2 Ways to Believe in Yourself & Achieve Cool Things

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  • @sallybosch224
    @sallybosch224 9 місяців тому +337

    I give myself an award for starting Rebounder classes at age 62, sticking to it and watching myself toning up, becoming more energetic, and kicking cancer's sorry ass in the process.

    • @BeegirlsHoneyHouse
      @BeegirlsHoneyHouse 9 місяців тому +14

      Congratulations Sally~
      Awesome accompliments, keep at the good stuff‼️👍🏽🌎🫶🏼🕊😘

    • @mollycote1021
      @mollycote1021 9 місяців тому +11

      Congratulations!! Keep going! You got this!💪🏻👏🏻🙏🏼💯❤️

    • @elbradavid533
      @elbradavid533 9 місяців тому +8

      Amazing!

    • @lhartzee-lb5wq
      @lhartzee-lb5wq 9 місяців тому +7

      Way to go with your bad ass self!!! ❤🎉

    • @judytwey6463
      @judytwey6463 9 місяців тому +3

      Kendal!!! Pass Time is amazing!! Your voice!! The lyrics and music! I hope when you wake in the morning you tell that sophomore year to kiss your ass. You, my dear, are amazing!! You rock❤️

  • @WackyWitchTV
    @WackyWitchTV 8 місяців тому +53

    Single mom raised my son all alone, put myself through University after attaining my real estate license while holding down three jobs to do so! I AM A ROCKSTAR!

  • @LovinLnCottage
    @LovinLnCottage 9 місяців тому +129

    Thank you, Mel. I have been through a lot in 77 years and now breast cancer has recurred. My financial resources are limited to my home, my vehicle, and my SS. I need glasses (legally blind without them), hearing aids (moderate hearing loss), a broken shell of a molar (no money for dental work), and I spotted blood in my urine last Sunday. Nearest friend is 4-1/2 hours away because I have always been an INTJ personality type and had 5 life-long friends not counting my late husband of 42 years. I have always shown up for myself and others until today when I was about to throw in the towel. I turned on UA-cam while I was eating breakfast and your show was at the top of the list. I had 2 years of therapy for anxiety when I received my first diagnosis in April 2021. Somehow the fact that my little child 3-year-old self is still running the show was missed. That child was made to feel that she was not enough and was not ever going to be good enough because she was only a girl. That child showed up when I woke up this morning and I gave up. Because I now understand WHAT is holding me back, I am going to find my tremendous resilience which I developed as a life-long equestrian athlete one more time. I am sitting down to write a Thank You letter to myself this afternoon for coming back to ride after breaking my vertebrae twice, surviving a paranoid schizophrenic first husband who stalked me for a year and tried to kill me, and many more challenges that would have killed other people. Yet here I am and I had forgotten to thank MYSELF! You make a big difference in many people’s lives, Mel. Today you saved mine and I am grateful for your caring service to all who are struggling. Thank you. 🙏☮️❤️

    • @jennybelcourt3835
      @jennybelcourt3835 9 місяців тому +4

      @LovinLnCottage thanks for sharing your story, you are an amazing woman

    • @ravithasigamoney4549
      @ravithasigamoney4549 9 місяців тому +3

      DON'T GIVE UP
      KEEP ON GOING
      YOU CAN AND YOU WILL.
      LOVE FROM
      SOUTH AFRICA 🇿🇦

    • @Livelife_light
      @Livelife_light 9 місяців тому +1

      Your msg n openness to re-embrace yourself is inspiring me. I am probably only half of your age, but I am battling against my old identity. I recently, understood, thanks to Tony Robins 4day free event, that, I am stuck at 68°F....but whenever I reach 98°,I start climbing down, to match my old identity of 68°...... I thank myself today and will thank myself everyday, that I am progressing, no matter what. ❤

    • @jessikat38
      @jessikat38 9 місяців тому

      Thanks to share your story, it is very touching 💜

    • @catharineinniss
      @catharineinniss 9 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for sharing! You go lady (not girl lol). 😊Things might be tough, but you are tougher!

  • @elvidreamcatcher2847
    @elvidreamcatcher2847 7 місяців тому +4

    I'm 34. Can't thank you enough for having my back.
    Endlessly grateful for all your podcasts. Watching one episode every day, I feel like I just started living. It's unbelievable.
    It's a battle every day, but I'm into this game. Started cooking, bullet journaling, enjoying my "glass of water ", thinking 9f setting am Amazon account.
    This all - thanks to you.

  • @marjoriecenatus2894
    @marjoriecenatus2894 8 місяців тому +7

    Wow! I never thought of thanking myself before, and boy, did it feel great!!🎉 Today is my 56th birthday. I stood in front of my bathroom mirror and the first thing I said was "Happy Birthday beautiful, you are 56 years old today and you are fearless, fearless!!" I proceeded to tell myself that I'm the only one who knows the struggle I went through for 18 years, being in a relationship where I was not happy. I thanked myself for finally finding the courage 3 years ago to end that relationship for good. I thanked myself for my determination and persistence for deciding to become a successful real estate investor 10 months ago and working on becoming the best version of myself physically, emotionally, mentally, financially and in my future relationships. It felt amazing 🎉🎉and I want to feel like this everyday.

