I have raised Doberman for 25+ years. It doesn't matter if someone makes friends with them if you as the owner show fear or distress the dog WILL react. It does not matter how friendly the weirdo thinks the dog is🤣🤣🤣
That is exactly what they were bred for. My big baby boy is so laid back until there is an unexpected noise. Then he is in full alert mode ready for action.
I had the softest husky in the world! But you even raise your voice a level at me or show any negativity towards me and she'd sit right next to me wishing a mfer would. The best part about my husky is she was broken and not vocal AT ALL well unless I left her home alone of course then my neighbors hated her lmao said it sounds like I was keeping a wolf in there 😂 but she would never make a sound if she'd attack, you'd see absolutely no aggression to think she'd attack you until it was too late. Love my Shiba! My oldest is 17 and when she is finally on her own my New home present is going to be a scary looking dog who loves her!
My Shih Tzu has been my guiding light for sniffing out assholes. Probably... should have listened to the little dude about my ex. My Finkie dork is also very good at figuring out who he likes and who he doesn't. And boy I hope you like 45 pound lap dogs if he likes you.
As a Property Manager of a 33 Unit Complex, I have absolutely evicted someone for stalking another tenant. If something becomes wrong with a window lock, I will personally go and buy thick, cut dowel rods to put in the windows, until they can be replaced. Hearing stories where they allow women to be left to their own devices with this shit, then punish them when they decide they have to leave. Awful management. I'm so sad she had to deal with that. :(
I moved into a neighbour hood full of old people, we have a ladies man from the old days. he puts on karaoke parties every Saturday for all the neighbours to come too, they sing all the old classics. its beautiful how you can hear him sing Elvis with all his heart, while I'm washing the pots lol. every body's really lovely.
When I moved into my first apartment by myself, I was on the first floor in a not so great neighborhood and the first neighbor I ever met ended up being a super nice single dad that would invite me over to birthday parties. But he was adamant that if I ever felt unsafe I could just bang on the wall and he would rush over. He also let me watch his sweetheart pitbull whenever he wasn't home so I wasn't ever completely alone and had a safeguard in place in case something happened. He restored my faith in humanity and I'm grateful every day for him because the one time I left my door unlocked and somebody just walked in without knocking I was watching her and she jumped up into guard mode and scared the random man that was walking through the door trying to be as quiet as possible.
my neighbors high school age kid smashed my barn windows, kicked the walls of my barn in to an irreparable state, shot a gun through my barn walls, and all I did was ask that the police inform them that I am aware of it and have it on video and that I want an apology and the broken glass cleaned up. it’s been over a year and I have not gotten that apology nor the cleanup, so I’m taking the dumb bastards to court. They’re so mad because I called the police on them for blaring loud music, drunkenly screaming, and playing basketball at 3 o’clock in the morning, they’re gonna be really happy when they get that legal notice.
@@mandrake7305 I plan on making a reddit account solely to post this when the court case is done, whether we win or not 💀🤣 it’ll be a year or more from now though, I’m not wealthy and its a few hundred dollars to go to court here 😂
Last video - (Australian here) Aussie birds are so gorgeous but also ferociously loud 🤣 the cockatoos scream, kookaburras obviously laugh but also make these evil little cackles in the early hours of the morning, and the lorikeets (essentially a rainbow parrot, the ones sitting on the lawn in the vid) make loud screechy chitters - just sit in the outside section of a restaurant during spring/summer and you’ll get an earfull
The fact that "let him break in, because then the cops will have something to act on," is actually valid advice is such a hellish reminder of the world we live in.
Yep. I was once told they couldnt remove my housemate when he went to hit me coz he didn't do anything wrong. They told me next time to let him hit me first. Wtf?
As for the poor girl being stalked: I definitely understand not wanting to have the police talk to that weirdo. Neighbor retaliation is VERY real and terrifying. I had a neighbor who would watch me do my laundry and then sneak down and STEAL MY UNDERWEAR while it was in the dryer. I was clueless why all my underwear was suddenly vanishing into thin air. I mean, I know socks and shit go missing in the dryer all the time, but 10+ pair of underwear all at once??? I knew something was up so I asked other neighbors at the time to keep an eye out. Lo and behold, one of the neighbors said “oh I took those for you! I knew they wouldn’t get clean down there and decided I needed to clean your intimates myself. I just forgot to deliver them to you.” She had an entire goddamn wall of my underwear pinned up like a trophy display. Reported her to the office, manager talked to her. Silence for one week. Then suddenly my underwear would be found on the laundry room floor, burned to mostly ashes. Cops got involved, she said I obviously forgot to clean the lint traps and she told me they wouldn’t get clean down there, so cops had to shrug it off despite the fire hazard. Manager gave ME a citation for not cleaning the lint traps. Crazy lady is still a neighbor. On the rare occasion I see her outside she still chases me down and asks me when I’m going to cook her dinner (not a CLUE what she’s talking about). We have gone through two more managers since then, but I just wash my underwear in the bath tub now and hang them to dry on the shower bar. Psycho neighbor retaliation is scarier than many think. I got LUCKY that’s all psycho lady did.
my neighbours are so good, I just have to tell you all about how good they are. I LOVE to sing and even though I'm broke, I'm blessed af to live in a huge house with a garden. Between "my" house and my neighbour's there are both of our gardens, so that's how far we are (and how loud I am). He is SO nice that instead of complaining about it and/or asking me to only sing at specific times (which I would have undestood and respected), he told my father how he loves my voice and stops the radio whenever I sing in order to listen to me 🥹 I am thankful for each second I get to spend in this house and for all lovely neighbours in the world 🤩 I wish you amazing neighbours too ❤
Crows are beautiful too. If you become friends with them, they’ll have a special call for you, they’ll bring you shiny gifts. They’ll scare away visitors. They’re awesome.
Agree, crows are so freaking smart. We have some at work and they know the times that we go to break/lunch and we feed them every single break. It’s so cute. They beg like dogs I swear.
Where do you all have smart crows that are nice and talk?? We just get giant ones that stand around stupidly and scream at each other before the sun even comes up.
They have crows there too and galahs amd grey cockatoos and dozens of different types of parrots in a range of sizes the ambient bird noises of australia are very distinctive I live it
The police talking to him won’t necessarily scare him off, it might make him, not necessarily bold, but threatened. Stalking, like sexual assault and harassment, is a power thing. She’s threatening that power and has to go. It’s pretty much why the first 6~ months of an abuse survivor leaving their abuser are the most dangerous
Yeah, my stalker had to be physically removed from the state to stop him stalking me. His grandpa (who he lived with) forced him to move to Colorado to stop him. It was terrifying, but the police said it was "all a coincidence" that he kept showing up where I was, even at work (which was really creepy because I was a dog walker, showing up around the houses I walked for wasn't a coincidence).
Yep, if only more people understood this 🙏🏼💕 a friend of mine’s ex was going into the property she’d secretly fled to and knew when she was out and how long she was out for - he’d go in and move things around or uproot plants just to show her he could. I think he must have been tracking her car and possibly been hacked into her devices and even though she had a restraing order, the police still said there was nothing they could do unless he physically harmed her.
@@WRLDofHRTit’s absolutely horrifying that you need to actually be assaulted in order for anyone to do a thing. My stalker was a neighbor who threatened my life and went after me. Cops did nothing. And I’m being warned an RO will escalate her violence. It’s messed up.
Exactly. Cop involvement can escalate the violence and unhinged behaviours. It’s messed up that’s even the reality much less needs to be stated. Cops don’t suddenly solve everything.
Lady with the dog makes me so glad I have my own "big scary dog." He's my (now retired cuz he old) service dog so naturally, he's not exactly a threat lol. But he sure looks like he is. No one has tried with him. And he does turn his big dog bark on when we're home and someone messes with the door. I've always appreciated that he also isn't big on being pet. Unless you're at my house regularly, like, INSIDE the house, you're not touching him lol. Makes for a brilliant guard dog who doesn't need to do a damn thing other than exist and bark on the rare occasion. Every single female should have a big dog if she can.
Can confirm: single 30yo female with 60kg rottweiler makes walking alone in the dark suddenly not as scary. I actually enjoy my strolls at night. I walk with buds in, music blasting with my dog by my side. He scares men to the point where THEY cross the road.
We have a rotty x American bully XL. Everyone crosses the road for me too. We can leave our blind open if we leave the house because he stares out the front window. Has a deep bark, no one is breaking in ❤😂
Honest question here. If properly trained, are they safe to be around children? I've been thinking of getting one for ages. I'm a single mom of two. 3 year old girl and a 6 year old boy with autism. We live in a small farm and I would feel a lot safer with one or two. My fear is that it is a fairly large dog and if one of the kids might pull an ear or something the dog might react. What do you guys think? Should i go for it?
Loved having the Rottweilers. They were generally cowards for the most part but my god, the instant someone made so much as a threatening move towards us kids, they made themselves scary enough that the moron crossed the street. As soon as the moron was out of sight, they went back to being cuddly, puppy-like cowards. Loves those dogs. Sweetest things ever. My parents current dog does the same thing they did and she's even bigger and heavier.
Good neighbors are worth their weight in gold! Mine mows my lawn, shovels snow from my driveway, takes out my trash and brings the can back in, even comes over and waters my lawn without even asking! He started doing it without telling me it was him - I had to ask if he was doing it so I knew who to thank. He's just a sweet guy who likes to help me since I'm single. I bake for him and his wife all the time!
My Neighbour does this for me too (we don't have snow though) all because I gave her my Wi-Fi and Netflix passwords as she is a pensioner. She says it gives her something to do and knows I'm exhausted after work. During lockdowns in 2019-2020 I batch cooked and kept her fed and we shared toilet paper rolls. It's been 15 years of an odd and rewarding friendship, and my property has gone from a dust bowl with weeds, to a glorious, manicured oasis with a bountiful vegetable garden. I am truly blessed.
This sounds so sweet. I wish I had nice neighbors. I try to be nice to them hold the hallway door for them and stuff like that but they are so rude. We live above them the walls are thin and we recognize how you can hear the people above you if they are loud so we walk quietly, never play music at all keep the tv quiet. Yet they are always banging on their ceiling (our floor) and screaming at 2am. Its ridiculous.
I have grown up my whole life with Dobermans and have always wanted my own someday soon for this reason, they’re extremely loyal and wonderful dogs and very protective of their owner.
I understand her not wanting to call the police tbh. Yeah, he could get the hint & it could scare him straight, but there is a big risk of retaliation from him. Don't underestimate these kind of men. HOWEVER.... yeah, you gotta report it & start a paper trail 💔 I wish all the best to people in this situation- stand up for yourself 💪🏼
@maggiecrawford2088 Baby Girl GET A BIG DOG 🐕!!! I SWEAR ON EVERYTHING WHEN YOU ARE GOOD TO THE DOG HE WILL PROTECT YOU IN ANY SITUATIONEN EVEN WHEN HE BEFRIENDED THAT HUMAN HE WILL DIE FOR YOU!!!! I'm so sorry for you sweetheart because nobody should live in constant fear 😢!!! Get a big doggi
You can go to the police without them going to the person you’re concerned about. You can tell them you just want a paper trail started IN CASE they escalate. I had to do this when my ex started stalking me, when it escalated to him stabbing a knife into the siding of my house, they had a paper trail of distance stalking and weird notes. It was enough evidence to pull prints off the knife and arrest him for menacing.
@@katharinag.5904 I actually have a husky and a German Shepherd! He threatened to kill them... and I did actually call the police to put something on file, but explicitly said not to talk to him. No one will threaten the lives of my children! 🐶🐶
What everyone is NOT realizing in the parking situation is, the note was put on her car the next day when she was parked in a free spot, it didn't say what spot or whose spot and the person who wrote the note had her number and could have easily texted her the information when the issue was happening, "hay, I see your in my spot. Can you please not park there," if not called her. If it was a AITA it would be ESH.
Oh for sure. I don’t know why people feel the need to avoid conversations as if it’s a fight to the death. Just say what you mean and mean what you say. And speak up when issues arise. We can’t grow and learn if we don’t hold each other accountable. On top of that we should also lift each other up and hold each other down. When life falls apart, we are supposed to fall together. We can only do that if we aren’t doing petty little passive aggressive behaviors.
Yeah I would have also assumed it was the spot I was currently parked in. Especially bc there was no info for the person who left it. I wouldn't have assumed it was someone I know who could have just texted me.
19:10 There is nothing better than great neighbors. One winter, my neighbor shoveled my driveway while I was sleeping. My stepmom had to leave early to go out of town, but it had snowed that night. The snow was almost to my hip and I had spent the early morning shoveling it enough to get a car out of the garage for her to be able to leave. After that, I went back to bed since it was still dark out. When I woke, I found my driveway cleared of all snow because of my neighbor. He also cleared the driveway a few other times after when the snow was too much. He and his wife were super nice and would always say hi. I will always miss him (he passed away). Another neighbor is the mayor of our town. He is super nice and helped me recently with a busted sprinkler. I know nothing about sprinklers and he helped me fix it. It is a blessing to have great neighbors who would take time out of their day to help.
Neighbor attempting to break in: But reporting it often causes people like this to lash out violently. She says her windows are ground floor and don't lock. She's already afraid of his nice-guy persona, imagine how unhinged he is when angry. Yes, a paper trail is important but it doesn't save your life in the moment when you're being violently assaulted by someone who's now angry and sees you as the problem. Reporting is important; I don't mean to sound like it isn't, but it can be very dangerous. From my personal experience here in the states it doesn't save you from harm it just adds to the perpetrators sentencing AFTER you're actually assaulted, assuming you survive to tell your story. I can definitely see why some choose to keep it to themselves and stay quiet until they can get themselves out of there. A "Don't poke the bear" mentality. I often wish that was the route I'd taken instead of reporting him and the cops saying they can't do anything other than tell him to stay away from me without proof of him breaking in and/or assaulting me. They got their proof. It left me disabled.
I'm so sorry. Here in France it's the same. Police can't do anything until AFTER an assault, and only if the victim can bring evidence of the attack and evidences of mental and physical repercussions. Fortunatly we have less and less of cops with the "yeah but you're a woman, it's your fault men attack you, because you exist" mentality. I wish you good day and stay badass and strong, fellow potato fan.
