TODDLER WEARS A LACE FRONT WIG
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- Опубліковано 17 вер 2024
- Hey #QueenTeam, in this video I talk about a 4-year-old toddler going viral for her mom installing a lace wig on her. What are your thoughts?
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I was so disappointed when I saw black women defending this on twitter. In my experience, girls and boys bullied us for having “nappy hair” and short hair and praised the girls who had looser textures, long hair, and weave. We started wearing quick weaves, sew ins, and braids because we wanted to be seen as “pretty” and celebrated as the other girls. Saying that it’s okay for a child to wear a lace front bob is just their way of defending the insecurities they had growing up and have til this day. Kids should be able to wear their natural hair, so what if it isn’t down their neck or back, they are beautiful just the way they are. Once we accept ourselves as who we are, stuff like this will stop.
Very true
I wish we would STOP using the word “nappy” to refer to our hair. That’s a very negative, anti-black hair word given to us by racist white people. Oddly enough, it was white women that were jealous of our natural hair texture.
Pay them dust and change the words we use to refer to our hair.
Couldn't have said it better myself
Yes
I wouldn't say women wore wigs to be pretty. I say women wore wigs because systematic racism and prejudice against BOTH black women and men told them their natural hair was "unprofessional" in work spaces. No afros, no braids, no locs, no nothing. Hair expression wasn't an option. You either had to be bald, super lowcut, or traumatize your hair and scalp with heat damage and chemical damage in order straighten it to appease the status quo of whiteness.
We live in a society where black children are unfairly adultified. As a parent, why would you fan the flames and dress them in a way that further pushes that idea? We need to let kids be kids and stop trying to live vicariously through them. It’s common sense to me and I don’t even have any kids
Agreed.
Exactly
Plus she needs to love her natural hair
@@gatestimonymiracle1302 Exactly ,this is no different than moms who used to perm their kids hair
@@sakuraesther6309 Back then, the parents would actually wait until the child is a 12 and up.
The mom is insecure and friendless. I also think she’s projecting her own insecurities onto her daughter, unfortunately.
A very good point and to add I get a very vain woman from her.
Honestly, I believe it's generational and the mom thinks this is okay smh!
Dang 😭 that first part was brutal💀💀
Very true. From the same area and the mom is projecting a lot.
....this poor baby her actual hair....😅😢
Make up and adult wigs on a child is creepy. That toddler looks 25.
Makeup, lashes, nails, definitely a no no, but can we stop acting like certain hairstyles on little black girls make them “grown”. I’m sure we still viewed those little girls on the perm boxes as CHILDREN. You’re literally just excusing disgusting predatory behavior from men when you try to say stuff like this and don’t even realize it. It’s a hairstyle.
@@turquoisestranger7566The children in the perm boxes had children hair styles. Additionally most of our mothers waited until we were a certain age until they gave us one. Secondly predators are mentally deviant people who present as normal. 99.9 percent of the time WE HAVE NO IDEA WHO THEY ARE. People are stating we need to take precautions any and every way we can. And WE know the child ISN’T a exual being, but SOMEONE WHO IS MENTALLY SICK, may not. Also, KNOWING that one of the ways corporations promote ped is by have children participate and wear in adult like things, why would parents promote their children in the same manner? Let children be children.
@@aishah5244 “the children on the perm boxes had children hairstyles” no. Those girls had straight bobs as well. How is a Bob an adult hairstyle? Literally my hair was always styled in a Bob when I was a child bc that’s how far it usually grew. And when you say things like “grown hairstyles” you basically give predators the leeway to excuse their behavior. Literally all I would hear from victim blaming society is “well she looked mature so” or “she wanted it because she styled herself this way or that way” and that’s not the way it should be. Can we just agree that the hairstyle itself is not a grown hairstyle? It’s a Bob. Children shouldn’t be wearing lace wigs unless they need it for special reasons but let’s not adultify hairstyles. It’ll never annoy me more than hearing grown women calling little black girls “fast” or “too grown” just for wearing straight hair.
No she doesn’t she looks maybe 6. Be forreal it’s annoying when people sexualize children makeup and hair is fun what the issue she’s not dressed like a whore
@@turquoisestranger7566 I NEVER said a bob was an adult’s hair style. Secondly we all have access to the images of the girls on the relaxer boxes back in the day. I lived it, but a quick google search is easy. Third, I don’t give an F about what society says, protect your children at all cost. You all can play willingly ignorant all you want with your children. If you don’t know who these peds are, the best thing you can do is protect YOUR child in every way possible.
