GIRL CHAT: Finances, Having a Baby, Modesty Journey, & Married Life!

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 215

  • @pebbles8296
    @pebbles8296 9 місяців тому +84

    Amanda is the most down to earth out of the asad sisters

  • @maryr8594
    @maryr8594 10 місяців тому +172

    I just hate how obsessed our culture is with asking people invasive questions like when they are getting married or having kids! It’s no one else’s business at all. Some people seriously have no respect or shame. Amanda you don’t owe anyone anything!!

    • @maryr8594
      @maryr8594 10 місяців тому +4

      Also, there’s no one right way to do things and people need to understand that.

    • @nidaqamar3246
      @nidaqamar3246 9 місяців тому +3

      I agree but when u tubers make videos where they share so much of their lives i guess people think its justified to ask such invasive questions.

  • @yesokno
    @yesokno 10 місяців тому +387

    the fact people think you would get jealous of your sisters is ridiculous.

    • @AmandaAsad
      @AmandaAsad  10 місяців тому +75

      I know I thought so too lol!

    • @greenbananas12378
      @greenbananas12378 10 місяців тому +11

      So true and scary! I guess some people truly have such jealousy and evil eye even towards their own family 😭

    • @damirage2010
      @damirage2010 9 місяців тому +1

      Well there is something like that but with these sisters you could see the closeness between them plus they are all beautiful,married working what jelousy will they have subhanallah

  • @aaliyahhhhhhh335
    @aaliyahhhhhhh335 10 місяців тому +109

    I am so sorry for the pathetic comments that people have been saying about whether you’re pregnant or not. Firstly we have no idea what Amanda or any woman is going through. Secondly just because a couple is married for a year or more. Doesn’t mean they need to have a child straight away. Until Amanda says she’s pregnant. People back off

    • @Divine-cx8qy
      @Divine-cx8qy 10 місяців тому +25

      Also not every couple has to have kids . People need to mind their own business

    • @aaliyahhhhhhh335
      @aaliyahhhhhhh335 10 місяців тому +1

      @@Divine-cx8qyexactly

    • @Les_lee
      @Les_lee 10 місяців тому +4

      I hate that question so much Unless someone says it its not happening. I wish people would stop asking women that

  • @mmt6069
    @mmt6069 10 місяців тому +35

    I think because of the internet and the vlogging culture, parasocial relationships have become a thing where the audience feels as though they know the person they're watching on a screen. But we must remember, everything that is posted is not the whole story, we just get glimpses of a curated online persona. Before we make assumptions or speak ill of anyone, we must remind ourselves that these are real people with real feelings. Please be kind.

  • @kristincarlson110
    @kristincarlson110 10 місяців тому +40

    I completely respect that you are not rushing into having children. That’s very adult.

  • @CarolinaTorres-fg7so
    @CarolinaTorres-fg7so 9 місяців тому +13

    I loved this candid video. You’re definitely someone who I enjoy watching, I think it’s so amazing how much recognition you give your followers. I wish you all the continued success.❤️

  • @TheresaVu
    @TheresaVu 10 місяців тому +18

    Thank you for creating this video, Amanda! I especially love the last part of the video when you expressed your love and gratitude to us, your viewers! We're here to support you!! May God continue to bless you and your family! 💜

  • @hananehanjoura685
    @hananehanjoura685 9 місяців тому +1

    i love these kinds of videos and i love seeing you grow :) it helps me as well because i find myself also growing up and getting married and trying to be more modest and its so nice seeing someone go through the same things ❤️

  • @elta552
    @elta552 10 місяців тому +8

    You have such genuine and sweet energy Amanda! I love your videos 🤍

  • @PastleLif3
    @PastleLif3 10 місяців тому +26

    I honestly think you are a very honest and caring person especially the way you answered the last question about modesty! You are so loved!

  • @glitterandducttape
    @glitterandducttape 10 місяців тому +4

    Thank you for the comforting words and advice. It's what I needed. Peace and blessings to you and your family and everyone here.🙏💖🕊

  • @sittstands
    @sittstands 9 місяців тому +9

    Your response to the questions on finances really showed how mature you really are, Amanda! Especially about the part on financial stability, I really liked how you explained how financial stability had different meaning to people in different phases of life. I love your videos and I try to binge them all at one go because I love hearing you talk and share about your day! Hope you're having an excellent time in Jordan/Turkey right now!

