There is so much apology around guessing someone as a virgin. It's not an insult. Someone is allowed to be a virgin...Your value is not wholly based on sex.
Statistically, being a virgin heavily correlates with being unattractive and/or unsuccesful. That's why in most cases it's fully logical to take it as an insult. Of course there are exceptions like the virgin in this video, but let's not ignore reality and act like there isn't a load of completely valid logic at play here.
@@Sapphic_here I think that the "king" part comes in because of the not breaking up over waiting, it shows that he values having that person in his life more than getting laid.
The most important thing here is that losing your viriginity young isnt cool, its awkward, sometimes interesting and fun, sometimes scary. Just go at your own pace without feeling pressured by others around you.
@@Newton-Reuther The idea of breaking hymens and shit is definitely bullshit, but I still think the concept of someone simply not having had intimate experience with another for whatever reason, is still valid and could be considered "virginity". Especially since, most probably, you're not gonna be good the first time and need experience, so someone being a "virgin" just means they probably aren't a 100% sure how to do things yet. Really just in a pragmatic sense, without all the purity and innocence bs lol Teens aren't innocent, they're inexperienced - as they should be! 😂
@@Newton-Reuther its a weird phrase but having penetrative sex isnt a social construct. that would really only come into play when it comes to stuff like oral, fingering, and sex toys. sexual but not quite penetration (well fingering is but not with a penis). and then there are some women who may never engage PIV penetration but still have "lesbian sex" whatever that may be. if you've had anal sex you're not a virgin but I can see why someone might think they are in terms of "traditional" sex. I know this sounds weird but basically I'm saying that 'losing your virginity' may be a silly phrase but having sex isn't a social construct. Sexual activity outside of PIV and anal penetration is where people get confused and question if they are still a virgin. But if it matters that much to anyone ask yourself..have you engaged in any type of sexual acivity with someone? well ok then u can yell DOESN'T MATTER. I JUST HAD SEX! depending on what your goal is, it's better than nothing 🤷♀
lol bs. ppl in grad school and all walks of life have sex if they want it. I think he just hasn't met someone he really wants to do it with or gets rejected alot
@@MsDudette21 He didn't say he doesn't have time, he said it's a waste of his time. It's really not hard to get laid if that's the end goal lol he seems very charismatic as well
Think we need to stop thinking anything over 18 is late lol. That one guy kept saying he was a late bloomer at 22 whilst standing in front of a 23yr and 36yr virgin and people who "lost it" at 24
I agree 100%. When did it become normal to think you should be a teenager and lose it? It seems Western society has truly misguided young people about sex and not made it about sekf-worth, love, waiting until you are ready etc. 22 is not a "late bloomer" in my eyes and people should be encouraged more to wait, be in love, an adult etc.
@@vaw796honestly wild that minors can't watch videos on the hub but are shamed if they don't do the very thing they're not allowed to watch. sex is inherently an adult act, i'm not gonna sit here and act like western society glorifying losing your v card as a child is an acceptable thing to do.
@@vaw796 Nothing to do with western culture. That's the age where hormones start developing and you start to want sex. At least they don't stone you for it like eastern cultures
As an asexual person, I really loved everything the guy in the green sweater said. No I’m not assuming he is asexual. I’m just saying that I feel represented by his views on sex in this video
The older woman with the bright shirt is so energetic! I love it! You can definitely tell she is an empath, she’s listening to every word everyone says. And is so positive the whole vid. Need more people like her ❤
I love that this shows that everyone has their own time and when they are ready or want to. The only important thing is that both want it and feel ready. And there is no specific look of someone who hasn't had sex
I started having sex too early and because it was with a boyfriend, I didn't feel like I had the option to stop. I wish I had known that I could have just stopped until I was really ready.
Yes, and just remember that this still is an option in any relationship you are in moving forward. Regardless if you lost it or not, it does not matter, you always have the right to wait until you are ready on your own terms.
Tell me about it. My first boyfriend had a way stronger sex drive than I did and he always pressured me to have more sex than I wanted. If I didn't,he'd go ahead and like a bunch of photos of women in their underwear and such. I always felt like I wasn't enough. It's not worth staying in relationships like that.
ftr, young people are having sex less than previous generations. so while the average age to first have sex is in the late teens, its not as many as you think.
@@MsDudette21 Absolutely FLASE , young men are having less sex whiel their average age of losing it is 24 while young WOMEN are having MORE SEX with older men and their avg age of losing it is 16 !~
Wait why was everyone glorifying having intercourse at such a young age in this video… you’re still a kid when ur 14-16 and that innocence is still there, I feel like it shouldn’t be promoted as “cool” or “suave” to have sex when you’re still a child.
