Am asking myself the same thing what is Shame to return to your home country??? You live there before. Life adjustment is never be easy. When I moved to US with family we have everything but to adjust with culture Weather and People it was pretty difficult. She have to accept the mission because she was so excited to come back. Now she is so regrettable to move back. Give us a break to process your mind Lady!!!!!!
There is NO shame in returning home - During COVID - many people in the WORLD desperatly returned to their countries to preserve their DIGNITY. Nigerians should be PATRIOTIC and BRAVE and RESPONSIBLE ENOUGH TO go back to their Country and Build NIGERIAN - Vote Out CORRUPT leaders and CORRUPT POLITICAL PARTIES. IF you continue to JAPPA - Who else will re- build your Countries. There has to be a Generation of NIGERIANS That has to SACRIFICE to re-build the COUNTRY. FIGHT LIKE HELL GOR YOUR COUNTRIES- STOP BEING SELFISH JUMPING OFF SHIP AND JAPPA - IT IS COWARDICE.
When you have really made money, there is no better place to enjoy it than at home with your OWN people. that is why the rich Nigerians are in Nigeria. For those shaming people who decide to return, most of them prefer you to be there to keep funding their lifestyle while stressing yourselves out. It's not out of love for you, it is so they could exploit you or keep enjoying what you left behind. Why will people question an adult on decisions to come back to their roots when they feel so? Interesting video and very informative.
There is no shame. No matter where you go in the world you will be a minority you will be black.once you can maintain yourself and your family you have a roof over your head you are bless. Do you want the pressure of racism. It's a demeaning thing. How is home and will always be. You can be you.
There is no shame. No matter where you go in the world you will be a minority you will be black.once you can maintain yourself and your family you have a roof over your head you are bless. Do you want the pressure of racism. It's a demeaning thing. How is home and will always be. You can be you.
My family and i returned 7 months ago from the US and have been living our best lives, no pressure, no stress, having family around and the warmth environment of seeing people everywhere when you walk on the streets is everything. I call the US a ghost country, you only see people in their cars, the streets are dry
Before I left abroad and returned back to Nigeria about 3 weeks ago, I stumbled on this channel and it was instrumental in making my final decision to come back home and now I am home, I am watching this video and it also gave me the confirmation that I have made the right decision, my people said when your journey is tough, return back home, I did just that!
I live outside naija and I miss naija. I hope our Government can get it together soon so many will japada. Abroad na suffering and smiling . Even your next door neighbor doesn’t care about you. You know deep down you are neither wanted nor respected there.
There's no place like home. I lived in the U.S. for 10 years. I spent the 11th year traveling around the world. In the end, I returned to my homeland, Jamaica to settle. My income is from the U.S. So, affording my monthly expenses is not as bad as if I were earning in Jamaican Dollars. Life is much more peaceful in Jamaica.
Hello, I just want to teach Nigerians how to say the word KENYA you don't say KEYA, or KEA also, don't say Kenia or KEN-YA (as in can ya?) THIS IS HOW YOU SAY IT: *Kenya* emphasis IS on - NYA. the *nya* must be pronounced. And to our brothers in Uganda, please please please, don't say KINYA.
People don't know the feeling of home after being overseas. People at home cannot value Africa as much as those who have lived outside their home country for any period of time. Home is Home. Africa is beautiful and home sweet home.
When people very close to you begin to kpai, you then realise that life is really short; you ask yourself if you kpai now, did you really live? Then you decide to make decisions according to your preference not minding the side noise. 'Live before you leave' becomes your motto. There shouldn't be any shame returning to your place of origin. That statement you made; suppressing the needs of your kids to fund people back home... it hit me really deep... Thank you for this video, my sis!
Shame????? I don't see any shame there ohhhh. If you were suffering, that's a different case. I've lived in U.S for 25 yrs and I got tired of living there and came back home to Nigeria. There's just no place like home. I don't see anything wrong with that. As long as you can travel anytime you choose.
You did well by coming back. Dangote and all Nigerian multi millionaires are still in Nigeria and foreigners are still coming to invest, we have hyper city, ShopRite and other shops popping up in every corner of Nigeria and run by foreigners, I will stay here till my change comes, we all need to think and start small and from where we can and boom! One day you will hit the jackpot with God on your side. Welcome to Pitakwa my city! ❤❤😂
The place is beautiful my dear 👍 I love your glasses Sis 🥰 I love the chat. You are looking good. You are right, the Japa ,Japada vibes is real . This generation is different on a serious note. May God bless everyone,and make a way where there is no way
NOTHING to be ashamed of hun. As a LIVING being, movement is part of life. What matters is that you have a good relationship with your maker & that you are in good health.