  • @denahussain
    @denahussain 10 місяців тому +43

    I’ve been a quiet follower of you for a few years now and we are going through the same point in life (ie just married, moving in together, similar career passions). I really resonated with you when you talk about where you want to live vs what makes sense for a family in the distant future. I absolutely love where my husband and I live, however our families live in 2 separate cities where neither of us currently believe we’ll be happy. Yet I recognize the importance of having family nearby when it comes time to have children. Inshallah we both figure it out and trust in Allah’s plan! Loved this video ❤️❤️

  • @fizakhan6715
    @fizakhan6715 10 місяців тому +2

    I love loved this video!! My fav videos of you sisters is the girl talks!

  • @Alice-zj6lp
    @Alice-zj6lp 9 місяців тому +2

    This was a wonderful video, Amanda. Good job connecting with the audience and you're so relaxed! Enjoy you and your sisters!

  • @juliechoudury6912
    @juliechoudury6912 10 місяців тому +3

    Completely understand and relate to your point about feeling guilty about parents being by themselves x

  • @khgunter123
    @khgunter123 9 місяців тому +11

    I truly love you and your family. Not sure if this is weird to say, but I just feel like I’m sitting with someone I have known forever when I watch your videos or speak in messages to each of you. As always, may God bless you and your family always. ❤️

  • @BlueBonnetBren
    @BlueBonnetBren 10 місяців тому +45

    Amanda I’m soooo glad I found your channel this year, I’m in my late thirties, Mexican and conservative, and I feel like your content is relatable to so many women!

  • @salsjas724
    @salsjas724 10 місяців тому +3

    You’re amazing!!
    I seriously love you back ❤😂

  • @sashaheer6552
    @sashaheer6552 10 місяців тому +4

    Your voice is so relaxing… absolutely love your content!! ❤

  • @SamaaEzzeddine
    @SamaaEzzeddine 9 місяців тому +1

    Every topic including watching you do makeup has been great. Thank you so much for this video and the great advise.
    Ps. I may have teared up at your genuine thanks at the end of the video ❤

  • @Samira27
    @Samira27 10 місяців тому +3

    You do you girl! Loved watching 💗

  • @nnureen
    @nnureen 9 місяців тому +2

    Totally agree with you on the need to have financial stability for both partners

  • @yesokno
    @yesokno 10 місяців тому +2

    loved this video soo much🤍

  • @Maferja1110
    @Maferja1110 10 місяців тому +1

    Really like this video! 😊 You're such an eloquent and relatable person

  • @ummumayr1911
    @ummumayr1911 10 місяців тому +8

    Yeah I really like Amanda shes so gentle you can tell ❤

  • @nadakaba7748
    @nadakaba7748 10 місяців тому +6

    Salam Amanda, the last message you are giving us is very nice, thanks for your duaas ❤ I’ve been here since when you started youtube (a little bit before your corporate job I believe) and I love your videos and personality ✨I also really liked your advice about modesty and hope the best for you in this journey. Greetings from Italy ❤

  • @naziaamna
    @naziaamna 10 місяців тому +2

    I really enjoyed your video, really good advice you gave. Have a safe trip too jordan xx

  • @ammaarah3
    @ammaarah3 10 місяців тому +1

    I absolutely loved this video ❤❤

  • @amandadavispomeroy
    @amandadavispomeroy 10 місяців тому +1

    Have the best time on your trip! May God bless you & keep you safe. 💜

  • @imanebahnane6568
    @imanebahnane6568 10 місяців тому +4

    I love you sitdown girl chats ❤

  • @kawtherswn
    @kawtherswn 9 місяців тому +1

    happy that you appreciate the ones who supported u from the beginning.. im oneee 🥰🥰❤️❤️

  • @moments722
    @moments722 10 місяців тому

    Really enjoyed this video!!! You areee so awesome!

  • @Maryam-Abo-Elias
    @Maryam-Abo-Elias 10 місяців тому +2

    I liked your advice about modesty!❤
    My advice is also to know deep inside what is your aim of wearing more modestly,knowing your trigger can help alot!
    Much love to you❤

  • @slaughterthedaises
    @slaughterthedaises 10 місяців тому +1

    I felt the whole “adjusting” thing so so much! Everyone glamourises it but actually the reality is that it’s hard work! But alhamdulillah you find a good balance :) x

  • @Mia-ge7xf
    @Mia-ge7xf 10 місяців тому +1

    your advice is the besttt

  • @KarenZam
    @KarenZam 10 місяців тому +5

    There’s a lot of advantages having kids early like having the energy 😅 I had my last one a little older and it’s like starting over. . But kids are a blessing from God. No regrets. Pray for the best in your family Amanda❤

  • @larissavasquezz
    @larissavasquezz 9 місяців тому +4

    Middle child here. I always feel like that also. It is a true feeling ❤

  • @duaa9649
    @duaa9649 9 місяців тому +1

    Your videos are so therapeutic!

