i feel like (and this is coming from someone with crazy in laws) you guys encouraged people to write in with their crazy mother in law stories, and then debunked all of them, and i feel like it should probably be known that these stories are probably the tips of the iceberg for most women who struggle with in laws - and often not the worst experience they’ve ever had. can’t help but wonder if this was a crazy father in law episode, would it be the same response. always important to have empathy for that side of the experience! 😅 love you guys ❤
I don’t see them defending any insane behaviour, they’re literally just opening up a wider conversation around these topics from a point of nuance and compassion for everyone involved
@@KiaraHodgson-o5w no, totally, I just thought it was so funny that they were looking at both sides this time vs the last time their were in-law horror stories. I’m not actually serious. 🥰
lol Chelsey I think you’re viewing this from the POV of a mom of little boys and not grown men. Of course you’re possessive and protective of your little boys but ideally as they grow into men, you will be able to healthily let them go. ❤
Chelsey please don’t apologize for your rants because i 100% of the time LOVE them!! I feel like you are able to put thoughts i have in my head into real thoughts and in such a well spoken way
Taking the slow down advice to heart. I’ve realized I eat/move around the house/etc so fast and it definitely puts me in an unnecessary state of stress. Thanks for the reminder, Chelsey!!
Chelsea as a boy mom, I can so relate to everything you’re saying. Thankfully I have a toxic MIL who is also a “boy mom” to remind me daily to strive to be better 😂
The conversation about Anna Delvey is more about how it shows the privilege of white criminals being able to get so many opportunities that POC aren’t given! She also has famously shown no remorse for what she’s done.
I usually listen to the podcast while I’m driving to work but then I have to watch it when I get home so I get the best of both worlds & listen to it twice!!
Please do another one again of monster in law!! I had a great one to submit but never got around to finishing it (newborn new mom life 😅 ) love you girls !
Me and my sister-in-law (before we were officially married into the family) always joked that a “safety photo” always needed to be taken at family gatherings aka take an extra photo without us in it for the purpose that people might break up 😂
Chelsea- I too struggle with being too QUICK! Lol, always bumping into things or dropping things or just being chaotic. My boyfriend is always telling me to slow down!!🤣😂 glad somebody else relaaates!
Harry styles came from one direction so I def would say Justin Bieber ❤ also thanks for the reminder chelsey, slowing down is really something I need to do😅
I grew up with both of them and I think it depends on which talents we’re talking about. I don’t think Justin even touches Harry vocally or as a songwriter. And in other aspects I think they’re pretty equal.
1. I’m a ‘96 baby and I kinda immediately thought harry styles on that question. but now I do think justin may have him beat though bc justin can dance. like that boy was DANCING in somebody to love ok 2. I love that Chelsey gave a boy mom perspective, and as a mom (girl mom) myself now, I think I can see both sides pretty much too. Like the last story, yeah the mom should have personally given her son that letter, and the soon to be daughter in law kinda gave herself a victim mentality. the mom was a lil cringe but THATS OKAY, maybe it’s their relationship or how she loves as a person, and that’s why it was addressed to her son.
My sperm donor is of the select few of men who is possessive/ jealous / selfish and it is literally insane he literally said that he owns me according to the Bible 🤢 I can easily see how people go no contact with crazy in laws 😭
ok harry and justin are not even close. harry plays multiple instruments, writes his own music, has a much stronger voice and didn’t ruin selena gomez’ life.
I actually love that you guys are playing devils advocate because MILs always get the worst rep. Unless they are truly awful, I think DILs are super hard on their MILs and never want their MILs to infringe on their lives bc they "already have a mom." I just think we all need to work on creating a healthier relationship with our in laws (both ways).
i feel like (and this is coming from someone with crazy in laws) you guys encouraged people to write in with their crazy mother in law stories, and then debunked all of them, and i feel like it should probably be known that these stories are probably the tips of the iceberg for most women who struggle with in laws - and often not the worst experience they’ve ever had. can’t help but wonder if this was a crazy father in law episode, would it be the same response. always important to have empathy for that side of the experience! 😅 love you guys ❤
Yeahhh😓
i’m glad you guys mentioned longer stories!! i want backstory. i want useless details. i want narrative structure. give me a little more ladies.
Why are we playing devils advocate for all the insane behavior in these stories?!!
I don’t see them defending any insane behaviour, they’re literally just opening up a wider conversation around these topics from a point of nuance and compassion for everyone involved
@@KiaraHodgson-o5w no, totally, I just thought it was so funny that they were looking at both sides this time vs the last time their were in-law horror stories. I’m not actually serious. 🥰
@@JuliaHarpeWarrenoh I’ll have to watch the old one to see the comparison haha
lol Chelsey I think you’re viewing this from the POV of a mom of little boys and not grown men. Of course you’re possessive and protective of your little boys but ideally as they grow into men, you will be able to healthily let them go. ❤
THIS!! 10000% lol I was very shocked at this episode 🫣
I fear we lost Chelsey to the dark side
I’m screaming 😂
same thing I thought 😭
Chelsey please don’t apologize for your rants because i 100% of the time LOVE them!! I feel like you are able to put thoughts i have in my head into real thoughts and in such a well spoken way
I am loving Chelsey’s “crazy” boy mom arc 😂 It adds juicy devils advocacy to these types of episodes!
