4 Gender-Neutral Obi Arrangements for Kimono

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  • @josephaviles5545
    @josephaviles5545 3 роки тому +41

    Cannot believe I won the kimono! Thank you so much for your tutorials and your content, I learn so much from it. I shall reach out on your IG.

  • @boyffb
    @boyffb 3 роки тому +62

    This was very interesting and I like the fact that you spoke about the history and how things have changed from a very gender neutral kimono to gendered kimono 👘.
    I find it really cool that you talk about other genders than the conventional ones 😁 especially from a non-binary perspective it's really nice to be recognized and given more options and knowledge 🤩😁 Thank you very much.

    • @BillyMatsunaga
      @BillyMatsunaga  3 роки тому +13

      Thank you!! I found the original gender-neutrality of kimono in history so important and especially interesting, too, so I had to share that!

  • @AssignedCryptid
    @AssignedCryptid 3 роки тому +27

    My kimono loving nonbinary self actually squealed in excitement when I saw this, thank you so much!

  • @dat_k-chan
    @dat_k-chan 3 роки тому +12

    I love that you let us know some historical things around the musubi ❤️ and this is a great quick summary from the last workshop👍 men's kimono doesn't looked bad at you. The blue color was defendly great! 😁

    • @BillyMatsunaga
      @BillyMatsunaga  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you!! But I probably won't wear it again....

  • @boopbeep
    @boopbeep 3 роки тому +43

    Ahhh!! As a non-binary person I loved seeing this! I'm very new to kimono and don't know a lot yet (I actually keep watching and re-watching your videos to take notes and fully absorb everything) and seeing this was really cool and I really appreciate it!

  • @SwimmingInSunlight
    @SwimmingInSunlight 3 роки тому +5

    I've done the second knot with my hanhaba obi when I've know I'll need to travel by car, it lays so nice and flat unlike the bulkier bows so it's much more comfortable 😊

  • @abella9399
    @abella9399 3 роки тому +4

    Karuta Musubi is my favorite arrangement so far its so cute and simple

  • @DisasterAuntie
    @DisasterAuntie 3 роки тому +20

    Thank you SO MUCH for this! I have so many non-binary friends, intersex friends, and agender (having no gender) friends, and sharing this with them will delight them so much. Not just having some gender-neutral ways of tying obi, but just hearing the phrase "and any other gender" spoken without irony or dismissal as if it's a joke, but spoken with matter-of-fact respect. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

  • @ShonaMcCarthy
    @ShonaMcCarthy 3 роки тому +5

    Oh man! I'd been wanting to learn how to tie kai no kuchi with hanhaba obi for years! Thank you for sharing this!

  • @thetimetravellingtailor6323
    @thetimetravellingtailor6323 3 роки тому +6

    Wonderful video, Billy! I absolutely love the complicated history of Kimono and it's so interesting to see how that relates to Kimono today.

  • @YaoiHoshi
    @YaoiHoshi 3 роки тому +22

    This is so interesting! I had no idea that there were unisex obi knots. I’m not sure if you’ll see this, but could you consider making a video about the types of kimono and obi (for women) that are appropriate for tea ceremony? I’m studying tea ceremony but my teacher is a man (and a non Japanese person) so he doesn’t have much knowledge about it.

    • @BillyMatsunaga
      @BillyMatsunaga  3 роки тому +3

      When it comes to tea ceremony dressing, you should always check back with your teacher. It's a whole different (kitsuke) world and also differs from school to school.

    • @YaoiHoshi
      @YaoiHoshi 3 роки тому

      @@BillyMatsunaga thanks for your reply! I didn’t know that tea ceremony kitsuke was that different! I’ll look for some specific info, although most of the stuff out there ( in English) seems to be about tea ceremony + kimono wearing experiences for tourists 😂

  • @shatiel8552
    @shatiel8552 3 роки тому +2

    It’s great to have such tutorial for those obi musubi! I’ve learnt them from books, but having them explained is so helpful
    They are fairly simple once tried and they are so comfortable to wear 💜

  • @ivanmoguel
    @ivanmoguel 3 роки тому +4

    I adore when you do these more men kitsuke oriented videos. Thank you very much!