  • @yvonne8786
    @yvonne8786 10 місяців тому +1

    Have fun on your trip! ❤

  • @graduationday100
    @graduationday100 9 місяців тому +1

    This was so lovely to watch!!

  • @hxumera
    @hxumera 9 місяців тому +1

    Everything you said about adulting and babies IS SO ME 😮 I FEEL ya girl

  • @nailamohamed5475
    @nailamohamed5475 10 місяців тому +7

    You are a very sweet person ❤️ don't ever change!

  • @sarahcrick9092
    @sarahcrick9092 10 місяців тому +2

    Great video as usual 😀

  • @melle1003
    @melle1003 10 місяців тому +2

    i look forward to your intro music.. its a vibe.
    love your videos :)

  • @rachelstevens4526
    @rachelstevens4526 10 місяців тому

    I honestly enjoy these type of videos the most

  • @linaawad3721
    @linaawad3721 10 місяців тому +3

    Love ur videos Amanda and I’m Palestinian too and live in Sweden 🇸🇪🇵🇸just got married this summer also 😂 u really inspire me a lot and I love Watching everything u post and share 💘

  • @dimacutanor-ain9206
    @dimacutanor-ain9206 10 місяців тому +9

    We truly love you, Amanda♥️

    • @AmandaAsad
      @AmandaAsad  10 місяців тому +4

      I love you guys 🥺🥺

  • @bookslover8820
    @bookslover8820 9 місяців тому

    I love how u talk about everything. You have such a great ❤️ heart. I'm a big fan.

  • @user-wz6fr9yv2c
    @user-wz6fr9yv2c 10 місяців тому +3

    Amanda I love your content you don’t upload enough 😢

  • @SumayyahAli-bw3bm
    @SumayyahAli-bw3bm 10 місяців тому +5

    Hey Amanda
    I just wanted to let you know you are AMAZING ❤

  • @user-jo5wc9hh3w
    @user-jo5wc9hh3w 10 місяців тому +3

    Amanda you are such a mature and sweet women . I am so sorry about all the comments you have been getting from some nosy people who cannot mind there own business.Even though you are a content creator you do not need to share everything
    Having a baby is a very private matter and until you are 100 percent ready everyone needs to wait .love u

  • @deborah10ism
    @deborah10ism 10 місяців тому +3

    New subscriber love your channel been binge watching 😊

  • @cathleenlemes3795
    @cathleenlemes3795 10 місяців тому

    My favorite UA-camr/influencer❤ have a safe and fun trip with your husband!

  • @sevinjaa655
    @sevinjaa655 10 місяців тому +1

    thank you Amanda, we love you too ☺💖🤗 have a nice trip 🌺

  • @anzalinahamid-allie7432
    @anzalinahamid-allie7432 10 місяців тому +20

    You are such a genuine person and it comes through so easily in your videos…wish you the best always inshaAllah.

    • @AmandaAsad
      @AmandaAsad  10 місяців тому +5

      That is so nice of you to say 🥺 thank you so much!

  • @kristinfragrances
    @kristinfragrances 9 місяців тому +3

    Sending you lots of love Amanda! Thank you for being here with us!

  • @Deborah_Princess
    @Deborah_Princess 10 місяців тому +3

    I loved this video so much! Amanda you’re the sweetest thing✨

  • @chhf08765
    @chhf08765 9 місяців тому +1

    We love you Amanda 💕

  • @H.19722
    @H.19722 10 місяців тому +14

    Amanda, I've been following for maybe the last four years and have seen you grow up this whole time. I'm not gonna lie, I've been aware of all the drama that's been going on on the Internet and omg how can you stay so chill? I would've exploded with rage haha. But I kust want you to know, you're such a great woman, beautiful (and we've got the same hair girl thanks for all your tutorials!!) You've inspired me in so many ways for the past years and I just wanted to tell you: be yourself, stay as you are and your Q&A was a 100% honest and I LOVE it! Lots of love from Germany ❤

    • @Kay35253
      @Kay35253 9 місяців тому

      What drama? Also I can't find her on insta anymore 😢

  • @sherryidibo2304
    @sherryidibo2304 10 місяців тому +20

    I don't think it is people's business whether you are pregnant or not, it is vert private and personal matter. Live your life Amanda and pretent that you never heard that rude question.