Dyna, you went back to Nigeria for a very good reason so that your children can improve their speech, for their social interaction with other children and for them to attend an English speaking school.
The system in Saudi Arabia and the Middle East is very simple. There is no pathway to citizenship. If the husband is the one on work visa, (usually the case as Kuwait does not permit husbands to be on dependent visa), there is none for the wife. The husband also has to pay a dependent's fee to the government and it is very expensive. Once your work visa is no longer renewed, your stay there is over and it is bye bye. So Japa to Middle East is not permanent. You must return after some years. Let me also say it clearly: Japa without a pathway to citizenship is an incomplete Japa. I speak from an economic standpoint and I do not think it is a matter of shame at all. I also came back to Nigeria after 5 years abroad and I am investing heavily with what I managed to pick up from there. In fact, we built a house in 3 months from foundation to completion and it made a lot of noise in the village. Fear sef no gree any relations ask me why I come back.
dyna i won’t tire in saying that ‘God gave me the common sense to japada 20 years ago. ‘ i thank God i did , my children benefited most , they are now fully loaded with African sense and education and have japa’d back to the states well equipped to fully take care of all the advantages the west has to offer . they walk head and shoulder above most they left here .
@@masterlightjames950 there are 2 sides to everything. OMG our beloved Nigerians, being in my mid 60 I’ve since learnt to take you our big brothers and sisters in small doses . Where I’m from we measure standing based on proper morals , ethics and values . Home training. Respect for humankind. So pls spare me . These types of stinging comments make fb et all distasteful . I hold no spite in my bone .
My take on the japada matter is that there is no place like home. Anywhere your umbilical cord is buried your spirit is there. I'm working towards it too
As someone who moved back to Nigeria from the UK, I would advise people to do what works for them. Take into consideration what's best for your family's situation and block out all the noise, because there will be noise and nay-sayers. I don't regret it one bit and will move back abroad once my children are grown a bit as I don't think there's a better place to raise kids than in Nigeria.
2 years ago, I left Canada with wife and 3 kids (we are all Canadian citizens) to Nigeria - we love it and don't think we will ever return except when kids grow for universities
For me there's no place like home living here has made me realize it and appreciate Nigeria even more, yes things are not the way we want,yes the economy is still not stable, but guess what my heart is in naija i really cannot wait to go back, i hate when some Nigeria try to paint Nigeria like a horror movie 😂 and make it seem like things are just so horrible there and nothing is good I even get friends from naija telling me not to go back. but for where nothing go change my mind I'm still gonna return back cause living here is not any better apart from the more money of course which is sweet 😂 but Naija all the way!! People definitely won't understand the peace ☮️ but those that gets it get it..😊😊😊
The reason Nigerians in Nigeria paint Nigeria like horror movie is because they have have been deceived that outside is paradise and there is no stress and they get everything without stress, but the same people cannot maintain band A electricity even when it’s mostly 24hr
@@favouratta6047 The crazy thing is that those of them who travel abroad and finally get the reality will hide if from those back home while they continue to stay abroad and deal with the stress.
What you’re describing is called brain-drain. The best of best leaving the country while the fresh blood has no one to teach them. It’s a great thing in terms of opportunities for the younger & qualified ones among us however, if not managed well we see mishaps in the industries you pointed out. Even in the UK, most British doctors and nurses are moving to Australia and Canada and you still see the same thing happening there especially with immigrants who weren’t trained there struggling to fill in the gap. The world is making a huge shift and most people don’t even know why they are going where they are going. As for me and my family, we die here in Nigeria. Japa or Japada at the end of the day, go to sleep every night knowing you’re happy where you are, that’s all that matters
Very refreshing video! You are right, the whole world is going through an economic depression. I learned a few things from your video. I wasn't aware of this "shame of returning back" but it explains quite a bit to me. All the best to you and your country.💓 Much love from Germany. You have such contagiously positive vibes, I needed to subscribe immediately.🥰 14:50 PS: "You cannot shame the shameless" What a great line. I like it.: 😂
I really enjoyed your topic. Really insightful. A topic most Nigerians need to talk more about . Infact people should start holding public lecture on this topic for diasporans and those at home All for Nation building. Keep it up Aunty Dyna
Dyna, your glasses are so nice. Life in Africa is not always easy but surely everything will work out. Aww your son and the hi and the chicken. The ambience of the hotel is very nice. Thank you for showcasing 😊.
