Did You listen to Your Child When they Told You About the Abuse?
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- Опубліковано 16 лис 2014
- In India we are not comfortable talking to children about sex and sexuality.
They are not comfortable telling us about sexual abuse.In this film a boy struggles to tell his parents about sexual abuse by his uncle.
Highly recommended for parents, teachers and every person who comes in contact with children.
My cousin brother kept molesting me since I was 12 yrs old....even my uncle molested me...In my whole life I have been molested by 10 to 11 men...and what's much shocking is they all were relatives....but as I grew up...I started fighting with my fears...I told abt all this to my father..but he simply ignored..then my mother helped me...she was the only hero of my life... she's no more with me...but she made me strong enough to fight against all the adverse situations of life... thanks mum...every boy or girl needs a mother like you...I love you very much
Unfortunately, this can happen. it's not your fault and if you read the comments here you would know that you're not alone and these horrible things can happen to anyone but you're not lonely you have your mother and you have us.we'll pray for you. We're proud of you.Be strong girl!
I am really sorry for your loss .. I can understand .. we are so unsafe .. the world is so unjust towards girls..We have to be each others power and fight against it..
@@nafishy Well-said !!
Salute to such mothers!!! You're really lucky! Cuz anyone rarely stand by you at this kind of situation.
Pr jab maa hee hame bura bataye dusro ke saamne even khud ke ghr walo ke saamne toh fir uss ladki ka kya like me
The greatest betrayal is when your own mom silences you
😭 completely agree
True that is more painful than molestation 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Man....that is the nightmare of the century and i hope no one gets it
@Vichu V just suffer until you get capable of earning some money and after that just run away from your home to live a life you are craving for
Mom's never do such things
My eldest sister's husband tried to molest me many times when I was a kid. I told my parents, they did nothing. Even today if I speak about it they tell me to shut up. My sister also continues to live with him and avoids me. Such is this world! Happy to be married and away from all of them in America!
Sex is make you silent even youre in america
It's also happens with me
@sakina's travel diary - may God bless you with lots of happiness and love.
I mean stuff like this happens in the States too, with the current decision on abortion looming I can't say it is a very safe place for women
@@HarshvardhanKanthode I don't have family molesters here so I am pretty sure I am safe. As per the abortion law, I can always take a trip of India for it. By the way my state is pro choice in the US.
I had been molested so many times in my childhood. I told my boyfriend the entire matter and he did understand my feelings . Now he became my husband. So understanding person.
You are such a lucky to have such an understanding soul.
I'm happy you got your true soulmate that understands you❤wish you both have a great life
Wow you are so lucky
He is your soulmate....God bless you
Tina Sharma same story
One rule...never trust ANYONE when it comes to the safety of your child and second rule....ALWAYS listen to your child.....
manish srivastava Well said
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@Beyond Infinity what a solution. Abuse is a situation and for that don't give birth. Giving birth or not is your choice,but please change this mentality of getting rid of abuse by not giving birth. This kind of saying make it more hopeless for millions of kids out there facing abuse. If you don't feel for them it's fine. But don't say such harsh and cheap things.
100% true. I don't leave my kids with anyone except a few trusted people but for very short time if ever. My kids know if someone (regardless of age, gender and relationship) touches them in appropriately it's not ok and they should let me know right away..
knowledge loverz oh please most Indian parents always trusted their relatives rather than their children. It’s not even that they trust their relatives, they fear more what will people say. Thank god my mother would have killed anyone who touched us. Thank god for relatives who protected us. I was lucky to have family who took care of us. I think today parents are becoming more aware. No one will ever touch my kids and get away with it.
"kidnapp ho gayi, par waha azaad thi"
an extremly powerful line.
Can u tell me the movie
@@pramiteechakrabarty6391 its a skit, its not a movie scene
@@kyrariddle9042 no it's a movie called "highway" i got it from internet. Don't worry ..
@@pramiteechakrabarty6391 oh, i wasnt aware, thanks
@@kyrariddle9042 It's a beautiful movie.. You might have already watched it by now
Just few days back my mother told me when I was born my dad's mother told my mother "today u are a girl's mother .if their is ever a situation were ur daughter say anything against her father .trust ur daughter not ur husband. " My father is the best dad in this whole world with great upbringing and values but still my grandmother taught my mother to always listen to ur daughter first and then ur husband. Fortunately I am blessed with a great family and never had to face mental or physical assault.But i am extremely proud of my grandmother for her teachings .
That's the thing.. we women need eachother's support and understanding..
Oh my god you don't know what your grandmother said to your mother
Oh god I just have goosebumps
I love your grandmother
I just want to be like her
She is awesome yrr
You know what my mother choose her husband over me
i wish i ad family like urs
@@kajalmishra8971 so sorry to hear that . I hope you are doing good. 😀
@@koushikiaich8128 yeah kind of
Thank you😊
Aalia's best performance till date.... she nailed it...She lived the character... Hatsoff
Movie name plz
@@mehanazmahi2337 Highway
@@mehanazmahi2337highway
Movies name
Highway
A woman has three greatest enemies : men, another woman, and silence...
Nice ... I am posting your sentence as a motivational quote ... Thanks for these sentences ...👌👌👌🙂🙏🙏🙏
@@harmonytunes701 so does every Human
This is so true!!
I think u should mistakenly put men because not men are rapist 🤗🤗
Oh...Goodness...really didn't expect so many likes... thank you everybody...Nd yes..,no man is born as a rapist, but situations tame him to become one...
