Toxic Beauty Standards of Social Media

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  • @saloni357
    @saloni357 4 місяці тому +1424

    "Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it."
    - Confucius

    • @Java_RAM
      @Java_RAM 4 місяці тому +6

      Confuse- what ???

    • @the_name_is_aavesh
      @the_name_is_aavesh 4 місяці тому +11

      Bro it’s not confuse it’s confusious a famous book’s quote

    • @strongrahulsharma
      @strongrahulsharma 4 місяці тому +3

      Lao Tzu k contemporary tha wo

    • @strongrahulsharma
      @strongrahulsharma 4 місяці тому +7

      But reality yhi h ki face beauty matter krta h jitna tum sochte ho us se khi jyada. Tabhi to aise bahot saare log hai both male aur female ho sirf apne khoobsurat hone k wajah se successful hai

    • @Sachinkumar13198
      @Sachinkumar13198 4 місяці тому +2

      ​@@Java_RAM bhai confuse nahin confusius ek thinker tha

  • @queenbeestings
    @queenbeestings 4 місяці тому +245

    My female cousins cannot take any photos without filters. It is scary, these are teenagers. Thanks for spreading this message about Toxic beauty standards for both male and female.

    • @maxnoob7612
      @maxnoob7612 4 місяці тому +11

      It's happening because of the ig and the Korean beauty standards, even in villages this is getting wild I have given my full not let this thing reach my sisters

    • @ohhmyygoddd
      @ohhmyygoddd 4 місяці тому +3

      Same bro my friends never take pics without filter😂

    • @UnknownEntity444
      @UnknownEntity444 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@ohhmyygoddd and it should be stopped.

    • @UnknownEntity444
      @UnknownEntity444 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@maxnoob7612 Yeah social media is made to destroy men and women.
      We should take control over ourselves and watch what we need. And we shouldn't get influenced by these shits.

    • @KrishDogVlog24
      @KrishDogVlog24 4 дні тому

      I am 42 and my younger sister told my mom that he has stopped looking at me since we were in school because I was way below her standards.she said," look at her, she is ugly and she is below my standard.i don't want to do anything with her.i don't want to see her face". But during all this time she made me drop her at school,pick her, write assignments,bring books for her distant degree and lot more.she was so hateful still she made me do her chores.

  • @RamanSingh-zo5hf
    @RamanSingh-zo5hf 4 місяці тому +1564

    Dear ladies, you look beautiful without make-up. Just take care of your health and try to stay fit.

    • @sunnymeee
      @sunnymeee 4 місяці тому

      Make up is for insecure people

    • @Java_RAM
      @Java_RAM 4 місяці тому +17

      True

    • @Faltuvlogs10
      @Faltuvlogs10 4 місяці тому +28

      Yaa I know but yrr thori dhup ke wajah se sawle ho gaye hai or pimples ho gaye h isiliye thori depressed hu😢

    • @makadoxvsdk9530
      @makadoxvsdk9530 4 місяці тому +9

      for me it's not about face. I like girls with beautiful voice, expression, and eye. I don't care about face and color

    • @dia_wilson
      @dia_wilson 4 місяці тому +34

      ​@@makadoxvsdk9530still you are not doing something out of the world. You are still judging someone on the basis of their physical traits. That's where the problem arises. Instead of throwing comments on girls like I like this girl I like this trait, Focus on yourself okay no one asked your choice here.

  • @sameerraawal
    @sameerraawal 4 місяці тому +238

    Harsh Truth: 99% of viewers are those who don't even need to watch this. And actual one who need this, don't even click the thumbnail 😢

    • @SalimbegMirza-m3h
      @SalimbegMirza-m3h 4 місяці тому +3

    • @realjaydev
      @realjaydev 4 місяці тому +5

      He should try to make sarcastic videos and thumbnails so that people who need to watch this will click the thumbnails.

    • @AamirKhan-vs4co
      @AamirKhan-vs4co 4 місяці тому

      Wrong

    • @rudramahadev22
      @rudramahadev22 4 місяці тому

      Yahi comment iske haar videos mai kyu daal rahe ho bhai , kuch naya likho

    • @UnknownEntity444
      @UnknownEntity444 3 місяці тому +4

      They do watch but cannot digest the truth.

  • @Compul01x
    @Compul01x 4 місяці тому +479

    Idols are not ideal to be Idols...
    Because they themselves are not happy being idols

  • @niharikasant698
    @niharikasant698 4 місяці тому +97

    “Nothing makes a woman more beautiful than the belief that she is beautiful.” ❤✅

  • @YoriichiTsugikuni07
    @YoriichiTsugikuni07 4 місяці тому +261

    Worst part about this industry is that many people who know all this is fake, still they follow these influencers and judge others by these standards either directly or indirectly.

    • @railexpress8504
      @railexpress8504 4 місяці тому +7

      Cause they are showing us that and we don't have a good content,we are showed that !!!!

    • @chevlott
      @chevlott Місяць тому +1

      Bollywood is the culprit

  • @Ruch-bq4sf
    @Ruch-bq4sf 4 місяці тому +55

    I am 21 years old, never been on any social media.....prettty goodlooking as well...when guys ask me about my SM i tell them i dont have any. They don't believe me, but I am proud of my self that i don't fit in...never did, neither i want to
    Girls and Boys .....you are gorgeous the way u are ...Your differences makes you divine ....stay beautiful

    • @prashanthande5
      @prashanthande5 3 місяці тому

      Good. SM Ka meaning kya hai?

