Meeting My Ex-Girlfriend After 2 Years - Cassandra
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- Опубліковано 9 чер 2024
- This is an emotional conversation with me and my ex-girlfriend, Cassandra Kamberi, with whom we discuss a lot of sensitive things in this podcast, we talk about love, relationships, recovery methods, social media, and a lot of other topics!
Listen on Spotify: bit.ly/443fsk3
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
00:32 Meeting After 2 years
02:22 Recovering from the Breakup
05:58 Feelings on Reaching Out During the Breakup
12:58 Filming the Last Day They Were Together
17:13 Being Labelled as “Fidias' girlfriend”
20:48 The Mean Side of Social Media
23:35 Does True Love Exist?
28:36 Learning to Love Oneself
33:50 Meeting other People After the Breakup
43:32 Confronting Society’s Idea of Love
46:53 Fidias on Moving to the US & Business
49:59 Cassandra on Studying What She Truly Loves
57:16 What Changed 1 Year After The Breakup
01:00:18 What They Learned from Their Relationship
01:06:39 Speaking in English as a Second Language
01:11:23 Psychology vs. Rocket Science
01:16:36 The Stigma of Going to Therapy
01:17:55 Were Primitive People Happier?
01:25:51 Feeling Pain VS Suffering
01:29:08 What’s the Meaning Of Life
01:32:26 Thoughts After Meeting Again
Bro you better get her back she’s an angel
No bro, they have finally found happiness away from each other after so long... And idts they, idek if it will work out but i hope it does but at the same time if it doesn't I don't want them to get in the same phase again... Just my opinion
@@aarshpandya8047 i think i somewhat agree
@@waterbottle6449 been through it so know it man.... There's love, there's respect but there's no growth in being together no happiness that one needs for oneself and not others
@ramsey lepere
Agree!
If you ever hit rock bottom your going to regret giving this girl up man. Hard to find someone as genuine as her, especially in your field of work.
Well said
Please be back with her. Its somehow relatable, nd I have tears in my eyes seeing this
@@lustofeva1hell naw, Fidias way too self centered and full of ego/void of empathy for someone as mature and thoughtful as she is. Her intellect and selflessness is miles and miles and milesssss above him. In fact I'd even venture to say it's above average for most people. Fidias doesn't even grasp the concept of happiness or love. Not on a high level/nuanced philosophical spectrum either; I have the feeling he means it in the most basic and literal sense.
Poor girl was in love and Fidias grew into who he is now, the illusion broke, and he ended it cold and without communication and she Cleary is looking for closure but dude can't seem to grasp these things. Imo he seems to be either Asexual/Homosexual or possibly on the spectrum of autism even, and confuses that with not thinking love is real. To not have felt
love, or even happiness for that matter, through a pet or parent or best friend or siblings or partner etc...and to be his age is wild. Something is missing. His blank stare speaks volumes as well. It could be that he's just very very VERY sheltered and closed off and emotionally damaged and unequipped; and therefore easier for him to dismiss uncomfortable things like love and marriage than it is to face it and explore it.
...but nah, these 2 do not need back together. Cassandra needs romance and affection and someone as passionate and selfless as her to give that energy back. Fidias needs someone he's madly in love with and attracted to, then that person ends to break his heart and ekabr him in order to show him the other side of the coin. Leave him vulnerable and open for his true love to come through and connect with. Just my 2 cents 🤷♂️😂
This girl is gold. Beautiful soul and so brave to put her self out there and tell her story as real as it is. Not an easy thing to do. Good for her!
She’s super genuine and really cares for you
Real Fidias fans miss Cassandra, she is so mature and wholesome. She's a special one, there's not may of her kind in this world.
She's so genuine. This shouldn't have been filmed, feels like you're selling your soul for views.
She's a total sweetheart, beautiful inside and out, and still madly in love with you! Fidias, do yourself a favour... don't f**k this up.
when she said "I never had any relationship after you", I know her heart was broken so badly.
So nice to see you again together!! I loved your conversation ❤️
She so cute. Look how she look at him. This is pure
This popped up on my youtube front page and I am almost at the end of the video. What a beautiful conversation between 2 beautiful souls. Thank you for letting us take part in this conversation. I learned a few things from it and both of you seem like exceptional people. I wish you both nothing but the best for the future.
Fidias obviously only cares for his self, his videos and career.
It made him blind. Cassandra is a gem but fidias is just cold hearted.
