Narcissist’s Fantasy, Desire and Control
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- Опубліковано 5 жов 2024
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Basically it will just be chronic stress and punishment. There are not very many happy days with a narcissist. You are always walking on eggshells. No matter what you do they have nothing good to think or say. It's usually negative. When they want something they can be very charming. It's totally nightmarish. Or was for me, and I hear the same repeatedly.. I've experienced plenty of validation...
He loved triangulation. He did it with his exes telling me what he didn't like about them so I wouldnt do or would do to please him... buy tickets to go to see bands, always meet his needs despite it would often sleep deprive me, take him on holiday.... I clicked I was doing what he said he didn't like in his exes so stopped doing it and he wasn't happy. Started to devalue and emotionally block me. Thank you for the videos they are really helping me to break the trauma bond that still lurks xx
No threesomes here but he pushed me to do things I wasn't comfortable with. He also demanded sex even when he wasn't investing in our relationship. He figured he could say and do whatever he wanted and still get his needs filled.
My ex husband was like this. We didn't have enough sex for his liking, and he didn't give me a bit of intimacy or show me he loved me. But I had to put out whenever he wanted it, though he gave me little in return.
My fault for wanting more than he thought I should have. My fault, always.
Well yes. Narcissists like to ply their ego boost while networking in groups. They will have a primary target, and use others to control and manipulate their target. It's very difficult in the workplace, it's horrendous to be married to them. It's all about their ego stroke, and they are malignant...it doesn't turn out well.
Haha well I was brought in as the second wife! She has me as her doll, as her appliance or her tool. She picked me up and used me then locked me away when not needed. She controlled both him and I. The marriage was one husband, two wives. She and I weren’t together, yet still I was treated as her possession! He willingly stood by and watched and said there was nothing he could do about it…as she continued to decimate me. I still can’t bring myself to process the bedroom activities. It’s just too much.
Your channel is freaking awesome! 👏🏼 keep doing what you’re doing!
Very well explained.
Your talks are amazing 🤩
Wow. 😳😳😳. This came up quite often.s. I was not comfortable.
Lol...he brought that up thruout the 30yrs..lol...
This is Nuts!@@
Funny thing..this just solufieds the fact that you are not right, strange, I'm glad I'm out! Lololol!
Do you wanna know how to make a narcissist disappear out of your life? Start talking to them about Jesus Christ and what he expects out of us and what he did for us! Unrepentant narcissists do not like Jesus!
So only people who believe in Jesus aren't narcissists?...
@@claudiarios2440 Where did you get that from what I said? Ridiculous
@@heatherlynn3438 you said unrepentant narcissistic don't like Jesus. I'm a Buddhist does that make me narcissistic since I don't like Jesus.
@@claudiarios2440 Are you an unrepentant Narcissist? I was dealing with phony Christians who used Jesus to get to me. Who used Him to Steal, lie and cheat on me. Even to go so far as to drive me out of my own church just so he could have it for himself! (I don’t like fake Christians) So when I started talking about what they were really doing, using my Bible, it made them go away. Do you pretend to be someone you are not? I don’t think so? You said you were a Buddhist. So how can you even qualify for this subject of being unrepentant when you don’t even know Jesus or call your self a Christian? I don’t understand how you are even mixing your self up in this subject at all? I wasn’t talking about Buddhists was I? No. I was not. And I don’t know if you are a Narcissist? That’s between you and God.
Yes, because how dare you not recognize they are in deed the center of the universe or that you have a higher power than them.
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My ex wanted to bring another man into it. What's that about? I wouldn't do it so his 'compromise' was to tell him about sex with other men during sex with him. I only did that twice. It just felt unnatural... He told me to stop overthinking it all because another man would just be a 'sex toy'. I told him if I slept with another man it's because I have feelings for them. That wasn't what he wanted...