The problem with this new generation of parents is 75% of them want to live through there kids so they allow grooming and extremely grown things to go on with there kids. As a hairstylist of almost 10 years I can definitely say lace glue should never be used on kids. Lace glue is very strong and have chemicals which are not made for children and can effect there skin over time. The mother should be ashamed.
You do realise parents living vicariously through their kids isn't a new thing right?
Nope I don’t like making little kids look grown.
Neither do I and I’m seventeen. These little kids are only just children, not a bunch of adults and yet, here are these “parents” having them look like beauty influencers thinking the shit is cute when it’s not. They’re basically objectifying their own children.
It’s very creepy
@@niabelizaire3596 I honestly thought she was one of this rapper baby mama turned influencer
Exactly, this is so wrong
I remember on toddlers and Tiaras one mom dressed her daughter up as “Pretty Woman”. I feel we are damaging our kids by exposing them to too much. Giving them early access to the internet or dressing them up in some ways. PLEASE let’s protect our children across the board.
That was crazy! There were so many old men in the crowd that came to watch pageant and didn’t know any of the contestants.
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with a child wearing a bob. The issue is the wig! If a young girl got a silk press for her kindergarten graduation I’d understand but pls allow children to be children. Why are we putting them in grown woman cosplay. Braids, twist barrettes are suitable. I didn’t have my first weave until I was 8 which were box braids.
Yeah I had a bob for my 3rd grade pics. It was my hair. I mean it was 1989 so we wasn’t wearing that much wigs but mostly braids and twist with balls and barrettes. I think some moms are aging their daughters up to dang fast.
Ppl would have still be mad if the cut the child’s hair in a bob. Why pretend that block women aren’t obsessed with texture and length. It’s so ridiculous to me! It’s just hair. It’s just a style! How does hair make ppl “grown”?
Exactly. Putting a whole lace front on a child is excessive.
@remigal899 it's protective
@@ROYAL12366no they wouldn’t..
That little girl has no business wearing lace fronts, she’s only a toddler.
Would you feel the same way about little black girls wearing this with cancer? Alopecia? Health conditions that make their hair fall out?
@@turquoisestranger7566perhaps if the hair was more natural looking
@@daniellec9304 natural looking how? Genuinely want to know. My permed/straightened hair looked the same as this as a child.
@@turquoisestranger7566 that's different
@@turquoisestranger7566she doesn’t have a medical condition tho. Idk why everyone keeps bringing this up
I hope she still reassures her daughter, how beautiful she is without the wigs and weave. The biggest issue I could see stemming from this later on down the line are self-esteem/self-image.
Exactly 😔
that’s what I’m as thinking
I know this woman who told me she started putting straight sewins on her daughters at 7 yo. I thought that was bizarre. I asked weren’t you concerned being a child she would interpret covering her hair with an Asian woman’s hair that is different from her texture as something being bad about her hair. Then mom admits now teen daughter cries when she has to wear her own hair.
I remember we played in our mothers wigs at that age. We didn’t wear them to school 🤦🏾♀️
When I was little, I used to play dress up in my mother’s clothing and although she doesn’t wear revealing or tight-fitting clothes, I wasn’t wearing her clothing to school 🤦🏾♀️
I tell my kids all the time you're literally only a kid from birth to 17
after 18 you're an adult....for the rest of your life. So enjoy being a kid...for the short time you are a kid.
I’m seventeen and my mother tells me the same thing. Enjoy being a kid. She also tells me that it’s okay to have fears.
I always say this to my daughter 🙏🏾
Also I just wanna say that a MAAJOR part of child development is PLAY. So if you're not letting your child be a child, you're hindering her. All that time spent doing her brows, makeup, and putting wigs on her, could be spent better. She needs to understand her daughter is not a doll and treating her daughter like one doesn't serve the child one bit.
That’s the problem. The mom is too busy trying to make her daughter look like Instagram’s next beauty guru and isn’t letting her enjoy age appropriate activities. She’s a toddler, not a Barbie doll. The mom is going to regret what she’s doing when her child gets older.
I hate how ppl have been reposting the child’s photo laughing at her, I just don’t agree with that. However, a wig on a pre-k student is a bit much. I can understand if she was bald.
