Did You listen to Your Child When they Told You About the Abuse?

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  • Опубліковано 16 лис 2014
  • In India we are not comfortable talking to children about sex and sexuality.
    They are not comfortable telling us about sexual abuse.In this film a boy struggles to tell his parents about sexual abuse by his uncle.
    Highly recommended for parents, teachers and every person who comes in contact with children.

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  • @rishikabiswas6842
    @rishikabiswas6842 3 роки тому +16346

    The greatest betrayal is when your own mom silences you

    • @Servantofgod7
      @Servantofgod7 3 роки тому +193

      😭 completely agree

    • @shanthivedios9754
      @shanthivedios9754 3 роки тому +271

      True that is more painful than molestation 😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @divyashetty377
      @divyashetty377 3 роки тому +156

      Man....that is the nightmare of the century and i hope no one gets it

    • @lololol976
      @lololol976 3 роки тому +82

      @Vichu V just suffer until you get capable of earning some money and after that just run away from your home to live a life you are craving for

    • @tanistha9527
      @tanistha9527 3 роки тому +11

      Mom's never do such things

  • @manishsrivastava2488
    @manishsrivastava2488 4 роки тому +9804

    One rule...never trust ANYONE when it comes to the safety of your child and second rule....ALWAYS listen to your child.....

    • @amanandayanmohammed5170
      @amanandayanmohammed5170 4 роки тому +19

      manish srivastava Well said

    • @hanshikajain7580
      @hanshikajain7580 4 роки тому +11

      👍👍👍 comment

    • @som0919
      @som0919 4 роки тому +32

      @Beyond Infinity what a solution. Abuse is a situation and for that don't give birth. Giving birth or not is your choice,but please change this mentality of getting rid of abuse by not giving birth. This kind of saying make it more hopeless for millions of kids out there facing abuse. If you don't feel for them it's fine. But don't say such harsh and cheap things.

    • @RSRJ15
      @RSRJ15 4 роки тому +25

      100% true. I don't leave my kids with anyone except a few trusted people but for very short time if ever. My kids know if someone (regardless of age, gender and relationship) touches them in appropriately it's not ok and they should let me know right away..

    • @shalwinderkaur8276
      @shalwinderkaur8276 4 роки тому +14

      knowledge loverz oh please most Indian parents always trusted their relatives rather than their children. It’s not even that they trust their relatives, they fear more what will people say. Thank god my mother would have killed anyone who touched us. Thank god for relatives who protected us. I was lucky to have family who took care of us. I think today parents are becoming more aware. No one will ever touch my kids and get away with it.

  • @koushikiaich8128
    @koushikiaich8128 2 роки тому +1069

    Just few days back my mother told me when I was born my dad's mother told my mother "today u are a girl's mother .if their is ever a situation were ur daughter say anything against her father .trust ur daughter not ur husband. " My father is the best dad in this whole world with great upbringing and values but still my grandmother taught my mother to always listen to ur daughter first and then ur husband. Fortunately I am blessed with a great family and never had to face mental or physical assault.But i am extremely proud of my grandmother for her teachings .

    • @rachnaruchi8138
      @rachnaruchi8138 Рік тому +42

      That's the thing.. we women need eachother's support and understanding..

    • @kajalmishra8971
      @kajalmishra8971 Рік тому +36

      Oh my god you don't know what your grandmother said to your mother
      Oh god I just have goosebumps
      I love your grandmother
      I just want to be like her
      She is awesome yrr
      You know what my mother choose her husband over me

    • @nithyalakshmi1595
      @nithyalakshmi1595 Рік тому +5

      i wish i ad family like urs

    • @koushikiaich8128
      @koushikiaich8128 Рік тому +1

      @@kajalmishra8971 so sorry to hear that . I hope you are doing good. 😀

    • @kajalmishra8971
      @kajalmishra8971 Рік тому +1

      @@koushikiaich8128 yeah kind of
      Thank you😊

  • @tinasharma3163
    @tinasharma3163 4 роки тому +7300

    I had been molested so many times in my childhood. I told my boyfriend the entire matter and he did understand my feelings . Now he became my husband. So understanding person.

    • @sadiakhan3981
      @sadiakhan3981 4 роки тому +377

      You are such a lucky to have such an understanding soul.

    • @wierdounknown8769
      @wierdounknown8769 4 роки тому +172

      I'm happy you got your true soulmate that understands you❤wish you both have a great life

    • @JyotiGupta-xt1nn
      @JyotiGupta-xt1nn 4 роки тому +54

      Wow you are so lucky

    • @taniyabharadwaz6404
      @taniyabharadwaz6404 4 роки тому +75

      He is your soulmate....God bless you

    • @officialbanna2295
      @officialbanna2295 4 роки тому +34

      Tina Sharma same story

  • @kailaschauhan720
    @kailaschauhan720 4 роки тому +6295

    I AM A 19 YEAR GIRL BUT I PROMISE THAT WHENEVER I WILL BECOME MOTHER I WILL ALWAYS LISTEN TO MY CHILDREN

    • @yosa__gi
      @yosa__gi 4 роки тому +145

      Me too I'm 19 years old and my parents don't listen to me
      When i will become a mother I'll always listen to my children

    • @kailaschauhan720
      @kailaschauhan720 4 роки тому +21

      @@yosa__gi Ya good

    • @ashishshukla5844
      @ashishshukla5844 4 роки тому +70

      I AM 16 AND WHEN I WAS 9, I PROMISED THE SAME TO MYSELF...
      (Aditi)

    • @azminislam6149
      @azminislam6149 4 роки тому +40

      My parents listen to me and my siblings no matter what!

    • @dishasachdev5913
      @dishasachdev5913 3 роки тому +24

      Yes I'm 19 too i will also listen to my children and will help them no matter what.

  • @kyrariddle9042
    @kyrariddle9042 Рік тому +1832

    "kidnapp ho gayi, par waha azaad thi"
    an extremly powerful line.

    • @pramiteechakrabarty6391
      @pramiteechakrabarty6391 Рік тому +1

      Can u tell me the movie

    • @kyrariddle9042
      @kyrariddle9042 Рік тому +4

      @@pramiteechakrabarty6391 its a skit, its not a movie scene

    • @pramiteechakrabarty6391
      @pramiteechakrabarty6391 Рік тому +19

      @@kyrariddle9042 no it's a movie called "highway" i got it from internet. Don't worry ..

    • @kyrariddle9042
      @kyrariddle9042 Рік тому +1

      @@pramiteechakrabarty6391 oh, i wasnt aware, thanks

    • @INDIAN59598
      @INDIAN59598 11 місяців тому +4

      @@kyrariddle9042 It's a beautiful movie.. You might have already watched it by now

  • @sakinastraveldiary4562
    @sakinastraveldiary4562 2 роки тому +3988

    My eldest sister's husband tried to molest me many times when I was a kid. I told my parents, they did nothing. Even today if I speak about it they tell me to shut up. My sister also continues to live with him and avoids me. Such is this world! Happy to be married and away from all of them in America!

    • @rolfgen8522
      @rolfgen8522 2 роки тому +21

      Sex is make you silent even youre in america

    • @Avantika3521
      @Avantika3521 2 роки тому +28

      It's also happens with me

    • @letslearn4767
      @letslearn4767 2 роки тому +33

      @sakina's travel diary - may God bless you with lots of happiness and love.

    • @HarshvardhanKanthode
      @HarshvardhanKanthode Рік тому +23

      I mean stuff like this happens in the States too, with the current decision on abortion looming I can't say it is a very safe place for women

    • @sakinastraveldiary4562
      @sakinastraveldiary4562 Рік тому +82

      @@HarshvardhanKanthode I don't have family molesters here so I am pretty sure I am safe. As per the abortion law, I can always take a trip of India for it. By the way my state is pro choice in the US.

  • @leenarene782
    @leenarene782 Рік тому +554

    Aalia's best performance till date.... she nailed it...She lived the character... Hatsoff

  • @madeehanousheen5227
    @madeehanousheen5227 4 роки тому +3200

    The saddest part was the father, after knowing the truth, expects his daughter to talk sensible😑.

    • @kruttikanaik1281
      @kruttikanaik1281 4 роки тому +105

      My father told that to me tooo.... All my relatives tell me to shut up. They talk about the man casualy as if nothing happened many a times in front of me and expect me to just shut my mouth

    • @himanibarmase1379
      @himanibarmase1379 4 роки тому +67

      And that mother too ... How could she stop her like it was her mistake

    • @NITHINNNEYYAN
      @NITHINNNEYYAN 4 роки тому +36

      My Parents responded the same way , even acted like they don't know nothing about sexual molestation , & they diverted it as mere fight 😡😡😡

    • @deveshcutie5851
      @deveshcutie5851 4 роки тому +33

      I feel really pity 4 such kind of parents. Such a bloody fake people.

    • @justbreathing8003
      @justbreathing8003 3 роки тому +21

      Fathers are like this only,even worse. They're just glorified. Fucking Patriarchal Society.

  • @taniasarkar9463
    @taniasarkar9463 3 роки тому +10363

    A woman has three greatest enemies : men, another woman, and silence...

    • @harmonytunes701
      @harmonytunes701 3 роки тому +121

      Nice ... I am posting your sentence as a motivational quote ... Thanks for these sentences ...👌👌👌🙂🙏🙏🙏

    • @mirroruniverse9331
      @mirroruniverse9331 3 роки тому +30

      @@harmonytunes701 so does every Human

    • @enigmatic731
      @enigmatic731 3 роки тому +15

      This is so true!!