omg I know this road its so close to my house in Nigeria! Like it brings back memories fr I walk here all the time to genesis, everyday supermarket, Killimanjaro
it's so good to do you and dont mind the noise because everyone has his or her own personal lives that has nothing to do with those who are always carrying red pens to shame other. We really need to leave according to our own plans not the societies plans
@safinatusodangi621 I wish this was me...mine is next year but I am so ready. I always feel like each new day should be my set date!😂 happy for you. I pray my expectations come quickly so I can gt out too. I've had enough of America
I return back home after 12 years in South Africa with no plan of coming home... God punish shame.... ... It's better to laugh you than to burry you...
I japadaad 8 years ago. At first I felt ashamed when people began to ask for reasons. But only me knew Nigeria was the best option at the time and it had to do with raising children.
First time watcher.. First of all love the story telling you kept me engaged. And yea the shame for the most part esp in the younger generation has more or less been erased. And that’s a good thing pls.
It’s all about choice, while some people would rather live and die in one country, others choose to explore the globe. Whatever one’s reason, they should own it and not be made to feel bad about it.
Why will there be shame though, one thing Staying in America has taught is not to be ashame of me or what I do to survive. Life over here is crazy, home is relaxed and restful
Sincerely dyna, you just made me feel better with this topic and I also got the encouragement to go bk home I am also a dependant in the us and my husband is almost done with is work here, we hv bn here for 4yrs but yet I don’t feel happy couple with fact that am convient here I don’t know why is still feeling like am not living but at thesame time I am scared of going bk home because of the present situation in Nigeria but with this video I am getting some relief from my fears. Thank you
It’s only the ignorant that does not know that times are changing worldwide. The world can never go back to normal , now is the time to take one day at a time and do you.Very soon all these people that kept monies abroad would wake up one day and puff goes all the wealth only what they have here is what would sustain them a time of Great Depression is coming for the corrupt rich.
@@nancyackon Yes I did; and what you are insinuating is that there wouldn’t be any reason for anyone to come back if they travel with the right visa and I am telling you that’s false, cause people with valid or right visas also return, those who even return the most are those who already have citizenship
@@Ranking007-tq9ng You didn't read well, I am only refering to those who went there without the right documents. Those with right documents can always come if the want to. That's not a problem.
@@nancyackon Again, your allegation is false, how can you claim I don’t read well when your comment never ended with those who has papers can always go back? Plus this topic was specifically about people who decided to return back home to continue their lives in Nigeria, either they have papers or not is irrelevant. If they can go back or not is a different topic entirely, so stop trying to underplay my sense of comprehension, simply because you don’t want to accept that your comment is either false or irrelevant to this conversation.
Wow i can totally realate 😢, is been 1 year now since i and my husband came back from Dubai and we have been in Lagos and feeling ashamed of going to Enugu our state due to what people will say
True.. there has actually been more job vacancies for health practitioners who chose to stay back since the japa trend. Federal and state hospitals are short staffed hence giving more employment opportunities for health practitioners. I mean the space of those that japa has to be filled now😂
Allot of people have realized that life is short after COVID.. Here today gone tomorrow people want to do what makes them happy. They want to be real with themselves and live their own dream, not the dream that others have for them. At the end of the day it’s between you and God. Where is he sending you is we’re you will be most content.
There is no shame in coming back home if you come from a good family that is willing to take care of you, especially if you didn't come back with much in terms of skills or a healthy bank balance. People can be quite uncharitable .
Dyna @9:42 abeg you're making so much sense, you are even right in some of the instances you gave, though you said you aren't sure and might be wrong... Loving the fact that you choose to talk about these types of topics, also the environment🌴🌲
Your video is so timely! 😄 I’m moving out of here (Czech Republic) soon and all I keep hearing is village people might be calling you. When I have said countless times that I do not want to live here and it’s the same negative feedback that has made me stay a little longer. It’s annoying mehn. I didn’t even think of it as shaming, I just thought they didn’t understand. But truly it is a level of shaming. It is well o.
Thank God you came back with your sernity . Mummy jachi please help me i want to open an active UA-cam channel. I don't know how to go about it. I dont have the finance to join in your master class, I would have loved to. Am just a new mom who is looking for something to support my family bikonu 🙏.