It is hard to know what to do just because of this! You’re damned if you do and damned if you don’t! I’m so sorry this happened to you😢 The justice system is broken when a POS gets to walk through a restraining order and mess your life up forever because no one took you seriously. I don’t care what anyone says, these creeps look like creeps. The police need to do their jobs and investigate them and realize they are a menace and act accordingly! Send the cop who like to rage on perps to talk to him. Maybe then they won’t show up at your door and assault you later on because they’ll get the message!! Again I’m so sorry for what happened to you ❤
Every morning, at 7, after I’ve walked my dogs, I throw a bit of bread and seed out for the birds. The crows know what time I do it and now wait for me on the house and when it’s 7 and I get home, the lookout crow, squawks loudly to let everyone know I’m back and they’ll be getting a little treat in a few minutes!😂 crows are very smart.
i used to do the same thing too when I lived in an aparment!! We lived on the ground floor and I’d throw tortillas and grains out to them. There was one female crow who was missing a leg that I always looked forward to seeing. Around fall and spring I’d see them show up and they would wait for me after school. I gave them a lot of food before I moved to a house. It makes me so sad to not feed and see them anymore 😭
I’m so blessed in the neighbor department. 3 of my neighbors were even in my wedding. We all own our houses and our children have grown and go to school together. My very best friend in the whole world even lived in the house across the street from me until she passed away on July 17th. She was always there for everything. She was my shoulder to cry on, my emergency babysitter, my cheerleader, my background music, my charger, my “hey hey sexy mama” when I needed to hear it the most… Her sudden and unexpected passing has taught us all something and brought us all closer together as community. We’ve started a board game night and rekindled a relationship with a neighbor we had a falling out with several years ago for something petty. Life is too short. Reach out to those around u. Build the village.
My husband and I are thankful for our nice neighbors. They're a young family with two boys and the grandparents visit often. One time, when we went on vacation my husband had put a temporary hold on our newspapers (he's older 😂), so thiefs scoping houses wouldn't see a pile of newpapers and rob us. Sadly, for whatever reason the newpapers were still delivered. Thankfully our neighbors picked them up and hid them behind the cushions of our patio furniture. They even noticed us coming back home and gave us a heads up as to where the newspapers were hidden. Little things like that are much appreciated.
I saved my neighbors ups packages they forgot were coming when they went on vacation. Then I noticed the mail falling out of the mailbox. 😂😂 so I had all their stuff😂😂
14:11 he wasn’t trying to break in when she was “home 30 seconds ago”. He was trying to break in WHILE SHE WAS HOME (to his knowledge). He is TRYING to access her home while she was there. He was trying to invade her home. I don’t even want to know what he was going to do.
@kpeugh2011 Lucky for him, she wasn't my daughter. He very quickly would have been introduced to my Desert Eagle .500 and my Desert Eagle.44 along with my Smith & Wesson 460.
I live in an apartment with my mother and brother. We have amazing neighbours that literally adore all of us. We get brought food by someone at least twice a month and if i see neighbours, i have no problem stopping and talking for a while. Neither does my mother. Thats what makes me happy to be in my apartment complex.
The “fight or flight” response is actually “fight, flight, freeze, or fawn”. Don’t feel bad for freezing as it is another type of response that your body does sometimes as protection!
I probably would've made the situation worse because I default to fight most of the time. I would've hit him with the dog food before he even realized I saw him. Fight can be just as bad as freeze sometimes because your body reacts before you can really think things through. Thankfully, I usually stop at words but someone attempting to violate my home (and me) would send me into a rage and I would've possibly been arrested for assault because I wouldn't have stopped at hitting him with dog food.
What's crazy about these natural reactions (fight, flight, freeze, or fawn), is that when they occur YOU HAVE NO CHOICE! Your body makes the coice for you. Such a bizarre feeling to literally not be in control.
@truecrimefan1443 I’m so glad that you found validation with this. I don’t know what happened to you, but I don’t need to. You don’t have to talk about it. Anything that elicits a response like yours has to have been pretty bad. I hope you find healing.
It’s astonishing how many people don’t know about this. It’s also referred to as “freeze or please”, as people often don’t know what “fawn” means (this surprises me too). And as with so many things related to women protecting themselves, people often don’t believe me when I tell them. I suggest to them that they google it and have to hope that they do. I really don’t want to do it for them and hand them my phone, or even continue a conversation where I have to try to convince someone that people do legitimately freeze up, when they’re clearly not interested in listening. There needs to be much more awareness about this. Trying to please the person is interpreted as “she didn’t say anything, she can’t have been that scared”. Or even worse, r**e that elicits the “freeze or please” responses will be outright dismissed with “she didn’t say no, she must have wanted it”, no matter what the circumstances are.
I’m a happily married woman and have a big scary dog. I recommend a big scary dog to any woman for protection. The way people cross the street any time my german shepherd and I go for a walk is crazy. I also recommend a conceal carry permit. Better to have it and never need it than need it and not have it. Stay safe everyone 💜
I've said that saying for years, especially for ladies, should always be prepared for something to happen. I wish it wasn't this way in the world, but it is. To all ladies, please stay safe 🫂 ❤
My sister has a Basenji Pit mix and a Boxer Pit mix...and from the side they look like sleek little paragons of boxer or tall elegant Basenji and from the front they *wide girls* so she and my niece have double scary dog privilege out and about. I have a Finnish Spitz doggo. And he looks like a stuffed toy who turns instantly into Kujo Mode when he gets the signal. I had someone once ask "When...did he get big?" He has always been big he's just got pretty privilege. Like my border Collie - sooo cute. And *so alert* and she had the two color eyes so the crazy eyes really top it off. Get you a big pup, they think they're lapdogs. (Meanwhile my lapdog is sure he is the biggest dog in the village)
I don't have a dog, I have a husband with several guns, I think I'm good 😂😂. Sadly, not every woman can have a gun depending on where they live so just a dog would have to do.
I had almost the same situation but my creepy neighbor lived above me and began retaliating with stomping, throwing things around, having loud parties, and keeping his TV volume full blast at all hours of the day and night. Also an old building with wood floors. All because I kept turning down his advances. Management spoke to him several times and he would be quiet for a few days and then start it all up again. Of course they didn't do anything about it. When she said this guy offered to give her a massage, it made my stomach drop. My old neighbor said the same thing to me. Big fat greasy middle aged man driving a big truck to make up for his shortcomings. He's the kind of guy who will start $#&@ with you on the highway if you pass him.
OMG the NOISE from those birds is insane. As a native of Brisbane, Queensland, Australia I can vouch to this. Nevermind the shit, it's the decebles these birds hit. Their screeching (especially the rainbow lorikeets when in their hundreds or thousands) can shatter glass!!!! That's just hilarious 😂😂😂
OMG yes the noise! Have you been to the weekend markets just before dawn, and *poof* at the magic moment they all take off in one go! (don't be standing under the trees as they do!)
Noise & soft turd everywhere!!! You can't dry clothes outside & have your car cleaned everytime you go out. It seems funny but that neighbor inviting the birds is insensitive. Hope he got pooped on his shirt when he's running late for work.
Can we talk about how gympie rd next to chermside shopping centre at sunset is the loudest damn place with all the rainbow lorikeets that congregate there? Too many times I’ve parked my car right under there and come back to more birdsh*t than one could comprehend on my car 😂😅
I don't blame her for not calling the police. The leader of the local gang in my neighborhood back in Chicago thought I was narcing on him (I was making a documentary for my film class) so he sent someone to break into my apartment and steal my computers. My downstairs neighbors saw the guy break in and identified him by name to the police (they called 911 before I got home), and the police refused to do anything. My other neighbor saw the leader selling my computers in a parking lot down the street (one had a very distinctive sticker) and when he called the police, they refused to do anything. He later refused to turn down his music he was drunkenly blasting in the leader's parents' building, so the leader pistol whipped him, breaking his nose. He called the police, and they arrested MY NEIGHBOR for threatening to kick the guy's ass. I went to court with him to back him up and luckily they let him off. But this stuff is ridiculous.
@dianacarbonate right?! My neighbors are always harassing me, driving by calling me names, threatening me, etc. He's always trying to bait me into fights but I've never hit him back til now. Then the cop friend of theirs was trying to arrest me. ua-cam.com/video/0MB7vh0Tnvs/v-deo.htmlsi=ViY6y8Y21rCQNMy_
Unfortunately it seems that's all they ever do. Something happens, you call police, they tell you they can't do anything until basically someone's been killed or something. It's ridiculous. How about preventing crime instead of waiting until it already happened any
When we moved into our current apartment almost a year ago, this older couple in the diagonal unit from us gifted us their couch and loveseat set because they were getting a new one and the wife of the couple saw us moving in. A couple of months later they also gifted us an air fryer/toaster oven as well as some cookware! I recently had to help the husband because they forgot to place their disability placard and his car got wrongfully towed. Good neighbors are a blessing and not to be taken for granted ❤
First woman I thought she was my best friend she not only looks so much like her but she sounds like her and acts like her Like her doppelganger The only reason i know it isn't her is because she lost all of her teeth and she has her natural reddish brown hair now and the tiktok name is different
But honestly, if she had that person's number and didn't want to put a note out while she was indeed parked in a numbered spot because of the rain - 1) why did she not text her? 2) why did she not clarify who she was or which parking spot the note pertains to or 3. (and I know this is a wild idea) just talk to her and say: 'hey, I saw you parked in my numbered spot yesterday - could you please not do this again?' and then talk about it like adults. I know, crazy idea!
First story. I totally get being mad. Because she parked in someone's spot for a moment, then sounds like she left and when she came back, she parked not in the neighbors spot. But the neighbor didn't put the note on the car until after the girl was out of the neighbors parking spot. Like if I'm no longer in your parking spot... Why put that note on the car??
Fyi for anyone wanting to know the birds Green pretty ones are rainbow lorikeets. The one white bird by itself was a corella The massive white ones are yellow crested cockatoos All are from australia :)
I got a Malinoi to keep me safe when my husband is away. Yeah, that backfired. She's scared of everything! A bird flies too close, hide behind mama. So I took in a hoard of feral of cats, and these psychos are all about protecting the one who feeds them. They're the best ❤
I feel like I misunderstood the the parking spot story, from what I understood OP was in an unassigned free spot, and the neighbors tried to claim it was theirs and wouldn't contact OP directly, then OP parked in a different spot and the neighbor the next day put a sign in reference of the previous spot so I understand the frustration there. Or did OP actually park in the neighbours parking spot?
My mom and before her my grandpa feed the crows. After my grandpa died those crows came everyday for months waiting on him. Crows are intelligent birds and will even bring treasures to those that feed them.
I love crows and have them nesting here. What I don’t love about crows is that they bring people’s scraps and drop them in my yard. It wouldn’t be a problem except some of the stuff they drop is dangerous if my dogs eat it - cooked bones, pork fat, chocolate or a stick of butter . Any of which could potentially kill my dogs.
This is harder than I expected.. I lost my dad yesterday and one memory I have is during covid while taking care of him and his broken leg.. I always watched/listened to your videos as I made him lunch, ever day for 3 months. Thanks for the memories and I miss you dad 😭
Oh I’m so sad by this loss. I’m so sorry my friend. I pray you see him in everything beautiful. And I pray he sees the face of God. (If that’s your belief.) but I will still pray my friend. For healing and growth and serenity. ❤
My neighbor drove me to get my dog from the vet at 8pm on a Friday cuse I had had a few drinks. My dog had been in the er vet overnight and was going to stay a second night but apparently was so vocal about not wanting to be there (and active meaning feeling better enough) that they called me because they would have had to sedate him for him to het any rest. I'm giving my neighbor some cupcakes I baked this weekend. Wonderful neoghbor
I am 62 and I don't miss being young for this reason. So many creepy men, cat calls, drunken passes, men that know they have nothing to lose while the nice guy stands in the corner doing nothing because you are too beautiful, or whatever their fears are. UGH
Yep! I just turned 40 and I feel like I got gifted an invisibility cloak for terrible men! I didn't understand how much relief comes from aging out of the male gaze.
Man, yeah… I’m 51 and do not miss being a thin, leggy blonde with flowing locks and big boobs! My young, Autistic butt didn’t realize how often guys creeped on me, though (in retrospect I realize it) and weirdly, that helped. I wish more women would learn that if a guy hits on you and gets a weird or rude response, a vast majority just kinda peace out! It’s all this passive politeness from pretty girls that makes creepers think they have a chance. Be rude, girls, where necessary. It is a far lesser evil than what that creep has in mind.
@@moonshinershonor202 I did cause a guy to crash his car into the guy in front of him from rubbernecking me. there is Always someone else prettier though. My point was it is not easy being young and attractive. Repelling men is an every day thing.
The woman with the dogs story: Ladies, you've GOT to report that behavior THE VERY FIRST TIME. Get it on record whether you look like you're overreacting or not. So many of us have been in this creepy situation. Sometimes it doesn't end well. Why she didn't record him trying to break in I'll never understand. They didn't believe you because she didn't take it seriously enough to make a report. Sorry, but you have to look after YOURSELF. Document so these creeps can't keep getting away with this crap! These people NEED to know that people are looking at them. Sorry, love to you all. Thank you, Charlotte for posting that 😘
I would've had a secret signal with my dogs. So I could sick them on that creep. This girl isn't very smart. She didn't report it and was quiet about it. She's lucky to be alive. She basically gave him herself on a platter.
She is making me so mad I have to stop..she doest say gtfo to him, she doesn't record him, she doesn't complain to the landlord, she doesn't call 911?!
If you do not make a report you have no paperwork to create a case for a restraining order. On the darker side at least when you turn up dead they have a suspect.
As an Aussie, I have to tell you our “pretty parrots” that were huddled around dishes are called Rainbow Lorikeets. They are beautiful but deafening in numbers 😂😂 As are our Cocky’s when squawking in for a feed. Perhaps this is why the neighbour had an aversion to birds. I love them. As in the Kevin Costner movie “Field of Dreams,” “If you build it, they will come.” 🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜
Rainbow Lorikeets are a hard summon! I was mighty impressed with the numbers seen here. Also, when Charlotte called the cockatoos doves I was losing it. They are certainly not doves by any means.
