Why Do Girls Go to the Bathroom in Herds?
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- Опубліковано 10 вер 2024
- There’s one unwritten rule for a girl’s night out: never go to the bathroom alone! We’re are all guilty of going to the ladies’ room in herds, and the hosts share why they’d rather have a friend by their side, in this clip.
I go to the bathroom with my girls mainly in a unfamiliar place, clubs etc. This was always in my mind for safety purposes, people get attacked in bathrooms and I feel safer if someone is with me. It's a strength in numbers mentality.
Yeah, for ne it's a safety thing, especially at night.
kemery22222 You always have to have backup.
kemery22222 it's always been a safety thing for me too
so true. in kindergarten by your second girl cousin. Our teacher sent us all in pairs uuugh She tried to strangle me bc she is mean. Thankfully, I've been alive for 23 years after. My teacher and her parents didn't believe. My mom did. Some people don't know why I called her mean in sophomore of high school.
As you should. Stay safe.
I don't know about "a herd" but for some reason if a group of us are eating out and one friend gets up to go to the bathroom, usually one or two of us just go too without really thinking about it!
Esther Grace i also think its for security because if you going out with friends, you dont want to be alone not for a second
Yes lol
Esther Grace Or it could just be the "buddy system." My mom works in law enforcement, so she always told me that when I'm out with my girlfriends - and if one of us has to go to the bathroom, then take another friend with you. There's strength in numbers, and you don't want something to happen to you or your friend because they went off by themselves.
THATS A HERD 3 or more
IF U CANT DO SOMETHING ALONE;THEN YOUR OBVIOUSLY NOT IN A SAFE PLACE
When Loni said " girl imma get that money tonight" I cried
Loni there is safety in numbers. You shouldn't go to the bathroom alone. Hermione granger went to the bathroom alone and she was attacked by a troll. Just saying...
maria cummings lmaoooooooo I can't with the Harry Potter reference
Yasss chile, don't nobody wanna to end up like Moaning Myrtle!
You're my new role model! 😁
maria cummings lol i want to know you oh my god
maria cummings Best comment I've read in awhile XD
Hermione Granger got attacked by a troll, Katie got cursed, and Myrtle died... just going to the bathroom alone. I'm paranoid.
ginny was cursed by voldermort
Girl I laughed so hard😂🤣day=made
All fake that’s dumb
Exactly
wow, this definetly happened in real life, I think girls are in the wrong mind set, and need to learn that they are not gonna die in the freaking bathrooms😂😂😂
Lol @ Adrianne's friend "If you could just see dat passss-worrrd" haha!
RealHairAddiction hahahahahhaa
Lol I never thought of that lol
Loool 😂😂 I can't with those tricks!!
RealHairAddiction I don't get it
LOL at them calling it the "Halftime" of the dinner! I guess each course is equivalent to a quarter or something!
Thats not why we go to the bathroom in a group.... It's because when we were younger when our parents finally let us hang out with our girls on our own, they say to always have a buddy. We went everywhere in groups. The bigger the group, the less chance of being abducted or raped... Soo as adult women, it became a subconscious action to go to the bathroom with somebody. Men dont have that issue because they didnt have that in their childhood.. #justathought
No not for me or anyone I know. It's way more fun touching up together and talking etc instead of going alone and just pee quickly lol
+Angela Carlsson for must of us its a subconscious action. Lol not like that for everyone but for most of us
I think it's Just because it's more fun and a way to not stop the conversation
I totally agree (with the post). while when we go in a group it's fun to talk, we've also been taught to look out for each other so we don't get hurt.
Tru like my mom be like never go to the bathroom alone especially if we in the mall, movies or just walking around the city , it's wayyy too many creepy people for you to be alone
"I was waiting on you at the doe" (head tilt) 😂
I don't know why its just programmed in us women!! lol The Ladies's room hold juicy secrets, convos, a little bit of everything!!
Yikes!😬
Mechacelzi lol
***** i think of klymaxxx's meeting in the ladies room song when I see this
Mechacelzi
true lol
***** ah ha! I'm a good judge of character 👋😀
"And girl guess what? Change yo lips!" I DIED lmao! another good conversation, great job ladies
😂😂😂😂😂
Adrienne's whole look is banging!