This happened with me too. My family consists of me , my mom and dad. My dad worked out of place and my mom was also a working women. Being a single daughter, i had to go through a lot in the past. But i was happy that my mom got a tranfer and moved to another place , we had a neighbour with a family consisting of mom , dad and their 2 daughters. I was happy that i had someone to play with me and the mom of that family made food for me and after school i dress, clean up and prayed then went to neighbours house. Since, my mom is working she came late and till that time i be with that family. So the relationship was like this. One day my moms health got bad and was admitted in hospital ,my dad took care of her and i had to stay with this family(neighbours). This was the worst moments of my life started to begin. Every morning this womens husband touched my private parts to wake me up and when i go to bathroom he peeped through the hole in the door, i was not able to do anything. Even the bathroom didnt gave me protection. So, it was diwali and a craker got busted suddenly and all the smoke went to my eyes i was not able to open .so this guy pressed me against him and was rubbing water in my eyes were his daughters and wife was playing. He rubbed his rubed his dirty parts against me. I was not able to cry or was able to show any emotion , i was numb and was not feeling anything. The next day i told the wife to take me to hospital , we went to the hospital and i cried hugging dad and didnt told him. I went to mom and said that he touched me and my mom told me not to tell anything to dad. That moment i understood the value of myself. I was no one to anybody. That moment onwards i made me realise that i was nothing. That still haunts me. Now, i am 20 years of old ,my mom passed away when i was 17 few days after my birthday. I live my lovely dad who loves me the most.we have a very lovely relationship. One day we were sleeping and some emotions bursted and i told my dad this happened. He said to me that he failed as a dad and that was something that broke him to pieces . After that he was having depression and started drinking and was normal after few weeks. He cares for me protects me and loves me most. I am 20 yrs old and i still sleep next to my dad. He sings and says stories for me to sleep. But i loved my mom and i still love her. Even if i hate her i have forgiven her. I am crying right now writing this but i wanted to share my story. That still haunts me .sorry for my english.❤ to everybody.
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Dear young lady . Wish you best wishes for your future.
Women in the world. please work together against women discrimination regardless of caste and religion and language and status .
sorry to hear that your mom passed away.......
don't forget we all are with you
past is past so forget it and start a new life
be strong to fight with dirty man
I seriously got emotional after reading your comment dear😥
Brave girl, don’t let your past, to impact your future. Be happy.
When Today's generation will become parents they will be the bestest parents of all the generations ❤
Right, I will take all the decisions wisely for my children.
@@suhasivnanwani792 It is not as easy as it seems.
If we take a look at todays gen we notice a thing that everyone are too addicted to their phn. Even nowadays parents give less time to their children and they even care less. Parents are getting selfish day by day . Though in our times parents were toxic but yet caring.
being teen we think that we are r8 but sometimes it seems that our were r8 when they took decision for us.
@@Mahira-nx8df you are right it is not easy as it seems but we can try. And I am not a teen, I am 24, and not addicted to the phone. And also I am a teacher I spent most of the day with children from class 1 to 8th, so I know very well how I have to tackle these little smart kids.
Hence, I will not be a toxic parent,
Will not be addicted to phone , will not suffocate them, and will make effort to make them a good human being.
@@suhasivnanwani792 I didnt said that you cant be a good parent but many people are still toxic you know. Toxicity is nothing to do with generations. Its a human nature.
@@Mahira-nx8df oh no no no. I was not arguing, I was just trying to say as I am not phone addicted, or toxic. And so there are still many people like you and me exist in this world who are not toxic. Just that.
And toxicity is human nature you are absolutely right. 😊
Now I understand why my family members always say me to stay away from any older boys or Uncles.When they told me that I was very sad & unhappy. but now I understand that they just want to protect me and not to make any darkest memory in my mind .Tnx mom & dad
I AM A 19 YEAR GIRL BUT I PROMISE THAT WHENEVER I WILL BECOME MOTHER I WILL ALWAYS LISTEN TO MY CHILDREN
Me too I'm 19 years old and my parents don't listen to me
When i will become a mother I'll always listen to my children
@@yosa__gi Ya good
I AM 16 AND WHEN I WAS 9, I PROMISED THE SAME TO MYSELF...
(Aditi)
My parents listen to me and my siblings no matter what!
Yes I'm 19 too i will also listen to my children and will help them no matter what.
The worst thing is some children don't even realize that they're being molested , they're too young to even realize what is happening . And when they grow up and realize , they hate themselves . Many people don't believe them because they're children .
Ss this happed to me but when I knew this I was grown up I don't know wt to do now😭😭😭
I am too disgusted to think about it again but 'm glad that i escaped. The sad thing is that till now i can' t talk about it to anyone because they would think that its a lie.
@@Random-nb2jr i relate 😔 it makes me hate myself and i feel so disgusted in myself 😭
Right
Yes i was molested when i was about 6, i don't know what it meant but still i remember what happened. Now that i realize it was so wrong.
I went through sexual abuse when I was just 6 years old, did not realize it at that age but later understood that it was sexual abuse and why it felt so uncomfortable and I was fraught! I gathered up my courage and 16 years later, told my mom about this just to hear "you gotta just forget about such stuff! they happen!!", That's all that I heard from her, my dad had no reply when I went to him and my younger brother had no words either! now they ask me why I tend to be very negatively connoted about people, even inside the family..... I mean what do they expect!!!!!?!!!
This is very relatable. I remember it happening to me a couple of times at around 6. I didn't realize what was happening to me was wrong, and I still can't believe that what happened to me was molestation, because the person was really close and to be trusted.. Mine just told me to "tell him to stop doing it." That's it.. If there is one thing to be taken from this is that we will be better parents than our own. Stay strong, Nikethana. You have come so far. We will make it in this world, despite it being so cruel. More power to you. 💪💪
Forget it is the easiest words some parents use they feel community is their God and not their own kids
@Hieracium7051 hope u r fine brother it's my first time to know abt a boy's version really 😞
I was so abused at very tender age never once i spoke of this until now ..😢😢😢😢😢 now i m 25 just forgot never told anyone..... I dont even know what it it...
Relatable
When she started screaming I had chills all over. She could finally scream after years of torture. I can't imagine the horror people go through and are just told to shut up cause family's reputation >>>>> you're own child. F people and their "izzat" you don't have any respect if you can't take care of and protect your own child.
Even an animal tries to save his child when someone tries to touch it
My thoughts exactly! You should see how an elephant mom protects her baby. Not just the mom, but the elder sisters, aunties, grannies of the baby elephant- everybody sides with the baby elephant when there is a predator around. They form a protective circle around the baby. The matriarch of the family leads the attack. You'll get to see this in many videos of elephant herds. They are so united when it comes to fighting off danger, aur in insaano ko dekh lo.
Kabhi kabhi lagta hai ki agar main kisi hathini ki aulaad hoti to meri life laakh guna zyada achchi hoti. Kam se kam family waali feeling to is lifetime me experience kar paati.
