Hello. I am 57. I’m a lesbian. Being gay is hard. Being transgender must be very difficult. It has taken me a long time to figure out and accept who I am. My wife and I have been together for 16 1/2 years. Were were married in 2012. Unfortunately, the LGBTQ community can sometimes be as unaccepting as the rest of the world. You DO belong! I always make my feelings known about accepting trans people. I’ve had many arguments with straight & gay people alike. I always tell them that people don’t just wake up one day & say, “I’m bored. I think I want to be a woman (or man). It is a lifelong struggle. It takes so much courage to be out & honest about who you are. Keep up the good fight.
I know you made this a couple of years ago, but I just came across it. I think you show an honesty and candor that are rare in anyone. You deserve to be loved. I hope you have found someone worthy of you since you made this video. The hardships of life are so much easier to bear if you are not alone.
People when they mis gender a dog: "Oh my bad" People when they mis gender a trans person: "You are what is wrong with this world" Like damn can I at least get the same amount of respect as a dog...
You are a beautiful woman inside and out Robin. I am a mental health professional and the message you are sending is truly inspiring. I have a friend that was born in a mans body but always felt that she was a female. The sad part is she didn't come out as a female until she was in her 60's. A person should be able to be who they are all their lives. So I hope parents that are watching take in to consideration, that if they observe that their child is struggling with gender identity, that they support, respect, encourage and help their child with that journey. Thank you for sharing your story.❤
As someone who is a little older, I think some questions aren't out of malice but out of ignorance. I admit I'm rather ignorant as to many things when it comes to trans women (and trans men) and there isn't a real textbook on this since people are messy. People are weird. We are all human just trying to get through the day the best we can. That leads to questions, especially if you're like me and you want to understand but I do want to thank you for shedding some light on things I wondered about and hopefully that can lead others to do research and to try and understand that things such as this can be a very personal struggle for people and sometimes ask a question that can be seemingly innocent to me but not so to the other person. Communication is key. And I'd be mortified if I asked a question that came across as rude because that is never my intent. Now I have so many things to research and learn about which thanks to your channel, have given a starting point of how to better interact with a trans woman despite my crippling agoraphobia.
I have trans friends and I'm shocked at how rude SOME people are when they find out. I'd punch them in the face if they asked such incredibly intimate/nosy questions but they just calmly tell them it's none of their business and then they get all indignant and pissy, as if they are entitled to know everything about your life because you're trans. I get a close up look at how so many view them as being unworthy of respect. I truly feel for y'all.
I'm a straight guy and for all you trans people out there more power to ya be you and be happy fuck what people think! Most trans people I have met are actually pretty cool
Thing I hate most is everyone thinks they have the right to ask you the most personal questions. When people ask so are you gonna fully transition. Like it's any of there business
Kylie Tanner it is making this people’s business by putting up videos. If it doesn’t want questions then it shouldn’t post videos about what it’s doing.
@@damienroberts9166 first off "it" is a she and I don't think being rude on purpose is needed. Second she makes videos to spread awareness of her experience and if she helps a few people in the process then that's great. That however doesn't give people the right or a pass to know or ask anything. She is entitled to some off limit subjects
Kylie Tanner just saying don’t matter what the videos are about people are going to have questions. Rude ones or not. I’m not convinced a surgeon can really change a gender but more just mutilate the parts the individual has. What they believe in their head is their choice. My point being if you don’t want the questions or the rudeness don’t post on the internet. I will however say that it should be proud standing up for what it believes in. I could really care less what someone dose even if it’s very unnatural.
Robin whether or not you have had surgery yet doesn't matter. To those of us who care about you you a smart and attractive young woman. A little different than most but someone sharing her lifes journey with us with all its trials and tribulations. For that l for one thank you for helping me to better understand the things that trans people go through. My grandson is trans f/m and it has helped me build a better and stronger relationship with him. Even though you are young you have insights that many older people don't so don't ever stop being you l love you just the way you are and care about you the same as l do my grandson whom l always tell him l love him no matter what. So love and blessings to you and your loving family till next time.
@David Harris Umm, yes it does matter moron. Without the surgery you're just a transvestite. But even with a surgery, how does that grant anyone special rights? You need to have your head examined if you start chopping off your parts, especially if it's for others approval.
I’ve decided she is probably the most beautiful trans woman I’ve met or seen. Plus her personality is 100% awesome’ if I was in Netherlands I would totally shoot my shot ❤️😂
I'm not an off-the-line woman, I'm an after-market woman... People, even kind ones, trying to "figure out" what you are. You can just see it in their eyes.
Yup I agree with everything you said. Even being post op I can still remember how all of these are a issue and that some things like people finding out is a issue
Not being accepted or being called out by others that are so close minded. Finding the perfect man who understands and shares your similar lifestyle, interests and desires about everything about you want and think about being with another man.
Bingo! I hate feeling like everyone is looking at me as if I did something horrible to them. So I stay back and stay quiet. And don't even act like you're going to touch me. I will disappear faster than you can blink. If I can't disappear get ready to be attacked. It's not you. It's me in public.
@@karinpowers1018 I panic and take out what or who ever might be keeping me there regardless of what I want to do. I grew up when being transgender could get you killed if you're lucky. I don't mean it might happen. I mean it most likely will happen. Back then you kept your mouth shut and hopped no one ever found out. I have been living a life that isn't mine for almost 40 years. So yeah I will flip out if I'm cornered.
It is so hard to find love and yet people are constantly giving crap to people who just want to be loved for who they are. It really sucks. Most men have a huge masculine ego problem pounded into us from our youth which not only makes us bury our emotions and become dispassionate toward the emotions of others even at the cost of our own pursuit of love and happiness. If you love someone, love them with all your might. Even if you get hurt in the end, at least you have experienced the joy of love and hopefully you are better for it.