@@pantsoffgaming1428 that’s true, they are unless you’re close to Currumbin on the Gold Coast 😂 but he was up in Brissy! I was chuckling too when she thought the Cockatoos were Doves 🕊️ 😂😂 I think there were some Corellas in there but I was on my iPhone so I couldn’t see properly, they still look like a parrot anyway. 😂😂 Noise volume Dove vs Cocky, coo vs screaming sqawk 😂😂😂😂
Yeah those look like Corellas to me? And correct me if I’m wrong, but the last one “is that a parrot?” looks like a Gang-gang Cockatoo. Charlotte, they’re all parrots! 😹
@@redbirddeerjazz it might be a Gang Gang? I zoomed in on my iPhone and still couldn’t really tell but it had the right colouring and looked like a cockatoo so I’ll agree with you, why not! No pretty red headed male but we’ll go for the plain Jane females 😂😂. Have I got it the right way around? Don’t want to upset the birdwatching community in Brisbane of course ❤️ 🇦🇺
As a true crime listener I know she was in serious danger. Pushing that kind of boundary like picking a neighbor's door lock is not normal human behavior.
I am so blessed to have a great neighbor 💝 he's 81 years old and he's more active than I am. He mows my lawn and takes my trash cans out ❤ he even installed a ring cam for my daughter and I.
Former property mgr here. The sad thing is, if the cops can't do anything, the landlords probably aren't able to do much (at least immediately). They can go the softer route and do a 14-30. If it were me I'd work with our attorney to get an emergency injunction. IM TELLING YOU, never let unsecured windows go! That is an emergency, which is standard. Call the management company and let them know you should not have been charged for the two months because your safety concern wasn't taken seriously, including the windows being unsecured on a ground floor. Threaten to put them on blast on social media (reference how many views your original TikTok received). Good luck to you.❤️
6:10 okay I know this is supposed to be a serious topic but I can’t get over how GORGEOUS her eyes and lashes are!!!! If I had her eyes I’d be batting them so often that my city would have to be on hurricane watch 24/7 😭😭
I used to live in a small apartment above this guys' garage. It was just me, my neighbor, and an older woman who lived downstairs. The neighbor was a few years older than me. Early on, he came over when I had some friends over and gave us some beers. None of us drink beer, so we just threw them away when he left. After some time, he became OBSESSED with me. He would ask me to come over, he had a gf, and he would corner me in our "shared" space where the washer and dryer was. One time, i caught him trying to pick my locks! I told my landlord who lived on site and he tore into this man. He was seriously my savior. Like, this neighbor tried pinning me down to kiss me and I kicked him in the nuts and ran for it. And he tried to pick my lock! My landlord put cameras up in the shared space (I allowed him to for my safety) and kept an eye on him for me, and was going to kick him out if it continued. So glad I moved out and live with my bf now!
The girl with the creepy neighbour would never survive the first 20min of a horror movie. Not pressing charges because she doesn't want the neighbour to know but then getting some under paid flunky at the management company to confront the evil neighbour and evict him without evidence is not the smartest move.
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Where does she live on the first floor with widows that don’t lock? Sure isn’t NYC. 😂
As someone born, raised and still living in NYC, you'd be surprised (slumlords anyone?). HOWEVER, a NYer would have taken care of the creep themselves.
But the police would probably tell her that she didn't have enough evidence to press charges, meaning they couldn't really do anything but talk to him. And that could possibly anger him, which is ALSO really dangerous.
The girl with the dogs was brought up to be a 'nice girl' and 'don't cause a fuss'. She *should * have told him to "back the ferk off, leave the ferking dogs alone, I'm not ferking interested in having any kind of relationship with you", and made sure this was screamed at the top of her voice so everyone heard it. Then screamed some more when she saw him trying to pick the lock. By keeping quiet, being a good girl, not making a fuss, she was actually protecting him and making sure nobody believed her. She wants to have as foul a gob as I have, a voice as loud as a fishwife, and enough aggression in it as her Dobermann. I've 3 large dogs 2 of which will bark on command, the one to a command in Spanish and the other to "Catholics are coming", but I won't let them get themselves into trouble for me.Stop being 'nice'.
I *used* to have the most wonderful neighbours with lovely kids. However they split up and the house was sold and the one who moved in is really the neighbour from h ell. She complained to the council and said my dogs barked night and day (they don't), she tried to kill my ponies by throwing unsuitable food into the paddock. She nearly succeeded because one got colic and I got a £600 vet bill. She tried to push a heavy metal fence onto the little Shetland sized pony who is blind in one eye. She'd never have seen it coming down on her. There's much much more, most caught on CCTV. I ended up calling police and showing them everything. She told me she's a practicing catholic, hence me teaching one of the dogs to bark when I tell him "catholics". I miss my previous neighbours.
I get the idea of reporting the guy to the police bc if that guy finds out, if nothing is done, this guy could go mental and attack her as soon as the police leave. I would still make the police talk to him, but I understand why she wouldn’t do that 🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♀️ the fear that nothing will happen and it’ll just piss the guy off is REAL
The problem there was she didn't GO to the police, she passively waited there. So the police options were limited to making it criminal which involved an interview before an arrest. There would have been other courses of action available if she had gone TO the Police station, such as pursuing a stay away order that he is not to go within four feet of her or her door and not to talk to her. Or just to start a stalking paper trail. Or see if he had a criminal record of stalking (if they'll say....). Or other stuff I have no clue about, but other folks here have wisely suggested from their past similar experiences.
@@heidikickhouse-you need to understand that there’s always gonna be people who will retaliate if you snitch on them. I’ve met the kind of stalkers who will kill you if they find out you went to the cops. They do not fuck around
My yard is naturalized and we have a big variety of native and migratory birds (and insects). Crows are awesome birds. You can bond with them by talking to them. They have great personalities and will bring you gifts.
One more story…I had a neighbor who tried to break in when I was home. I was a victim of a robbery not too long before that but had no idea who did it. Then one day I was home because I called in sick. I was laying on my couch watching tv when suddenly my patio door started opening up. I saw him through my sheer drapes as well. I said hello? Then he ran away. I looked out the window and saw the back of him running away. I called the police and they arrested him. I had to identify him but I was scared so they had me look at him through the door crack at the back of the door to his apartment. I retrieved some of my stolen items. Some weren’t found like my first edition of Sargent’s Pepper Lonely Hearts Band. That one hurt the most. I never had any problems after that until some skinheads moved in two floor exactly above me. That’s another story for another time.
Charlotte be out here doing the Lord’s work and confirming to many of us that it’s ok to want to live in cabin in the woods just so we don’t have to deal with this circus. Introverts of the world, UNITE… separately.✊🏻🙈😂
@@erikarussell1142 oh of course I’d never bother a fellow introvert and yes I got a woman cave at my house now where I put myself on time out daily when I just can’t.
It's important to note that if you have a creepy/dangerous neighbor, you may be able to talk to your property manager or landlord about moving to another property they own. Many own several properties and don't consider it breaking your lease so they may be totally fine with you moving tf away from that creep without messing up your finances
The stalker neighbour story is so scary! We had a similar problem with our next door neighbour and we had to cause so much trouble for him to leave us alone for now. And only because otherwhise it would cost him more time and money that he seemingly deems it worth to be able to keep up with his bs. The scariest thing is, when you call the police and they tell you, that they can't do anything, unless he actually does something to us. Even when he was litterally making death threats! It got so bad that I actually considered antagonizing him to the point he hurt me, just to make it stop.
Stuff like this makes me grateful to live in the country 🙏 🙌 My neighbors all get together and have cookouts, ride horses together, ride our UTV's on trails together, share the years bounty, have bonfires, target practice, hunting trips... Grateful for my little slice of heaven ❤
This stuff happens in the country too & then you're dealing with nepotism because shocker, it's the sheriff's nephew being a creep. Don't get paranoid but just know this happens everywhere, all over the world, unfortunately.
My sister has one of the scariest neighbor stories I have ever heard. Her neighbors were a family of four, and sis was friends with wife and kids. Husband was a true monster. He would film my sister's family and other neighbors inside their homes through the windows. Then, he brought horses to his property (not more than an acre total), and began using the community well to keep them hydrated. This well provided water to four homes, in a desert environment. County sheriff deputies had been out several times to tell him he had to bring separate water for his horses, as they were livestock, and he could not use water from the community well for it. The neighbor who called the sheriff raised German Shepherds, and NFH poisoned three of the dogs. The situation got so bad, he sued all three neighbors ( including my sister). On the day he lost the suit, he came home and murdered his sweet family. Lots of law enforcement drama followed. He had put the bodies in 50 gallon drums, taken to a place in the middle of the desert, and buried them. He was convicted without bodies because of all the forensic evidence inside his home. He died in prison before a construction crew preparing land for a new subdivision found the drums. 😢
Ugh that’s horrifying! I have a scary neighbor and I told my landlord I don’t use the hallways or garbage shoot at night because of him. He went from asking me on dates to screaming at me and cussing me out through the walls violently banging on them or if I walk by/ let my service dog out and his window is open he cusses us out. I’m worried he would try to harm her as well as he switched to being so vile after I didn’t respond to his date request because he left a note at my door and didn’t sign who it was from not even an apartment number so I didn’t respond then he left a second note asking and leaving his phone number but still no name or apartment number and I didn’t want to call or text a random number given them mine when they already knew where I lived that’s beyond enough personal information to have on be getting to know each other. Anyways I ended up being able to look up the number and figure out it’s the guy who makes complaints about me and my service dog.. did he hate us before the date requests or was it after I’m not sure but it’s scary.
My mother has lived in the same house since 1966. We have been blessed with lovely neighbors my entire childhood and adulthood. Next door we used to have a female couple who got our mail and mowed our lawn when we were on long vacations. Neighbors across the street were my unofficial grandparents and my sister and I got to be in their daughter's wedding in like 1978. They have all shown us love and support when my father died, bringing us food (of course, we're in the south), mowing the lawn, letting us park visitor cars everywhere. The best part is that my sister has now bought the house next door so we are continuing a big compound. There is really nothing better than a non-HOA neighborhood with sweet neighbors.
I got a dog label aggressive to men. He ended up being from an abusive home so he’s still aggressive and protects me from dangerous situations but is the most sweets adorable blue eyed husky I’ve ever met. I love him more than the world. Never aggressive towards people until you try to lay a hand or come at me ❤
Girl with the dogs...buy yourself a small doorbell cam. As for the windows, request security an upgrade to security windows. You can also buy locks that attach to the window frame to prevent the windows from being slid open
I've had and bred Rottweiler, Pitbull and Dobermans since I moved out of my parents house at 22. Having at least 3 intimidating adult breeds in my homes at all times has definitely given me a "don't want mess with that house" sense of protection 💪🏼😊
Hubby and I just bought our first home and the shape of the property is literally like a piece of pizza 🍕 and the neighbors to the right and left are on opposite sides of the crust. We just spent the last 18 years right next to the trashiest, noisiest, trouble all the time, parties, cops coming and going. It was quite literally a nightmare the majority of the time and now we live in the nicest, quiet, peaceful neighborhood. So thankful for the little things in life. 🏠🤫 Life is really good.
Ok so this is how I knew my ex was a POS: one night I heard someone trying to befriend my THREE Rottweilers… there was even a helicopter flying overhead (LA life, gotta love it… not). I asked him to go see who was there but he said he didn’t care and if I wanted to know I should go myself (be kind! it was my first bf and I’d just moved to America) so my sister (who was visiting from the homeland) and I took the first “weapons” we could find and went outside to find a creep trying to get in… we went all savage on his a$s and chased him with my ex’s hockey sticks (our weapons). We came in victorious and told him what we’d done. That garbage of a joke of a human being was not concerned about us confronting a criminal on the run (hence the chopper) but instead was pissed that we used his precious AUTOGRAPHED hockey 🏒 sticks as weapons. Don’t mess with Brazilian girls - Rio de Janeiro, only the strong survive ✊🏻🇧🇷 7:43
the white birds in the last clip are cockatoos! they're a big noisy parrot that travel in groups. the smaller, multi-coloured parrot is called a rainbow lorikeet and they are even noisier and travel in even BIGGER groups, so you rarely if ever see just one or two. that's a whole family gathering right there 😂
I have horrible neighbors who have literally been plotting behind my back to "bring down" the improvements I've done on the building (which mostly involved making a bunch of stuff legal), but now we have video evidence of one of the complainers actually being responsible for what they complain about, so I'm happy :)
5:47 the point IS she left the note on the car the NEXT DAY when she was parked at a free spot! If homegirl saw her in her spot why didn’t she leave a note then or just called , texted her, hey, girl you’re in my spot or are you gonna be long gone cuz you’re in my spot? She also didn’t clarify what spot and what day etc, key details
Her reaction was disproportionate and kinda unhinged. Her neighbour has met her before and I reckon she was trying in vain to avoid any back and forth with her, knowing she would be like that. I would too.
Yeah, that’s what I mean like after the fact when I realize that she was talking about a completely different day, I probably would’ve apologize but also pointed out like hey how am I supposed to know which spot if you’re leaving me a note a day after I park there, especially if she’s being honest about the fact that she literally was only parked there for two minutes before she left. I honestly don’t think I would even remember if I had parked somewhere for two minutes and then move my car So I was left a whole day after I probably would be like what is she talking about and exactly make the argument this is a free space like why are you leaving me this note here. On the other hand, this person who knows her could’ve just asked her not to park there again or just mention hey I was trying to come home the other day I had groceries my kids in the car whatever and I couldn’t get in my spot because you were parked there. Leaving a note is really a passive aggressive way of dealing with the issue and it really seems sort of petty and excessive. If she was being honest about the fact she was only there for two minutes. Somebody like came home and somebody was in my spot for a moment and I got annoyed, but then a minute later I was able to get into my spot or use another spot close to my house, but it was pouring rain at the time so there was nothing I could do about it, I’d forget about that encounter by the next day there would never be a note on anybody’s car. I don’t know maybe if I got like completely soaked as a result of somebody parking in my spot I might be upset enough to remember that the next day and say something but again if you’re on good terms with this person, why ruin that by leaving a passive aggressive note when you can simply send a text message or actually just knock on the person and say hey I know you’re only here for a minute yesterday, but I tried to come home and I had to park over this way, and by the time I got in, I was sopping wet. Could you please not park there again?
