I just said that because you're part Moroccan IDK lol) married to Korean men and all their channel is based on this concept of korean- arab marriage are claiming that their husbands became suddenly Muslims once they got to know them and marry them lol. I want to say that this whole situation explained in your video can depend on what religion represents to a person. I just notice that Muslim born in Islamic countries don't take religion seriously as Muslims who were born in foreign countries. When I am looking to Muslim UA-camrs outside the Muslim world they tend to focus all their content in Islam while muslims from Muslim countries tends to consider religion more like a culture to be respected rather than their main focus. I am sorry , my English is not that good but I just want to clarify this from my point of view.
It is a deeply rooted identity crisis in almost all Muslim nations. Islam never ever created a pan-Islamic civilization in the sense the Europeans did. Muslims are Arabs, Indians, Pakistanis, Indonesians, Malaysians, Chinese, Albanians, Chechens, and I could go on and on. But in terms of culture they have very little in common. For example, Western classical music is a Western cultural phenomena; It is all over Western culture. This is, one reason, I think that Muslims in non-Muslim countries become "more fanatically Muslim" in such places. Islam is all they have to fall back on. Otherwise they share very little among themselves. Go check out mosques in foreign non-Muslim nations. It is shocking but they are broken down by race and culture: Arab mosques, Somalian mosques, Iranian mosques, Lebanese mosques and so forth.
You are so right. I grew up in the middle east and the only time we prayed was on friday and that was it. Yes some woman wore hijab but very loosely. When I moved to the States I was shocked at how more religious people were. It's scary tbh. But my theory is because these people moved to the west for freedom of religion because during the 60's and 70's it was the age of secular dictatorships and the people that fled were islamists. Vs the people like me who left in the 80's, 90's and 2000's to make more money. Islam to me was and is something I do on friday, ramadan and eids. Thats it. American muslims are ok but the UK is crazy! Freaking salafis and full on daesh types. My advice, be a good person and who cares about other's religion?
Mimzy, did you listen to music growing-up? I can’t imagine not having music in my life or raising my children without music in its so many genres. I’m fascinated to know what it feels like to only experience the joys of music later in life. What music moves one after such a famine...
My current situation is being an ex muslim since a year. My husband is very tolerant to my personal non beliefs but he doesnt seem to understand why i left or not very interested in the topic as if he was afraid to leave too... im quite sure he wont leave because he ll feel guilty of breaking a tradition of his family or cant really get out of the closet. He is not practicing a lot (just fasting ramadhan) . Everytime i try to debate or talk with him he is annoyed and tells me he needs time to read and think , a thing he never does. ... how can i get him interested in analyzing his own faith/religion without him feeling guilty or annoyed ? Lately ive been avoiding things about religion when we discuss.
Keep on trying . One day he will leave . Tell him verses from quran which are wrong .
Make you kuds athiest secretly if not openly
@@karate2252 thank you so much !! :))) i ve been talking about the circumcision because we dont have kids yet. I told him it was a mutilation that a kid could attack his own parents on justice for it. Then he agreeed to let our children choose at 18 y o. I know he is very rationnal and logical but it seems like not being the favorite child in his family has pushed him to please them no matter what, he suffered from a very toxic mother who is also very religious and judgemental to her sons.
@@ayakaayaka2296 oh . I understand situation. Sister i think you can change him by making him feel important and love ( i hope u already do😁).
Actually i am sikh but i am observing increasing number of exmuslims. On of my friend from morocco was ex muslim. Im observing increasing number of exmuslims. before that i thought muslims never leave religion 😅.
Where do you live ??
@@karate2252 i live in France. My husband is very happy and loved but i need him to be true to himself and not follow blindly.
Truth is leaving Islam is dangerous. Either you go to prison or get a death penalty in islamic states either you take a huge risk to lose your family and friends :/ slowly i see more muslim by heredity leave once they are in a western country. Islam is growing thanks to births in muslims families not thanks to conversions. There are plenty of ex muslims in the closet.
