@@No_e_mii The emotion is in her voice lol She's also doing her makeup and this is now a past relationship. Why would she be crying and emoting a bunch lol
The chick laughing at the break up messages.... I hope she realizes there will be a chick laughing at messages being sent to her eventually. It's so stupid when a woman thinks stealing someone's man is a flex. 1. It's not because you're that awesome. You could steal him because he's that terrible. And, 2. How you get em is how you lose em. Best advice I ever got: If he'll cheat with you, he'll cheat on you.
I love this one saying: if you enter into a relationship with a man who cheats on his woman, you'll be in a relationship with a man who cheats on his woman. It's common that the Other Woman believes it will never happen to her, or she eats up the lies that the ex-girlfriend or ex-wife was so awful that the man couldn't help but cheat. Life is full of ups and downs and is unpredictable. If a man's go-to solution for whatever problems he is facing (whether internal or external) is to cheat, then no partner is safe with him no matter how incredible that partner may be.
no one can STEAL a man.... smfh the MAN chooses to step out of the relationship and disrespect us smfh The home wrecker is the one who opens the door, get a grip.
@@Zero_FawkesHmmm. It almost sounds as if you are defending the other woman. But, as I said... It is stupid when SHE THINKS it's a flex that she got a man that was with someone else..And also that HE'S THAT TERRIBLE... So not sure how my grip is faulty.
@@patriciaredmond3996yeah I love the videos but a lot of the comments are so off base. It’s like certain topics on Reddit you’re going to get the worst advice (like how when someone comes out as gay and leaves their partner and children it’s celebrated on Reddit as brave)
I was with my ex for 15 years (I've known him since we were 9, so 28 years). 2 kids. No marriage. He went through major surgery once and when he came out, he said life was too short and promised he'd marry me within the year or before his next surgery, whatever came first. bro went through two more surgeries, and two more years, still no ring. Not even a MENTION of a wedding or plans. Current boyfriend has already talked to me about rings, marriage and a life together. It'll be a year in about a week. It really is a matter of 'if he wanted to, he would'
But what kind of relationship did that have because 2 kids and so many years together and now you have a boyfriend. You’re literally married by common law in some states . I mean was there love did he treat you good were y’all a team, just not married???
@@FamilyMeza-mk9ri honestly, i thought it was good for a very long time. Yes we were common law spouses and i was content with that. I didn't need marriage. I thought he was my person. But when i was working on my own shit (I went through therapy) and i was telling him i wasn't happy, his response was "you won't leave, you have no where else to go". and honestly, that really started to open my eyes to a lot of shit that I let pass because it was 'normal' but really, it wasn't good for me. My therapist really helped me move my life forward and make it better for myself. My kids have a much happier mom now, there's a lot less hostility and fighting between mom and dad, we're getting along better than we were in the end. I found happiness, and he's free to find his.
@@ServantOfYHWH he kept saying things would change and they never did so I cut my losses and moved on. He had plenty of chances before I found someone new. 2 years of chances.
That was sociopath-level manipulation. You're PART of my family already. They love you. You're going to leave them too? THAT is what bro was doing. Mom was a reminder, not a shield.
I'm pretty sure he was cheating their whole relationship. Fortunately there was one girls girl that let her know. He brought his mom to be the buffer. Yeah that doesn't work for me. I will light you up in front of your mother. The other girl better know that what he did to the girl before her, he will do to her. Who cheats with their family in the same Hotel Lol, I put sardines in my ex's curtain rods.
All over his x box, mattress. Sheets, the floor, the countertop for our bathroom. Just a nice little dusting. I’m sure he still thinks of me every time he sees lime green glitter
I had an ex with some fancy car he adored but it was basically like sitting an inch above the road lol, I hated that car. That’s the only time I ever had a car preference and it wasn’t that thing
Had one come when we wanted a cab(not even uber) and I hated it. I felt sick cause the motion of gear change doesn't happen and i dunno looks wise my dad's longhorn is more fancy.
I highly recommend not ruining someone's car even when you catch them cheating. You being heartbroken is not a valid reason in court when you're getting sued for thousands of dollars of paint work. Then it's just a double whammy for you, you get cheated on AND are legally forced to pay that POS
@ I guess my comment was pulled down even though it didn’t damage the car. I thought it was funny to creep a guy out thinking the tampon was real. By putting shellfish in the air filter is devaluing the car. Anyway, it’s still a funny prank due to it lingering in his mind every time he uses his wipers.
"I'm gonna bring my mom because she won't have the audacity to talk about me cheating in front of her!" Well she thought you didn't have the audacity to cheat, but here we are!
Right? Oh my goodness I bet she would have looked fabulous! If she decides to be with someone else, I hope her next person is a million times better to her.
13 years and he was MAKING PLANS the second his fiancee was out of the country ARRANGING STUFF FOR THEIR WEDDING!! No way it was first if he felt that comfortable to use his IG main...
I sometimes wonder if people who do what he did, on purpose, because they *want* to get caught. Together for 13 years and only proposed the year before tells me he didn’t want to get married, and probably proposed because of pressure from the families. So how does he get out of it without being the one to break it off? Get caught cheating so she’ll break it off and he’s free and clear. If she didn’t break it off, he’d know he could keep doing it and there would never be any repercussions.
Yeah that was super ignorant of Charlotte. Like not everyone lives in a city with Uber telsas. Let alone uber. Where I am there is no Uber. There's no Uber eats..there's no delivery. Not even pizza.
I’m with my now husband 13 years, but we didn’t live together for over 9 years, he was terrified of marriage (both from divorced/separated families so I understood the reasons), never wanted to live together or have kids. I knew I wasn’t the reason for that and I wanted to be with him regardless. Fast forward to the pandemic and even though I loved him so much I had had enough, I was turning 40 and didn’t want to lose my chance of having children if it didn’t work out for us so I told him things had to change somehow. He moved in on a temporary basis, he never left! We got a puppy a few months later and a few months after that we got engaged. We are now married over a year and I’m pregnant! I knew that he was the one, it just took us longer than most to get our little life sorted. He’s the most amazing man and he will be the best Daddy when the time comes, he’s already the bestest dog Dad. ❤
Idk about all that girl, hopefully it works out for your and your kid's sake, but a man that indecisive is liable to show that same indecisiveness down the road. Always have a Plan B....especially in that kind of a scenario.
@purplespaceship2417 yep I agree 💯. I hope it works out for her but I'd had been gone. I was with a guy for 5 years he said he didn't want to live together nor marry ever and stupidly I stayed thinking he'd change then I found out all sorts of fkd up sh** he'd been hiding the entire relationship. No wonder he didn't want me to live with him 😒
I hope he does change but honestly men never truly do. That indecisive nature will show its ugly head when you least expect it. Also congrats on the pregnancy it’s very risky getting pregnant after 40 so kudos to you!