Me too. It’s one thing if the child didn’t have a whole lot of hair, but because the little girl’s hair is naturally long, the mom could’ve given her child hairstyles that are suitable for a 3/4 y/o. Instead of taking the wig route, the mom could’ve styled her daughter’s hair with bows, barrettes, bobos, etc. Not only is the child sporting a wig, but she’s wearing makeup and she looks like a grown woman. She’s only in preschool and already, her mom is making her look less childlike and more mature with this hairstyle. And from the looks of it, this baby is going to be sexualized soon the older she gets.
She probably is
Wait you mean to tell me grown black adults including the old heads are making fun of a little black girl?!? Get on the mom's ass, but don't drag her kid involved!!
if she had alopecia or cancer, I can understand but just why?! Why lt your daughter get a lace front on a 3-4 year old??? Most girls dont get lace fronts until 15
I’m about to graduate college soon and I see middle schoolers now with lace fronts and lashes and I’m in my 20s and never worn that stuff
Social media has ruined these kids forever
I keep asking, "where is the line of demarcation?" Little girls are looking more and more like adults. These young babies have nothing to look forward to, they don't "grow up"; they're grown.
@@cedricadaniels7983I was born in the 2000s and had representation for what most little girls to preteens wore through shows on Disney and Cartoon Network also things like music Toys and being around other kids who did the same things a lot of those outlets have fazed out and kids aren’t allowed to be kids due to society not really caring about them think about it malls used to be the spot but rules started getting strict so teens don’t go there anymore. And when music was designated to places like 106 or yo mtv raps but the internet is a thing they could be looking for innocent Thing click on something weird and it leads them a diff way.
@@cedricadaniels7983exactly it’s sad asf and is girl moms who don’t play that seem like bully to our daughters bc we don’t allow them to do the okie doke
My daughter is in 7th grade and the girls in her class have fake eye lashes, lace front ,super long nails....
All I can say is I wouldn't do it. I grew up hating my natural hair because of my mom because she didn't like my texture. I don't want my daughter going through that. She only wears knockers and barrettes because I want her to be a child and live herself
I experienced the same thing, and my mother permed my hair up until I was able to make a conscious decision without her scrutiny when I decided to go natural and cut all my hair off at 17/18. I definitely think makeup, nails, lashes etc are a no no for a child but I don’t see the issue with the lace. I had friends when I was a child who had alopecia and were teased/bullied relentlessly in school for it. Some little black girls even had cancer or other health conditions that trigger hair loss. I don’t see the issue when it comes to the hair once you reassure your child to still love their natural hair.
My mother permed my hair when I was 4 year old ruined it I've always been insecure because of this. My daughter is 4 has looser textured hair I would never do that to her. These stories make me 😤
Literally & the ppl who tryna excuse it im sure still suffer from those insecurities I start gettin my hair straighten at 6 and it took till I was 15/16 to start loving my natural hair
I experienced the same thing. I started wearing braids when I was the first grade and I’ve been wearing them by the time I graduated high school. I never gave my hair a break because my mom couldn’t handle my hair texture. I didn’t start loving my hair until the pandemic hit
This is the reason why most women want to have daughter so they can use them as dolls. i dont think thats right
Some women are neglecting the fact that their daughters are their OFFSPRINGS and not Barbie dolls that they played with as children. Growing up, sometimes I would play dress up in my mother’s clothing and try on her shoes but I always remained a kid. I always played with my Barbies and watched Disney Channel, Nickelodeon and Cartoon Network and generally worried about kids stuff. I wasn’t out here beating my face, wearing acrylics and lace fronts and Brazilian extensions. Some of these mothers and parents in general don’t deserve to have any children if their gonna have their kids walk around here looking like adults.
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The wig is cute but she’s just a little child and should rock her natural hair
The mom did a good job styling the wig, but the hairstyle is better suited for teens and adults.
@@niabelizaire3596I agree
Love this take Chioma ❤ I also feel that the adultification of black girls insofar as aesthetics goes, whether done by this new generation of black parents or black girls themselves, is a symptom of a much larger issue. I think I see so many people saying social media is the reason kids are the way they are now. I think social media and its accessibility has definitely accelerated the breakdown of any sort of information hierarchy that previously existed between children and adults, but social media in the context of modern society operates as not much more than just one of many outlets to escape the reality of growing up as a black girl.