Agreed with everything. Anyway, it should be added that it is quite common in every day life for people to hurt other people , for people to get hurt, etc. This happens to trans and non-trans people alike.
i have watched a few of your videos, you have been through a lot, but you are still standing strong. you have one of the most beautiful smiles i have even seen and you a super attractive, keep your head love, 2020 might surprise you
Waiting lists are terrible in Scotland, over a year's wait if you're lucky, there's only two gender clinics in the country and only one sees under 18s.
Damn, I know the feeling. Stuck waiting for Sandyford, according to my doctor they've experienced 3 times as many referrals recently. I'm kinda hoping over time my GP will be ok with bridging prescriptions..but not holding my breath.
Damn, here in Venezuela there's only one unit for trans people (in the whole country) thanks god there's no waiting list. U literally can pick the day u want. Sadly I'm under 18 and My papá doesnt want to go. He's probably scared that the doctor Will Say that I do have gender dysphoria. Honestly idk what to do (i'm not on blockers so i'm getting more male developments and it's really hard for me) what should I do?
I'm 37 years old and just now in a position to start hrt. So much of my life stuck as a "boy" and I wish I could've started this ordeal so much sooner!
don't sweat it. other people's opinions really don't matter. I'm a straight guy.youre a beautiful young lady..and I'm sure you're a terrific person to be around and cut up with....relax
Not everyone likes to be called a bitch instead of hello, although some do it all the time. Some would say, they are saying that with love, but once someone stepped on the road of picking on words it's the beginning of the end for relationship.
Identifying with a soul is way more important than identifying with anything else. I'm so attracted to a soul, man women trans ,black white green, 100yrs of age or 20. If you get that human whatever form they take the rest will fall into place.
When you fall in love with a person, you love that person and not a not a word ( trans or what ever) I don't know if you had surgery or not and it's none of my business. If I saw you walking the street I would consider you a very beautiful woman and good luck on whatever you do in your life just stay positive
Gelukkig Nieuwjaar voor jou. Ik hoop dat 2020 je liefde en vrede brengt. Het leven kan moeilijk zijn voor mensen die niet oppervlakkig zijn en dingen diep zien en buiten het oppervlak. Groeten van een vriend in Quebec.
From a straight male, who found your videos by accident, great job with your videos and your candid and honest discussions. You are beautiful person and have an engaging and appealing personality. You're going to do just fine. It may hurt to be honest sometimes, but everyone, of all kinds, goes through hurt when they don't find the right person to love them. The right person, will take your honesty and return your love. My two cents.
I agree completely; she is far too pretty and beautiful for words to describe, both in physicality and mind. She is also incredibly brave and strong, and I absolutely love her ♥️♥️♥️
The second fate shit, like that hit home gurl, there is often times feminist marchs in my country and many of my friends and family be like why dont u go? Like isnt that your vibe? And many times like i get that women need their own safe spaces and thats why they want men not to go to the marchs but that makes me so afriad to go in case like i find someone that says to me "oh you are not a woman you are not allowed here" and thet just would be too painfull because I know it can come from two places ignorance or hate
Chloé The guy obviously is drawn to trans women and is lashing out because he just doesn’t want to admit to himself, why else would he be constantly lurking in trans women’s posts? Ignore the loser.
Anyone should feel free to explore who they truly are! I'm in my 50's and trying to figure that out now. And everyone has the right to feel accepted and respected by others. When I see others my first thought is how beautiful they are!
5:00 Oh yes! Then imagine what happens when you understand your transidentity at 46... So much time not being who you truly are because you built a fictional personality to protect you from early insults and physical and psychological harms... Anyway, the important thing is to free yourself! ;-) Thank you for your video, young beautiful woman.
@ana luisa mariano oliveira It is your personal choice, and there is no problem with it. Some prefers tall woman, some other wouldn't date a tall woman as well... As long as you respect everyone, it's cool.
@@karinpowers1018 Here is my point of view (just mine). I do think that there is a huge difference between a person who presents itself as a woman just because of its personality (that it considers feminine) and a person who presents neurological proofs of perceiving physicaly (not as a image or a desire...) its own body as a female body despite of its male genitals (which may be sensed as a "malformation") [ It's like intersex people: their body has developed a "mix" of male and female "organs" ] I'm sad to see that the notion of transgender is used to qualify both (intersex people excluded, of course). I personaly know people who present themselves as transgender women but are totally OK with their male body... It make no sense to me that they call themselves women. I do present a strong body dysphoria since my early age. I have always sensed that my body was malformed because of physical perceptions of internal feminine organs. I refused to touch my masculine "parts" for some years and I had an infection due to the fact that I didn't want to wash it. My parents have had to insist very strongly for I clean it explaining me that I should have very painful surgery if I continue not taking care of this part of my body that I didn't accept. Only transsexualism can explain my "state". But, unfortunately, transsexualism wasn't as known as today, and I've had to accept my "strange" body, accept the fact that girls would never want me in their groups (praying me to go and play with the "other" boys...). This is still painful to write it down today: you can't imagine when you don't live it. I'm not a 100% girl/woman because of my genitals, that's right, but I'm a transsexual woman meaning that my senses and my brain (which develop distinctly from sex organs) are neurologicaly expecting female genitalia and female breast. That's why I take hormones to correct my body and why I plan to have surgery, at least to take away the part of my body that makes "no sense" to my brain. I hope this explanation will open your eyes to a reality that is too often misunderstood, maybe because of the transgender and gender concepts... Gender is a qualification of behaviors: men and women mostly act differently in every culture. But, from one country to another, there are differences that proove that gender is a cultural/mental construct. I hence know women who could be culturaly qualified as acting in a very "masculine" manner. And I know men that could be samely qualified "feminine". Nowadays they could (if they just decide to do so) to call them transgender men or women... Why not? These are words. But, once again, I think these people and I don't deserve the same "label". And words must keep their fundamental meanings. Sometime they have to be reconsidered to integrate a larger reality. But I think they must preserve a link to an "observable" reality. A man, especially with a full beard, proud of its male body, calling himself a transgender woman?! To me, this is nonsensical. I want to be called a (transsexual) woman because there is a physical basement to it, and because I do my best to erase male signs of my odd body. I know it will never become as if it has developed totally female, but I couldn't live anymore in a in-between state where I feel female internal physical neurological "signals" and being called a man. That's why, as soon as I understood my transidentity, I decided to "transition" (hormones, surgery...). This is so hard to explain... Anyway, I hope you'll get it. Have a nice day.