Can i just say that i find these women who tell a story (without skipping a beat) AND do flawless makeup are a force to be reckoned with. I'd screw up one or the other 😂😂😂
‼️How long was she in Dubai?? This was the night before she got on the plane to come home?? How many OTHER girls did he “try to” hook up with while she was gone?? Is this the only one that he got caught with?? ‼️
I feel so bad for this beautiful girl and I'm so proud of her for telling her ex fiance it's over. That would be so tremendously hard after ten years... But she's my hero
So true. I know alot of people would give it another chance bcos 13 years is too much to lose but good for her for not letting that make her tolerate his disrespect.
My brother in law did that to his wife. He made her wait ten years. He actually tried to wait longer but she gave him an ultimatum. 23 yrs together in total and he's miserable now. He has always treated her a placeholder. He's been cheating their entire relationship. She knows but she can't let him go. Idk how some women stay with a man who clearly does not want them.
Proud of that first girl too for sticking to her guns when she first found out in the face of all his gaslighting and her grief, it can definitely be hard to walk away in that kind of situation and many others often stay to try to work it out and then regret doing so later.
My ex cheated on me : This was like 1 year in and she had just asked if I wanted to move in with her. She had a beautiful house and worked as a decorator. I accidetaly saw her kissing a man in a café on my way to work!!!!! I was cruched!!!! But, I'm a petty bitch 😏 In sweden we have "sur strömming", it's the worst smell you can imagine... but worse! I bought a can, used the key she got me and went over to her central heater...... I opened the can and Poured half of the liquid on a cloth and placed it inside.... And, another cloth in her bedroom vent.... I made sure to get ALL of my stuff out before locking the door and walking to the outside part of the ac unit..... I poured out the rest of the can and put her key in the empty stinking can. I hid the can in a safe place and sent her a text saying where she could find the key. And then a picture of her kissing the man
He asked "how could you do this" buddy, what were your intentions with taking that other women for drinks..? That is the issue... he had the idea planned for when she wasn't in town. GUILTY
fr he’s fucking dumb 💀 like girly if he wants somebody else then he can end the relationship instead of cheating like tf is wrong with this man. he’s batshit crazy
I also was with my wife for 10 years before proposing. We met as teens and became parents young. It wasn't that I didn't want to marry her, it was that we couldn't afford it. We just celebrated 27 years together, 16 years married yesterday. Every relationship works in their own way. There is no template to follow.
Exactly. Having a drink with someone and even giving them a ride in his car is really no big deal. The fact he had to LIE about it says he was cheating or was trying to. Which is basically the same thing.
@@rolandhansen812 It's a big deal even if he told me. There's no reason why your guy should be going to have a drink and a car ride with another female. Women give men way too many passes.
No to candies on the car. They can ruin the paint and then you get legal action against you. Vandalism and paint jobs are expensive. Go for the annoying not the damaging.
🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 Unless you are actively planning a surprise party or an engagement, having to lie about something-- that just shows that you know you're fcking up!!!!!
He’s 100% been cheating all along, but only got caught now. If someone this beautiful gets cheated on, then this is proof perfect of why I am not entertaining dating, maybe ever again.
I agree. Between the narcissistic tendencies and cheating, I'm done. Not to mention this thing okay so like I'm a 5, I'm pretty ugly. But the other 5 guys are rejecting me bc they want 10s. So I'd have to date the ugliest men. So I'm done. I'm to hideous for men I guess. That saying about there being someone for everyone isn't true. I have to compromise and get an abusive one. I'm so tired.
@@kristine3356no don’t ever compromise. Don’t speak to yourself like that. I really doubt that you are a 5. Just love yourself, take care of yourself, focus on yourself and the right person will come along. Go with the person that conversation comes easy with. A best friend and partner all in one. Looks aren’t the most important thing when you have such a solid connection and like each other for deeper reasons than just looks. Find someone who appreciates you for you. If you don’t see that in someone, don’t give up so easily and settle. I wish you the best
@@kristine3356what in the world Honey If you truly believe you’re a five then put in the work to be a six. If you want better out of your life find a way to make it. A romantic relationship or not. Don’t hurt yourself with words like these please. You have something to give to people in sure.
Can confirm total red flag being together so long before a proposal…I was with my ex for 8 years before we got married, a year later we broke up and he moved my BRIDESMAID into our house and they are now married with kids. They were side doggin me for awhile. Gotta just laugh it off at this point…
There really is only two reasons a man does not marry you after that long: he is either incapable of commitment, or he is cheating on you. My ex lasted 7 years, but there were no real commitment. He got me a ring, but then never mentioned a wedding or anything afterward. Period. It was to placate me. -_-
Not really. Either that's on you for not communicating what you want or that's on you for settling for someone who wouldn't get on the same page as you.
I’m in a very similar boat. My partner cheated on me not only with his ex child’s morher, so we broke up, he then immediately moved my friend into our home and got her pregant within a month, she’s 6 months pregnant now. We broke up 7 months ago.
Omfg this just happened to me tonight, cannot believe how the universe works. I just started dating this guy(we haven't done anything physical yet but extremely flirtatious and told many sweet nothings) and tonight I walked into a super random bar on my walk home and guess who I run into....the guy I've been dating only he's with his girlfriend who I had no idea existed 😮I was so glad I saw that before wasting more time but oh my sooooo awkward. Why is this so common?!?!
I know! The Pakistani woman who explained it is beautiful, kind, and seems like marriage material! Why I traded that for sleazy hookups with other women, I'll never know. ugh 😔😒
Just a crazy idea for this always-on-line generation: Don’t cheat! You will be caught. If you’re single and want to play around, fine-just don’t pretend to be in a committed relationship at the same time! Easy-peasy! You’re welcome.
Especially today! Cheating in the 1950s is entirely different than cheating when there’s social media, facial recognition etc. You’re always going to be caught today. I’d say it’s the same with crime, since it’s likely going to be caught on some camera, but then you can get off when the prosecutors just don’t care
Unfortunately that's absolutely false. Too many women lull themselves into a false sense of security telling themselves that their man won't cheat, because somehow they're special. The truth is sex on demand these days, it's almost as easy as ordering Doordash as long as you have some money to spare. Lots of options readily available including attractive young women. Many married men have second phones that their wives obviously know nothing about specifically for this purpose. Just because you don't know anything about it doesn't mean it's not happening...it is all the time.
@@Catherine.Dorian. Lmao. You couldn't be more wrong! Cheating is easier than EVER before. Sex is on demand these days, it's not much harder than ordering Doordash. As long as you have some money you can cheat whenever you want. And if you know minimal opsec or have a second phone, no one will ever find out.
The first woman: He finally proposed after 12 years because he felt guilty for cheating. He was never going to. No one waits 12 years to be sure they want to live their life with someone. If you don't know after the first year, you aren't going anywhere. Growth is evident and so is stagnation. Being quiet about your needs will have you robbed of your time and dignity.