I know that 4% of the american population is atheist and 14 %of Saudi Arabia answered to be secrètely atheists. .. that means we have a big problem with Islam. Being christian doesnt narrow your rights in your everyday life but being muslim is a constant battle in every action..every thought... every hope or desire. Especially as a woman ! I left islam because of the lack of womens rights. I always say : im not anti Islam but Islam is anti-me ^^
@@karate2252 oh i was born in Algeria BTW =)
Damn, I really feel the “teach them Islam when you don’t even believe it” I had to teach my little brother about it and it sucks.
Read...
Praise be to Allah
The Muslim should praise Allah, may He be exalted, and thank Him for the blessing of Islam and right guidance, for it is the greatest of blessings, as Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):
“Is he who was dead (without Faith by ignorance and disbelief) and We gave him life (by knowledge and Faith) and set for him a light (of Belief) whereby he can walk amongst men, like him who is in the darkness (of disbelief, polytheism and hypocrisy) from which he can never come out? Thus it is made fair-seeming to the disbelievers that which they used to do”
[al-An‘aam 6:122]
Jeng Anik
I heard if you look into a mirror you'll finally find an ignorant boob who'll finally take your message of ""faith"" seriously.
You'll get along great, I think! 👍
❤ you need to be there for your children because who will they talk to if they stop believing if you are gone. Stay safe
Praise be to Allah
The Muslim should praise Allah, may He be exalted, and thank Him for the blessing of Islam and right guidance, for it is the greatest of blessings, as Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):
“Is he who was dead (without Faith by ignorance and disbelief) and We gave him life (by knowledge and Faith) and set for him a light (of Belief) whereby he can walk amongst men, like him who is in the darkness (of disbelief, polytheism and hypocrisy) from which he can never come out? Thus it is made fair-seeming to the disbelievers that which they used to do”
[al-An‘aam 6:122]
Jeng Anik
But Jeng! This part of the Quran disproves that!
This is from 4:20, I think:
"According to all known laws
of aviation,
there is no way a bee
should be able to fly.
Its wings are too small to get
its fat little body off the ground.
The bee, of course, flies anyway
because bees don't care
what humans think is impossible.
Yellow, black. Yellow, black.
Yellow, black. Yellow, black.
Ooh, black and yellow!
Let's shake it up a little.
Barry! Breakfast is ready!
Ooming!
Hang on a second.
Hello?
- Barry?
- Adam?
- Oan you believe this is happening?
- I can't. I'll pick you up.
Looking sharp.
Use the stairs. Your father
paid good money for those.
Sorry. I'm excited.
Here's the graduate.
We're very proud of you, son.
A perfect report card, all B's.
Very proud.
Ma! I got a thing going here.
- You got lint on your fuzz.
- Ow! That's me!
- Wave to us! We'll be in row 118,000.
- Bye!
Barry, I told you,
stop flying in the house!
- Hey, Adam.
- Hey, Barry.
- Is that fuzz gel?
- A little. Special day, graduation.
Never thought I'd make it.
Three days grade school,
three days high school.
Those were awkward.
Three days college. I'm glad I took
a day and hitchhiked around the hive.
You did come back different.
- Hi, Barry.
- Artie, growing a mustache? Looks good.
- Hear about Frankie?
- Yeah.
- You going to the funeral?
- No, I'm not going.
Everybody knows,
sting someone, you die.
Don't waste it on a squirrel.
Such a hothead.
I guess he could have
just gotten out of the way.
I love this incorporating
an amusement park into our day.
That's why we don't need vacations.
Boy, quite a bit of pomp...
under the circumstances.
- Well, Adam, today we are men.
- We are!
- Bee-men.
- Amen!
Hallelujah!
Students, faculty, distinguished bees,
please welcome Dean Buzzwell.
Welcome, New Hive Oity
graduating class of...
...9:15.
That concludes our ceremonies.
And begins your career
at Honex Industries!
Will we pick ourjob today?
I heard it's just orientation.
Heads up! Here we go.
Keep your hands and antennas
inside the tram at all times.
- Wonder what it'll be like?
- A little scary.
Welcome to Honex,
a division of Honesco
and a part of the Hexagon Group.
This is it!
Wow.
Wow.
We know that you, as a bee,
have worked your whole life
to get to the point where you
can work for your whole life.
Honey begins when our valiant Pollen
Jocks bring the nectar to the hive.