From the perspective of someone 17 going on 18, I think as a community we have to get real with the fact that we haven't made childhood an appealing stage to begin with. Our various home cultures (AA, Caribbean, African, etc) have baked so much ageism, sexism, physical and emotional abuse into how we raise our children. Coupled with the historically-rooted adultification we already face in our host cultures, clearly, neither is serving us well. In this case, specifically, that's a literal child and I get how one could conclude there's not much more to it. More broadly speaking, however, it almost feels like a lot of black girls and their desire to 'look' / 'act' grown + in this instance the mother dressing her daughter in various adult-like hairstyles functions as a metaphorical defence mechanism from all the aforementioned aspects that factor into their upbringing so I think it'll definitely serve as a large amount of good to see things from that angle.
You hit the nail on the head! 💯
Wow! This was powerful💜💜
I’m so glad that my mother had me rocking bobos instead of wearing these lace front wigs and remy weaves like some of these parents are doing.
I am African so my experience is different. But I started having braids in elementary school, had m first wig at 16 yo (it was a short bob I think). Now I wear a hijab and cover my hair. What I found astounding is how adultified this kids look. She’s 3-4 yo, it is crazy that she’s wearing make up and having wigs on.
Plus black women (both African, African american,ect) are unfairly push into “grown adult” phases, even as tweens. Sexualisation of kids and tweens in the 7:32 community should be talk about more.
A lace wig in pre-k is INSANE
The little girl is only in preschool, she’s not even pre pubescent yet nor has she entered the stage of high school and here her mother is sexualizing her 🙄🤦🏾♀️
INSANE!!!!
And here I was thinking that wearing a braided bob in kindergarten was wild af 😂😂😂😂
Frrrrr that's weird asf
Teaching black girls to hate their natural hair so young is disgusting
So many parents now want their kids to look like mini adults instead of children 🥴 it’s weird.
I hate to say but I believe it's definitely for the male gaze
I hope I'm wrong 😬
I feel like innocence has to be preserved. There are some things you look forward to as you get older, and even dressing a certain way, getting tattoos, makeup, etc should come as mile stones in a child’s life as they age.. young childhood is a great time to teach self love as much as possible and teach your kids to care for their health naturally, like skincare, hair care, nails, hygiene… love on themselves first at core, the extra is for fun and expression as they get older and that’s it.
What happened to letting kids (specifically girls) be kids? 🤦🏾♀️
Florida man.....😂😂 great video! I also hate how these children are just blasted online, social media presence already here before they can realize the implications 😢
Reading the title alone my answer is :absolutely not.
period ok seh dhat again gyal.. Shes nuh even 8 yrs old yet .. Its disrespectful buh nuh properly fa pre k child... If anything 12yrs eff nuh 16 frfr..
❤❤❤❤man I remember I was a bow, bead and braids type of girl. Why they're putting wigs and all in little girl's hair, weakening it while it's still strong and healthy. If I ever have kids they're having styles like how I grew up.
My parents did not even let me wear boxbraids til I was 12. My father always wanted me to love myself naturally first at a very young age. And that was the first and last time too before I did locs. Let kids BE KIDDDSSSSSSSSS!
I just feel like putting a wig on a young black girl at such an early age will create insecurities about her natural hair as she gets older. If her mother puts bundles in her hair whenever it's time to dress up or look nice (like the first day of school), the daughter may view her natural hair as not beautiful or presentable in such settings.
Besides that kids are so different now n days, I remember in Kindergarten If you was wearing weave you would get call baldheaded 😂😂 or you NEED weave
And the daughter will soon start to think that she should only wear wigs and weaves instead of embracing her natural hair.
I agree with you. Growing up, the grown thing to do was get a relaxer as a teen. Not any younger. I had my 1st at 13 and last at 19. I didn't really hear about wigs in the real world until I was about 20
In my seventeen years of life, I’ve never worn weaves or wigs. Not even a relaxer. However, I do rock my natural hair and braids. In my opinion, I don’t think that little girls should be wearing relaxers. For one thing, it can stun the growth of their hair and can serve as a detriment to the health of their hair along with having long term damage to their scalps. Overall, I think the mother is an idiot for letting her preschooler wear a wig.
Idk about this. I might be a bit older than you but relaxers were the norm when I was younger. It wasn’t until about the 2010’s until being natural became more mainstream
I’ve donated a lot of hair to Locks of Love and Wigs for kids. That of course is a beautiful thing. I don’t see how a child would honestly want to wear a wig otherwise. Especially very young kids who don’t know better. Their hair is beautiful and can be styled in appropriate ways.