@@rainjaydd8213 What makes a woman a woman IS by DEFINITION the fact she is a member of the female sex, which is capable of producing certain gametes. She doesn't have to do or think or behave in a certain way. She just has to have a certain kind of body. That is what the actual term means. The fact is that such a female can be or say or do ANYTHING she wants. She is still a woman. Your attempt to limit womanhood to those who conform to your shallow, subjective, nonsensical stereotypes betrays your own reductive tendencies, not mine.
Im a new subscriber. You really called 2020 accurately. I loved what you had to say. I had a very good friend that's passed on now. I treated him like a brother, like any of my other guy friends before he confided in me one day that he was trans. I looked at him closely and told him....."I don't care. It doesn't effect our friendship. I had no idea you were trans. You're still the same person on the inside and always will be" Looking back Im grateful I had a friend like him in my life and that I treated him like Like a brother , and with love and respect while he was still alive. No different from any other person. I really miss him. He was a special person. I wish you nothing but good things, and a very long and peaceful life.
I would never use IT for anyone, unless if that someone explicitly said that, for any possible reason of their personal story and journey in finding their gender identity, or lack of, found themselves more comfortable with IT as preferred pronoun. It's obviously a very specific case - and I will stick to that.
If you love someone for being a kind loving person they it shouldn't matter what sex you are. You seem so lovely and sweet. I hope all your dreams come true x
Yeah tucking omg. Like mine's still not 100% and it's still uncomfortable. And when I do physical activity I lose a bit of it. Also like... Idk I'm worried about certain logistics when I'm intimate with someone. Cuz like it's not the best situation going on down there in terms of like... Sweat an stuff :|
I came out to my mum and my best friend today and they were really calm and didn't really freak out like I thought they would but now I'm freaking out because I don't know how to deal with this ?????? Someone help
Ok, so I'm weighing in late on this. Girl, you have to understand exactly how you are right now...you're beauty...what a straight guy attracted to a trans woman is looking for (exactly you) & the fact you have not had grs makes you absolutely perfect. No matter what rude & non-understanding people say...there are guys out there that would kill to be with a madly amazing & beautiful woman like you. Know you are loved & highly desired...that's all that should matter when you find the "right one". Mmmuahh, love you sweetheart & on your side ♡♡♡ P.S. Please keep posting, I'd love to hear more, Mmmuahh ♡
The woman I loved more than anyone I ever loved was trans and she was killed 15 months ago. I too can relate to being hated for who I am, because as a white male I am blamed for all the world's problems and I am called a racist and a "patriarch" for nothing more than being born white and male.
I can honestly say that you changed my whole perspective of the whole trans thing and i honestly feel bad for it...im not a mean person so i never like disrespected nobody but i definitely judged n im from Philadelphia and theres a stigma and there shouldn't be so thnx Robin your the best
Omg I know so many of the feelings you been talking about all too well. I recently came out for having gender disphoria and being trans to everyone I know and even on UA-cam and I'm in my early 30s even though I've felt this way my whole life I just played the role society and the streets forced me to play it til I couldn't play it anymore. Then I also feel like no matter how hott I end up being ill always be a 2nd rate girl never looked at as the real thing :( I totally get the childhood feeling like a blob of confusion and all. No doubt I relate to you and your videos help those of us just starting to be open about the lifestyle we've lived in private for soooo long.
Me: reads the description in August 2020 Also me: YOU JINXED US. love your content! I also saw a tucking method that didn't involve tape, if that helps! They used a stocking and a tube sock to create two 'tubes' of fabric, ran the stocking through the tube sock perpendicularly so that it looked like a white strip with two 'leg holes' off the side, and when you pull it up you can wear underwear over it. I've no idea if it works, but there you go!
Love your videos and your singing, your opinion is worth alot to help others on what they are going thru in life. Keep making videos and keep singing. Stay beautiful
Tuckkkkkking fucking hurts ! , I remember tucking wrong multiple times and it was the worst it was a aching pressure pain then I had blisters it’s horrible 😭💀💀💀
You are truly intoxicating in the way you speak real shit!, Its addicting to watch you enjoy yourself giving advice that changes peoples life's. You're such a natural at being a perfect example of how humanity should behave towards other humans #AntiLabelling! Love you girl❤ P.S Adorning the natural look!
I’m 15 now and when I was 12 or 13 (a few years ago) I knew I wasn’t a boy (I’m AMAB) I thought I was non binary and that’s how I identified till I was 14 and then I realized I WAS a girl and suddenly so many things that should of made the fact that I am trans obvious very clear then but I’ve recently just been dealing with all the dysphoria and personal Shame
I don’t know why people transition. Living with dysphoria has got to be easier. I turned down a surgical operation to reverse a birth defect (pectus) and the dysphoria left eventually.
Sometimes we just ask crass questions. I wouldn't personally be so blunt. Then I think and I learn. I don't mean any offence. Ever. Thanks for teaching me a little more. Your a lovely person. 🖖
I would date you,and be okay about you being transgender🤷♂️..and I'm straight, but cis,not bi and anything of the sort,I believe that you have an awesome soul,and that is beautiful asf.😊 Yes we exist,But maybe we are unicorns in this world.anyway.you are so amazing and Irregardless of all the pain you go through,Know you got fans and supporters ❤
Nah, you're not "straight." Straight means heterosexual, not "heterogenderal." It's homophobic to worry about insisting that you're straight when you're fine having sex with a male body. Why not just relax about labels, rather than butcher the English language and deny reality?
