The part about “if we had a daughter… so now I’ve gotta run” resonates so much with me because I am having a daughter and I realized that if I didn’t run away from him and that relationship where there wasn’t any love, she would feel the same way I do because of him. I was afraid to leave him because I felt as if I couldn’t do it on my own but I raised my village of people who already love my daughter and are waiting on her… they are ready to meet her. I got a great job with a good pay rate. And he told me he hoped the baby died. I’m glad I ran from him. I’m glad I stood for my daughter. She will never feel that pain.
@@lifesnovaI DON'T wanna hear it lil bro, instead of wasting your time on UA-cam and video games, get a life, and become a man women actually wanna date .
I'm honestly so moved by the power of this song that I have no idea what to even say. This song speaks volumes in just a single line and the artist sounds so purely emotional while singing this
i really feel like paris will never understand just how much this song has woken up and empowered so many suffering women. love it so much this song is truly one of the most important of our era
@DavidDavid-jm3gq Hi David. I understand you're salty cos your wife left after your ✨️casual sexism, but that doesn't mean that women don't have to struggle more than men on any regular day.
I work on a farm and the next time we have all the ladies on the same team I’m teaching them all the words to this so we can sing it together like a chain gang
@DavidDavid-jm3gq not tryna argue but women have had it hard for the longest time. for example: since when did men have trouble getting a job, since when did men have laws over THEIR body, since when did men on a everyday basis get sexualized for wearing god damn clothing, since when did man get harassed daily, since when did ANY WOMEN EVER get to have some control over a man in marriage. Look, these things do happen to everybody but it is SOOOO common in women than in men especially way back when. also, listen to the song for further explanation 😑
"The capillaries in my eyes are bursting, if our love died would that be the worst thing? For somebody I thought was my saviour, you sure make me do a whole lot of labour."
This the song that deserves an award😒🩷 It’s so special to me, i had my first child at 16 and second at 17. I was also the only one working (i had 2 jobs) i still was the only one besides gramma watching the kids. This song holds so much truth, his whole family defended him doing absolutely nothing
Did you mean you had your second at 19 or did you crack the code to time travel? Cool w either one but you should be more careful w who you tell about the time travel stuff ngl..
@@mikahlizotte2551 16-17 is a time of 24 months. It only takes 9 months to cook a baby. That's two for 18. Which leaves at least 6 months to get preggo again. Not to mention pregnancy could've happened when she was 15 and the baby popped out at 16. Lotsa easy to explain math, no time travel needed.
Only just found this song , amazing music and lyrics , love it, unfortunately saw it from an instagram where many mens comments were just attacking it and saying women are just complaining etc (proving the point about men lol) .
“Tie her legs tightly men cannot be trusted, even with a dead body.” -Gangu, ‘Gangubai Kathiawadi’ Found this quote online one day. Sad woman still suffered and were were sexualized even in death.
I’m the second born of two daughters and trust me my sister doesn’t even lift a single entitled finger, when she does even the most minor thing she is rewarded as if she’d worked the whole day
Brava! Your lyrics really really speak to the misogyny in each and every culture on Earth! And some women say there's no need for feminism. Those women are absolutely wrong!
@@purelightapologetics4930 a lot of followers certainly don't practice that teaching, that's a big reason we need feminism, and Christianity isn't the only religion we think of when it comes to misogyny
@ a lot of followers don’t practice that teaching, that’s why we need better Bible interpretation and church discipline so that they do. Feminism cannot solve the problem.
@@purelightapologetics4930As someone raised by the church and abused bc of it, what are you smoking and can you share because that logic jump must mean you're smoking something good. I was NEVER taught in the church about how men and women are equal. Just how I'm lower than a man and how the Bible says I have to accept he's my husband even when he beats me and abuses me.
@@Aizawasimp2.0 I didn’t see anyone say that women are better than men. Can you quote the part where someone said women are better than men or anything remotely similar?
I’ve been obsessed with this song since I first heard it. The funny part was that my ex husband used to play it knowing I loved the song but I don’t think he quite understood why I loved it so much 😅😅 helped me keep quiet so I could leave at a safe time
As someone who came from the town of St. Mary’s Kansas, this song speaks a lot to me. The church here only gives the women here so many ideas of what they can be. Mom,therapist, nurse, teacher,or a nun. I know I didn’t want to be that. I know no one else in that town wanted to be that either. We have to be submissive to our men, we do all the work in the house and he doesn’t lift a finger when he gets home, they don’t expect the men to help out with the kids, the man simply works and comes home and does nothing. He’ll teach the kids some life lessons when he wants to. But other than that, the men shouldn’t have to do anything. But they encourage the men to go out and explore the world while they tell the girls in that town to sit and stay and wait for a man to take interest. They separate the boys and the girls in that school and both will get in trouble if one gender talks to another because it would be considered a sin. The girls will be so socially awkward when it comes to talking to the guys because they wouldn’t be able to talk to them until they finished their school in that catholic town. I’m so glad I left it all behind. I have a wonderful men who encourages me to be independent and do my own thing while he does his.
Actually, my church was just fine (in fact they were quite supportive) of my dreams to be in the military, and they encourage men to be in the children's life
The very end part was so powerful. I felt my ancestors rage and anguish through my veins. I may have transitioned, but I’ll always have my mother’s blood. I am angry.
I am a trans man and adore this song. Yes, I get treated differently now because I pass as a cisgender man but I remember the treatment I would get as a young woman. This song speaks very deeply to me. “It’s not an act of love if you make her” absolutely! Say it louder for those who cannot hear it in the back!