We have societt civilisation blah blah which makes us worst than animals
@@1986nitya i think u don't understand ur mom at all...i hope u be one soon then u will realise everything
@@pryo2460 Please shut up and spare me the horror of listening to your pravachan about motherly realizations. I'm 100% sure that you are exactly the type of mother that has been depicted in this video and your guilty conscience is what is making you defend mothers like these. Evil spawn.
@@pryo2460 what? Like literally, it's actually a mother who saves her child from any trouble. I never saw a single women going against it, rapists ki mother tak bachati h apne bache ko to ye to innocent h🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ What mentality u have?
The saddest part was the father, after knowing the truth, expects his daughter to talk sensible😑.
My father told that to me tooo.... All my relatives tell me to shut up. They talk about the man casualy as if nothing happened many a times in front of me and expect me to just shut my mouth
And that mother too ... How could she stop her like it was her mistake
My Parents responded the same way , even acted like they don't know nothing about sexual molestation , & they diverted it as mere fight 😡😡😡
I feel really pity 4 such kind of parents. Such a bloody fake people.
Fathers are like this only,even worse. They're just glorified. Fucking Patriarchal Society.
That scream is enough to explain her pain ! 💔
I am an only child, my mom was a single mom. When I was 10 yrs old, she met someone and the following year we moved in with him. She was trying to give me a better life, she worked so hard and went to school at the same time. My step father and I had a great relationship.. I finally got something I always wanted, a father. we had a happy little family and our own house. I had my own room. When I was in the 9th grade 14 years old, my mom had an exam out of town and went to spend the night with her sister in that city. I had to stay home alone with my step father. He used this time to molest me. he told me not to tell my mom. the next day she came home and I told her. she made me tell him what happened and what he did. he denied at first. but then he accepted it- maybe he thought if he apologized all will go back to normal. that did not happen. we sold our house and since then my mom and i have been living alone. she never found anyone again. This dirty man went to my family members and lied about what happened, he tried to make me look bad, like i made up the whole thing to have my mom to myself. my moms family doesn't believe me. I stay away from them. I am getting therapy after many years, i have been very depressed, have anxiety, paranoia, suicidal thoughts... but I am dealing with it proper now, getting help. I am 34 years old and I am a survivor. I am sad to see how many other youngsters have gone through something similar, and if you reading this feel alone, please know that you are not alone. Life is beautiful you just need to find your strength and push through. Sending love and healing energy to you all.
Please achhe se raho behan.......
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This is EXACTLY WHY in islam, when a mother re marries and her daughter is under 10 and son under 7, she loses custody of her children until they reach that age, because children are NOT safe with their step father. Just yesterdays heart breaking news in the uk that a mothers boyfriend killed her, raped her 11 year old daughter and killed her, killed her 11 year old friend that was sleeping over and killed her 13 year old son. 😭😭😭😭, tomorrow because of family breakdown and deviating from religion this will start happening with asian women and their innocent children 😭😭.the son at 13 was not strong enough to take on this man 😭😭😭😭
@razamughal9095 this is not happening because people are deviating from religion. This has been happening always in all cultures, during all eras. But women are silenced then and now because reputation of the family/clan is more important than the physical and mental wellbeing of an individual. In a society where women who are molested are seen as damaged commodities, what use is there speaking up for them? How will people know such evils are happening on a daily basis?
Be proud of your mother who took a bold step for u. God bless her
Your mother is hero of your life 💞
There would be many people who would just be scrolling,remembering their own pain,but still can't write of the pain that happened to them.💔💔
Bk Ranjan very true
😥😥😥😥😢😢😢
True
Right......:(
Right yr
Shi kaha yaha bohot ese log h .very true😭😭😭😭
almost every girl in India has faced sexual harassment in some kind of way. as a victim of child abuse i literally cried after seeing this scene. as a girl who had no idea about it but just had a disgusting feeling. when i finally grown up enough to know about these things i realised that even ur close ones and "sensible educated" person do these things. not to forget its always our fault
No
Yes
Been through the same..... Scrolling through the comments and realizing that I am not the only one is so sad😢
Stay strong❤
Name of the movie?
Not just in india, its the issue of every other country we also face this problem and each time i realise the age of the person doing this shit makes me even more sad honestly.
Shameful how so many parents have silenced their kids on sexual assault. I’ve gone through it too and it’s sickening. Made me feel I can’t even trust my family with my own safety. They never took my side.
The comments section of this video is arguably and most possibly unlike any other comment section in the entire UA-cam video library. The number of people coming forward to share their personal experience is unbelievable. I can’t even imagine the pain the people who have opened up here had to go through or still going through. This just proves that a cinema is not just an entertainment, but a strong and substantial medium to bring out unspoken and difficult truths. To portray images that we mostly pretend to have not seen. I just pray that the Almighty God comfort each one of you, strengthen you and give you peace. Amen!
A girl who experiencing any bad experiences in childhood like this...she fears about physical touch for her whole life
True. The face of that person comes in front of eyes again and again.
In fact the entire experience comes in front of eyes.
If feels like he's only toùching again and again.
It's really hard to get up once again when you're betrayed by your own family.
@@justbreathing8003 💔
@Joe more power to u
@Sargam Jhunjhunwala 😬
No its worse . I still feel dirty and unpure . Even touch of my own kids during sleep I wake up to those memories .
I got goosebumps when she shouts ...
This pain can only be understood by girls only
Not only girls.. boys, too.
@@secretsuperstar4930 yh I am a girl but I can understand . I was mostly bet up by my mom when till 13 yrs old for what my mistakes and also for what I didn't do . Once my mom even crushed my head on the wall as we people do to a coconut not only mine but my younger brothers too.
But as I grew I'm 15 now from 14 my mind become machord so if my mom comes to beat me without a reason I stop her hand or i just beat back as self-defense . My dad says me to apologise to my mom for what I do but for the first time in my life I said to my dad that I won't say sorry for what is not my mistake . My brother almost is crazy now eventhough he isn't actually but now all h want is freedom talking bck to mom everyday and getting scolding everyday beating my younger sisters because he saw mom beating me and my older sis he thinks physical abuse is normal .I'm even a victim of emotional abuse didn't ever get hugged from parents . If I continue its a long story
@@nuts3100 So sorry for your loss.. Sister... I can't even imagine what u guys going through... i hope you will feel free soon... 💔💌
Not girls or boys , it's about victim
@@secretsuperstar4930 I think I'm getting free slowly btw thanks for your words
We can't deny the fact that Alia is such a talented actress!!!!