@@leahgarcia5727 Sex by teenagers (for other teenagers) has been glorified in the U.S. for decades. There's a reason "virgin" was popularized as an insult by young people
@@leahgarcia5727 I'm not asking about age of consent, which varies depending on state and country. I'm asking about this idea of so-called innocence being gone simply because one has sex.
so weird that people equate having sex early to being cool. maybe its a culture thing but it makes absolutely no sense in any way to me. the dude said theyre well adjusted ?? just because they had sex a few years early than some people ?? make it make sense (you cant).
i think he means they are more social. which makes sense. alot of kids are having their first kiss in their early teens but others are already having sex?! lol thats wild. doesnt mean someone not having sex then has bad social skills. just that to be having sex that young odds are you are pretty social.
what he said about the clock ticking explains his point better, when u do have sex later than average it feels like ur a step behind, obv not for everyone but mostly yes
@@vlvtgoldmineIt is not a step behind, but the wrong message Western society has given out. A teen under adult age should not have sex. It's the oversexualised, damaging, horrible mess in this society that has made people think that way.
being in your 20s is not "late bloomer' thats normal, lets stop normalizing children and teenager's having intercourse bro its such an adult activity 😭😭
@@superspirit2851 no ?? most people dont have it in their teens and I'm not having anything my way what😭😭 So by your logic it's okay for 13 and 14 year olds to be having sex and its normal? we should not be normalizing junior high and freshman in high school having sex, its unsafe and a very mentally mature situation...
@@ChrisTheAspergerGuy it is pushing, saying that if you haven't had sex by 20 your behind everyone else....20 is still super young and pushing people to have sex when they're not ready or emotionally mature isnt okay...
@@ChrisTheAspergerGuy The op said "too young" which is a negative value claim, whereas statistical normalcy is value neutral (see: violent crime was normal through most of history and still is elsewhere). Doing it earlier is a fast life history strategy which is bad for higher human values and progress, and adolescents/minors can't consent. Therefore it should be treated as immoral and illegal.
@@ChrisTheAspergerGuy Yeah I do logic and facts, not buzzwords. You are strawmanning me as I did not make that comparison, but applied your principle of normalcy as justification for rightness/wrongness (like an appeal to nature) to another example as counter to your principle. Shouldn't need to, but obviously normalcy is not a moral or legal justification and shouldn't need countering in the first place.
11:56 that’s the thing what your definition of sex is can be different for others because some people don't even like or want penetrative sex and so on.
Medically, any sex act (digital, oral, PiV, etc.) is sex and makes one sexually active and risks STIs. That's the most reasonable and inclusive definition.
Stay true to yourself and what is right for you, because it's your body which nobody has a right to dictate about. Waiting for someone you love is much better.
As someone who was a hyper sexual teenager that lost their virginity at 14, seeing videos like this remind me you never know exactly how someone is. They could look like the most innocent person in the world and have 60 bodies.
I’m 23 and lost mine a few months ago. Just never felt like the right circumstance. Ended up loosing it with an ex/old best friend of mine and we gave a relationship another shot. Been going strong since and sex is great. Was worth the wait
I felt like an old virgin when I was 19. Luckily I felt secure with my virginity at the time. I waited until I got in a serious relationship at 21 and I am really happy I waited. I knew my body and what I liked, so even when my partner was no virgin I still could take the lead and did so. Now we are married and he was my only one and I also really like that! I do not need to have had that experience with other people.
right!! it’s just a super immature mindset to have, seems he hasn’t ever grown out of it despite having had sex already. having sex at a much younger age isn’t something that should be normalized either.
@@only_fair23Do you feel good about trying to shame someone? Grow up, stop judging others and realise people should not be mocked for being a virgin at 26. It is disturbing this society pushes a norm to lose virginity by 20. People go at THEIR pace and imo it should the law that you have to be 18 and over.
trauma dumping: had my first se*ual experience at 21 but the guy couldn’t get hard and im pretty sure he didn’t like how i looked so that traumatized me cause my self esteem was already -100 at the time and now it’s been almost 2 years and i’m still scared of dating hehe. I don’t want to scare anyone but I think if you’re extremely insecure / sensitive girly like I was I would advise you with all my heart to wait until you’re with a partner u feel 100% comfortable with to be intimate and know that he likes you and not a guy you have a crush on and ~hope~ it will lead to something more. I mean that’s probably common knowledge but for some reason I didn’t listen to this advice. I had to pay for it😃 . My mental health was kind of destroyed afterwards I felt so much shame and just regret. I never thought my first experience would influence me that much🤡 I still get flashbacks to the whole situation and dealing with it has cost me so much energy.