You know exactly how it feels. Makes you an even better man, quite honestly. An incredibly understanding person. Anyway - Sending you much love! This song spoke greatly to me as well.
@@sadiehelen This comment really made me happy. Thank you so much for saying this. It really means a lot. I always try my best to be courteous, kind, and understanding of the women and other people in my life because of how they get viewed and treated by society. It’s wrong and shouldn’t be that way. Hopefully, things will change with time but for now, I’ll just do my best to make women and other people feel safe and heard around me. [: 💛
@@purelightapologetics4930 Um, are you talking to me or Sadie (the person who commented above)? Lol. Because I’m a grown ass man with a full beard and deep ass voice. Lmao. I am a man and I don’t believe in god. So, please do not push your religious beliefs onto me. I’m okay with you sharing your religion with me. That’s completely okay. However, what I will not tolerate is when you use your religion to make me believe that something is wrong me with me, I’m sinning, etc. I AM myself. I am more me than I ever have been. You do not know me nor do you know my life. So, again, please don’t push your religious ideologies onto me. I don’t believe in the Judeo-Christian god. I don’t believe in any god. It’s okay that you do. That’s chill. I just don’t. Even though I am not religious, I have studied the religion for multiple years of my life. I grew up in the church. My grandfather is the pastor, my mother is an ordained minister, my late step-father was a hospital chaplain, I grew up in Sunday schools, multiple churches, I was in church 6 days out of the week because of different youth groups, etc. I was in the church more than I was out of it. Then when I grew up and figured things out, I questioned more. That was not welcomed. So, I was kicked out of multiple churches. Then I later joined religious classes and would read about the histories of religious texts, where each verse came from, what was written out of the Judeo-Christian bible, what was added, etc. NO WHERE in the original bible did it say that being transgender or homosexual was a sin. Homosexuality wasn’t considered a sin until 1946. I welcome you to watch the documentary called “1946: The Mistranslation That Shifted Culture”. In regard to transgender, non-binary, and just any other form of third gender people being sinful, that is not true. Deuteronomy 22:5 is not talking about trans people. Some are convinced that forbidding the Hebrew people from dressing in clothes associated with a gender different than their own was a way to be set apart from Canaanite and Syrian religion where this phenomena was a part of certain worship rituals. Other scholars believe the prohibition was more of a way to reinforce previous instructions from the Torah that forbid the mixing of different linens. As it was not pure. Trans people giving people names that align with themselves more isn’t sinful either. We’re naming ourselves more to align with ourselves. As you know as a Christian woman, Jesus did this with his followers. He would give them a new name. One that fit who they were as people now. They would no longer be known by the name they were known as prior. Everyone respected that. (Genesis 32:28; Numbers 13:16; Matthew 16:17-18) Jesus WAS accepting of, SUPPORTED, and LOVED ALL third gender people. He welcomed one of the eunuchs into the church and to be baptised with no questions asked. You may have heard of Eunuchs? (Deuteronomy 23:1; Isaiah 56:1-8; Matthew 19:12; Acts 8:26-40). Eunuchs were not just a group of people assigned male at birth who had their genitals cut off. Typically that’s what it was associated with. However, no, these people were also people who may have also been intersex (I am naturally hormonally intersex. That was even before I start taking Testosterone. It’s just how I was born). Eunuchs were also people who simply didn’t align themselves with the culture and actions of men & women strictly. Scholars believe that they were good examples of ancient forms of transgender people in scripture and showing how the ways they were treated reflects how us trans people get treated in society today. You’ll find that in Deuteronomy 23:1. Eunuchs could and were allowed to alternate between women’s and men’s garbs, tasks, public and private spaces, etc. The Persian and Babylonian cultures saw this as completely okay and normal. However Palestine (since Israel was officially and “legally” founded in 1948. The historical documents place the name of the country as Palestine. They are called Israelites because of the man named Israel. The people of Israel were the people led by him. The country itself wasn’t named that until 1948.) anyways, I digress. It was looked down upon by those people. Whereas Persian and Babylonian people just saw it as normal. Similar to how Greeks didn’t view gay people as weird per se. It wasn’t even called being gay. If you topped/dominated a man or a woman or were simply in a relationship with a more feminine man or a woman then you were just seen as more manly. If you were the feminine man who was dominated and you “bottomed” then you were just seen as more feminine in their culture. Once the people of “Israel” were freed from captivity, several prophets, including Isaiah, guide them in the rebuilding of their homeland. In Isaiah 56:1-8 God speaks through Isaiah and says that even though Deuteronomy 23 outlawed the participation of eunuchs in Israelite society, in the “new Israel” they will have a special place--God says, “I will give, in my house and within my walls, a monument and a name better than sons and daughters; I will give them an everlasting name that shall not be cut off” (Isaiah 56:5. This is in the New Revised Standard Version of the bible.) This prophecy has not been fulfilled however. So, God (The Father) stated that He would welcome them into His house. He didn’t discriminate against the Eunuch people here. They are WELCOMED into The House of The Lord. NOT rejected. Jesus mentions in Matthew that there are multiple kinds of Eunuchs. Those who have been so from birth/were born that way, some