The story with birds was Brilliant! 😂 When I traveled to Australia a few years back, we had a whole discussion about cackatoos. Apparently,cackatoos are seen as pests(they destroy the lawns) and are very much unwanted intruders. They are also very gluttonous. Majestic creatures for some and a disaster for others. 👌🏻
The stalker story is why I got a Rottie 3 years ago. The way that dog goes on high alert and never takes his eyes off someone close to me the moment I start getting just a little uncomfortable. As a single woman who lives alone........no one even dares to come close.
These are so relatable, and I could not be more grateful for my current neighbors. Our apartment now is shitty but the people living in this hellholle are awesome. We help each other, grab food for each other, cook out together, watch out for each others kids, and keep in touch in a big building group chat
Great neighbor story from my childhood. Our water pipe burst, so my dad turned the water off and was going to fix it when he got home from work. Well during the day, our neighbors got together and dug up the yard (about 20 feet) and put a new pipe in and was done before my father got home. He couldn’t believe it and had a big BBQ and pool party for them that weekend at our house and gave gifts to all of them. Oh, I am 62 and this was early 70’s
Where I grew up, all the neighbors would sit outside after dinner when the weather was nice. The men would congregate on one porch and the women would all be chatting on another porch. All of us kids would be playing together. When we had big snowstorms and someone's car would be stuck all the men would be out there shoveling and pushing the car until it was unstuck. When we had a bad storm one summer and the power was out for 3 days, we had a giant barbeque and the women made side dishes and desserts to use up the eggs or milk that would have gone bad. Someone's car didn't start and all the men were out there with their tools to get it running. I loved growing up on that street. It was in the 70's through the 80's and some of the neighbors still gathered after dinner into the 00's. There were a lot of great memories, but the best thing was how they all pulled together when we were going through the toughest times and how wonderful all our neighbors were all the time.
Aw I'm sending your neigbour massive love! That's what proper neighbours do! I look after my neighbours cats, water their plants and take in their parcels when they are away. They pay me in wine. But I would do it for free! 😊
Having experience with a stalker, she is correct about the police. Her stalker would not back off, he would escalate. That's a fact. I also had to break a lease and they kept my deposit. I had to have the police standing there while I packed.
DO THE REPORT. If you do a report it’s easier to get a restraining order. ALWAYS do the report. Also, there are bars that you can put in the well of the windows that makes them impossible to open. Always have a protective dog, take self defense and get trained with a pistol. Don’t take anything for granted. I had a guy like this across the hall at my first apartment… you never know what they might do.
The problem is some people will kill you if you snitch on them. Anyone whose ever been a victim of abuse can tell you that squealing on them can make them ramp it up to 11
@@Jackferrett6781 (sorry, this is gonna be a little long but it’s important) a person either defends themselves or they don’t. I’d rather die protecting myself than be someone’s personal plaything. It takes bravery, no doubt, but when a person doesn’t defend themselves, their self esteem is destroyed and the cycle will continue. Secondarily, if a man will do this to this one girl, he will likely do it to another, which means when someone doesn’t report, she is basically allowing other people to get hurt when she could have done something. I have personal experience. When I was a child - from 4-11, my bio-father was r@p;ng me. I report3d it eventually but I refused to testify because I was afraid and because he was “my dad. And I love him.” He got 10 yrs probation and was allowed to scrub his record after he served his sentence (which meant no registry). When I was 26, I learned that he mo/e$ted my sister and brothers (13 years my junior and 18 years my junior respectively). They refused to testify. Then 5 years later, he mo/e$ted his stepdaughter who FINALLY testified (as did I) and we put him away for 14 years. He hasn’t been caught hurting anyone since. And while I know that I was only eleven, and that neither my brother, sister, nor I were at fault for what he did and what we failed to do, doesn’t stop us from feeling responsible and hating ourselves for it. It’s the one thing in your life that I truly regret, being a coward. It’s like Emiliano Zapata said, “It’s better to die on your feet than live on your knees.” I’d trade my life for the opportunity to go back and put him in prison and on the registry when I was the only victim. No one will ever intimidate me into silence again, and I hope I’ve convinced you that it’s worth it for you and the people you know too. Take care. I hope for the best for you my friend and I really appreciate your thoughts on the subject.
@@Jackferrett6781 yeah, people need to be brave, becaseu when they are not, other people get hurt. I know this from experience. If you don’t make them pay, then they will be free to hurt other innocent people. I’d gladly get murdered rather than make someone else go through the hell I experienced. Everything is a trade off,
@@BiologyBabebut that’s the problem. The fear of retaliation or retribution is too big a fear for them. Abusers care about one thing. Being in control. The moment they’re no longer in control they can become violent and unstable
As someone who has people park in "my spot" all the time I'm actually on the passive aggressive note writers side. I bought a condo with two parking spots. It is clearly stated in our original paperwork that we have two spots per household. Then about 5 years into living here, the lovely HOA decided to repaint every other spot with a guest sign instead of the house number, so now magically we only have one spot per household and a guest spot. Now anyone can park in our second spot because it's marked as a guest spot. So it was basically mayhem when this first happened and people took advantage and moved their extra five cars into the lot and no one had anywhere to park at all. The HOA was sending letters out every other week about it, but refused to fix the problem and repaint the spots. It's been years and it's still a problem. The biggest issue is we have to shovel/plow our own spots in the winter snow, so if you want to park anywhere near your own home, you have to do it, but there is no way to then save the spot once you leave. So people would come take your spot that you spent hours shoveling. It's so frustrating.
If your contact says you get two spots then you get two spots, not one and a guest spot. The only reason your HOA gets away with it is because no one holds them responsible when they break the contract. You def have a lawsuit that is winnable especially if it's really been going on for years.
@@norawade8127 as much as I would absolutely love to do that, it's not worth the money for a lawsuit. If I had money and time in my hands, it would be very satisfying, but I do not. Most of us have banded together and pretty much know who each spot belongs to near us, and we try to watch out for each other.
@@hopefletcher7420 one of the neighbors next to me is on the board now, he's on our side 😂. He said he can't do much because the president is the one who changed the rules apparently so he could park his five cars in the lot near his house and take up as many spots as he wants, so until we can get a new president it's not changing, and this guy is pretty ingrained. I work the night shift, so I can never make it to the meetings, and it's really not worth missing work over. We kinda look out for each other in our little lot, at least.
That is one of the best sailor moon shirts I've ever seen!! 😍 Jealous!!!! Unfortunately that guy kicked out of the apartment would NOT help her. That's terrifying though.
Exactly. Report it EVERY time. The cops CAN start doing something once there’s enough reports of someone’s weird/creepy behavior/activity. ALWAYS report it to local authorities/police.
I had a lab/rottie mix dog. I had scheduled someone to come out to service something in the townhouse. My dog got between me and the door and her hackles went up. She growled and began barking. Never in her 13yrs did she act like this. I told the man I can't open the door due to the dog. He originally sounded fine but then his tune changed when he realized I wasn't opening the door. I told him I cannot guarantee his safety were I to do so. I never yelled at my dog if she were ever to bark but this was next level for her. There's no telling what would've happened if I had not listened to my dog. She did not move until he physically left. I watched through the peep hole until he left and i called the company he was from too.
Good Morning Petty Potatoes! ❤ The way I clicked so fast! I'm here for the drama! Of course PDX is in this video 😅 Luckily I have awesome neighbors and yes, there are pranks to be had! That reminds me, I need to go buy a catnip plant and my neighbor's yard 😇🤣
Good morning bestie! ❤ We are unpacking in the new apartment, and I can already say that everything is so much better! I'll be back for this video later, currently binge watching sex and the City 😂😂😂 have a great weekend!!!
I've never met the neighbor on one side of the place I rent, but the neighbors in the house on the other side are super sweet. They're a retired couple and always wave or say hi when we both happen to be outside. And after one intense snowstorm, I was shoveling and shoveling the snow in my driveway, but it was taking me forever because it was just me against mounds of snow. Cut to the two of them coming over and helping me shovel. I did one half and the two of them did the other. How kind is that? ❤️ They also brought their granddaughters over to sell me Girl Scout cookies. Of course I bought a bunch! 😄
So I just moved to my apartment about 2 months ago and this older woman(gives off tweaker vibes) has a dog about the same size as mine (frenchie/chihuahua mix) my dog is not people or pet friendly and has always been this way since puppyhood. I have to tell this to the woman every time I see her because she is always trying to talk to my dog. My dog will go nuts with barking, pulling, and choking himself trying to get to her and her dog. This woman follows me on walks. If I try to go a different route she will stay a close distance behind me and if I stop to let my dog pee or sniff then she will stop. I am trying to teach my dog not to bark or attack however, when she is out it is extremely difficult to control my small dog and my 3 year old who also walks with me. The other night I heard yelling outside of my door and guess who it was? Miss lady with her dog right outside my door! My dog also senses when people approach the door and so he was going ballistic barking at 12am. Another time I caught her during the day letting her dog sniff at my front door. Now the front entrance you kind of have to go into so she went put of her way to do this. Just weird and creepy. I'm not entirely sure how to handle this because she is elderly. But like I said just gives off real major tweak energy
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I have raised Doberman for 25+ years. It doesn't matter if someone makes friends with them if you as the owner show fear or distress the dog WILL react. It does not matter how friendly the weirdo thinks the dog is🤣🤣🤣
Honestly! What was that guy thinking!? I love big dogs. The bigger and scarier the dog is, the more I want to cuddle them 🥰 🐾🐾
That is exactly what they were bred for. My big baby boy is so laid back until there is an unexpected noise. Then he is in full alert mode ready for action.
Exactly what I was saying in my head the whole time! 😂
I had the softest husky in the world! But you even raise your voice a level at me or show any negativity towards me and she'd sit right next to me wishing a mfer would. The best part about my husky is she was broken and not vocal AT ALL well unless I left her home alone of course then my neighbors hated her lmao said it sounds like I was keeping a wolf in there 😂 but she would never make a sound if she'd attack, you'd see absolutely no aggression to think she'd attack you until it was too late. Love my Shiba! My oldest is 17 and when she is finally on her own my New home present is going to be a scary looking dog who loves her!
My Shih Tzu has been my guiding light for sniffing out assholes. Probably... should have listened to the little dude about my ex. My Finkie dork is also very good at figuring out who he likes and who he doesn't. And boy I hope you like 45 pound lap dogs if he likes you.
As a Property Manager of a 33 Unit Complex, I have absolutely evicted someone for stalking another tenant. If something becomes wrong with a window lock, I will personally go and buy thick, cut dowel rods to put in the windows, until they can be replaced. Hearing stories where they allow women to be left to their own devices with this shit, then punish them when they decide they have to leave. Awful management. I'm so sad she had to deal with that. :(
You're being nice in describing the management.
Bless you girl. hero.
@@Cole_Cross Not a hero, luv. This should be the baseline functions of Property Managers, and it's sad that it's not. But, thank you.
@@MaynardsSpaceship I agree..haha. "Awful" is def absolutely an understatement.
@@MaynardsSpaceship I agree..haha. "Awful" is def absolutely an understatement.
I moved into a neighbour hood full of old people, we have a ladies man from the old days. he puts on karaoke parties every Saturday for all the neighbours to come too, they sing all the old classics. its beautiful how you can hear him sing Elvis with all his heart, while I'm washing the pots lol. every body's really lovely.
This is so wholesome 😊
When I moved into my first apartment by myself, I was on the first floor in a not so great neighborhood and the first neighbor I ever met ended up being a super nice single dad that would invite me over to birthday parties. But he was adamant that if I ever felt unsafe I could just bang on the wall and he would rush over. He also let me watch his sweetheart pitbull whenever he wasn't home so I wasn't ever completely alone and had a safeguard in place in case something happened. He restored my faith in humanity and I'm grateful every day for him because the one time I left my door unlocked and somebody just walked in without knocking I was watching her and she jumped up into guard mode and scared the random man that was walking through the door trying to be as quiet as possible.
Omg, get you a neighbor like this for real.
Love pitties.
Shit marry this neighbor
@@courtneymarti8199 or a dog…
@@HeatherArriaga Lol, that too. 😂
my neighbors high school age kid smashed my barn windows, kicked the walls of my barn in to an irreparable state, shot a gun through my barn walls, and all I did was ask that the police inform them that I am aware of it and have it on video and that I want an apology and the broken glass cleaned up. it’s been over a year and I have not gotten that apology nor the cleanup, so I’m taking the dumb bastards to court. They’re so mad because I called the police on them for blaring loud music, drunkenly screaming, and playing basketball at 3 o’clock in the morning, they’re gonna be really happy when they get that legal notice.
Ah, why if it isn’t the consequences of their own actions… also, how classy of them to respond so kindly. Lol I pray you win.
You gotta update us on this🤜
@@mandrake7305 I plan on making a reddit account solely to post this when the court case is done, whether we win or not 💀🤣 it’ll be a year or more from now though, I’m not wealthy and its a few hundred dollars to go to court here 😂
Yes, an update would be great
I hope you win! For all of us that have those ignorant neighbors that everyone hates!!!
Last video - (Australian here) Aussie birds are so gorgeous but also ferociously loud 🤣 the cockatoos scream, kookaburras obviously laugh but also make these evil little cackles in the early hours of the morning, and the lorikeets (essentially a rainbow parrot, the ones sitting on the lawn in the vid) make loud screechy chitters - just sit in the outside section of a restaurant during spring/summer and you’ll get an earfull
I’m scared of birds and what that neighbour did, would have been my biggest nightmare!😱😭😭
The fact that "let him break in, because then the cops will have something to act on," is actually valid advice is such a hellish reminder of the world we live in.
It’s so disgusting.
Yep. I was once told they couldnt remove my housemate when he went to hit me coz he didn't do anything wrong. They told me next time to let him hit me first. Wtf?