    • @Ajitkumar-kh7ir
      @Ajitkumar-kh7ir 3 місяці тому

      Mee too not on social media

    • @lowkeyn
      @lowkeyn 2 місяці тому +2

      youtube is a social media bro

  • @AnjaliiYadavv12
    @AnjaliiYadavv12 4 місяці тому +431

    One year ago I saw an interview of iyer bhai from tmkoc (sorry idk his real name) he said a line which is stuck in my mind he said "what is beauty? Beauty is nothing! It lies in eyes of beholder ,it's how you sees it ,how you perceive it"

    • @itz_thesdk
      @itz_thesdk 4 місяці тому +16

      Bhai wo Iyer bhai ne nahi kaha hai.... Its a famous quote by Margaret Wolfe in her book Molly Bawn. TV aur social media se nikal k books padho.

    • @ssjdark3386
      @ssjdark3386 4 місяці тому +8

      ​@@itz_thesdk true, also it's a quite famous quote astonished to see that she doesn't know about it

    • @AnjaliiYadavv12
      @AnjaliiYadavv12 4 місяці тому +15

      @@itz_thesdk Iyer bhai really said that in an interview and I saw that year ago. And if you are saying that it's not his quote so maybe he must have read or heard it somewhere . If someone is using someone else's ideology that doesn't mean it becomes his .
      And about social media bro I don't even have a Snapchat and insta account even I have stopped UA-cam recommendations. I rarely use UA-cam. I am already out of this social media shit!
      Thankyou for the extra knowledge though

    • @Du.....249
      @Du.....249 4 місяці тому +13

      Sad reality: Iyer bhai ki real life me shadi nhi Hui because of his colour 😢

    • @OnlyParv
      @OnlyParv 4 місяці тому

      I also don't have Instagram and Snapchat account only UA-cam ​@@AnjaliiYadavv12

  • @shizashaik1902
    @shizashaik1902 4 місяці тому +8

    "beauty captures the eye ,personality captures the heart" every person out there should know this and acknowledge ✨✨

    • @theeagleeye1077
      @theeagleeye1077 4 місяці тому +1

      Yes, true, but the problem, not one comes for you when you don't look good enough, you aren't cool , or just charismatic 😢,you don't get dates😢

  • @cherrystar25
    @cherrystar25 4 місяці тому +834

    Speaking truth without hesitationn..hats off to u brooo... Must needed content

    • @MahiNergy
      @MahiNergy  4 місяці тому +84

      Thank you ❤

    • @AuraPlayz2
      @AuraPlayz2 4 місяці тому +6

      I am waiting for your video your video is very good

    • @নাস্তিক
      @নাস্তিক 4 місяці тому

      ​@@MahiNergymake a video on our mudslim peaceful video saar pls

    • @Anamerican01
      @Anamerican01 4 місяці тому +7

      ​@@MahiNergymake a video on nihilism and egoistic altruism 🙏

    • @lilbrained11
      @lilbrained11 4 місяці тому +4

      @@MahiNergy please try making a seperate video on how kpop and anime has distracted the youth, to be honest i had the same problem also, of you're gonna make it i'll mail you my story, i would love if you'll add it in the video

  • @aakansha498
    @aakansha498 4 місяці тому +12

    Atleast there are people like you throwing light to the dark aspects of nowadays trends. Thank you bro. We need more people like you in this world.

  • @A---BMaitriSarkar
    @A---BMaitriSarkar 4 місяці тому +150

    Can't blame ppl for faking looks on social media, cuz when they are their real selves ppl bully them for their body, height, skin color. People then bully them for surgery and stuff. PEOPLE ARE HYPOCRITES.

    • @lobo981
      @lobo981 4 місяці тому +3

      Best comment

    • @AnuragPatel-l5n
      @AnuragPatel-l5n 4 місяці тому +1

      bhai uske liye influence bhi unhi ne to kiya hai....habit to unhi ne lagwaya hai....Khaiir ye sab ab aaplog jyada jante hoge maine kabhi social media use nai kiya

    • @abhaysingh-yt3jg
      @abhaysingh-yt3jg 4 місяці тому +3

      Khudko confidence hona chahiye ..doosre ke opinions matter nhi krni chahiye... Problem..is people are weak.

    • @Zenab7777.
      @Zenab7777. 4 місяці тому

      This is so true

  • @Drishti-354
    @Drishti-354 4 місяці тому +18

    Whatta video mann!!!! I really appreciate that you spoke facts about these toxic standards of beauty for women and also mentioned that men are also insecure about their bodies too!!!! Dear all ladies and gentlemen just don't change yourself for other people! Embrace beauty in yourself. ❤❤

  • @saloni357
    @saloni357 4 місяці тому +208

    If you will watch old Hindi cinema you will notice that all the actors and actresses were mind-blowingly beautiful/handsome in their own unique ways. No whitewashed skin, no botox or 6 pack abs. Just elegance, class, humility, innocence and talent.
    Nowadays, all actors and actresses seem to have the same face with a shit load of attitude.

    • @godofwar8262
      @godofwar8262 4 місяці тому +9

      Plastic

    • @ANIK-qk9mz
      @ANIK-qk9mz 4 місяці тому

      6 pack abs literally shows the good health sign you people deserve to get body shame now I guess

    • @VijvalSingh-g5c
      @VijvalSingh-g5c 4 місяці тому +3

      Fr

    • @PankajRoy747
      @PankajRoy747 4 місяці тому +2

      Waah .... 🤌

    • @omkumarbakchod
      @omkumarbakchod 4 місяці тому +2

      No , that's not true , even at that time a company called ' PANCAKE ' supplied makeup to the actor and actress and it was applied on their skin on a surplus amount so that they could look better.....it's always the same bro , just getting more and more

  • @BhagyaMehta-f6z
    @BhagyaMehta-f6z 4 місяці тому +68

    Le me : who find every confident person attractive

  • @iPengu97
    @iPengu97 4 місяці тому +107

    Thanks Mahi for making this video. Really appreciate your content and help me guide my inner light through your videos. One thing I would recommend to young ones (I am 27 btw) is that social media is not good for your mental health, I was a person who knew all the trends, meme cultures, and all the reference but in the background it was affecting my cognitive abilities which I didnt realize until one day I got a notification that my avg. screentime was 10.5 hrs/day which was really alarming. Its been one month since I am off the insta and I must tell you it is much more healthy and my screen time has been reduced to 6hrs/day and I am continuously working to bring this lower.