Our top-secret formula
is automatically color-corrected,
scent-adjusted and bubble-contoured
into this soothing sweet syrup
with its distinctive
golden glow you know as...
Honey!
- That girl was hot.
- She's my cousin!
- She is?
- Yes, we're all cousins.
- Right. You're right.
- At Honex, we constantly strive
to improve every aspect
of bee existence.
These bees are stress-testing
a new helmet technology.
- What do you think he makes?
- Not enough.
Here we have our latest advancement,
the Krelman."
@Addis Ababa Shut up filthy crossworshipping habesh. Ugly faces with tattoos crosses on their foreheads.
@@maalikislam3735 how do you know that ex muslims were not real muslims ? Do you have a study that proves it ? Because saying this doesnt prove anything . Maybe you think you are all knowing ....?!
@@ayakaayaka2296 Ask her to recite the Tashahhud. Most of these were just born into a Muslim family who were either deviants following some misguided polytheist sect, or liberal and secular without any Islamic knowledge. And they grew up in the west surrounded by disbelievers and athiests and just adopted their way of life. They were never Muslims.
So ask her to recite the Tashahhud, or at least some Surahs from Juz 'Amma. I doubt she even knows al-Fatihah.
I have a young girl that lives in my neighborhood that was married to a Muslim and after listening to Christian Prince she left her husband and Islam.
Really ???
Where do you live ??
Ohhh wow, that is something I never heard
You never hear a devoted Muslim leave islam rather those with weak convictions.
There are plenty of professed Muslims who also go through the motions. I know this from personal experience, for example, a believing friend who ignores Ramadan EXCEPT when he's around other Muslims. It wouldn't surprise me if this behaviour was extremely common, but of course, you could never know, because few are prepared to break ranks.
Praise be to Allah
The Muslim should praise Allah, may He be exalted, and thank Him for the blessing of Islam and right guidance, for it is the greatest of blessings, as Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):
“Is he who was dead (without Faith by ignorance and disbelief) and We gave him life (by knowledge and Faith) and set for him a light (of Belief) whereby he can walk amongst men, like him who is in the darkness (of disbelief, polytheism and hypocrisy) from which he can never come out? Thus it is made fair-seeming to the disbelievers that which they used to do”
[al-An‘aam 6:122]
@@SR-df9jd I think that the problem, as with Christianity and with Judaism, is that there are so many interpretations of holy books, so your definition of a Muslim will not all agree with another who is much more hard line. In Islam, there are liberals, extremists, Sunni, Shia, Jain etc. How do we determine who has the real Islam? I find that the diversity of sects within one religion makes for much friction.
You've probably guessed that I'm not a believer. For the most part, atheists speak of one voice : that deists have not met their burden of proof that a God exists. After that simple statement, we are free of dogma and can follow such things as scientific enquiry to see where it might lead. We are not bound by anything else that might block the path to knowledge.
@@tonybennett4159Satan has succeeded in making your heart blind.. Signs if Allah are around you from nature, animals, different foods, different weather, different human tribes, human body going through different ages.. Yet you deny presence of Allah Almighty. You are tested like everyone else but blinded bh whispers of Satan and his army.
What a lie I am a Muslim and our whole family listens to music and watches tv and etc plz don't lie about us
@pika Chu what the hell does this mean
Great video Mimzy, I think you help a lot of people.
Mimzy is the DEVIL IN DISGUISE...
@@freemanontheland507 🤣🤣🤣😅
Jeng Anik
And you're a manifestation of all unhealthily obsessed, rude, and brainless twits in disguise.
What's your point?
A very well thought out reply to a very vunerable question, showing that you've been in a similar situation so can understand the nuances of all the issues he might be struggling with. I hope the fact that he has made this first step of actually airing his feelings to someone, even if it is anonymously, means that he is starting to get to the point of airing it to somebody in his circle.
Can the Council of Ex-Muslims help him? I'm sure they have meet-ups in the UK.
ADayWithoutYesterday I always send the details of CEMB and faith to faithless ♥️
Wow, that was so insightful. It's a situation so alien to my own experience I couldn't have imagined it. As a gay man though I can empathise, it's not the same of course but there are similar themes. If you ever read this I think your brave for just going this far. Trust in yourself and your bravery, and do what your heart truly tells you is right. I wish you well, good luck.