The general timeline of a breakup in relationships is the 2 year mark, statistically (& also speaking as a bartender/bar “therapist”). 😊 It’s like the first year is a a trial run, the 2nd year, both parties are seeing if there is longevity. If you are thinking on NYE of year 2, “can I *_Really SEE_* spending another year with this person?” …Holidays, birthdays, etc., just Get Out & stop wasting each other’s time. Spend that next Valentine’s Day with your friends & celebrate your Singledom!!! 🎉❤
When I met my SO, and realized that the relationship had legs, I told them "we'll either have a firm commitment within 4 years, or we're done." I explained that my life was ot going to be spent waiting for anything and that either of us could propose a change, but there needed to be a discussion at some point about where we were going. We got engaged a few months later, married within 4 years. It's been 34 years since. Knowing what you want in a relationship and asking for that is very reasonable. Being true to your wants and needs is important. If you find the person who shares your vision of the future, there's never a thing as too soon or too late, but it's better to start the way you intend to keep going.
Some do if they have debt and don't want to bring it into the marriage or aren't financially ready for marriage yet. There are many external factors besides "Oh we've been dating for a year/2 years/3 years etc. let's get married." Women have a biological clock, whereas men have a financial clock.
@@aidendaniels4063 You can have a commitment without marriage, though. You're right. It all goes back to communication and what's best for the people involved.
That numbness along with the blood rushing to your head making you feel like a read lollipop, being in utter shock when catching your partner out in cheating - I know all too well 😭 hate that feeling
It’s truly a great idea because it’s not criminal in any way and he will have to slowly pick all that up. The idiots who vandalize property are just hurting themselves
12:31 me, and my man have decided that it would be more of a financial burden and hardship to actually get married in the eyes of the government and state resident should just spend the rest of our lives together, knowing we want to be together. So there are like one percent of us who have been in almost a decade, long relationship and never want to be actually married….. but if you’re the type of girl/woman who has said openly that you want to get married…. It’s a decade later, and you still don’t see a ring. Then you probably should run.
I’ve been with my partner for 12 years and we don’t see the need to get married. I’m on his insurance and my name is on everything with his and our life insurance goes to each other etc. there just isn’t a benefit for us to get married.
Honestly though even in cases like yours there should at least be some kind of commitment of as long as love lasts to each other. A little deeper than just an understanding between you two
Back when I was a student, the petty revenge du jour was to wait until a student went back home for a week, put a hairdryer on cool and blow grass seeds in through the tiny gap that was under each dorm door. Then take a water sprayer and spritz the seeds generously under the door. Water a little every day for the entire time the student’s away, and they return to find a lush lawn starting to grow in their carpet.
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
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Story at 13:30, the girl who was giggling about the boy breaking up with his girlfriend at a concert in Hollywood. What made her think that he won't do it to her, the way he did it to his gf. Shame on her cause when it comes down to it, when he finds someone better and more beautiful, he'll leave her just the way he left his girl
I have Covid for the second time in two months (screw autoimmune issues and working in a public school) and every day I’m like “Charlotteeeeee I need more Charlottteee.” You’re getting me through it, girl.
😷I hope you get to feeling better soon! 💖 Charlotte will definitely make you laugh and forget about your troubles&pain for a little while! She's my outlet all the time! 😉Sending prayers from East Tennessee 🧡 🤠 Ps. Drink plenty of fluids, and sanitize, sanitize, sanitize 😁
I mean I was engaged for 11 years before we tied the knot, it's not an automatic red flag. But we were both on board with timing. It's been 30 years all in, so we are good.
My Uncle and his significant other have been together around 50 years not married I've been with mine almost 20 not married. It can work if it's mutual. If one really wants to get married then it's a problem.
Same here 24.5 years, happily not married. We're very much in love and we're both completely open books and easily accountable in what we do. Honesty is always in style. ❤
Same. We have been together for 17 years. People ask about it often. I ask them " Why? It's not like we are having any kids" We are 58. Plus, you get less in social security if your married.....
@@lise7538exactly that with the religious part…most people who get married aren’t religious and I don’t get it. Also the sanctity of marriage has been massively devalued with letting in non religious types to marry in the church
Honestly, getting married kind of screws you over financially. My husband and I likely would have had less in taxes and more in credit/deductions over the years if we wouldn't have gotten married. To marry or not to marry really depends on the couple, to each their own. 😉
With so many drama on the social media, i'm glad we have Charlotte, honestly. We know everything anyway but with her priceless sense of humor and it's much better this way❤
@dinasilva9263 Be careful, it's a bot. It used to have a child as the profile picture, and it's been problematic on other videos. I'll get my comment deleted from ytube if I explain anymore. Just know that "the child" is not a child, and says/asks some horrific shit........
@@dinasilva9263 Tatie dina s'il te plaît crois moi je suis une vraiment une enfant je n'ai jamais menti la dessus mais il y'a des gens comme cette personne qui essayent de me faire du mal 😔
Yeah my Brother and His now wife, we're together vor 13 years. They live together vor i think 9-10 years. They Just didn't saw the need to get married before. And my sister ist together with her Boyfriend for 10 years
It's not an issue if both parties don't mind and are happy with the relationship the way it is. If a partner isn't happy about it then they should say something.
My daughter and her guy had a very LONG courtship, like a decade. The marriage lasted 2 years. 😢 (PS, Lesilemccravy, go, easy, on, the, commas,,, ,,,,,,)
18:48 my sister, upset her boyfriend in high school when we were out of town they completely flooded our front yard and left our sprinklers on and then threw fishing wire with hooks throughout all seven of our trees, and then toilet papered our entire house and all the trees, it took almost a year to clean everything up😂😂😂😂
My husband would never cheat on me. But if he did the first person I would tell would be his mom, and I know 100% she would be on my side and would disown him. The car ride home would be very uncomfortable for him. Lol. She doesn’t play around with that shit, and raised him better than that. So thankful for that woman. I never had a close relationship with my mom and she really fills that void for me. I’ll never be able to repay her for all of the good she’s done in my life, especially raising such a great man that I get to call my husband. We’ve been together for 14 years and married for 3 🩶
@Kelvis.pov4 Yesssss!!! Right!??!?!?!?! He'd never cheat, but ooooo boy she would rip him to shreds, as my parents would/should as well if it I ever cheated 😂🤣 That would be the LONGEST ride home of his life
Don't ever, ever think a man won't ever cheat on you. There are women who thought the same and found out their husbands were living a double life. Only God knows the truth.
@gm-xc5hl Us too baby, how'd y'all hold up with everything? How's the house? CALL YOUR INSURANCE RIGHT NOW AND LEAVE A MESSAGE so there is a 'paper/electronic trail' that you've begun handling everything. If your insurance company *does not* send you an Excel sheet or a checklist of everything, search online for "Insurance flood Excel sheet template" and start working on your own; shock is very weird and will pop up at the worst time. I really hope you don't have to do any of that, but Internet mom doesn't care, I want to get the info out there if needed. 💖💖💖✨️✨️✨️✨️ Did I comment to you on another Charlotte video?? Lmfao 😂 Regardless, stay safe darlin, and be VERY careful driving; tons of traffic lights are dead through the state, and people are completely moronic assholes right now on the road. Squeeze yourself very tightly in a hug for me, a WHOLE 20 seconds, don't care that it feels silly- do it!!! So many hugs from me to y'all 💖💖💖💖
There has to be something about Dubai and heartbreaks. I too had my heart broken just before leaving Dubai back to the states. I tell ya, it was the longest 14hrs of my life!