  • @brittnicrawley7180
    @brittnicrawley7180 10 місяців тому +8

    You are amazing Amanda ❤ I love all of your videos and have huge respect for you and Muhammad.

  • @BillBill0128
    @BillBill0128 10 місяців тому +13

    Amanda do what your heart needs

  • @_user360
    @_user360 10 місяців тому +2

    And we love you sooo much you are an amazing person
    I follow you from the beginning ❤

  • @shakeelahbehardien8768
    @shakeelahbehardien8768 10 місяців тому +24

    Amanda, you are such a beautiful and sensible lady, Mashallah. Your life will work out the way it ought to be and everything will happen at it's appointed time, Insha-allah. Happy living and enjoy the journey. 💙

  • @fayrouzhawarneh4607
    @fayrouzhawarneh4607 9 місяців тому +20

    Being away from family is very hard, but if you say this duaa oh Allah please keep me and my family always together, never far apart make us more don’t make us less and soon Inshallah you will find you, your brothers and your sisters, all close together inshallah my dad taught me and my family this to always ask Allah for us to be together hope this helps❤

  • @avintayaran5906
    @avintayaran5906 10 місяців тому +1

    I love your content ☺️❤

  • @marissasturzaker3483
    @marissasturzaker3483 10 місяців тому +14

    I can’t imagine living online and people talking about me being pregnant or not. It bothers me enough if I say I feel sick to someone I know and they joke and say ohh you’re pregnant. It’s just inappropriate. Why don’t people get that.

    • @elphie93
      @elphie93 10 місяців тому +1

      Yes! Also it can be unintentionally cruel if someone is struggling to conceive.

  • @halahqsb
    @halahqsb 10 місяців тому +8

    I relate to you so much Amanda,
    Strangely we’re born on the same year one day apart, I got married almost a year ago, I’m also the middle sister💁🏻‍♀️
    So I think a lot like you, and our struggles I think are alike😂

    • @Ash_Queen16
      @Ash_Queen16 Місяць тому

      That’s such a crazy coincidence

  • @butterfly-kb4cn
    @butterfly-kb4cn 10 місяців тому +22

    As far as feeling grownup, I’m 50 and still don’t feel old lol! You will do grownup things but up until 5 yrs ago it hit me physically in my looks and joints, I physically can’t do what I use to but that’s because of peri menopause. Other than that enjoy your youth and don’t take anything for granted. ETA: if anybody is reading this, the most important advice I can give is please wear sunscreen everyday! The sun damages your skin and causes wrinkles and that advice was not given to me. ❤

    • @fc849
      @fc849 10 місяців тому +1

      I heard intermittent fasting helps with pre menopausal symptoms. So maybe look into it...diet has alot to do it.

    • @butterfly-kb4cn
      @butterfly-kb4cn 9 місяців тому

      @@fc849 I’ve been trying that and adding more protein. Unfortunately I can’t eat a lot of certain foods which make me feel worse with my digestion. I’m trying though, it’s a lot of learning by trial and error.

  • @KJC1220
    @KJC1220 10 місяців тому +2

    You’re amazing!

  • @BillBill0128
    @BillBill0128 10 місяців тому +48

    Having a baby straight away wouldn’t be ideal. Unless, y’all are 100% ready. Experience life along side your family as a newly married couple since you haven’t yet. Get some perspective on life. Watch the dynamic between Lena as a mother and your parents to better prepare for what to expect. Enjoy your life and prioritize your wellbeing. Get to know your family at this stage in your life and your partners family. I feel like you’ve hit a wall living in San Antonio. Move to a busy city like Dallas or your hometown. You’re not working your husband is. So, use that alone time with your family

    • @21972012145525
      @21972012145525 10 місяців тому +1

      She is working. This is her job

  • @SalmasAwesomeWorld
    @SalmasAwesomeWorld 10 місяців тому +2

    Hope we can see you here in Jordan ❤

  • @saliha23
    @saliha23 10 місяців тому +3

    I have that too. Middle child and feel guilty all the time.

  • @nigerianrose
    @nigerianrose 10 місяців тому +1

    Aww💕 Amanda you are so sweet. We love you too💕I’ve been here from the beginning and I pray that Allah places blessings in everything you do!!

  • @blabla20005
    @blabla20005 9 місяців тому

    I absolutely understand u I also live 8 hours away from my parents and I feel so bad!!!

  • @claramiie
    @claramiie 10 місяців тому +1

    I've cried watching Barbie too 🥺🥺 I thought the movie was very funny but had a nice message at the end!