    • @CR-mw3kn
      @CR-mw3kn 3 роки тому +27

      I think u should mistakenly put men because not men are rapist 🤗🤗

    • @taniasarkar4909
      @taniasarkar4909 3 роки тому +28

      Oh...Goodness...really didn't expect so many likes... thank you everybody...Nd yes..,no man is born as a rapist, but situations tame him to become one...

  • @vanshikasharma07
    @vanshikasharma07 Рік тому +259

    When Today's generation will become parents they will be the bestest parents of all the generations ❤

    • @suhasivnanwani792
      @suhasivnanwani792 2 місяці тому +6

      Right, I will take all the decisions wisely for my children.

    • @Mahira-nx8df
      @Mahira-nx8df 2 місяці тому +1

      @@suhasivnanwani792 It is not as easy as it seems.
      If we take a look at todays gen we notice a thing that everyone are too addicted to their phn. Even nowadays parents give less time to their children and they even care less. Parents are getting selfish day by day . Though in our times parents were toxic but yet caring.
      being teen we think that we are r8 but sometimes it seems that our were r8 when they took decision for us.

    • @suhasivnanwani792
      @suhasivnanwani792 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Mahira-nx8df you are right it is not easy as it seems but we can try. And I am not a teen, I am 24, and not addicted to the phone. And also I am a teacher I spent most of the day with children from class 1 to 8th, so I know very well how I have to tackle these little smart kids.
      Hence, I will not be a toxic parent,
      Will not be addicted to phone , will not suffocate them, and will make effort to make them a good human being.

    • @Mahira-nx8df
      @Mahira-nx8df 2 місяці тому +1

      @@suhasivnanwani792 I didnt said that you cant be a good parent but many people are still toxic you know. Toxicity is nothing to do with generations. Its a human nature.

    • @suhasivnanwani792
      @suhasivnanwani792 2 місяці тому

      @@Mahira-nx8df oh no no no. I was not arguing, I was just trying to say as I am not phone addicted, or toxic. And so there are still many people like you and me exist in this world who are not toxic. Just that.
      And toxicity is human nature you are absolutely right. 😊

  • @FIREBIE-_-
    @FIREBIE-_- 6 місяців тому +71

    Now I understand why my family members always say me to stay away from any older boys or Uncles.When they told me that I was very sad & unhappy. but now I understand that they just want to protect me and not to make any darkest memory in my mind .Tnx mom & dad

  • @youknowwhat6873
    @youknowwhat6873 3 роки тому +7799

    The worst thing is some children don't even realize that they're being molested , they're too young to even realize what is happening . And when they grow up and realize , they hate themselves . Many people don't believe them because they're children .

    • @shanthivedios9754
      @shanthivedios9754 3 роки тому +221

      Ss this happed to me but when I knew this I was grown up I don't know wt to do now😭😭😭

    • @Random-nb2jr
      @Random-nb2jr 3 роки тому +165

      I am too disgusted to think about it again but 'm glad that i escaped. The sad thing is that till now i can' t talk about it to anyone because they would think that its a lie.

    • @kamuikanna6922
      @kamuikanna6922 3 роки тому +88

      @@Random-nb2jr i relate 😔 it makes me hate myself and i feel so disgusted in myself 😭

    • @ayeshakhan1707
      @ayeshakhan1707 3 роки тому +9

      Right

    • @shakira7301
      @shakira7301 3 роки тому +104

      Yes i was molested when i was about 6, i don't know what it meant but still i remember what happened. Now that i realize it was so wrong.

  • @shradhaverma5388
    @shradhaverma5388 4 роки тому +4633

    Even an animal tries to save his child when someone tries to touch it

    • @1986nitya
      @1986nitya 4 роки тому +112

      My thoughts exactly! You should see how an elephant mom protects her baby. Not just the mom, but the elder sisters, aunties, grannies of the baby elephant- everybody sides with the baby elephant when there is a predator around. They form a protective circle around the baby. The matriarch of the family leads the attack. You'll get to see this in many videos of elephant herds. They are so united when it comes to fighting off danger, aur in insaano ko dekh lo.
      Kabhi kabhi lagta hai ki agar main kisi hathini ki aulaad hoti to meri life laakh guna zyada achchi hoti. Kam se kam family waali feeling to is lifetime me experience kar paati.

    • @sanchan7312
      @sanchan7312 3 роки тому +24

      We have societt civilisation blah blah which makes us worst than animals

    • @pryo2460
      @pryo2460 3 роки тому +1

      @@1986nitya i think u don't understand ur mom at all...i hope u be one soon then u will realise everything

    • @1986nitya
      @1986nitya 3 роки тому +17

      @@pryo2460 Please shut up and spare me the horror of listening to your pravachan about motherly realizations. I'm 100% sure that you are exactly the type of mother that has been depicted in this video and your guilty conscience is what is making you defend mothers like these. Evil spawn.

    • @bhavyjyotisharma3642
      @bhavyjyotisharma3642 3 роки тому +3

      @@pryo2460 what? Like literally, it's actually a mother who saves her child from any trouble. I never saw a single women going against it, rapists ki mother tak bachati h apne bache ko to ye to innocent h🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ What mentality u have?

  • @BrunyTheo
    @BrunyTheo Рік тому +38

    That scream is enough to explain her pain ! 💔

  • @nikethanavattikunta6147
    @nikethanavattikunta6147 Рік тому +619

    I went through sexual abuse when I was just 6 years old, did not realize it at that age but later understood that it was sexual abuse and why it felt so uncomfortable and I was fraught! I gathered up my courage and 16 years later, told my mom about this just to hear "you gotta just forget about such stuff! they happen!!", That's all that I heard from her, my dad had no reply when I went to him and my younger brother had no words either! now they ask me why I tend to be very negatively connoted about people, even inside the family..... I mean what do they expect!!!!!?!!!

    • @witcheressofrivia0450
      @witcheressofrivia0450 Рік тому +24

      This is very relatable. I remember it happening to me a couple of times at around 6. I didn't realize what was happening to me was wrong, and I still can't believe that what happened to me was molestation, because the person was really close and to be trusted.. Mine just told me to "tell him to stop doing it." That's it.. If there is one thing to be taken from this is that we will be better parents than our own. Stay strong, Nikethana. You have come so far. We will make it in this world, despite it being so cruel. More power to you. 💪💪

    • @bhagyac1742
      @bhagyac1742 Рік тому +7

      Forget it is the easiest words some parents use they feel community is their God and not their own kids

    • @sathyanarayanareddymanda
      @sathyanarayanareddymanda Рік тому +3

      @Hieracium7051 hope u r fine brother it's my first time to know abt a boy's version really 😞

    • @arshzthings1237
      @arshzthings1237 Рік тому +6

      I was so abused at very tender age never once i spoke of this until now ..😢😢😢😢😢 now i m 25 just forgot never told anyone..... I dont even know what it it...

    • @madhukumari1178
      @madhukumari1178 11 місяців тому

      Relatable

  • @pragyapragya971
    @pragyapragya971 3 роки тому +2361

    A girl who experiencing any bad experiences in childhood like this...she fears about physical touch for her whole life

    • @justbreathing8003
      @justbreathing8003 3 роки тому +77

      True. The face of that person comes in front of eyes again and again.
      In fact the entire experience comes in front of eyes.
      If feels like he's only toùching again and again.
      It's really hard to get up once again when you're betrayed by your own family.

    • @pragyapragya971
      @pragyapragya971 3 роки тому +2

      @@justbreathing8003 💔

    • @pragyapragya971
      @pragyapragya971 3 роки тому

      @Joe more power to u

    • @pragyapragya971
      @pragyapragya971 3 роки тому

      @Sargam Jhunjhunwala 😬

    • @mahitha185
      @mahitha185 3 роки тому +44

      No its worse . I still feel dirty and unpure . Even touch of my own kids during sleep I wake up to those memories .

  • @priyankaprabhakar434
    @priyankaprabhakar434 5 років тому +12652

    My cousin brother kept molesting me since I was 12 yrs old....even my uncle molested me...In my whole life I have been molested by 10 to 11 men...and what's much shocking is they all were relatives....but as I grew up...I started fighting with my fears...I told abt all this to my father..but he simply ignored..then my mother helped me...she was the only hero of my life... she's no more with me...but she made me strong enough to fight against all the adverse situations of life... thanks mum...every boy or girl needs a mother like you...I love you very much

    • @mariem5814
      @mariem5814 5 років тому +440

      Unfortunately, this can happen. it's not your fault and if you read the comments here you would know that you're not alone and these horrible things can happen to anyone but you're not lonely you have your mother and you have us.we'll pray for you. We're proud of you.Be strong girl!

    • @nafishy
      @nafishy 5 років тому +331

      I am really sorry for your loss .. I can understand .. we are so unsafe .. the world is so unjust towards girls..We have to be each others power and fight against it..

    • @mariem5814
      @mariem5814 5 років тому +59

      @@nafishy Well-said !!

    • @shinmin6751
      @shinmin6751 5 років тому +145

      Salute to such mothers!!! You're really lucky! Cuz anyone rarely stand by you at this kind of situation.