If I'm letting someone break into my house, I'll be sitting there all Olivia Benson with a pew pew in my hand.
@@katcampbell87 but assault doesn't mean touching. Screaming and threatening and scaring you is assault. If he hits you, it's battery. That sucks.
You guys not got stalking and harassment laws then?
As for the poor girl being stalked: I definitely understand not wanting to have the police talk to that weirdo. Neighbor retaliation is VERY real and terrifying. I had a neighbor who would watch me do my laundry and then sneak down and STEAL MY UNDERWEAR while it was in the dryer. I was clueless why all my underwear was suddenly vanishing into thin air. I mean, I know socks and shit go missing in the dryer all the time, but 10+ pair of underwear all at once??? I knew something was up so I asked other neighbors at the time to keep an eye out. Lo and behold, one of the neighbors said “oh I took those for you! I knew they wouldn’t get clean down there and decided I needed to clean your intimates myself. I just forgot to deliver them to you.” She had an entire goddamn wall of my underwear pinned up like a trophy display. Reported her to the office, manager talked to her. Silence for one week. Then suddenly my underwear would be found on the laundry room floor, burned to mostly ashes. Cops got involved, she said I obviously forgot to clean the lint traps and she told me they wouldn’t get clean down there, so cops had to shrug it off despite the fire hazard. Manager gave ME a citation for not cleaning the lint traps. Crazy lady is still a neighbor. On the rare occasion I see her outside she still chases me down and asks me when I’m going to cook her dinner (not a CLUE what she’s talking about). We have gone through two more managers since then, but I just wash my underwear in the bath tub now and hang them to dry on the shower bar. Psycho neighbor retaliation is scarier than many think. I got LUCKY that’s all psycho lady did.
😮😮😮 Holy 💩
@@sakuram69 Jesus Christ
Wtf that's insane 😢
Retaliate, and take things from HER laundry, and see how she likes it.
Omgoodness that is so freaking creepy!!! 😮😮 yikes I hope you’re okay 🥺 please be careful with her she sounds unhinged
my neighbours are so good, I just have to tell you all about how good they are. I LOVE to sing and even though I'm broke, I'm blessed af to live in a huge house with a garden. Between "my" house and my neighbour's there are both of our gardens, so that's how far we are (and how loud I am). He is SO nice that instead of complaining about it and/or asking me to only sing at specific times (which I would have undestood and respected), he told my father how he loves my voice and stops the radio whenever I sing in order to listen to me 🥹 I am thankful for each second I get to spend in this house and for all lovely neighbours in the world 🤩 I wish you amazing neighbours too ❤
Crows are beautiful too. If you become friends with them, they’ll have a special call for you, they’ll bring you shiny gifts. They’ll scare away visitors. They’re awesome.
Agree, crows are so freaking smart. We have some at work and they know the times that we go to break/lunch and we feed them every single break. It’s so cute. They beg like dogs I swear.
And they can talk. My grandma had a crow that would visit her daily cause she fed and talked to him. She named him Rufus after her father
Where do you all have smart crows that are nice and talk?? We just get giant ones that stand around stupidly and scream at each other before the sun even comes up.
we have an occasional crow on our porch, idk if alwys the same but i want to befriend it and be the weird lady with a crow. just how?
They have crows there too and galahs amd grey cockatoos and dozens of different types of parrots in a range of sizes the ambient bird noises of australia are very distinctive I live it
The police talking to him won’t necessarily scare him off, it might make him, not necessarily bold, but threatened. Stalking, like sexual assault and harassment, is a power thing. She’s threatening that power and has to go. It’s pretty much why the first 6~ months of an abuse survivor leaving their abuser are the most dangerous
Yeah, my stalker had to be physically removed from the state to stop him stalking me. His grandpa (who he lived with) forced him to move to Colorado to stop him. It was terrifying, but the police said it was "all a coincidence" that he kept showing up where I was, even at work (which was really creepy because I was a dog walker, showing up around the houses I walked for wasn't a coincidence).
Not all monsters cower in the light.
Yep, if only more people understood this 🙏🏼💕 a friend of mine’s ex was going into the property she’d secretly fled to and knew when she was out and how long she was out for - he’d go in and move things around or uproot plants just to show her he could. I think he must have been tracking her car and possibly been hacked into her devices and even though she had a restraing order, the police still said there was nothing they could do unless he physically harmed her.
@@WRLDofHRTit’s absolutely horrifying that you need to actually be assaulted in order for anyone to do a thing. My stalker was a neighbor who threatened my life and went after me. Cops did nothing. And I’m being warned an RO will escalate her violence. It’s messed up.
Exactly. Cop involvement can escalate the violence and unhinged behaviours. It’s messed up that’s even the reality much less needs to be stated. Cops don’t suddenly solve everything.
Lady with the dog makes me so glad I have my own "big scary dog." He's my (now retired cuz he old) service dog so naturally, he's not exactly a threat lol. But he sure looks like he is. No one has tried with him. And he does turn his big dog bark on when we're home and someone messes with the door. I've always appreciated that he also isn't big on being pet. Unless you're at my house regularly, like, INSIDE the house, you're not touching him lol. Makes for a brilliant guard dog who doesn't need to do a damn thing other than exist and bark on the rare occasion. Every single female should have a big dog if she can.
Can confirm: single 30yo female with 60kg rottweiler makes walking alone in the dark suddenly not as scary. I actually enjoy my strolls at night. I walk with buds in, music blasting with my dog by my side. He scares men to the point where THEY cross the road.
We have a rotty x American bully XL. Everyone crosses the road for me too. We can leave our blind open if we leave the house because he stares out the front window. Has a deep bark, no one is breaking in ❤😂
My old neighbour used to have have a rottweiler with a bit of burmeese moutain dog. He was the biggest,lazyest good boi out there
@@lindala2602 a Bernese by any chance? Mine is mixed with Bernese too!
Honest question here. If properly trained, are they safe to be around children? I've been thinking of getting one for ages. I'm a single mom of two. 3 year old girl and a 6 year old boy with autism. We live in a small farm and I would feel a lot safer with one or two. My fear is that it is a fairly large dog and if one of the kids might pull an ear or something the dog might react. What do you guys think? Should i go for it?
Loved having the Rottweilers. They were generally cowards for the most part but my god, the instant someone made so much as a threatening move towards us kids, they made themselves scary enough that the moron crossed the street. As soon as the moron was out of sight, they went back to being cuddly, puppy-like cowards. Loves those dogs. Sweetest things ever. My parents current dog does the same thing they did and she's even bigger and heavier.
Good neighbors are worth their weight in gold! Mine mows my lawn, shovels snow from my driveway, takes out my trash and brings the can back in, even comes over and waters my lawn without even asking! He started doing it without telling me it was him - I had to ask if he was doing it so I knew who to thank. He's just a sweet guy who likes to help me since I'm single. I bake for him and his wife all the time!
My Neighbour does this for me too (we don't have snow though) all because I gave her my Wi-Fi and Netflix passwords as she is a pensioner. She says it gives her something to do and knows I'm exhausted after work. During lockdowns in 2019-2020 I batch cooked and kept her fed and we shared toilet paper rolls. It's been 15 years of an odd and rewarding friendship, and my property has gone from a dust bowl with weeds, to a glorious, manicured oasis with a bountiful vegetable garden. I am truly blessed.
This sounds so sweet. I wish I had nice neighbors. I try to be nice to them hold the hallway door for them and stuff like that but they are so rude. We live above them the walls are thin and we recognize how you can hear the people above you if they are loud so we walk quietly, never play music at all keep the tv quiet. Yet they are always banging on their ceiling (our floor) and screaming at 2am. Its ridiculous.
@@Emelyth-awe what a gem!!😊
Awww! In the words of Charlotte, "I love that for you, bestie!"
I have grown up my whole life with Dobermans and have always wanted my own someday soon for this reason, they’re extremely loyal and wonderful dogs and very protective of their owner.
I understand her not wanting to call the police tbh. Yeah, he could get the hint & it could scare him straight, but there is a big risk of retaliation from him. Don't underestimate these kind of men. HOWEVER.... yeah, you gotta report it & start a paper trail 💔 I wish all the best to people in this situation- stand up for yourself 💪🏼
I was going to write about a similar experience, but I'm honestly too scared to even write it here in case he sees it...
And I haven't lived in that place for 3 years! The fear of scary men is real..
@maggiecrawford2088 Baby Girl GET A BIG DOG 🐕!!! I SWEAR ON EVERYTHING WHEN YOU ARE GOOD TO THE DOG HE WILL PROTECT YOU IN ANY SITUATIONEN EVEN WHEN HE BEFRIENDED THAT HUMAN HE WILL DIE FOR YOU!!!! I'm so sorry for you sweetheart because nobody should live in constant fear 😢!!! Get a big doggi
You can go to the police without them going to the person you’re concerned about. You can tell them you just want a paper trail started IN CASE they escalate. I had to do this when my ex started stalking me, when it escalated to him stabbing a knife into the siding of my house, they had a paper trail of distance stalking and weird notes. It was enough evidence to pull prints off the knife and arrest him for menacing.
@@katharinag.5904 I actually have a husky and a German Shepherd! He threatened to kill them... and I did actually call the police to put something on file, but explicitly said not to talk to him. No one will threaten the lives of my children! 🐶🐶
What everyone is NOT realizing in the parking situation is, the note was put on her car the next day when she was parked in a free spot, it didn't say what spot or whose spot and the person who wrote the note had her number and could have easily texted her the information when the issue was happening, "hay, I see your in my spot. Can you please not park there," if not called her. If it was a AITA it would be ESH.
Exactly! She still was rightfully confused 😆
Oh for sure. I don’t know why people feel the need to avoid conversations as if it’s a fight to the death. Just say what you mean and mean what you say. And speak up when issues arise. We can’t grow and learn if we don’t hold each other accountable. On top of that we should also lift each other up and hold each other down. When life falls apart, we are supposed to fall together. We can only do that if we aren’t doing petty little passive aggressive behaviors.
HEY, not hay. YOU'RE not your.
Yeah I would have also assumed it was the spot I was currently parked in. Especially bc there was no info for the person who left it. I wouldn't have assumed it was someone I know who could have just texted me.
@@ELLENDREWS-f6j Having a hard time coming up with something intelligent to say, so you're nitpicking grammar now? Got that pat on the back yet?
19:10 There is nothing better than great neighbors. One winter, my neighbor shoveled my driveway while I was sleeping. My stepmom had to leave early to go out of town, but it had snowed that night. The snow was almost to my hip and I had spent the early morning shoveling it enough to get a car out of the garage for her to be able to leave. After that, I went back to bed since it was still dark out. When I woke, I found my driveway cleared of all snow because of my neighbor. He also cleared the driveway a few other times after when the snow was too much. He and his wife were super nice and would always say hi. I will always miss him (he passed away). Another neighbor is the mayor of our town. He is super nice and helped me recently with a busted sprinkler. I know nothing about sprinklers and he helped me fix it. It is a blessing to have great neighbors who would take time out of their day to help.
Neighbor attempting to break in:
But reporting it often causes people like this to lash out violently. She says her windows are ground floor and don't lock. She's already afraid of his nice-guy persona, imagine how unhinged he is when angry.
Yes, a paper trail is important but it doesn't save your life in the moment when you're being violently assaulted by someone who's now angry and sees you as the problem.
Reporting is important; I don't mean to sound like it isn't, but it can be very dangerous. From my personal experience here in the states it doesn't save you from harm it just adds to the perpetrators sentencing AFTER you're actually assaulted, assuming you survive to tell your story.
I can definitely see why some choose to keep it to themselves and stay quiet until they can get themselves out of there. A "Don't poke the bear" mentality. I often wish that was the route I'd taken instead of reporting him and the cops saying they can't do anything other than tell him to stay away from me without proof of him breaking in and/or assaulting me.
They got their proof. It left me disabled.
I'm so sorry. Here in France it's the same. Police can't do anything until AFTER an assault, and only if the victim can bring evidence of the attack and evidences of mental and physical repercussions. Fortunatly we have less and less of cops with the "yeah but you're a woman, it's your fault men attack you, because you exist" mentality. I wish you good day and stay badass and strong, fellow potato fan.
I'm so sorry, I hate that the system is so broken.
It is hard to know what to do just because of this! You’re damned if you do and damned if you don’t! I’m so sorry this happened to you😢 The justice system is broken when a POS gets to walk through a restraining order and mess your life up forever because no one took you seriously. I don’t care what anyone says, these creeps look like creeps. The police need to do their jobs and investigate them and realize they are a menace and act accordingly! Send the cop who like to rage on perps to talk to him. Maybe then they won’t show up at your door and assault you later on because they’ll get the message!! Again I’m so sorry for what happened to you ❤
Exactly, she could report it, get a restraining order but that wouldn’t stop him from committing a crime. Who knows how he could react.
How terrible. I'm so sorry you had to go through this.
Every morning, at 7, after I’ve walked my dogs, I throw a bit of bread and seed out for the birds. The crows know what time I do it and now wait for me on the house and when it’s 7 and I get home, the lookout crow, squawks loudly to let everyone know I’m back and they’ll be getting a little treat in a few minutes!😂 crows are very smart.
Bread is incredibly dangerous for birds, don't give them that. Seed and food scraps (like vegetables/fruits) work just fine.
If you befriend them they may bring you “gifts” of appreciation too! They are super smart and fascinating creatures!
i used to do the same thing too when I lived in an aparment!! We lived on the ground floor and I’d throw tortillas and grains out to them. There was one female crow who was missing a leg that I always looked forward to seeing. Around fall and spring I’d see them show up and they would wait for me after school.
I gave them a lot of food before I moved to a house. It makes me so sad to not feed and see them anymore 😭
I'm jealous you have crows that know you and love you! I love crows!
I’m so blessed in the neighbor department. 3 of my neighbors were even in my wedding. We all own our houses and our children have grown and go to school together. My very best friend in the whole world even lived in the house across the street from me until she passed away on July 17th. She was always there for everything. She was my shoulder to cry on, my emergency babysitter, my cheerleader, my background music, my charger, my “hey hey sexy mama” when I needed to hear it the most… Her sudden and unexpected passing has taught us all something and brought us all closer together as community. We’ve started a board game night and rekindled a relationship with a neighbor we had a falling out with several years ago for something petty. Life is too short. Reach out to those around u. Build the village.