We always went for safety, but it became an all girls social club in school when you had separate classes. You meet up at a certain time and everything, that is why some bathrooms have couches in the first room 😄
yeah it became a social hangout at school because talking in the hallway got you in trouble and if i didnt have any classes with this particular friend you text her to meet you in the bathroom bc the info is too juicy/long to just text and tell them what bathroom you going to and meet and discuss what the info was about 😂
+Taylor Sanders Sooo True 😄
I used to think like Loni. Then I read this story about a girl that got drugged and almost kidnapped when she walked into the restroom alone. The two girls that were responsible worked for a sex trafficking "company" or something like that. Ever since then, I always make sure to never go to public restrooms or almost anywhere alone.
Yes that happened to my friends daughter. 2 girls Drugged her and tried carry away. My friend went to go look for her and found two girls on each side saying "our friend had to much to drink. We're just going to take her home" the mom went crazy on the girls. Cops came and the 2 girls were arrested. Never ever go to the rest room alone ladies. And this was the mall.
Love Adrienne's hair.
Yassss Jeanie! Codenames are everything!!!
+Melanie-Jude Dawson Me and my bestfriend always use codenames we never ever use peoples real names
Safety!!! When there's a group an attacker is less likely to try something.
you guys remember the girls room segment on the amanda show...nuff said lol
That always had me dying😂
Ari Omg yess. I loved that show 😩😂😍
The Girls Room!
me too!!
one word "Hermione" anybody? no one? ok then.
you are my favorite person today lol
+Armando Montoya Lol! Why thank you😁
lmao!
bruh
Nymph Fatale bahahahahhaha omg!!!
Now days going to the bathroom in heards means one thing: SELFIES!
lucecita19 exactly lol
lucecita19 And if the mirror is clean I will stay there the whole day and meeting new people every hour xD
Tay tay and Tam tam look so damn beat today !!
YES!! That Emmy nomination got their glam squads goin the extra mile! they look incredible.
Am I the only one who goes to the bathroom alone?
You're not the only one girl
Nope I go to the bathroom alone
Dana N not at all. I come in to do my business and walk out. most of the time i don't even look at the mirror lol
Dana N no if you go and come out then it shouldnt be a problem getting attacked and mixed with gossip that will leave your bestfriends hating you. that's how people lose friends is because of mess. me and my friends dont do that.if we do go together we just both go then come out. but usually im by myself
No, I'm a big girl and I can go by myself. lol
Lol I rather go alone just to get a lil break from everything thats going on at the social gathering. But I'm introverted so maybe thats why.
Adrienne: "Its like a meeting area!!" omg hahahhaha
Frr
In a dinner setting like at a restaurant or something, I'd rather go to the bathroom alone so I can be in and out.. However, on a club outing, I neverrrr go alone... You just don't know what you could walk into inside a club restroom.. Gotta take precautions..
I don't mind going to the bathroom alone, and I don't mind going with someone either, for whatever the reason may be.
Ok, Keith.
That happened to me in high school. I was in the stall and these girls that I didn't really know were gossiping really mean about somebody and then when I walked out of the stall I realized from their reactions that they were talking about me 😞
I have watched too many SVU episode to know better and not go to the bathroom alone, especially as a women.
beeexcited whenever I go to the mall I go to the bathroom and be a bunch of ladies in the bathroom so I do feel safe in that regard
I am female and this is something I have always wanted to know. And I really hate when someone I know is going to the restroom and asks me to go with them. If I do not need to use it, why do I need to go also? In my opinion, one of the problems with so many ladies going to the restroom at once is that they are running their mouths and taking over the mirror. Some of us just would like to wash our hands and get out of that smelly place. And I am sure that many can identify with being at a stadium with thousands of people, and having to wait in a seriously long line at the ladies room. This can be torture, especially if you really need to get to the toilet quickly. Ladies, if you just want to talk or look in the mirror, please step aside as Mrs. Jeannie said. Be considerate of others.
Well... many attacks can and did happen in restrooms
I like to go to the bathroom by myself, I'm not really big on herds. I'll leave the private conversations over the phone rather than in large groups in herds.
Nah I'm sorry but I disagree Adrienne. I'm the "loner" girl in the bathroom and there have been plenty of times where I'm telling someone else there's toilet paper on there shoe. It irks me so much when girls do that. I get doing at night but in the daytime, where the bathroom is already small and can only hold so many people, that's doing the most for me.
"you gotta have someone at the doe" 😂😂😂 (if you know you know)
Adrienne is seriously always ON POINT!
tamar's cover up line be on point
tamar is the life of the show actually
Haylor Stevejuanes need her back asap
@@clutchcarter6311 frllll 💯💯💯💯
"girl change ya lips bc i don't like it" lol too funny
Special s/o to all of the drunk girls I've met while in the bathroom 😂😂
My friends and I always did that in school. Ain't nothin' wrong with it.