  • @KimonoFashion
    @KimonoFashion 3 роки тому +2

    Really appreciate the historical contentet added in your videos. Always learning. Thank you very much!! ♥️♥️

  • @colleenpollari3781
    @colleenpollari3781 24 дні тому

    Thanks Billy! This video helped me do my first hanhaba obi. You are so generous with your passion.

  • @edienandy
    @edienandy Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for this. I’m starting kamigata-mai dance lessons soon (through Zoom lol) and I was stressing so bad about the obi but the Karuta Musubi knot looks really easy to do and it’s so simple and cute. I have a question though, if a male were wearing a women’s obi would they need all the stuff for underneath it or would they be able to wear it like they would a men’s obi? I hope that makes sense.

  • @Reroseshi
    @Reroseshi 2 роки тому

    Oh wow i really like the Kai no Kuchi one! Cute and interesting looking🥰 thank you so much!!

  • @antareslesage5611
    @antareslesage5611 3 роки тому +1

    Amazing as always 😊 I love all this historical information. thank you so much! See you soon ^^

  • @KriiiTravelNut
    @KriiiTravelNut 9 місяців тому

    I came upon this video coincidentally while looking for other ways to tie my obi (which was just a little short for me). Everything here worked so well and is so pretty! Definitely subscribing to you. Thank you for your informative videos.

  • @valeriegirard4798
    @valeriegirard4798 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Billy for this tutorial. My ”Karechi” and I can wear the same knot... and I think it’s quite cute. 😊

  • @g.strobl4458
    @g.strobl4458 3 роки тому

    As always, super informative. Thank you so much!

  • @Krisstofers
    @Krisstofers 3 роки тому

    Another excellent video!!! I enjoyed the topic! Very informative and entertaining!

  • @charliecat5686
    @charliecat5686 3 роки тому

    Great tutorial! Respectful, thoughtful and well done. Thank you providing great content!

  • @ForgeMasterXXL
    @ForgeMasterXXL 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for all the information in this video, as a man who wears kimono and also yukata (their is nothing better for lounging around the house) it is hard to find decent reliable unbiased info.
    One of these days I’m going to persuade my partner to try their hand at making traditional Japanese garments.
    Congratulations to Joseph on winning the kimono you made, I’m sure it is far better than you say.

  • @GO01
    @GO01 3 роки тому +1

    Kai no kuchi is my go to musubi, especially when I'm driving. But that katabasami is another fav

  • @LittleBlueHenSoap
    @LittleBlueHenSoap 3 роки тому

    Thank you Billy! These are fabulous and practical musubi! In fact I was watching your video just before I got dressed and proceeded to do the karuta musubi.I added a little twist by popping an obijime through the vertical loop. 🤩 I love your hanhaba too! Xx

  • @So-ny9hf
    @So-ny9hf 2 роки тому +2

    I wanted to ask since it’s somewhat related to the video. Is it appropriate or ok for men to wear a woman’s yukata or komon in public in japan?

  • @AriannaTremayne
    @AriannaTremayne 3 роки тому

    Thank you for these! I find them incredibly stylish!

  • @taylors5145
    @taylors5145 3 роки тому

    Another fantastic video! Such a clear and understandable way to see different knots! I especially love the gender neutral/fluid aspect of it, as I have been interested in trying a woman’s hanhaba obi instead of the standard men’s since there are so many beautiful hanhaba obi options. Thank you!

  • @kokujinkimono2658
    @kokujinkimono2658 3 роки тому

    hello Billy, you are really awesome !! thanks to you I learned 2 new ways to tie the kaku obi: katabasami and Noshime katabasami 😊!! thank you very much for your video❤👏👏 !!

  • @flippha
    @flippha 3 роки тому

    very helpful to see other ways to tie the Obi so I can have more options.

  • @Krisstofers
    @Krisstofers 3 роки тому

    Also wanted to say... not only did your American accent sound perfect, but, your kami is so beautiful!!!

  • @bluecupcake7401
    @bluecupcake7401 3 роки тому

    It's so interesting and informative! Thank you for posting these wonderful videos!:)

  • @happinessescape
    @happinessescape 10 місяців тому +1

    I feel like the karuta musubi doesn’t feel really secure when I tie it… Like if I move around a lot, I have to readjust it every so often unless I clip it closed… Any insight?