    • @mansikatpara4810
      @mansikatpara4810 5 років тому +92

      Pr jab maa hee hame bura bataye dusro ke saamne even khud ke ghr walo ke saamne toh fir uss ladki ka kya like me

  • @zai_w
    @zai_w Рік тому +220

    When she started screaming I had chills all over. She could finally scream after years of torture. I can't imagine the horror people go through and are just told to shut up cause family's reputation >>>>> you're own child. F people and their "izzat" you don't have any respect if you can't take care of and protect your own child.

  • @makemecalm4803
    @makemecalm4803 Рік тому +159

    Shameful how so many parents have silenced their kids on sexual assault. I’ve gone through it too and it’s sickening. Made me feel I can’t even trust my family with my own safety. They never took my side.

  • @navyajyotsna9617
    @navyajyotsna9617 5 років тому +3838

    There would be many people who would just be scrolling,remembering their own pain,but still can't write of the pain that happened to them.💔💔

  • @instabunny4544
    @instabunny4544 3 роки тому +2759

    I got goosebumps when she shouts ...
    This pain can only be understood by girls only

    • @secretsuperstar4930
      @secretsuperstar4930 2 роки тому +116

      Not only girls.. boys, too.

    • @nuts3100
      @nuts3100 2 роки тому +70

      @@secretsuperstar4930 yh I am a girl but I can understand . I was mostly bet up by my mom when till 13 yrs old for what my mistakes and also for what I didn't do . Once my mom even crushed my head on the wall as we people do to a coconut not only mine but my younger brothers too.
      But as I grew I'm 15 now from 14 my mind become machord so if my mom comes to beat me without a reason I stop her hand or i just beat back as self-defense . My dad says me to apologise to my mom for what I do but for the first time in my life I said to my dad that I won't say sorry for what is not my mistake . My brother almost is crazy now eventhough he isn't actually but now all h want is freedom talking bck to mom everyday and getting scolding everyday beating my younger sisters because he saw mom beating me and my older sis he thinks physical abuse is normal .I'm even a victim of emotional abuse didn't ever get hugged from parents . If I continue its a long story

    • @secretsuperstar4930
      @secretsuperstar4930 2 роки тому +30

      @@nuts3100 So sorry for your loss.. Sister... I can't even imagine what u guys going through... i hope you will feel free soon... 💔💌

    • @fayruz_nafisa
      @fayruz_nafisa 2 роки тому +39

      Not girls or boys , it's about victim

    • @nuts3100
      @nuts3100 2 роки тому +1

      @@secretsuperstar4930 I think I'm getting free slowly btw thanks for your words

  • @shivanjali_arts
    @shivanjali_arts Рік тому +150

    I am an only child, my mom was a single mom. When I was 10 yrs old, she met someone and the following year we moved in with him. She was trying to give me a better life, she worked so hard and went to school at the same time. My step father and I had a great relationship.. I finally got something I always wanted, a father. we had a happy little family and our own house. I had my own room. When I was in the 9th grade 14 years old, my mom had an exam out of town and went to spend the night with her sister in that city. I had to stay home alone with my step father. He used this time to molest me. he told me not to tell my mom. the next day she came home and I told her. she made me tell him what happened and what he did. he denied at first. but then he accepted it- maybe he thought if he apologized all will go back to normal. that did not happen. we sold our house and since then my mom and i have been living alone. she never found anyone again. This dirty man went to my family members and lied about what happened, he tried to make me look bad, like i made up the whole thing to have my mom to myself. my moms family doesn't believe me. I stay away from them. I am getting therapy after many years, i have been very depressed, have anxiety, paranoia, suicidal thoughts... but I am dealing with it proper now, getting help. I am 34 years old and I am a survivor. I am sad to see how many other youngsters have gone through something similar, and if you reading this feel alone, please know that you are not alone. Life is beautiful you just need to find your strength and push through. Sending love and healing energy to you all.

    • @Depressedhubro
      @Depressedhubro Рік тому

      Please achhe se raho behan.......
      🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

    • @razamughal9095
      @razamughal9095 Рік тому +2

      This is EXACTLY WHY in islam, when a mother re marries and her daughter is under 10 and son under 7, she loses custody of her children until they reach that age, because children are NOT safe with their step father. Just yesterdays heart breaking news in the uk that a mothers boyfriend killed her, raped her 11 year old daughter and killed her, killed her 11 year old friend that was sleeping over and killed her 13 year old son. 😭😭😭😭, tomorrow because of family breakdown and deviating from religion this will start happening with asian women and their innocent children 😭😭.the son at 13 was not strong enough to take on this man 😭😭😭😭

    • @arivrindazhakshura9529
      @arivrindazhakshura9529 9 місяців тому +5

      ​@razamughal9095 this is not happening because people are deviating from religion. This has been happening always in all cultures, during all eras. But women are silenced then and now because reputation of the family/clan is more important than the physical and mental wellbeing of an individual. In a society where women who are molested are seen as damaged commodities, what use is there speaking up for them? How will people know such evils are happening on a daily basis?

    • @koms7870
      @koms7870 4 місяці тому +2

      Be proud of your mother who took a bold step for u. God bless her

    • @user-ts4bw3wc3x
      @user-ts4bw3wc3x 3 місяці тому +1

      Your mother is hero of your life 💞

  • @speedlites
    @speedlites Рік тому +64

    The comments section of this video is arguably and most possibly unlike any other comment section in the entire UA-cam video library. The number of people coming forward to share their personal experience is unbelievable. I can’t even imagine the pain the people who have opened up here had to go through or still going through. This just proves that a cinema is not just an entertainment, but a strong and substantial medium to bring out unspoken and difficult truths. To portray images that we mostly pretend to have not seen. I just pray that the Almighty God comfort each one of you, strengthen you and give you peace. Amen!

  • @sreelakshmisuresh6669
    @sreelakshmisuresh6669 4 роки тому +2783

    After watching this scene, I understood why my mom used to tell me not to go to any uncles who asks me to go near them when I was a kid. I used to think why she says that.. But now I know.

    • @dishakrlkr2781
      @dishakrlkr2781 4 роки тому +9

      👍

    • @1986nitya
      @1986nitya 4 роки тому +84

      You have a very sweet mom. Meri maa ne mujhe kuch nahi sikhaya, kisi cheez ke liye prepare nahi kiya. Useless. How funny is it that despite having two parents, I've lived like an orphan and pretty much raised myself!!

    • @kritika2361
      @kritika2361 3 роки тому +33

      Even my mom also never leave me alone. My father and mother are so responsible ❤❤

    • @jainishmishra12a54
      @jainishmishra12a54 3 роки тому +34

      My mom never let me go with my uncles alone
      She is very protective both for me and my elder sister and my dad too

    • @twinklestartwinklestar1594
      @twinklestartwinklestar1594 3 роки тому +6

      @@1986nitya I'm sorry for ur parents behavior.
      But please stay strong , be always good and prove to society with ur matured behavior that you are respectable tho ur parents are not that good

  • @sahara8169
    @sahara8169 4 роки тому +1751

    Moral of the story- A child never lies

    • @eeshaa8428
      @eeshaa8428 4 роки тому +40

      that is actually pretty accurate, which is why I always ask lil kids how I look 😂

    • @sahara8169
      @sahara8169 4 роки тому +8

      @@eeshaa8428 lool na don't think like that about urself ur pretty

    • @eeshaa8428
      @eeshaa8428 4 роки тому +9

      @@sahara8169 aaww thanks even though u haven't seen my face, but I can tell u that you really are Beautiful from the inside and the outside

    • @jasamkojajesam6108
      @jasamkojajesam6108 4 роки тому +5

      @@sahara8169 Um kids do lie alot

    • @sahara8169
      @sahara8169 4 роки тому +8

      @@jasamkojajesam6108 Well um not when they've been abused emotionally and physically, kids would never lie to their parents about being sexually abused, that's something really severe for a child to know and to be exposed to knowing what they would have went through and the trauma, because kids are innocent and if their innocence is taken away wouldn't that be alarming like imagine if your child came upto you and said that they've been raped, wouldnt that be a red flag for you or would u just sit there and leave ur child suffer. I don't think any parent would unless their evil.

  • @Urwahdiaries
    @Urwahdiaries 2 роки тому +36

    We can't deny the fact that Alia is such a talented actress!!!!

  • @iamankita9030
    @iamankita9030 Рік тому +39

    The first time I faced a sexual harassment when I was 13 years old... I was traveling in a public bus with my parents and a was sitting beside an aged person and that day I realise that these rascals have no feeling for a girls who is like their daughter.... that day I couldn't raise voice because I was not mature enough but today I'm teaching my younger siblings and friends that always stay strong and be aware ..

  • @mousumisen6158
    @mousumisen6158 4 роки тому +2289

    Most of the girls got molested in their life and it's proved by this comment section,I literally cried and realized how we, girls(not all) are not even safe in our own home.

    • @taslimabegum3843
      @taslimabegum3843 3 роки тому +15

      Not everyone

    • @mousumisen6158
      @mousumisen6158 3 роки тому +39

      @@taslimabegum3843 if so,I would be very happy for them

    • @taslimabegum3843
      @taslimabegum3843 3 роки тому +7

      thank you.Every women should provide their safety and i can provide my safety.

    • @harmeetsingh1810
      @harmeetsingh1810 3 роки тому +19

      me too . not only one tym but 10 -20 tyms only at the age of 14 . 20 tyms 😫😫😫😫😫😰😰😰😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @mousumisen6158
      @mousumisen6158 3 роки тому +10

      I can understand, even happened to me also at that time, I could not even fight back, but now I don't keep quiet and even try to help girls like me if I find them to be at that position.