@@karinpowers1018 okay,Imma say,you can worry about what grammar and labels people say I am,Go ahead 🤷♂️,Imma say,I'm a human being,And I would fuck with whatever She/ze or whatever everyone else say she is..That's my point..If given an opportunity,I definitely would do that,Cause I'm attracted to her soul,All these biological shit all you label police can have a go at it ..😊,just saying..just an Opinion..and I got what you were trying to say.thanks.
@adam zarbon and by whose law you getting that from?,My point is this,my Masculinity is attracted to his femininity..me or him being both Male has nothing to do with straight,Bi,Cis or etc..I'm not really a believer of Labels,but know that theres Love And Hate,Good Nd bad🤷♂️,but I would disagree with you in tellin me what I am and what iam not,But I respect your opinion
@adam zarbon that's a good point,And I agree with you on that fact,I'd say I'm attracted to his femininity,I would like to debate this issue with you,but it seems I'd loose face,cause you would have asked me about my sexuality(in which I dont wanna intrude on her)where I say I'm Not homosexual or gay,but a selfish Guy,to try and pick out the characteristics of a female(as to what you would generally prefer)from her and ignore that shes not female, but feminine,and that shes trans,and for me that's what I getting at.Your Opinion and this is mine.
I have to say that tucking makes me feel better as if it is not really there but in all honesty no matter what i do i still have a visible "package" so I generally where something that does not show it, and you, OMG I totally wish I had your figure or looked nearly as good as you!! I am sure most CIS girls would be jealous of your looks!
Your confidence comes from within, and to hell what other people think. There is a lot of emotional baggage out there. Now with that said there are a lot of very attractive t women out there.
You are an incredible person. So straight forward with such interesting opinions and knowledge. Any negative comments you receive from women just understand it's their jealousy showing. Any negative comments from men, they just are trying to portray what they feel is socially acceptable masculinity. Fact is, any man would be both lucky and honored to be in a relationship with you. So many female from birth women don't have their proverbial shit together as well as you.
Survival mode = normal, everyday life. I have seen so many trans women die prematurely that it is crazy. Now I know why old people should deserve all respect.
As a trans girl I get this a lot It really annoys me when we ppl say do you have a d*ck like mate what do you think if I’m trans when I’m male to female and when I wear a bra ppl be like why you wearing a bra and I always say “ bro why do you care “ anyways.. No hate to anyone I’m just saying my experience 👍🏻
Hello. I am 57. I’m a lesbian. Being gay is hard. Being transgender must be very difficult. It has taken me a long time to figure out and accept who I am. My wife and I have been together for 16 1/2 years. Were were married in 2012. Unfortunately, the LGBTQ community can sometimes be as unaccepting as the rest of the world. You DO belong! I always make my feelings known about accepting trans people. I’ve had many arguments with straight & gay people alike. I always tell them that people don’t just wake up one day & say, “I’m bored. I think I want to be a woman (or man). It is a lifelong struggle. It takes so much courage to be out & honest about who you are. Keep up the good fight.
This was a heart warming and encouraging comment to stumble upon. ❤️
Love how you predicted what an awful year this was going to be lol
That’s not what she meant.
@@danhobson24 what did she mean
Hi there Robin jaspers
Reading through these comments and theres alot of friendly supportive people on here, its kinda nice to see so many people with such large ❤❤❤'s
You know what else is large :)
The Jack Who Laughs HHHHHHHHHHHHH
I know you made this a couple of years ago, but I just came across it. I think you show an honesty and candor that are rare in anyone. You deserve to be loved. I hope you have found someone worthy of you since you made this video. The hardships of life are so much easier to bear if you are not alone.
People when they mis gender a dog:
"Oh my bad"
People when they mis gender a trans person:
"You are what is wrong with this world"
Like damn can I at least get the same amount of respect as a dog...
nah
@@PeterParker-yo6gu I know... Humans should get more respect.
it's because transphobes care more about birth genitals than identity
Facts
You are a beautiful woman inside and out Robin. I am a mental health professional and the message you are sending is truly inspiring. I have a friend that was born in a mans body but always felt that she was a female. The sad part is she didn't come out as a female until she was in her 60's. A person should be able to be who they are all their lives. So I hope parents that are watching take in to consideration, that if they observe that their child is struggling with gender identity, that they support, respect, encourage and help their child with that journey. Thank you for sharing your story.❤
Most people Born as a litte boy ( or Girl )
Not as a MEN. how Crazy is That ,..
never lose your confident ...you're beautiful, kind and honest .. so.. i hope 2020 will be a beautiful year for you... as always..
You sweet innocent soul
Me, a trans woman: *Exists*
Gender dysphoria: Allow me to introduce myself.
More videos like this ......for sake of education 🙏👍👍✌💓
More like
cis people: allow me to rudely introduce myself and interfere in your daily life
😂😂
@@Sarah_Kinz true BUT the same can be said for non cis people
Robin you have the most beautiful smile I've ever seen. Here's hoping you have lots of laughs and love in the new year.
I think the lack of acceptance is the worst thing about being trans
As someone who is a little older, I think some questions aren't out of malice but out of ignorance. I admit I'm rather ignorant as to many things when it comes to trans women (and trans men) and there isn't a real textbook on this since people are messy. People are weird. We are all human just trying to get through the day the best we can. That leads to questions, especially if you're like me and you want to understand but I do want to thank you for shedding some light on things I wondered about and hopefully that can lead others to do research and to try and understand that things such as this can be a very personal struggle for people and sometimes ask a question that can be seemingly innocent to me but not so to the other person. Communication is key. And I'd be mortified if I asked a question that came across as rude because that is never my intent. Now I have so many things to research and learn about which thanks to your channel, have given a starting point of how to better interact with a trans woman despite my crippling agoraphobia.
"Can't wait for what a struggle 2020 is gonna be"
COVID: *Let me introduce myself*
Robin , the hell with people who dont accept you. . You're wonderful anyone would be lucky to be with a girl like you.