I am so glad you said that. !!! Your right is very similar to being gay.
I am even scared for this girl. Doing video. I hope she will be safe. And no one will kill her.
My dear brothers and sisters,
If you have any problems in your life including Islam religion. The best solution is pray (Talk) to the real God Jesus Christ. If you are a sincere and Righteous person, real God Jesus Christ will help you. This is hundred percent true. Because, real God Jesus Christ is our best friend and heavenly father. You don't have to spend money to fix life issues. You just need to spend time with real God Jesus Christ. 🙏✌️❤️👍
My heart breaks for this guy. I hope he stays strong and can find a safe space for him to be himself as an Ex-Muslim, even for a few hours a week. Your videos really do help people in desperate situations hoping for a helping hand. Keep up the great videos you put out, Mimzy! You're a guardian angel.
Read....
Praise be to Allah
The Muslim should praise Allah, may He be exalted, and thank Him for the blessing of Islam and right guidance, for it is the greatest of blessings, as Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):
“Is he who was dead (without Faith by ignorance and disbelief) and We gave him life (by knowledge and Faith) and set for him a light (of Belief) whereby he can walk amongst men, like him who is in the darkness (of disbelief, polytheism and hypocrisy) from which he can never come out? Thus it is made fair-seeming to the disbelievers that which they used to do”
[al-An‘aam 6:122]
Jeng Anik
🍻New drinking game!🥂
- Take a shot for every time you see this guy copy paste something from the Quran.🥃
- Eat an entire strip of bacon every time he insults atheists or doesn't respect his fellow human beings of other faiths and religions.🥓
🚫But don't actually attempt this as you'll probably have a lot health issues with consuming waaaay too much of either alcohol or sodium.🚫
Sprite Lady Bacon it’s the only form of porn meat. One can eat lean pork meat too. 😆
@@truthseeker000000 you are what YOU EAT ... lol...
Alhamdulillah Allaah made it illegal ( HARAM) ...
ISLAM THE NATURAL WAY...
@Jeng Anik I agree! I'm half Chinese from Singapore and my people (pork loving Han Chinese) have been eating pork for 5 thousand years. Just in case you didn't get the memo, (Chinese) Singaporeans, Hong Kongers and the Japanese (especially the pork loving Okinawans) have some of the longest lives in the world. Malay Singaporeans, who are almost 99% Muslim have a lower life expectancy compared to ethnic Chinese and Indian Singaporeans. Yup! We are what we eat. I concur.
Love the videos ♥ thank you! 😊
Professional rational intelligent logical informative advice beautifully presented by an incredibly intelligent beautiful charismatic young lady
It’s going to be a struggle tho a lot of times in a specific situation like this. Like disagreements, raising children, and etc. In the end, we all should pray and wish the best for them in their marriage!!
When music is not allowed in a Muslim house hold then you how they’re religious af I feel bad for the guy
I just came across this. I am a non-Muslim that married a Muslim woman. Things are going great so far. We have a wonderful relationship.
That’s not Islamically allowed so it’s probably going great because she doesn’t care about following the ruling of Islam
@@MimzyVidz - Tks for the response! Great to hear from "The" Mimzy. I watch your husband all the time. Regarding my wife, we keep it quiet to her family. She is mostly a cultural Muslim. Many Muslims I know here in the USA are cultural and even drink alcohol, rarely pray 5 times a day.
This marriage is not recognised by Islam... Your so called wife is sinning.. May Allah guide her.. To end marriage or guide you to Islam, Ameen
@@Bilsher007 - so men in Islam can have multiple wives and sex with slaves (Quran 23:1-6, 70:29-30, 4:24, 33:50-52). However a man like me that only wants one wife for life cannot marry a Muslim woman? Crazy mixed up ethics.
This isn't going to end well...
Poor guy. I’m in a similar situation, just not married yet. It’s hard to break up with someone you love over beliefs but Muslims are generally not accepting of letting others believe what they want. Most Muslims aren’t secular and they try to force their beliefs down your throat. My mum has forced me to fast throughout Ramadan. Normally I don’t do it but this year she’s always been here due to lockdown so I had to fast and I hated it. I even had to pray the first day. It must be horrible to have to wear abayas and actually represent Islam but not believe in it at all. I’m so sorry to hear all these stories, just know you’re not alone.