    • @MahiNergy
      @MahiNergy  4 місяці тому +18

      Wow so good to hear this
      Thank you for appreciation ❤🙏

    • @vivekgamingyt6828
      @vivekgamingyt6828 4 місяці тому +1

      good di keep going..i also use the social media as less as possible..5 hrs a day as a 20 yrs old

    • @apoorvavishwakarma3178
      @apoorvavishwakarma3178 4 місяці тому +2

      you know my screen time is only 2 hours a day because i focus on my goals and a also quite instagram,snapchat and all shit even i watch only my subscribed channals video on youtube

  • @niharikapadmasri8910
    @niharikapadmasri8910 4 місяці тому +12

    Your video eloquently expresses all the thoughts I have....
    If I talk about body positivity or leave a comment on body positivity posts, people just say you're too lazy for it. They say you're ugly, that's why you're talking about body positivity 😢
    The sad reality is for society and social media only looks matter. It has become nearly impossible to change the perspective. Only good thing is atleast a few people started loving themselves and are able to come out of this extreme looks obsession....

  • @nameless_.999
    @nameless_.999 4 місяці тому +335

    This society is disgusting seriously.

    • @Certified_Gabi_Hater
      @Certified_Gabi_Hater 4 місяці тому

      True

    • @JustCallMeAarav
      @JustCallMeAarav 4 місяці тому +3

      ​@@ahsuyaaPerfect 😂😂😂
      The beauty standards isn't perfect. Many western girls look better than the beauty standards. Most white girls look better than who is the beauty standard. This is nowhere near perfection.

    • @ShshankVats
      @ShshankVats 4 місяці тому +5

      You can't blame society for everything bcuz you are also part of society 😊

    • @GameOn0-d6d
      @GameOn0-d6d 4 місяці тому +4

      Look's matter. That's the brutal truth.

    • @Grey.subliminal
      @Grey.subliminal 4 місяці тому +1

      And the society is " Us"

  • @pabitamahato3387
    @pabitamahato3387 4 місяці тому +13

    I want to say something - when I was 16 yr old, I was badly addicted to Instagram and would scroll mindlessly the whole day. So during that time I was extremely sensitive as a typical teenage girl and Instagram reels were fuel to the fire. It made me insecure from every angle possible, I would cry my eyes out bcus of my insecurity . I would continuously compare myself with the influencers and the kpop idols. Becoming a little mature I realized how bad influence social media can have and how it can shatter our confidence. I deleted Instagram on 7th fab, 2024 . It was huge achievement for me. Now I'm happy with myself and my surroundings, life's feeling better ❤

  • @iamdassudip
    @iamdassudip 4 місяці тому +140

    Beauty is not in the body
    It is inside the soul❤

    • @DhirajjMahatoo
      @DhirajjMahatoo 4 місяці тому +1

      Awesome

    • @Faltuvlogs10
      @Faltuvlogs10 4 місяці тому +10

      Bss bolne ka h

    • @iamdassudip
      @iamdassudip 4 місяці тому +3

      @@Faltuvlogs10 no it's true dear

    • @Topg69
      @Topg69 4 місяці тому +5

      @@iamdassudip but still people judge you at first look ,so it's not valid tbh it's only good in terms of words

    • @churchilkamkb
      @churchilkamkb 4 місяці тому +3

      It's not face. It's the whole body😂

  • @wondersakshii9843
    @wondersakshii9843 4 місяці тому +5

    Been 1.5 plus year, I’ve quit Instagram and my small channel , I took take time for my self and work on myself and be happy in real life than the social media! ❤❤ when you’re truly comfortable with your self, come out and then inspire all of us around you ❤❤ your channel is my favourite ❤❤ you’re doing great work ❤❤

  • @lilbrained11
    @lilbrained11 4 місяці тому +31

    This man is saving the whole generation, mad respect to him for speaking truth of social media on social media

  • @alyssa2619
    @alyssa2619 4 місяці тому +9

    This man is so underrated. Thank you for speaking the truth.

  • @Navneet_Dharmsaktu
    @Navneet_Dharmsaktu 4 місяці тому +54

    bro's content is getting better day by day

  • @MuktiSau-ec5by
    @MuktiSau-ec5by 4 місяці тому +7

    This is called a true content which inspires young generation to the right way

  • @anjalisingh8801
    @anjalisingh8801 4 місяці тому +25

    Bhaiya I a teenager girl (actually 17😅) and I have been always heard these beauty standard which I didn't accept but honestly speaking your videos honestly gives me more confidence to stand on it ..

    • @inforfact
      @inforfact 4 місяці тому +1

      very good beta

  • @OnlyParv
    @OnlyParv 4 місяці тому +154

    Abhi tak Instagram account na hone ka ghamand hai 💪💪

    • @viralahir543
      @viralahir543 4 місяці тому +2

      same bro....

    • @Invictus999-9
      @Invictus999-9 4 місяці тому +4

      Same no social media except UA-cam and watsaap !