Couple #1- What a beautiful woman!!! She is stunning. And what about the MVP of the 1st story!!! That lady that told her what’s up is 💯% a girls girl. Big props to her and she’ll always be in my prayers. And the bugs you should put in all the vents, and get the biggest amount of glitter as possible and also put as much as you can in the vent too. Make sure you turn off the air conditioning or heater. When they go to turn it back on it’s like a snow globe when you shake it. And I’ve also suggested to some of my girlfriends to put some in their exes’s suit pockets or whatever they work in pockets.
Charlotte, in Dutch culture it is very normal to be engaged for 10+ years, together even longer, live together with children & then finally decide to get married. They're the happiest & most stable marriages I've witnessed. It really depends on cultural context.
This makes sense to me-As long as both parents are committed to remaining in their children’s lives no matter what, I don’t see why two adults have to marry within some fixed period of time to form a stable family. In fact, rather the opposite! The keys are both the culture AND the maturity of the individuals involved.
Yup, I am French, and it irks me every time I hear "If you are not married after several years of relationship, that's a red flag". Like, no ? People can live their whole life together without being married, that doesn't make them less commited to the relationship. Also talked about putting pressure on people for nothing. We are not in the 50's anymore, people !
This definitely seems to be North American culture thing it's just something that is expected to happen Yes I'd like to fall in love and get married but at 55 the odd are not in my favor not saying it won't I also believe at some point cheating be came expected not nearly as much anymore
That’s the go to when they really know WE KNOW THE TRUTH… what’s really crazy is them trying to convince us we are their problem!!. I shld work for the FBI I PROMISE YOU ILL FIND YOU DEAD GRANDMA S SECRETS
I wouldn't recommend the Jolly Rangers on the car. There's an episode of The People's Court where the sun melted them into the paint and it costed her a lot to fix the car 😂
I didn't see People's Court, but I did see a short posted by a girl who did this and when the guy pulled them off, the paint came right with it! Maybe it's her...
Not that ANY of this is ok regarding that girl who was going with a guy for 13 years - BUT, 3 guys I knew (1 was never a boyfriend, but just a friend) visited me right before they got married - the one who was just a friend, gave me a long kiss, the other two who I had dated wanted to have $%x with me and one of them wanted to break up with his fiance 2 WEEKS before the wedding if I would marry him. I have no idea why they would even THINK I would do any of those. And yes, the last two eventually got divorced from their wives.
My bestie got stood up one night. Bros excuse was mom had a heart attack and was in the hospital. Well, we called every hospital in the lower mainland. She was not admitted to any of them. Didn't let him know that... but... Next date. Needless to say... He was stood up 😂 ☠️ Don't underestimate a womans detective skills.
Those 13 hours is what really let it settle, she needed that. One hour for every year, the universe planned that perfectly.
I didn’t even clock that - you’re so right!!
Omg, I'm a writer and was thinking, "13 hours, 13 years" would make a great memoir essay.
Even the number 13 is perfect.
How do i watch these minus her duuuummmmbbb commentary???
I dont blame him. Look at her😂😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉🎉
13 years and she was able to end it that quick! That is amazing strength! She deserves all the happiness in the world!
Hard to believe that story tbh. 13 years and barely any emotion in her face while telling such a painful story.. But it's entertaining for sure 😅
@@No_e_mii The emotion is in her voice lol She's also doing her makeup and this is now a past relationship. Why would she be crying and emoting a bunch lol
Now Charlotte, he WAS fishing...just not for fish.
For Diqk!?
👏👏👏
Yep!
Like hunting for split tail… 😂
That's what I was thinking. Lol
The chick laughing at the break up messages.... I hope she realizes there will be a chick laughing at messages being sent to her eventually. It's so stupid when a woman thinks stealing someone's man is a flex. 1. It's not because you're that awesome. You could steal him because he's that terrible. And, 2. How you get em is how you lose em.
Best advice I ever got: If he'll cheat with you, he'll cheat on you.
I love this one saying: if you enter into a relationship with a man who cheats on his woman, you'll be in a relationship with a man who cheats on his woman.
It's common that the Other Woman believes it will never happen to her, or she eats up the lies that the ex-girlfriend or ex-wife was so awful that the man couldn't help but cheat.
Life is full of ups and downs and is unpredictable. If a man's go-to solution for whatever problems he is facing (whether internal or external) is to cheat, then no partner is safe with him no matter how incredible that partner may be.
no one can STEAL a man.... smfh the MAN chooses to step out of the relationship and disrespect us smfh The home wrecker is the one who opens the door, get a grip.
@@Zero_FawkesHmmm. It almost sounds as if you are defending the other woman. But, as I said... It is stupid when SHE THINKS it's a flex that she got a man that was with someone else..And also that HE'S THAT TERRIBLE... So not sure how my grip is faulty.
@@jencrowley1682 it's the 'crazy ex' that gets me. Amazing how all these guys all seem to have a 'crazy ex'.
Props to the other girl for saving this beautiful girl from locking her life down for a cheater!
13 years in a relationship, and then to do that. Yeah, he’s cheated before. No way this was his first time.
Exactly, was looking for this comment, the whole comment section is ridiculous, love Charlotte's videos but it's every video
@@patriciaredmond3996 welcome to ✨being early to the comment section✨you’ll find that on almost every video ever along with bots😋🫶
@@patriciaredmond3996yeah I love the videos but a lot of the comments are so off base. It’s like certain topics on Reddit you’re going to get the worst advice (like how when someone comes out as gay and leaves their partner and children it’s celebrated on Reddit as brave)
Absolutely! That was my first thought.
100 percent!! The fake fishing video - he had done this before
I was with my ex for 15 years (I've known him since we were 9, so 28 years). 2 kids. No marriage. He went through major surgery once and when he came out, he said life was too short and promised he'd marry me within the year or before his next surgery, whatever came first. bro went through two more surgeries, and two more years, still no ring. Not even a MENTION of a wedding or plans.
Current boyfriend has already talked to me about rings, marriage and a life together. It'll be a year in about a week.
It really is a matter of 'if he wanted to, he would'
I'm glad you found someone who wants to commit!
Did the original guy try to win you back?
But what kind of relationship did that have because 2 kids and so many years together and now you have a boyfriend. You’re literally married by common law in some states . I mean was there love did he treat you good were y’all a team, just not married???