who made Eunuchs by others, and those who made themselves Eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. So, it’s speculated that the first is talking about trans and intersex people, the second is discussing those who were castrated by force, and we are uncertain of whom the third category is talking about. Jesus was VERY open about discussing the Eunuch people and never said or did anything to denigrate them. In Acts, Jesus baptised a Eunuch man who felt that he wasn’t worthy of being baptised because he was both non-Israelite and not a man. He was Ethiopian and a Eunuch. Jesus Baptised him anyway without a word. He didn’t ask for anything in return. He asked nothing of Philip. He just baptised him and welcomed him into the early Christian Church. So, with all of that being said, even if I WAS religious. I did not choose this. Jesus would accept me and love me as a I am. A MAN. NOT a woman. I would be his son. NOT his daughter. I would have a seat at the table of heaven just like anyone else. YOU are NOT the voice of God. You are not the final say. It’s not your place to make judgments of other’s lives. Your job as a Christian is to love thy neighbour as you would yourself. Do not refer to me by terms that I do not identify with because YOU think that’s what god would do. No one knows God. No one has shaken hands with him in the modern age. No one has grabbed a drink with him. It’s not our job to speak for them. If you want to cherrypick what verses you use against people then you shouldn’t be eating any form of shellfish, technically no pork, you shouldn’t like any form of celebrity, you shouldn’t be wearing 99.9% of the shirts you wear (it’s mixed linen), people who were divorced back then were stoned, etc. So, PLEASE, for the love of that’s good and holy, RESEARCH your beliefs, your scriptures, etc. That way you don’t make hurtful statements like these and so you can expand your knowledge as a whole on your religion. I wish you a good night and pleasant week. Your God loves me as the man I am. I’ll leave you a nice quote for you to think about regarding trans people and god, “God blessed me by making me trans for the same reason God made wheat but not bread and fruit but not wine, so that humanity might share in the divine act of creation.” 💛💛💛
@ Clearly, you’re the one that thinks something is wrong with you. That’s why you mutilated your own body. Real men have y chromosomes. There is nothing wrong with being a woman. Women bear the image of God, same as men. I will not capitulate with the lies that our culture is spreading. You know what you’re saying about the Bible is not true. The fact that you have to work so hard to make it feel true to you should tell you all you need to know. I’m sorry that they didn’t treat you well. I’m sorry that they didn’t handle your questions well. There’s no life in the road you’re going down. You can turn around. You can become the person you were meant to be. There is grace and hope for you. God does love you as the person He made you: a woman.
the Pakistani women out there being forced to do stuff in the name of Islam. nowhere in Islam does it say women exist to give themselves away, and nowhere in Islam does it say youre not Muslim if you don't marry and have kids. that's all culture. as a Pakistani who will right for her rights, I feel agony for the Pakistani women who couldn't and we're forced to crush their own dreams, and destroy themselves for their husbands and kids. I feel agony for the Pakistani women who were forced to get married, I feel agony for the Pakistani women who were forced to have kids, I feel agony for the Pakistani women who go through pre-natal or post-partum depression and get told their feelings don't matter, I feel bad for Pakistani women who were forced to quit their jobs in the name of Islam, which in reality, was culture. I feel bad for Pakistani women who were forced to stay in abusive relationships because "who will support you if you leave?" "what would people say about you, a divorced woman?". I feel dread for all women.
@@alishba_cat Thats not true, Pakistani women aren’t forced to cover their heads, they can get abortions, there is free mixing, nightclubs, etc. Especially if you go to the big cities like Lahore, everyone is modernized
This entire song gives me chills especially when she sings about the daughter…. My heart is shook. So true though 🥺 I AM A DV SURVIVOR, they DO NOT CHANGE! Young ladies, please don’t make the same mistake I did and think otherwise. 💜🫂🪷
And the gas prices and inflation with just go up again, I don't know, maybe its just me, but I like to spend less money😋 so let's not fu¢k with what we have while its good
the capillaries in my eyes are bursting if our love died, would it be the worst thing? for somebody I thought was my saviour you make me do a whole lot of labour the callous skin on my skins is cracking if our love ended, will that be a bad thing? as the silent haunts our bed chamber you make me do too much labour all day, every day, therapist, mother, maid nymph when a virgin, nurse and a servant just appendage, live to attend him so that he never lift a finger 24/7 baby machine so he can live out his picket fence dream it's not an act of love if you make her you make me do too much labour (SORRY IF IT'S A BIT)
although im a guy and havent really been in that kind of relationship i think its a great song and i can still relate heavily to the orginal meaning because i understand but for me i replace the person she talks about with the system of modern society/classism ect instead and it fits great lol
I was actually just thinking about that. I stand for 10 hours a day while my manager is on vacation. It's not a free market if it's coercive; it's not an act of love if you make her.
kamala was in office when roevwade happened if she was gonna do anything she would’ve already done it it’s not “trumps abortion ban” he isn’t gonna take away anyone’s rights get educated if your gonna leave comments like this
recently this song has become the anthem for girls all over the world. I'm so sorry american woman. It makes me feel sick to the stomach to think about us not having choices with our bodies.