My husband and I are thankful for our nice neighbors. They're a young family with two boys and the grandparents visit often. One time, when we went on vacation my husband had put a temporary hold on our newspapers (he's older 😂), so thiefs scoping houses wouldn't see a pile of newpapers and rob us. Sadly, for whatever reason the newpapers were still delivered. Thankfully our neighbors picked them up and hid them behind the cushions of our patio furniture. They even noticed us coming back home and gave us a heads up as to where the newspapers were hidden. Little things like that are much appreciated.
I saved my neighbors ups packages they forgot were coming when they went on vacation. Then I noticed the mail falling out of the mailbox. 😂😂 so I had all their stuff😂😂
14:11 he wasn’t trying to break in when she was “home 30 seconds ago”. He was trying to break in WHILE SHE WAS HOME (to his knowledge). He is TRYING to access her home while she was there. He was trying to invade her home. I don’t even want to know what he was going to do.
You know exactly what he wanted to do.
@kpeugh2011 Lucky for him, she wasn't my daughter. He very quickly would have been introduced to my Desert Eagle .500 and my Desert Eagle.44 along with my Smith & Wesson 460.
@@mirrrstery I can sure speculate. And none of the options I can think of end well.
@@danielcarter305 oh I know that feeling. I’m not a gun owner but I’d make do.
He wanted to either kidnap her, or grape her, or both. 😮. A real wack a do nut😂
I live in an apartment with my mother and brother. We have amazing neighbours that literally adore all of us. We get brought food by someone at least twice a month and if i see neighbours, i have no problem stopping and talking for a while. Neither does my mother. Thats what makes me happy to be in my apartment complex.
The “fight or flight” response is actually “fight, flight, freeze, or fawn”. Don’t feel bad for freezing as it is another type of response that your body does sometimes as protection!
😢 This means alot to hear this thank you even though it wasn't ment for me
I probably would've made the situation worse because I default to fight most of the time. I would've hit him with the dog food before he even realized I saw him. Fight can be just as bad as freeze sometimes because your body reacts before you can really think things through. Thankfully, I usually stop at words but someone attempting to violate my home (and me) would send me into a rage and I would've possibly been arrested for assault because I wouldn't have stopped at hitting him with dog food.
What's crazy about these natural reactions (fight, flight, freeze, or fawn), is that when they occur YOU HAVE NO CHOICE! Your body makes the coice for you. Such a bizarre feeling to literally not be in control.
@truecrimefan1443 I’m so glad that you found validation with this. I don’t know what happened to you, but I don’t need to. You don’t have to talk about it. Anything that elicits a response like yours has to have been pretty bad. I hope you find healing.
It’s astonishing how many people don’t know about this. It’s also referred to as “freeze or please”, as people often don’t know what “fawn” means (this surprises me too). And as with so many things related to women protecting themselves, people often don’t believe me when I tell them.
I suggest to them that they google it and have to hope that they do. I really don’t want to do it for them and hand them my phone, or even continue a conversation where I have to try to convince someone that people do legitimately freeze up, when they’re clearly not interested in listening.
There needs to be much more awareness about this. Trying to please the person is interpreted as “she didn’t say anything, she can’t have been that scared”. Or even worse, r**e that elicits the “freeze or please” responses will be outright dismissed with “she didn’t say no, she must have wanted it”, no matter what the circumstances are.
I’m a happily married woman and have a big scary dog. I recommend a big scary dog to any woman for protection. The way people cross the street any time my german shepherd and I go for a walk is crazy. I also recommend a conceal carry permit. Better to have it and never need it than need it and not have it. Stay safe everyone 💜
I've said that saying for years, especially for ladies, should always be prepared for something to happen. I wish it wasn't this way in the world, but it is.
To all ladies, please stay safe 🫂 ❤
I carry a swiss army knife at all times.
My sister has a Basenji Pit mix and a Boxer Pit mix...and from the side they look like sleek little paragons of boxer or tall elegant Basenji and from the front they *wide girls* so she and my niece have double scary dog privilege out and about.
I have a Finnish Spitz doggo. And he looks like a stuffed toy who turns instantly into Kujo Mode when he gets the signal. I had someone once ask "When...did he get big?"
He has always been big he's just got pretty privilege. Like my border Collie - sooo cute. And *so alert* and she had the two color eyes so the crazy eyes really top it off.
Get you a big pup, they think they're lapdogs. (Meanwhile my lapdog is sure he is the biggest dog in the village)
I don't know why I can't comment so I messaged on here.... Congratulations 👏🎉 on getting engaged!! 💍 good for you
I don't have a dog, I have a husband with several guns, I think I'm good 😂😂. Sadly, not every woman can have a gun depending on where they live so just a dog would have to do.
I had almost the same situation but my creepy neighbor lived above me and began retaliating with stomping, throwing things around, having loud parties, and keeping his TV volume full blast at all hours of the day and night. Also an old building with wood floors. All because I kept turning down his advances. Management spoke to him several times and he would be quiet for a few days and then start it all up again. Of course they didn't do anything about it. When she said this guy offered to give her a massage, it made my stomach drop. My old neighbor said the same thing to me. Big fat greasy middle aged man driving a big truck to make up for his shortcomings. He's the kind of guy who will start $#&@ with you on the highway if you pass him.
OMG the NOISE from those birds is insane. As a native of Brisbane, Queensland, Australia I can vouch to this. Nevermind the shit, it's the decebles these birds hit. Their screeching (especially the rainbow lorikeets when in their hundreds or thousands) can shatter glass!!!! That's just hilarious 😂😂😂
The screeching from the cockatoos is insane 😂 I feel lucky that the ones around me have calmed down a little
OMG yes the noise! Have you been to the weekend markets just before dawn, and *poof* at the magic moment they all take off in one go! (don't be standing under the trees as they do!)
When she called them white doves 😂😂😂
Noise & soft turd everywhere!!! You can't dry clothes outside & have your car cleaned everytime you go out. It seems funny but that neighbor inviting the birds is insensitive. Hope he got pooped on his shirt when he's running late for work.
Can we talk about how gympie rd next to chermside shopping centre at sunset is the loudest damn place with all the rainbow lorikeets that congregate there?
Too many times I’ve parked my car right under there and come back to more birdsh*t than one could comprehend on my car 😂😅
I don't blame her for not calling the police. The leader of the local gang in my neighborhood back in Chicago thought I was narcing on him (I was making a documentary for my film class) so he sent someone to break into my apartment and steal my computers. My downstairs neighbors saw the guy break in and identified him by name to the police (they called 911 before I got home), and the police refused to do anything. My other neighbor saw the leader selling my computers in a parking lot down the street (one had a very distinctive sticker) and when he called the police, they refused to do anything. He later refused to turn down his music he was drunkenly blasting in the leader's parents' building, so the leader pistol whipped him, breaking his nose. He called the police, and they arrested MY NEIGHBOR for threatening to kick the guy's ass. I went to court with him to back him up and luckily they let him off. But this stuff is ridiculous.
This is why the 2nd Amendment is so important
@@rvail136 There is literally nothing in my experience, listed here or otherwise, that would have been made better or safer with guns.
@dianacarbonate right?! My neighbors are always harassing me, driving by calling me names, threatening me, etc. He's always trying to bait me into fights but I've never hit him back til now. Then the cop friend of theirs was trying to arrest me. ua-cam.com/video/0MB7vh0Tnvs/v-deo.htmlsi=ViY6y8Y21rCQNMy_
Unfortunately it seems that's all they ever do. Something happens, you call police, they tell you they can't do anything until basically someone's been killed or something. It's ridiculous. How about preventing crime instead of waiting until it already happened any
@@gachaluna2708 Especially Chicago PD, they are so terrible.
Perfect reason why you should always teach your dogs an attack command and a warning command.. 💯💯
When we moved into our current apartment almost a year ago, this older couple in the diagonal unit from us gifted us their couch and loveseat set because they were getting a new one and the wife of the couple saw us moving in. A couple of months later they also gifted us an air fryer/toaster oven as well as some cookware! I recently had to help the husband because they forgot to place their disability placard and his car got wrongfully towed. Good neighbors are a blessing and not to be taken for granted ❤
I love the twist that she really had parked in her neighbor's spot. Real "you were the chosen one!" energy.
😅😂
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First woman I thought she was my best friend she not only looks so much like her but she sounds like her and acts like her
Like her doppelganger
The only reason i know it isn't her is because she lost all of her teeth and she has her natural reddish brown hair now and the tiktok name is different
But honestly, if she had that person's number and didn't want to put a note out while she was indeed parked in a numbered spot because of the rain - 1) why did she not text her? 2) why did she not clarify who she was or which parking spot the note pertains to or 3. (and I know this is a wild idea) just talk to her and say: 'hey, I saw you parked in my numbered spot yesterday - could you please not do this again?' and then talk about it like adults. I know, crazy idea!
@@mage1439 I know, right? 😄
First story. I totally get being mad. Because she parked in someone's spot for a moment, then sounds like she left and when she came back, she parked not in the neighbors spot. But the neighbor didn't put the note on the car until after the girl was out of the neighbors parking spot. Like if I'm no longer in your parking spot... Why put that note on the car??
Fyi for anyone wanting to know the birds
Green pretty ones are rainbow lorikeets.
The one white bird by itself was a corella
The massive white ones are yellow crested cockatoos
All are from australia :)
I got a Malinoi to keep me safe when my husband is away. Yeah, that backfired. She's scared of everything! A bird flies too close, hide behind mama. So I took in a hoard of feral of cats, and these psychos are all about protecting the one who feeds them. They're the best ❤
I feel like I misunderstood the the parking spot story, from what I understood OP was in an unassigned free spot, and the neighbors tried to claim it was theirs and wouldn't contact OP directly, then OP parked in a different spot and the neighbor the next day put a sign in reference of the previous spot so I understand the frustration there. Or did OP actually park in the neighbours parking spot?
My mom and before her my grandpa feed the crows. After my grandpa died those crows came everyday for months waiting on him. Crows are intelligent birds and will even bring treasures to those that feed them.
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Crows are awesome!
I love crows and have them nesting here. What I don’t love about crows is that they bring people’s scraps and drop them in my yard. It wouldn’t be a problem except some of the stuff they drop is dangerous if my dogs eat it - cooked bones, pork fat, chocolate or a stick of butter . Any of which could potentially kill my dogs.
This is harder than I expected..
I lost my dad yesterday and one memory I have is during covid while taking care of him and his broken leg.. I always watched/listened to your videos as I made him lunch, ever day for 3 months.
Thanks for the memories and I miss you dad 😭
I’m so sorry my dear. My deepest condolences to you! 🥺❤
Oh I’m so sad by this loss. I’m so sorry my friend. I pray you see him in everything beautiful. And I pray he sees the face of God. (If that’s your belief.) but I will still pray my friend. For healing and growth and serenity. ❤
I just lost my Dad too, and the grief sucks. The memories are what keep me going. Sorry for your loss.
Sorry for your loss as well@@gdhaney136
I'm sorry for your lost friend
My neighbor drove me to get my dog from the vet at 8pm on a Friday cuse I had had a few drinks. My dog had been in the er vet overnight and was going to stay a second night but apparently was so vocal about not wanting to be there (and active meaning feeling better enough) that they called me because they would have had to sedate him for him to het any rest. I'm giving my neighbor some cupcakes I baked this weekend. Wonderful neoghbor
I am 62 and I don't miss being young for this reason. So many creepy men, cat calls, drunken passes, men that know they have nothing to lose while the nice guy stands in the corner doing nothing because you are too beautiful, or whatever their fears are. UGH
Yep! I just turned 40 and I feel like I got gifted an invisibility cloak for terrible men! I didn't understand how much relief comes from aging out of the male gaze.
Man, yeah… I’m 51 and do not miss being a thin, leggy blonde with flowing locks and big boobs! My young, Autistic butt didn’t realize how often guys creeped on me, though (in retrospect I realize it) and weirdly, that helped. I wish more women would learn that if a guy hits on you and gets a weird or rude response, a vast majority just kinda peace out! It’s all this passive politeness from pretty girls that makes creepers think they have a chance. Be rude, girls, where necessary. It is a far lesser evil than what that creep has in mind.
I'm a GILF man. Too beautiful is a real issue. Like how are you straight out of my dreams?
I'm disabled and use a stick now, and same
@@moonshinershonor202 I did cause a guy to crash his car into the guy in front of him from rubbernecking me.
there is Always someone else prettier though. My point was it is not easy being young and attractive. Repelling men is an every day thing.
The woman with the dogs story: Ladies, you've GOT to report that behavior THE VERY FIRST TIME. Get it on record whether you look like you're overreacting or not. So many of us have been in this creepy situation. Sometimes it doesn't end well. Why she didn't record him trying to break in I'll never understand. They didn't believe you because she didn't take it seriously enough to make a report. Sorry, but you have to look after YOURSELF.
Document so these creeps can't keep getting away with this crap! These people NEED to know that people are looking at them.
Sorry, love to you all. Thank you, Charlotte for posting that 😘
I think all women who live alone should have cameras too. I'm married and still have cameras in the front and back of my home.
Yeah, keep records and report it. And fix the windows.
I would've had a secret signal with my dogs. So I could sick them on that creep. This girl isn't very smart. She didn't report it and was quiet about it. She's lucky to be alive. She basically gave him herself on a platter.
She is making me so mad I have to stop..she doest say gtfo to him, she doesn't record him, she doesn't complain to the landlord, she doesn't call 911?!
If you do not make a report you have no paperwork to create a case for a restraining order. On the darker side at least when you turn up dead they have a suspect.
That 1st one should have just left a note that said "Oh my bad..." That's the funniest ending possible!