    • @videsititli8211
      @videsititli8211 4 місяці тому +1

      I live in the Netherlands and I use youtube and whatsapp. No other social media. People need to stop idolising

    • @kabita132
      @kabita132 4 місяці тому +3

      I also bro 😄

    • @NikStar-zq5dh
      @NikStar-zq5dh 4 місяці тому +2

      I have social media accounts but I minimally use them. I try to consume more good content, even on Instagram I try not to watch reels but my friends are their so I have to use it. If we use them minimally and effectively they will not affect much

  • @chanchalsinha-tv4ir
    @chanchalsinha-tv4ir 4 місяці тому +69

    Healing something that u never hurted , Mahi bhaiya hats off to u ....

    • @MahiNergy
      @MahiNergy  4 місяці тому +10

      Means a lot to me

  • @proggazaman111
    @proggazaman111 3 місяці тому +2

    maybe the best video which absolutely talks about the truth and dare to define what beauty actually means!! hats off to you man!

  • @PokéQuest04
    @PokéQuest04 4 місяці тому +20

    The video brilliantly captures the paradox of the beauty industry. While it promotes self-expression and confidence, it often sets unrealistic standards that can harm self-esteem and mental health. This toxic beauty culture needs to shift towards inclusivity and genuine self-acceptance. Thanks for shedding light on this important issue!

  • @sanketjanbandhu522
    @sanketjanbandhu522 4 місяці тому +5

    Watching you nearly from 6 months ago ….
    The change i can see within me is somewhat always I have to be grown originally since my childhood ….
    But I trapped somewhere when I introduced social media …
    Your content is literally what todays youth needs to watch … develop their thought process…
    Keep away from the fake lifestyle that uh were forcefully trapped in!
    I have been very mentally stressed from last 2,3 years …
    But ur content is something i always want to add up in me …
    I will definitely meet you once in my life to tell uh how much uh have create an impact into my life…
    I dont knw when i lastly comment on anyones video …
    Keep it up bhai… This community will be grow more stronger 👏

  • @AjayKumar-nb2vg
    @AjayKumar-nb2vg 4 місяці тому +20

    The real definition of influencer hats off brother ❤

  • @Iman2k24
    @Iman2k24 3 місяці тому +1

    this video has changed my life... i was thinking of having surgery now im accepting my natural features... thanku so much for changing my vision STAY BLESSED BRO

  • @kssreelakshmi
    @kssreelakshmi 4 місяці тому +13

    This was a much needed video. We are constantly fed by the social media that only fair, slim is beautiful. There is no inclusivity although it is preached. Thanks for the insights.

  • @dr.abhishek.singh.
    @dr.abhishek.singh. 4 місяці тому +9

    Thank you so much for this video
    I have two younger sisters, now it will be easier for them to understand.❤❤

  • @fitnesstalks_with_pranit
    @fitnesstalks_with_pranit 4 місяці тому +36

    Maine last tak dekha, & thanks for this amazing video bhai ❤️❤️
    Keep it up 💪🏼

    • @MahiNergy
      @MahiNergy  4 місяці тому +5

      Thank you mere bhai ❤🙏

  • @deekshachaudhary76
    @deekshachaudhary76 4 місяці тому +5

    This is called real influencer🔥,, hats off to you brother and thankful to you always inspiring nd spread information.❤✨👍

  • @Arti_Aquila
    @Arti_Aquila 4 місяці тому +34

    Dear girls nd ladies please don't compare yourself with others. You are unique in your own way. And no need to change it, you are beautiful just the way you are.
    Never ever compare yourself with others, this would be the 1st step for your selfcare nd self love.
    Lots of love to you, ❤.

    • @priyaalkhandal4163
      @priyaalkhandal4163 4 місяці тому

      Well said

    • @ANIK-qk9mz
      @ANIK-qk9mz 4 місяці тому

      ​@@Biblio__girlTum jaida bak rahi ho introvert se shadi kaise hogi

  • @chiwaga
    @chiwaga 4 місяці тому +5

    Beauty is not the change by makeup,
    But a smile you wear,
    Affection of your confidence,
    Trust of your words,
    Beauty is defined by liars when they say its visually,
    But beauty is not what you see but the feeling your hearth,
    Peace of your eyes,
    Happiness of your life!

  • @PranshulSoni-15
    @PranshulSoni-15 4 місяці тому +48

    Its very hard to guess how our generation is going to survive this era.

  • @ahmedh2048
    @ahmedh2048 4 місяці тому +4

    hey bro thanks for helping me out with fake world and it teach me about the world ..
    to everyone if you feel like your are not perfect just ask your mom she will tell you truth dont need to ask the fake world.....
    love you allllll

  • @snigdhapathak115
    @snigdhapathak115 4 місяці тому +28

    bhaiya mai kabhi insta k post dekhkar khudke sath compare nhi kri ,,aur nahi mai kisi model ki fan hu ,,to aapkaa baat sunkar mujhe itnaaa accha feel huya itnaa proud feel huya ki kya he batau ,,abb se to kabhi shochungi bhi nhi compare karne ki,,,thank you bhaiyaa ❤❤

    • @MrSubhan-ql8yb
      @MrSubhan-ql8yb 4 місяці тому +2

      Nice 👏

    • @AnushuyaPhukan
      @AnushuyaPhukan 25 днів тому +1

      Bilkul sahi bol rahe hai aap..Jeise ho weise hi khudko accept Karo aur khush raho

  • @99stranger
    @99stranger 4 місяці тому +52

    Mujhe to puri Kardashian family se jyada natural log jyada attractive lgte hai chahe male ho ya female.😂😂😂