What choice is being taken away? The "right" to murder a BABY? Because I hate to break it to your woke @ss, but the child has a heartbeat at a VERY early age, it has a heartbeat before most women even know they're pregnant
Try this song into this music --- **Lyrics:** (Chorus) You can't bring me down, you can't break me, Everything you did just makes me stronger. Through the pain and the threats, I won't stop, I'll succeed, I'll be stronger! (Verse 1) When you tore me down, when you mistreated me, Every insult was just fuel for my fire. Your words are empty, your intentions are false, Inside is a flame that never fades away. (Chorus) You can't bring me down, you can't break me, Everything you did just makes me stronger. Through the pain and the threats, I won't stop, I'll succeed, I'll be stronger! (Verse 2) While you belittled me, I kept rising, Every blow was a boost for my growth. Now I stand firm, with no fear or shame, Your power can’t stop this will of mine. (Chorus) You can't bring me down, you can't break me, Everything you did just makes me stronger. Through the pain and the threats, I won't stop, I'll succeed, I'll be stronger! (Bridge) Dreams are my guides, not your criticisms, Through every challenge, I’m closer to my wins. You won’t bring me down, you won’t break me, My name will be heard, through all these storms. (Chorus) You can't bring me down, you can't break me, Everything you did just makes me stronger. Through the pain and the threats, I won't stop, I'll succeed, I'll be stronger! (Verse 3) Every scar is a testament to my journey, Each battle fought made me who I am. I’ve turned every wound into a story, A testament of strength, a tale of triumph. (Chorus) You can't bring me down, you can't break me, Everything you did just makes me stronger. Through the pain and the threats, I won't stop, I'll succeed, I'll be stronger! (Verse 4) Now the shadows fade, and light fills the space, I rise above with every step I take. Your shadows are gone, and I’m standing tall, My spirit is unyielding, I will not fall. (Chorus) You can't bring me down, you can't break me, Everything you did just makes me stronger. Through the pain and the threats, I won't stop, I'll succeed, I'll be stronger! ---
This because I’m literally trying my best for 3 of my kids and my step son with Autism, and trying to keep up with my looks and my fps standards my life split in half and I have BPD. Drowning again
I think of the poor women in Afghan when I listen to this song. I feel like this song was made for them. Recently they prohibited a woman from speaking in public, and did you know that the suicide for women in that country is statistically higher?
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The part about “if we had a daughter… so now I’ve gotta run” resonates so much with me because I am having a daughter and I realized that if I didn’t run away from him and that relationship where there wasn’t any love, she would feel the same way I do because of him. I was afraid to leave him because I felt as if I couldn’t do it on my own but I raised my village of people who already love my daughter and are waiting on her… they are ready to meet her. I got a great job with a good pay rate. And he told me he hoped the baby died. I’m glad I ran from him. I’m glad I stood for my daughter. She will never feel that pain.
Your amazing, and i hope the baby is healthy, happy, and proud of the incredible mom she have. 🩷
Yeah good for you that sucks
Do it 💪💪
youre the mother i wish i had ❤
❤❤❤❤❤
I wish people would actually listen to this WHOLE song and not just the last part because it's so so powerful ❤
The people that do that are just bad people,(the skipping to the end part)
Agreed I sometimes play this on Alexa in front of my little cousin lol
Agreed!
I listen to the whole song on an hour loop
Yeah i know right 😂❤!
"Its not an act of love if you make her."
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!
Cringe comments of youtube.
@@lifesnovalil bro really thinks he's smart with this one!! 🙏🔥
let me guess, you get mad at the women that choose the bear
@@philmybeloved4214Good one 😂
@@lifesnovaI DON'T wanna hear it lil bro, instead of wasting your time on UA-cam and video games, get a life, and become a man women actually wanna date .
@lifesnova do you have trouble talking to women?
I'm honestly so moved by the power of this song that I have no idea what to even say. This song speaks volumes in just a single line and the artist sounds so purely emotional while singing this
i really feel like paris will never understand just how much this song has woken up and empowered so many suffering women. love it so much this song is truly one of the most important of our era
This song shows how hard women have it, yet still nobody gives it any recognition.
'Not all men, but all women'
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
NOT ALL MEN BUT ALL WOMEN
No, they don't
A lot of women don't have an experience with men or a traumatic one, they choose the bear out of bandwagon
@DavidDavid-jm3gq Hi David. I understand you're salty cos your wife left after your ✨️casual sexism, but that doesn't mean that women don't have to struggle more than men on any regular day.
The lyrics sound like the singer personally went through this experience...I hope she's okay. Such a great song!
"the false incompetence it's dominance under disguise " yupppp ...
That part
I work on a farm and the next time we have all the ladies on the same team I’m teaching them all the words to this so we can sing it together like a chain gang
Can I be your new coworker? Y'all sound awesome ❤
You are so right.
We just like the nice part
That’s so bloody cringe ngl
@@-totallynotCathy- booo
This is my first time actually listening to the lyrics and I didn’t expect to be in shambles afterwards. Life is hard 😕
As a woman
Rage creates change. You will survive this, and come out the other side too.
I literally cried this is exactly why I've chosen to be single 😢
@@cara-marie457 no, life is easy as a woman, it's difficult as a man
@DavidDavid-jm3gq not tryna argue but women have had it hard for the longest time. for example: since when did men have trouble getting a job, since when did men have laws over THEIR body, since when did men on a everyday basis get sexualized for wearing god damn clothing, since when did man get harassed daily, since when did ANY WOMEN EVER get to have some control over a man in marriage. Look, these things do happen to everybody but it is SOOOO common in women than in men especially way back when. also, listen to the song for further explanation 😑
"The capillaries in my eyes are bursting, if our love died would that be the worst thing? For somebody I thought was my saviour, you sure make me do a whole lot of labour."
I love when she says emotional torture
This the song that deserves an award😒🩷
It’s so special to me, i had my first child at 16 and second at 17. I was also the only one working (i had 2 jobs) i still was the only one besides gramma watching the kids. This song holds so much truth, his whole family defended him doing absolutely nothing
Did you mean you had your second at 19 or did you crack the code to time travel? Cool w either one but you should be more careful w who you tell about the time travel stuff ngl..
@@mikahlizotte2551 huh? No i had a child at 16 and one at 17? Im 24
@@mikahlizotte2551 16-17 is a time of 24 months. It only takes 9 months to cook a baby. That's two for 18. Which leaves at least 6 months to get preggo again. Not to mention pregnancy could've happened when she was 15 and the baby popped out at 16. Lotsa easy to explain math, no time travel needed.
Noway!!!!