As an Aussie, I have to tell you our “pretty parrots” that were huddled around dishes are called Rainbow Lorikeets. They are beautiful but deafening in numbers 😂😂 As are our Cocky’s when squawking in for a feed. Perhaps this is why the neighbour had an aversion to birds. I love them. As in the Kevin Costner movie “Field of Dreams,” “If you build it, they will come.” 🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜
Rainbow Lorikeets are a hard summon! I was mighty impressed with the numbers seen here. Also, when Charlotte called the cockatoos doves I was losing it. They are certainly not doves by any means.
@@pantsoffgaming1428 that’s true, they are unless you’re close to Currumbin on the Gold Coast 😂 but he was up in Brissy!
I was chuckling too when she thought the Cockatoos were Doves 🕊️ 😂😂 I think there were some Corellas in there but I was on my iPhone so I couldn’t see properly, they still look like a parrot anyway. 😂😂 Noise volume Dove vs Cocky, coo vs screaming sqawk 😂😂😂😂
Yeah those look like Corellas to me? And correct me if I’m wrong, but the last one “is that a parrot?” looks like a Gang-gang Cockatoo. Charlotte, they’re all parrots! 😹
@@redbirddeerjazz it might be a Gang Gang? I zoomed in on my iPhone and still couldn’t really tell but it had the right colouring and looked like a cockatoo so I’ll agree with you, why not! No pretty red headed male but we’ll go for the plain Jane females 😂😂. Have I got it the right way around? Don’t want to upset the birdwatching community in Brisbane of course ❤️ 🇦🇺
@@jojowynne233 yeah that was my thinking, pretty sure you’re right that the females are the plain ones but I’m no bird expert!
second neighbor, aspiring serial killer vibes.
That was my thought too, cause it reminded me of the behaviour many serialkillers have had before they started to kill!!!
As a true crime listener I know she was in serious danger. Pushing that kind of boundary like picking a neighbor's door lock is not normal human behavior.
I am so blessed to have a great neighbor 💝 he's 81 years old and he's more active than I am. He mows my lawn and takes my trash cans out ❤ he even installed a ring cam for my daughter and I.
12:55 she's right since he can attack her. The police can still make a report but he do need his information.
Former property mgr here. The sad thing is, if the cops can't do anything, the landlords probably aren't able to do much (at least immediately). They can go the softer route and do a 14-30. If it were me I'd work with our attorney to get an emergency injunction.
IM TELLING YOU, never let unsecured windows go! That is an emergency, which is standard. Call the management company and let them know you should not have been charged for the two months because your safety concern wasn't taken seriously, including the windows being unsecured on a ground floor. Threaten to put them on blast on social media (reference how many views your original TikTok received). Good luck to you.❤️
They should have fixed the windows
Former property manager here, and OP is ABSOLUTELY CORRECT. Excellent advice.
@@FukaiKokoro , yep. That's kinda what I said. 😉😊
6:10 okay I know this is supposed to be a serious topic but I can’t get over how GORGEOUS her eyes and lashes are!!!! If I had her eyes I’d be batting them so often that my city would have to be on hurricane watch 24/7 😭😭
I used to live in a small apartment above this guys' garage. It was just me, my neighbor, and an older woman who lived downstairs. The neighbor was a few years older than me.
Early on, he came over when I had some friends over and gave us some beers. None of us drink beer, so we just threw them away when he left. After some time, he became OBSESSED with me. He would ask me to come over, he had a gf, and he would corner me in our "shared" space where the washer and dryer was. One time, i caught him trying to pick my locks! I told my landlord who lived on site and he tore into this man. He was seriously my savior. Like, this neighbor tried pinning me down to kiss me and I kicked him in the nuts and ran for it. And he tried to pick my lock! My landlord put cameras up in the shared space (I allowed him to for my safety) and kept an eye on him for me, and was going to kick him out if it continued. So glad I moved out and live with my bf now!
Plz get some self defense classes and look into if it is legal for you Tom carry a tazer.
The girl with the creepy neighbour would never survive the first 20min of a horror movie. Not pressing charges because she doesn't want the neighbour to know but then getting some under paid flunky at the management company to confront the evil neighbour and evict him without evidence is not the smartest move.
Where does she live on the first floor with widows that don’t lock? Sure isn’t NYC. 😂
well, not surviving a horror movie usually depends on whether you're fucking somebody.
As someone born, raised and still living in NYC, you'd be surprised (slumlords anyone?). HOWEVER, a NYer would have taken care of the creep themselves.
The untold story is there was something or someone illegal in her apartment she needed to get rid of before they showed up
But the police would probably tell her that she didn't have enough evidence to press charges, meaning they couldn't really do anything but talk to him. And that could possibly anger him, which is ALSO really dangerous.
The girl with the dogs was brought up to be a 'nice girl' and 'don't cause a fuss'. She *should * have told him to "back the ferk off, leave the ferking dogs alone, I'm not ferking interested in having any kind of relationship with you", and made sure this was screamed at the top of her voice so everyone heard it. Then screamed some more when she saw him trying to pick the lock. By keeping quiet, being a good girl, not making a fuss, she was actually protecting him and making sure nobody believed her.
She wants to have as foul a gob as I have, a voice as loud as a fishwife, and enough aggression in it as her Dobermann.
I've 3 large dogs 2 of which will bark on command, the one to a command in Spanish and the other to "Catholics are coming", but I won't let them get themselves into trouble for me.Stop being 'nice'.
I *used* to have the most wonderful neighbours with lovely kids. However they split up and the house was sold and the one who moved in is really the neighbour from h ell. She complained to the council and said my dogs barked night and day (they don't), she tried to kill my ponies by throwing unsuitable food into the paddock. She nearly succeeded because one got colic and I got a £600 vet bill. She tried to push a heavy metal fence onto the little Shetland sized pony who is blind in one eye. She'd never have seen it coming down on her.
There's much much more, most caught on CCTV.
I ended up calling police and showing them everything.
She told me she's a practicing catholic, hence me teaching one of the dogs to bark when I tell him "catholics".
I miss my previous neighbours.
I get the idea of reporting the guy to the police bc if that guy finds out, if nothing is done, this guy could go mental and attack her as soon as the police leave. I would still make the police talk to him, but I understand why she wouldn’t do that 🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♀️ the fear that nothing will happen and it’ll just piss the guy off is REAL
The problem there was she didn't GO to the police, she passively waited there. So the police options were limited to making it criminal which involved an interview before an arrest. There would have been other courses of action available if she had gone TO the Police station, such as pursuing a stay away order that he is not to go within four feet of her or her door and not to talk to her. Or just to start a stalking paper trail. Or see if he had a criminal record of stalking (if they'll say....). Or other stuff I have no clue about, but other folks here have wisely suggested from their past similar experiences.
And ultimately in stalker cases, unfortunately nothing ever happens until it’s too late
@@heidikickhouse-you need to understand that there’s always gonna be people who will retaliate if you snitch on them. I’ve met the kind of stalkers who will kill you if they find out you went to the cops. They do not fuck around
My yard is naturalized and we have a big variety of native and migratory birds (and insects). Crows are awesome birds. You can bond with them by talking to them. They have great personalities and will bring you gifts.
One more story…I had a neighbor who tried to break in when I was home. I was a victim of a robbery not too long before that but had no idea who did it. Then one day I was home because I called in sick. I was laying on my couch watching tv when suddenly my patio door started opening up. I saw him through my sheer drapes as well. I said hello? Then he ran away. I looked out the window and saw the back of him running away. I called the police and they arrested him. I had to identify him but I was scared so they had me look at him through the door crack at the back of the door to his apartment. I retrieved some of my stolen items. Some weren’t found like my first edition of Sargent’s Pepper Lonely Hearts Band. That one hurt the most. I never had any problems after that until some skinheads moved in two floor exactly above me. That’s another story for another time.
Charlotte be out here doing the Lord’s work and confirming to many of us that it’s ok to want to live in cabin in the woods just so we don’t have to deal with this circus. Introverts of the world, UNITE… separately.✊🏻🙈😂
Yes. Separately please. I already have my middle of nowhere palace. Please find your own. Lol but I do pray you find it.
This is why I love the wholesome corners of the internet 💛 it’s where I lurk and meet friends from the comfort of my home 🫡
@@rybread5363 hello 👋🏻 friend! This is my safe haven.🫡
@@erikarussell1142 oh of course I’d never bother a fellow introvert and yes I got a woman cave at my house now where I put myself on time out daily when I just can’t.
@@isabelaandzico I’m always in time out. Lol I can’t even, ever.
It's important to note that if you have a creepy/dangerous neighbor, you may be able to talk to your property manager or landlord about moving to another property they own. Many own several properties and don't consider it breaking your lease so they may be totally fine with you moving tf away from that creep without messing up your finances
The stalker neighbour story is so scary! We had a similar problem with our next door neighbour and we had to cause so much trouble for him to leave us alone for now. And only because otherwhise it would cost him more time and money that he seemingly deems it worth to be able to keep up with his bs.
The scariest thing is, when you call the police and they tell you, that they can't do anything, unless he actually does something to us. Even when he was litterally making death threats!
It got so bad that I actually considered antagonizing him to the point he hurt me, just to make it stop.
Stuff like this makes me grateful to live in the country 🙏 🙌
My neighbors all get together and have cookouts, ride horses together, ride our UTV's on trails together, share the years bounty, have bonfires, target practice, hunting trips...
Grateful for my little slice of heaven ❤
This stuff happens in the country too & then you're dealing with nepotism because shocker, it's the sheriff's nephew being a creep. Don't get paranoid but just know this happens everywhere, all over the world, unfortunately.
For sure. We lived in a house on 6 acres and still had my mom's crazy ex stalking us
Creepy-ass Neighbor: "I'm trying to get the dogs to like me."
Me, a man: 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔‼‼‼‼‼‼‼
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Real
Don't believe he had a bobby pin
I love her friend laughing in the background because any good Besty will know I got your back even when you’re wrong
Yeah she was the best
My sister has one of the scariest neighbor stories I have ever heard.
Her neighbors were a family of four, and sis was friends with wife and kids. Husband was a true monster.
He would film my sister's family and other neighbors inside their homes through the windows. Then, he brought horses to his property (not more than an acre total), and began using the community well to keep them hydrated.
This well provided water to four homes, in a desert environment. County sheriff deputies had been out several times to tell him he had to bring separate water for his horses, as they were livestock, and he could not use water from the community well for it.
The neighbor who called the sheriff raised German Shepherds, and NFH poisoned three of the dogs.
The situation got so bad, he sued all three neighbors ( including my sister).
On the day he lost the suit, he came home and murdered his sweet family.
Lots of law enforcement drama followed. He had put the bodies in 50 gallon drums, taken to a place in the middle of the desert, and buried them.
He was convicted without bodies because of all the forensic evidence inside his home.
He died in prison before a construction crew preparing land for a new subdivision found the drums.
😢
Damm
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Ugh that’s horrifying! I have a scary neighbor and I told my landlord I don’t use the hallways or garbage shoot at night because of him. He went from asking me on dates to screaming at me and cussing me out through the walls violently banging on them or if I walk by/ let my service dog out and his window is open he cusses us out. I’m worried he would try to harm her as well as he switched to being so vile after I didn’t respond to his date request because he left a note at my door and didn’t sign who it was from not even an apartment number so I didn’t respond then he left a second note asking and leaving his phone number but still no name or apartment number and I didn’t want to call or text a random number given them mine when they already knew where I lived that’s beyond enough personal information to have on be getting to know each other. Anyways I ended up being able to look up the number and figure out it’s the guy who makes complaints about me and my service dog.. did he hate us before the date requests or was it after I’m not sure but it’s scary.
Tragic.😢
@@Lady.Fern. Stay safe, girl.
My mother has lived in the same house since 1966. We have been blessed with lovely neighbors my entire childhood and adulthood.
Next door we used to have a female couple who got our mail and mowed our lawn when we were on long vacations. Neighbors across the street were my unofficial grandparents and my sister and I got to be in their daughter's wedding in like 1978.
They have all shown us love and support when my father died, bringing us food (of course, we're in the south), mowing the lawn, letting us park visitor cars everywhere.
The best part is that my sister has now bought the house next door so we are continuing a big compound. There is really nothing better than a non-HOA neighborhood with sweet neighbors.
I got a dog label aggressive to men. He ended up being from an abusive home so he’s still aggressive and protects me from dangerous situations but is the most sweets adorable blue eyed husky I’ve ever met. I love him more than the world. Never aggressive towards people until you try to lay a hand or come at me ❤
Here for the petty. I live vicariously through this.
Girl with the dogs...buy yourself a small doorbell cam. As for the windows, request security an upgrade to security windows. You can also buy locks that attach to the window frame to prevent the windows from being slid open
I've had and bred Rottweiler, Pitbull and Dobermans since I moved out of my parents house at 22. Having at least 3 intimidating adult breeds in my homes at all times has definitely given me a "don't want mess with that house" sense of protection 💪🏼😊
Hubby and I just bought our first home and the shape of the property is literally like a piece of pizza 🍕 and the neighbors to the right and left are on opposite sides of the crust. We just spent the last 18 years right next to the trashiest, noisiest, trouble all the time, parties, cops coming and going. It was quite literally a nightmare the majority of the time and now we live in the nicest, quiet, peaceful neighborhood. So thankful for the little things in life. 🏠🤫 Life is really good.
Ok so this is how I knew my ex was a POS: one night I heard someone trying to befriend my THREE Rottweilers… there was even a helicopter flying overhead (LA life, gotta love it… not). I asked him to go see who was there but he said he didn’t care and if I wanted to know I should go myself (be kind! it was my first bf and I’d just moved to America) so my sister (who was visiting from the homeland) and I took the first “weapons” we could find and went outside to find a creep trying to get in… we went all savage on his a$s and chased him with my ex’s hockey sticks (our weapons). We came in victorious and told him what we’d done. That garbage of a joke of a human being was not concerned about us confronting a criminal on the run (hence the chopper) but instead was pissed that we used his precious AUTOGRAPHED hockey 🏒 sticks as weapons. Don’t mess with Brazilian girls - Rio de Janeiro, only the strong survive ✊🏻🇧🇷 7:43
That POS would have had trouble walking with his autographed hockey stick up where the sun don't shine...