  • @DivorcePropertyInsights
    @DivorcePropertyInsights 9 місяців тому +62

    OMG! I literally had chills as I listened to Kendall's song "Pass Time". She's pushing through and achieving her dream. Wow! You go Girl with your bad self ❤

  • @marilynholmes-reilley1457
    @marilynholmes-reilley1457 9 місяців тому +41

    I needed this video ages ago. I am 68 and am finally figuring out who I really am

    • @flugsven
      @flugsven 9 місяців тому +5

      👏👏👏
      I'm almost sixty and not there yet- but working on it.

    • @influentialwomen1
      @influentialwomen1 9 місяців тому +5

      Whenever it happens, then that’s the right time! I’m 65, I got 2 college degrees at 60 & 62. We can do this girls!⭐️❤️😀❤️⭐️

    • @LeslieNicole
      @LeslieNicole 9 місяців тому +2

      I’ll be 63 in 2 months. About to reboot my life. We can do it!

    • @CandiceLMossArt
      @CandiceLMossArt 9 місяців тому +1

      I truly wish there was a program (virtual or hybrid) taught by all the mega gurus that dropped this knowledge in all the main domains of life (health, mindset, productivity, career, finance, relationships, and spirituality), assisted you in designing your best life, motivated you, and used AI to coach you to achieve it!

    • @marilynholmes-reilley1457
      @marilynholmes-reilley1457 9 місяців тому +2

      Yep, wish we had all of this information in one place & yes we can do this! Thank you so much for the motivation, means a lot to me at this point in my life!

  • @Scatter23
    @Scatter23 9 місяців тому +36

    I’m 56 and finally starting my own business as a Professional Caregiver! It hasn’t been easy. Still in the early stages trying to get clients and it’s a tough process trying to please everyone. I’m hoping I have the motivation to stay focused without giving up.

    • @JohnM...
      @JohnM... 7 місяців тому +2

      I’m 54, and finally starting (so far as a side hustle) the garden landscaping business that’s been nagging me for 10ish years.😂

    • @Scatter23
      @Scatter23 7 місяців тому +1

      @@JohnM... good for you! I’m still trucking along here doing my thing and I’ve never felt so freedom as I am right now. I’m not wealthy at all yet I’m still grateful to be doing something that makes me happy.

  • @ambertruongle8023
    @ambertruongle8023 9 місяців тому +18

    I cried to much when I listened to this podcast. There are so many times in my life I forgot to thank myself for what I’ve done. You make me realize that I should be proud of myself for all the things I’ve and done. Thank you so much Mel. Also thank you to your daughter. Her song is so awesome ❤❤❤❤

  • @JackieMolinary-Singer
    @JackieMolinary-Singer 9 місяців тому +45

    Thank you Mel (and Niecy) for reminding me that it’s Never too late. I’m on a mission to lose 40 pounds, and I’m the only one that will be able to do it with God’s help! 😇🙏

    • @lauraharlen2067
      @lauraharlen2067 9 місяців тому +3

      You can do it I promise it isn't as hard after the first couple weeks!!

    • @JackieMolinary-Singer
      @JackieMolinary-Singer 9 місяців тому +4

      @@lauraharlen2067 Thank you so much! As the saying goes…”When there’s a will, there’s a way”!

  • @sheliascott8208
    @sheliascott8208 9 місяців тому +43

    LOVE the song!!! The words, the arrangement, the harmony...ALL OF IT!! Be encouraged!!
    Thank you Mel for ALL OF IT!!

    • @rose_be2330
      @rose_be2330 9 місяців тому +1

      I love it tooooooooo. Serenity.

  • @kendrametcalfe-allabouthomes
    @kendrametcalfe-allabouthomes 9 місяців тому +30

    ❤️❤️❤️ this!! Today I'm starting 90 days of full focus on my health so that after the 90 days it's a habit and a lifestyle. 🙏 Thank you for all you do🤗

    • @jenniferlindsey5480
      @jenniferlindsey5480 9 місяців тому +6

      Even if you need to listen to this episode every day, do it!

  • @javlinthomas7963
    @javlinthomas7963 8 місяців тому +1

    Hi Mel, I’m new new to your podcast and I must say listen to this episode has me tears. For the life of me I could not understand why I would be so excited to do things but as time grow near I would start worrying, having self doubt and insecurities. Until I listened to your podcast. I had no clue I was battling the past version of myself. Thinking I’m not good enough, I’m not smart enough, looking at other people thinking why not me and asking myself why do it, you’re going to fail.
    Thank you for opening my eyes and mind and helping me identify a problem that has me wedged between thinking I can and you’re not good enough. Now that I know, I plan on working on the new version of myself.
    Respectful, Javlin
    Pss.. Tell your daughter pass time is a hit! Love the song ❤

  • @sandramayorgabarrientos9695
    @sandramayorgabarrientos9695 9 місяців тому +9

    Dear Mel, I’m writing to you from Puebla, Mexico. I’ve been listening to your podcast for a while, and I can’t express how grateful I am for your words in today’s episode! I can listen to it a thousand times!!! Your words were inspiring! You touched every fiber of my being and made me resonate!!! Thank you for lifting my spirits, thank you for giving me strength, thank you for teaching me that I can move forward despite the storm. Thanks for showing me that there can be light on the path and that as long as I don’t give up, everything can change. You’re amazing. Keep doing what you do because you are a light in our lives. Warm regards from Mexico.