  • @introvertedhuman7989
    @introvertedhuman7989 4 роки тому +6556

    This happened with me too. My family consists of me , my mom and dad. My dad worked out of place and my mom was also a working women. Being a single daughter, i had to go through a lot in the past. But i was happy that my mom got a tranfer and moved to another place , we had a neighbour with a family consisting of mom , dad and their 2 daughters. I was happy that i had someone to play with me and the mom of that family made food for me and after school i dress, clean up and prayed then went to neighbours house. Since, my mom is working she came late and till that time i be with that family. So the relationship was like this. One day my moms health got bad and was admitted in hospital ,my dad took care of her and i had to stay with this family(neighbours). This was the worst moments of my life started to begin. Every morning this womens husband touched my private parts to wake me up and when i go to bathroom he peeped through the hole in the door, i was not able to do anything. Even the bathroom didnt gave me protection. So, it was diwali and a craker got busted suddenly and all the smoke went to my eyes i was not able to open .so this guy pressed me against him and was rubbing water in my eyes were his daughters and wife was playing. He rubbed his rubed his dirty parts against me. I was not able to cry or was able to show any emotion , i was numb and was not feeling anything. The next day i told the wife to take me to hospital , we went to the hospital and i cried hugging dad and didnt told him. I went to mom and said that he touched me and my mom told me not to tell anything to dad. That moment i understood the value of myself. I was no one to anybody. That moment onwards i made me realise that i was nothing. That still haunts me. Now, i am 20 years of old ,my mom passed away when i was 17 few days after my birthday. I live my lovely dad who loves me the most.we have a very lovely relationship. One day we were sleeping and some emotions bursted and i told my dad this happened. He said to me that he failed as a dad and that was something that broke him to pieces . After that he was having depression and started drinking and was normal after few weeks. He cares for me protects me and loves me most. I am 20 yrs old and i still sleep next to my dad. He sings and says stories for me to sleep. But i loved my mom and i still love her. Even if i hate her i have forgiven her. I am crying right now writing this but i wanted to share my story. That still haunts me .sorry for my english.❤ to everybody.

    • @riyabiswas8773
      @riyabiswas8773 4 роки тому +54

      ❤️

    • @sathya6691
      @sathya6691 4 роки тому +289

      Dear young lady . Wish you best wishes for your future.
      Women in the world. please work together against women discrimination regardless of caste and religion and language and status .

    • @parnikabansod5763
      @parnikabansod5763 4 роки тому +200

      sorry to hear that your mom passed away.......
      don't forget we all are with you
      past is past so forget it and start a new life
      be strong to fight with dirty man

    • @aliabbas8641
      @aliabbas8641 4 роки тому +229

      I seriously got emotional after reading your comment dear😥

    • @vaishalisandim3980
      @vaishalisandim3980 4 роки тому +125

      Brave girl, don’t let your past, to impact your future. Be happy.

  • @kavitamadhavan1541
    @kavitamadhavan1541 6 місяців тому +27

    This scene gives me goosebumps. Alia has a done a fantastic job. We must teach all our kids about bad touch and good touch right from the beginning. Nowadays it is taught in many schools too. Things are changing, but as parents we also need to have such conversation with our children at home. Together we can make a difference.

  • @adreenajthekkan3261
    @adreenajthekkan3261 Рік тому +63

    I think I am lucky to have a family like mine. When I went to take photo alone one day the photographer acted weirdly towards me, he tried to touch me in name of taking photos though I avoided him. When I reached home I told my mom about it and she told this to my dad when he reached home. They were so angry at him and my brother was like he would kill him any moment. Seeing that my father allowed my brother to take action and took him with him when he went to confront that guy they taught him such a lesson that I felt so proud that I had such a family they checked his camera, though there weren't any bad photos of mine they deleted those photos to assure me,and after this incident that guy didn't even have the guts to even look at me. So proud of my family. Let me tell you if you need help first you should be ready to speak about it to people who you feel will help you 🙂

  • @aditiagrawal8750
    @aditiagrawal8750 3 роки тому +6323

    almost every girl in India has faced sexual harassment in some kind of way. as a victim of child abuse i literally cried after seeing this scene. as a girl who had no idea about it but just had a disgusting feeling. when i finally grown up enough to know about these things i realised that even ur close ones and "sensible educated" person do these things. not to forget its always our fault

    • @beautifulprincess2629
      @beautifulprincess2629 2 роки тому +30

      No

    • @mddipu6514
      @mddipu6514 2 роки тому +22

      Yes

    • @lachimolala1064
      @lachimolala1064 2 роки тому +140

      Been through the same..... Scrolling through the comments and realizing that I am not the only one is so sad😢
      Stay strong❤

    • @universeofart7293
      @universeofart7293 2 роки тому +6

      Name of the movie?

    • @haffy.7224
      @haffy.7224 2 роки тому +58

      Not just in india, its the issue of every other country we also face this problem and each time i realise the age of the person doing this shit makes me even more sad honestly.

  • @aanchalpal2569
    @aanchalpal2569 5 років тому +2640

    👏👏👏she deserve a round of applause.... Brilliant acting... A common issue ignored by everyone in this society.. 😳😡😡

    • @sarasensational
      @sarasensational 5 років тому +9

      Society allows it
      Thats the problem and theres no way anyone can contradict this because its true!!

    • @stfu1503
      @stfu1503 5 років тому +1

      What is it about? I couldn't understand

    • @ramyapatel3769
      @ramyapatel3769 5 років тому +7

      Babe, it's not common issue. It is major issues which is avoided by elders because of society.

    • @stfu1503
      @stfu1503 5 років тому +1

      @@ramyapatel3769 sala babe Hain vo!!!

    • @beautifulworldbeautifulwor220
      @beautifulworldbeautifulwor220 5 років тому +1

      @@Armaan48499 right

  • @soulsearcher9558
    @soulsearcher9558 Рік тому +57

    As a mother who had been through childhood trauma I don’t trust anyone when it comes to my kids not even their father.

  • @sundaymorningrainisfalling
    @sundaymorningrainisfalling Рік тому +29

    I'VE MADE A PROMISE TO MYSELF, I WILL NEVER EVER BE A SILENT COWARD MOTHER OR A WOMAN. I realised years ago how wise and sensible my mother was when she didn't allow me to go wander alone with my uncles or older male cousins. Some in my family found it weird and thought my Maa was a prude for this but goshh I'm grateful she did that. Even if there was 0.0000001% chances of something happening, she was cautious of it. She also taught me about my personal boundaries and self-respect. She's such a Queen🙏

    • @caratblink_forever
      @caratblink_forever 20 днів тому

      God I have always seen you in Seventeen related videos but seeing you here really made me felt good happy to see a carat❤️❤️

  • @FourDotSkills
    @FourDotSkills 3 роки тому +1655

    When she was shouting, it hit hard as a male. Felt like she was shouting on my face. Never felt so belittled as a male. The pain in her eyes, we cant even imagine what humiliation and pain she and many other children go through.

    • @justbreathing8003
      @justbreathing8003 3 роки тому +67

      Thank you for understanding our pain.
      Otherwiss Men don't even listen..
      Editing this since my replies not going under this comment anymore --
      @Rohit Bhushan Absolutely.. The day I wrote that reply,I came home after getting catcalled by few men. It got me back to old memories. I just got a bit sentimental that day while watching the video and reading the comments which is why I wrote that (this) reply.
      The male victims and survivors are far more than we can imagine and I know that. I've all my heart for them as well.
      And about what I wrote that Men don't listen,that was my experience in my life. Now still I'd apologize if you felt I generalized men -- I never had any such intentions.
      Like you said many male survivors have it worse than female survivors,similarly many female survivors also have it worse than male survivors though I believe pain of abuse is just the worst for the person who experiences it. So I just wrote it out of emotions.

    • @ab-vr2qz
      @ab-vr2qz 3 роки тому +20

      Thanks..... Good to see humanity alive..... Coz other men think were lying just for attending 😔😔😔😔😔

    • @1986nitya
      @1986nitya 3 роки тому +43

      Men who think like you are rare. VERY rare in India, to be honest. Most wouldn't give a shit.

    • @rajisarath8599
      @rajisarath8599 2 роки тому +3

      THANK for understanding our felling brother

    • @xzyeagerist1673
      @xzyeagerist1673 2 роки тому +8

      @@1986nitya And most would call such people 'simp', which is sad, unfortunately :(

  • @ladyfromtomorrow3973
    @ladyfromtomorrow3973 3 роки тому +4926

    To all people verbally abusing her for being a star kid:
    1) She didn't choose to be one.
    2) This video proves than being a "star kid" doesn't make you any less talented than a normal human being.

    • @rithanyaa738
      @rithanyaa738 3 роки тому +67

      Soo true!!!!

    • @kumar646
      @kumar646 3 роки тому +94

      she might be talented and a star kids..but as long as she dont snatch other peoples chance..if she was really ethics..then why she did not utter a word for SSR..she is talented but also a deep hypocrite just like the latest star Akshay or Varun who post thing on SSr just beacuse their film is coming..

    • @priyankagohel6454
      @priyankagohel6454 3 роки тому +87

      @@kumar646 have uh seen her tweets for sush?? Or a tym when she was shouting that I came out after watching ms dhoni?? No?? Search or I will give link 😌

    • @kumar646
      @kumar646 3 роки тому +13

      @@priyankagohel6454 the thing is not her comment on Ms dhoni..but her silence..so many knows the killer of SSR..but chose to remain silent..grow up..learn to observe and read between the lines..be a good observer..