Loni's face at the end Lmao
I'm with Loni on this. I don't really understand the whole "let's go have a group therapy session in the bathroom" thing.
It's so annoying sometimes when I go to use it and all I hear is other girls talking about their lives. Not to be rude but I don't care! Your in a public place, NOBODY ELSE WANTS TO HEAR HOW DRUNK YOU GOT LAST NIGHT! There is a tome and place for everything. Go, use it, and get out!
Preach🙌🙌🙌
Lashaun Gordon so don't pay attention to their convo maybe?? I can understand if they're loud or in your way but if they're having a civil convo btwn them and you get mad bc you happen to eavesdrop into their convo, you're in the wrong not them.
VONiiE8 I don`t eavesdrop. There are girls who go to the bathroom and seem to have absolutely no control over their voices. It is up to them to be respectful of other people who have come to use the bathroom in peace. Why am I wrong for using the bathroom, That`s what it`s for. If they want to speak privately about something they can wait to make sure the bathroom is clear or whisper. Not everyone is intentionally trying to listen.
And if you read what I said, I said that IF you eavesdrop on their conversation then you're wrong, never said you were wrong for using the bathroom. I said, if they were loud and in the way then I'd understand.
VONiiE8 ok
Adrienne's outfit ...beautiful. Love her hairstyle too.
Restroom breaks are necessary. A place to get valuable info about the situation w/ out guys around
I love Adrienne's sleek low bun!!
The only times I've ever done that was: 1) I was in a strange place, and didn't feel safe enough to go alone. 2) If one of my friends was wasted, I went to make sure she was ok. Otherwise, I'm with Loni.
The part about talking about someone and they come out of the stall! Haha, that has happened to me! Now, I use code names for sure, even if I'm talking about a guy lol I give him a nick name too. But I'll say this, if I need to "go go" then I'll go by myself!
I don't even know where to start. All the above. All of the above and code names are a must!!!!
Hm, I thought it was a safety type thing.
Loni's face at the end.... lmmfao... PRICELESS!!!!!!!
I didn't know we go in "herds," but what's wrong with going accompanied?
We go to the bathroom together cause that's where we rap battle 🎤
I'm so that girl who's not afraid to go to the bathroom by herself. Been me since elementary school (I'm 21). I didn't understand why girls did that then, and I still don't understand it now. And I always check my shoes and my behind for toilet paper Haha
This whole segment was hilarious ...I like to go to the bathroom with my girlfriends too but Loni has a point its annoying when girls are crowded around and you can't do what you're supposed to do in the bathroom in the first place.
GIRL ON 2:16 lOOKS LIKE DRAYA MICHELE!!!
What makes you think men don't gossip while their ladies go to the bathroom together.
'cause when you come back and ask "What did we miss?" And we say "Oh Ty was just telling me about a new video game."👀
Oh wow I never thought about that. 😯😯😲
I think you should go together because I feel safe with other people because you shouldn't be alone because you can risk getting assaulted and you can also end up not looking right like Adrienne said. But I also love going together its just so you can talk and its just fun.
The only time I got annoyed by girls going to the bathroom was when I was out with some friends on my birthday at the pool hall. This one girl who was a friend of my best friend kept pulling her into the bathroom because she was having boyfriend trouble that night. That pissed me off royally! You don't sidle up to my friend so you can crash my birthday gathering and then keep pulling her into bathroom for some damn relationship therapy. Stay your ass home and call her tomorrow!
I'm usually the one that watches the table, but I definitely go with my friends if the place is a little sketch or a party.
Well depending on the place and how many people are there, it is a meeting room and like a runway too! Me and my friends go to do our business, talk, fix each other up and gossip.... plus it could be a safety measure for some of us too
"Meeting in the Ladies' Room" - Klymaxx (an old school 80's song)
I'm with Loni on this, I can't stand when my friends drag me to the bathroom when I don't have to go! Lol
Lol It's true tho 😂. I always go to the bathroom with my squad and we all go. We make sure everyone is looking and smelling popping and we spill tea.😂. Idk y we always go in groups of 2 and more😂.
The reason why I have someone come with me is because my choir teacher told me that we need to go in pairs while on a trip because kidnappers would hide in the bathroom stalls, if we went alone he or she would take us, and we would never be seen again. Now if we have two or three people it will be a lot harder for them to take us because now instead having one set of eyes we have two or three.