  • @kristinmartinez5398
    @kristinmartinez5398 9 місяців тому +14

    I would like to thank myself for staying sober!! I have overcome a lot of trauma N continue to do the work on myself to ensure that I don't fall back into old toxic patterns! I want to thank myself for getting back into therapy after a recent break up before I fell into depression! I want to thank my myself for shining a bright light even tho I have only been shown nothing but hate N inconsistency!! I want to thank myself for nurturing my inner child N continuing to heal her wounds which will in turn ensure I'm the best mother to my children as possible! I want to thank myself for listening to these type of podcasts at work instead of filling my brain with useless/mindless things that don't contribute to my inner peace!!
    I also want to thank you Mel, for providing us with these amazing podcasts N being so honest N helpful!! 🥰💯❤️🌹

  • @amandadavis8855
    @amandadavis8855 9 місяців тому +12

    Mel Robbins, I think listening to you is helping me save my life for real. Thank you 💞

  • @polyglotmona
    @polyglotmona 9 місяців тому +11

    The award is a fascinating idea. I give myself an award for managing my first panic attack last week and managing conversations today with the guy (whose mindset towards me and me being different because I learn communicatively and kinetically was partly the reason why I had panic) and with the team leader and not giving up and not stopping to work and continuing to struggle.

  • @TheDarkeyndyel
    @TheDarkeyndyel 9 місяців тому +1

    It's hard to move in a world where people only see the results and not the struggle we go through that. Failure after failure we get better, but is seems to be easier to just abandon your dreams and be the lesser you... This is for the dreamers like us... Thank you me... You got this... I got this. I love you and I know what you've been through... Thank you Mel for this award... It's mine.

  • @P_lo1179
    @P_lo1179 9 місяців тому +5

    Being a teacher is a battle every single day, amongst life’s other battles. Thanks for this Mel!! You have a gift to help people! 👏

  • @DebarpitaDuttaPurkayastha
    @DebarpitaDuttaPurkayastha 8 місяців тому +1

    Can we all appreciate how beautiful Kendall's voice is? What a beautiful song!

  • @mbethm
    @mbethm 9 місяців тому +1

    I started smiling and crying when you gave me an award and thanked me ❤ thank you for being you

    • @markowen3114
      @markowen3114 9 місяців тому

      Hello ,how are you doing?

  • @tammyrichmond9472
    @tammyrichmond9472 9 місяців тому +9

    OMG Kendall’s melodic, beautiful voice flows like a river! Please give us MORE Kendall!

  • @mmiller1011
    @mmiller1011 9 місяців тому

    You have grown so much. I love who you have chosen to be now. I’m 66 and your authenticity and practicality has illuminated my path and inspired me to show up.
    Thank you. Thank me. 😉

  • @jessiesanteliz8558
    @jessiesanteliz8558 22 дні тому

    Mel, I know you have many guests on your podcast, but I really needed to hear this today from YOU!! A few days ago I made a decision to not be a prisoner anymore of someone else's emotions they have shown, suppressed and have neglected to me opposed to others. An event surpassed my threshold of what I will not, cannot tolerate anymore. It passed the border of what I was no longer willing to compromise of what I believed in my true authentic self. It was either choosing happiness and freedom or eternal misery. I've heard many podcasts today of finding your true happiness. This is the last one before I walk out the door and it really drove through the heart pinpointing all I was feeling getting affirmations, confirmations of my final decision I had finally made once and for all no longer looking back. It was exactly what I needed to hear but most importantly reminded me of what I needed to hear from myself. To taking a leap off that cliff I've been afraid to do to now realizing I already have. Thankyou so much for this and your inspiration!! Love you so much!!😊😇🥰😘🤗😌🥹🩷🙏🙏🙏

  • @michellekirby5618
    @michellekirby5618 9 місяців тому +13

    "There is a past version of you that you are gonna have to battle every frickin' day of your life..." that, among other things, really hit the nail on the head for me. Wow, you always bring it right to the point Mel. Thank you.

  • @shamsig3769
    @shamsig3769 9 місяців тому +7

    Your daughter has a beautiful voice. God bless her🙏❤️

  • @marycloonan9703
    @marycloonan9703 9 місяців тому +1

    I needed this sooo much today! I’ve worked so hard the past few years only to be beaten down, mostly by ME, so I give myself this award today! I show up everyday, and it’s finally paying off, I will keep showing up and keep failing and succeeding all damn day long ❤

    • @markowen3114
      @markowen3114 9 місяців тому

      Hello Mary,how are you doing?

  • @eileencita
    @eileencita 9 місяців тому +6

    You're an awesome person! I love your heart for serving people. I can relate a lot to you, Mel. I have ADD and was dignosed last year at 39. Everything made so much sense after my diagnosis. Plus I suffer from neuralgia, and I'm a single mom of a beautiful 19yo young lady who started with disautonomia last year, so it's been really really hard for the last couple of years. Someone I know suggested your content in early January, and everthing started to change big time. I'm so grateful for your life and what you do for others and me. God bless you!
    And yes! We need to be more graceful and loving to ourselves, and show mercy to us when we make big mistakes.