I'm 16 rn
This isn't song writing this is poetry
That’s literally what song-writing IS. 😂
the worst part of growing up is realizing that it’s true
This song is a modern woman LARPing.
Women have really easy lives. Men are expendable.
“Emotional torture from the head of your high table”. That hit very hard
Some men cover their wives with their 'wings' not to protect them, but so they can't see the light anymore
No comments on this amazing comment let me fix that
Bro ttied to cook but failed
@@ΧαραλαμπάκηςΝίκοςjump
Nope she cooked@@ΧαραλαμπάκηςΝίκος
@@User487r52qad no she burnt it
just heartbroken … 11/07/2024.
this song is so powerful
Only just found this song , amazing music and lyrics , love it, unfortunately saw it from an instagram where many mens comments were just attacking it and saying women are just complaining etc (proving the point about men lol) .
Let them expose themselves. Do a service for the collective and let them weed themselves out lol
That is the most sexist shit ever, I am a woman and looking around now a days, those people aren't wrong, so quit being a woke dumb@ss
Such powerful lyrics ❤️
“Tie her legs tightly men cannot be trusted, even with a dead body.”
-Gangu, ‘Gangubai Kathiawadi’
Found this quote online one day. Sad woman still suffered and were were sexualized even in death.
(Paraphrasing) "Men are the ones who can't be trusted? Then lock up their dicks in a chastity device. Leave women out of it."
- My granny
This song describes being the eldest daughter
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@theolino.exactly
"The silence haunts our bed chamber."
what?
I’m the second born of two daughters and trust me my sister doesn’t even lift a single entitled finger, when she does even the most minor thing she is rewarded as if she’d worked the whole day
I interpreted this song as being in an abusive relationship.
@@firewarrior9999That's what it is about, but people can relate in different ways.
Brava! Your lyrics really really speak to the misogyny in each and every culture on Earth! And some women say there's no need for feminism. Those women are absolutely wrong!
We don’t need feminism because Christianity already teaches that men and women are equal.
@@purelightapologetics4930 a lot of followers certainly don't practice that teaching, that's a big reason we need feminism, and Christianity isn't the only religion we think of when it comes to misogyny
@ a lot of followers don’t practice that teaching, that’s why we need better Bible interpretation and church discipline so that they do. Feminism cannot solve the problem.
@@purelightapologetics4930As someone raised by the church and abused bc of it, what are you smoking and can you share because that logic jump must mean you're smoking something good.
I was NEVER taught in the church about how men and women are equal. Just how I'm lower than a man and how the Bible says I have to accept he's my husband even when he beats me and abuses me.
@@Aizawasimp2.0 I didn’t see anyone say that women are better than men. Can you quote the part where someone said women are better than men or anything remotely similar?
First time I listen to the whole song 😢. I have felt this way before.
I’ve been obsessed with this song since I first heard it. The funny part was that my ex husband used to play it knowing I loved the song but I don’t think he quite understood why I loved it so much 😅😅 helped me keep quiet so I could leave at a safe time
Listening to this after the election results hits different…
An anthem for women ❤, your Canadian sisters are with you
As a women, this doesn't hit any different, you're just a wuss who has no idea what real work is😋
As a woman, It really doesn't😋 got over your woke @ss and do some ACTUAL work
This song's all over my feed now and I LOVE IT ❤
This song is just so powerful
Nymph then a virgin.. if that isn't the truth. That's exactly what they want😔
What the the fucks a nymph
Yeah they want virgins but they choose not to keep theirs that why I don't trust them
Thank you for knocking some sense into me and giving me the motivation to leave.
Love your name
I wonder how many relationships this song ended …
Toxic relationship*******
@@tinytina3007 SAY IT LOUDER!!
TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS!
TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS
TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS
As someone who came from the town of St. Mary’s Kansas, this song speaks a lot to me. The church here only gives the women here so many ideas of what they can be. Mom,therapist, nurse, teacher,or a nun. I know I didn’t want to be that. I know no one else in that town wanted to be that either. We have to be submissive to our men, we do all the work in the house and he doesn’t lift a finger when he gets home, they don’t expect the men to help out with the kids, the man simply works and comes home and does nothing. He’ll teach the kids some life lessons when he wants to. But other than that, the men shouldn’t have to do anything. But they encourage the men to go out and explore the world while they tell the girls in that town to sit and stay and wait for a man to take interest.
They separate the boys and the girls in that school and both will get in trouble if one gender talks to another because it would be considered a sin. The girls will be so socially awkward when it comes to talking to the guys because they wouldn’t be able to talk to them until they finished their school in that catholic town.
I’m so glad I left it all behind. I have a wonderful men who encourages me to be independent and do my own thing while he does his.
Actually, my church was just fine (in fact they were quite supportive) of my dreams to be in the military, and they encourage men to be in the children's life
Love this song. Hearing and listening to the lyrics makes me realize and open my eyes to a while new world on how everything is.
The very end part was so powerful. I felt my ancestors rage and anguish through my veins. I may have transitioned, but I’ll always have my mother’s blood. I am angry.
I am a trans man and adore this song. Yes, I get treated differently now because I pass as a cisgender man but I remember the treatment I would get as a young woman. This song speaks very deeply to me.
“It’s not an act of love if you make her” absolutely! Say it louder for those who cannot hear it in the back!
You know exactly how it feels. Makes you an even better man, quite honestly. An incredibly understanding person. Anyway - Sending you much love! This song spoke greatly to me as well.
@@sadiehelen This comment really made me happy. Thank you so much for saying this. It really means a lot. I always try my best to be courteous, kind, and understanding of the women and other people in my life because of how they get viewed and treated by society. It’s wrong and shouldn’t be that way. Hopefully, things will change with time but for now, I’ll just do my best to make women and other people feel safe and heard around me. [: 💛
Oh sister! I pray you come to peace with who God made you to be.