I’m moving back next year January. No shame at all, i am tired and i want peace in my life. Who no go no know anything 😂 My life and my decision oh.. We move next year, can’t wait
I love your smile and your video too.❤❤ I wish to be a youtuber too but my house is not fine and I don't have a good phone. I really don't know how to go about it.
God bless you Dyna for this word from God- I was born in the UK but I have never been happy here, I am working hard to move back home to Nigeria, my children live with my ex wife and she is a very difficult woman, but I believe that with Gods help. when I move back home to Naija, my children will be coming to see me and hopefully even stay- There;s no place like home, UK is over rated and with their LGBTQ policies everywhere, the society has been corrupted- Let me know if you have any reliable real estate agent in Portharcourt who I can contact to buy land and start building something- Thanks and God bless
Although Dyna is possibly right in her description of Japa it's more than just traveling but the desperate urge especially among the youths to get out of a non working system to another place for possibly better life.
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There is no shame in returning if things are not working out for you. Better come back sane than being depressed and reducing your quality of life.
Am asking myself the same thing what is Shame to return to your home country??? You live there before. Life adjustment is never be easy. When I moved to US with family we have everything but to adjust with culture Weather and People it was pretty difficult. She have to accept the mission because she was so excited to come back. Now she is so regrettable to move back. Give us a break to process your mind Lady!!!!!!
????? @@jennytugara9470
right
There is NO shame in returning home - During COVID - many people in the WORLD desperatly returned to their countries to preserve their DIGNITY. Nigerians should be PATRIOTIC and BRAVE and RESPONSIBLE ENOUGH TO go back to their Country and Build NIGERIAN - Vote Out CORRUPT leaders and CORRUPT POLITICAL PARTIES. IF you continue to JAPPA - Who else will re- build your Countries. There has to be a Generation of NIGERIANS That has to SACRIFICE to re-build the COUNTRY. FIGHT LIKE HELL GOR YOUR COUNTRIES- STOP BEING SELFISH JUMPING OFF SHIP AND JAPPA - IT IS COWARDICE.
exactly
When you have really made money, there is no better place to enjoy it than at home with your OWN people. that is why the rich Nigerians are in Nigeria. For those shaming people who decide to return, most of them prefer you to be there to keep funding their lifestyle while stressing yourselves out. It's not out of love for you, it is so they could exploit you or keep enjoying what you left behind. Why will people question an adult on decisions to come back to their roots when they feel so?
Interesting video and very informative.
There is no shame. No matter where you go in the world you will be a minority you will be black.once you can maintain yourself and your family you have a roof over your head you are bless. Do you want the pressure of racism. It's a demeaning thing. How is home and will always be. You can be you.
There is no shame. No matter where you go in the world you will be a minority you will be black.once you can maintain yourself and your family you have a roof over your head you are bless. Do you want the pressure of racism. It's a demeaning thing. How is home and will always be. You can be you.
@@karendorsett1247 facts
True, many people asking why did you come back, are only asking in disapproval because of your no longer able to fund their lifestyles in Nigeria.
I agree with you
Whatever works for you do it and have peace of mind that’s how I see life
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End of story!
My family and i returned 7 months ago from the US and have been living our best lives, no pressure, no stress, having family around and the warmth environment of seeing people everywhere when you walk on the streets is everything. I call the US a ghost country, you only see people in their cars, the streets are dry
Before I left abroad and returned back to Nigeria about 3 weeks ago, I stumbled on this channel and it was instrumental in making my final decision to come back home and now I am home, I am watching this video and it also gave me the confirmation that I have made the right decision, my people said when your journey is tough, return back home, I did just that!
I live outside naija and I miss naija. I hope our Government can get it together soon so many will japada. Abroad na suffering and smiling . Even your next door neighbor doesn’t care about you. You know deep down you are neither wanted nor respected there.
Really?
I beg to differ. There is more suffering in Nigeria
There's no place like home. I lived in the U.S. for 10 years. I spent the 11th year traveling around the world. In the end, I returned to my homeland, Jamaica to settle. My income is from the U.S. So, affording my monthly expenses is not as bad as if I were earning in Jamaican Dollars. Life is much more peaceful in Jamaica.
Hello, I just want to teach Nigerians how to say the word KENYA
you don't say KEYA, or KEA
also, don't say Kenia or KEN-YA (as in can ya?)
THIS IS HOW YOU SAY IT: *Kenya*
emphasis IS on - NYA. the *nya* must be pronounced.
And to our brothers in Uganda, please please please, don't say KINYA.
Lol @@phynnie
@@phynnieare you okay??