The confidence I have in Charlotte is that in the 1st video I did not pause so "I" can read it....I knew Charlotte gonna read that anyway 😂😂😂😂😂
the white birds in the last clip are cockatoos! they're a big noisy parrot that travel in groups. the smaller, multi-coloured parrot is called a rainbow lorikeet and they are even noisier and travel in even BIGGER groups, so you rarely if ever see just one or two. that's a whole family gathering right there 😂
I think crows are beautiful! They even bring gifts for the food you give them!
I have horrible neighbors who have literally been plotting behind my back to "bring down" the improvements I've done on the building (which mostly involved making a bunch of stuff legal), but now we have video evidence of one of the complainers actually being responsible for what they complain about, so I'm happy :)
Cherish your neighbor!’ That’s above and beyond and I’m so happy you’re in a good community
5:47 the point IS she left the note on the car the NEXT DAY when she was parked at a free spot! If homegirl saw her in her spot why didn’t she leave a note then or just called , texted her, hey, girl you’re in my spot or are you gonna be long gone cuz you’re in my spot? She also didn’t clarify what spot and what day etc, key details
right, sometimes i defo don’t agree on the conclusions charlotte comes to😭
Exactly I don't understand why people miss the all important context...
Her reaction was disproportionate and kinda unhinged. Her neighbour has met her before and I reckon she was trying in vain to avoid any back and forth with her, knowing she would be like that. I would too.
Yeah, that’s what I mean like after the fact when I realize that she was talking about a completely different day, I probably would’ve apologize but also pointed out like hey how am I supposed to know which spot if you’re leaving me a note a day after I park there, especially if she’s being honest about the fact that she literally was only parked there for two minutes before she left. I honestly don’t think I would even remember if I had parked somewhere for two minutes and then move my car So I was left a whole day after I probably would be like what is she talking about and exactly make the argument this is a free space like why are you leaving me this note here.
On the other hand, this person who knows her could’ve just asked her not to park there again or just mention hey I was trying to come home the other day I had groceries my kids in the car whatever and I couldn’t get in my spot because you were parked there.
Leaving a note is really a passive aggressive way of dealing with the issue and it really seems sort of petty and excessive. If she was being honest about the fact she was only there for two minutes. Somebody like came home and somebody was in my spot for a moment and I got annoyed, but then a minute later I was able to get into my spot or use another spot close to my house, but it was pouring rain at the time so there was nothing I could do about it, I’d forget about that encounter by the next day there would never be a note on anybody’s car. I don’t know maybe if I got like completely soaked as a result of somebody parking in my spot I might be upset enough to remember that the next day and say something but again if you’re on good terms with this person, why ruin that by leaving a passive aggressive note when you can simply send a text message or actually just knock on the person and say hey I know you’re only here for a minute yesterday, but I tried to come home and I had to park over this way, and by the time I got in, I was sopping wet. Could you please not park there again?
@@kandicomarawski1171 that part
The story with birds was Brilliant! 😂 When I traveled to Australia a few years back, we had a whole discussion about cackatoos. Apparently,cackatoos are seen as pests(they destroy the lawns) and are very much unwanted intruders. They are also very gluttonous. Majestic creatures for some and a disaster for others. 👌🏻
8:57 this is when you take a picture of him doing it. Take it to the police and get a restraining order
Better yet, record him, and you confronting him
Yeah and then he pulls a snitches get stitches
I literally gasped dramatically pretty much at the same time as Charlotte here. 9:04
The stalker story is why I got a Rottie 3 years ago. The way that dog goes on high alert and never takes his eyes off someone close to me the moment I start getting just a little uncomfortable. As a single woman who lives alone........no one even dares to come close.
These are so relatable, and I could not be more grateful for my current neighbors. Our apartment now is shitty but the people living in this hellholle are awesome. We help each other, grab food for each other, cook out together, watch out for each others kids, and keep in touch in a big building group chat
Good on you, friend! Community is literally the most important thing we have, and i believe that wholeheartedly ❤
Great neighbor story from my childhood. Our water pipe burst, so my dad turned the water off and was going to fix it when he got home from work. Well during the day, our neighbors got together and dug up the yard (about 20 feet) and put a new pipe in and was done before my father got home. He couldn’t believe it and had a big BBQ and pool party for them that weekend at our house and gave gifts to all of them. Oh, I am 62 and this was early 70’s
Those were the days 💗 love that
Where I grew up, all the neighbors would sit outside after dinner when the weather was nice. The men would congregate on one porch and the women would all be chatting on another porch. All of us kids would be playing together. When we had big snowstorms and someone's car would be stuck all the men would be out there shoveling and pushing the car until it was unstuck. When we had a bad storm one summer and the power was out for 3 days, we had a giant barbeque and the women made side dishes and desserts to use up the eggs or milk that would have gone bad. Someone's car didn't start and all the men were out there with their tools to get it running. I loved growing up on that street. It was in the 70's through the 80's and some of the neighbors still gathered after dinner into the 00's. There were a lot of great memories, but the best thing was how they all pulled together when we were going through the toughest times and how wonderful all our neighbors were all the time.
You had great neighbors! 💖
You had great neighbors! 💖
You had great neighbors! 💖
Aw I'm sending your neigbour massive love! That's what proper neighbours do! I look after my neighbours cats, water their plants and take in their parcels when they are away. They pay me in wine. But I would do it for free! 😊
I'm so glad I found your channel. You bring laughter to very dark days. Thank you.
Hugs 🫂
Love the neighbor coming in with jokes "you broke the cardinal rule"😂
We've got nice neighbours. Our whole street all know each other and help each other out when needed. It's an awesome neighbourhood
21:23 so many cockatoos and rainbow lorikeets. I love being Australian and petty😂😂
Except when the goddamn cockatoos wake you up at dawn! 🤌🏼
Having experience with a stalker, she is correct about the police. Her stalker would not back off, he would escalate. That's a fact. I also had to break a lease and they kept my deposit. I had to have the police standing there while I packed.
That’s probably why Kevin didn’t tell the cops that Ruby Franke was abusing his kids
Crows are COOL, and mystical ✨
DO THE REPORT. If you do a report it’s easier to get a restraining order. ALWAYS do the report. Also, there are bars that you can put in the well of the windows that makes them impossible to open. Always have a protective dog, take self defense and get trained with a pistol. Don’t take anything for granted. I had a guy like this across the hall at my first apartment… you never know what they might do.
The problem is some people will kill you if you snitch on them. Anyone whose ever been a victim of abuse can tell you that squealing on them can make them ramp it up to 11
@@Jackferrett6781 (sorry, this is gonna be a little long but it’s important) a person either defends themselves or they don’t. I’d rather die protecting myself than be someone’s personal plaything. It takes bravery, no doubt, but when a person doesn’t defend themselves, their self esteem is destroyed and the cycle will continue. Secondarily, if a man will do this to this one girl, he will likely do it to another, which means when someone doesn’t report, she is basically allowing other people to get hurt when she could have done something.
I have personal experience. When I was a child - from 4-11, my bio-father was r@p;ng me. I report3d it eventually but I refused to testify because I was afraid and because he was “my dad. And I love him.” He got 10 yrs probation and was allowed to scrub his record after he served his sentence (which meant no registry). When I was 26, I learned that he mo/e$ted my sister and brothers (13 years my junior and 18 years my junior respectively). They refused to testify. Then 5 years later, he mo/e$ted his stepdaughter who FINALLY testified (as did I) and we put him away for 14 years. He hasn’t been caught hurting anyone since. And while I know that I was only eleven, and that neither my brother, sister, nor I were at fault for what he did and what we failed to do, doesn’t stop us from feeling responsible and hating ourselves for it. It’s the one thing in your life that I truly regret, being a coward.
It’s like Emiliano Zapata said, “It’s better to die on your feet than live on your knees.”
I’d trade my life for the opportunity to go back and put him in prison and on the registry when I was the only victim. No one will ever intimidate me into silence again, and I hope I’ve convinced you that it’s worth it for you and the people you know too. Take care. I hope for the best for you my friend and I really appreciate your thoughts on the subject.
@@Jackferrett6781 yeah, people need to be brave, becaseu when they are not, other people get hurt. I know this from experience. If you don’t make them pay, then they will be free to hurt other innocent people. I’d gladly get murdered rather than make someone else go through the hell I experienced. Everything is a trade off,
@@BiologyBabebut that’s the problem. The fear of retaliation or retribution is too big a fear for them. Abusers care about one thing. Being in control. The moment they’re no longer in control they can become violent and unstable
As someone who has people park in "my spot" all the time I'm actually on the passive aggressive note writers side. I bought a condo with two parking spots. It is clearly stated in our original paperwork that we have two spots per household. Then about 5 years into living here, the lovely HOA decided to repaint every other spot with a guest sign instead of the house number, so now magically we only have one spot per household and a guest spot. Now anyone can park in our second spot because it's marked as a guest spot. So it was basically mayhem when this first happened and people took advantage and moved their extra five cars into the lot and no one had anywhere to park at all. The HOA was sending letters out every other week about it, but refused to fix the problem and repaint the spots. It's been years and it's still a problem. The biggest issue is we have to shovel/plow our own spots in the winter snow, so if you want to park anywhere near your own home, you have to do it, but there is no way to then save the spot once you leave. So people would come take your spot that you spent hours shoveling. It's so frustrating.
Sounds like it's time to get a new Board for your HOA.
If your contact says you get two spots then you get two spots, not one and a guest spot. The only reason your HOA gets away with it is because no one holds them responsible when they break the contract. You def have a lawsuit that is winnable especially if it's really been going on for years.
@@norawade8127 as much as I would absolutely love to do that, it's not worth the money for a lawsuit. If I had money and time in my hands, it would be very satisfying, but I do not. Most of us have banded together and pretty much know who each spot belongs to near us, and we try to watch out for each other.
@@hopefletcher7420 one of the neighbors next to me is on the board now, he's on our side 😂. He said he can't do much because the president is the one who changed the rules apparently so he could park his five cars in the lot near his house and take up as many spots as he wants, so until we can get a new president it's not changing, and this guy is pretty ingrained. I work the night shift, so I can never make it to the meetings, and it's really not worth missing work over. We kinda look out for each other in our little lot, at least.
We love you Charlotte's neighbor!!! Wish more people were like you!
That is one of the best sailor moon shirts I've ever seen!! 😍 Jealous!!!!
Unfortunately that guy kicked out of the apartment would NOT help her. That's terrifying though.
Right?! A viewer sent it to me I love it so much. ❤
4:46 Some miscommunication that become somewhat wholesome instead of ugly drama.
I LOVE crows and Ravens! They speak to my halloween soul. They're also wicked smart.
Australia has beautiful birds, first thing I noticed when I moved from NZ to Sydney AU. The crows here are huge and beautiful too!
Exactly. Report it EVERY time. The cops CAN start doing something once there’s enough reports of someone’s weird/creepy behavior/activity. ALWAYS report it to local authorities/police.
You need to realize that snitching on these kinds of people is dangerous. They’re not gonna take it sitting down
@@Jackferrett6781 Nope. But, they will take it *laying* down - pew-pew.
@@kimcham9949 if you’re talking about killing them I’m pretty sure that’s illegal
@@Jackferrett6781 Not when they escalate to breaking-in *on* you or, *attacking* you. That's definitely *LEGAL* .
@@kimcham9949 If it's self defence then it's legal
I had a lab/rottie mix dog. I had scheduled someone to come out to service something in the townhouse. My dog got between me and the door and her hackles went up. She growled and began barking. Never in her 13yrs did she act like this. I told the man I can't open the door due to the dog. He originally sounded fine but then his tune changed when he realized I wasn't opening the door. I told him I cannot guarantee his safety were I to do so. I never yelled at my dog if she were ever to bark but this was next level for her. There's no telling what would've happened if I had not listened to my dog. She did not move until he physically left. I watched through the peep hole until he left and i called the company he was from too.
Good Morning Petty Potatoes! ❤
The way I clicked so fast! I'm here for the drama!
Of course PDX is in this video 😅
Luckily I have awesome neighbors and yes, there are pranks to be had! That reminds me, I need to go buy a catnip plant and my neighbor's yard 😇🤣
We say "Hello Petty Potatoes". Repeat after me; Hello Petty Potatoes
good morning beautiful petty friend! I've missed you 😘
Oh no I’m living in PDX and I can feel the chaos already, good morning ❤
Pdx as well here..we got all the petty drama! Heck, I should write my petty neighbor drama that included multiple cops & court rooms lol
Good morning bestie! ❤
We are unpacking in the new apartment, and I can already say that everything is so much better! I'll be back for this video later, currently binge watching sex and the City 😂😂😂 have a great weekend!!!
I've never met the neighbor on one side of the place I rent, but the neighbors in the house on the other side are super sweet. They're a retired couple and always wave or say hi when we both happen to be outside. And after one intense snowstorm, I was shoveling and shoveling the snow in my driveway, but it was taking me forever because it was just me against mounds of snow. Cut to the two of them coming over and helping me shovel. I did one half and the two of them did the other. How kind is that? ❤️
They also brought their granddaughters over to sell me Girl Scout cookies. Of course I bought a bunch! 😄
So I just moved to my apartment about 2 months ago and this older woman(gives off tweaker vibes) has a dog about the same size as mine (frenchie/chihuahua mix) my dog is not people or pet friendly and has always been this way since puppyhood. I have to tell this to the woman every time I see her because she is always trying to talk to my dog. My dog will go nuts with barking, pulling, and choking himself trying to get to her and her dog. This woman follows me on walks. If I try to go a different route she will stay a close distance behind me and if I stop to let my dog pee or sniff then she will stop. I am trying to teach my dog not to bark or attack however, when she is out it is extremely difficult to control my small dog and my 3 year old who also walks with me. The other night I heard yelling outside of my door and guess who it was? Miss lady with her dog right outside my door! My dog also senses when people approach the door and so he was going ballistic barking at 12am. Another time I caught her during the day letting her dog sniff at my front door. Now the front entrance you kind of have to go into so she went put of her way to do this. Just weird and creepy. I'm not entirely sure how to handle this because she is elderly. But like I said just gives off real major tweak energy
I almost snorted with laughter at 'give us birds!' 'oh they're gathering!'