@@purelightapologetics4930 Um, are you talking to me or Sadie (the person who commented above)? Lol. Because I’m a grown ass man with a full beard and deep ass voice. Lmao. I am a man and I don’t believe in god. So, please do not push your religious beliefs onto me. I’m okay with you sharing your religion with me. That’s completely okay. However, what I will not tolerate is when you use your religion to make me believe that something is wrong me with me, I’m sinning, etc. I AM myself. I am more me than I ever have been. You do not know me nor do you know my life. So, again, please don’t push your religious ideologies onto me. I don’t believe in the Judeo-Christian god. I don’t believe in any god. It’s okay that you do. That’s chill. I just don’t.
Even though I am not religious, I have studied the religion for multiple years of my life. I grew up in the church. My grandfather is the pastor, my mother is an ordained minister, my late step-father was a hospital chaplain, I grew up in Sunday schools, multiple churches, I was in church 6 days out of the week because of different youth groups, etc. I was in the church more than I was out of it. Then when I grew up and figured things out, I questioned more. That was not welcomed. So, I was kicked out of multiple churches. Then I later joined religious classes and would read about the histories of religious texts, where each verse came from, what was written out of the Judeo-Christian bible, what was added, etc. NO WHERE in the original bible did it say that being transgender or homosexual was a sin. Homosexuality wasn’t considered a sin until 1946. I welcome you to watch the documentary called “1946: The Mistranslation That Shifted Culture”.
In regard to transgender, non-binary, and just any other form of third gender people being sinful, that is not true.
Deuteronomy 22:5 is not talking about trans people. Some are convinced that forbidding the Hebrew people from dressing in clothes associated with a gender different than their own was a way to be set apart from Canaanite and Syrian religion where this phenomena was a part of certain worship rituals. Other scholars believe the prohibition was more of a way to reinforce previous instructions from the Torah that forbid the mixing of different linens. As it was not pure.
Trans people giving people names that align with themselves more isn’t sinful either. We’re naming ourselves more to align with ourselves. As you know as a Christian woman, Jesus did this with his followers. He would give them a new name. One that fit who they were as people now. They would no longer be known by the name they were known as prior. Everyone respected that. (Genesis 32:28; Numbers 13:16; Matthew 16:17-18)
Jesus WAS accepting of, SUPPORTED, and LOVED ALL third gender people. He welcomed one of the eunuchs into the church and to be baptised with no questions asked. You may have heard of Eunuchs? (Deuteronomy 23:1; Isaiah 56:1-8; Matthew 19:12; Acts 8:26-40).
Eunuchs were not just a group of people assigned male at birth who had their genitals cut off. Typically that’s what it was associated with. However, no, these people were also people who may have also been intersex (I am naturally hormonally intersex. That was even before I start taking Testosterone. It’s just how I was born). Eunuchs were also people who simply didn’t align themselves with the culture and actions of men & women strictly. Scholars believe that they were good examples of ancient forms of transgender people in scripture and showing how the ways they were treated reflects how us trans people get treated in society today. You’ll find that in Deuteronomy 23:1. Eunuchs could and were allowed to alternate between women’s and men’s garbs, tasks, public and private spaces, etc. The Persian and Babylonian cultures saw this as completely okay and normal. However Palestine (since Israel was officially and “legally” founded in 1948. The historical documents place the name of the country as Palestine. They are called Israelites because of the man named Israel. The people of Israel were the people led by him. The country itself wasn’t named that until 1948.) anyways, I digress. It was looked down upon by those people. Whereas Persian and Babylonian people just saw it as normal. Similar to how Greeks didn’t view gay people as weird per se. It wasn’t even called being gay. If you topped/dominated a man or a woman or were simply in a relationship with a more feminine man or a woman then you were just seen as more manly. If you were the feminine man who was dominated and you “bottomed” then you were just seen as more feminine in their culture.
Once the people of “Israel” were freed from captivity, several prophets, including Isaiah, guide them in the rebuilding of their homeland. In Isaiah 56:1-8 God speaks through Isaiah and says that even though Deuteronomy 23 outlawed the participation of eunuchs in Israelite society, in the “new Israel” they will have a special place--God says, “I will give, in my house and within my walls, a monument and a name better than sons and daughters; I will give them an everlasting name that shall not be cut off” (Isaiah 56:5. This is in the New Revised Standard Version of the bible.)
This prophecy has not been fulfilled however.
So, God (The Father) stated that He would welcome them into His house. He didn’t discriminate against the Eunuch people here. They are WELCOMED into The House of The Lord. NOT rejected.
Jesus mentions in Matthew that there are multiple kinds of Eunuchs. Those who have been so from birth/were born that way, some who made Eunuchs by others, and those who made themselves Eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. So, it’s speculated that the first is talking about trans and intersex people, the second is discussing those who were castrated by force, and we are uncertain of whom the third category is talking about. Jesus was VERY open about discussing the Eunuch people and never said or did anything to denigrate them.
In Acts, Jesus baptised a Eunuch man who felt that he wasn’t worthy of being baptised because he was both non-Israelite and not a man. He was Ethiopian and a Eunuch. Jesus Baptised him anyway without a word. He didn’t ask for anything in return. He asked nothing of Philip. He just baptised him and welcomed him into the early Christian Church.