  • @Realbindasbol88
    @Realbindasbol88 4 місяці тому +32

    Beauty captures the eye 👀
    Personality captures the heart ❤

  • @arshsahay5131
    @arshsahay5131 4 місяці тому +4

    Wake up to reality this channel is pure definition of this line

  • @abhixsar
    @abhixsar 4 місяці тому +12

    Fake beauty standards among Gen Z are often perpetuated by social media platforms, where heavily edited images and unrealistic portrayals of beauty are prevalent this constant exposure can create a distorted sense of self and unrealistic expectations. The pressure to conform to these ideals can lead to issues like body dysmorphia, low self-esteem, and mental health problems Despite a growing movement towards body positivity and authenticity, the pervasive nature of these unrealistic standards still poses significant challenges I hope people & children understand that and Mahi bhaiya really love You and thanks alot for making these types awarnesss videos truly impressive and appreciated and once again love to your all efforts and by your team 💕🤝💌✨

  • @niteshprajapat61
    @niteshprajapat61 3 місяці тому +2

    this is third video that I have seen in last two days and by default I literally couldn't fast forwarded or skipped anything a single part of the video. amazing 😍

  • @chiragsingh0369
    @chiragsingh0369 4 місяці тому +146

    Height obsession in boys is also so high." Every man should be 180cm"
    I hate this line. I am 167cm and I am happy with it

    • @ssjdark3386
      @ssjdark3386 4 місяці тому +10

      What's your age? Like yeah boys wanna grow more because nowadays there's a trend that women will only date 6ft+ man, this western world is doomed. I am 175cm at 15, neither happy nor sad like height isn't a factor that should bother me.

    • @samikshagoyal7707
      @samikshagoyal7707 4 місяці тому +3

      Very nice attitude 👍 We should love ourselves ❤

    • @ANIK-qk9mz
      @ANIK-qk9mz 4 місяці тому +10

      ​@@ssjdark3386 and all those short womens wants to date tall guy . If a short women have child with tall man their kid going to be short in 40% cases because of mother's height

    • @ANIK-qk9mz
      @ANIK-qk9mz 4 місяці тому +3

      Me too I also want height like 5'11" but sadly I don't have 😭

    • @samikshagoyal7707
      @samikshagoyal7707 4 місяці тому +7

      @@ANIK-qk9mz Why be sad about it? You know short height ppl live longer, are prone to disease less than rest and are also good for earth?

  • @Roslena.
    @Roslena. День тому

    I'm 15, this year, I've been through eating disorder. I was so affected by the so called beauty standards to the level where i was in the hospital. I never felt enough. As for now I'm finally got over it. The best step was to sabotage myself from social media.
    Yes, beauty matters! Yes self care is improving your beauty but you don't have to go over your limits for that. I hope, if there's somebody out there who's going through the same can understand that, the way your body changes it's shape is natural and it's important to learn to embrace it.

  • @sangamtamang6524
    @sangamtamang6524 4 місяці тому +11

    Hello Brother, I watched your video on social media couple of months ago about how fake it can be. Since then I have deactivated all my social media accounts and I can say that my life has changed drastically. Just about 6 months ago I couldn’t fall asleep in the night. If I went to bed at 10:00 it would take around 4 hours to fall asleep. I can honestly say that I get a very good sleep these days and I feel very motivated and have a strong mindset and it’s easier to wake up early in the morning with a feeling of proper rest and sleep. I feel like I have been the most happy in the last 6 months.
    Thank you very much for your videos, I tend to watch all your videos hoping to get positive energy which you never disappoint. And please keep making these type of videos.

  • @maryamsaleem7580
    @maryamsaleem7580 4 місяці тому +3

    Love this video! You're tackling a topic that's so relevant and necessary in today's society. Fake social media beauty standards can be so harmful and unrealistic, and it's amazing that you're shedding light on this. Your content is exactly what everyone needs to see! Keep spreading awareness and promoting self-love and acceptance. Can't wait to see more videos like this!
    Love from Pakistan ❤

  • @EMOTIONALTABBY
    @EMOTIONALTABBY 4 місяці тому +13

    i always skip videos.... but i watch ur whole video without even skip.....
    ur parents raise u in a great way😇

  • @Abulhasan-X
    @Abulhasan-X 4 місяці тому +4

    22:05 Bahot badhiya content bhai...😊
    ye aaj kl ke baccho ko n jane kya ho gya...
    Health se compromise kr rhe hai....really,😧 health se.😢
    They need to understand ki wo log surgery kra ke khudka ghr chalane ke liye (livelihoods) ke liye waisa slim body promote krti hai. Aur to aur they spend a lot on their surgeons and dietrians.
    Aap jaise hain waise hi rhe. Physical nhi mental beauty ko badhayein.
    Health js wealth.

  • @JinX_4
    @JinX_4 4 місяці тому +7

    This video perfectly highlights the hidden dangers of social media. It's crucial to stay mindful of the content we consume and the impact it has on our mental health. Great job!❤

  • @sindhumathew570
    @sindhumathew570 19 днів тому +1

    Marylin monroe wasn't used to be skinny or has perfect hips, belly but still she's still one of the most beautiful Hollywood actress. The other things I love about her that is she motivated the girls ♥️ also she fought against the beauty standards of the society.

  • @AFIAHUMAIRA-hh1os
    @AFIAHUMAIRA-hh1os 4 місяці тому +48

    "There's a hope just waiting for you in the dark. You should know you're beautiful just the way you're. There's no need to change a thing,the world could change it's heart."
    Alessia Cara.

