Episode 57 l Merry Christmas | 2024 Wrap up l Lessons learnt

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  • @CyaMatomela
    @CyaMatomela 24 дні тому +24

    A girl/woman facing the world with the confidence and security that "ndiyithandwa mna ekhaya" is a major thing. Big up Ta' Mzubela.

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому

      🥲🥲🥲 this is beautiful 🤩 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @viwefutshie
    @viwefutshie 24 дні тому +15

    Everytime kusithwa to those who’ve been there since day one, ingathi kuthethwa nam personally 😎

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому

      Shout out to the Day 1s 😍😍😍 we love you loads V 💐

  • @vimbanincebakazi1440
    @vimbanincebakazi1440 24 дні тому +7

    Oh sibamba ngazo zozibini bo Dlamini. Yhini ukusigcina,ukusonwabisa,ukusikhuthaza nokusihlekisa unyaka wonke. You made 2024 bearable yhini. UThixo anisikelele❤❤

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому +1

      🥺🥺🥺 ahh man- thank you for this message and thank you for being with us on this wild ride - we love and appreciate you🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @ingodwetrust6900
    @ingodwetrust6900 23 дні тому +2

    Guys you had me in tears the way you are complimenting each other, it’s so beautiful 😍 😢

  • @ayandajudith3073
    @ayandajudith3073 14 днів тому

    Started watching mid Nov 2024 and I've finally caught up with the episodes cause I cannot resist you guys🥺😂!
    Love love the growth which is sooo evident when watching back to back, i.e when uTa Mzubhela said he's realized that he can be impatient kwi siblingship but at the same time uyawazi amaqhosha kaDad'wabo naxa engaziva right, uyamcenga uMaDlamin'omhle ade anyibilike and that's so beautiful to watch. Also, seeing uTalita striving to articulate herself better than the last episodes, considering her artistic mind is top tier!
    Suzive unqwena to have a siblingship like this! Keep up the great work, stay authentic and intentional in everything you do❤

  • @masixoleburu2799
    @masixoleburu2799 24 дні тому +7

    It's a wrap! Thank you guys for making us have something to look forward to every Friday. See you next year and take care.

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому

      Couldn’t have done it without you 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 thank you for the love

    • @masixoleburu2799
      @masixoleburu2799 24 дні тому

      @siblingthrivalry 🖤🖤🔥

  • @tandozzzl.o.v.e2113
    @tandozzzl.o.v.e2113 21 день тому +4

    Talitha I have learnt from you (from afar) to be confident and comfortable in your own skin. You are unapologetically you, and you know yourself. You don't seek validation.

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  19 днів тому

      🥺🥺🥺 That’s so beautiful to hear - thank you for sharing this.

  • @MpumeleloMsomi
    @MpumeleloMsomi 24 дні тому +5

    Yohh Talitha I love what you said about your brother setting the standard with the man you can date... I think good brothers are able to show you how good a man can get and that makes you as a girl to elevate your standard and not settle for less... I love you guys💓

  • @XoliPona
    @XoliPona 22 дні тому +3

    Thank you guys for making us laugh unyaka wonke 🤭🤣 kumnandi apha ♥️💃🏾

  • @bulelwamila1168
    @bulelwamila1168 24 дні тому +8

    Love it here...I can relate to what Thalitha said Kula point yokuqala.
    I broke up with a boy in high school ngoba wandinyola and kept thinking bazothini obhuti bam xandinomntu onje..When you know you're are loved at home maarn it's the best feeling ever..❤

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому

      Absolutely! Couldn’t agree more 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @prudancekgaladi9861
    @prudancekgaladi9861 24 дні тому +2

    You guys are so beautiful. Your auras, smiles etc. So so beautiful🥺❤️

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  19 днів тому

      Thank you for these words … we appreciate you 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @tshegofatsotsimane9997
    @tshegofatsotsimane9997 24 дні тому +3

    This has definitely been my favourite episode ❤

  • @malakhiwegrootboom3706
    @malakhiwegrootboom3706 24 дні тому +4

    Uuuhm ndiyakhala mos mna ngoku😭😭 You’ve come so far!❤️❤️ siyanibulela for bringing peace & wholesomeness to our Fridays😔🫂 MERRY HAPPY!!🎄🍾💃🏽💃🏽

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому

      🥺 aaah man. Thank you so so much for making it year… for all the love and everything - we appreciate you 🫶🏾

  • @_naomikr
    @_naomikr 24 дні тому +5

    Thank you guys for this amazing podcast ❤🎉 What an incredible year of ST!