This is every single girl's experience going through her first heartbreak, and that's life. Men are from Mars, women are from Venus and we cannot see this more clearly than in this conversation. But this is a pivotal moment in every woman's adulthood where she understands what she needs, and that you cannot force someone to become that, if they are not. Love x
Honestly bro Cassandra is too much for you. I believe you deserve someone worse she is an angel !!
I recently discovered Fidias and he's great. I have no doubt that he is going to make it big in whatever he decides to pursue in life, whether it is UA-cam or something else. But whenever he is sucessfull, mark my words, he will always think about Cassandra and never be able to find someone as sweet, pure and sincere as her. You're an idiot for letting her go, Fidias!
Out of every single t-shirt in the world my man chose to wear "23 and still virgin " 😭😭😭😭
Jokes aside, it was heartwarming to see u guys together after so long 🥺
Ελεγα ειναι Θεος και μπραβο του μεχρι να δω αυτο το βιντεο.. η Απαντηση που της εδωσες, η δεν εχεις ενσυναισθηση η τελικα αγαπας τον εαυτο σου τοσο πολύ που δεν σκεφτηκες εκειντη στιγμη ποσο μπορει να την πληγωσες. Ειναι ολοφανερο πως σε νοιαζεσαι ακομα και σε αγαπα πραγματικα οπως επισης ολοφανερο πως σε νοιαζει μονο η καριερα σου.. δεν ξερω τι εγινε μεταξυ σας ειστε κ μικροι αλλα φαινεται χρυσο παιδι και ευχομαι να σε ξεπερασει κ να γνωρισει την πραγματικη αγαπη…
happy to see you guys back again! I was so sad when you guys had to separate bc you went to pursue UA-cam and she went to pursue her career
its so amazing to see ayoung people so connected bro i get your finding your way in life dont find it alone
So much social intelligence in this video. Lets be serious: This is easily the most inspiring content piece of the year for me! Thankyou both so much. This needed probably a lot of courage for you to film.
Glad you enjoyed it!
This touched me so much 😢 she is so sweet honestly thank you for sharing this fidas
This is crazy guys, I am so proud of you guys and totally blown away by how mature u guys are
This is the most senseful video i ever watched you two guys are the most broaded minded persons i ever saw in the whole internet ever since.. Godbless you guys i think it will be a very fruitful conversation to have with you..
I like how real emotions is with it♥️
Good luck for the future🥺
My man fidias never let her go, she's a queen.
This was really good! You (or someone) should make Fidias podcast highlights
Lovely to watch you both of us,💝
Cassandra never stop believing in your dreams let's go όλα θα πάνε τέλεια είσαι φωτιά!!🔥
Love the podcast!!so underated
Hope it went well! Also I love any content you do fidias
She's a genuine person bruh
Thank you for this vid! Had no idea you had a podcast
Great talk! Keep up the work 🙋♂️😬
I remember you two making tiktoks in late 2019 - early 2020. Little did I know you'd become so successful worldwide
She is your stone when you are feeling sad. I see she picked up on what you’re saying immediately and clarifies it more so the viewers understand it. Smarties smarties!
Love is a choice. It’s not always something that is felt. Feelings come and go but choices can be made even on the worst days- the choice to do the right thing for another person or yourself, that’s love.
You guys should be together. 😭😭😭Fidias look super tired!
wow it is crazy seeing you guys speak again. that's really amazing
love you
@@fidiaspodcast btw I'm a small youtuber and I was thinking if I can add you on discord?
Damn i feel bad for cassandra because you can tell she really loved fidias and she just wanted to hear from him that the feelings were the same when they broke up, like he missed her and a hard time just like her.. but fidias didnt give her the answer she wanted to hear it just seemed like it was way easier for him to move on..even tho its totally ok for fidias to operate the way he does not sayin anything bad about it but i just feel bad that you can tell who the break up effected more. Wish nothing but the best for the both of you.
u should make clipped versions of these podcasts that are like mid length vids
Bro get her back in your life... She is most loving and grateful women that you never meet in our life 💕
Do anything to get that girl bro!! Even if you have to give up everything! You guys are so meant for each other but it’s going to take work to be what each other needs.
Look forward to this. I miss you in Airracks videos lately. Come back to them 😉
maybe
@@fidiaspodcast yes. Pls. You make them 100x better.
I really liked what Cassandra said about pain and suffering.