I am kinda the same situation i feel you sis
But I just want to told that fasting is very good for the immune system and other health benefits so i told you that so that you don't feel like you have been fasting for nothing and it useless
The most part that bother me about ramadam is the tarawih it annoy me that I have to pretend to pray for 2 hours
You are a beautiful soul....
I don't live in a muslim country, but I know it's really hard to live as an ex-muslim atheist in muslim families, especially in muslim countries. Over there it may be impossible to find any help at all. In those cases, I think it might just be best to stay hidden as an exmuslim, but allow yourself to secretly break your fasts during Ramadan.
❤ love you Mimzyyyy :)
Don’t commit suicide. Pray to Jesus constantly and cry out to him to show you what to do. It really worked for me. You need a trustworthy person to talk to who isn’t muslim
A solution would be for local Muslim organizations to approve of marriage between believers and unbelievers, because to other people, those same believers would be regarded as unbelievers in more liberating ideologies. At least it provides the space for each partner to explore the limits of their beliefs.
Marriages between believers and disbelievers are forbidden.
dosen't sound like a religion of peace...
yeah u can keep telling yourself that islamaphobe
It is a religion of peace
Allah doesn't need you. You need Allah
@M J try saying that on the day of judgement.
I am sure you will be there too x
@@tinalee5006 No human is exempt.
@boxing to you, please tell me what evidence do you have for Allah and the judgment day?
Here it is a threat only.
Please provide something more convincing.
I don't believe in gods anymore. The day of judgment lost it's threat.
@@tariqbad3870 the holy Qur'an.
Maybe, could she be feeling his terrible depression & believing that praying, observing more will help him?!? I know as a wife I can feel my husbands unexpressed pain....and I often blame myself! I wish that he could be completely open & honest with his love (I do understand how hard that can be) but keeping this inside is literally killing him 😔
To the man who is trapped, all her advice is good. Seek out counseling and care about your safety. Also, can you begin to gently ask your wife questions, using socratic questioning. See Anthony Magnobosco's interviews on You tube. He uses a technique called Street Epistemology to help people gradually doubt their faith in a friendly non-confrontational way . There is a growing movement here in the USA of people using this method.
Good luck to you my friend. You are worthy of a happy life. You are not alone.
I am an ex Muslim from Afghanistan 🇦🇫
Shia sec >>>> we believed in 12 Arab men lol
Ali the first
Best thing is to leave. Part your ways like Moses did to the Red Sea.
i respect ex Muslim but you respect Islam please not hate please and I'm not judge may god judge you and I'm proud Muslim happy
I'm stuck in a situation, I've got to know a Muslim guy. We like each other but he said there's no way his family would accept me as I'm an ex Muslim. He said he won't tell his family until later if it becomes serious but by that time our feelings would have developed more strongly for one another and it would be hard to stop talking if his family won't accept me..How would I forget him after talking to him for months or years. It makes sense not to get involved with each other in the first place to prevent from being hurt later. I don't know what to do. I think i'l be on my own for ever. I'm wondering if other ex muslims got married? And was it to a non Muslim or will we have to just be alone for ever?
That’s so weird seeing murtads talking about their “new” live. They trade paradise with Eternal hell and all they care is daily problems. 10-30 years life without Allah and then burning for eternity seems to be like a bad trade
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Just like I guided my 12 y out of religion, you should stay,expose the nonsense and enlighten the kids.show them the right way. If you leave, your kids are gone. Will go to extremes of theocracy just to negate you. Stay strong. My wife's changing too. So be hopeful.
You're a sweetheart ❤. Thanks for caring.
Your point of view helped me alot thanks
Good luck for your further future, love you sister from India.
Ex-muslim married to Muslim...,...Then That doesn't make any sense of being Ex-muslim
It’s a very difficult situation but please do not leave your wife, and do not teach your kids any form of religion. Make this very clear to your wife. Don’t ever allow your children to be brainwashed like you. You are responsible for your children. I was brainwashed to be a religious Christian and I made up my mind never to allow my kids being brainwashed. Let God talk to them if God need them just like Jesus appear to me and also speak to me.