So, with all of that being said, even if I WAS religious. I did not choose this. Jesus would accept me and love me as a I am. A MAN. NOT a woman. I would be his son. NOT his daughter. I would have a seat at the table of heaven just like anyone else. YOU are NOT the voice of God. You are not the final say. It’s not your place to make judgments of other’s lives. Your job as a Christian is to love thy neighbour as you would yourself.
Do not refer to me by terms that I do not identify with because YOU think that’s what god would do. No one knows God. No one has shaken hands with him in the modern age. No one has grabbed a drink with him. It’s not our job to speak for them. If you want to cherrypick what verses you use against people then you shouldn’t be eating any form of shellfish, technically no pork, you shouldn’t like any form of celebrity, you shouldn’t be wearing 99.9% of the shirts you wear (it’s mixed linen), people who were divorced back then were stoned, etc. So, PLEASE, for the love of that’s good and holy, RESEARCH your beliefs, your scriptures, etc. That way you don’t make hurtful statements like these and so you can expand your knowledge as a whole on your religion.
I wish you a good night and pleasant week. Your God loves me as the man I am.
I’ll leave you a nice quote for you to think about regarding trans people and god, “God blessed me by making me trans for the same reason God made wheat but not bread and fruit but not wine, so that humanity might share in the divine act of creation.”
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@ Clearly, you’re the one that thinks something is wrong with you. That’s why you mutilated your own body. Real men have y chromosomes. There is nothing wrong with being a woman. Women bear the image of God, same as men. I will not capitulate with the lies that our culture is spreading.
You know what you’re saying about the Bible is not true. The fact that you have to work so hard to make it feel true to you should tell you all you need to know. I’m sorry that they didn’t treat you well. I’m sorry that they didn’t handle your questions well. There’s no life in the road you’re going down. You can turn around. You can become the person you were meant to be. There is grace and hope for you. God does love you as the person He made you: a woman.
this is song makes me cry
the Pakistani women out there being forced to do stuff in the name of Islam. nowhere in Islam does it say women exist to give themselves away, and nowhere in Islam does it say youre not Muslim if you don't marry and have kids. that's all culture. as a Pakistani who will right for her rights, I feel agony for the Pakistani women who couldn't and we're forced to crush their own dreams, and destroy themselves for their husbands and kids. I feel agony for the Pakistani women who were forced to get married, I feel agony for the Pakistani women who were forced to have kids, I feel agony for the Pakistani women who go through pre-natal or post-partum depression and get told their feelings don't matter, I feel bad for Pakistani women who were forced to quit their jobs in the name of Islam, which in reality, was culture. I feel bad for Pakistani women who were forced to stay in abusive relationships because "who will support you if you leave?" "what would people say about you, a divorced woman?". I feel dread for all women.
Who ever mentioned Pakistan?
@@oj1291 no one, im spreading awareness about the women there. its similar to the song.
@@alishba_cat I think you mean Afghanistan not Pakistan lol
@@oj1291 nope, im pakistani and this is happening in pakistan also
@@alishba_cat Thats not true, Pakistani women aren’t forced to cover their heads, they can get abortions, there is free mixing, nightclubs, etc. Especially if you go to the big cities like Lahore, everyone is modernized
3:06 All day, every day, therapist, mother, maid
So beautiful, I love it
26k views and only 633 likes and 14 comments it’s sad this is such a strong and powerful song 🎧 I love this so song so much ❤
This entire song gives me chills especially when she sings about the daughter…. My heart is shook. So true though 🥺 I AM A DV SURVIVOR, they DO NOT CHANGE! Young ladies, please don’t make the same mistake I did and think otherwise. 💜🫂🪷
Listening to this after Trump won is something else...
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It’s a sad time for woman
especially for the ones who are gonna have to grow with him as there's president
💙💙💙💙 Kamala should’ve won it was rigged 😔
@@Silverwony1127 I think she's trying to figure that out now ❤️ hoping there's a chance
This song is monumental.
This is so good. I feel these lyrics down deep in my soul!
This truly is the Anne boleyn song. We will never forget you our sweet queen
Jesus this song hits me so hard, I cry every time
What a great song ✨💖
After the election I this song hits so much different
Why he was already president before like what rights are you losing
3.1k ppl saw but only 75 likes 💔
IKR
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296k with only 5k likes…
😂😂😂😂😂😂
The fact that they missed this opportunity as a theme for hand maids tale - side note it's awful to have had a relationship like this
I know the world will never change. And its making me tired 😔
The fact that there are still countries where women have no rights 😢
real 😢
“It’s not an act of love if you make her”.
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
Anyone seen ‘the handsmaid tale’ this hits hard
yes but the Handmaid's Tale protagonist does nothing tho
Yes
It’ll be okay guys we impeached him once he’ll mess up and we will do it again
And then fail again
And the gas prices and inflation with just go up again, I don't know, maybe its just me, but I like to spend less money😋 so let's not fu¢k with what we have while its good
Been listening to this song on repeat as I work on my show!
this song is amazing
I had a toxic relationship, this song is remind me that im strong and dont let the a man rule me
This song reminds me so much of “daughters of Sparta” it’s a such a good book and it gives this energy
The labour isn't the 9-5, it's the 24/7 with no break.
Wow, the most powerful song to change humans!!
Just incase you need to hear it…. I did run and now have a beautiful confident young woman as a daughter ❤
The overlapping part >>>
First heard this on a social media platform. It’s a sad reality 😢😢
Anyone from 2024 listening to this song ????
The end gave me chills.