  • @shantallramatsui7635
    @shantallramatsui7635 9 місяців тому +4

    Kendall's song has HIT potential. Today's message is potent. "It is self-esteem and not their esteem". I love it. I thank myself for investing my time in watching this channel. I clearly love myself.

  • @Beautifulsoul16
    @Beautifulsoul16 4 дні тому

    I thank myself for being very courageous, battling mental illness and at the same time going shoulder to shoulder with others and doing the jobs even better than most of the people. I am on a mission now again and I have pushed myself half way and through this video, I learned to believe in myself that I will be able to see the accomplishment soon ❤

  • @bobbyhunter8860
    @bobbyhunter8860 9 місяців тому +16

    Wow! Another post-workout pep talk from Mel for me. I’m thanking myself for quietly getting through all the BULLSHIT I tolerated for past few years and for finally being honest with myself and others .. thank you Mel 😎😎

  • @KathyJoles
    @KathyJoles 9 місяців тому

    Can I tell you Mel that you have been such a catalyst for change! Being a stay at home mom… with two boys out of the house- one wrestles U of M taking master classes his senior bonus year-Garrett…. the other in a JUCO college in Iowa pursuing his dream of being a professional baseball catcher-Trett…. and my beautiful daughter Zhanae that though she can’t talk / walk/ is 100% dependent on me and her caretakers --- has taught me everything I know! …. Bout patience and unconditional love! I am writing… finishing my book I started 20 years ago , thanks to you and a twist of Jim Kwik! Thank you Mel! Thank you! For being fricking AWESOME! You keep splashing your bright colors around! Love you! Love this podcast! KYJ

  • @Joi004
    @Joi004 9 місяців тому

    My friend Mel Robbins...you brought me to absolute tears with this one. Why?! Why did the flash of my life journey bring me to such a deep sob? It was one thing or person or event, it was everything! I'm 59 years young so there's a lot in my rearview mirror. Joi Milhous, you're receiving this Lifetime Achievement Award for having the Courage to Begin Again! I didn't see the end of something, I saw it as an opportunity to start over, renew, remake, and keep moving forward. 🏆

  • @nemesisbianchie5181
    @nemesisbianchie5181 9 місяців тому +1

    I thank myself for having fight my cancer, i thank myself bc i have the bravery to wake up every early morning for being present on zoom at that English course C1 every morning also if i feel down, depressed, but i want to learn the english language better and if i don't pass the final exam, i'll try again and again. I wanna thank myself bc i'm an invalid bc of cancer and no one want me as an enployee, but i apply to those jobs no matter what. @melrobbins, i apologize for my bad english. I'm from Italy. You saved my life. Literally. Thank you 😘😘😘

  • @bernadettegreene8618
    @bernadettegreene8618 9 місяців тому +11

    I was working while listening and when Kendalls song came on. I didn’t realize it was her until I got up to see who it was so I could find it and all I can say is WOW! Hearing her voice and knowing her story has me moving in the direction of thanking myself and realizing the me that keeps me scare and not doing what it takes is going to take a sit down today! Thank you Mel & Kendall!❤

  • @AKAMarli
    @AKAMarli 3 місяці тому

    That person 7 years ago when I was diagnosed with psychosis, was scared, anxious, lonely, depressed and anxious... that version of me DOES effect me... but today I now won't let this version of me win... from this day I'm gonna fight that version of me. Thank you Mel for bringing this to light! I will follow my dreams, and I will outwork that old me.

  • @vallang4832
    @vallang4832 9 місяців тому +6

    I want to thank myself for respecting myself. And fighting those battles and not shutting down or caving in. For being strong. And making it to retirement. You go girl.

  • @marilynngraham7129
    @marilynngraham7129 9 місяців тому +20

    I would like to thank myself for not giving up when my life fell apart. I would like myself for packing my things and moving when the old me tried to convince me to stay stuck.
    Thank you Mel for this wonderful, beautiful on time message!

  • @tinabellsss7164
    @tinabellsss7164 8 місяців тому

    I want to thank myself for choosing to listen to you, Mel. You are heaven-sent. You make me feel like I make good use of my time by listening to you, I am empowered because of your ACTIONS. And I will pay it forward by taking ACTIONS for all my life goals and dreams. I adore you!! Thank you!!

  • @real-estate-with-roxsandra
    @real-estate-with-roxsandra 9 місяців тому +11

    Note: This is not a comment of reflection towards only this video!
    I CANNOT tell you how appreciative I am to have found you on UA-cam!! You my dear are an amazing angel to so many that need to hear what you say!

    • @periwinkles71
      @periwinkles71 9 місяців тому +2

      Same! I’ve gained so many life changing life nuggets from the podcast.

  • @julianasfeir
    @julianasfeir 8 місяців тому

    Amazing Mel! You demystify the process, it's not magic but work work work! It took me 54 years to realize that the battle is against myself. I do love all your podcasts, and I have accepted that I am a work in process and thanks to you, I now believe I will get there! Thank you, thank you, thank you, and.... well... thank me! 🥰😉😊- Love from Lebanon (Middle East)

  • @dreylane
    @dreylane 9 місяців тому

    This is THE BEST EPISODE done by Mel Robbins! Bravo!!🎉🎉🎉

    • @dreylane
      @dreylane 9 місяців тому

      Great song!