And YES to therapy, you might so benefit off it to manage your family life without jeopardizing your marriage and full, unharmed relationship with your kids. I would be very, very cautious with friends from your Muslim community. this could jeopardize your family at some point..
I was never really Muslims but my parents identify as Muslim and my mum is practicing to some extent whereas my dad is less practicing but fasts in Ramadan and prays sometimes. They always used to slap me as a child whenever I would talk against Islam and were NEVER successful at their attempts of indoctrination. I did get scared of hell but I never liked Islam or called myself Muslim. They always tried to tell me that I was and I had to be. My boyfriend is unfortunately a Muslim and everytime he tells me “pray for this or that” and I just think Gosh how dumb can someone be. He is suffocating me. We have been together for seven years but before I wasn’t a staunch Atheist however now I am and it makes us argue a lot. I try not to speak about it but Islam is a big part of his life and he will try to force his dumb cult on my kids if we get married.
Get the hell out of there and go find some place where REAL human reside!
Dear brother in humanity if you (or anyone else needing advice) read this: I am about to give you very unidealistic, morally doubtful advice. If we grow up in the West, we grow up in the expectation that life is ours to take, that we are ourselves and special in our own way, that we have a right to be acknowledged as we are by our community, society and especially our family. And we ARE, please do not take this as if I wanted to tell you have no right to be accepted and loved as much by those close to you no matter what you CHOOSE to believe. BUT: Please dear brother, tread very lightly. I am sure you adore your children, you want to be part of their lives as their full-time dad, not be separated from them. Your wife if she chose to divorce you, maybe succumbing to pressure, maybe because at a certain point for whatever reason it might suit her (even a lot later), she will take so much from your children away from you. And she might throw a shade on the relationship and love of your children for you for the rest of your lives! The pain of such a development is hard to bear.
Please at all stages be sensible.. if you feel your children are more important than your sense of self actualization by being who you are inside on the outside, keep it inside, find a way to live with it. Maybe tell your surroundings "oh I am not so strict", "oh I choose not to take things so literally", "oh I am not as practicing as I would like to be", "oh life gets in the way", "I am more of a spiritual believer", "I choose to admire god in his creation" when talking about nature etc etc. Do you feel you need to be "out", do you feel you are not fully yourself, but want to be? OF COURSE. But always think about what you risk losing. Think about it carefully before you do things you might not be able to solve. Maybe wait to tell your wife and children until your children are old enough to have a very strong bond with you no matter what.
I am telling you from experience - I had to break free from my parents strict practice of religion. I am forever harmed by ways this damaged our relationship. For me it was not an easy choice because I was sick of the practice and still a teenager living at home. I wanted to stop practicing, and remained on that path. My relationship to one parent and a large part of the family from that was forever broken. Not able to revive or safe it. They never accepted me for who I am. And that is "ok" as ok it can be. But losing out on one s children's time and love and development I believe I could not live with. You are lucky to be the man of the household. You could gently remind your wife that islamically (which I do not believe) it is not her obligation or even right to chastize you as a man. You have fewer pressures to practice by people being in a position to order you. And if ppl push you, why not resort to the quotes above? Being "moderate" is in a way very idealized in Muslim communities. thrive off that, be a "moderate". Your wife might be happier for having a moderately religious husband than for having a strict doctrinated one.Likewise your children. Show them from small age on what it means in practice to not be a religious oppressor - respect and nurture their sense of self, their passions and interests wihtout "harams"! This growing up will let them be strong human beings, and when lookin back later when you can reveal to them you were no Muslim at al, there is a big chance they will se e the positive. "Dad never put thought control on me", "Dad encouraged me to be a critical thinker", "Dad let me be myself". Put to practice what you psoitively believe in as a non-believer in the scripture, raise your children that way. Leave the explicit coming out for later in life if you still want to. I believe you can have a fulfilling family life without fully foregoing who you are in mind and heart!
And please know I KNOW it is wrong and harmful that you cannot speak your truth! Believe me brother I KNOW! And feel your pain!