I feel like putting so much emphasis on you daughter looks is setting her up to think her looks are what’s most important. I feel like all that should matter is her education. It just seems like you are breeding insecurities.
Isn't it though?
We are all judged by something, appearance is usually first.
The beauty industry is built on vanity and insecurities.
Your sentimient is technically true, however the world will show you otherwise, and you likely judge people based on appearance yourself without holding yourself accountable.
She can do both, she doesn't have to choose between the two, but her mom can show her how to take care off her natural hair beautifully.
She should be learning to love and take care of her own hair at this age.
I personally don't believe children should have those unnecessary attachments. People are only children for a short time of their life. Let the kids be kids.
I got my first sew in at 17, I was a senior in high school and I was also transitioning to natural.
It was the best option because my hair was half curly and half pin straight from relaxers. I stand with what you said …. That’s too young of an age. It’s different with kids with health issues. The Styles should still be child appropriate.
That's not JUST a bob. That's a wig first and foremost, secondly, her eyebrows and eyes are very adult in that picture. I can't tell if its makeup, a filter, or both, but all of it is a problem. And they tried to minimize it down to JUST a bob? The discussion has already ended at that point because they have to minimize it IN ORDER to defend it! And Comparing her to that asian child?? Girl, bye. That asian child just makes the problem more obvious. The asian baby actually looks happy. And like a child.
Exactly the issue wasn't the "bob" but you can clearly tell the whole aesthetic is "teenager" vibes vs the Asian child who actually used her natural hair which fits her....I'm sure if she had a lace wig we would be saying something cause it just looks grown...then to put makeup and filters on a toddler for likes is insane
Social media has diluted our minds frm the bbls to the filters we are tryna keep up with these false beauty standards and it's ridiculous
*Only reason why I keep doing natural hair videos, type 4 is not punishment. Whether it be marketing or not? I know plenty of grown women with traction alopecia because, their mom failed them years ago.*
This is the earliest I’ve been to a UA-cam video… no views!
But that title had me raising my eyebrows. I had to click
Dang, it’s like kids can’t be just kids these days
I didn’t get my first weave until I was 18. And it was for my senior homecoming and prom. Pre K is wild. If she had a medical condition or something I can definitely go along with that but we know she has a full head of hair so there isn’t an excuse. That’s just weird. But that’s my opinion.
I’ve worn hair extensions before it was never that extreme it was usually for special occasions
When I was in pre k all I had was my natural hair in beads or in ponytails with bow clips
Hey Chioma! I’m a younger millennials (a couplr years older than you). You nailed this, one point I would add is teaching her daughter to love and care for her natural hair. By constantly installing wigs she may miss that.
While I think the wig is a bit much, I would prefer that to a relaxer. Absolutely no makeup or nails.
Love you girl ! It was inappropriate fr not the nails , wigs , or brows !!!! ❤
The only time I wore wigs as a kid was during Halloween 😂 I’ll always wearing my mom’s bob wig in second grade as cleopatra
Great conversations. I’m a mother (wink) and seeing all of these moms show their lil girls tummies and wear grown hairstyles and clothes is honestly sickening. Creating insecurities in little girls when they don’t feel “done up” is weird and sexualizing their outfits is not protector behavior!!!there should be test one has to pass for parenthood tbh. Everybody isnt made to be a role model.
showing your stomach isn't sexual
I love when you post Chioma ❤
My son is just 4. Just turned August 6 and I dress him like a toddler boy. He will only get his youth for just a few years.
Same got my first sew-in in the 9th grade, i also think that some parents are letting the trends and insecurity from social media and trying to make sure their daughters are “that girl” I think this mom specifically started with her practicing on her daughter but she need to go ahead and stop now she good😂
Yesss I wished I talked about this. I think the pressures of social media is causing them to prepare their daughters to be IG baddies from the womb. It’s sad!!
The makeup is the worst part, like why are you doing brows on a 4 y/o?!!
My parents wouldn’t even let me get my eyebrows or nails done all the way up until my junior prom , I used to resent it . But now at the age of 24 I am glad they did ! I looked my age for the most part and enjoyed just being a kid ! I think parents like this mother are doing their kids a disservice and putting them in real danger ! enjoy your childhood !