I relate ,😢
Aww. If this song is relatable, I’m so, so sorry! I’m sure, things will get better! You are a very strong, wonderful person! Have a good day 😊❤
PREACH
Every time I think about marrying someone extremely wealthy, I come back to this song
the capillaries in my eyes are bursting
if our love died, would it be the worst thing?
for somebody I thought was my saviour
you make me do a whole lot of labour
the callous skin on my skins is cracking
if our love ended, will that be a bad thing?
as the silent haunts our bed chamber
you make me do too much labour
all day, every day, therapist, mother, maid
nymph when a virgin, nurse and a servant
just appendage, live to attend him
so that he never lift a finger
24/7 baby machine
so he can live out his picket fence dream
it's not an act of love if you make her
you make me do too much labour
(SORRY IF IT'S A BIT)
LOUDER!!!!!! 🎉
Everyone should share this on all their socials. Just saying. 😢❤😅
Escaped Generational trauma thank God!!!!🙏🙏🙏
One of the reasons why I don't really have any desire to get married
although im a guy and havent really been in that kind of relationship i think its a great song and i can still relate heavily to the orginal meaning because i understand but for me i replace the person she talks about with the system of modern society/classism ect instead and it fits great lol
I was actually just thinking about that. I stand for 10 hours a day while my manager is on vacation. It's not a free market if it's coercive; it's not an act of love if you make her.
My first love sent me here.
My daughter requested this! She’s 5 but often hears me singing this song.
If you want the ending, its 2:43
We should make men listen to this to show them times have changed
Sometimes I hate being a woman. I have a wonderful husband, but this applies to every man I've ever given all of myself to without any recognition.
GEN Z BOSS IN A MINI ANTHEM!
Is it wrong that I can’t but help recognize my mom in these lyrics.
What a beautiful song❤❤
I’m choreographing a contemporary dance to this because it’s such a good message (it shows the inequality between men and women in relationships)
Im the oldest so i can relate to this song.
This song is so POWERFUL 💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪
The 0:54 is my Favourite line love this song🫶🏻
This song slaps 👋
this would have been perfect for the Tudors or the spanish princess
Listening to this on November 6th, 2024. When i found out Trump will be president again, for 4 years.
kamala was in office when roevwade happened if she was gonna do anything she would’ve already done it it’s not “trumps abortion ban” he isn’t gonna take away anyone’s rights get educated if your gonna leave comments like this
@@Mercedes-Nikki Learn what the vice president actually does before telling ANYONE to get educated.
@@Mercedes-Nikkidumbass, trump appointed the judges to overturn roe v wade. I hate misinformed people
@@boogerscanobi2530😢 cry more
I know… it’s gonna be a great next 4 years!
recently this song has become the anthem for girls all over the world. I'm so sorry american woman. It makes me feel sick to the stomach to think about us not having choices with our bodies.
What choice is being taken away? The "right" to murder a BABY? Because I hate to break it to your woke @ss, but the child has a heartbeat at a VERY early age, it has a heartbeat before most women even know they're pregnant
@Aizawasimp2.0 The same liberals want a gun ban but don't mind taking a baby life away
We're not oppressed in America. We have the same rights as every man. Look at Afghanistan's women. They're oppressed over there.
Try this song into this music
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**Lyrics:**
(Chorus)
You can't bring me down, you can't break me,
Everything you did just makes me stronger.
Through the pain and the threats, I won't stop,
I'll succeed, I'll be stronger!
(Verse 1)
When you tore me down, when you mistreated me,
Every insult was just fuel for my fire.
Your words are empty, your intentions are false,
Inside is a flame that never fades away.
(Chorus)
You can't bring me down, you can't break me,
Everything you did just makes me stronger.
Through the pain and the threats, I won't stop,
I'll succeed, I'll be stronger!
(Verse 2)
While you belittled me, I kept rising,
Every blow was a boost for my growth.
Now I stand firm, with no fear or shame,
Your power can’t stop this will of mine.
(Chorus)
You can't bring me down, you can't break me,
Everything you did just makes me stronger.
Through the pain and the threats, I won't stop,
I'll succeed, I'll be stronger!
(Bridge)
Dreams are my guides, not your criticisms,
Through every challenge, I’m closer to my wins.
You won’t bring me down, you won’t break me,
My name will be heard, through all these storms.
(Chorus)
You can't bring me down, you can't break me,
Everything you did just makes me stronger.
Through the pain and the threats, I won't stop,
I'll succeed, I'll be stronger!
(Verse 3)
Every scar is a testament to my journey,
Each battle fought made me who I am.
I’ve turned every wound into a story,
A testament of strength, a tale of triumph.
(Chorus)
You can't bring me down, you can't break me,
Everything you did just makes me stronger.
Through the pain and the threats, I won't stop,
I'll succeed, I'll be stronger!
(Verse 4)
Now the shadows fade, and light fills the space,
I rise above with every step I take.
Your shadows are gone, and I’m standing tall,
My spirit is unyielding, I will not fall.
(Chorus)
You can't bring me down, you can't break me,
Everything you did just makes me stronger.
Through the pain and the threats, I won't stop,
I'll succeed, I'll be stronger!
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Omg the lift a finger thing I finally got it
I had a daughter. I left. I hope I saved her
This because I’m literally trying my best for 3 of my kids and my step son with Autism, and trying to keep up with my looks and my fps standards my life split in half and I have BPD. Drowning again
Im male , leo ,dragon , and i appreciate this more than most .. 💯 facts
That’s deep
I want to cry 😢
Not all man but always a MAN. 🐻❤
I agree but apparently this statement is very wrong as women do such things as well. Not as much as men, but they do…
I think of the poor women in Afghan when I listen to this song. I feel like this song was made for them. Recently they prohibited a woman from speaking in public, and did you know that the suicide for women in that country is statistically higher?
Better have this on your feminine rage playlist and if you don't have that playlist... You should.