I have trans friends and I'm shocked at how rude SOME people are when they find out. I'd punch them in the face if they asked such incredibly intimate/nosy questions but they just calmly tell them it's none of their business and then they get all indignant and pissy, as if they are entitled to know everything about your life because you're trans. I get a close up look at how so many view them as being unworthy of respect. I truly feel for y'all.
I'm a straight guy and for all you trans people out there more power to ya be you and be happy fuck what people think! Most trans people I have met are actually pretty cool
Defend us
Thing I hate most is everyone thinks they have the right to ask you the most personal questions. When people ask so are you gonna fully transition. Like it's any of there business
Ya like as if I have the right to ask a perfectly logical question right.
Kylie Tanner it is making this people’s business by putting up videos. If it doesn’t want questions then it shouldn’t post videos about what it’s doing.
@@damienroberts9166 first off "it" is a she and I don't think being rude on purpose is needed. Second she makes videos to spread awareness of her experience and if she helps a few people in the process then that's great. That however doesn't give people the right or a pass to know or ask anything. She is entitled to some off limit subjects
Kylie Tanner just saying don’t matter what the videos are about people are going to have questions. Rude ones or not. I’m not convinced a surgeon can really change a gender but more just mutilate the parts the individual has. What they believe in their head is their choice. My point being if you don’t want the questions or the rudeness don’t post on the internet. I will however say that it should be proud standing up for what it believes in. I could really care less what someone dose even if it’s very unnatural.
@@damienroberts9166 hey, have you considered not dehumanizing people? Trash
Robin whether or not you have had surgery yet doesn't matter. To those of us who care about you you a smart and attractive young woman. A little different than most but someone sharing her lifes journey with us with all its trials and tribulations. For that l for one thank you for helping me to better understand the things that trans people go through. My grandson is trans f/m and it has helped me build a better and stronger relationship with him. Even though you are young you have insights that many older people don't so don't ever stop being you l love you just the way you are and care about you the same as l do my grandson whom l always tell him l love him no matter what. So love and blessings to you and your loving family till next time.
@David Harris Umm, yes it does matter moron. Without the surgery you're just a transvestite. But even with a surgery, how does that grant anyone special rights? You need to have your head examined if you start chopping off your parts, especially if it's for others approval.
@@XD-rd9ig your hate is showing and you know nothing about trans community by sounds of it. Go and spread your hate somewhere else.
Definitely with you on the "IT" thing. Maybe others have spoke up about it, but you are the first I heard it from. Thank you, I needed to hear that.
NGL straight Cis male here and you might be one of the most amazing women I know. I would be lucky to have a girlfriend like you.
@adam zarbon Yikes!! Does your mommy dress you in the morning? Holy shit what a fucking pepega comment.
Highly Caffeinated Pepega comment xD
But yeah, adam zabron has quite a tiny brain to not comprehend how things are.
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You are very beautiful just how you are. Keep your head up everyone isn't a but head. Hugs and kisses
You miss Andy?
Simp
@@causeimhappylol stfu, are people not allowed to compliment anymore
I’ve decided she is probably the most beautiful trans woman I’ve met or seen. Plus her personality is 100% awesome’ if I was in Netherlands I would totally shoot my shot ❤️😂
Robin, you are not second rate. For a young lady, you have great wisdom. You're a beautiful girl with a beautiful soul.
Love you girl. So much. It's wonderful, the way you explained it to people. I'm not that brave.
I'm not an off-the-line woman, I'm an after-market woman... People, even kind ones, trying to "figure out" what you are. You can just see it in their eyes.
"We're all gonna die" ... RIP March 2020 :( covid-19
Ahah i scrolled the entire comment section to find this comment x)
COVID 19 IS A HOAX ! It's a psyop.
You make me feel better Robin. I'm a trans girl. Its actually hard for me to even say that bc I dont feel valid. But you help so thank you
Yup I agree with everything you said. Even being post op I can still remember how all of these are a issue and that some things like people finding out is a issue
Not being accepted or being called out by others that are so close minded. Finding the perfect man who understands and shares your similar lifestyle, interests and desires about everything about you want and think about being with another man.
You're beautiful to me.
Robin does look good
Bingo! I hate feeling like everyone is looking at me as if I did something horrible to them. So I stay back and stay quiet. And don't even act like you're going to touch me. I will disappear faster than you can blink. If I can't disappear get ready to be attacked. It's not you. It's me in public.
What do you mean, "If I can't disappear, get ready to be attacked."
@@karinpowers1018 I panic and take out what or who ever might be keeping me there regardless of what I want to do. I grew up when being transgender could get you killed if you're lucky. I don't mean it might happen. I mean it most likely will happen. Back then you kept your mouth shut and hopped no one ever found out. I have been living a life that isn't mine for almost 40 years. So yeah I will flip out if I'm cornered.
It is so hard to find love and yet people are constantly giving crap to people who just want to be loved for who they are. It really sucks. Most men have a huge masculine ego problem pounded into us from our youth which not only makes us bury our emotions and become dispassionate toward the emotions of others even at the cost of our own pursuit of love and happiness. If you love someone, love them with all your might. Even if you get hurt in the end, at least you have experienced the joy of love and hopefully you are better for it.
LOVE YOU ROBIN!!!❤❤❤❤❤
I came out at 58 i wasted the first part of my life but enjoying life now as my true self 😌
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can't wait to find out what a trainwreck 2020 is gonna be. 🥰"... Ohhhh Robin! You humorous light-hearted prophet.....
Heck yeah! Love your videos so much, stay strong x.
Agreed with everything. Anyway, it should be added that it is quite common in every day life for people to hurt other people , for people to get hurt, etc. This happens to trans and non-trans people alike.
i have watched a few of your videos, you have been through a lot, but you are still standing strong. you have one of the most beautiful smiles i have even seen and you a super attractive, keep your head love, 2020 might surprise you
Waiting lists are terrible in Scotland, over a year's wait if you're lucky, there's only two gender clinics in the country and only one sees under 18s.