  • @tartaufraiz
    @tartaufraiz 3 роки тому +11

    As a non-binary person I can't thank you enough for this 💗

  • @croitor2009
    @croitor2009 3 роки тому

    Whahhhhh this is just for me!!!I love the pre Edo period kimono

  • @ren3083
    @ren3083 3 роки тому

    The ronin musubi (sorry I can't remember the other name!) looks so nice! Will definitely try it next time.
    The man's kimono was so cool! Loved that deep blue 💙

  • @WardaDelphinia
    @WardaDelphinia 3 роки тому

    Always LOVE your videous about obi musubi. You look stunning wear both women's or men's kimono!

  • @arisacheek
    @arisacheek Місяць тому

    I never knew there were gender neutral ways to tie obi!

  • @januaresterjodiningtyas8863
    @januaresterjodiningtyas8863 3 роки тому +10

    Can we use obi in everyday wear? Like when wearing oversize blouse or shirt and use obi as belt?

    • @mironty
      @mironty 3 роки тому +9

      IMO its totally ok; even japanese people mix modern and traditional clothing together, like streetwear with haori on top

    • @BillyMatsunaga
      @BillyMatsunaga  3 роки тому +6

      yessss!! DO IT!!! 💛

  • @samanthaturner1836
    @samanthaturner1836 3 роки тому

    This!! Thank you for this, I feel like I better understand obi and I feel like I can actually tie these.

  • @Ishasgirl
    @Ishasgirl 3 роки тому

    this video is a lifesaver! I've been having a hard time with my obi because its a bit short for me, but I can probably use it for all of these without issue. I really like the way the obi looks with my yakata, so I'm happy I won't have to get a new one now!

    • @BillyMatsunaga
      @BillyMatsunaga  3 роки тому

      Short obi are perfect for all of those obi musubi!! :)

  • @mironty
    @mironty 3 роки тому +6

    I dont know if you did this on purpose, or an accident, but the kimono you're wearing is in transgender pride colours!

    • @BillyMatsunaga
      @BillyMatsunaga  3 роки тому +3

      hehe! That's what I'm here for.... (and it was an accident.... or better said: a nice coincidence!)

  • @shalomsanbi
    @shalomsanbi 3 роки тому

    I love the last two ties, luv ya

  • @EliotChildress
    @EliotChildress 3 роки тому +2

    I now know the name of the knot I use for my kyudo uniform: Kai no kuchi. Thanks. Would it be appropriate to try out the other ones too, or would that weird for use with dōgi?

    • @mironty
      @mironty 3 роки тому +2

      Yes, its in fact kai no kuchi. As a fellow kyudoka i can say that karuta musubi is fine (women tie their obi this way under the dogi!), but i wouldnt try anything bulky as it would be uncomortable

    • @EliotChildress
      @EliotChildress 3 роки тому

      @@mironty thank you for the advice. My Japanese isn’t that great and my teacher only speaks Japanese so I can’t really ask him questions like that.

  • @mayoooketchup
    @mayoooketchup 3 роки тому +1

    I love the karuta obi! Is your shiny hanhaba obi custom? I would love to wear such beautiful piece * ^ *

    • @BillyMatsunaga
      @BillyMatsunaga  3 роки тому

      Found that one at Shinei (online second hand kimono store).

  • @azura-arten9303
    @azura-arten9303 3 роки тому +1

    This topic is exactly what I'm interested in! Thank you as always for including historical context and vocabulary words, it's so valuable to have that kind of information in English. I was wondering if you can wear the same padding you wear for a women's kimono when you wear the men's style? I need to wear a lot of padding to get the right shape even for a women's kimono, and I've always wanted to try a men's kimono some day but I'm worried I can't make it fit properly... I know you said you didn't like it very much, but I thought you pulled off the look very well haha!

    • @BillyMatsunaga
      @BillyMatsunaga  3 роки тому +2

      I did wear my usual padding plus more, because I needed a (beer) belly to have the kimono sitting better.