Pain and suffering are both the same if you're not strong to look for the good side and learn and ignore the bad you'll end up with high suffering and pain and that's what happened to Cassandra, she learned to stop following bad episodes out of a normal break up experience, for Fidias it wasn't as painful because he fought those episodes and focused on learning instead, and he likes pain because he learns more than he gets hit with it. That's the difference it was just a longer lesson for her but they both now understand the ways they choose after a normal painful life event happens, if you don't get better you'll get worse, no waiting for things to get better, you have to be optimistic or you'll end up pessimistic. Fight now or suffer fighting later. No choice.
Her Voice is just Awesome bro 😍
Yah
I feel like fidias take 1 or 2 hours just liking peoples comments and that’s really caring and loving to his subscribers
haha
Keep up the good work bro :D
Bro I recently watching your video and first see the video of you breaking up with here and the next one is this podcast. I just want to tell you that you are a lucky man to have here by your side so don’t hesitate to pursue her bro again and make her happy each day of her life. Because we only have one chance to be alive so don’t waste it. Good luck with your journey bro i am going to watch all of your video and i hope you could visit the Philippines and have a content with a famous youtuber here CONG TV hehehehe keep safe bro keep pursuing your dream.
You still love each other, and we can see this in your eyes! Fidia the way you look at her is what love is. ❤ It is so sad that you choose not to be together. I can bet, though, (🤞🏻) that one day you will be together again.
cass he doesn’t deserve you..
She is a rare gem. ❤
man she really cares about you since day one saw it in her eyes and look now same.. dont let her go bro..!
fidias got acold heart we know that....;/
i love her shes sooooooo nice!
The question of do we have free will has always been the debate of psychology vs sociology.
Incredible how she's wow never believe in love this might be the one for you Fidias wow ❤️
Η Κασσάνδρα σου μιλάει και σε βλεπει στα ματια εσυ βλεπεις γύρω γύρω η αγαπη σας εν πας το τραπεζι ....reconnection approved ☝️
I’m a little bit disappointed you didn’t share more of yourself. It’s like your like investigating her. And the purp was disrespectful af. And she was nice to let it go.
Don't be a malaka, get back with her re! One in 7 billion!
To the people wishing them back together....oh hell naw.
Fidias way too self centered and full of ego/void of empathy for someone as mature and thoughtful as she is. Her intellect and selflessness is miles and miles and milesssss above him. In fact I'd even venture to say it's above average for most people. Fidias doesn't even grasp the concept of happiness or love. I don't mean that on the higher nuanced philosophical level either; I have the feeling he means it in the most basic and literal sense.
Poor girl was in love and Fidias grew into who he is now, the illusion broke, and he ended it cold and without communication and she Cleary is looking for closure but dude can't seem to grasp these things. Imo he seems to be either Asexual/Homosexual or possibly on the spectrum of autism even, and confuses that with not thinking love is real. To not have felt love or happiness through a pet or parent or best friend or siblings or partner etc...and to be his age is wild. Something is missing. His blank stare speaks volumes as well. It could be that he's just very very VERY sheltered and owed off and emotionally damaged and unequipped and it's easier for him to dismiss uncomfortable things like love and marriage than it is to face it and explore it.
...but nah, these 2 do not need back together. Cassandra needs romance and affection and someone as passionate and selfless as her to give that energy back. Fidias needs someone he's madly in love with and attracted to, then that person ends to break his heart and ekabr him in order to show him the other side of the coin. Leave him vulnerable and open for his true love to come through and connect with. Just my 2 cents 🤷♂️😂
I like his shirt, I'm gonna print that on my every shirts
She deserves better than fidias… he has lost everyone because he cares more about fame than anything else. Airrack doesn’t even mess with him anymore
Im crying
Fidias: In her mind she never broke up with you.
how did you get the idea to make a podcast fidias?
For being a young man. And since im older. I can definitely tell you. You can love and be happy about more than one thing. Your life does not restrict you for one purpose. Same goes as your journey does not limit you to one experience. Im not saying i know it all. But i know you are limiting yourself through fear of the unknown within yourself.
Real is rare bro get her back ♥️
you better get her back she still loves you inside 😍
Bro you need to get back with her she’s so nice please
She is so kind please marry her
The H3 Podcast has done SO much to entertain and open me up to the most obscure freakish unexpected entertainment; but this Fidias arch is NEXT LEVEL lmao homie hit her with blunt non descriptive empty buzz questions off the rip lmao
It's not just the Language barrier either because his ex girl shares the barrier, yet still she remains thoughtful and articuatley introspective. She's way too pure of heart and intellectual to grow as an adult with Fidias in his final form 😅
Homie using her for views and making the Pod the first meet since, knocking her over the head right away with blunt questions in hopes that the answers will feed his ego lol like the:
"watching me on social media made u miss me?"