  • @paulalee2345
    @paulalee2345 9 місяців тому +10

    Thank you Mel for sharing Niecy Nash’s awesome speech! And let your daughter know that she has a beautiful voice and I love the song u played at end of this video of her. Tell your daughter Kendall she better Go Girl!!!!!!” You only live once, express yourself…People are waiting to hear what u got to say, sing & do ❤🎤🎬🎼🎯

  • @CsTheDayBooks
    @CsTheDayBooks 9 місяців тому

    Wonderful Mel ! I wore a lens of rejection and abandonment my whole life until my late 30’s. Learning to change my mindset and my beliefs about myself has been my focus for the last 5 years and has led to my biggest transformation journey ! AND because of that, I’ve written this book for children and families on the topic I’M SOMEBUNNY SPECIAL - Lovey Bunny’s Epic Journey. I’m incredibly proud of it and people have told me it helps them as well as their kids. It’s important to address our beliefs about ourselves at a young age! Love you Mel

  • @michellenapoli2065
    @michellenapoli2065 9 місяців тому +13

    Thanks as always Mel for giving me what I need when I need it!! It’s me against me, never thought of it like that, soooo true!!! I give myself an award for pulling myself up everyday, battling bouts of depression, anxiety and ‘not good enough’ and continuing to try new things, continuing to learn new things! (At 60, I’m still evolving, lol) thank you, thank you, thank you Mel, love you!! To Kendal, your voice is magical, let your light shine in the world! Hugs to you both!!❤❤

  • @dreylane
    @dreylane 9 місяців тому +1

    I'm proud that I'm able to work and work good! I HAVE a serious mental illness but I am NOT my illness! I get up every day and work having Schizo-affective bipolar depression. I work up to 70 hours a week in Healthcare.
    Thank you, Dreylane for working all these years when I had the option of staying on SSI.
    Thank you, Dreylane for heading toward a new goal of writing a book.

  • @elizabethmanz7940
    @elizabethmanz7940 9 місяців тому +4

    Thank you for playing Kendall's beautiful voice and song!!!! Hell yeah girl 😍

  • @EVOLr
    @EVOLr 9 місяців тому +2

    I got tired of gaining respect or reconition by others. I got kinda tired of myself waiting for that kind of aproval from others. I dont wait anymore and Its one of the hardest things to do, but im getting better at it, and now Ill never give away what ive worked so hard for. Never, ever give away my power. I know,God knows. Thats all i need.Then i can give the gift away with a smile on my face.

    • @EVOLr
      @EVOLr 9 місяців тому +1

      If my faith in GOD was nil, id be nothing, literally nothing.

  • @gostofhitch627
    @gostofhitch627 9 місяців тому +4

    I am the only one who knows the pain that I went through to be alive when I felt like my life wasn;t worth living , I am having an epiphany listening to you MELL I am having a tough day :(
    I thank myself for dragging my sorry self out of bed and keep showing up for mu kids while hiding the trauma of domestic violence and mental health so thank you ME

  • @pxh7588
    @pxh7588 9 місяців тому +1

    You speak to me. And I’m a 34 yo man. Not going to lie, I was a bit skeptical listening to a couple of your previous podcasts but it’s great. Keep it up, friend!

  • @JerryFranklin-hf3gf
    @JerryFranklin-hf3gf 9 місяців тому +9

    Wow!!!! Thank you, Kendall, for putting your song out into the world. You too Mel! :-)

  • @jazzsoul1695
    @jazzsoul1695 9 місяців тому +11

    I'm thanking myself for going on a job interview at a preschool in My mid-60s, not because that's what I really want, but because I still need to work to get my social security up there. I will be working into my early 70s. I thank myself for all the therapy and groups I've attended since my late 20s to leave terrible men, including my son's dad. I'm thankful that I helped my son get off heroin by bringing him into my home while my whole family turned against me. I'm thankful to have finally set myself free of my narcissistic older sister, even though she turned her son's against me. I do believe young people will get it later, even though I might be way older. Thankful for all the exercises I've done and still do regularly. Thank you from one Libra Virgo rising to another great Libra!!

    • @influentialwomen1
      @influentialwomen1 9 місяців тому +1

      You are amazing! A blessing! I know the Lord has wonderful things in store for you! I’m 67 and it’s never too late! I went back to school in my 50s and got a bachelors at 60 and a masters at 62. The Lord is with us! I’m so proud of you!❤😊❤ You Go Girl!

  • @Missvee273
    @Missvee273 3 місяці тому

    Securing a new job after 6 months of unemployment, divorced with 3 kids has been harder than I expected. Thank you for this confirmation message to keep leading by example and keep believing in me after all the No’s I have gotten and getting gutted. I keep saying I just need one yes!! I thank me!! ❤

  • @colleensommerville6231
    @colleensommerville6231 9 місяців тому +8

    Perfect timing to appear on my Youttube feed

  • @TruthSpeaksE
    @TruthSpeaksE 9 місяців тому +7

    That’s right, people come into our lives at different phases and never know our full stories 💯.