    • @priyankagohel6454
      @priyankagohel6454 3 роки тому +6

      @@kumar646 just a min uh watch properly!!

  • @pinkykapooria5785
    @pinkykapooria5785 Рік тому +6

    Wow...she has been an excellent actress since then..hats off to her acting..she brought tears into our eyes...

  • @kalyani1379
    @kalyani1379 11 місяців тому +2

    I come back to these scene. What amazingly acted out. The dialogues are just so well written too.

  • @alphababe9447
    @alphababe9447 5 років тому +1497

    Tell ur kids loudly that Ghar walon say b careful hona hai⚠️

    • @shitalsoni1196
      @shitalsoni1196 5 років тому +20

      And why don't u tell them ki be strong aur agr unke saath koi aisa krta h toh sbse pehle being a parent aap un lo go ko sbk sikhayenge .... Kb tak aur kis kis se bachaoge chhipaoge ladna sikhao betio ko aur betiyan kyun ladko ko bhi aur kaho unn logo se ki jinki niyat khraab h voh apne ghr prr hi baithe kyunki unki jgh humare ghr prr nhi

    • @KPKomal
      @KPKomal 5 років тому +3

      yes..esp in present world

    • @vedaangmishramaldahiya6273
      @vedaangmishramaldahiya6273 5 років тому +2

      @@shitalsoni1196 correct

    • @DeepaSingh-yt6qg
      @DeepaSingh-yt6qg 5 років тому +1

      Correct mere ghar me bhi ek yesa insan hai

    • @saimaarooj7988
      @saimaarooj7988 4 роки тому

      Really I m crying

  • @poorvichauhan1410
    @poorvichauhan1410 4 роки тому +5279

    cant imagine that such family even exist... lucky to have parents like mine

    • @muthukothaimeyyappan9159
      @muthukothaimeyyappan9159 4 роки тому +206

      Most of the abuses are by relatives or friends. This happens to both boys and girls. However, cases are filed very very very very rarely in the police station if the abuse is by someone the family knows.

    • @netfreak4498
      @netfreak4498 4 роки тому +57

      Believe me this wasn't exist much before but this filthy pornography f****d up the society. In present time our indian society is on peak molesting women.😭😭😭😭

    • @kalyaniborse4738
      @kalyaniborse4738 4 роки тому +116

      This is very common...even our own parents refuse to accept the bitter reality of their own relatives....for them, their so called izzat matters more than their children's safety....

    • @gunjanshukla2879
      @gunjanshukla2879 4 роки тому +21

      Yes !! They do exist !!

    • @hanshuuu551
      @hanshuuu551 4 роки тому +7

      Me 🙋to

  • @askshivani
    @askshivani Рік тому +33

    This scene moved me. I wish I had been able to speak like her to my parents about this. I took me 30 years to do so

    • @simplekitchen5386
      @simplekitchen5386 Рік тому +3

      my mother was never friendly with me, always into her family and stuff. my father never knew what exactly is happeneing in the house,as he fulltime working outside. my mother's favorite brother molested me but my mother is not aware. i dont think she would take my side also. saddest part is i am 30 and suffer till today. i try hard to forgive but not possible i just cant accept her as my mother,because she was the main reason for the worst of worst of all the things happened to me. even today if i tell her she is not capable of understanding a bit of what we have through

    • @GurpreetDhariwal
      @GurpreetDhariwal 6 місяців тому +1

      I took 37 years 😢

  • @missruhani6769
    @missruhani6769 Рік тому +16

    When I was young, my brother used to beat me and scold me, he did not let me go anywhere, did not let me take anything from anyone, he did not even let me go to the neighbors house nor did he let me play with relatives that time I'm nine year old , slowly slowly I hate my brother I thought he gone mad, he only paying with me not any body to do this ,it's very critical condition for me ,I wish that time my brother should be die ,i thought he take my all freedom,he give me everything thing which I wants he take care of me all time took me a family tour ,he gives me all toys,now I'm 20 years old when my all friends tell me the horrible story of there childhood I'm surprise and scared and now I'm thinking why it's not happen with me,my friends have very tough condition I can understand theres pain ,😢😢but now I'm much respecting and loveing my brother and always saying to God pls give him my age ,and every birth I want this brother, now I'm fasting to found him every birth , love you veere jii 😍😍😍

  • @sumitsinghthakur2930
    @sumitsinghthakur2930 6 років тому +1717

    I don't care about status or anything else.
    If someone does that to my child and i find out, i am going to bury him alive in the ground.

    • @ilovei11
      @ilovei11 5 років тому +18

      Yes

    • @stutikhanna987
      @stutikhanna987 5 років тому +48

      Good do that because these people don't deserve any mercy I mean seriously how can they think a child as sexual object

    • @ilovei11
      @ilovei11 5 років тому +7

      @@stutikhanna987 yes

    • @arunkumarmishra7461
      @arunkumarmishra7461 5 років тому +16

      @123fort andbree it's good that it saved u and I wish the same.. bt how to teach self defence to a 2-3 yr old girl?😢😢😢😢😢 Aaye din aisi khabre aati h jinme masoom bachiyon ka dareendo dwara rape kiya jata h. Kaise bachay unhe😢.. Jb tk hmara law strong nhi hoga inke khilaf.. kuch nhi ho skta.. jb tk aam jnta inke khilaf nhi hogi . Kuch nhi ho skta.

    • @arunkumarmishra7461
      @arunkumarmishra7461 5 років тому +5

      @123fort andbree han girls above 5 we can teach... Below 5??

  • @paushalibiswas5795
    @paushalibiswas5795 2 роки тому +899

    What pains me more than the actual incident is that the whole family is sitting there listening to her, people are trying to shut her up, calm her down, but not one person cares enough to empathise, not one person gets up to hug her, to acknowledge her, to say that they're sorry it happened to her. They just sit there.

    • @roaches7963
      @roaches7963 Рік тому

      @Log To Khenge yarr it still happens today. So stfu

    • @advocatevarunrathi2831
      @advocatevarunrathi2831 Рік тому

      This is target on hindus. May be malechas do this.. malechas are there in every religion..

    • @baapkastyle
      @baapkastyle Рік тому

      Yes sirf movies mein ho sakta hai.. Added effect ke liye..

    • @Badass504
      @Badass504 Рік тому +11

      Indian families be like :

    • @SoniaRajan-js9bp
      @SoniaRajan-js9bp 10 місяців тому +5

      Thats the reality ...why people do not hug survivors. Society never change .

  • @KTs236
    @KTs236 Рік тому +5

    It hurts even more when u can't talk about this things to anyone, keeping all inside you, being depressed, resenting yourself because u can't do anything. It also affects your mental state a lot, you won't be able to trust anyone anymore after this, it feels like this whole world is gonna betray you. Eventually you won't have any friends, because you are too scared to get near someone or to open up yourself, you will be lonely and empty inside. But i believe i can heal myself so u can too. Have faith in you.

  • @ohsocoolmitali
    @ohsocoolmitali 2 місяці тому +1

    Powerful scene! Parents, please listen to your kids when they report incidents of molestation. And don't just ignore them. Take necessary action against the perpetrator.

  • @vijayakumarn5274
    @vijayakumarn5274 4 роки тому +466

    Father should be so possessive about his daughter, can't imagine a father not helping his daughter.

    • @biberflub
      @biberflub 4 роки тому +13

      i think that deep down the father said that because he knew if that was the truth he would beat the shit out of the uncle XD

    • @Damien1_1
      @Damien1_1 4 роки тому +3

      @@biberflub so you mean to say the father knew he would not like kill his brother and that at the end of the day he would choose his brother over his own daughter? And that justifies it?

    • @fahmidaakterety5648
      @fahmidaakterety5648 4 роки тому +6

      There are so many fathers even like the chocolate givers. Shame on them

    • @harshadabawanthade2161
      @harshadabawanthade2161 3 роки тому +1

      Absolutely correct...

  • @irisvideos
    @irisvideos 6 років тому +2462

    i never expected this level of acting from alia...wow she did such a great job i love her :)

  • @jaya7495
    @jaya7495 Рік тому +5

    Her expressions are just gold.

  • @ionop2415
    @ionop2415 3 роки тому +1412

    As a brother I will always protect my little sister through this and I hope this never happens

    • @shafiazahid8899
      @shafiazahid8899 3 роки тому +44

      Inshallah😍😍 ap ki sisters safe rahe ameen🥰🙏

    • @ionop2415
      @ionop2415 3 роки тому +16

      @@shafiazahid8899 shukriya bhai

    • @unknown_60987
      @unknown_60987 3 роки тому +14

      May god bless & always stay happy safe your sister🙏

    • @jyothilekshmi7080
      @jyothilekshmi7080 3 роки тому +25

      Aww..... Your sister must be lucky to have a protective brother like you

    • @justbreathing8003
      @justbreathing8003 3 роки тому +6

      May God Bless You And Your Sister.
      I hope you treat other Girls around you,like your sister..... :)
      Stay Blessed Bhai.

  • @hithaharish9083
    @hithaharish9083 4 роки тому +1224

    I was 8. It was my dad. I finally told my family when I was 16. They didn't believe me. They were women.

    • @majedahmed8759
      @majedahmed8759 4 роки тому +22

      does he still doing that?