"You romanticized how we'd meet?"
"How long to get over me? For You I only took one month to forget"
Lmao homie is missing 68% of his frontal lobe, and the other 32% is hooked up to a laptop with Mr.Beast on loop lol
The way he cuts her off and doesn't let her finish expressing herself, then her getting upset with him for it. The birthday comment and the non-responsove ghosting and so on. She deserves someone whose at least 1/15th as committed as she is. Someone capable of feeling empathy or expressing themselves. One of the 2 would be great lol
I do believe Fidias means well but I hoenstly just think he isn't very self aware nor had good role models or teachers in his life.
Finally I gotta say that him being dismissive and domineering with the belittlement in saying "rephrase your question better so I can answer" was SO out of pocket looooool homie says stuff like "Ahhh how fucked up am I after breakup, not sure because we doing the sushfhdkatbskshahaba hahahha haha ha yuh and videos and stuff yuhh, yea" hahahahahah 😅 lord this is Gold. She's a saint tho for real. If ur single and need some long distance love I'm out here ❤️ 😁
great comment thankx bro
Are the podcasts on Spotify?
good quetion not yet but it will be soon
@@fidiaspodcast THANK YOU BABE
We are waiting Video with you and casantra in love agian❤️
Fidias do not lose her again. Good luck patriot.
Fidias lost everything important to him… first his girl and then Airrack… he wanted to be famous so bad he lost sight of what really matters…. He is going to look back soon and realize his ego got the best of him and he had all he needed 6 months ago… when he had airrack a gf…. Living in La… he had it all but he wanted more and more and lost everything and everyone. You can tell in this interview he thinks he’s better than her; look at the way he looks at her…. He’s not the same Fidias we all fell in love with…. He’s the fidias that fell off, because he got greedy, and wanted too much to be famous
maybe
Sad that you broke up, its okay.
Bro it is obvious that you both are in love with each other!
Bro get her back 💕
She is so beautiful 💖
Fidias for some reason I love you man
She is so sweet. You made a big mistake by letting her go.
Watching this video after watching Fidias’s main channel, I do find his attitude and character a lot different from what you see in his other video’s. Cassandra is so sweet and open for conversation, yet Fidias seems to just lazily sit there and sometimes even barely listens. I don’t know much background of the relationship, but to me it all sounds so contradictory to his positive character that he plays in his main channel video’s. I don’t know, it all seems odd to me. They seem to belong together but Fidias blocks it.
Wow! This young lady is really perceptive.. I really learnt a lot from listening to this conversation.. Fidias Iono about you man but I'll date her in a flash if given the chance!
Get a room or something 😂.
For real though, you gotta be one of the most genuine couples I've seen in the world.
Do a podcast on music
Love you fidias ❤
Not even a Happy Birthday Fidias sadd this girl is heartbroken its sad
Always wondered if we would see this 🍺 nice
saw it
Be together.. This is destiny fidias. You have done always something impossible.. This is the dare from India to you to stay with her.. She loves you.. For real. Stay together. ❤
she seems very smart tbh
Not everyone's life has a meaning, but those who wonder find the answer written in the depth of their gut.
There is no meaning with life.
It's just incredible hard for humans to accept that, and i get it because it's wired in us and our psychology so deep that most people get a melt down when they realize it, if they do it.
But that doesn't mean that we can't love, be kind, or whatever.
But the point is non of it matter but that doesn't mean we can't make stuff or feel stuff.
The awkwardness at the beginning lol 😂
Great content re file! Sinexise tin skliri doulia💪🏼💪🏼
I love you man... Love from india.. ❤
Don't tilt ur head king u might drop this 👑
There's more out there king they are all the same
Are you going to USA again or you will stay in Cyprus ❤️❤️?? Love from India 🇮🇳🇮🇳
Is it weird that i see my self in both of them?
Are you guys back together?
Fidias you are my favorite youtuber and I really would appreciate it if you answered and just to know my dream is also to become a youtuber συνέχισε την καλή δουλεια
hi
@@fidiaspodcast omg!!!!
Bestttt