This scene gives me goosebumps. Alia has a done a fantastic job. We must teach all our kids about bad touch and good touch right from the beginning. Nowadays it is taught in many schools too. Things are changing, but as parents we also need to have such conversation with our children at home. Together we can make a difference.
To all people verbally abusing her for being a star kid:
1) She didn't choose to be one.
2) This video proves than being a "star kid" doesn't make you any less talented than a normal human being.
Soo true!!!!
she might be talented and a star kids..but as long as she dont snatch other peoples chance..if she was really ethics..then why she did not utter a word for SSR..she is talented but also a deep hypocrite just like the latest star Akshay or Varun who post thing on SSr just beacuse their film is coming..
@@kumar646 have uh seen her tweets for sush?? Or a tym when she was shouting that I came out after watching ms dhoni?? No?? Search or I will give link 😌
@@priyankagohel6454 the thing is not her comment on Ms dhoni..but her silence..so many knows the killer of SSR..but chose to remain silent..grow up..learn to observe and read between the lines..be a good observer..
@@kumar646 just a min uh watch properly!!
Most of the girls got molested in their life and it's proved by this comment section,I literally cried and realized how we, girls(not all) are not even safe in our own home.
Not everyone
@@taslimabegum3843 if so,I would be very happy for them
thank you.Every women should provide their safety and i can provide my safety.
me too . not only one tym but 10 -20 tyms only at the age of 14 . 20 tyms 😫😫😫😫😫😰😰😰😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I can understand, even happened to me also at that time, I could not even fight back, but now I don't keep quiet and even try to help girls like me if I find them to be at that position.
The first time I faced a sexual harassment when I was 13 years old... I was traveling in a public bus with my parents and a was sitting beside an aged person and that day I realise that these rascals have no feeling for a girls who is like their daughter.... that day I couldn't raise voice because I was not mature enough but today I'm teaching my younger siblings and friends that always stay strong and be aware ..
I think I am lucky to have a family like mine. When I went to take photo alone one day the photographer acted weirdly towards me, he tried to touch me in name of taking photos though I avoided him. When I reached home I told my mom about it and she told this to my dad when he reached home. They were so angry at him and my brother was like he would kill him any moment. Seeing that my father allowed my brother to take action and took him with him when he went to confront that guy they taught him such a lesson that I felt so proud that I had such a family they checked his camera, though there weren't any bad photos of mine they deleted those photos to assure me,and after this incident that guy didn't even have the guts to even look at me. So proud of my family. Let me tell you if you need help first you should be ready to speak about it to people who you feel will help you 🙂
cant imagine that such family even exist... lucky to have parents like mine
Most of the abuses are by relatives or friends. This happens to both boys and girls. However, cases are filed very very very very rarely in the police station if the abuse is by someone the family knows.
Believe me this wasn't exist much before but this filthy pornography f****d up the society. In present time our indian society is on peak molesting women.😭😭😭😭
This is very common...even our own parents refuse to accept the bitter reality of their own relatives....for them, their so called izzat matters more than their children's safety....
Yes !! They do exist !!
Me 🙋to
👏👏👏she deserve a round of applause.... Brilliant acting... A common issue ignored by everyone in this society.. 😳😡😡
Society allows it
Thats the problem and theres no way anyone can contradict this because its true!!
What is it about? I couldn't understand
Babe, it's not common issue. It is major issues which is avoided by elders because of society.
@@ramyapatel3769 sala babe Hain vo!!!
@@Armaan48499 right
As a mother who had been through childhood trauma I don’t trust anyone when it comes to my kids not even their father.
I'VE MADE A PROMISE TO MYSELF, I WILL NEVER EVER BE A SILENT COWARD MOTHER OR A WOMAN. I realised years ago how wise and sensible my mother was when she didn't allow me to go wander alone with my uncles or older male cousins. Some in my family found it weird and thought my Maa was a prude for this but goshh I'm grateful she did that. Even if there was 0.0000001% chances of something happening, she was cautious of it. She also taught me about my personal boundaries and self-respect. She's such a Queen🙏
God I have always seen you in Seventeen related videos but seeing you here really made me felt good happy to see a carat❤️❤️
Moral of the story- A child never lies
that is actually pretty accurate, which is why I always ask lil kids how I look 😂
@@eeshaa8428 lool na don't think like that about urself ur pretty
@@sahara8169 aaww thanks even though u haven't seen my face, but I can tell u that you really are Beautiful from the inside and the outside
@@sahara8169 Um kids do lie alot
@@jasamkojajesam6108 Well um not when they've been abused emotionally and physically, kids would never lie to their parents about being sexually abused, that's something really severe for a child to know and to be exposed to knowing what they would have went through and the trauma, because kids are innocent and if their innocence is taken away wouldn't that be alarming like imagine if your child came upto you and said that they've been raped, wouldnt that be a red flag for you or would u just sit there and leave ur child suffer. I don't think any parent would unless their evil.
After watching this scene, I understood why my mom used to tell me not to go to any uncles who asks me to go near them when I was a kid. I used to think why she says that.. But now I know.
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You have a very sweet mom. Meri maa ne mujhe kuch nahi sikhaya, kisi cheez ke liye prepare nahi kiya. Useless. How funny is it that despite having two parents, I've lived like an orphan and pretty much raised myself!!
Even my mom also never leave me alone. My father and mother are so responsible ❤❤
My mom never let me go with my uncles alone
She is very protective both for me and my elder sister and my dad too
@@1986nitya I'm sorry for ur parents behavior.
But please stay strong , be always good and prove to society with ur matured behavior that you are respectable tho ur parents are not that good
When I was young, my brother used to beat me and scold me, he did not let me go anywhere, did not let me take anything from anyone, he did not even let me go to the neighbors house nor did he let me play with relatives that time I'm nine year old , slowly slowly I hate my brother I thought he gone mad, he only paying with me not any body to do this ,it's very critical condition for me ,I wish that time my brother should be die ,i thought he take my all freedom,he give me everything thing which I wants he take care of me all time took me a family tour ,he gives me all toys,now I'm 20 years old when my all friends tell me the horrible story of there childhood I'm surprise and scared and now I'm thinking why it's not happen with me,my friends have very tough condition I can understand theres pain ,😢😢but now I'm much respecting and loveing my brother and always saying to God pls give him my age ,and every birth I want this brother, now I'm fasting to found him every birth , love you veere jii 😍😍😍
Wow...she has been an excellent actress since then..hats off to her acting..she brought tears into our eyes...