    • @mixvlogseema
      @mixvlogseema 3 роки тому +16

      Same things happened with me.

    • @siddhi_surabhi
      @siddhi_surabhi 3 роки тому +24

      So bad . How can your family not listen .

    • @Eknoor_Kaur_Bawa
      @Eknoor_Kaur_Bawa 3 роки тому +45

      You deserved better.I hope you are out of that situation now.Go to therapy it’ll help you.Remember,you are loved and respected even if you didn’t get that from your family, you will get it from others.

    • @Moonchild-dr6ml
      @Moonchild-dr6ml 3 роки тому +9

      How are u ? Hope u are fine now

  • @arunakhairnar7495
    @arunakhairnar7495 Місяць тому +2

    Her acting is just another level 😢❤❤

  • @chocomint3931
    @chocomint3931 2 роки тому +3

    The frustration in her when she screamed, I could hear her words even if all she did was scream. all she wanted was someone to understand her someone to listen to her! I wanted to hug her so bad and tell her I'm there for you

  • @anuradhapandit9824
    @anuradhapandit9824 4 роки тому +1876

    The comments section is breaking my heart. It's one thing to be touched without permission, it's something else when your own parents don't support you because of shame. Let's teach all of our kids to understand what is consent.

    • @toniecruz1003
      @toniecruz1003 4 роки тому +2

      Can you please tell me the name of this movie? I been looking for this movie for years

    • @arshita4148
      @arshita4148 4 роки тому +8

      @@toniecruz1003 highway

    • @Riya-fu1qz
      @Riya-fu1qz 4 роки тому +7

      Anuradha Pandit they’re children. children cannot give consent. instead teach molesters and rapists not to rape. and #BelieveSurvivors

    • @subhadralakshmia5745
      @subhadralakshmia5745 4 роки тому

      Seriously 😟

    • @handsome251
      @handsome251 4 роки тому +1

      Anuradha Pandit What the hell did u just said... Consent... Are you even in your senses that what word u have chosen for kids molestation....
      Please bewate with your words they havr impact differently ob different minds...
      Pls aways think before u speak shit out of your mouth..., 😠😠😠😠

  • @user-pj9dl7vt3k
    @user-pj9dl7vt3k 4 роки тому +706

    The saddest part in this film.. Alia proved her acting skills and it was soooo natural
    Literally I m cried too..

    • @tamannatazz5800
      @tamannatazz5800 4 роки тому +4

      Me too

    • @shaba.fatimakhan271
      @shaba.fatimakhan271 4 роки тому +2

      Movie name........????

    • @shaba.fatimakhan271
      @shaba.fatimakhan271 4 роки тому +2

      @shivangi goyal highway movie hai

    • @shibourne2000
      @shibourne2000 4 роки тому +47

      Its so sad that many people who saw her only in Soty and then went on to judge her for being a star kid without acting talent. Alia is one of the few star kids that is an amazing actress!

    • @saptaparnidatta2403
      @saptaparnidatta2403 4 роки тому +3

      @@shibourne2000 right!!

  • @123holdontoeverything
    @123holdontoeverything 7 місяців тому +1

    Bravo to the girl….. my family can’t imagine how many times I have screamed my heart out myself. It’s a sad life…. When the ones closest to you try to shut you up and the ones who should be punished are roaming free in an unsafe house. The true meaning of family is represented by keeping a distance from the truth teller and shunning them out when they open their mouth but the actual villain tend to eat with family, play with family and are welcomed into the family. My heart hurts by seeing this. Cause I remember living like this since I was in 5th grade until I was 36 years old!

  • @cooknology4808
    @cooknology4808 Рік тому +2

    I couldn't stop crying..we always try to protect children and not let such thing happen to children, not necessarily be our daughter or some one from our family.

  • @phoenix8920
    @phoenix8920 2 роки тому +1588

    The moment she spoke her issue, I started crying with my heart out, regretting that why didn't I let my parents know about my problem. It's been 5 years since I was molested and no one knows this till now, not even my mom. I don't have the courage to speak out and have been carrying this pain in my heart since then. I didn't even know that I was being molested. What she said is indeed true. We must be careful inside our home too........................

    • @justbreathing8003
      @justbreathing8003 2 роки тому +46

      Your feelings are very valid. And,you don't have to regret anything.
      I certainly can't imagine your pain but I can understand how it feels since I went through it too.
      You're so so so strong,I'm not lying. You deserved better.
      We can't change the past unfortunately,but can make the future better. I wish you all the very best in life.
      Sending loads of love and power to your side. 🤍

    • @radheradhe4624
      @radheradhe4624 2 роки тому +17

      Dude share it with your parents you know may be it will refuce your pain they are your closer ones you should tell them but only if they are understanding otherwise you have god take him as ypur friend and share everything

    • @sanchitathorat9163
      @sanchitathorat9163 2 роки тому +7

      I am so sorry for you.

    • @75shreya
      @75shreya 2 роки тому +13

      Speak up before your parents.
      I believe they will surely support you but will say "Don't say it to others". Cut those crap. Be leader of your own soul healing.
      Don't subpress yourself.
      Give peace to your soul and do whatever that makes your soul at peace.
      One solution, that I also suggested someone is, "Save a child so that you can save your inner child and give justice to your soul"
      Be your Own Warrior.
      Stay Safe and Blessed.
      My cousin got through somewhat similar situation, and she expressed it before mom and Aunty, but none actually acted. While my mom listening to this matter later on, save guard us from that uncle and said, if something such happens to my child, I'll slit him open.
      My parents are my strength and That's why maybe I'm Bold in expressing my thoughts.

    • @just_mudit
      @just_mudit 2 роки тому +19

      "didn't even know I was being molested" is the worst part. People saying tell your parents. I would say, tell to the person you feel most comfortable with alongside he/she being mature enough. If that person is a parent for you, then surely tell your parent.

  • @CrazyMantriOfficial
    @CrazyMantriOfficial 3 роки тому +4205

    After reading the comment section, seeing everyone coming out of their dark places is one of the most satisfying but at the same time, kinda gut-wrenching feeling. Whether it's a girl or a boy, I salute every one of you. That's why we need sex education.

    • @theheadshotmachine7728
      @theheadshotmachine7728 3 роки тому +5

      Hi

    • @user-vq2zs2ej4s
      @user-vq2zs2ej4s 3 роки тому +53

      I used to feel perhaps I'm unlucky to have experienced these horrors but I now realise all that I faced has been faced by so many people.
      Anyway,I hope for this world to be a better place.🙏🏼

    • @CrazyMantriOfficial
      @CrazyMantriOfficial 3 роки тому +19

      @@user-vq2zs2ej4s It will… It has to. And You’re a strong woman.💙

    • @nil_rv_4924
      @nil_rv_4924 2 роки тому +5

      Ye bollywood wale bahut haraami hai,
      har muslmaan k ghar ki kahani Shukla aur Vira Baby k naam se dikhate hai

    • @lonezadii1752
      @lonezadii1752 2 роки тому +6

      @@nil_rv_4924 wht do you mean by musalman ka ghr ke kahani

  • @bhavyagorvadiya9337
    @bhavyagorvadiya9337 4 місяці тому +2

    THIS IS SO ACCURATE. THIS KIND OF CHILDHOOD TRUMA STAYS WITH YOU FOREVER. AND NOTHIG IS BITTER THAN THIS!

  • @alisha994
    @alisha994 3 місяці тому +3

    Her acting is so good !!
    Amazing..

  • @aaliyahstar8168
    @aaliyahstar8168 5 років тому +2717

    I told my mum when I was 9 years old. She slapped me across the face and said I was unholy.....I m a 48 year old woman .....we havnt spoken for over 39 years. No loss. My life is way better without toxic family. Abused by father brother and other male relatives in pakistan. I see none of them. My life is rich without them all.....

  • @tanyadayal2163
    @tanyadayal2163 3 роки тому +5082

    She is definitely a result of nepotism but still looking at her talent, it seems pardonable. Alia Bhatt is an amazing actress.

    • @-S_J-
      @-S_J- 3 роки тому +199

      If ur dad give u manager post in his private business, will it be nepotism?? Rip to ur IQ.

    • @chudasamabhargavrajchudasa8249
      @chudasamabhargavrajchudasa8249 3 роки тому +60

      And one more if your colleague gets seat in competitive exam with lower percentage just because of cast benefit...it won't be nepotism??

    • @-S_J-
      @-S_J- 3 роки тому +81

      @@chudasamabhargavrajchudasa8249 the film industry is not running on ur tax!! It's completely private sector!! Use some brain plz!

    • @ShubhamKumar-ty4lz
      @ShubhamKumar-ty4lz 3 роки тому +39

      Hey Dude what's wrong with you ....
      Please don't take your father, family and your husband's prosperity and his property because you don't do hardwork for purchase all of this...

    • @somabhandari5885
      @somabhandari5885 3 роки тому +85

      Atleast she is talented than the persons who are writing the comments

  • @prashantkatti118
    @prashantkatti118 3 місяці тому +2

    This is an eye opener. Hats off to Imtiaz Ali for making a brilliant film.