just so you know, this happens to some guys for a lot of reasons. Happens to me most of the times when I try to be intimate with someone for the first time, ESPECIALLY if I like them a lot (because then I get more nervous and don't want to disappoint). We can't control it, and you shouldn't take it personally because it's truly not usually related to attraction (in fact even if someone isn't attracted to you, they can still get hard). This is just how male biology works
@@Alina-zx6nn no problem. Just remember that it's not a good feeling to have your body betray you like this. if a partner told me that she was traumatized by my body not working the way i wanted it to, I would probably be pretty hurt by that-it would make me feel defective or like I can't be good enough. On the other hand if someone is really sweet and understanding about it, that's a huge green flag. Just something to consider in the future:)
Although I came from a conservative (not religious but sex was a no-no) family, I was always in touch with my sexuality. I was super awkward in highschool and wasn't ready for sex, but not out of fear. I just didn't feel it was the right time. When I turned 19, I had sex for the first time with a friend and it was really great, because I felt I really wanted it. I'm really glad I waited until it felt right for me, and didn't make myself do things I wasn't mentally prepered for.
this is really weird because i'm about to turn 14, and the idea of sex is literally so foreign to me, the idea of DATING, is wild to me. but this girl is out here fudging showering with her bf and doing it on the floor at a hotel 😭
Hahahaha ikr. Even when I lost my virginity (I was 19) I couldn’t imagine showering with my boyfriend of 7 months until at least 5 more months later 😂😂 I trusted him, but I had to take many baby steps first 😂😂
Pls omg ur just a baby don't feel pressured to do anything just because ppl around you are doing stuff. Figure things out on your own time, ask questions and do research on anything you're unsure about
This is wild to me! I was 22 when i lost my virginity, and I actually almost fainted during it (oops). A few years later and I realized I am probably on the asexual spectrum, so that explains a lot haha - but very few guys out there are like me
I'm on the asexual spectrum too. 💯 I just don't have a desire and don't ever want one either. I think there's probably more girls than guys that are asexual.
I was 15 and had spent the night with a friend. I woke up to her brother on top of me, his hand over my mouth, and when he was done, walked away. I never told anyone ❤
11:56 that’s the thing what your definition of sex is can be different for others because some people don't even like or want penetrative sex and so on
the act of having sex or not having it is not what makes you any of the characteristics you find yourself to be insecure about. the pressure of not being a virgin just exacerbates your existing insecurities. there are people on both sides of spectrum, having tons of sex and none at all, that have insecurities related to self image, desirability, and attraction
having more sex however _can_ help with existing insecurities if you communicate well and have a good time, that can increase self confidence and willingness to see yourself as desirable and attractive. however a bunch of bad sex can easily have the opposite effect
@@billiealexander7484 Just because people can do it doesn't mean they should. That's just to young. Also people sleeping with like 40+ people have no loyalty.
@@billiealexander7484 1. If you plan at trying to come at someone, learn how to spell! It's **doesn't** , not *does!* 2. I'll always find weird and gross how people are quick to falsely call someone judgmental when they, themselves did the very judging they speak of! You over there talking a whirlwind of BS about judging while doing the very judging you speak of at me! Now, how that work? 🤔🤦 Why does what I said matter so much to you if it **doesn't** affect you??? 3. I said WTF I said! Don't like it? Cope! 4. People have every right to judge someone who had no problem openly admitting to their nasty-ass ways! If you don't want to be judged because you decided to sleep with 40+ people, either don't sleep with 40+ people or keep that information to yourself! Simple! 5. The title (and topic) of the video was: "Guess what age I lost my virginity." Who the hell forced anyone to announce their body-count to the world? Men judge women for having a high body-count! Me as a woman, I'm well within my right to do the same when it comes to men!
I wish there was mention of the fact that there is a legal age for sex, though it varies, especially with the mention of a 14 year old experience. 14 isn't legal in any modern law as I know
I really respect the guy in the green sweatshirt for just doing his thing regardless of what society thinks. Get that PHD!
Yes ma'am
I wonder what he's getting his PhD in!
@@seaslug4814right!!
There is so much apology around guessing someone as a virgin. It's not an insult. Someone is allowed to be a virgin...Your value is not wholly based on sex.
Can we also stop using the word virgin. It's religious and bullshit in nature.
Also, we all have different values. Some people want to wait till marriage. Don't get why its seen as bad to not have sex.
And some just don' want to have it ever. That's fine too.
This!! I'm a virgin and it's smth I'm not ashamed of! I wish it was more normalized bc the pressure to have sex is so frustrating.
Statistically, being a virgin heavily correlates with being unattractive and/or unsuccesful. That's why in most cases it's fully logical to take it as an insult. Of course there are exceptions like the virgin in this video, but let's not ignore reality and act like there isn't a load of completely valid logic at play here.