Damn, I know the feeling. Stuck waiting for Sandyford, according to my doctor they've experienced 3 times as many referrals recently. I'm kinda hoping over time my GP will be ok with bridging prescriptions..but not holding my breath.
Damn, here in Venezuela there's only one unit for trans people (in the whole country) thanks god there's no waiting list. U literally can pick the day u want. Sadly I'm under 18 and My papá doesnt want to go. He's probably scared that the doctor Will Say that I do have gender dysphoria. Honestly idk what to do (i'm not on blockers so i'm getting more male developments and it's really hard for me) what should I do?
I have been dating my partner who is transgender and it has been amazing would not change it for anything
Do you play the passive role sometimes?
@@gabrielgarza8283 wow you are really interested in that, it looks like you want to play the passive
Amen! As long as the 2 of you are happy!
richard burton we very much are
@@travsgamingclub8957 I too have begun seeing a transgender woman and she is the most wonderful woman I have ever known.
I'm 37 years old and just now in a position to start hrt. So much of my life stuck as a "boy" and I wish I could've started this ordeal so much sooner!
don't sweat it. other people's opinions really don't matter. I'm a straight guy.youre a beautiful young lady..and I'm sure you're a terrific person to be around and cut up with....relax
You did such an exceptional job. You are amazing at what you do. I am so proud of you Robin You are an amazing woman. So sweet and incredible
Not everyone likes to be called a bitch instead of hello, although some do it all the time. Some would say, they are saying that with love, but once someone stepped on the road of picking on words it's the beginning of the end for relationship.
Identifying with a soul is way more important than identifying with anything else. I'm so attracted to a soul, man women trans ,black white green, 100yrs of age or 20. If you get that human whatever form they take the rest will fall into place.
When you fall in love with a person, you love that person and not a not a word ( trans or what ever) I don't know if you had surgery or not and it's none of my business. If I saw you walking the street I would consider you a very beautiful woman and good luck on whatever you do in your life just stay positive
Gelukkig Nieuwjaar voor jou. Ik hoop dat 2020 je liefde en vrede brengt. Het leven kan moeilijk zijn voor mensen die niet oppervlakkig zijn en dingen diep zien en buiten het oppervlak. Groeten van een vriend in Quebec.
wish i was as cute as you, I'm so jealous.
I'm here just sad and lonely about being trans, googling random trans content to feel better.
Your videos are a breath of fresh air. I guess it doesn't hurt that you're beautiful. Continued success.
From a straight male, who found your videos by accident, great job with your videos and your candid and honest discussions. You are beautiful person and have an engaging and appealing personality. You're going to do just fine. It may hurt to be honest sometimes, but everyone, of all kinds, goes through hurt when they don't find the right person to love them. The right person, will take your honesty and return your love. My two cents.
... and you do look like the girl from "You". Her name is Elizabeth Lail.
this girl is damn so beautiful!!!! OH MY GOD!!!!!!1
Boy. Its a b8y
I agree completely; she is far too pretty and beautiful for words to describe, both in physicality and mind. She is also incredibly brave and strong, and I absolutely love her ♥️♥️♥️
@@kgfairgo5559 dude whats "beighty"
The second fate shit, like that hit home gurl, there is often times feminist marchs in my country and many of my friends and family be like why dont u go? Like isnt that your vibe? And many times like i get that women need their own safe spaces and thats why they want men not to go to the marchs but that makes me so afriad to go in case like i find someone that says to me "oh you are not a woman you are not allowed here" and thet just would be too painfull because I know it can come from two places ignorance or hate
You’re adorable!!! Great video, real talk!!! ❤️
Brittanie D. Happy new year 🙋🏼♀️
3:20 growing up ''it'' was being used as an insult, now there are people unironically identifying as a ''it''
Omg yes, like when the tuck hurts in class suckssss
So ur a dude
@@eviathan8991 I swear I've seen you trolling these comment sections before...
Anke Ploeg I can’t imagine having to sit like that for a few minutes, let alone all day long.
Chloé The guy obviously is drawn to trans women and is lashing out because he just doesn’t want to admit to himself, why else would he be constantly lurking in trans women’s posts? Ignore the loser.
YESSSSSSSSSS, i can relate to this sooo much.
Anyone should feel free to explore who they truly are! I'm in my 50's and trying to figure that out now. And everyone has the right to feel accepted and respected by others. When I see others my first thought is how beautiful they are!
May I ask what it is that you're trying to figure out?
Danae is a Dutch company and they make (somewhat expensive) trans underwear. It means you don’t need to tuck. I use em too
5:00 Oh yes! Then imagine what happens when you understand your transidentity at 46... So much time not being who you truly are because you built a fictional personality to protect you from early insults and physical and psychological harms...
Anyway, the important thing is to free yourself! ;-)
Thank you for your video, young beautiful woman.
A woman is a person with a female body, not a "female personality." You're both misogynists.
@ana luisa mariano oliveira It is your personal choice, and there is no problem with it. Some prefers tall woman, some other wouldn't date a tall woman as well... As long as you respect everyone, it's cool.
@@karinpowers1018 Here is my point of view (just mine).
I do think that there is a huge difference between a person who presents itself as a woman just because of its personality (that it considers feminine) and a person who presents neurological proofs of perceiving physicaly (not as a image or a desire...) its own body as a female body despite of its male genitals (which may be sensed as a "malformation") [ It's like intersex people: their body has developed a "mix" of male and female "organs" ]
I'm sad to see that the notion of transgender is used to qualify both (intersex people excluded, of course).
I personaly know people who present themselves as transgender women but are totally OK with their male body... It make no sense to me that they call themselves women.