@@FamilyMeza-mk9ri honestly, i thought it was good for a very long time. Yes we were common law spouses and i was content with that. I didn't need marriage. I thought he was my person. But when i was working on my own shit (I went through therapy) and i was telling him i wasn't happy, his response was "you won't leave, you have no where else to go". and honestly, that really started to open my eyes to a lot of shit that I let pass because it was 'normal' but really, it wasn't good for me. My therapist really helped me move my life forward and make it better for myself. My kids have a much happier mom now, there's a lot less hostility and fighting between mom and dad, we're getting along better than we were in the end. I found happiness, and he's free to find his.
@@ServantOfYHWH he kept saying things would change and they never did so I cut my losses and moved on. He had plenty of chances before I found someone new. 2 years of chances.
He used his mom as a human shield! What a coward 👀
That was sociopath-level manipulation. You're PART of my family already. They love you. You're going to leave them too? THAT is what bro was doing. Mom was a reminder, not a shield.
@@j68715 exactly, a human shield.
No smart
Thats what happens when BroShaming among Bros is outlawed.
@@velveteenv76 think of the peace women would have if more of them shamed each other. 100%
I'm pretty sure he was cheating their whole relationship. Fortunately there was one girls girl that let her know. He brought his mom to be the buffer. Yeah that doesn't work for me. I will light you up in front of your mother.
The other girl better know that what he did to the girl before her, he will do to her.
Who cheats with their family in the same Hotel
Lol, I put sardines in my ex's curtain rods.
major props to the first woman. all the shade to the boy (he's not a man) no kids involved, and dumped him like a bag of rocks.
If he will cheat with you, he will cheat on you.
A woman who willingly enters into a relationship w a man *knowing* he's w someone else doesn't care as long as she's picked.
Yes!! And then they're surprised.
I've heard the saying
U lose em like u get em.
That's so true
The amount of times I've heard Dr Phil say this exact thing.. he's right every damn time
👏🏻Every👏🏻Single👏🏻Time👏🏻
If I get cheated on, fine glitter is going on everything ✨️
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Don't forget the petty shrimp curtains!!! 🦐
Even my SO knows! Glitter is the herpes of the craft world. Once you have that, you NEVER NOT have that!
Yes, Queen!!!🎉🎉🎉
All over his x box, mattress. Sheets, the floor, the countertop for our bathroom. Just a nice little dusting. I’m sure he still thinks of me every time he sees lime green glitter
I've never been in a Tesla, but the idea of being in one doesn't excite me any more than being in any other car.
I have
@@WeOnlySayHello good for you, you must not be poor, some of us are. easy to forget we exist I guess from up there on your pedestal with charlot
I had an ex with some fancy car he adored but it was basically like sitting an inch above the road lol, I hated that car. That’s the only time I ever had a car preference and it wasn’t that thing
Had one come when we wanted a cab(not even uber) and I hated it. I felt sick cause the motion of gear change doesn't happen and i dunno looks wise my dad's longhorn is more fancy.
@@Futurepants-420I’ve been in my friends Tesla, what assumptions would you like to make about my finances? 😊
I highly recommend not ruining someone's car even when you catch them cheating. You being heartbroken is not a valid reason in court when you're getting sued for thousands of dollars of paint work. Then it's just a double whammy for you, you get cheated on AND are legally forced to pay that POS
maybe spill fine glitter inside hehehe you can never get that out.
*red sharpie
Yeah! Just do prawn shells in the air filter / hubcaps
@ I guess my comment was pulled down even though it didn’t damage the car.
I thought it was funny to creep a guy out thinking the tampon was real.
By putting shellfish in the air filter is devaluing the car.
Anyway, it’s still a funny prank due to it lingering in his mind every time he uses his wipers.
"I'm gonna bring my mom because she won't have the audacity to talk about me cheating in front of her!" Well she thought you didn't have the audacity to cheat, but here we are!
That first girl, she would have made a beautiful bride, I can only imagine the beautiful wedding clothes she purchased in Pakistan.
I thought that, Pakistani weddings are so beautiful and so colourful, she was a beautiful girl as well, Hope she finds her Mr Right
He would definitely be reimbursing my parents for all of it
Right? Oh my goodness I bet she would have looked fabulous! If she decides to be with someone else, I hope her next person is a million times better to her.
dude desi weddings are awesome.
What, a burka? 💀
13 years and he was MAKING PLANS the second his fiancee was out of the country ARRANGING STUFF FOR THEIR WEDDING!! No way it was first if he felt that comfortable to use his IG main...
I sometimes wonder if people who do what he did, on purpose, because they *want* to get caught. Together for 13 years and only proposed the year before tells me he didn’t want to get married, and probably proposed because of pressure from the families. So how does he get out of it without being the one to break it off? Get caught cheating so she’ll break it off and he’s free and clear. If she didn’t break it off, he’d know he could keep doing it and there would never be any repercussions.
@sueh2225 the majority of the time is cause they want to keep the girl the fam likes and hes comfortable with, but they been cheating the whole time
I probably shouldn't admit this, but I've never ridden in a Tesla before.... We exist! 🤣
Me neither...I live in Springfield Ohio and we definitely don't have any Tesla ubers
Yeah that was super ignorant of Charlotte. Like not everyone lives in a city with Uber telsas. Let alone uber. Where I am there is no Uber. There's no Uber eats..there's no delivery. Not even pizza.
@@Sarahlovesduane8885but how are your cats and dogs doing?
@@katherinemallon7120 mine are good...my Frenchie doesn't leave my sight and my Cane Corso is too scary lol
I wouldnt get in a tesla, keep seeing pics of them catching fire 🤣🌋
I’m with my now husband 13 years, but we didn’t live together for over 9 years, he was terrified of marriage (both from divorced/separated families so I understood the reasons), never wanted to live together or have kids. I knew I wasn’t the reason for that and I wanted to be with him regardless. Fast forward to the pandemic and even though I loved him so much I had had enough, I was turning 40 and didn’t want to lose my chance of having children if it didn’t work out for us so I told him things had to change somehow.
He moved in on a temporary basis, he never left! We got a puppy a few months later and a few months after that we got engaged. We are now married over a year and I’m pregnant! I knew that he was the one, it just took us longer than most to get our little life sorted. He’s the most amazing man and he will be the best Daddy when the time comes, he’s already the bestest dog Dad. ❤
Idk about all that girl, hopefully it works out for your and your kid's sake, but a man that indecisive is liable to show that same indecisiveness down the road. Always have a Plan B....especially in that kind of a scenario.
@purplespaceship2417 yep I agree 💯. I hope it works out for her but I'd had been gone. I was with a guy for 5 years he said he didn't want to live together nor marry ever and stupidly I stayed thinking he'd change then I found out all sorts of fkd up sh** he'd been hiding the entire relationship. No wonder he didn't want me to live with him 😒
I hope he does change but honestly men never truly do. That indecisive nature will show its ugly head when you least expect it. Also congrats on the pregnancy it’s very risky getting pregnant after 40 so kudos to you!