She is definitely a result of nepotism but still looking at her talent, it seems pardonable. Alia Bhatt is an amazing actress.
If ur dad give u manager post in his private business, will it be nepotism?? Rip to ur IQ.
And one more if your colleague gets seat in competitive exam with lower percentage just because of cast benefit...it won't be nepotism??
@@chudasamabhargavrajchudasa8249 the film industry is not running on ur tax!! It's completely private sector!! Use some brain plz!
Hey Dude what's wrong with you ....
Please don't take your father, family and your husband's prosperity and his property because you don't do hardwork for purchase all of this...
Atleast she is talented than the persons who are writing the comments
When she was shouting, it hit hard as a male. Felt like she was shouting on my face. Never felt so belittled as a male. The pain in her eyes, we cant even imagine what humiliation and pain she and many other children go through.
Thank you for understanding our pain.
Otherwiss Men don't even listen..
Editing this since my replies not going under this comment anymore --
@Rohit Bhushan Absolutely.. The day I wrote that reply,I came home after getting catcalled by few men. It got me back to old memories. I just got a bit sentimental that day while watching the video and reading the comments which is why I wrote that (this) reply.
The male victims and survivors are far more than we can imagine and I know that. I've all my heart for them as well.
And about what I wrote that Men don't listen,that was my experience in my life. Now still I'd apologize if you felt I generalized men -- I never had any such intentions.
Like you said many male survivors have it worse than female survivors,similarly many female survivors also have it worse than male survivors though I believe pain of abuse is just the worst for the person who experiences it. So I just wrote it out of emotions.
Thanks..... Good to see humanity alive..... Coz other men think were lying just for attending 😔😔😔😔😔
Men who think like you are rare. VERY rare in India, to be honest. Most wouldn't give a shit.
THANK for understanding our felling brother
@@1986nitya And most would call such people 'simp', which is sad, unfortunately :(
I come back to these scene. What amazingly acted out. The dialogues are just so well written too.
This scene moved me. I wish I had been able to speak like her to my parents about this. I took me 30 years to do so
my mother was never friendly with me, always into her family and stuff. my father never knew what exactly is happeneing in the house,as he fulltime working outside. my mother's favorite brother molested me but my mother is not aware. i dont think she would take my side also. saddest part is i am 30 and suffer till today. i try hard to forgive but not possible i just cant accept her as my mother,because she was the main reason for the worst of worst of all the things happened to me. even today if i tell her she is not capable of understanding a bit of what we have through
I took 37 years 😢
I told my mum when I was 9 years old. She slapped me across the face and said I was unholy.....I m a 48 year old woman .....we havnt spoken for over 39 years. No loss. My life is way better without toxic family. Abused by father brother and other male relatives in pakistan. I see none of them. My life is rich without them all.....
strong one dear.. god bless u
More power and love to you . From India ❣️
I'm so sorry for you to be have gone through such an experience
More power to you sister ,💓
😭
i never expected this level of acting from alia...wow she did such a great job i love her :)
Watch udtha punjab
Watch razzi
@@shaynasaini8090 Is RAAZI uploaded on you tube or any other online source???
Alia can do anything she is made for acting
This is the clip of "Highway" movie
It hurts even more when u can't talk about this things to anyone, keeping all inside you, being depressed, resenting yourself because u can't do anything. It also affects your mental state a lot, you won't be able to trust anyone anymore after this, it feels like this whole world is gonna betray you. Eventually you won't have any friends, because you are too scared to get near someone or to open up yourself, you will be lonely and empty inside. But i believe i can heal myself so u can too. Have faith in you.
THIS IS SO ACCURATE. THIS KIND OF CHILDHOOD TRUMA STAYS WITH YOU FOREVER. AND NOTHIG IS BITTER THAN THIS!
What pains me more than the actual incident is that the whole family is sitting there listening to her, people are trying to shut her up, calm her down, but not one person cares enough to empathise, not one person gets up to hug her, to acknowledge her, to say that they're sorry it happened to her. They just sit there.
@Log To Khenge yarr it still happens today. So stfu
This is target on hindus. May be malechas do this.. malechas are there in every religion..
Yes sirf movies mein ho sakta hai.. Added effect ke liye..
Indian families be like :
Thats the reality ...why people do not hug survivors. Society never change .
After reading the comment section, seeing everyone coming out of their dark places is one of the most satisfying but at the same time, kinda gut-wrenching feeling. Whether it's a girl or a boy, I salute every one of you. That's why we need sex education.
Hi
I used to feel perhaps I'm unlucky to have experienced these horrors but I now realise all that I faced has been faced by so many people.
Anyway,I hope for this world to be a better place.🙏🏼
@@user-vq2zs2ej4s It will… It has to. And You’re a strong woman.💙
Ye bollywood wale bahut haraami hai,
har muslmaan k ghar ki kahani Shukla aur Vira Baby k naam se dikhate hai
@@nil_rv_4924 wht do you mean by musalman ka ghr ke kahani
Powerful scene! Parents, please listen to your kids when they report incidents of molestation. And don't just ignore them. Take necessary action against the perpetrator.
I couldn't stop crying..we always try to protect children and not let such thing happen to children, not necessarily be our daughter or some one from our family.
The moment she spoke her issue, I started crying with my heart out, regretting that why didn't I let my parents know about my problem. It's been 5 years since I was molested and no one knows this till now, not even my mom. I don't have the courage to speak out and have been carrying this pain in my heart since then. I didn't even know that I was being molested. What she said is indeed true. We must be careful inside our home too........................
Your feelings are very valid. And,you don't have to regret anything.
I certainly can't imagine your pain but I can understand how it feels since I went through it too.
You're so so so strong,I'm not lying. You deserved better.
We can't change the past unfortunately,but can make the future better. I wish you all the very best in life.
Sending loads of love and power to your side. 🤍
Dude share it with your parents you know may be it will refuce your pain they are your closer ones you should tell them but only if they are understanding otherwise you have god take him as ypur friend and share everything
I am so sorry for you.