I do present a strong body dysphoria since my early age. I have always sensed that my body was malformed because of physical perceptions of internal feminine organs. I refused to touch my masculine "parts" for some years and I had an infection due to the fact that I didn't want to wash it. My parents have had to insist very strongly for I clean it explaining me that I should have very painful surgery if I continue not taking care of this part of my body that I didn't accept. Only transsexualism can explain my "state". But, unfortunately, transsexualism wasn't as known as today, and I've had to accept my "strange" body, accept the fact that girls would never want me in their groups (praying me to go and play with the "other" boys...). This is still painful to write it down today: you can't imagine when you don't live it. I'm not a 100% girl/woman because of my genitals, that's right, but I'm a transsexual woman meaning that my senses and my brain (which develop distinctly from sex organs) are neurologicaly expecting female genitalia and female breast. That's why I take hormones to correct my body and why I plan to have surgery, at least to take away the part of my body that makes "no sense" to my brain.
I hope this explanation will open your eyes to a reality that is too often misunderstood, maybe because of the transgender and gender concepts... Gender is a qualification of behaviors: men and women mostly act differently in every culture. But, from one country to another, there are differences that proove that gender is a cultural/mental construct. I hence know women who could be culturaly qualified as acting in a very "masculine" manner. And I know men that could be samely qualified "feminine". Nowadays they could (if they just decide to do so) to call them transgender men or women... Why not? These are words. But, once again, I think these people and I don't deserve the same "label".
And words must keep their fundamental meanings.
Sometime they have to be reconsidered to integrate a larger reality.
But I think they must preserve a link to an "observable" reality. A man, especially with a full beard, proud of its male body, calling himself a transgender woman?! To me, this is nonsensical.
I want to be called a (transsexual) woman because there is a physical basement to it, and because I do my best to erase male signs of my odd body. I know it will never become as if it has developed totally female, but I couldn't live anymore in a in-between state where I feel female internal physical neurological "signals" and being called a man. That's why, as soon as I understood my transidentity, I decided to "transition" (hormones, surgery...).
This is so hard to explain...
Anyway, I hope you'll get it.
Have a nice day.
@@karinpowers1018 and you reduce women to their breeding ability lol
@@rainjaydd8213 What makes a woman a woman IS by DEFINITION the fact she is a member of the female sex, which is capable of producing certain gametes. She doesn't have to do or think or behave in a certain way. She just has to have a certain kind of body. That is what the actual term means. The fact is that such a female can be or say or do ANYTHING she wants. She is still a woman. Your attempt to limit womanhood to those who conform to your shallow, subjective, nonsensical stereotypes betrays your own reductive tendencies, not mine.
No questions, owe nothing. Just...LOVE
Im a new subscriber. You really called 2020 accurately.
I loved what you had to say. I had a very good friend that's passed on now. I treated him like a brother, like any of my other guy friends before he confided in me one day that he was trans. I looked at him closely and told him....."I don't care. It doesn't effect our friendship. I had no idea you were trans. You're still the same person on the inside and always will be"
Looking back Im grateful I had a friend like him in my life and that I treated him like Like a brother , and with love and respect while he was still alive. No different from any other person. I really miss him. He was a special person.
I wish you nothing but good things, and a very long and peaceful life.
don't let them get you down live you're life and enjoy it, you don't need anybody's approval
I was like wait a sec is that Xori playing in tha background. Gotta luv u for that
Keep posting vids i enjoy watching them very much babe :) xx
I would never use IT for anyone, unless if that someone explicitly said that, for any possible reason of their personal story and journey in finding their gender identity, or lack of, found themselves more comfortable with IT as preferred pronoun. It's obviously a very specific case - and I will stick to that.
If you love someone for being a kind loving person they it shouldn't matter what sex you are. You seem so lovely and sweet. I hope all your dreams come true x
Robin you are a very pretty and feminine. Never let yourself be allowed to be treated as less than, you are a very brave woman
as for tucking, i have actually been tucking 24/7 for the past 7 months and the damn thing is still there😢
Yeah tucking omg. Like mine's still not 100% and it's still uncomfortable. And when I do physical activity I lose a bit of it. Also like... Idk I'm worried about certain logistics when I'm intimate with someone. Cuz like it's not the best situation going on down there in terms of like... Sweat an stuff :|
third.point.in.line I can only imagine what that must be like. Because “it” isn’t really supposed to “bend” that way.
I came out to my mum and my best friend today and they were really calm and didn't really freak out like I thought they would but now I'm freaking out because I don't know how to deal with this ?????? Someone help
How are you now
dysphoria has been the worst for me
Ok, so I'm weighing in late on this. Girl, you have to understand exactly how you are right now...you're beauty...what a straight guy attracted to a trans woman is looking for (exactly you) & the fact you have not had grs makes you absolutely perfect. No matter what rude & non-understanding people say...there are guys out there that would kill to be with a madly amazing & beautiful woman like you. Know you are loved & highly desired...that's all that should matter when you find the "right one". Mmmuahh, love you sweetheart & on your side ♡♡♡
P.S. Please keep posting, I'd love to hear more, Mmmuahh ♡
Literally you’re gorgeous, keep going at it girly
This human reactions of some people are so brutal...no one expect the Trans can understand this humiliation...
The woman I loved more than anyone I ever loved was trans and she was killed 15 months ago. I too can relate to being hated for who I am, because as a white male I am blamed for all the world's problems and I am called a racist and a "patriarch" for nothing more than being born white and male.
good luck i hope everything works out ok and you find someone who really loves you.
I can honestly say that you changed my whole perspective of the whole trans thing and i honestly feel bad for it...im not a mean person so i never like disrespected nobody but i definitely judged n im from Philadelphia and theres a stigma and there shouldn't be so thnx Robin your the best
Haha. Walking science project got me.
ana luisa mariano oliveira
Are you jealous ? That a trans girl look better than you 😇👅
It shouldn't have to be complicated...
It should be obvious.