@@phynnie, well if I may ask, what does Kenya, Kinya etc has to do with this topic?
People don't know the feeling of home after being overseas. People at home cannot value Africa as much as those who have lived outside their home country for any period of time. Home is Home. Africa is beautiful and home sweet home.
Thank you for the advice. You don't know that you have saved some people who are planing to come back but they are thinking otherwise. Good job.
The abroad of a thing isn't for everyone. Instead, of sufferings & depression, better return home where there is love and togetherness😊.
Wallahi!
When people very close to you begin to kpai, you then realise that life is really short; you ask yourself if you kpai now, did you really live? Then you decide to make decisions according to your preference not minding the side noise. 'Live before you leave' becomes your motto. There shouldn't be any shame returning to your place of origin. That statement you made; suppressing the needs of your kids to fund people back home... it hit me really deep... Thank you for this video, my sis!
@@flourishandboom247 you hit the nail on the head ! Perfecto ! That’s the dead truth .
Shame????? I don't see any shame there ohhhh. If you were suffering, that's a different case. I've lived in U.S for 25 yrs and I got tired of living there and came back home to Nigeria. There's just no place like home. I don't see anything wrong with that. As long as you can travel anytime you choose.
Yess
That's my prayer. Have lived 22 years here and I'm very tired already. I want to go Home
Japada is the new Japa..you’re looking so fresh and young! Nigeria is good to you😍
Thank you ❤
😂😂😂😂❤❤❤ iam Zambian...but I understand the phrase indeed let all our African pipo japada back!!! We are here waiting 😂😂😂they will find us
You did well by coming back. Dangote and all Nigerian multi millionaires are still in Nigeria and foreigners are still coming to invest, we have hyper city, ShopRite and other shops popping up in every corner of Nigeria and run by foreigners, I will stay here till my change comes, we all need to think and start small and from where we can and boom! One day you will hit the jackpot with God on your side. Welcome to Pitakwa my city! ❤❤😂
Amen . Nigeria is blessed
Thank you 😅
ShopRite was bought over by Nigerian six years ago.
Gbamsolutly. You will never see a rich person living abroad. They only visit
Please do you recommend coming back to Nigeria I wil like to come back I grew up in America but I see the advantage in having a house back home
Your environment is truly beautiful ❤️
I just returned back to Nigeria from South Africa for about a month now and I am even asking myself why did I even leave in the first place.
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Same with me 2weeks ago I felt at peace immediately I came back.
@@ifeomaihemefor1577 Congratulations 🎉
Awww
Sis you are right,I’m waiting for my kids to go to college in the next three years, I will be going back to Nigeria GOD willing ❤
Waiting for my daughter to go to college in the next 4 years and heading back to Senegal or The Gambia.😊
@@el16ful you are welcome my darling . Jama rek !
Me too❤
Everyone should always be Welcomed back home.There should be No shame.After all Africa is Beautiful ‼️❤️🇺🇲
Yess❤
The place is beautiful my dear 👍 I love your glasses Sis 🥰 I love the chat. You are looking good. You are right, the Japa ,Japada vibes is real . This generation is different on a serious note. May God bless everyone,and make a way where there is no way
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@@dynaekwuemeThank you so much Beautiful.🎉
Iam Zambian and i will never leave ..so i stil say .. welcome home .home is Africa regardless of which part ❤❤❤
NOTHING to be ashamed of hun. As a LIVING being, movement is part of life. What matters is that you have a good relationship with your maker & that you are in good health.
Dyna, you went back to Nigeria for a very good reason so that your children can improve their speech, for their social interaction with other children and for them to attend an English speaking school.
A lot of younger people are taking their destinies into their hands not waiting or relying on anyone
Some people sha, that was an insensitive question to ask. The glasses looks good on you mama👌👌👌
Thank you ❤
I love your glasses , they look good on you 🥰🥰🥰🥰
The system in Saudi Arabia and the Middle East is very simple. There is no pathway to citizenship. If the husband is the one on work visa, (usually the case as Kuwait does not permit husbands to be on dependent visa), there is none for the wife. The husband also has to pay a dependent's fee to the government and it is very expensive. Once your work visa is no longer renewed, your stay there is over and it is bye bye. So Japa to Middle East is not permanent. You must return after some years. Let me also say it clearly: Japa without a pathway to citizenship is an incomplete Japa. I speak from an economic standpoint and I do not think it is a matter of shame at all. I also came back to Nigeria after 5 years abroad and I am investing heavily with what I managed to pick up from there. In fact, we built a house in 3 months from foundation to completion and it made a lot of noise in the village. Fear sef no gree any relations ask me why I come back.