  • @ashutoshpatel3024
    @ashutoshpatel3024 4 місяці тому +1

    Sach bolne or sach dikhane Wale bohot Kam log bache hain is duniya me is desh or sach bolne k liye bohot himmat bhi cahiye ese video ese maind set ki hamare desh me bohot jada jarurat hai please you continue and spread good things ❤

  • @divyanka9811
    @divyanka9811 4 місяці тому +42

    Bro I'm 5'1' aur meri mummy aur relatives hmesha bolte rehte h ki itni lmbi hoti tb perfect hoti😢
    Seriously?
    It hurts yr but the thing is that I'm working on myself,focusing on my studies for better life😌. Also I don't use Instagram that's why I'm not influenced by those models much but thoda bohot to ho hi jate h yr ab to ye sb yt pe bhi ho rha h🙂.
    But kudos to you mahi bhai ❤for talking on such a sensitive topic cause no one else did.. 😇🤗

    • @gvsmani4810
      @gvsmani4810 4 місяці тому +5

      😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I'm 4'11 ,16 y/o ,meri ek dost thi ek saal pehle,she was perfect 5'5 model when she was 16 ,i feel really insecure about my height 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @IonlyhaveeyesforBTS
      @IonlyhaveeyesforBTS 4 місяці тому +4

      Me bhi same situation face kr rhi hu. Meri height 4'11 hai aur age 21 with curvy body. Friends se lekr family tk sb log yehi bolte rehte hai ki weight km kro height badhao. Kese kru yrr mere hath nhi h kuch bhi.😭😭😭

    • @Shreya...1
      @Shreya...1 4 місяці тому

      ​Thats disgusting ur mama is a creep and mom should say like that how can she say her daughter is ugly remind her its her genetics 😏​and stay away from your mama he sounds like a creep@@VanshikaBhadhana

    • @ANIK-qk9mz
      @ANIK-qk9mz 4 місяці тому +1

      Well should tell them to why they didn't let you sleep longer sleep makes you tall

    • @Drishti-354
      @Drishti-354 4 місяці тому

      Same gurlll

  • @tanishkachaudhary1003
    @tanishkachaudhary1003 4 місяці тому +2

    I really needed this video as sometimes i feel insecure about how I look. But watching this video gave me a new perspective and changed my thought process. Thank you so much❤

  • @PANDA_0783
    @PANDA_0783 4 місяці тому +88

    i disagree however I agree with some points but not at all.
    Yes, in this generation not everyone is beautiful you need a good body, face, skin colour and facial features to be beautiful.
    If I take my story, I was bullied because I wasn't fair and had brown skin colour. I'm not good looking and want fair skin, nice body, and facial features. One of my classmates hates me because he used to make fun of me and when I replied to him he started hating me called me because I was brown and not white. No one loves a person without fair skin or good facial features. It's nearly impossible in this generation to find someone who loves you the way you're or by your personality. Even my parents sometimes hated me for that. I also don't have any friends and that's one of the reasons. No one really liked me or cared about me. Cause I wasn't good looking.
    I don't want to be perfect but I want to be an average good looking boy and a friend who will be my back, cares about me, would be loyal, honest and supportive.
    Also talking about personality then I literally helped those who hated me because my parents taught me to help everyone when someone needs help. But all of my classmates whom I trusted betrayed me and didn't help me when I needed them the most. The last person i trusted also betrayed me, the last time when I talked to him was when I gave him the gift for his birthday. He had, my mom and my dad's phone number but he didn't care and it's 3 months and he didn't call me. I helped every poor person I saw. Many times my mom gives me money so that I could buy something for lunch (many times mom doesn't cook something because of some reasons) and some poor people ask me for money and I give them cause I feel bad for them. I never betrayed anyone, helped everyone still everything bad happened to me and everyone says if you do something good, good things will happen to you and you will get rewarded but in my 17Years of life not a single day has been passed where nothing bad happened.
    If you have courage and time to read that much lengthy comment 😅 then make a video conserding my facts and can you still say that no one is ugly. And everyone should accept themselves as they are?
    Again I don't want to be perfect but an average good looking person.

    • @razesimp
      @razesimp 4 місяці тому +10

      Broo are you a twin of mine😭🫂🥺🥺

    • @PayalMishra-sx2my
      @PayalMishra-sx2my 4 місяці тому +1

      I am with you bro❤

    • @ssjdark3386
      @ssjdark3386 4 місяці тому +13

      No way I am reading this paragraph 💀💀

    • @supratimdutta7990
      @supratimdutta7990 4 місяці тому +11

      @PANDA_0783 Bro just wanna say that ki all this things whatever u hv said nothing matters in long term... just ignore this feelings study hard work on ur skills establish urself eventually everything whatever u wish whatever u want will come around for sure... actually if I had a chance I would have told all this to my younger version nevertheless I wish u hv a great future ahead !! more support to you....❤

    • @Parc1022
      @Parc1022 4 місяці тому +10

      U Will surely have a great future ahead of u, keep helping those poor and keep moving forward ignore all the problem even though i know its hard to bear but ur hard working will pay u off my friend believe in god, i was also like u but i never give up i know its easy to say than done, all the beauty standard are created by human and i believe at one point this beauty standard will be meaningless and only the talent and hard working will remain..the burden we have as a ugly face will surely pain us but we can't do anything but keep moving forward but once again i am sayin don't be depressed and keep moving forward one day u will surely meet a person who u can rely on...! My best wishes for u😊

  • @Education.Master-r1b
    @Education.Master-r1b 4 місяці тому +1

    You are really doing a very great job , today's generation needs to take good words seriously, these models and influencers are just using us to promote them and making us disheartened about ourselves... Listen all girls and boys, you are perfect, you need no change physically, just eat healthy and be fit , and have a good personality and that's what will make you win the long run.

  • @LuckySharma-c5o
    @LuckySharma-c5o 4 місяці тому +9

    In today's world we are forgetting that how we are from indide , everyone wants their surroundings to be perfect in terms of body not in terms of mentality, people wants their partner to look oerfect irrespective of thier nature .....
    Peoples compare themselves with other beacuse of which a feeling of insecurity is devloped among youths and they are not able to understand that these all looks doesn't matter a lot if you are not good from heart ...
    It's good that you are trying to clarify our doubts but we need more influencers beacuse of which this voice can reach on next level........