  • @vivekkashyaplifecoach
    @vivekkashyaplifecoach Рік тому +2

    Bahot achchha aliya ma'am, vo girl Jo khul kar apne sath ho rahe aanyay ko lekar aawaj nhi utha pati unke liye inspiration h ye clip, please girl ab aap akele nhi ho, aap khud ke sath ho aur O har shaks jo sach me achchha inshan h🥺🫂🙋🏻👑

  • @rbaloch1584
    @rbaloch1584 4 роки тому +2250

    May Allah Protect All Girls Women & Kids from these situations🥀

    • @jasbaksh41
      @jasbaksh41 4 роки тому +44

      Allah don’t protect anyone, he told Mohammad to do this kind of act to any child or woman he want. Islam is a sick religion, and you don’t see that.

    • @omarelmasri9939
      @omarelmasri9939 4 роки тому +39

      Jas baksh
      ALLAH IS THE SAME GOD YOU WORSHIP
      YOU HAVEN’T EVEN READ THE QURAN AND DID YOU KNOW JESUS’S AMAZING STORIES ARE MENTIONED IN THE QURAN
      HOW DARE YOU COME AND TALK NONE SENSE ON SOMETHING THAT YOU DONT KNOW *ANYTHING* ABOUT

    • @jasbaksh41
      @jasbaksh41 4 роки тому +4

      Cloud Dreamer Jesus is the God of the Quran. Exactly the opposite.

    • @konarkkd3264
      @konarkkd3264 4 роки тому +15

      @@omarelmasri9939 ha to har jagah allah allah mat ghusaya karo samjhe na ye koi jagah thi allah allah karne ki

    • @edlie6541
      @edlie6541 4 роки тому +10

      @@jasbaksh41 OH GAWDDDD WHAT TYPE OF A PERSON U ARE ASTAGHHHHHHHFURRULLLAHH UR GOING TO HELL INSHALLAH

  • @riddhima3301
    @riddhima3301 2 роки тому +275

    I was in class 9th , he used to come everyday . Did the same with me . I told my mother , she said , " Aise hote hain log , ignore karo." I couldn't do anything , kept quiet for 4 years . Grades went down , had clinical depression , results ruined and I couldn't tell anyone what happened . Finally , I dared not to suffer anymore . Fought everybody and left my house .
    After some days , called the molester and said all that I wanted . That incident still has an impact on me . I grow anxious at times , want to cry out loud and let all the pain out .
    Don't keep quiet girls , fight back , dare to let these monsters out .
    I come here often , reading the comments and the incidents shared by people .

    • @chekkarenuka1440
      @chekkarenuka1440 Рік тому +4

      Kudos to you👏 Be strong and i hope you get over it and live a wonderful and happy and blessed life🙂

    • @yuvika5468
      @yuvika5468 Рік тому +7

      Don't worry you have UA-cam to share your feelings. Even if I never went through such a thing, I understand what it feels like... I read ffs so I know what kind of a disgusting feeling it is. Don't keep it inside. Let it out. We're here for you 💜

    • @26.saileeprakash36
      @26.saileeprakash36 Рік тому +3

      it takes courage to write ur story i am sorry u had to go through all that

    • @user-xz9ls9ld7v
      @user-xz9ls9ld7v Рік тому +1

      yes, I think mousumi sen is right and I think we should not trust anybody and be strong and ready to fight back against this type of monster.

    • @rimiojha91
      @rimiojha91 3 місяці тому +1

      So strong you are 💗 , just like a warrior, always love yourself.

  • @woofzynskier
    @woofzynskier Рік тому +2

    To all the people in the comments, I hope all of u are doing well now, i cannot imagine going through anything like this. Hats off to you guys for fighting it👏🙏

  • @gollapudisrilakshmi1933
    @gollapudisrilakshmi1933 Рік тому +6

    I think most of the people has cried after seeing this

  • @anonymous-gh4mq
    @anonymous-gh4mq 5 років тому +330

    Please believe in your own kids first.. they are the most innocent and the most truthful as well

  • @niharikaboraa
    @niharikaboraa 4 роки тому +461

    The movie Highway is Alia's second film and this shows how talented she is❤️She played her role perfectly.

  • @beetarsrs8237
    @beetarsrs8237 5 місяців тому +1

    This is a very important topic, and best to educate your own young children against anyone....keep telling them that no one should ever touch them in their private areas ever.
    Teach them to speak up and scream!!!

  • @zayeb1997
    @zayeb1997 2 роки тому +4

    I have suffered the same....this movie gave me voice.thankyou Alia

  • @DevikaK1293
    @DevikaK1293 6 років тому +559

    That moment when she finally screams and makes everyone shut up is so powerful. All the pain and anger against this vile uncle and society in general that Veera had bottled up for years is finally released. It makes me cry every time.

    • @nature3087
      @nature3087 5 років тому

      @Oindrila Ghosh movie Highway
      Role of hero is played by Randeep Huda
      Directed by Imtiyaz Ali

    • @tejaswani.2270
      @tejaswani.2270 5 років тому

      Agree yr

  • @anushkapandey4957
    @anushkapandey4957 3 роки тому +811

    I had goosebumps when she screamed.....Alia Bhatt was so good in this movie!!

    • @noumankhan8913
      @noumankhan8913 3 роки тому +8

      film name ?

    • @unknown_60987
      @unknown_60987 3 роки тому +12

      @@noumankhan8913 "highway"

    • @unknown_60987
      @unknown_60987 2 роки тому +1

      @@kritijain9515 Most welcome ☺️ btw. i am not man 😂

    • @devanshiprajapati119
      @devanshiprajapati119 2 роки тому +1

      I can relate whenever my anger outbursts happen this is what they are like it's just becomes so frustrating that I only think to shout

  • @Serendipity975
    @Serendipity975 11 місяців тому +1

    I was a child when i watched this particular scene and was bored bcz i couldn't understand any emotions.. But now when i watch this scene i cry everytime...you may hate her for star kid reason but she's far more talented than many actresses.

  • @asmitapatil35
    @asmitapatil35 Рік тому

    I started crying seeing all the comments .. I would only say you are not alone and it’s not your mistake dear

  • @akshitasharma1992
    @akshitasharma1992 2 роки тому +646

    This hits hard... cuz even I was too young to realize that I was being molested, all I knew was that this was not some "doctor" game... Not a lot of people talk about child molestation, and i'm glad someone brought this up... and hats off to Alia for her amazing acting...

  • @Sophia-hd1ur
    @Sophia-hd1ur 3 роки тому +329

    She is the only female actress who really bring out ugly world reality in just few moments of display of that character

  • @jasjeetsingh6220
    @jasjeetsingh6220 Рік тому

    God bring protection to all the innocent souls.. and peace to their hearts.. this is heart breaking..

  • @lisamathur9206
    @lisamathur9206 3 місяці тому +5

    And each time a girl who is abused in childhood... tried to touch herself or involve in a romantic relationship... no she in not afraid.... she disgusts herself... It is a medical issue (I don't exactly remember its name) in which a person who was sexually abused in childhood... has guilt forever, has self doubts about her own character, and because of being sexually active for so long in childhood, the desire of s*x becomes more and more... which again makes the girl hate herself.

  • @sabhabegum8388
    @sabhabegum8388 3 роки тому +2919

    i don't like alia bhatt at all but hands down for this performence loved her performence

    • @najuknowar4089
      @najuknowar4089 3 роки тому +33

      Happy to hear that

    • @devanshipandya4857
      @devanshipandya4857 3 роки тому +164

      @@anilkumarpr3639 who r u to judge someone's character.. just because she date a few people.. don't give a character certificate.. there is bad relationship and better to be away from such relationship than getting stuck to it.. I swear bad mentality...

    • @anilkumarpr3639
      @anilkumarpr3639 3 роки тому +20

      @@devanshipandya4857 first know what i am talking about... she behaved very badly in kapil sharma... but she copyright striked it to hide it.. and dating is not a bad behaviour.

    • @devanshipandya4857
      @devanshipandya4857 3 роки тому +80

      @@anilkumarpr3639 v cannot judge a person from a scripted show..

    • @anilkumarpr3639
      @anilkumarpr3639 3 роки тому +12

      @@devanshipandya4857 if it was scripted, then why should she copyright strike the video?

  • @herhealthylife_18
    @herhealthylife_18 3 роки тому +126

    I don't know if anybody noticed it or not but when she pointed at her father , her hands were shaking . This shows that even if she is acting , she is so angry on them that at any moment she might burst out of rage ..... Salute to ALIA BHATT

    • @Indian14197
      @Indian14197 3 роки тому +2

      Abu bakar ko BHI Kaha Hoga Aisha na but khalifa banane ke liye unhone 6 Saal ke Aisha Ka nikha Kar Diya 55 Saal ke Mohamed paigambar SA .Kitna roye hoge Aisha but kisee na Nahi Sunna Alia Ka dard dekhkar Aisha Ka dard Yaad AA Gaya 😎

    • @farhankhan-ht4jl
      @farhankhan-ht4jl 10 місяців тому

      @@Indian14197darindey aur haivaan raam ney jab 3 saal ki masoom bacchi sita ki seal todi to socho usko dard kitna huwa hoga bichari 😔😔😔😔sita par kya beeti hogi jab 3 saal
      Ki umar mai shaitaan ramu ney uska balaatkaar kiya hoga
      Aur aaj usi darindey raam bhagwaan ko poojtey hai kuch chutiye 😡😡😡. Yeah cult religion hindu dharam waley hi asli molester hai jo apni molester bhagwaan ki pooja kartey hai jo apney molester bhagwaan ko follow kar rahey hai

  • @gsilpa2013
    @gsilpa2013 4 місяці тому +1

    This girl is always a great actress from the beginning...