  • @chiaraperry472
    @chiaraperry472 9 місяців тому +1

    Mel, thank you for sharing Kendall’s song. It’s amazing. I’ve listened to it four times. I absolutely love it. She’s incredible.

  • @amandadavis4176
    @amandadavis4176 7 місяців тому

    I thank myself for braking all chains in my family to be a good mom to my kids. When my mom couldn't do that for me.I also thank myself for getting all 3 daughters out of high school and into college with no grandkids. When I had all 3 of my daughters before, I was 20. I also thank myself for overcoming my anxiety disorder that I had 22 years ago. And I have been off anxiety pills for 22 years, and it fills great!😊

  • @KitaLee5464
    @KitaLee5464 7 місяців тому

    Mel, I don't know if you realize how impactful you are. Truly amazing.
    And Kendall! Girl, this song is everything. I walked from my phone for a minute and your sing brought me right back to it. Beautiful!!!!!

  • @whatlifeisabout
    @whatlifeisabout 9 місяців тому

    Thank you Mel for this reflection. It became emotional to me to thank myself at some point, I started crying. We should never forget to thank the most important people - ourselves, but we mostly take that for granted. I thank myself for never giving up and for working hard to becoming a better person and to valuing myself more in the past years. I thank myself for making an effort to eat healthy, to exercise and to give myself the best at my work every day. I thank myself for being brave to move abroad alone for the first time at 25.

  • @Yali1977
    @Yali1977 9 місяців тому

    Omg love the song ❤🥰 Thank you for adding the song at the end. Her voice is beautiful ❤
    Thank you Mel for starting this channel. I can relate so much with you so I always look forward to hear what you have to say. I love how honest and blunt you are I'm the same way. Its funny how people love me and others can't stand me because of it 💁‍♀️ I love who I am and it is what it is. I thank myself for not giving up. I been thru so much in life and now raising an autistic son by myself, it's not easy to try to find work around his schedule, I finally got my real estate license in Florida I haven't made money yet with it but atleast I have it. I know it's a matter of time. Thanks for everything ❤

  • @gingersuga8606
    @gingersuga8606 9 місяців тому +1

    Awesome Job Kendall Robbins! I LOVE your music. Keep up the good work. You are so talented and beautiful just like your mother!!! I Love your Mom.

  • @hairrum
    @hairrum 9 місяців тому +2

    OMG!!! MEL KEENDALL IS AMAZING!!!! WHAT TALENT!!! I KNOW YOU ARE PROUD OF HER.(RE-MEMBER) SHE IS YOUR SELF!!!! PROJECTING OUTWARD!!!!

  • @theeditor1149
    @theeditor1149 9 місяців тому

    Kendall has such a soulful and distinctive voice and the song is so good, I'm sure you cried so hard when you heard it! I listened to this video several times so I could take on this message. I have struggled for over a decade and gave up all the things I loved as a result of my depression. Lost my entire 30s to my mental health. I need to try again so I don't have regrets should I ever make it to a hundred years old. Thanks again, Mel.❤

  • @barbaralakhdari8456
    @barbaralakhdari8456 8 місяців тому

    Ive been watching your videos the last couple weeks n have learned much but
    This one hit me so deep.
    I have an appointment with my amazing psychiatrist,whos dying from terminal cancer.i have to right down three negative thoughts , beliefs ihave about myself ( i have a masters in self criticism) and then go back to each one and challenge that thought, belief.
    As a person with cptsd n struggling with AADD n motivation nilch i havnt been able to bc i couldn't find the things to challenge the negative beliefs .
    Listening to this podcast n especially her acceptance speech n how you broke ut down just opened up my mind ..when you asked us to write things were thankful for what we did ,i saw my life in a bew way .
    One of my biggest struggles is at sixty this year n so much trauma,etc i have felt like i failed my life .Ive never done anything worthwhile..
    My mind began to flood with things i had done .
    I worked at the very children's shelter that i lived at when i got out of my very abusive childhood.I was asked n did to give a speech to the politicians iat our capital hearings on behalf on the girlshome i lived two years before i turned 18 . After that speech a reporter who covers these subjects at these hearings asked me if i could stay n give a speech at a hearing on sexual abuse..i was traveling with the director of the chidrens home , the president of the board of directors of childrens home n the directer of the girls home i lived at .I had to travel couple hours back home ..I built a gym with a former ex. I did the work while he kept his job n i had three weeks till New Years day to open that gym ,as new years to a gym is like black Friday to retail stores. It had bern a former gym but empty for several years n had much work to do , employees, creating contracts , so much details..i did it with exception of the indoor pool as it was Christmas time n a huge job to resurface ,fill ,etc.
    There are many more things that pop in ny head ..Ive bern so hard on myself especially after the twentyfive year marriage to what turned out to be a diagnosed narcissistic sadistic violent sex addict n countless women including friends,former coworkers etc
    Thank you for this n all of the podcast you do. You speak to us in terms we can understand, relate to , dont have to google terms thruout ,lol .Your just raw ,real as any of us n youve shown me something HUGE TO ME ..i thought you had to have finished something to feel good about yourself, to be the whatever things you wanted to be ..but doing something is a process, you are doing all this amazing work helping so many in many ways ,yet your still living lifes daily struggles, and issues that you have struggled with..that you dont have to be perfect, or win a award to matter , to living your life n the dreams ...I cant wait to do my assignment now , which i have to do ny tomorrow lol