Which countries is best for travels to school and work?
same question ⁉️
There is no shame in returning ! We live in new times
Soooo comforting to listen to you speak. I’m born and raised in the UK and I wanna come back but all online discourse discourages it, even my family🥲
dyna i won’t tire in saying that ‘God gave me the common sense to japada 20 years ago. ‘ i thank God i did , my children benefited most , they are now fully loaded with African sense and education and have japa’d back to the states well equipped to fully take care of all the advantages the west has to offer . they walk head and shoulder above most they left here .
This is beautiful. I hope I can do this for my kids now that they’re babies.
We shall see. Time will tell who's head and shoulders above who 😂
@@masterlightjames950 there are 2 sides to everything. OMG our beloved Nigerians, being in my mid 60 I’ve since learnt to take you our big brothers and sisters in small doses .
Where I’m from we measure standing based on proper morals , ethics and values . Home training. Respect for humankind. So pls spare me . These types of stinging comments make fb et all distasteful . I hold no spite in my bone .
@@suzy_q1 like I said, time will tell.
@@masterlightjames950did what the lash said about her kids bother you? And if so, why?😊
My take on the japada matter is that there is no place like home. Anywhere your umbilical cord is buried your spirit is there. I'm working towards it too
That’s how they ask me if I am really back or just visiting 😅
I am happy to return home 🏡🇳🇬
My dear you are the younger version of me. I have always loved home and I think it’s time for us to do what is best for us.
I currently live in the states but heaven knows am moving back to my sweetest country Nigeria 🇳🇬
Madness! How can someone suggest that it is a shame to return to one's country of birth? Would you rather return to Siberia?
As someone who moved back to Nigeria from the UK, I would advise people to do what works for them. Take into consideration what's best for your family's situation and block out all the noise, because there will be noise and nay-sayers. I don't regret it one bit and will move back abroad once my children are grown a bit as I don't think there's a better place to raise kids than in Nigeria.
Some of them went there for citizenship and the moment they got it, they returned back home.
Dats my next move 😂
My move too😅😅
2 years ago, I left Canada with wife and 3 kids (we are all Canadian citizens) to Nigeria - we love it and don't think we will ever return except when kids grow for universities
No shame just FOCUS on what you want to achieve in your life and remember you can flourish anywhere
yes you have said it or me I just come back from Turkey to Nigeria to base in Nigeria just 3 weeks ago
For me there's no place like home living here has made me realize it and appreciate Nigeria even more, yes things are not the way we want,yes the economy is still not stable, but guess what my heart is in naija i really cannot wait to go back, i hate when some Nigeria try to paint Nigeria like a horror movie 😂 and make it seem like things are just so horrible there and nothing is good I even get friends from naija telling me not to go back. but for where nothing go change my mind I'm still gonna return back cause living here is not any better apart from the more money of course which is sweet 😂 but Naija all the way!! People definitely won't understand the peace ☮️ but those that gets it get it..😊😊😊
The reason Nigerians in Nigeria paint Nigeria like horror movie is because they have have been deceived that outside is paradise and there is no stress and they get everything without stress, but the same people cannot maintain band A electricity even when it’s mostly 24hr
@@Ranking007-tq9ng this!! Fr you're right, hmm when they finally get the real reality about the abroad then they'll understand.
@@favouratta6047 The crazy thing is that those of them who travel abroad and finally get the reality will hide if from those back home while they continue to stay abroad and deal with the stress.
Collect Papers first oo
What you’re describing is called brain-drain. The best of best leaving the country while the fresh blood has no one to teach them. It’s a great thing in terms of opportunities for the younger & qualified ones among us however, if not managed well we see mishaps in the industries you pointed out. Even in the UK, most British doctors and nurses are moving to Australia and Canada and you still see the same thing happening there especially with immigrants who weren’t trained there struggling to fill in the gap. The world is making a huge shift and most people don’t even know why they are going where they are going. As for me and my family, we die here in Nigeria. Japa or Japada at the end of the day, go to sleep every night knowing you’re happy where you are, that’s all that matters
On point.❤❤
Yess
U said it’s all
Honestly if I could earn the money I make in the Uk right now I’ll just move back to Nigeria. Let people ask questions , dem go ask tire
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@@dynaekwueme 😂
Am so happy watching 16 minutes video without skipping by the way you look beautiful as always Nne
Very refreshing video!