My eyebrows have always been naturally thick and pretty and my mother didn’t start taking me to the salon to get my eyebrows waxed until I was in middle school. Getting your hair and makeup done is a normal thing to do, but that toddler is too young to be wearing a wig and having a face full of makeup. She’s not a teen. Children need to be prioritizing their education and playing outside and with their toys and generally staying in a child’s place instead of sporting fake hair, nails and cosmetics. It’s not cute, it’s sickening.
This is why I think today’s parents are the worst. They try to make their minor children more grown than them… it’s crazy. Go outside, get some adult friends, and stop trying to make your toddler daughter your best girlfriend.
Drew Barrymore made a good point where she told her daughters that she’s their MOTHER and that she will never be their friend. Drew’s own childhood was robbed from her thanks to her “mother” not only taking her to parties that culminated into Drew becoming an alcoholic and drug addict at such a young age, but failing to be her parent and instead acting as her girlfriend. These millennial parents are creating a generational cycle of sexualization when it comes to their children and then wonder why their kids start twerking, being sexually active and end up becoming teen parents in the future.
I'm a "today's" parent but I will not have my toddler in a lace wig, lashes, nails....SHE WILL ROCK A FRO, BRAIDS TWIST.....and sorry to break ur heart but a lot of parents from the 70s and 80s weren't too good either
The thing that worries me the most about this is that putting makeup and wigs on that little girl's head will make her feel like she needs it to be beautiful as she grows older. As a seventeen yr old who's been told that certain things like hair colors are too grown, I don't really like the argument that the bob is too grown cause if it was her natural hair there would be no issue. Calling something simple, like hair, too grown seems like blaming a child and excusing the predator for their behavior.
I hate how black women were trying to make it an issue abt people getting mad over the bob. When in reality it’s the fact that a 4 year old has a wig glued to her head with chemicals that aren’t safe for children’s sensitive skin. That poor baby should be able to embrace and wear her natural hair at that age. Social media really has a lot of these mothers forgetting that these are actual children and not dolls.
This!
This story about the little girl saddens me!! Truly!😔...smh
I had to beg my mom for braids with braiding hair when I was 11. And the only reason she went for it is because she wouldn’t have to deal with my hair for a while
Honestly I believe braids are the most appropriate wig/weave/extension style for little girls just braids and twist nothing wrong with that but a whole wig/sewin is wild ….
My primary concern that as black girls we already receive messaging that we are not pretty. I’m in my 40s and growing up my mom went out of the way to find black dolls, fairy tales and storybooks with black characters and she did not allow me to get perms until high school. By the time I got to college I went natural and haven’t looked back. I learned to love my natural hair. Will this little girl ever have the opportunity to appreciate her natural beauty and to exist as a girl without being stuck in the mirror worried about how she looks. Our black children deserve to be innocent and deserve to indulge in their natural beauty. I work in labor and delivery and many black mamas are dying and ill and a contributor to that is black market BBLs and surgery. Many of us go down the road of wanting to keep up with a trendy image and it does more harm than good in the long run. I hope this little girl doesn’t go down that road.
I get it. She wants her child to have fun, she wants to try new things but for me more than anything it’s the complex this little girl will have. She’s not putting her in the dance competition hair pieces, or Afro textured wigs. She’s sending an in direct message that her natural beauty isn’t enough.
Dang, the little princess is sooo pretty but definitely looking 12.
Let’s Goooo. I literally clicked on this video while wondering when you was dropping new music. Ayye. Congratulations!
Yay! Thank you! I appreciate you love 💗
I think the parents now a days that are parenting the youth of today are trying to heal their childhood trauma through their kids. That's discussion that's not talked about enough. Parents today won't admit that either what they are doing.
Also these are fkn uncomfortable. I don't who says they aren't. I couldn't wait to take a lace front off. This is neglect. The heat itself is toxic. Kids run around more than us!
Chioma you are so pretty.💓
This is very sad. The daughter is a woman in those photos, doesn't look like the girls her age. But to make the comparison between the Asian and her daughter is sick. The little girl who is Asian with the Bob hairstyle has her natural hair out while her daughter's hair is hidden underneath the wig with crap caked on her face. In my opinion, I see this as a like her daughter is a living, breathing, speaking dress up doll.