Speak up before your parents.
I believe they will surely support you but will say "Don't say it to others". Cut those crap. Be leader of your own soul healing.
Don't subpress yourself.
Give peace to your soul and do whatever that makes your soul at peace.
One solution, that I also suggested someone is, "Save a child so that you can save your inner child and give justice to your soul"
Be your Own Warrior.
Stay Safe and Blessed.
My cousin got through somewhat similar situation, and she expressed it before mom and Aunty, but none actually acted. While my mom listening to this matter later on, save guard us from that uncle and said, if something such happens to my child, I'll slit him open.
My parents are my strength and That's why maybe I'm Bold in expressing my thoughts.
"didn't even know I was being molested" is the worst part. People saying tell your parents. I would say, tell to the person you feel most comfortable with alongside he/she being mature enough. If that person is a parent for you, then surely tell your parent.
I told my dad about it, he called me a liar. Couldn’t tell my mom because my parents had an ugly separation which caused me not having contact with my mom. So I told my best friend at that time she helped me, regain confidence. But it still left hurt, I was gang raped by strangers, by my dad’s friend and my aunt’s husband. My aunt stopped my uncle but that doesn’t stop the pain n trauma/sleepless nights or nightmares of it all happening and reliving those moments in my sleep. I am married now with a amazing man. Who comforts me when I am scared or had those dreams again.
If your child ever comes to you to talk about something. Don’t shut them up. Listen and help them. Abuse isn’t something to lie about it a serious matter. Don’t fail as a parent whose responsibility is to protect them and guide them.
God bless you dear..jai mata di
You should had complained to police...dont be silent🔇
I was told to keep my mouth shut or something else would happen.
Shayel Singh You are brave, you struggled with your past and came out from it, i can understand , what have u been through, you had a difficult time, but i am happy that u have a very soothing companion, God bless you both.
God bless u my dear....u are very strong..who did them to u are from hell .They live in a hell when they are alive and when they are dead also.You keep moving forward..n help others on your way!
Bravo to the girl….. my family can’t imagine how many times I have screamed my heart out myself. It’s a sad life…. When the ones closest to you try to shut you up and the ones who should be punished are roaming free in an unsafe house. The true meaning of family is represented by keeping a distance from the truth teller and shunning them out when they open their mouth but the actual villain tend to eat with family, play with family and are welcomed into the family. My heart hurts by seeing this. Cause I remember living like this since I was in 5th grade until I was 36 years old!
Her expressions are just gold.
First time in my entire life I thank Karan Johar for Introducing us to Alia. She is really good actress.
I mean when she screamed it brought shivers down my spine.
Goosebumps
Really she has done a job.
zindag me 1st time is larki ne acting ko serious lia a🤣
@@Itx.balooshiya first time? Udta punjab, raazi, kapoor and sons, gully boy and there are much more where Alia has proved herself as an actress!
Alia and her flaring nostrils are distracting AF.. i hate K jo for introducing alia she gets everything sitting at home stealing opportunities from other actots
I don't care about status or anything else.
If someone does that to my child and i find out, i am going to bury him alive in the ground.
Yes
Good do that because these people don't deserve any mercy I mean seriously how can they think a child as sexual object
@@stutikhanna987 yes
@123fort andbree it's good that it saved u and I wish the same.. bt how to teach self defence to a 2-3 yr old girl?😢😢😢😢😢 Aaye din aisi khabre aati h jinme masoom bachiyon ka dareendo dwara rape kiya jata h. Kaise bachay unhe😢.. Jb tk hmara law strong nhi hoga inke khilaf.. kuch nhi ho skta.. jb tk aam jnta inke khilaf nhi hogi . Kuch nhi ho skta.
@123fort andbree han girls above 5 we can teach... Below 5??
This is an eye opener. Hats off to Imtiaz Ali for making a brilliant film.
I have suffered the same....this movie gave me voice.thankyou Alia
The comments section is breaking my heart. It's one thing to be touched without permission, it's something else when your own parents don't support you because of shame. Let's teach all of our kids to understand what is consent.
Can you please tell me the name of this movie? I been looking for this movie for years
@@toniecruz1003 highway
Anuradha Pandit they’re children. children cannot give consent. instead teach molesters and rapists not to rape. and #BelieveSurvivors
Seriously 😟
Anuradha Pandit What the hell did u just said... Consent... Are you even in your senses that what word u have chosen for kids molestation....
Please bewate with your words they havr impact differently ob different minds...
Pls aways think before u speak shit out of your mouth..., 😠😠😠😠
May Allah Protect All Girls Women & Kids from these situations🥀
Allah don’t protect anyone, he told Mohammad to do this kind of act to any child or woman he want. Islam is a sick religion, and you don’t see that.
Jas baksh
ALLAH IS THE SAME GOD YOU WORSHIP
YOU HAVEN’T EVEN READ THE QURAN AND DID YOU KNOW JESUS’S AMAZING STORIES ARE MENTIONED IN THE QURAN
HOW DARE YOU COME AND TALK NONE SENSE ON SOMETHING THAT YOU DONT KNOW *ANYTHING* ABOUT
Cloud Dreamer Jesus is the God of the Quran. Exactly the opposite.
@@omarelmasri9939 ha to har jagah allah allah mat ghusaya karo samjhe na ye koi jagah thi allah allah karne ki
@@jasbaksh41 OH GAWDDDD WHAT TYPE OF A PERSON U ARE ASTAGHHHHHHHFURRULLLAHH UR GOING TO HELL INSHALLAH
Her acting is just another level 😢❤❤
This is a very important topic, and best to educate your own young children against anyone....keep telling them that no one should ever touch them in their private areas ever.
Teach them to speak up and scream!!!
i don't like alia bhatt at all but hands down for this performence loved her performence
Happy to hear that
@@anilkumarpr3639 who r u to judge someone's character.. just because she date a few people.. don't give a character certificate.. there is bad relationship and better to be away from such relationship than getting stuck to it.. I swear bad mentality...
@@devanshipandya4857 first know what i am talking about... she behaved very badly in kapil sharma... but she copyright striked it to hide it.. and dating is not a bad behaviour.
@@anilkumarpr3639 v cannot judge a person from a scripted show..