You are right, the whole world is going through an economic depression.
I learned a few things from your video. I wasn't aware of this "shame of returning back" but it explains quite a bit to me.
All the best to you and your country.💓 Much love from Germany.
You have such contagiously positive vibes, I needed to subscribe immediately.🥰
14:50 PS: "You cannot shame the shameless" What a great line. I like it.: 😂
I really enjoyed your topic. Really insightful. A topic most Nigerians need to talk more about . Infact people should start holding public lecture on this topic for diasporans and those at home All for Nation building. Keep it up Aunty Dyna
You addressed this topic very well.😊
I need more hot spot in that Area and I enjoyed watching
Dyna, your glasses are so nice. Life in Africa is not always easy but surely everything will work out. Aww your son and the hi and the chicken. The ambience of the hotel is very nice. Thank you for showcasing 😊.
Thank you ❤
Good talk my dear may God continue to bless and protect you and your family in JESUS CHRIST name Amen You are highly welcome
omg I know this road its so close to my house in Nigeria! Like it brings back memories fr I walk here all the time to genesis, everyday supermarket, Killimanjaro
it's so good to do you and dont mind the noise because everyone has his or her own personal lives that has nothing to do with those who are always carrying red pens to shame other. We really need to leave according to our own plans not the societies plans
Yess
Sincerely, I am also about doing what works for me,
Welcome back to Nigeria and I believe that it will continue to Favor you,
Lovely video ❤
I notice many beings in Nigeria dnt mind their bussiness and I hate it. If I come back how is that your concern
The downside of the medical staff looking younger is experience. Most of the younger doctors do not have the experience of the older ones.
How will they get the experience if they aren't given the opportunity? Did they go to medical school for fancy.
I am one of those who is planning to leave the US to go back to my country.
I'm leaving US to Nigeria next month. We will be good. There is no place like home.
All the best!
@safinatusodangi621 I wish this was me...mine is next year but I am so ready. I always feel like each new day should be my set date!😂 happy for you. I pray my expectations come quickly so I can gt out too. I've had enough of America
@@ighomercy5024 I wish you all the best.
I am too
Dis girl,you ought to be a journalist, you are too good at it.
The west is falling. Those with sense are going back home.🇳🇬🇯🇲🇬🇭
You're glowing mama❤
Thank you ❤
I return back home after 12 years in South Africa with no plan of coming home... God punish shame.... ... It's better to laugh you than to burry you...
I japadaad 8 years ago. At first I felt ashamed when people began to ask for reasons. But only me knew Nigeria was the best option at the time and it had to do with raising children.
First time watcher.. First of all love the story telling you kept me engaged. And yea the shame for the most part esp in the younger generation has more or less been erased. And that’s a good thing pls.
It’s all about choice, while some people would rather live and die in one country, others choose to explore the globe. Whatever one’s reason, they should own it and not be made to feel bad about it.
So much wisdom in one video
Why will there be shame though, one thing Staying in America has taught is not to be ashame of me or what I do to survive. Life over here is crazy, home is relaxed and restful
Sis Dyna, Your skin is glowing big time oo,, i m so happy 4 u
Abeg live them na them get their 👄, but mama dyna your skin is shining ❤❤
Sincerely dyna, you just made me feel better with this topic and I also got the encouragement to go bk home I am also a dependant in the us and my husband is almost done with is work here, we hv bn here for 4yrs but yet I don’t feel happy couple with fact that am convient here I don’t know why is still feeling like am not living but at thesame time I am scared of going bk home because of the present situation in Nigeria but with this video I am getting some relief from my fears. Thank you
Make a video about health insurance options in Nigeria. I want to buy one for my family.
Go to a hospital
Yess I second this
You are right regarding jobs. There are more job opportunities compared to before.
It’s only the ignorant that does not know that times are changing worldwide. The world can never go back to normal , now is the time to take one day at a time and do you.Very soon all these people that kept monies abroad would wake up one day and puff goes all the wealth only what they have here is what would sustain them a time of Great Depression is coming for the corrupt rich.
I think some of them moved there without the right visa and vanished in the system, so coming back might mean not going back again.
Be deceiving yourself
@@Ranking007-tq9ng Did you read well?
@@nancyackon Yes I did; and what you are insinuating is that there wouldn’t be any reason for anyone to come back if they travel with the right visa and I am telling you that’s false, cause people with valid or right visas also return, those who even return the most are those who already have citizenship
@@Ranking007-tq9ng You didn't read well, I am only refering to those who went there without the right documents.