Taking the slow down advice to heart. I’ve realized I eat/move around the house/etc so fast and it definitely puts me in an unnecessary state of stress. Thanks for the reminder, Chelsey!!
Chelsea as a boy mom, I can so relate to everything you’re saying. Thankfully I have a toxic MIL who is also a “boy mom” to remind me daily to strive to be better 😂
chelsey you’re tottering on the line😂
SO GLAD you both said Justin. He is top tier talent! 👏👏👏
The conversation about Anna Delvey is more about how it shows the privilege of white criminals being able to get so many opportunities that POC aren’t given! She also has famously shown no remorse for what she’s done.
It’s so refreshing to hear such nuance and compassionate takes that see both sides of the story
I’m so scared of boy moms sorry Chelsey lol
I’m so glad your pod is on UA-cam ! It’s so much better than just audio
Been listening for over two years religiously and since you started video, both of you feel like besties
I usually listen to the podcast while I’m driving to work but then I have to watch it when I get home so I get the best of both worlds & listen to it twice!!
Please do another one again of monster in law!! I had a great one to submit but never got around to finishing it (newborn new mom life 😅 ) love you girls !
the comments don’t seem to agree but JB def has more raw talent even though Harry is wonderful 🫶🏼
I can’t believe you guys said Justin Bieber. What about Harry Styles in Dunkirk or Don’t Worry Darling? He’s CLEARLY the correct answer 😂
Jaci’s dead pan “what. Do. You. Mean.” Gets he every time 😂
I disagree I’m reading that letter with zero remorse if it was me. Lmfao especially if I’ve had a rocky relationship w the MIL
Not the ChelsandJace intro 😂 can we please bring the duets back? I was literally just listening to your guys Titanium cover 🫶😘❤️
Yay! I've been looking forward to this episode all week! 🥰
Me and my sister-in-law (before we were officially married into the family) always joked that a “safety photo” always needed to be taken at family gatherings aka take an extra photo without us in it for the purpose that people might break up 😂
In law stories are the best!!! Also this was such a good ep with all the deep dives/rants
A crazy mother in law episode hates to see me coming
Chelsea- I too struggle with being too QUICK! Lol, always bumping into things or dropping things or just being chaotic. My boyfriend is always telling me to slow down!!🤣😂 glad somebody else relaaates!
Ladies came to play, devils advocate, and devils advocate only 😤
My niece said she knows Harry Styles but didn't know One Direction. I'm sure she would have chose Harry Styles over Justin Bieber!
I looove video format, and love the fact that you girls have included more zoomed in clips ❤❤❤
wait I immediately thought harry styles tho. I wonder if its a generational thing too...
If she’s famous for her crimes, I think it’s super weird to have Anna on the show
Such a good ep! You ladies have such good takes 💯
Wait the pillows are so cute 🩷🩷
love watching the pod 🫶🏼🫶🏼
Chelsey you were the first person i saw that posted Taylor swift at the chiefs game!!!
i always assumed jaci sat on the left when listening on spotify
Harry styles came from one direction so I def would say Justin Bieber ❤ also thanks for the reminder chelsey, slowing down is really something I need to do😅
but his solo projects and even his vocals in 1D are pretty amazing, so that’s why I initially thought harry, but I do think justin wins just a tad.
if you guys didn't say justin I would have been so upset thank you for validating me. this is the only correct argument
same hahahah
I grew up with both of them and I think it depends on which talents we’re talking about. I don’t think Justin even touches Harry vocally or as a songwriter. And in other aspects I think they’re pretty equal.
yeah sorry I can't get behind Justin being more talented than Harry lolllll. at the very least Harry is way more talented vocally.
Watching this in my Valley Girl shorts 🤭
1. I’m a ‘96 baby and I kinda immediately thought harry styles on that question. but now I do think justin may have him beat though bc justin can dance. like that boy was DANCING in somebody to love ok
2. I love that Chelsey gave a boy mom perspective, and as a mom (girl mom) myself now, I think I can see both sides pretty much too. Like the last story, yeah the mom should have personally given her son that letter, and the soon to be daughter in law kinda gave herself a victim mentality. the mom was a lil cringe but THATS OKAY, maybe it’s their relationship or how she loves as a person, and that’s why it was addressed to her son.
My sperm donor is of the select few of men who is possessive/ jealous / selfish and it is literally insane he literally said that he owns me according to the Bible 🤢 I can easily see how people go no contact with crazy in laws 😭
ok harry and justin are not even close. harry plays multiple instruments, writes his own music, has a much stronger voice and didn’t ruin selena gomez’ life.
wait I have to stop listening to the pod now… HARRY IS WAY MORE TALENTED
the only correct answer is harry styles lmao bye
Honestly. I love that they aren't just bashing MIL. I love that we are giving the benefit of the doubt.
I do see that but I also feel that it’s kind of dismissive of the DILs experiences… it’s a thin line for sure!
@chloebeall4011 true. But also, there's so much content out there supporting the DIL's that it all balances out.😅
@@missyj5608 haha you have a point!
I actually love that you guys are playing devils advocate because MILs always get the worst rep. Unless they are truly awful, I think DILs are super hard on their MILs and never want their MILs to infringe on their lives bc they "already have a mom." I just think we all need to work on creating a healthier relationship with our in laws (both ways).