  • @arpitatripathi4273
    @arpitatripathi4273 4 місяці тому +2

    Having a good health is more important than having this worst beauty standard which is set by some people's..! Hat's off to your work...watch full video and plzz share them also...!!

  • @Shreya...1
    @Shreya...1 4 місяці тому +7

    You are the only person on social media who talks about real modern day social issues. Thank you!

  • @EpochActors
    @EpochActors 4 місяці тому +2

    bro is Social Media ke Era Me Tum jaise bando Ke Sakht zarorat Hai.. Hats off

  • @sanikahupare
    @sanikahupare 4 місяці тому +4

    You are not only making strong people community but also by straightforwardly tell how this World is fake with illogical things to rethink for our precious life 🙏💯

  • @kehkashanakram5176
    @kehkashanakram5176 7 днів тому

    I have seen lots of channels..but this brother is changing thoughts and he is doing such a great job.. I have shared his channel in my circle. Keep it up brother..love your videos. Your messages are what our society needs right now.

  • @bubbytae_0
    @bubbytae_0 4 місяці тому +1

    Me and my mom really loves your vid sm she said why he doesn't have an "national creator awards" even he was a deserving person ❤

  • @ayushjoshi9705
    @ayushjoshi9705 4 місяці тому +6

    I hardly comment on social media cause i find it useless.
    But your work is appreciable. WELL DONE!!

  • @mywondersecret5688
    @mywondersecret5688 4 місяці тому +2

    really u spreading a very good msg,..people don't know the meaning of leaving healthy its never mean u have to be in perfect shape its mean u have to eat everthing fats,proteins etc properly in a proper quntity ,yoga excersies meditation its for ur good mental and physical health if u do it u r loving ur self bt it doesn't mean u have to do intense excersies or stop eating this is so wrong u r destroying urself...plz love urself as u r ,...you are beautiful everyone is beautiful...be confident for how ever u r...

  • @Cosmic_clipHindi7
    @Cosmic_clipHindi7 4 місяці тому +392

    21 saal ki ho ke bhi phone me insta na hone ka ghamand hai hame😂😂

    • @cosmic_aurora-t4k
      @cosmic_aurora-t4k 4 місяці тому +36

      Me too 😂😂 only WhatsApp no other social media platform...

    • @samikshagoyal7707
      @samikshagoyal7707 4 місяці тому +8

      @@cosmic_aurora-t4k Same 😂😂😂😂

    • @ANIK-qk9mz
      @ANIK-qk9mz 4 місяці тому

      You better watch porn rather than instagram

    • @sherlock_holm3s
      @sherlock_holm3s 4 місяці тому +5

      same bro i have only twitter

    • @Abulhasan-X
      @Abulhasan-X 4 місяці тому +4

      Same dude.

  • @Mehra-fictional
    @Mehra-fictional 4 місяці тому +1

    Title: Toxic Beauty Standards of Social Media
    This video perfectly highlights the detrimental effects of unrealistic beauty standards perpetuated by social media. It's eye-opening to see how these standards affect self-esteem and mental health, especially among young people. Thank you for shedding light on this important issue!"

  • @vineetchhachhiya5397
    @vineetchhachhiya5397 4 місяці тому +8

    Beauty capture the eye
    Personality capture the heart ❤️

  • @rajamehta1408
    @rajamehta1408 4 місяці тому +1

    Thanks bhai tere karan mene insta use krna chhod diya . Living a good life now looking the world with open eyes not with filters.

  • @astheticavi
    @astheticavi 4 місяці тому +13

    Masterpiece ❤✨

    • @MahiNergy
      @MahiNergy  4 місяці тому +3

      Thanks bhai

    • @ShivaanR2X
      @ShivaanR2X 4 місяці тому

      Me aapko achche se janta hu sir ❤

  • @Smartneetstudent
    @Smartneetstudent 4 місяці тому +1

    The way ....expose ground realities....
    It is truly amazing....and I got inspired to start my own UA-cam channel....
    Thank you so much for amazing content ❤

  • @samanvayhp8714
    @samanvayhp8714 4 місяці тому +12

    Super video. I've seen many clg boys discussing that none of their classmate girls are beautiful. These boys have a deep impression that beautiful girl is the one they see on social media and films. But, real beauty lies in a person's character and thoughts.
    I hope your channel makes some positive impacts on today's youth

  • @rubymanik8397
    @rubymanik8397 4 місяці тому +2

    I'm 19 year old mujhe bhi social media se perfect body..figure or unki beauty ko dekh kr apne aap me insicurity hoti thi , apne. Body se hate krne lgti but is video ko pura dekhne ke bad..I realised and change my mind set 🙏 about beauty or attractive

    • @AnushuyaPhukan
      @AnushuyaPhukan 25 днів тому

      Khudse kabhi hate mar karo jeise ho weise hi accept karo khudko..Jab school me thi tab mei bhi apne chote height ke karan insecure feel karti thi ..Mera height bohot kam hai 5'3' wo to bohot baad me mujhe kisine samjhaya mujhe insecure feel karne ki zaroorat nehi hai jeisi hu weise hi thik hu

  • @jigyashasinha
    @jigyashasinha 4 місяці тому +12

    Thanks a lot for making this video
    I'm in 11th. I was so much concerned about my beauty that I am having several mental issues
    I am a brown skinned girl and I have always been judged by my relatives and parents specially my mom
    My sister is fair skinned. When she was born I was and I am compared to her so badly that from age 7-8 I have always hated myself for my looks
    I am always so much concerned for my face, body hair and what not....
    Thanks a lot❤❤
    You helped a lot❤❤❤

  • @Onsra-p9g
    @Onsra-p9g 4 місяці тому

    I am glad that you mentioned about body positivity and self love but here are also some influencers who are trying to obese themselves in the name of body positivity.