Just found this channel. So glad
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My mom will throw away any thing any thing that is not halal. So annoying
What amazes me is you have to face Arabs in order your prayer 🙏 to accepted by god , Arab men meca
Can I ask if you make a video for every mail you get or you reply to some and make videos for some?
I reply to most and make videos for some xx
@@MimzyVidz I see. Thanks for the reply!
Marwa your jumper is so cute, where is it from?
I used to be a Muslim before I learnt the truth and left it for good 4 years ago, I am so happy now. LOOOOOOL JK YOU AINT FOOLING NOBODY HAHAHAHHA ALHAMDULILAH FOR ISLAM ❤️
What did you learn?
If they're in the U.K they should try and integrate into the culture anyway.
@Ramiz Ali haha ok troll
They can respect their values and not imitate it.
I'm in the exact same position. I made the mistake of getting married to a girl from Pakistan, thinking it was the right thing to do. I'm now moving away from the faith and cannot talk to anyone about this. Talking to my wife will not work, she is completely blinded by faith and will not understand at all. Wish it was easy to split up but we have two young children. I can't just put myself first in this situation. Really difficult position to be in so completely understand the guys situation in your vid. It is really depressing
You went to morocco didn't you xD
The leather cushions behind you, I have the same ones, but with the decoration of Chefchouen.
There are reasons he stopped believing. He could start questioning his wife saying he started to have doubts because of some issues and see how she can still believe, showing her that Islam doesn't make sense.
For instance, say that someone mentioned to him verse 33:53. Believers think that the Quran existed forever and was revealed to Muhammad. Then how to explain a verse that says to wait to be invited to go in Muhammad's house and leave quickly after eating, and that his wives couldn't marry anyone else after he dies? Isn't it obviously made up by an old guy who was jealous that his beautiful young wives were being looked at?
Or the verse allowing Muhammad unlimited number of wives? Another made up? How many more?
The wife will probably ask an imam for responses but those will certainly be flawed since there is no logical explanation other that Muhammad made up everything.
Maybe that way he can deconvert his wife.
this is not true actually the quran prevented mohammed from marrying more, there is a sura that came down when he showed interest in a woman.
@@wsfggf don't you see that Muhammad used "revelations" to get anything he wanted?
The sura that tells him not to marry one is because he didn't want to marry her and he needed an excuse to refuse.
Ok seriously, every family is different. It isnt only religion that people cant talk about it could literally be ANYTHING...there are parents that want their kids to be straight A students but they always get F and they cant talk to their parents..or you want a certain way for your son to grow up being a gentleman but he grows up bisexual getting women pregnant and getting STIs and passing them round...its not ONLY MUSLIMS gosh woman..chill out and be fair!
So basically he started his relationship with a lie just shows what a awful person he is and he should’ve been honest from the start he had no right to marry someone by lying to them that’s disgusting poor women n children I feel for them and they rather live without this lair they will have a better life with out this awful person
i am 37 years old ,, Pakistani man working in dubai, left islam 4 years ago, no one know in my community, i connot share to anyone, even i am oppressed to fasting in Ramadan month and prayers. still single and finding none muslim soulmate , willing to leave muslim community but failed.
This is what Edited and want to get more like, i see the small likes over there.
I'm sorry ,talk about something else, i can show you so many ways to be famous
I understand your husband was bad but does that mean all Muslim men are bad or islam for that matter?
I feel the same way like him. :(
Oh dear, plz take help of counselor and try meditation, I wish you come out of it
That’s funny with these ex Muslims they fear mankind than the one who created them
its abit of a sticky one still
do you know Shami his reccord 297 -0 white 297 TKO vs cristian speakers
Mimzy you ex Muslim?
Yeah she is
Alhamdulillah to be Muslim 🤲🤲..
I met an Ex-Muslim
Me: Do you know Surah Fatiha ?
Ex-Muslim: What's that mean?
Me: 😝😝😝😭😭😭😭🤪🤪🤪
You should give his email address to the police. You said he says he is married with three children! That’s illegal! 😂
GOOD ON THE WIFE. GIRL GO CORRECT YOURSELF YOU ARE NO INTELLIGENT PERSON TO GIVE ANY ADVICE. YEAH MIND PLAYING TRICKS IS SHITAIN 🤦🏼♀️ I HIGHLY ADVISE THAT MAN HUSBAND GO PRAY LOL!! Ask God to guide you n help you.