Omg I know so many of the feelings you been talking about all too well. I recently came out for having gender disphoria and being trans to everyone I know and even on UA-cam and I'm in my early 30s even though I've felt this way my whole life I just played the role society and the streets forced me to play it til I couldn't play it anymore. Then I also feel like no matter how hott I end up being ill always be a 2nd rate girl never looked at as the real thing :( I totally get the childhood feeling like a blob of confusion and all. No doubt I relate to you and your videos help those of us just starting to be open about the lifestyle we've lived in private for soooo long.
Me crying in a bathroom stall because my tuck hurts so bad and the only other option is to not tuck in skinny jeans ... ahhhhh
6:16-6:32 - i feel that ♥ stay strong, girl :-*
Me: reads the description in August 2020
Also me: YOU JINXED US.
love your content!
I also saw a tucking method that didn't involve tape, if that helps! They used a stocking and a tube sock to create two 'tubes' of fabric, ran the stocking through the tube sock perpendicularly so that it looked like a white strip with two 'leg holes' off the side, and when you pull it up you can wear underwear over it. I've no idea if it works, but there you go!
Thank you so much for making videos. You don't know how much it means.
Such a beautiful person, just be yourself
Love your videos and your singing, your opinion is worth alot to help others on what they are going thru in life. Keep making videos and keep singing.
Stay beautiful
Tuckkkkkking fucking hurts ! , I remember tucking wrong multiple times and it was the worst it was a aching pressure pain then I had blisters it’s horrible 😭💀💀💀
I am MTF and have been on estrogen for 9 months now! So I know what it is like.
Ellie Adams, Does taking estrogen have any effect on testicles? Like reduced erection?
An Indian Homosapien testicles don’t become erect and don’t control erections. The prostate does.
You are truly intoxicating in the way you speak real shit!, Its addicting to watch you enjoy yourself giving advice that changes peoples life's. You're such a natural at being a perfect example of how humanity should behave towards other humans #AntiLabelling! Love you girl❤
P.S Adorning the natural look!
I’m 15 now and when I was 12 or 13 (a few years ago) I knew I wasn’t a boy (I’m AMAB) I thought I was non binary and that’s how I identified till I was 14 and then I realized I WAS a girl and suddenly so many things that should of made the fact that I am trans obvious very clear then but I’ve recently just been dealing with all the dysphoria and personal Shame
I don’t know why people transition. Living with dysphoria has got to be easier. I turned down a surgical operation to reverse a birth defect (pectus) and the dysphoria left eventually.
It's now 2021 as I am watching this. It was funny to me that she was optimistic about the year 2020.
i've only know you channel for like 3sec but i already love it ;w;
Sometimes we just ask crass questions. I wouldn't personally be so blunt. Then I think and I learn. I don't mean any offence. Ever.
Thanks for teaching me a little more.
Your a lovely person. 🖖
I would date you,and be okay about you being transgender🤷♂️..and I'm straight, but cis,not bi and anything of the sort,I believe that you have an awesome soul,and that is beautiful asf.😊
Yes we exist,But maybe we are unicorns in this world.anyway.you are so amazing and Irregardless of all the pain you go through,Know you got fans and supporters ❤
Nah, you're not "straight." Straight means heterosexual, not "heterogenderal."
It's homophobic to worry about insisting that you're straight when you're fine having sex with a male body.
Why not just relax about labels, rather than butcher the English language and deny reality?
@@karinpowers1018 okay,Imma say,you can worry about what grammar and labels people say I am,Go ahead 🤷♂️,Imma say,I'm a human being,And I would fuck with whatever She/ze or whatever everyone else say she is..That's my point..If given an opportunity,I definitely would do that,Cause I'm attracted to her soul,All these biological shit all you label police can have a go at it ..😊,just saying..just an Opinion..and I got what you were trying to say.thanks.
@@sonny539 I appreciate your thoughts, and good for you!
@adam zarbon and by whose law you getting that from?,My point is this,my Masculinity is attracted to his femininity..me or him being both Male has nothing to do with straight,Bi,Cis or etc..I'm not really a believer of Labels,but know that theres Love And Hate,Good Nd bad🤷♂️,but I would disagree with you in tellin me what I am and what iam not,But I respect your opinion
@adam zarbon that's a good point,And I agree with you on that fact,I'd say I'm attracted to his femininity,I would like to debate this issue with you,but it seems I'd loose face,cause you would have asked me about my sexuality(in which I dont wanna intrude on her)where I say I'm Not homosexual or gay,but a selfish Guy,to try and pick out the characteristics of a female(as to what you would generally prefer)from her and ignore that shes not female, but feminine,and that shes trans,and for me that's what I getting at.Your Opinion and this is mine.
I think you great. Try not to worry about the haters. X
It is Relstionship & Person U must Respect, Love and Honor. Doesn't matter if U R straight, gay or trans. Some people just DON'T GET IT!!!
this description aged well uidhsfdsaf
I have to say that tucking makes me feel better as if it is not really there but in all honesty no matter what i do i still have a visible "package" so I generally where something that does not show it, and you, OMG I totally wish I had your figure or looked nearly as good as you!! I am sure most CIS girls would be jealous of your looks!
Your confidence comes from within, and to hell what other people think. There is a lot of emotional baggage out there. Now with that said there are a lot of very attractive t women out there.
You are an incredible person. So straight forward with such interesting opinions and knowledge. Any negative comments you receive from women just understand it's their jealousy showing. Any negative comments from men, they just are trying to portray what they feel is socially acceptable masculinity. Fact is, any man would be both lucky and honored to be in a relationship with you. So many female from birth women don't have their proverbial shit together as well as you.
Survival mode = normal, everyday life. I have seen so many trans women die prematurely that it is crazy. Now I know why old people should deserve all respect.
As a trans girl I get this a lot
It really annoys me when we ppl say do you have a d*ck like mate what do you think if I’m trans when I’m male to female and when I wear a bra ppl be like why you wearing a bra and I always say “ bro why do you care “ anyways..
No hate to anyone I’m just saying my experience 👍🏻