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому

      🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 We are grateful for your support - thank you thank you

  • @libhongomdimali4593
    @libhongomdimali4593 23 дні тому +1

    Loooooooooove you both too much - would be blessed to have you as friends

  • @ifubeats4063
    @ifubeats4063 24 дні тому +2

    03:41 Zuko's still salty that Tah didnt answer his texts 😂😂 its adorable. You guys are close trust me 🤞🏾

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому +2

      Feel much much better - the efforts is definitely seen 🥲🥲🥲

  • @philamtshizana2754
    @philamtshizana2754 24 дні тому +2

    To bigger and better things next year
    may more doors open for growth.. Ningene kakuhle kunyaka omtsha keep thriving ❤️❤️

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому +1

      Thank you Phila - right back at you - we appreciate you 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @plee8686
    @plee8686 23 дні тому +1

    Thank you for bringing us so much joy ❤

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  19 днів тому

      Thank you for joining us on this journey - we appreciate you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @becomingmo_
    @becomingmo_ 23 дні тому +1

    thank YOU guys! literally have been the highlights of my weeks

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  19 днів тому

      That's so sweet! We're glad to be a part of your week 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @brendapeacock4197
    @brendapeacock4197 15 днів тому

    I absolutely love you guys. I met you by chance a few weeks ago as a Xhosa girl raised in a colored community. I have learned so much. Subscribed and going back to watch all your episodes. Also introduced all my friends to the podcast ❤

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  14 днів тому

      Wow that's amazing - love that you're connecting with the content! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 thank you for the love 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @vuyolwethuntabeni9262
    @vuyolwethuntabeni9262 15 днів тому +1

    Only getting to watch this now because bendisezilalni 😂❤ Ohhh hayi mahn, I love you siblings!!🎉❤ It's always a pleasure to make time for this podcast.❤

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  14 днів тому

      Happy you got to catch up on it - thanks for always checking in 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @NoluthandoMadlala-hm6og
    @NoluthandoMadlala-hm6og 24 дні тому +2

    Thanks siblings for a great year❤ Happy New year everyone 🎉🎉🎉

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому +1

      Right back at you! Happy New Year 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @nosiphosikhakhane6082
    @nosiphosikhakhane6082 23 дні тому +1

    I ABSOLUTELY !! 100% !! ADORE YOU GUYS😍❤.. I am so glad I found you when I did, shout out Tiktok. It's been such a wonderful ride and I cannot wait to see what 2025 has in store. Happy New Year 💥🍾, here's to more subscribers🥂 and I hope when you have a live show I can be there. #LoveEachOther

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  19 днів тому +1

      We appreciate you so much and love having you along for the ride! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @agoodday9247
    @agoodday9247 24 дні тому +3

    Happy festive guys and nyakomtsha 🎉 Thank you for making this during ifestive season and all the best for the coming year. As for topics, inkulu nyani ke into yeproducing consitently, heres my 2 cents:
    ● January funds/Financial management post December
    ● Alcohol abuse in SA, particularly in Dezemba

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому

      Thank you thank you - into the books your suggestions will go. Thank you for a great year 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @vinolia_m6510
    @vinolia_m6510 24 дні тому +1

    You guys are amazing! Thank you for sharing yourselves with us, thank you for giving us something different and awesome❤
    To a productive new year! 🎉❤

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому

      Thank you for being here - love you guys! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 all the best to you 🫶🏾

  • @makaziwemabona7658
    @makaziwemabona7658 23 дні тому +1

    We love you guys and we will be with you nakulonyaka umtsha uzayo and we'll bring the topics 🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @thembakazisonwabe6769
    @thembakazisonwabe6769 24 дні тому +2

    Thank you for carrying in 2024 🎉🎉 here's to a bigger and better 2025 ❤❤

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому

      Let’s gooo! Thank you for the love 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @amandancethezo8474
    @amandancethezo8474 24 дні тому +5

    First time here ❤❤❤I usually watch the short clips on Tiktok😅

  • @sinelwa
    @sinelwa 19 днів тому +1

    Thank you for entertaining us, guys. Looking forward to this years’ inserts. Great job, nibenonyaka oyokozela amathamsanqa odwa. ❤
    Topic idea, yintoni lento kulula kangaka for a couple to break up after pregnancy/children?