@@devanshipandya4857 if it was scripted, then why should she copyright strike the video?
As a brother I will always protect my little sister through this and I hope this never happens
Inshallah😍😍 ap ki sisters safe rahe ameen🥰🙏
@@shafiazahid8899 shukriya bhai
May god bless & always stay happy safe your sister🙏
Aww..... Your sister must be lucky to have a protective brother like you
May God Bless You And Your Sister.
I hope you treat other Girls around you,like your sister..... :)
Stay Blessed Bhai.
The frustration in her when she screamed, I could hear her words even if all she did was scream. all she wanted was someone to understand her someone to listen to her! I wanted to hug her so bad and tell her I'm there for you
To all the people in the comments, I hope all of u are doing well now, i cannot imagine going through anything like this. Hats off to you guys for fighting it👏🙏
I cried literally...her acting level is just out of word
@@atka._ fan of katrina
@@atka._ bcz you laughed at this acting
@@atka._ thats all upto taste yaar you may have different taste....here its not about starkid (only reason why ppl hate her and avoiding her masterpiece acts like raazi dear zindagi highway udta punjab) its genuinly about acting....and she played it well,i m not her fan but still i never forget to praise her for her act...
@@atka._ be happy and god bless you dear😘😘
@@atka._ okk...chill
Tell ur kids loudly that Ghar walon say b careful hona hai⚠️
And why don't u tell them ki be strong aur agr unke saath koi aisa krta h toh sbse pehle being a parent aap un lo go ko sbk sikhayenge .... Kb tak aur kis kis se bachaoge chhipaoge ladna sikhao betio ko aur betiyan kyun ladko ko bhi aur kaho unn logo se ki jinki niyat khraab h voh apne ghr prr hi baithe kyunki unki jgh humare ghr prr nhi
yes..esp in present world
@@shitalsoni1196 correct
Correct mere ghar me bhi ek yesa insan hai
Really I m crying
Bahot achchha aliya ma'am, vo girl Jo khul kar apne sath ho rahe aanyay ko lekar aawaj nhi utha pati unke liye inspiration h ye clip, please girl ab aap akele nhi ho, aap khud ke sath ho aur O har shaks jo sach me achchha inshan h🥺🫂🙋🏻👑
Her acting is so good !!
Amazing..
The saddest part in this film.. Alia proved her acting skills and it was soooo natural
Literally I m cried too..
Me too
Movie name........????
@shivangi goyal highway movie hai
Its so sad that many people who saw her only in Soty and then went on to judge her for being a star kid without acting talent. Alia is one of the few star kids that is an amazing actress!
@@shibourne2000 right!!
I was 8. It was my dad. I finally told my family when I was 16. They didn't believe me. They were women.
does he still doing that?
Same things happened with me.
So bad . How can your family not listen .
You deserved better.I hope you are out of that situation now.Go to therapy it’ll help you.Remember,you are loved and respected even if you didn’t get that from your family, you will get it from others.
How are u ? Hope u are fine now
At these moments parents support is v imp. For kids mental well being.. my parents were just so strong and always supportive of me in these situation i faced during my childhood.. i faced these kind of abuse 2-3 times during my childhood , i was small and v scared and was mentally suffering due to an incident , when i told my parents about it for the first time they listened to me , trusted me and publicly taught the culprits a good lesson which made me so confidents and positive about life.. my parents became my closest friend and i have taught my daughter to b my closest friend so that she can share every single information with me..
That moment when she finally screams and makes everyone shut up is so powerful. All the pain and anger against this vile uncle and society in general that Veera had bottled up for years is finally released. It makes me cry every time.
@Oindrila Ghosh movie Highway
Role of hero is played by Randeep Huda
Directed by Imtiyaz Ali
Agree yr
Father should be so possessive about his daughter, can't imagine a father not helping his daughter.
i think that deep down the father said that because he knew if that was the truth he would beat the shit out of the uncle XD
@@biberflub so you mean to say the father knew he would not like kill his brother and that at the end of the day he would choose his brother over his own daughter? And that justifies it?
There are so many fathers even like the chocolate givers. Shame on them
Absolutely correct...
this is were i feel lucky- i to was molested by an old man.. but the moment I told my parents they did everything to make me feel okay and safe ... but the best part was that my dad then gave me more freedom while also teaching me how to be vigilant and careful while being on my own--- they never shuuuushed me in such things....massive respect to my parents for teaching me how to fight back and for making me stronger and independent....
My mother just shut me up when i was 13
And each time a girl who is abused in childhood... tried to touch herself or involve in a romantic relationship... no she in not afraid.... she disgusts herself... It is a medical issue (I don't exactly remember its name) in which a person who was sexually abused in childhood... has guilt forever, has self doubts about her own character, and because of being sexually active for so long in childhood, the desire of s*x becomes more and more... which again makes the girl hate herself.
I was in class 9th , he used to come everyday . Did the same with me . I told my mother , she said , " Aise hote hain log , ignore karo." I couldn't do anything , kept quiet for 4 years . Grades went down , had clinical depression , results ruined and I couldn't tell anyone what happened . Finally , I dared not to suffer anymore . Fought everybody and left my house .
After some days , called the molester and said all that I wanted . That incident still has an impact on me . I grow anxious at times , want to cry out loud and let all the pain out .
Don't keep quiet girls , fight back , dare to let these monsters out .
I come here often , reading the comments and the incidents shared by people .
Kudos to you👏 Be strong and i hope you get over it and live a wonderful and happy and blessed life🙂
Don't worry you have UA-cam to share your feelings. Even if I never went through such a thing, I understand what it feels like... I read ffs so I know what kind of a disgusting feeling it is. Don't keep it inside. Let it out. We're here for you 💜
it takes courage to write ur story i am sorry u had to go through all that
yes, I think mousumi sen is right and I think we should not trust anybody and be strong and ready to fight back against this type of monster.
So strong you are 💗 , just like a warrior, always love yourself.
maybe the one who disliked this are the one who give chocolates 😑
richa Waghmare lmao no, people that dislike alia or the film
exactly
Haha 😂you made me laugh
true
true
Every female..I repeat,Every Female,even 90 yr old isn't safe, should learn to protect themselves from all abusive male's..abusive, Husbands too..