The woman in black is THE WOMAN✨✨✨✨ She looks like a goddess
shes soooo beautiful i had to pause my screen in awr ngl
I agree she's so beautiful
Seriously like black goddess all the way
She is radiant. 🥹
@@rememberme8889😅
"She wanted to wait some and I was fine with waiting" king
I mean this should be normal to wait when both want to and if you can’t wait that long you should break up
bare minimum
@@jejsmsjjensmsjs2192 fr you are not a "King/Queen" for that
The bar is in hell.
@@Sapphic_here I think that the "king" part comes in because of the not breaking up over waiting, it shows that he values having that person in his life more than getting laid.
The guy that's only been with one person... he about to get a line.
and I'm definitely in that line lmaoooooo
@@duhmarrright, I was just trying to find his social media lmao
and i'm at the front
@@faithjjohnsonpls did u find it😭😭
@@faithjjohnsonsame 😩
The most important thing here is that losing your viriginity young isnt cool, its awkward, sometimes interesting and fun, sometimes scary. Just go at your own pace without feeling pressured by others around you.
@dakotac180 I think the more important take away is that virginity isn't real.
@@Newton-Reuther The idea of breaking hymens and shit is definitely bullshit, but I still think the concept of someone simply not having had intimate experience with another for whatever reason, is still valid and could be considered "virginity". Especially since, most probably, you're not gonna be good the first time and need experience, so someone being a "virgin" just means they probably aren't a 100% sure how to do things yet. Really just in a pragmatic sense, without all the purity and innocence bs lol Teens aren't innocent, they're inexperienced - as they should be! 😂
@@Newton-Reuther its a weird phrase but having penetrative sex isnt a social construct. that would really only come into play when it comes to stuff like oral, fingering, and sex toys. sexual but not quite penetration (well fingering is but not with a penis). and then there are some women who may never engage PIV penetration but still have "lesbian sex" whatever that may be. if you've had anal sex you're not a virgin but I can see why someone might think they are in terms of "traditional" sex.
I know this sounds weird but basically I'm saying that 'losing your virginity' may be a silly phrase but having sex isn't a social construct. Sexual activity outside of PIV and anal penetration is where people get confused and question if they are still a virgin. But if it matters that much to anyone ask yourself..have you engaged in any type of sexual acivity with someone? well ok then u can yell DOESN'T MATTER. I JUST HAD SEX! depending on what your goal is, it's better than nothing
🤷♀
If losing virginity in vrchat was a count very young double numbers ( exposed myself )
"I haven't had sex cause I think it's a waste of my time"😭😭 I've never been so seen....
Same..😂
lol bs. ppl in grad school and all walks of life have sex if they want it. I think he just hasn't met someone he really wants to do it with or gets rejected alot
@@MsDudette21i think he's just not interested in sex. not everyone has the same urges/desires as everyone else
@@MsDudette21 He didn't say he doesn't have time, he said it's a waste of his time. It's really not hard to get laid if that's the end goal lol he seems very charismatic as well
He is lying and coping. He has no game.
The woman with black and white hair has such a beautiful and like alluring voice
Aww shucks~ 🤭🫳
@IffyTheTiffy
It’s going to sound strange, but this is exactly the pace I aspire to talk at. 🫰🏼
@@IffyTheTiffy What is your instagram TikTok or anything I need to follow this doll
@@IffyTheTiffyu
Think we need to stop thinking anything over 18 is late lol. That one guy kept saying he was a late bloomer at 22 whilst standing in front of a 23yr and 36yr virgin and people who "lost it" at 24
I lost it at 23, and I’m still a late bloomer. Very weird for me to bring up actually lol
I agree 100%. When did it become normal to think you should be a teenager and lose it? It seems Western society has truly misguided young people about sex and not made it about sekf-worth, love, waiting until you are ready etc. 22 is not a "late bloomer" in my eyes and people should be encouraged more to wait, be in love, an adult etc.
@@vaw796honestly wild that minors can't watch videos on the hub but are shamed if they don't do the very thing they're not allowed to watch. sex is inherently an adult act, i'm not gonna sit here and act like western society glorifying losing your v card as a child is an acceptable thing to do.
@@vaw796 Nothing to do with western culture. That's the age where hormones start developing and you start to want sex. At least they don't stone you for it like eastern cultures
That woman in black is ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS ❤❤
As an asexual person, I really loved everything the guy in the green sweater said. No I’m not assuming he is asexual. I’m just saying that I feel represented by his views on sex in this video
I also loved him, especially when he said: "I consider sex just a waste of my time" 😂
The older woman with the bright shirt is so energetic! I love it! You can definitely tell she is an empath, she’s listening to every word everyone says. And is so positive the whole vid. Need more people like her ❤
TOTALLYYY ! I loved her
Yessssss, want to be friends w her rn!!