  • @frenchgirl75000
    @frenchgirl75000 10 місяців тому +8

    Enjoy your trips on Jordanie and Turkey❤

  • @jenniferm586
    @jenniferm586 10 місяців тому +4

    Regarding are you pregnant/baby questions, respond, “no, are you?”

  • @kawtharbakhach5848
    @kawtharbakhach5848 10 місяців тому +2

    I love your girl chats ❤😊

  • @Dreamer30190
    @Dreamer30190 4 місяці тому

    What bathrobe would you recommend? Love the cotton one you have on here looks so Cozy

  • @beinghome
    @beinghome 10 місяців тому +9

    let me just get straight. I admire you simply the way you are. its good that I connected with this channel and its good to have people in life that reminds you the true meaning of life...simplicity, calm, peace, positivity and natural to be natural and stay natural. I feel good watching your content. no matter if days go long when I did not be able to catch up with your vlogs but know that I always come back and do click on every video that comes to my feed. InshaAllah we will be connected throughout in life.🤍and i like the simple makeup you did in today's video. it looks beautiful on you MashaAllah

  • @amaljibril2740
    @amaljibril2740 10 місяців тому

    Awh love ya too Amanda!!!!

  • @xr763
    @xr763 10 місяців тому

    I watched Leena's video yesterday and she was talking about how its so hard to visit you in San Antonio with 2 kids, InshaAllah you can move closer to your family, May Allah make it easy.

  • @hibsaarif2210
    @hibsaarif2210 10 місяців тому +1

    You have the sweetest soul like I wish I can just be your sister 😢❤

  • @Maria-by5ok
    @Maria-by5ok 10 місяців тому

    You are so easy to listen to and so nice

  • @esperanzaperez6098
    @esperanzaperez6098 10 місяців тому +2

    Love you too, always thinking positive and prayers over you in your life and now with your husband too 💕🥰

  • @redrose3360
    @redrose3360 10 місяців тому +1

    MashaAllah you look beautiful :) loved this video hope to see more in the future InshaAllah

  • @MusicBoxAlsoWater
    @MusicBoxAlsoWater 9 місяців тому

    I know I'm late haha, but I love the Houston Airport. I pass through there multiple times a year.

  • @aishashah6465
    @aishashah6465 10 місяців тому +15

    Girl you’ve got skill, how on earth can you speak and put mascara on without smudging it 🤣🤣. Loved this video btw!

  • @morgantolson1190
    @morgantolson1190 10 місяців тому

    Amanda, would you mind linking the short or long sleeve workout tops you like? Thank you!!

  • @lthomas2074
    @lthomas2074 10 місяців тому

    Amanda when you visit your parents can you do a cooking with baba video🎉!!! Miss those vlogs!!!

  • @neesazidane3396
    @neesazidane3396 9 місяців тому

    I love your mascara! What brand is it from?

  • @hadeersaad4868
    @hadeersaad4868 7 місяців тому

    Amanda is so cute and kind

  • @saliha23
    @saliha23 10 місяців тому +4

    How to deal with jealousy towards your siblings? My parents are not fair each one of us. I always get sacrificed for anything and they made me feel like I have to. I don’t know how to deal with this. Any help?!

    • @21972012145525
      @21972012145525 10 місяців тому +1

      Have you had a conversation about this with them? Maybe they don’t know they’re doing Thsi?

  • @hanaa3723
    @hanaa3723 10 місяців тому +1

    Love your videos! Can you add timestamps?

  • @21972012145525
    @21972012145525 10 місяців тому

    I love your intro music. Can you share where it’s from? It reminds me of the music from oj: made in America (an amazing documentary).

  • @einas1995
    @einas1995 10 місяців тому

    You’re sooo beautiful inside-out MashaAllah ❤

  • @nazlkutlu5972
    @nazlkutlu5972 10 місяців тому +1

    so much love from Turkey!

    • @oandr1
      @oandr1 9 місяців тому

      She is arap not Turkish

    • @nazlkutlu5972
      @nazlkutlu5972 9 місяців тому +2

      @@oandr1 I am Turkish and I sent love from Turkey.

    • @oandr1
      @oandr1 9 місяців тому

      @@nazlkutlu5972 i thought Turks don’t like Arabs

    • @nazlkutlu5972
      @nazlkutlu5972 9 місяців тому +1

      @@oandr1 This is my first time to hear that kind of opinion. I don't think so. In Turkey, there are lots of people who are Arabs. Some of my relatives are some of them, too.