  • @PraveenKumar-vs3xd
    @PraveenKumar-vs3xd 4 місяці тому +11

    I never follow these influencers and Bollywood stars because they are destroying our youth promoting alcohol 😊

  • @Kpsingh-n6f
    @Kpsingh-n6f 4 місяці тому +3

    Air hostess dark reality pr bhi bnao...😞😢people use to face a lot of difficulties because of their scar....I hope you will...
    My hope

  • @Faltuvlogs10
    @Faltuvlogs10 4 місяці тому +43

    I don't know why i always keep worrying about my looks..
    I think i have obsessive compulsive disorder😢

    • @MohitYadav-th7fz
      @MohitYadav-th7fz 4 місяці тому +4

      Looks badaltaa rahata hai Age ke saath,

    • @ssjdark3386
      @ssjdark3386 4 місяці тому +1

      Like there's a saying that those who don't look good always wonder about looks that and those who do they never think about looks .

    • @VivekKumar-t9
      @VivekKumar-t9 4 місяці тому +1

      Sis Aaj kal bass logo ko paise se matlab hai koi looks nhi dekhta agar aap aapni jindagi me successful ho and Paisa ha toh kuch bhi kar sakte ...bass life me paisa kamao ok​@@ssjdark3386

    • @Faltuvlogs10
      @Faltuvlogs10 4 місяці тому

      ​@@ssjdark3386 U mean to say that I don't look good😅 right??

    • @UD318nessspirit
      @UD318nessspirit 4 місяці тому

      I will like to tell you something, don't take too much pictures of yourself and look at mirror. Only during bathing and when you will go to outing. Pimples, rashes are common and indication of health. Eat healthy foods, avoid junk foods and be happy for who you are. If you have a beautiful heart, then obviously you will be beautiful.
      But if u feel like, your problems Ar quite big, then I think you should go to doctors.
      Hope this helps.

  • @clashayush5490
    @clashayush5490 4 місяці тому +1

    When a kind person or good hearted person speaks to you just see you feel like massage on your head if you feel like this then that person is beautiful

  • @cryptocrafts9051
    @cryptocrafts9051 4 місяці тому +5

    Watched till end. Proud of you my friend

  • @Purbakshisarma7093
    @Purbakshisarma7093 3 місяці тому +1

    We should be attracted not by beauty but by personality, so we should think about how we can further improve our personality.

  • @tasneemhamid7237
    @tasneemhamid7237 4 місяці тому +8

    Dudee you are amazing
    Giving us beutiful insights on life and helping us to stay focused on building ourselves rather comparing with those fake social media influencers
    Thank you so much I hope you go much further
    I hope every person finds your channel and feel proud about themselves

  • @diyapatel9667
    @diyapatel9667 4 місяці тому +1

    Beauty is what lies in someone's eyes..... ❤
    Really appreciate your efforts......
    This generation really need a reality check about where they are heading to.. Your efforts really can change someone's life..... Good job bro... ❤❤❤

  • @Cartoontime.7898
    @Cartoontime.7898 4 місяці тому +10

    I am Naturally fair because of genetic but a lot of my friends use to ask me what should I do to get fair skin like you and I don't know why I feel little bad because I think is I am making them insecure

    • @ssjdark3386
      @ssjdark3386 4 місяці тому +3

      That's only seen in girl but rarely in boys like even I have pahadi genetics but never had any of my friend talked about my colour or anybody else's.

  • @ash19981
    @ash19981 4 місяці тому

    nice video my man! bringing more light to this topic I believe the issue of toxic beauty standards on social media is complex and multifaceted. Historically, these standards have been influenced by men, leading to insecurities in women from a young age. However, it's crucial to recognize that men are also affected by these standards. Blaming one gender for this phenomenon is overly simplistic and unproductive. This issue isn't just a recent development caused by social media; it's been ingrained in society for ages, dating back to the very beginnings of male and female interactions. Over time, these insecurities have evolved, creating a distorted and unrealistic portrayal of beauty for both genders. We should aim to address these societal pressures collectively, rather than pointing fingers at one group.

  • @JAMWALFF
    @JAMWALFF 4 місяці тому +93

    Kon kon apna app ko Beautiful✨ manta hai😂

  • @karizmahalarnekar
    @karizmahalarnekar 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for this video. Today’s generation needs to hear this truth. Hats off to you

  • @mohitbisht13
    @mohitbisht13 4 місяці тому +14

    Second name of transparency is : Mahi Bhai... ❤

  • @Afridi-er2ib
    @Afridi-er2ib 4 місяці тому

    Bro is trying to make a better world. Trying protect our culture and self respect god bless you brother.

  • @manyagautam8155
    @manyagautam8155 4 місяці тому +5

    I just waiting for your video's 🙌

  • @ShrutiSarkar-df2qn
    @ShrutiSarkar-df2qn 3 місяці тому +1

    Confidence is the key beauty one can carry till her last breathe ❤

  • @isolatedgabru8554
    @isolatedgabru8554 4 місяці тому +8

    This guy is really genius ❤❤❤

    • @sunnymeee
      @sunnymeee 4 місяці тому

      Copying foreign youtubers is no genius 😅

  • @bhanvi8515
    @bhanvi8515 4 місяці тому

    Normally, you should eat well, do daily exercise, and be happy. All we need is this😊❤

  • @dhanushgowda4355
    @dhanushgowda4355 4 місяці тому +4

    last tak dekha bhai ... boht achha video tha ....