Thanks for having me on Cut! Love all the comments saying it helped people be more secure in their ideas of sex and virginity.
the last person gives off such nice, genuine, cool vibes
also, the virgin guesser YAS GO GET THAT PHD! you are the coolest of them all!
oh my! the girl in the plaid bow dress is soo cute!! i'm so obsessed with the entire look!
right?! I'm surprised not more people in the comments are talking about her!
Everybody had a crush on the virgin guy 😅
True tea 😅
He's not a virgin though. 😕
He said he was 18.
@@marissa._ They're talking about the guesser in the green sweater
I don’t blame them, he’s fine as hell 😭
Handsome but pass.
I love that this shows that everyone has their own time and when they are ready or want to. The only important thing is that both want it and feel ready. And there is no specific look of someone who hasn't had sex
the black woman is gorgeous
I started having sex too early and because it was with a boyfriend, I didn't feel like I had the option to stop. I wish I had known that I could have just stopped until I was really ready.
Yes, and just remember that this still is an option in any relationship you are in moving forward. Regardless if you lost it or not, it does not matter, you always have the right to wait until you are ready on your own terms.
Tell me about it. My first boyfriend had a way stronger sex drive than I did and he always pressured me to have more sex than I wanted. If I didn't,he'd go ahead and like a bunch of photos of women in their underwear and such. I always felt like I wasn't enough. It's not worth staying in relationships like that.
11:55, bro in the back staring so menacingly
i read your comment then went and looked.... and i actually cackled haha
I hate how if you lose it past 18, you’re shy or considered lame
4:30 that lady at the end of line’s reaction 🤣
I was genuinely shook if ya couldn’t already tell! 😂
@@dominiquek2808 i can tell 😂 bless you
@@dominiquek2808you’re so beautiful! I was looking at you whenever thr camera panned to show the whole
Line 😂😂💕
@@thatgirl2501Thank you so much love 🥰💜🫶🏽
@@dominiquek2808 u should watch some of the other videos on here. one guy said he's had sex with over 1000 people! 100% chance he's got HPV lol
Should have done the normal cards with the final reveal in the end, that's way more fun to watch.
I like this better tbh. When they do it the other way around I always forget who everyone is by the time they reveal it.
That woman in all black asking all the questions is absolutely adorable!! ❤
as a fellow 23 year old grad school student virgin, i feel seen LMAO
ftr, young people are having sex less than previous generations. so while the average age to first have sex is in the late teens, its not as many as you think.
@@MsDudette21 Absolutely FLASE , young men are having less sex whiel their average age of losing it is 24 while young WOMEN are having MORE SEX with older men and their avg age of losing it is 16 !~
My virgin self is so intrigued watching this
Wait why was everyone glorifying having intercourse at such a young age in this video… you’re still a kid when ur 14-16 and that innocence is still there, I feel like it shouldn’t be promoted as “cool” or “suave” to have sex when you’re still a child.
What's this "innocence" thing people always talk about? Does getting laid at a young age suddenly make someone a criminal or something? lol.
It's 2024, don't be ageist.
@@ChrisTheAspergerGuy of course not, but there’s an age of consent for a reason…
@@leahgarcia5727 Sex by teenagers (for other teenagers) has been glorified in the U.S. for decades. There's a reason "virgin" was popularized as an insult by young people
@@leahgarcia5727 I'm not asking about age of consent, which varies depending on state and country. I'm asking about this idea of so-called innocence being gone simply because one has sex.
so weird that people equate having sex early to being cool. maybe its a culture thing but it makes absolutely no sense in any way to me. the dude said theyre well adjusted ?? just because they had sex a few years early than some people ?? make it make sense (you cant).
i think he means they are more social. which makes sense. alot of kids are having their first kiss in their early teens but others are already having sex?! lol thats wild. doesnt mean someone not having sex then has bad social skills. just that to be having sex that young odds are you are pretty social.
what he said about the clock ticking explains his point better, when u do have sex later than average it feels like ur a step behind, obv not for everyone but mostly yes
@@vlvtgoldmineIt is not a step behind, but the wrong message Western society has given out. A teen under adult age should not have sex. It's the oversexualised, damaging, horrible mess in this society that has made people think that way.
0:50 why did that feel like a scene from barbie
Hi virgin guesser ☺️☺️☺️
HAHAHA THE HI VIRGIN GUESSER WAS SOO BARBIE CODED
"I can't believe youre a virgin because youre so beautiful" is that a compliment or an insult?!