He should go to therapy
Can i just say that i find these women who tell a story (without skipping a beat) AND do flawless makeup are a force to be reckoned with. I'd screw up one or the other 😂😂😂
‼️How long was she in Dubai?? This was the night before she got on the plane to come home?? How many OTHER girls did he “try to” hook up with while she was gone?? Is this the only one that he got caught with?? ‼️
She was in Pakistan for weeks, so there had to have been with a number of other girls. Thank goodness for the girl that reached out.
He’s likely been cheating for years, if it takes 13 years to propose he doesn’t really want to marry you
Pretty sure she said three weeks.
Love how women are letting each other know. I would want to know.
But no cheater is worth any of your energy!
I feel so bad for this beautiful girl and I'm so proud of her for telling her ex fiance it's over. That would be so tremendously hard after ten years... But she's my hero
So beautiful. And strong to stand by her instinct and put those years behind her for the future she deserves. 31 by my math? She will be JUST FINE.
So true. I know alot of people would give it another chance bcos 13 years is too much to lose but good for her for not letting that make her tolerate his disrespect.
My brother in law did that to his wife. He made her wait ten years. He actually tried to wait longer but she gave him an ultimatum. 23 yrs together in total and he's miserable now. He has always treated her a placeholder. He's been cheating their entire relationship. She knows but she can't let him go. Idk how some women stay with a man who clearly does not want them.
I wonder if she took him back yet?
Proud of that first girl too for sticking to her guns when she first found out in the face of all his gaslighting and her grief, it can definitely be hard to walk away in that kind of situation and many others often stay to try to work it out and then regret doing so later.
dude that first story was heartbreaking, but the “marry that guy” made me giggle
My ex cheated on me :
This was like 1 year in and she had just asked if I wanted to move in with her. She had a beautiful house and worked as a decorator.
I accidetaly saw her kissing a man in a café on my way to work!!!!!
I was cruched!!!!
But, I'm a petty bitch 😏
In sweden we have "sur strömming", it's the worst smell you can imagine... but worse!
I bought a can, used the key she got me and went over to her central heater...... I opened the can and Poured half of the liquid on a cloth and placed it inside....
And, another cloth in her bedroom vent.... I made sure to get ALL of my stuff out before locking the door and walking to the outside part of the ac unit..... I poured out the rest of the can and put her key in the empty stinking can.
I hid the can in a safe place and sent her a text saying where she could find the key. And then a picture of her kissing the man
THIS IS AMAZING. 😂
This is virtuoso petty. This has got to be some of the best revenge I have ever seen. Bravo!!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Ewwwwww, that's so awful and amazing simultaneously 😂🤣😂🤣😂
Dear god this was diabolically BRILLIANT!!! 🏆
My Swedish husband used to run from the country house whenever his morfar would open a tin. He's be gone the rest of the day to avoid the smell.
“It’s not a Bugatti “- haha
It's not a Civic either. It comes with a high enough price tag a gold digger living a broke life would covet it.
And if wanna go that this buggati owners want a beautful tropy wife
Right, oh a Tesla 😂😂😂.
He asked "how could you do this" buddy, what were your intentions with taking that other women for drinks..?
That is the issue... he had the idea planned for when she wasn't in town.
GUILTY
fr he’s fucking dumb 💀 like girly if he wants somebody else then he can end the relationship instead of cheating like tf is wrong with this man. he’s batshit crazy
I also was with my wife for 10 years before proposing. We met as teens and became parents young. It wasn't that I didn't want to marry her, it was that we couldn't afford it. We just celebrated 27 years together, 16 years married yesterday. Every relationship works in their own way. There is no template to follow.
5:49 No lie, first time I was in a Tesla was my Uber ride to the grocery store. 😂😂😂
Same, lol.
I couldn't figure out how to open the door.
@@C-SD me either, my 10 year old daughter had to show me. How she knew... I have no clue.... 🤣
First video- she was right. If it was just a drink then tell me. Why lie?
Exactly. Having a drink with someone and even giving them a ride in his car is really no big deal. The fact he had to LIE about it says he was cheating or was trying to. Which is basically the same thing.
@@rolandhansen812Depends on how many drinks and if some of them are room service.
@@rolandhansen812 Exactly what you said. If it was no big deal you would have told me before she did. Game recognizes game.
@@rolandhansen812 It's a big deal even if he told me. There's no reason why your guy should be going to have a drink and a car ride with another female. Women give men way too many passes.
No to candies on the car. They can ruin the paint and then you get legal action against you. Vandalism and paint jobs are expensive. Go for the annoying not the damaging.
This.
Fr. Be petty but not illegal petty. I would’ve gone with putting post it notes all over his car but that’s just me.
Join him up to the church of Scientology. Personal and work Email, phone number and his address.They will never leave him alone. 😂
Clingfilm.
It's ok, just dont get caught
my opinion, it doesn't matter what did or didn't happen, through messages or in person, girl or guy. if you have to lie about it, it's cheating
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Unless you are actively planning a surprise party or an engagement, having to lie about something-- that just shows that you know you're fcking up!!!!!
Wow can you imagine 13-14 years, about to get married and finding this out 😢 when she says her heart dropped I believe it!
A narcissist will only apologize if they can somehow make it your fault.
All rise for Judge Charlotte!!
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Turkey noises
Gobble gobble gobble😂
He’s 100% been cheating all along, but only got caught now. If someone this beautiful gets cheated on, then this is proof perfect of why I am not entertaining dating, maybe ever again.
Jay-Z cheated on Beyoncé so... no one is safe 😅
I agree. Between the narcissistic tendencies and cheating, I'm done.
Not to mention this thing okay so like I'm a 5, I'm pretty ugly. But the other 5 guys are rejecting me bc they want 10s. So I'd have to date the ugliest men. So I'm done. I'm to hideous for men I guess. That saying about there being someone for everyone isn't true. I have to compromise and get an abusive one. I'm so tired.
@@kristine3356no don’t ever compromise. Don’t speak to yourself like that. I really doubt that you are a 5. Just love yourself, take care of yourself, focus on yourself and the right person will come along. Go with the person that conversation comes easy with. A best friend and partner all in one. Looks aren’t the most important thing when you have such a solid connection and like each other for deeper reasons than just looks. Find someone who appreciates you for you. If you don’t see that in someone, don’t give up so easily and settle. I wish you the best
@@kristine3356what in the world
Honey
If you truly believe you’re a five then put in the work to be a six.
If you want better out of your life find a way to make it.
A romantic relationship or not.
Don’t hurt yourself with words like these please.
You have something to give to people in sure.
Just don’t date assholes and look out for the red flags - i.e dating for years and no declaration.
Can confirm total red flag being together so long before a proposal…I was with my ex for 8 years before we got married, a year later we broke up and he moved my BRIDESMAID into our house and they are now married with kids. They were side doggin me for awhile. Gotta just laugh it off at this point…
That fucking sucks bro
Girl that lightheartedness is what saves you. Far too many women place all their value on being with a man.
There really is only two reasons a man does not marry you after that long: he is either incapable of commitment, or he is cheating on you. My ex lasted 7 years, but there were no real commitment. He got me a ring, but then never mentioned a wedding or anything afterward. Period. It was to placate me. -_-
Not really. Either that's on you for not communicating what you want or that's on you for settling for someone who wouldn't get on the same page as you.