  • @dag-sc2ptVlasticka24
    @dag-sc2ptVlasticka24 9 місяців тому +2

    Oh Mel, I just finished listening to the Kendal's song and I'm so touched, to tears...
    I'm so happy for her and her music. What a shame it would be not to let the world know!!! Thank you Mel for all you do... Love you ❤

  • @rerebrook5057
    @rerebrook5057 9 місяців тому +6

    I really needed this today 😢 thank you Mel, and your daughter’s song is beautiful

  • @ginaE6240
    @ginaE6240 9 місяців тому +11

    WoW.
    My Esteem is Self Esteem!
    Believing on yourself even when believing leaves you is so important.
    Getting through the challenges of life is an award.
    I thank me for being able to get it done. Despite ALL Disorders and all the things Mel mentioned.
    I give thanks to me for being Capable to dig deep and showe up no matter how much it hurt.
    I thank you Me!❤❤ and EVERYONE who reads this Comment.
    Peace & Love

  • @melmar99
    @melmar99 9 місяців тому

    Kendall girl, you got this. I forgot I was listening a podcast, I was so lost and was vibing to this beautiful music. Hey Mel it's me Mel. 😅

  • @claudiac7346
    @claudiac7346 8 місяців тому

    I really needed to hear this Mel, you never disappoint. At 54, after four kids and a marriage of 38 years,I feel the need to do something that gives me purpose. I feel as if I just woke up and realized that I can be someone other than a pleasing wife and a good mother. I’ve been brain storming to figure out what Am I good at and what I can do to give my life purpose,fulfilling and money of course. It’s hard, especially because I don’t have a university degree or job experience. I just have this feeling inside me to reinvent myself and you are helping me realize a lot of things,thank you!

  • @rubyg8749
    @rubyg8749 9 місяців тому +10

    Wow! Kendall's song Past-time transported me back to a time in my life when I believed anything I was possible and that's because this song has the exact quality and artistic flavor of the masterpieces that I listened to in the 70s. Love it!!❤🎉

  • @kg7836
    @kg7836 2 місяці тому

    Niecy Nash words...on stage and off...was a sacred whisper to our insides that struggle. Thank you Mel for using these clips as a motivation..teachable..moment. Specifically to women..to..humans living into their 50s..with miles of life and lessons. Powerful!

  • @memesfarmhousedesigns9254
    @memesfarmhousedesigns9254 9 місяців тому +5

    I listened to David Goggins audio book 2019 when I was in the middle of my master’s degree and was feeling overwhelmed. It was just what I needed (grew up with many learning differences that I worked through myself) to push me forward and got it done! ❤🙌🏼 Thank you for the encouragement of pushing through the self-doubt.

  • @AndreaGlaß-b3d
    @AndreaGlaß-b3d 9 місяців тому +5

    Thank you, Mel! I needed to hear that and Kendalls wonderful song as well!🙏💫🦊And I thank me for this too!😊

  • @antoinettemckinney2983
    @antoinettemckinney2983 9 місяців тому

    Mel, You are so on point and on time and this episode is truly a breakthrough episode for me! Your daughter’s story reminds me so much of myself. Listening to her song at the end for the first time was so emotional for me. I have been stuck inside my head and holding myself back for over 10 years. You are a gift from the universe and I love you and thank you for showing up in such a relatable way for us!! Sending you much love from The Bahamas! 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️🙌🏽🙌🏽🇧🇸🇧🇸🏝️🏝️

  • @Trieste59
    @Trieste59 9 місяців тому +2

    Mel your daughter has such a beautiful voice. I see why she chose this path. I love you added this song to your podcast.

  • @raisinbrahms2504
    @raisinbrahms2504 9 місяців тому

    You have no idea how much this episode helped me today. I've been applying for so many jobs in my field that didn't work out. This weekend I had a try out in editing and I thought I did well but I didn't get the job. It hurts deep down and it was really hard getting up this morning. After hearing all the motivation today it proves that I'm just growing and there is pain in growth. Thank you Mel! Hope everyone else can thank themselves and trust the process and keep going

  • @llemons9812
    @llemons9812 9 місяців тому

    Thank you so much Mel. This video happened to pop up on my scroll. It has been a few yrs since I've listened to you content. There's so much context now on UA-cam. Nonetheless, I do grateful for this particular video because it spoke truths to me and what I'm currently going through. I had not known about Neici Nash-Betts she's one of my favorites. I shared this with my daughter who's also in a battle with herself. Once again thank you soooo much. Btw David Goggins is also a favorite of mine. Tell Kendall that is a beautiful song. I'm 60 yrs old and don't like a lot of the new music out there today. But her song has a beautiful tempo with a touch of soul. She also has a wonderful voice. Thanks again for what you too. I'll be tuning into you more🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️👍🏽

  • @donnas8726
    @donnas8726 9 місяців тому +10

    Thank you self for getting up today and doing it! That fellowship application IS happening today. ❤❤ thanks Kendall! Your song has made me feel sooo good today.Happy Monday 🎉

  • @SineadQueiroz
    @SineadQueiroz 9 місяців тому

    Thank you Mel, I listen to you every morning and during the day whist I get my life together. I am 33 years old and have been through a divorce with a Narcissist, pushed myself to start multiple businesses and recently helped my son go through his kidney transplant. The life I have had has definitely not been an easy one, and yes I need to write a book because I have struggled with all of these things in silence. I thank myself today for pushing through the hardest points and helping my family through their hardest points. Your podcast helps me breathe, focus and get the hell up to push that much further everyday. x Thank You, Thank Me.