I’m sorry but 14 is crazy
13 for me 🥲
@@billypremo3045Do you wish you had waited?
being in your 20s is not "late bloomer' thats normal, lets stop normalizing children and teenager's having intercourse bro its such an adult activity 😭😭
@@ppoisonousfr0g sure... but saying that your a late bloomer In your twenties is pushing people to fo stuff younger when they're not ready
it is a late bloomer most people have it in their teens. Stop trying to have it your way and accept reality
@@twistedflower It's not pushing anything. It's just an acknowledgement of how life usually goes with this sort of thing.
@@superspirit2851 no ?? most people dont have it in their teens and I'm not having anything my way what😭😭 So by your logic it's okay for 13 and 14 year olds to be having sex and its normal? we should not be normalizing junior high and freshman in high school having sex, its unsafe and a very mentally mature situation...
@@ChrisTheAspergerGuy it is pushing, saying that if you haven't had sex by 20 your behind everyone else....20 is still super young and pushing people to have sex when they're not ready or emotionally mature isnt okay...
8:15 this man needs to be protected at all costs bruh.
5:51 the flirting 😭🙏
Nah fr the best part 😭😂😂😂
lady in the yellow was eating it up
the girl guesser is so stunning i'd faint if i saw her
I'm 41 and I lost my virginity when I was 16. Looking back now, I think 16 is sooo young.... way too young. 😂
No it isn't. It's quite normal. The rest of who couldn't get laid as teens should've been so lucky. Embrace it.
@@ChrisTheAspergerGuy The op said "too young" which is a negative value claim, whereas statistical normalcy is value neutral (see: violent crime was normal through most of history and still is elsewhere). Doing it earlier is a fast life history strategy which is bad for higher human values and progress, and adolescents/minors can't consent. Therefore it should be treated as immoral and illegal.
@@soft-spun The fact that you compared teen sex with violent crime is all I need to know that you're full of shit.
@@soft-spun I don't know what this word salad is, but you lost me when you compared teens boning to violent crime.
@@ChrisTheAspergerGuy Yeah I do logic and facts, not buzzwords. You are strawmanning me as I did not make that comparison, but applied your principle of normalcy as justification for rightness/wrongness (like an appeal to nature) to another example as counter to your principle. Shouldn't need to, but obviously normalcy is not a moral or legal justification and shouldn't need countering in the first place.
I love how open these people are like damn.
the girl in plaids and the guy with one body count looks SOOOO cute together like i kept getting distracted with both of them in the background lol
11:56 that’s the thing what your definition of sex is can be different for others
because some people don't even like or want penetrative sex and so on.
Medically, any sex act (digital, oral, PiV, etc.) is sex and makes one sexually active and risks STIs. That's the most reasonable and inclusive definition.
"Instead of countin bitches i count dollars
Ride high Chevy Impala"-Denzel Currey, green sweatshirt guy (prob)
I'm a 24 yo virgin waiting for the right guy, I just haven't met him yet
I hope you find him there's a lotta good guys out there I hope he cherish and respect your body the same way you do to yourself
Stay true to yourself and what is right for you, because it's your body which nobody has a right to dictate about. Waiting for someone you love is much better.
As someone who was a hyper sexual teenager that lost their virginity at 14, seeing videos like this remind me you never know exactly how someone is. They could look like the most innocent person in the world and have 60 bodies.
Thanks for having me! Filming with this group of people was a lot of fun and such an interesting topic 😂
I’m 23 and lost mine a few months ago. Just never felt like the right circumstance. Ended up loosing it with an ex/old best friend of mine and we gave a relationship another shot. Been going strong since and sex is great. Was worth the wait
The long hair guy has such an expressive body language, I love that!
I felt like an old virgin when I was 19. Luckily I felt secure with my virginity at the time. I waited until I got in a serious relationship at 21 and I am really happy I waited. I knew my body and what I liked, so even when my partner was no virgin I still could take the lead and did so.
Now we are married and he was my only one and I also really like that! I do not need to have had that experience with other people.
i wish i hadn’t done it so young. i was 14 when i lost my virginity. i regret it so much.
I’m curious as to why you regret it?
Absolutely obsessed with everyone in this video! Such a good lineup 🙌
Thank you 😊🙏🏽
@@dominiquek2808 where can we follow y’all?!
Thanks :)
My god the woman guessing is so stunning I can hardly focus on what they’re saying 😅
13:05 loved the call out, this guy’s whole vibe was so uncomfortable the entire time
Nah he is chill. Just wasn’t into that himself. Like a guy trying to understand female issues, sometimes you can’t say much but yes, ok 🤷♂️
right!! it’s just a super immature mindset to have, seems he hasn’t ever grown out of it despite having had sex already. having sex at a much younger age isn’t something that should be normalized either.