WTF??
It's like not touching fire but playing with fire.😂😂🤣
Return to Allah. Thank you sister may I ask why you left?
M J Does it look like I’m talking to you?
Who r to give advice? You r not qualified go and enjoy u desires u sold u hereafter for a UA-cam Chanel
Great video Mimzy 👍 Is that a onesie your in? 😂
Prince Goro yup 😊 ♥️
I say get divorced.
I’m sure she’ll agree as I don’t think she wants to continue screwing a disbeliever.
Let the wife take custody of the children so that they can grow up to be good muslims.
Divorce is a better option than suicide.
Win win situation for all
I would say make kids atheist secreltly . More reasonable people on earth !
Born Free no, he should actually use islam against her! He is the leader of the household; she should obey and respect his wishes. If she doesn’t accept his leadership towards integration, she should be reminded that the children will be taken from her in a sharia divorce. She should also be held accountable that she believes koran 4:34 is the word of god😉
@@acfatemi hahahaha
AC Fatemi
The guy is unstable.
I bet the courts sharia or secular will grant the mother custody 😉
Born Free he should move the family to a no-muslim neighbourhood far away from mosques and family. Put the kids in a christian school (catholic). Find a very devout christian woman to befriend the wife. Learn the koran and hadiths and challenge the wife on those that are obviously impossible in a western society. Ask the wife if she would like to move to the Gulf states or to Pakistan or Afghanistan or Iran .....
For every ex muslim ( APOSTATE) ALLAAH swt replaces 100 reverts...
Allaahu Akbar...
Is Islam growing due to converts or due to having kids born in the faith ? Also if converts where is the evidence that there are not 100 leaving for every convert?
@@family-peace-love
Allaah will never ever let ISLAM decrease, haven't you read the noble Qur'an??? Of course you haven't... you get your knowledge from BBC1 or is it non muslim sites??? Don't worry I already know the answer...
@@freemanontheland507 ex Muslim here , I was part of it all for many years
@@family-peace-love what made you an apostate? Which sect was you following out of 73?
Know that you've left, what's your purpose in LIFE? please don't tell me you're gonna contradict the noble Qur'an??
@@freemanontheland507 I'm reading the bible now and call myself a Christian following Jesus but not attending a church as I cant find one that I agree with, as like in Islam there are sects and different ideas in christianity and I just wanna follow Jesus as I feel he was more than just a prophet and he defeated death, nobody else has. God made him stand out.
Is better to believe in God than to be an atheist
You don’t understand what does atheist mean
So sad
Coconut lady
My dear brothers and sisters,
If you have any problems in your life including Islam religion. The best solution is pray (Talk) to the real God Jesus Christ. If you are a sincere and Righteous person, real God Jesus Christ will help you. This is hundred percent true. Because, real God Jesus Christ is our best friend and heavenly father. You don't have to spend money to fix life issues. You just need to spend time with real God Jesus Christ. 🙏✌️❤️👍
I believe in the god emperor of mankind and his 13 sons. Praise the Omnissiah
He’s obviously struggling with mental health issues apostasy doesn’t even seem to be the real issue. Also that he should contemplate an alternative reality to being with his wife ?Appalling advice to suggest it’s ok to break up somebody’s home. You might want to consider your words more carefully going forward even choosing to air this email in a video is diabolical give his details to the police his mental welfare should be safeguarded you’re clearly trying to unhinge it further. Wow just wow
These situations make nonsense of the idea Islam is pro family values.
Praise be to Allah
The Muslim should praise Allah, may He be exalted, and thank Him for the blessing of Islam and right guidance, for it is the greatest of blessings, as Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):
“Is he who was dead (without Faith by ignorance and disbelief) and We gave him life (by knowledge and Faith) and set for him a light (of Belief) whereby he can walk amongst men, like him who is in the darkness (of disbelief, polytheism and hypocrisy) from which he can never come out? Thus it is made fair-seeming to the disbelievers that which they used to do”
[al-An‘aam 6:122]
@@freemanontheland507 #Don't believe everything you read!
@Dave 1977 But the Koran says Muhammad was a great guy. Check mate : P