Respect being a Women❤️
God bring protection to all the innocent souls.. and peace to their hearts.. this is heart breaking..
This doesn't just happen with girls. It happens with boys as well. It happened with me :(
There are good and bad people in the world. Gender doesn't matter.
Respect to the beautiful Alia Bhatt for taking and bringing up such an issue.
It happened with me too.... from my uncle..... and he blackmailed and blamed me for that and I actually thought am the one who z responsible for it......... I still dream about killing him.... am 30 years old now.....
@@koya4065 Hmm. I know how it feels to go through that shit pal. With me it happened in my school when I was around 9 years old. Now I'm 25. Whatever the heck happened it triggered a bad habit of stammering in me. I hope I can break this habit for good pretty soon. Just remember that these scars that we've endured aren't meant to weaken us, they're meant to strengthen us.
You are right our parents didn't teach us what is a bad touch and good touch my boy is growing up surely I will teach him
I hope you guys have gotten the help you need to recover- It's never your fault,! Strange we are in a world were parents have become cowards
It is also happen with me from my cousin
I had goosebumps when she screamed.....Alia Bhatt was so good in this movie!!
film name ?
@@noumankhan8913 "highway"
@@kritijain9515 Most welcome ☺️ btw. i am not man 😂
I can relate whenever my anger outbursts happen this is what they are like it's just becomes so frustrating that I only think to shout
My heart to all those girls who had suffered from this❤️.....pls never be silent about these matters, no matter what ....JUST NEVER......being silent kills you from inside...
I started crying seeing all the comments .. I would only say you are not alone and it’s not your mistake dear
This hits hard... cuz even I was too young to realize that I was being molested, all I knew was that this was not some "doctor" game... Not a lot of people talk about child molestation, and i'm glad someone brought this up... and hats off to Alia for her amazing acting...
Please believe in your own kids first.. they are the most innocent and the most truthful as well
I feel pity for people who say Alia is not a good actor & that she's just an overrated star kid.
I mean just look at her acting skills yaar. She's a powerhouse of talent at such a young age. During filming of Highway, she was only 20.
This girl is always a great actress from the beginning...
The movie Highway is Alia's second film and this shows how talented she is❤️She played her role perfectly.
Movie name
Highway
Not only women i am a boy it happened with me too when i was a chid by my home tutor. I never understand what was happening but was disturbed by the situation and later understood what happened with me.
#no one is safe
Either a girl or a boy
Felt sad for u ☹️😔 but u know what I just noticed that people replied to these kinds of comments written by girls but didn't gave much attention to boys but stay strong 😄😄wishes from a girl
Heyy don't worry.. if u could find that tutor again.. teach him a good lesson
Stay strong bro.... and yes if you can find him again teach him a lesson such that it sucks him even when he goes near his wife
@Hania Kazim yah i know how it feels.
@Hania Kazim don't worry darling they will get their prizes.
They r such emotionless people. Due to them, she is so depressed. It's so heartbreaking
I feel so strange.. I realised that it wasn't just me but every girl I knew had faced some or the other rape and molestation incident in their growing years. And most situations were mishandled by parents.. will any of us ever get over from this trauma? Pandora box opened up on this chat list!!
My view on alia bhatt's acting
After soty: ehh another star kid
After highway: uh ok maybe she's not that bad...
After raazi: someone give her an award already
bro u forgot highway. incredible acting!! shes so natural
Even she had so many awards in highway and 2 states ,Udta Punjab and raazi she deserve it
The best was Udta Punjab,
Dear Zindagi too it's really underated
Actually alia's acting was superb nly in highway..after that it became repetitive..she used the same acting technique in every film..same crying loud and screaming in udtha punjab raazi..nly the characters are different but her acting remains the same..sehmat behaves not the same as veera does..but in alia's acting veera ,sehmat all are same
There was a neighbour in our flat and he was my teacher's husband.He used to look at me badly and used to take the chances of me staying alone because my mom is a job holder so she stays outside of home half of the time. That person once kissed me on the ground floor of our house at night when we were about to leave house for a journey to our village and he did that when mom and dad went to collect all our bags from house.after that incident he gradually was trying to do more....whenever he saw me going to school, on the ground floor, then when he saw me in any alone places, he even tried to burdge in my house sometimes ...it was a lot of pain...He also kissed me here and there and pressed me againt him in his house as my teacher called me on one of their festivals...It was too much for me to manage..I even told my mom about that but she told its nothing he just adores you as a daughter..after that I told the incident to my dad and he was so angry and sad after knowing all of it...not only that even my own uncle who was one of my close relatives...my cousin brother and so on....Mostly who tried to do these kind of things are from family....but people knowing these situations from families does not supports a girl rather tries to shut them up and abuse them..I was so depressed and hurt when my relatives did those things to me...I used to look at my uncle as a dad from beginning but he also tried to molest me...my aunt who is my mother's elder sister...she tried to convince me after knowing the incident and didn’t even let me tell it to my mom....so many things happen around us and many of us cannot even reveal it....we should not shut ourselves or not fear...we should reveal those animals who did wrong to us....its them who are to be shamed not us....
phir ...kider ho app ab
Ab us flat badal chuke hain hum
@@krity2388 tu app ny shadi nahi kia kya.
@@krity2388 To abhi apne relatives k baare me apne parivvarr me faila do. And let them be ashamed. Because I guess police complain to shayad nahi kar sakogi abhi.
@@Shiva-zj6od koi farak nahi padega....sab log mujhe hi buri nazar se dikhegi aur blame karegi...koi fayda nahi....ye sab hote a rahe hain....uski apni betiyan bhi hai...ho log bhi mujhe hi blame karte hai....mujhe yaad ati hai to bohot gussa aa jati hai
I think most of the people has cried after seeing this
No other actress could play the role like alia did , her each words and her eyes shows the pain she had gone through , she is a talanted actress , and the ome who says she dont have talent , dont really know the meaning of talent..
she is no more a makeup doll...she can act like wow😘
She never was a make up doll!
People use to consider her that only...but she shut all their mouths through Highway !!
No.. She did good acting in her first movie only.. She was made fun for all the jokes..
+Nikita Ramani in highway she did only the base makeup.....just she didint cover the dark cirlces under her eyelids.........
That was only her first film...Highway,Humpty,Kapoor and sons,Udta punjab...she always acted !