  • @viwefutshie
    @viwefutshie 24 дні тому +2

    I’m so gassed for this episode, I thought ni done for the year! I’m so excited!!! Enkosini 😘

  • @UnathiBianca-d1l
    @UnathiBianca-d1l 24 дні тому +3

    Thank you guys,i enjoyed all the episodes..hope the new year will be more🔥🔥love you guys❤❤

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому

      And we sincerely hope the same for you - thank you for a phenomenal year. All love - all the time 🫶🏾

  • @ziphotshapela5353
    @ziphotshapela5353 21 день тому +1

    Beautiful episode, thank you so much bethunani!

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  19 днів тому

      We love you guys - thank you for joining us on this journey 🫶🏾

  • @tshoanelo_M
    @tshoanelo_M 24 дні тому +2

    The fact that this is the last episode of the year makes me a bit sad but ke im looking forward to seeing all the great things that you guys will get up to next year & can’t wait for the channel to grow bigger and bigger!🥺💕ndinithanda dowwwn!❤

  • @all_things_busishozi1721
    @all_things_busishozi1721 24 дні тому +3

    💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽😖😖😖even when I’m on vacation ke sana ❤it’s giving obsession ke bandla ❤

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому

      Let’s get it!!! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 we appreciate you!

  • @zimasambonelwa
    @zimasambonelwa 24 дні тому +2

    ahh man❤
    "I want to be wrong for as little as time as possible" I really hope to be this open to learning and open to having hard conversations, especially when I am wrong. Thanks a lot for conversations like this guys, I for one really have experienced growth from listening in and questioning myself from these chats.
    This episode felt a lot more personal, very similar to when you first started out on this platform. I hope that you both had Merry Christmas too.🫶🏽

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому

      That means the world to us. 🫶🏾 thank you so much🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @qaqambantabankulu1858
    @qaqambantabankulu1858 9 днів тому

    Zuko is like me, I always think about my family first before I date anyone.

  • @sibongilezozo3112
    @sibongilezozo3112 24 дні тому +2

    Enkosini guys for the laughs nemfundiso ❤we definitely had a great year nani
    Looking forward to the first episode of the new year

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому

      Thank you for being with us on this journey - you truely have made it such a fulfilling one 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @usandandevu7653
    @usandandevu7653 24 дні тому +2

    Thank you so much guys, it's been great. To an even better 2025 🎉🥂

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому

      Right back at you! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 let’s gooo! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @DoingBeingBecoming
    @DoingBeingBecoming 24 дні тому +12

    Yoh, ndiyayazi ke la heartbreak of being told by your sibling that you aren't that close, that house wena bucing'ba nileqwa ngumgqomo😭🤣

    • @noxolondhlovu1115
      @noxolondhlovu1115 24 дні тому

      As for ‘heartbreak’ 😂😂😂😂

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому +1

      Uyakwazi nokuleqwa ngumgqomo 🥲🥲🥲 broken hearts will be mended though 🫶🏾

  • @oneilentlatleng5113
    @oneilentlatleng5113 24 дні тому +1

    Going out with a bang, thank you ❤!

  • @paulinambutuma6600
    @paulinambutuma6600 24 дні тому +3

    More than anything, sibulela the consistency guys ❤❤❤

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому

      Aaah man🥺 thank you for joining us 😂😂🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @faithfulcooks2965
    @faithfulcooks2965 24 дні тому +1

    Thank you guys for entertaining us throughout the year. ❤ Ndinithandaaaaa.