I grew up in a caribbean italian household. I got makeup hair and clothes accessories that were for kids and didn't get anything that made me look grown. I remember I got my nails done for the first time at a nail salon, and I was 12, and it was for my birthday. I wasn't allowed to get different colors added to my box braids until I was 12 or 13😢. This could open a flood gate of creeps leering and stalking her daughter's picture, but this is also common in girls who look like their age.
But back to her using the Asian girl as an example one, I was scrolling on youtube shorts, and this video popped up of modeling and this was located somewhere in Asia the girls in that video looked way to grown in all that makeup and hairstyling and they were all different ages because this was child modeling. I used the youtube shorts that I saw as an example because it doesn't matter the skin complexion, or what background you come from, and let alone what your natural hair looks like because children should look like children. It's very sad to see the daughter being taught how to look like a woman while still a girl.
Comparing a FULL lace front bob to a little Asian girl’s bob is the biggest reach ever. The Asian girl literally just got a haircut while the black girl weave installed and makeup smh. People hate getting called out so bad.
Yesss I watched the music video first!! ♥️
The fact that adults are really saying that nothing is wrong with a toddler wearing a lace front, makeup etc is so disturbing. No wonder these kids are a new breed of hott mess.
I feel like a wig and makeup is excessive, but even then, parents gave us perms and relaxers and would damage our hair, her hair is healthy, her hairstyles are still kid like, and she dresses like a kid, I think she is just a kid who wants to be like her mom this is no different then when we would see the white "fashionista kids" on ig back then. I think as long as she acts like a kid and her mom reminds her that she is a kid she is simply teaching her to stay put together and done up all the time all I can hope is that it doesn't affect her growing up
Love the ponytail, Chioma 🩷
Some of the clear teachers give students with braids a hard time . EVERYONE is always critiquing our hair . What is the actual harm ? She's protecting her real hair from daily damage . The wigs are combed like kids real hair . Looks like they are enjoying a special Mom / daughter routine. Everyone, plz put your energy into homeless kids or the lil kids down your street , with no shoes on or supper on the table . She's enjoying dressing up HER little girl ❤😊.
YAY FOR YOUR VIDEO!!🥂
I just don't get it as a former pre-school teacher these kids spend the majority of their time running and sweating all day long. How does she expect a little girl to adequately maintain a lace front wig while at school? This baby will literally have no baby edges left in about 6 months. SMH
Most kids the child’s age are very energetic and this little girl’s wig is going to sweat out. This mother has no common sense.
I’m 17 and my momma still encourages me not to wear wigs at all😂
Even straightening my hair was considered grown back in the day. This feels like exploitation.
Absolutely ridiculous. Tired of these kids looking like grown women.
People are like “let people do what they want with their kids” as if stuff don’t be dead wrong like this.
Queen Chioma I love the live video commentary, you always on point😊
You are so pretty😻
Honestly we need to just let the kids have fun, and be expressive…hair pieces and kenekalon are just mediums of expression.
So you’re okay with ripping a child’s baby hairs out for a lace front? Girl get a damn grip
So, wearing wigs as a child is now self-expression? Yall are crazy, I feel for these kids. You guys will ruin them before they get a chance to build real self-esteem
I believe that, but not for children. Especially since that’s not the child’s self expression, it’s the mom’s. The child most likely didn’t ask for this at 3-4. So, idk how well the self expression idea applies here imo but that’s just from my perspective
That child isn't old enough to know herself well enough to express any "self expression", especially if the mom isn't letting her be a child and go through the stages of life. This isn't self expression, this is teaching the child to love vanity and to value herself for how she looks on the outside. She should be somewhere playing instead of worrying about messing up her wig.
@@edithart5753 if you think wigs ruins kids, you have really weird idea of childhood. What about kids that are dancers, performers, what about the the lil kids that do hair, what about all the lil kids with hair loss…yall be so contrived it’s so sad,
Kids now look my age! I'm 31 and my students ask if I graduated college yet. It's because my gen looks their age or younger cause we took our time aging. These new kids wanna grow up so fast and teen girls look 30 now and it starts as little girls. No need to do all of this. Middle school and high school chicks wearing lashes drawn on brows and weave everyday just to go to school
Smh. Only to get clowned anyways. I was 18 when I got my 1st bob wig to support my lupus friend who lost her hair and started wearing wigs till it grew back then she stopped.