I’m in a very similar boat. My partner cheated on me not only with his ex child’s morher, so we broke up, he then immediately moved my friend into our home and got her pregant within a month, she’s 6 months pregnant now. We broke up 7 months ago.
These women are gorgeous! If they can't motivate a man to stay faithful who can!?
Omfg this just happened to me tonight, cannot believe how the universe works. I just started dating this guy(we haven't done anything physical yet but extremely flirtatious and told many sweet nothings) and tonight I walked into a super random bar on my walk home and guess who I run into....the guy I've been dating only he's with his girlfriend who I had no idea existed 😮I was so glad I saw that before wasting more time but oh my sooooo awkward. Why is this so common?!?!
So sorry that happened to you… but best to find out asap… people nowadays are crazy with this cheating nonmonagamous bs
Because most men WOULD cheat if they could.🙄🤦
There’s never a good enough excuse for cheating. To the bin with you!
hahahahahhahahaa that's such a funny saying 'TO THE BIN WITH YOU!' I read that in a fancy british accent xD
I think that man in the first story has lost something very precious.
I know! The Pakistani woman who explained it is beautiful, kind, and seems like marriage material! Why I traded that for sleazy hookups with other women, I'll never know. ugh 😔😒
@@lillyluvsJesus2 Immaturity. Once he realizes his wrong choices, it will be too late.
Love watching the numbers roll when Charlotte posts❤❤❤❤ so fun to watch her get the attention she deserves after so many years of EXCELLENT work
That’s 100% true. I have seen it happen to friends.
You're the best!😊
@@CharlotteDobreyour the BEST!!!!!!!
@@CharlotteDobre I HAVE BEEN CHOSEN 👀👀👀🥹🥹😂❤️
The little hair tuck at 2:40 is so funny because you know Charlotte is feeling petty 🤣
The "the decoy story, huh?" Followed by the *Hair tuck* was just perfect.😂
Definitely had a few petty thoughts right then.
Dude was like I have mother insurance!!!
Just a crazy idea for this always-on-line generation: Don’t cheat! You will be caught. If you’re single and want to play around, fine-just don’t pretend to be in a committed relationship at the same time! Easy-peasy! You’re welcome.
Especially today! Cheating in the 1950s is entirely different than cheating when there’s social media, facial recognition etc. You’re always going to be caught today. I’d say it’s the same with crime, since it’s likely going to be caught on some camera, but then you can get off when the prosecutors just don’t care
Unfortunately that's absolutely false. Too many women lull themselves into a false sense of security telling themselves that their man won't cheat, because somehow they're special. The truth is sex on demand these days, it's almost as easy as ordering Doordash as long as you have some money to spare. Lots of options readily available including attractive young women. Many married men have second phones that their wives obviously know nothing about specifically for this purpose. Just because you don't know anything about it doesn't mean it's not happening...it is all the time.
@@Catherine.Dorian. Lmao. You couldn't be more wrong! Cheating is easier than EVER before. Sex is on demand these days, it's not much harder than ordering Doordash. As long as you have some money you can cheat whenever you want. And if you know minimal opsec or have a second phone, no one will ever find out.
I can guarantee that this is not the 1st time he’s cheated, just the 1st time he GOT CAUGHT!!!!
The first woman: He finally proposed after 12 years because he felt guilty for cheating. He was never going to. No one waits 12 years to be sure they want to live their life with someone. If you don't know after the first year, you aren't going anywhere. Growth is evident and so is stagnation. Being quiet about your needs will have you robbed of your time and dignity.
When they say "Don't worry about her"......instant Red Flag guy running in the background. Even nice guys do this when they think they have upgraded.
The general timeline of a breakup in relationships is the 2 year mark, statistically (& also speaking as a bartender/bar “therapist”). 😊
It’s like the first year is a a trial run, the 2nd year, both parties are seeing if there is longevity.
If you are thinking on NYE of year 2, “can I *_Really SEE_* spending another year with this person?” …Holidays, birthdays, etc., just Get Out & stop wasting each other’s time.
Spend that next Valentine’s Day with your friends & celebrate your Singledom!!! 🎉❤
When I met my SO, and realized that the relationship had legs, I told them "we'll either have a firm commitment within 4 years, or we're done." I explained that my life was ot going to be spent waiting for anything and that either of us could propose a change, but there needed to be a discussion at some point about where we were going.
We got engaged a few months later, married within 4 years. It's been 34 years since.
Knowing what you want in a relationship and asking for that is very reasonable. Being true to your wants and needs is important. If you find the person who shares your vision of the future, there's never a thing as too soon or too late, but it's better to start the way you intend to keep going.
Some do if they have debt and don't want to bring it into the marriage or aren't financially ready for marriage yet. There are many external factors besides "Oh we've been dating for a year/2 years/3 years etc. let's get married." Women have a biological clock, whereas men have a financial clock.
@@aidendaniels4063 You can have a commitment without marriage, though. You're right. It all goes back to communication and what's best for the people involved.
Girl: “stranger woke me from nap coz he noticed I hadn’t eaten so he got me food.”
Charlotte: “Marry him!”
That numbness along with the blood rushing to your head making you feel like a read lollipop, being in utter shock when catching your partner out in cheating - I know all too well 😭 hate that feeling
That last one with the forks cracked me up... every time he pulls one out of the lawn.... is a reminder he FORKED UP...lol
Ladies, please remember, if he cheats with you he will cheat on you.
It's called forking, because, you know, he was forking around.
It’s truly a great idea because it’s not criminal in any way and he will have to slowly pick all that up. The idiots who vandalize property are just hurting themselves
Thanks, that actually makes sense because it’s not just annoying it also tells on you to all who see!
Even better when you put vaseline on the handles, because it's messy, and hard to pull the forks out 😂
Because he cheated, well FORK him! 😁😆
LOL
10:00 girl you dodged a bullet
12:31 me, and my man have decided that it would be more of a financial burden and hardship to actually get married in the eyes of the government and state resident should just spend the rest of our lives together, knowing we want to be together. So there are like one percent of us who have been in almost a decade, long relationship and never want to be actually married….. but if you’re the type of girl/woman who has said openly that you want to get married…. It’s a decade later, and you still don’t see a ring. Then you probably should run.
I’ve been with my partner for 12 years and we don’t see the need to get married. I’m on his insurance and my name is on everything with his and our life insurance goes to each other etc. there just isn’t a benefit for us to get married.
@@Just-Nikki Exactly! For some people, it just isn’t wanted or necessary
I get free college because I'm married there's benefits lol
Honestly though even in cases like yours there should at least be some kind of commitment of as long as love lasts to each other. A little deeper than just an understanding between you two
Charlotte!!! We're so looking forward to your wedding!!!! Congratulations 🎉👏🏼
He still lied regardless if he physically cheated yet
Lied? He gaslighted the hell out of her!!
he manipulated, lied, betrayed her and disrespected her
Ugh, divorce is tough but thank goodness we have you Potato Queen to make it funny!