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому

      All love- thank you for joining us on this journey 🫶🏾

  • @0-Fs
    @0-Fs 24 дні тому +1

    Argh beautiful episode🥺💜

  • @msftmundi
    @msftmundi 24 дні тому +4

    The Thriving Community ❤

  • @sinegugu_zulu
    @sinegugu_zulu 24 дні тому +1

    I had set an alarm for 12 so I can watch it as soon as ivela

  • @nomvuzogantaa4565
    @nomvuzogantaa4565 24 дні тому +4

    How you describe "close" tells me uba there is noone I am close with. Worse ke its not that I dont wish to be close to anyone but sometimes you dont want to bother people, lol or to be bothered 😃

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому +1

      There are others that feel exactly like this … then there are people that are dying to be “bothered” because it does not feel like that to them… do think that it’s worth communicating what you want and avoiding misinterpretation 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @anxtra_mb4055
    @anxtra_mb4055 24 дні тому +5

    Molweni. Have y’all ever done personality test? I think it would provide further insight.
    My definition of closeness is not about being able to talk to someone everyday, because ndiyafana no sis akekho umntu endithetha naye everyday and I’m pretty close to my brother and best friend. It’s just my personality cannot do everyday conversation. My definition then of closeness is being able to speak to someone about anything, the hard conversations, the easy ones, my joys and sadness. It’s knowing ba I have that safe place even if I don’t make use of it but that’s on me.

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому +2

      We’ve never done a personality test, something to be considered. Really like your definition of closeness! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 thank you 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

    • @anxtra_mb4055
      @anxtra_mb4055 24 дні тому +2

      @ I’m putting my money on sis being an INFP or INFJ … can’t wait to watch an episode and see how right I am 🤭

    • @sivuyisiweolota5141
      @sivuyisiweolota5141 19 днів тому

      @@anxtra_mb4055 I’m with you and ta Mzubhela probably an ESTJ 🤔

    • @anxtra_mb4055
      @anxtra_mb4055 18 днів тому

      ⁠@@sivuyisiweolota5141I see it it, although he swears he is introverted so probably IS__

  • @phethehomonaheng7587
    @phethehomonaheng7587 24 дні тому +1

    ❤🎉

  • @kamvasitotomani593
    @kamvasitotomani593 18 днів тому

    I saw uBrother at The Mall on Christmas Eve. Didn’t know you guys were from King

  • @siwerea
    @siwerea 16 днів тому

    catching up, now that uphelile uDecember.

  • @makaziwemabona7658
    @makaziwemabona7658 23 дні тому +1

    Hamba year end jive ka Thalitha 😂😂😂😂😂 I'm not sure if uzama ukikizela or whaaat

  • @amandancethezo8474
    @amandancethezo8474 24 дні тому +1

    Car gaurd😂😂😂

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому

      🙇🏽‍♂️🙇🏽‍♂️🙇🏽‍♂️

  • @MondekaziNtshele
    @MondekaziNtshele 24 дні тому +1

    Bendicinga nitya imigidi. Kanti niyasebenza😅🎉

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому +1

      Akhonto ingenzekiyo - yimicimbi ngapha, nini ngapha 🫶🏾 we are honored to be able to do all

  • @musa.mgwenya_
    @musa.mgwenya_ 24 дні тому +1

    I was waiting impatiently 😂❤

  • @enkosigxono6407
    @enkosigxono6407 24 дні тому +1

    I think Ta Mzubhela wants you to be closer😅

  • @vuyogqola
    @vuyogqola 24 дні тому +1

    😂😂I thought you guys were now on leave😂😂

  • @angelamotloung2895
    @angelamotloung2895 24 дні тому +1

    ❤🎉

  • @preciousgama3149
    @preciousgama3149 24 дні тому +1

    ❤❤🎉

  • @0-Fs
    @0-Fs 24 дні тому +2

    FIRST TO COMMMMEEEEEENTTTT😝🤟🏿

    • @0-Fs
      @0-Fs 24 дні тому +1

      And it's my burfday🤩

    • @talithatravels3832
      @talithatravels3832 24 дні тому +1

      Happiest birthday daling❤🎉​@@0-Fs

    • @siblingthrivalry
      @siblingthrivalry  24 дні тому +1

      Happpyyy 💐🥳🥂wishing you everything of the best on your next trip around the sun 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @aviwemnikina7942
    @aviwemnikina7942 2 дні тому

    🫣 Definitely been triggered by ST and Definitely been inspired as well ❤

  • @madimerge
    @madimerge 24 дні тому +1