I'm 27 and can easily pass for a 17yr old because I'm petite and I just have a baby face...but man oh man at my son elementary you have 6th grade girls and boys bigger than me (5'0 and 125lbs) I mean the girls are looking like straight up grown women even their faces are looking older and the makeup and lace wigs don't help
@@stoneyhighhigh3677 exactly sis! Once they get our age they're gonna look crazy crazy
Some of yall be 30 looking 50
@@MD19853 rare but yes that too
@@stoneyhighhigh3677but we can’t help that though, instead of judging us try to understand the struggle of naturally looking older. I have all my life due to my height mostly and I can’t help but look a few years older
How to teach your child they aren’t good enough 101
As a licensed esthetician. YES IT CAN MESS UP HER BEAUTIFUL FACE and cause early on acne
I don't trust any parent that post their children online. It's like an advertisement to sell them off. These parents know what they are doing, and they cater to a sick demographic of predators.
Black girls NEED to LOVE & EMBRACE their natural hair
Oh nah...someone snatch her mommas edges 😒
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I do not condone any makeup or wigs, at that age. However, my daughter had natural waist length hair and begged for short hair in 6th grade. I took her to a shop, and yes, she got a sew in Bob with bangs bc I did not want to cut her hair. I truly don't regret it. She did not look anything like the little girl we are referencing. I honestly thought my child looked liked the live rendition of Dora the explorer😂 but, She was so happy. But when she started middle school, she went right back to wearing her natural curly hair. I think the makeup, filter, and brows are not needed for that baby. That's why the thumb nail pics look so different between the two little girls.
PROTECT THE CHILDREN! PROTECT THE CHILDREN! PROTECT THE CHILDREN!
Hey Chioma, can you please do more videos on young toddler black girls being adultified (like wearing clothes for adult women as well?) Great video!
Happy Weekend QC 👑💜 I hope you’re having a great day xox thanks for another great video can’t wait to check out the song
Thank you! You too Busy weekend but I can finally relax lol ✨
I just honestly wish more black women loved themselves and embraced their natural hair rather than pushing their insecurities onto their children. Perming and gluing wigs onto these little girls is going to do more harm than good. We need to break the cycle and break these generational curses.
I love that you aren't trying to be anyone but you with your music and my 42 year old ears can hear your growth from song to song. Keep going!!
Around this age in South Africa most parents cut their kids hair to baldness and start doing braids when kids go to grade 1. Reason for this is because the scalp of the kid is not yet strong it can’t maintain braids as doing braids is painful now imagine having glue on your head
I think you should do pageants!
Are we ignoring the toddler is wearing French tip nails and makeup for prek.
I been waiting for this yooo
Respect to your mom✊🏾👏🏾👌🏾👍🏾
Personally I looked at this picture and all of my biases and judgments came at me at once. I was thinking why on earth are they letting a child wear a wig, and then I analyzed the situation for a bit I realize that there’s nothing inherently wrong with wearing wigs as protective styles even on children that age was wrong is the fact that the people in our community have sexualized wigs and weaves because that is the type of hair texture they like to fuck. And now they are putting their sexual associations on that child hair because she put on a wig.
and then there’s the argument about loving her natural hair yet finding it acceptable to silk press it but not put on a wig. There is inherent issue with that argument. If your issue is that she doesn’t love her natural hair then silk pressing it is on par with wearing a wig. If it’s about loving her natural hair texture then giving her a straight hairstyle is a Nono in the first place. The other issue we need to address is that forcing a child to constantly be in curly hairstyles is not going to teach them to love their own hair. And by rewarding children with silk presses we are reinforcing the idea that straightness equals to beauty. But if we allow children to explore all hairstyles without putting one on a pedestal or saving a specific hairstyle for special events they can grow up choosing which hairstyle do you think is beautiful for themselves.
I think a lot of us need to sit and analyze why this hairstyle on her makes her uncomfortable. If you feel that she’s being sexualized you have to ask yourself by who? If you feel like the hairstyle is too grown ask yourself by who is standard by what measure?
Your comment is the realest comment on here and I'm wondering why you don't have the most likes🤔💯
One of the best comments in this whole comment section! 💔💯🙌🏾
By a sane mature Black woman standard!! Tf???
@@SunshineKK99 I think that’s a bit of a paradox. Nothing about making a huge deal out of a hairstyle sounds mature to me. If the hairstyle affects the child’s quality of life then by all means make a huge deal, but if it’s just a one day thing like wearing a princess dress, the child skin doesn’t react to the glue and the child feels beautiful how does this hair so harm them exactly?