  • @EllaMoudy
    @EllaMoudy 9 місяців тому +6

    Thank you Mel I look forward to listening to your podcast every single morning. It gets me pumped and going.-

  • @silviafyentes662
    @silviafyentes662 8 місяців тому

    This soooo beautiful! I'm all in tears, because nobody has acknowledged aaaallll the things that I have gone through and I am proud of myself for having achieved so much on my own. I'm still work in progress but thanks to you and other things I'm doing, I'm getting better little by little. Thank you Mel. I love you ❤

  • @catherinehilt4174
    @catherinehilt4174 9 місяців тому +1

    Kendall, congratulations! I love the song!!

    • @markowen3114
      @markowen3114 9 місяців тому

      Hello Catherine,how are you doing?

  • @nikotopnotch2832
    @nikotopnotch2832 9 місяців тому +2

    Your daughter's song and voice is AMAZING!!! The video is inspiring for me at 55 and finally being on the right track for me!

  • @powthekicker8765
    @powthekicker8765 9 місяців тому +5

    Kendall’s song is amazing, Mel!❤ Favorited on Spotify now. ❤

  • @andronikiathanasi4569
    @andronikiathanasi4569 Місяць тому

    You are so right, Mel. We are constantly fighting our old selves and becoming better every day. It's amazing how we become a new person with every step forward. Thank you for the powerful reminder!

  • @MandyJRoss
    @MandyJRoss 9 місяців тому +7

    The exact music my soul needed to hear this morning.❤

  • @las_aventuras_de_glenda
    @las_aventuras_de_glenda 9 місяців тому +1

    I would like to thank myself for not giving up on every circumstance day to day. And thank me for listening to Mel's podcast every day. ❤

  • @jenniferknight2788
    @jenniferknight2788 9 місяців тому +2

    I am never going to give up my battle!! I love me!! I will put me first and I will do my best!!

  • @SunShine-lq7yt
    @SunShine-lq7yt 9 місяців тому +6

    Great timing.Thank you.
    As im watching, the views have more than doubled, but the likes are barely moving! Remember to hit the likes loves!

  • @marieneophytou5960
    @marieneophytou5960 9 місяців тому

    Wow, I love the song! Congratulations Kendall and thank you Mel for your brilliance and love. ❤️

  • @nathalienadeau8185
    @nathalienadeau8185 9 місяців тому +3

    Just went and listened to your daughter's song Pass time,really really good, congrats 🎉 Press on!!

  • @clevelandgirl3226
    @clevelandgirl3226 9 місяців тому +1

    A great message, Mel! I give myself an award for surviving through my husband‘s dementia for the past seven years with virtually no help from anyone. I appreciate your UA-cam advertisers, I just wish they wouldn’t interrupt your message mid-sentence, that’s a little distracting.
    Kendall’s song is beautiful! And the lyrics are absolutely wonderful! You go, young lady!🎉😀

  • @kimberlysheeran8000
    @kimberlysheeran8000 9 місяців тому

    Mel I have been listening to you for so many years. I am so happy to see that you are no longer a hidden gem. Thank you so much for the knowledge you give and authentic personality. I love you back! Your daughter’s song is so smooth and beautiful- she will blow up! 🎉❤😊

  • @amieneely4761
    @amieneely4761 9 місяців тому

    I feel like there are sooo many past "me", that I definitely need to go thru them, beat them and a figure out the one that is haunting me everyday! 💪 Love it! Thank you

  • @paigejones
    @paigejones 9 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I know you say "Noone is coming to save you", but this just saved me. I'm crying, stuck on every word, and all I can truly say is Thank You! I love You and I'm proud of you Mel!

  • @jenniferlindner3762
    @jenniferlindner3762 9 місяців тому +2

    Great informative pod cast!! Thank you! This hits home with me... I have lacked confidence and self esteem all of my 51 yrs! It took me 4 times to pass my Registered Nurse State Board exam!!! Don't.Ever.Give.Up!! ( 2014!)

  • @madhulikaverma290
    @madhulikaverma290 9 місяців тому +10

    Really needed this

  • @teri4848
    @teri4848 9 місяців тому

    I started watching this yesterday. I started crying almost immediately but by 19 mins in I was bawling. I had to stop watching but I’m finishing it now. So powerful!

  • @sandrawilliams6592
    @sandrawilliams6592 9 місяців тому

    Thanks Mel, you are a true inspiration. I believe you are one of God’s chosen people. Thank you for what you do. As for you Kendall that song was awesome! You’re going places girl!

  • @29riverad
    @29riverad 9 місяців тому

    Another great podcast. Thanks Mel! I was slow to realize that the great music at the end was your daughter! OMG! She's amazing! Oh she's definitely got a bright future ahead. What a voice! Congrats! ❤