    • @azura-arten9303
      @azura-arten9303 3 роки тому

      @@BillyMatsunaga Thank you, that makes sense! If I ever get a chance to wear men's kimono I'll try that!

  • @cloudsan8775
    @cloudsan8775 3 роки тому

    love it, thankyou

  • @emilyporter1186
    @emilyporter1186 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much for this! The gendered nature of kimono can feel limiting so it's really nice to see these other options

  • @pickledequity
    @pickledequity 3 роки тому +1

    I have a small question about furisode, is it possible for someone who is no longer young to wear furisode? If it is are there any restrictions?

  • @cnscaevola
    @cnscaevola 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this video! I’ve been having so much trouble with musubi as I’m horrible with getting things where they need to be / getting confused on how to fold and tie things.
    Will the world end if I mix women’s obi and men’s kosode sometimes? I’m working on slimming down, but it’s hard to find women’s kimono with a wide enough hip to stay comfortably closed.

  • @fjolliff6308
    @fjolliff6308 2 роки тому

    Thank you! I am non-binary and this helps me so much!

  • @AeriyaValkyrja
    @AeriyaValkyrja 4 місяці тому

    Do you have a video for the rope tie things?

  • @mmardh799
    @mmardh799 3 роки тому

    thank you!

  • @respectthefish4992
    @respectthefish4992 7 місяців тому

    I am so using katabasami

  • @deborahf3738
    @deborahf3738 3 роки тому +2

    Did you just say Thrice? I haven't heard that word in a very very long time....thanks for the memory...lol.

    • @deborahf3738
      @deborahf3738 3 роки тому

      How can you remember all of that?????? They are so pretty. I didn't realize there were other ways to tie the obi until I saw a woman who wore kimono all the time and she would show her daily routine of selecting a kimono and tying her obi. Thank you for educating us.

  • @g.strobl4458
    @g.strobl4458 3 роки тому

    Does one actually fold maru obi? They are so stiff I have trouble imagining, and I do not want to ruin it...

  • @CherriesJubilee
    @CherriesJubilee 2 роки тому

    I like these because they are so flat and comfortable in a car!

  • @AeriyaValkyrja
    @AeriyaValkyrja 4 місяці тому

    Ah I want that black shiny obi lol

  • @cirquedude123
    @cirquedude123 3 роки тому +2

    Where can I purchase heko obi?!

    • @BillyMatsunaga
      @BillyMatsunaga  3 роки тому +1

      I think many kimono stores have them!

    • @mironty
      @mironty 3 роки тому +1

      try scouraging ebay or yahoo auctions, im sure there's plenty of them

    • @cirquedude123
      @cirquedude123 3 роки тому

      @@BillyMatsunaga any online for sale in United States? I looked on Japan Objects and several other online stores. I’m thinking of making my own I don’t know.

  • @OnnaBlade
    @OnnaBlade Рік тому

    I wear two kimono I haven't wear a
    Hakama yet

  • @金太郎-b5n
    @金太郎-b5n 3 роки тому

    へこ帯、体型や着物の選択次第で「バカボン」みたいになりますね^ ^

  • @alderankorym
    @alderankorym 3 роки тому +4

    Is the kimono with trans color on purpose or... 🤔

    • @BillyMatsunaga
      @BillyMatsunaga  3 роки тому +6

      Oh wow! I haven’t even noticed! But it’s a nice coincidence! 🥳

    • @mironty
      @mironty 3 роки тому

      lol, just commented basically a same thing, and then saw your comment ^^

    • @alderankorym
      @alderankorym 3 роки тому +1

      @@BillyMatsunaga hahahaha fair enough. Nice coincidence!
      The fashion section of our French trans Discord server (that I bother way to much about kimono) was in love with it!

  • @MariahnFulminate
    @MariahnFulminate 3 роки тому

    I like these musubi because they are flat and easy to work in and ride in cars.

  • @tntexe8949
    @tntexe8949 3 роки тому

    imo if your non-binary, i guess its just up to you what style you like eh?

  • @fishgarden7784
    @fishgarden7784 Рік тому

    It's unfortunate you aren't as comfortable in men's kimono, the silhouette, dark blue, and kaku obi look soooo striking on you! Some things just aren't meant to be..