  • @Springbloomms
    @Springbloomms 6 місяців тому +4

    Every female..I repeat,Every Female,even 90 yr old isn't safe, should learn to protect themselves from all abusive male's..abusive, Husbands too..
    Respect being a Women❤️

  • @shayelbaion537
    @shayelbaion537 5 років тому +1318

    I told my dad about it, he called me a liar. Couldn’t tell my mom because my parents had an ugly separation which caused me not having contact with my mom. So I told my best friend at that time she helped me, regain confidence. But it still left hurt, I was gang raped by strangers, by my dad’s friend and my aunt’s husband. My aunt stopped my uncle but that doesn’t stop the pain n trauma/sleepless nights or nightmares of it all happening and reliving those moments in my sleep. I am married now with a amazing man. Who comforts me when I am scared or had those dreams again.
    If your child ever comes to you to talk about something. Don’t shut them up. Listen and help them. Abuse isn’t something to lie about it a serious matter. Don’t fail as a parent whose responsibility is to protect them and guide them.

    • @dishu3127
      @dishu3127 5 років тому +14

      God bless you dear..jai mata di

    • @aqsashaikh6103
      @aqsashaikh6103 5 років тому +16

      You should had complained to police...dont be silent🔇

    • @shayelbaion537
      @shayelbaion537 5 років тому +12

      I was told to keep my mouth shut or something else would happen.

    • @drfarahdeeba1344
      @drfarahdeeba1344 4 роки тому +12

      Shayel Singh You are brave, you struggled with your past and came out from it, i can understand , what have u been through, you had a difficult time, but i am happy that u have a very soothing companion, God bless you both.

    • @apurwaranathunga2865
      @apurwaranathunga2865 4 роки тому +5

      God bless u my dear....u are very strong..who did them to u are from hell .They live in a hell when they are alive and when they are dead also.You keep moving forward..n help others on your way!

  • @Aqua-rq9wy
    @Aqua-rq9wy 5 років тому +3007

    First time in my entire life I thank Karan Johar for Introducing us to Alia. She is really good actress.
    I mean when she screamed it brought shivers down my spine.

    • @mirshabnam1828
      @mirshabnam1828 5 років тому +35

      Goosebumps

    • @tanushree7919
      @tanushree7919 5 років тому +29

      Really she has done a job.

    • @Itx.balooshiya
      @Itx.balooshiya 5 років тому +11

      zindag me 1st time is larki ne acting ko serious lia a🤣

    • @sadikshyakc9833
      @sadikshyakc9833 4 роки тому +52

      @@Itx.balooshiya first time? Udta punjab, raazi, kapoor and sons, gully boy and there are much more where Alia has proved herself as an actress!

    • @maikaunhoon1496
      @maikaunhoon1496 4 роки тому +4

      Alia and her flaring nostrils are distracting AF.. i hate K jo for introducing alia she gets everything sitting at home stealing opportunities from other actots

  • @786mahamahi
    @786mahamahi Рік тому +2

    As a mom, I never let anyone to be physical with my kids either in showing love or anger

  • @harithamenon1982
    @harithamenon1982 Рік тому +3

    this is were i feel lucky- i to was molested by an old man.. but the moment I told my parents they did everything to make me feel okay and safe ... but the best part was that my dad then gave me more freedom while also teaching me how to be vigilant and careful while being on my own--- they never shuuuushed me in such things....massive respect to my parents for teaching me how to fight back and for making me stronger and independent....

  • @tezasviable
    @tezasviable 7 років тому +171

    extremely beautiful scene.....one sld know to protect thier ownselve even when our elderly ones dont understand the situation...hatss off imtiaaz sir and alia mam

    • @sonywilson91
      @sonywilson91 7 років тому +32

      As blood-curdling and gut-wrenching this scene was, how can a child protect herself/ himself from sexual abuse? Let alone when it comes from within the family? If parents and the education systems take a little more effort, hopefully, there would be lesser disgusting and heinous situations to deal with and children can grow up in a lesser traumatic environment.

  • @kulsumkhatoon9847
    @kulsumkhatoon9847 3 роки тому +2146

    I cried literally...her acting level is just out of word

    • @alldayfun2614
      @alldayfun2614 3 роки тому +19

      @@atka._ fan of katrina

    • @alldayfun2614
      @alldayfun2614 3 роки тому +18

      @@atka._ bcz you laughed at this acting

    • @kulsumkhatoon9847
      @kulsumkhatoon9847 3 роки тому +77

      @@atka._ thats all upto taste yaar you may have different taste....here its not about starkid (only reason why ppl hate her and avoiding her masterpiece acts like raazi dear zindagi highway udta punjab) its genuinly about acting....and she played it well,i m not her fan but still i never forget to praise her for her act...

    • @kulsumkhatoon9847
      @kulsumkhatoon9847 3 роки тому +1

      @@atka._ be happy and god bless you dear😘😘

    • @kulsumkhatoon9847
      @kulsumkhatoon9847 3 роки тому +1

      @@atka._ okk...chill

  • @andysingh1000
    @andysingh1000 Рік тому +3

    The last 2 min when she Alia says ki Mujhe ghar ke andar bhi careful rehna hai bought tears to my eyes.

  • @nafisahussain2306
    @nafisahussain2306 Рік тому +26

    I am a Muslim by the grace of Allah and my religion and my veil have protected me from these things and my brothers and father have been my protectors.

    • @Zara-ZAF
      @Zara-ZAF Рік тому +7

      Not necessary that muslims are safe, m muslim and when I was kid my Arabic teacher (maulvi sahab) would touch nd press me at wrong places, i was in class 3, bck then I just felt disgusted but i spoke to my mom nd then we never saw him again, but my dad never got to know we simply stopped him from coming, it still hurts to think about it.

    • @Jendinn
      @Jendinn Рік тому +11

      Dude I am a Muslim too, but it's not about the veil for God's sake, why do you guys always end up blaming the victim's dressing sense, just because a woman is not covering herself in a certain "modest" Way does not mean that men get the free pass to sexually assault her. She in this movie was a child when she got abused by her own damn uncle, and the sad truth is it happens in real life too, so don't come up with that "veil or covering up" Bullshit, I am a hejabi and still have gotten catcalled LOADS of times, it has nothing to do with the dress, some people are predators and you need to accept that🙄

    • @elenoreofmysticforests4052
      @elenoreofmysticforests4052 Рік тому +8

      Imagine being so condescending you find a way to praise your religion even in issues like these….

    • @user-zn3be9ik1x
      @user-zn3be9ik1x Рік тому +3

      Are u for real ek choti bacchi ko bhi ab burkha pehna dein kya aur pls sabse jyada suffer muslim community ki ladies karti hain bas bolti nhi hain

    • @safiyasultana2781
      @safiyasultana2781 7 місяців тому +2

      Yes being Muslim isn't enough you have to practise the religion to understand . Allah has created us and he knows what is safe for us and what is not.
      It's not only the hijab of course but entire set of rules that bring you to safety.
      Yes, we are taught to be careful at home.
      Every member of a family and relatives and society at large has been given their well defined roles and boundaries.
      That is why Islam is the perfect religion .
      If any Muslim commits a sin it's the fault of the person not the religion.
      Islam also condemns such heinous crimes and for there are which grave punishments so that no one dares to follow suit.
      Try to understand the religion with the Quran and Sunnah. You will find peace contentment security and bliss.
      Best wishes.

  • @moriumsultana4978
    @moriumsultana4978 3 роки тому +345

    Many times in childhood, many girls were abused but they were child enough to realise that they are molested. When they realise what was happened to them, sometimes they face trauma and mental effects. This situation is really tough.

  • @jayeshhirapara3289
    @jayeshhirapara3289 2 роки тому +650

    When alia shouted...tears ran out of my eyes...it's so painful 😔

    • @priyanshisahni3341
      @priyanshisahni3341 2 роки тому +3

      its true it really felt like everyday we are going through somewhere something damn hell

    • @atefaatefa5551
      @atefaatefa5551 2 роки тому +1

      Can you tell me what is the name of this movie please

    • @howcouldyounotknowlady9978
      @howcouldyounotknowlady9978 2 роки тому +3

      @@atefaatefa5551 highway

    • @avathewondergirl1999
      @avathewondergirl1999 2 роки тому +4

      Isn't it strange most of the viewers of this video are not parents

    • @avathewondergirl1999
      @avathewondergirl1999 2 роки тому +2

      @Son Of Bharat yeah you are right atleast we can raise our children in such a way that they could speak to us about anything from marks to abuse

  • @arshikhan9283
    @arshikhan9283 5 місяців тому

    At these moments parents support is v imp. For kids mental well being.. my parents were just so strong and always supportive of me in these situation i faced during my childhood.. i faced these kind of abuse 2-3 times during my childhood , i was small and v scared and was mentally suffering due to an incident , when i told my parents about it for the first time they listened to me , trusted me and publicly taught the culprits a good lesson which made me so confidents and positive about life.. my parents became my closest friend and i have taught my daughter to b my closest friend so that she can share every single information with me..

  • @AreeshaChaudhary-fk2se
    @AreeshaChaudhary-fk2se 2 місяці тому +1

    They r such emotionless people. Due to them, she is so depressed. It's so heartbreaking

  • @richawaghmare7093
    @richawaghmare7093 7 років тому +6217

    maybe the one who disliked this are the one who give chocolates 😑