I misread the title as 'guess who I lost my virginity to'.
I think that'd make for a fun video, trying to pair people up!
6:29 shes soooo cute omgggg T_T i love her
What
This video is reassuring and validating, ngl. Thanks
This was so much fun to do AND to watch! Thank you again @CUT 😍
Describing yourself as a "glazed up donut hole" is wiiiiild 😂😂😂
I wish they would’ve had more people that had sex for the first time at older ages like 25+! Maybe part 2
The last woman with curly brown hair is SO beautiful
As a 26 year old virgin…i LOVE THESE VIDEOS!!!!!
As a 32 year old Virgin I find them depressing 😅
Haha, imagine being a 26 year old virgin, couldn't be me
I'm a 27 year old virgin
@@only_fair23Do you feel good about trying to shame someone? Grow up, stop judging others and realise people should not be mocked for being a virgin at 26. It is disturbing this society pushes a norm to lose virginity by 20. People go at THEIR pace and imo it should the law that you have to be 18 and over.
I'm proud of all of you vrigins. It's safer for you this way.
trauma dumping: had my first se*ual experience at 21 but the guy couldn’t get hard and im pretty sure he didn’t like how i looked so that traumatized me cause my self esteem was already -100 at the time and now it’s been almost 2 years and i’m still scared of dating hehe. I don’t want to scare anyone but I think if you’re extremely insecure / sensitive girly like I was I would advise you with all my heart to wait until you’re with a partner u feel 100% comfortable with to be intimate and know that he likes you and not a guy you have a crush on and ~hope~ it will lead to something more. I mean that’s probably common knowledge but for some reason I didn’t listen to this advice. I had to pay for it😃 . My mental health was kind of destroyed afterwards I felt so much shame and just regret. I never thought my first experience would influence me that much🤡 I still get flashbacks to the whole situation and dealing with it has cost me so much energy.
The guy could have never nervous as well, or stressed. Or he smoked/vaped. All those are contributors in erectile dysfunction
just so you know, this happens to some guys for a lot of reasons. Happens to me most of the times when I try to be intimate with someone for the first time, ESPECIALLY if I like them a lot (because then I get more nervous and don't want to disappoint). We can't control it, and you shouldn't take it personally because it's truly not usually related to attraction (in fact even if someone isn't attracted to you, they can still get hard). This is just how male biology works
@@neve6772 thank u :)
Guys can’t get hard when nervous…
@@Alina-zx6nn no problem. Just remember that it's not a good feeling to have your body betray you like this. if a partner told me that she was traumatized by my body not working the way i wanted it to, I would probably be pretty hurt by that-it would make me feel defective or like I can't be good enough. On the other hand if someone is really sweet and understanding about it, that's a huge green flag. Just something to consider in the future:)
I raised my hand when the one guy asked if anyone wanted to add to his body count 😂 he fine 😍
omg that last bisexual woman was GORGEOUSssss
the girl with the bows is so pretty omfg
Although I came from a conservative (not religious but sex was a no-no) family, I was always in touch with my sexuality. I was super awkward in highschool and wasn't ready for sex, but not out of fear. I just didn't feel it was the right time. When I turned 19, I had sex for the first time with a friend and it was really great, because I felt I really wanted it. I'm really glad I waited until it felt right for me, and didn't make myself do things I wasn't mentally prepered for.
I got everybody beat. I lost my virginity at 39 ☺️☺️
I really liked the last girl! I love how she brought up the fact that he lost it but in a curious way.
0:01 the vid starts here btw
I hate this new shi people are doing, almost more than the push up shit lmao
ty vro
This passed, pls stop
0:00 no this is
GOAT'D thx bro 😢
“im a busy person!” REAL😭😭
this is really weird because i'm about to turn 14, and the idea of sex is literally so foreign to me, the idea of DATING, is wild to me. but this girl is out here fudging showering with her bf and doing it on the floor at a hotel 😭
Tbh if I could go back I would tell my younger self to wait
Hahahaha ikr. Even when I lost my virginity (I was 19) I couldn’t imagine showering with my boyfriend of 7 months until at least 5 more months later 😂😂 I trusted him, but I had to take many baby steps first 😂😂
Don't do that shit dawg. Just live your life.
Pls omg ur just a baby don't feel pressured to do anything just because ppl around you are doing stuff. Figure things out on your own time, ask questions and do research on anything you're unsure about
This is wild to me! I was 22 when i lost my virginity, and I actually almost fainted during it (oops). A few years later and I realized I am probably on the asexual spectrum, so that explains a lot haha - but very few guys out there are like me
I was the opposite in age
@@Newton-Reuther-22?