Well i do it for safety to be very honest and occasionally to talk but mainly for safety.
"Girl I'm a get that money tonight" 😂😂😂😂
Loved Tamera & Adirenne's looks today :)
I say, "So, I packed my bags and that's the last I ever saw him..." lol
Love the color of Tamar's outfit.
I agree, I don’t want people hearing all my bodily functions. I want my privacy.
We go in a small group without even thinking becuase we automatically dont feel safe alone
I just go by myself. I've had friend who are like ''let me go with you'' and I'm just like that's not necessary. In an unfamiliar place or if you're drunk then it makes sense. I've been on both sides when you are talking about someone or they are talking about you in the bathroom. Very Awkward
I don’t know their relationship, but anyone else feel like it’s a good thing that Adrienne and Lenny didn’t work out? Cause all that I hear when she spoke about him during this time is how he’s always mad with her or reprimanding cause of her habits or whatever. Not saying abusive in anyway but I feel like he treated her like one of his kids if I’m being honest. Love Adrienne and so happy to see her happy now
I am in love with all of the hostes because they keep it real and i wish i can meet them in person
My girl said juntos like “HUNTOCE” IM DEAD
Honestly it’s to take amazing group selfie pics with your girls
When Loni said, "Imma get that money tonight" 😂😂😂😂 that was too funny
LMAOOOO "gurl... if you can just see his password for me" ... i can't believe i never thought of that.
Loni - "AlI wanna do is do my business." Wow, just wow!
"there's a meeting in the ladies room.."🎶🎶🎶 this whole topic made me think of that song lol
Not in the school where I finished senior year , my teachers get pissed about because they said one at a time then they go in packs for me it's just weird
With me and my friends we feel like if one goes and another one of us goes. With me sometimes I just don't want my friend going alone. Especially if we're somewhere we've never been before. Only 1 or 2 of us go Lol but we do touch up our makeup, fix our clothes etc. just nice having someone with you lol
in all honesty I only do the group thing at bars and road trips or something for safety reasons
Love the switch tay tay did that already
Loni's face at the end!! LOL!
But like I only bring my friends to the bathroom because I wanna talk to them especially if they are my bf we be laughing about stuff and it makes it easier so the teacher doesn't catch us talking in class cuz we talk nonstop
I meant Ahnia no offense lol but yea we do AG Gamer
If you knew how much man support each other than you would be more grateful
I rather stay private, I don't need the herds.
Honestly though, I think part of us going in little groups probably started as a safety thing. Then it just turned into a private catch-up conversation space
When Tam said good to know. 😮
I was like gurl what you mean good to go.. 😂
She over there going, so now Adam, 😱
What had happened was Adam, 😱
What the butt gurl😂
I wish this show was in the UK 😓
I had a substitute for English one day and he asked "Why do girls go to the bathroom in groups?" (This was Sophmore year. Half of my English class went to the bathroom after lunch. We had B lunch. Literally walk back into class all you hear from people is "Can I go to the bathroom?" "I have to pee." "I'm going to the bathroom." It was so annoying. It was like a virus that made you have to use the bathroom infected half the class.) But I said "Because there's a less chance of us getting harassed or something worse because everytime we go somewhere alone we get harassed." And 2 of my friends, some other girls, and even the substitute agreed.
SAFETY IN NUMBERS
"I got a meeting in the ladies' room. I'll be back real soon" -Klymaxx. Actually, I won't be back real soon lol
Well for me at school, I hate when my friends follow me to the bathroom...like I need to go number 1 or 2 in private.
Lol if I’m in the bathroom too long my husband literally comes to check on me. “Spsss.. Babe are you ok?” Lol I love him.
Lol this is the most normal, civilized, calm-headed I've ever seen Tamar.
I was actually enjoying this, without wanting to smack Tamar with a ham
The buddy system has been drilled into us from childhood. The more buddies the better! Just exercise some restraint. The restroom is not your private break room.
Lmao I've had a girl walk in before when we had just been talking about her. Had to change the subject REAL quick
No one said the one reason I thought they would say. Another girl helps especially if you accidentally come on and they help you out because that is embarrassing walking around not knowing there's a stain on you.
It's the worst at school but you hear the most craziest things 😂
I always hated this in high school during lunch time because I just wanna eat! If i use the bathroom i'm doing my business and leaving, I ain't got time for all the other nonsense. It's just too small and smelly