Those with right documents can always come if the want to. That's not a problem.
@@nancyackon Again, your allegation is false, how can you claim I don’t read well when your comment never ended with those who has papers can always go back?
Plus this topic was specifically about people who decided to return back home to continue their lives in Nigeria, either they have papers or not is irrelevant.
If they can go back or not is a different topic entirely, so stop trying to underplay my sense of comprehension, simply because you don’t want to accept that your comment is either false or irrelevant to this conversation.
Wow i can totally realate 😢, is been 1 year now since i and my husband came back from Dubai and we have been in Lagos and feeling ashamed of going to Enugu our state due to what people will say
you are very correct ,i noticed as well when i came back to Nigeria the Guys and ladies i see working in banks ,i can't imagine it many years ago.
thank God u are still alive God is everything
True.. there has actually been more job vacancies for health practitioners who chose to stay back since the japa trend. Federal and state hospitals are short staffed hence giving more employment opportunities for health practitioners. I mean the space of those that japa has to be filled now😂
I'm pH brought up but based in the Abroad. Planned to move back to Africa. This summer didn't work out. Hopefully next summer or if the magic happens.
Wherever you are, make it work for you❤❤❤
Love the lenses and will soon be purchasing back
I'm the first here
Forget that shame when you're in one piece and sane.
Allot of people have realized that life is short after COVID.. Here today gone tomorrow people want to do what makes them happy. They want to be real with themselves and live their own dream, not the dream that others have for them. At the end of the day it’s between you and God. Where is he sending you is we’re you will be most content.
Life changed after the pandemic for sure
There is no shame in coming back home if you come from a good family that is willing to take care of you, especially if you didn't come back with much in terms of skills or a healthy bank balance. People can be quite uncharitable .
Loving this glasses
The camera quality for me ❤❤❤❤
Dyna @9:42 abeg you're making so much sense, you are even right in some of the instances you gave, though you said you aren't sure and might be wrong... Loving the fact that you choose to talk about these types of topics, also the environment🌴🌲
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Am in UK but am planing to come home, i can't deal with the child care...
Same o. I want more children but how can I cope? Will I drop off all my children with one person?
Your video is so timely! 😄 I’m moving out of here (Czech Republic) soon and all I keep hearing is village people might be calling you. When I have said countless times that I do not want to live here and it’s the same negative feedback that has made me stay a little longer. It’s annoying mehn. I didn’t even think of it as shaming, I just thought they didn’t understand. But truly it is a level of shaming. It is well o.
Thank God you came back with your sernity .
Mummy jachi please help me i want to open an active UA-cam channel. I don't know how to go about it. I dont have the finance to join in your master class, I would have loved to. Am just a new mom who is looking for something to support my family bikonu 🙏.
I’m moving back next year January.
No shame at all, i am tired and i want peace in my life. Who no go no know anything 😂
My life and my decision oh.. We move next year, can’t wait
Loving this glasses o
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Home is where the heart is ❤
Mummy Dyna you're really looking stunning,,, keep the face looking stunning 🥰
Yes, you are right about younger people getting jobs now.
I love your smile and your video too.❤❤
I wish to be a youtuber too but my house is not fine and I don't have a good phone.
I really don't know how to go about it.
God bless you Dyna for this word from God- I was born in the UK but I have never been happy here, I am working hard to move back home to Nigeria, my children live with my ex wife and she is a very difficult woman, but I believe that with Gods help. when I move back home to Naija, my children will be coming to see me and hopefully even stay- There;s no place like home, UK is over rated and with their LGBTQ policies everywhere, the society has been corrupted- Let me know if you have any reliable real estate agent in Portharcourt who I can contact to buy land and start building something- Thanks and God bless
🎉🎉🎉🎉congratulations mama danna.
Nice video and a very interesting topic. Please try and do a thyroid functioning test. ✌🏾✌🏾
You're back🎉 Yeah!!! Girl I was looking for you, forgot your channel name & was looking for you in Dubai, but I'm glad you're back home😊
The younger doctor thing is so true even in Lagos here i brgan to wonder whether this is a conspiracy 😂😂
Dayna I am from Panamá country can you tell me wath """ Jappa"" means I don't know.
Traveling out of somewhere in search of greener pasture. It’s a Nigerian slang
Although Dyna is possibly right in her description of Japa it's more than just traveling but the desperate urge especially among the youths to get out of a non working system to another place for possibly better life.
You made some valid points Dyna! There's no shame biko😊