I'm on the asexual spectrum too. 💯
I just don't have a desire and don't ever want one either. I think there's probably more girls than guys that are asexual.
@@Newton-Reuther
What's the opposite of 22?
The woman asking questions has such similar features to emily swallow, shes so gorgeous!
I was 15 and had spent the night with a friend. I woke up to her brother on top of me, his hand over my mouth, and when he was done, walked away. I never told anyone ❤
I’m so sorry you had to go through that, that’s absolutely terrible. sending love to you
You just described assault.
I'm sorry that happened to you.
I hope he got arrested and went to jail.
Erm...
I sincerely hope you have or are currently receiving therapy to process that 🫂
Oh I'm so sorry that happened 😞
11:56 that’s the thing what your definition of sex is can be different for others
because some people don't even like or want penetrative sex and so on
it's clear cut if you have straight sex. not so much when it's people of the same sex particualrly women. men it can be as well if they are into anal.
the trans woman’s story was so beautiful🥲
The black woman is so gorgeous 🤎😍
The gal in the pink and white stripped flannel shirt thing is giving Carrie Bradshaw but musician vibes.
Thank you honey 💁🏼♀️
so uh...im trying to fill out an application
The "nerd" is hot and funny bring him back lol
that one guy could not wait to talk about his body count 😂😂😂😂 like... no one asked? but ok 😂😂😂😂
I am 37 and a virgin. I am not waiting for anyone special
the act of having sex or not having it is not what makes you any of the characteristics you find yourself to be insecure about. the pressure of not being a virgin just exacerbates your existing insecurities. there are people on both sides of spectrum, having tons of sex and none at all, that have insecurities related to self image, desirability, and attraction
having more sex however _can_ help with existing insecurities if you communicate well and have a good time, that can increase self confidence and willingness to see yourself as desirable and attractive. however a bunch of bad sex can easily have the opposite effect
I will never understand how losing ur virginity at 22 is considered being a late bloomer.. I feel like this is just an American thing?
Its senior year of college so yes it is
being early to a cut video is crazy
It’s not asshole
If the nerd guy is single, I'm here for him!😂 Seems like such an uplifting person to be around...also, I'm somewhat of a nerd myself🤷♀️
5:30 she looks like a disappointed older sister
7:23 awww I love that her first time was with someone who loved her
I will always find it weird when someone loses their virginity before the age of 18.
Agreed. 💯
Plus, I'll always find it weird (*and gross*) to have messed around with 40+ people.
@marissa._ I'll always find it weird and gross to judge people you don't know based on their sex life. Why does it matter if it does affect you?
@@billiealexander7484 Just because people can do it doesn't mean they should. That's just to young. Also people sleeping with like 40+ people have no loyalty.
11000000000000000000%
@@billiealexander7484
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If you plan at trying to come at someone, learn how to spell! It's **doesn't** , not *does!*
2.
I'll always find weird and gross how people are quick to falsely call someone judgmental when they, themselves did the very judging they speak of! You over there talking a whirlwind of BS about judging while doing the very judging you speak of at me! Now, how that work? 🤔🤦
Why does what I said matter so much to you if it **doesn't** affect you???
3.
I said WTF I said! Don't like it? Cope!
4.
People have every right to judge someone who had no problem openly admitting to their nasty-ass ways! If you don't want to be judged because you decided to sleep with 40+ people, either don't sleep with 40+ people or keep that information to yourself! Simple!
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The title (and topic) of the video was: "Guess what age I lost my virginity." Who the hell forced anyone to announce their body-count to the world? Men judge women for having a high body-count! Me as a woman, I'm well within my right to do the same when it comes to men!
my jaw dropped when Anita came on. She's GORGEOUSSSSSSS
Not the I gotta pencil someone in 🤣
Lost my v card at 22 and got pregnant 😂 I was really dumb and drank too much he's turning one year old in two weeks 🎉❤
Both women in a black dress are AMAZING!!!
Nobody’s talking abt the fart 🤣🤣
I smelt the screen
lmao when?
ok the ad in the middle of the farts stop🤣🤣🤣
The guy with the peace sign necklace is so cute 😂
Is it me or the dude who lost it at 18 wanted the virgin dude??😭
Girl In the black dress so pretty and a great guesser
Split haired Filipina girl❤️ love them
Is it crazy i never heard a non black person say “coochie”🤣🤣
WHEN are they gonna drop ANITA’s @?!!
I wish there was mention of the fact that there is a legal age for sex, though it varies, especially with the mention of a 14 year old experience. 14 isn't legal in any modern law as I know
0:57 frame is crazy
Please make more lineup videos