Back when I was a student, the petty revenge du jour was to wait until a student went back home for a week, put a hairdryer on cool and blow grass seeds in through the tiny gap that was under each dorm door. Then take a water sprayer and spritz the seeds generously under the door. Water a little every day for the entire time the student’s away, and they return to find a lush lawn starting to grow in their carpet.
@7:33 “Marry that guy”
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19:00 -- Obtuse, rubber goose,
green moose, guave juice,
Giant snake, birthday cake,
large fries, chocolate shake!!
is that fairly odd parents 😂
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5:32 👀 lol Char char don’t call me out like that, I’ve never been in a Tesla ever in my life 😅
Same! Where I live we don’t even really have uber so also never been in those lol 😂
Me too😅
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Our petty queen is back!!!❤❤❤
Project 2025 soon
This makes me feel so sad - you really can’t trust anyone
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
Story at 13:30, the girl who was giggling about the boy breaking up with his girlfriend at a concert in Hollywood. What made her think that he won't do it to her, the way he did it to his gf. Shame on her cause when it comes down to it, when he finds someone better and more beautiful, he'll leave her just the way he left his girl
It was his co worker that the gf had a feeling about. So I assume they have been cheating for a while.
I have Covid for the second time in two months (screw autoimmune issues and working in a public school) and every day I’m like “Charlotteeeeee I need more Charlottteee.”
You’re getting me through it, girl.
My daughter just got over it. She also has autoimmune issues, as I. Get well soon. 🧡🤗✌️
😷I hope you get to feeling better soon! 💖 Charlotte will definitely make you laugh and forget about your troubles&pain for a little while! She's my outlet all the time! 😉Sending prayers from East Tennessee 🧡 🤠 Ps. Drink plenty of fluids, and sanitize, sanitize, sanitize 😁
i’m lying on the couch with corona too atm and i’m on life support with her videos 😂
I mean I was engaged for 11 years before we tied the knot, it's not an automatic red flag. But we were both on board with timing. It's been 30 years all in, so we are good.
5:17 😂😂😂 QUEEN! ❤
Seen this comment immediately as it was happening 😂😂
"He never thought I would leave him." Yep that says it all right there.
My Uncle and his significant other have been together around 50 years not married I've been with mine almost 20 not married. It can work if it's mutual. If one really wants to get married then it's a problem.
It's quite common for us in France. Most people are not religious anymore and there's not that much financial benefits to being married anymore.
Same here 24.5 years, happily not married. We're very much in love and we're both completely open books and easily accountable in what we do. Honesty is always in style. ❤
Same. We have been together for 17 years. People ask about it often. I ask them " Why? It's not like we are having any kids" We are 58. Plus, you get less in social security if your married.....
@@lise7538exactly that with the religious part…most people who get married aren’t religious and I don’t get it. Also the sanctity of marriage has been massively devalued with letting in non religious types to marry in the church
Honestly, getting married kind of screws you over financially. My husband and I likely would have had less in taxes and more in credit/deductions over the years if we wouldn't have gotten married. To marry or not to marry really depends on the couple, to each their own. 😉
When I found out my LEO husband was cheating on me after 16 yrs together, I used his toothbrush to clean the bathroom 🚽!!
😂 never again will I entertain a Leo.
I used to do this even if I just argued with my ex!
tf u mean leo husband.. leo doesnt mean you are a piece of sht u know...
@@-ne5cr wiser words have never been said
When you say Leo are we talking 👮🏻 or 🌟🦁?
With so many drama on the social media, i'm glad we have Charlotte, honestly. We know everything anyway but with her priceless sense of humor and it's much better this way❤
@dinasilva9263 Be careful, it's a bot. It used to have a child as the profile picture, and it's been problematic on other videos.
I'll get my comment deleted from ytube if I explain anymore.
Just know that "the child" is not a child, and says/asks some horrific shit........
@@dinasilva9263 Tatie dina s'il te plaît crois moi je suis une vraiment une enfant je n'ai jamais menti la dessus mais il y'a des gens comme cette personne qui essayent de me faire du mal 😔
@@dinasilva9263 Tatie dina je suis vraiment une enfant s'il te plaît crois moi je dis la vérité les gens sont méchants sur internet
0:34 my brother,and his,fiancée dated,for 7 years,before popping,the question,and is getting married,next year,in April
Yeah my Brother and His now wife, we're together vor 13 years. They live together vor i think 9-10 years. They Just didn't saw the need to get married before. And my sister ist together with her Boyfriend for 10 years
but 13 is almost double that time 😬
Lol I've been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years 😅
It's not an issue if both parties don't mind and are happy with the relationship the way it is. If a partner isn't happy about it then they should say something.
My daughter and her guy had a very LONG courtship, like a decade. The marriage lasted 2 years. 😢 (PS, Lesilemccravy, go, easy, on, the, commas,,, ,,,,,,)
18:48 my sister, upset her boyfriend in high school when we were out of town they completely flooded our front yard and left our sprinklers on and then threw fishing wire with hooks throughout all seven of our trees, and then toilet papered our entire house and all the trees, it took almost a year to clean everything up😂😂😂😂
My husband would never cheat on me. But if he did the first person I would tell would be his mom, and I know 100% she would be on my side and would disown him. The car ride home would be very uncomfortable for him. Lol. She doesn’t play around with that shit, and raised him better than that. So thankful for that woman. I never had a close relationship with my mom and she really fills that void for me. I’ll never be able to repay her for all of the good she’s done in my life, especially raising such a great man that I get to call my husband. We’ve been together for 14 years and married for 3 🩶
@Kelvis.pov4 Yesssss!!! Right!??!?!?!?!
He'd never cheat, but ooooo boy she would rip him to shreds, as my parents would/should as well if it I ever cheated 😂🤣
That would be the LONGEST ride home of his life
Don't ever, ever think a man won't ever cheat on you. There are women who thought the same and found out their husbands were living a double life. Only God knows the truth.
I am just so glad to have my power and internet back on so I can watch Charlotte!
@gm-xc5hl Us too baby, how'd y'all hold up with everything? How's the house?
CALL YOUR INSURANCE RIGHT NOW AND LEAVE A MESSAGE so there is a 'paper/electronic trail' that you've begun handling everything.
If your insurance company *does not* send you an Excel sheet or a checklist of everything, search online for "Insurance flood Excel sheet template" and start working on your own; shock is very weird and will pop up at the worst time.
I really hope you don't have to do any of that, but Internet mom doesn't care, I want to get the info out there if needed. 💖💖💖✨️✨️✨️✨️
Did I comment to you on another Charlotte video?? Lmfao 😂
Regardless, stay safe darlin, and be VERY careful driving; tons of traffic lights are dead through the state, and people are completely moronic assholes right now on the road.
Squeeze yourself very tightly in a hug for me, a WHOLE 20 seconds, don't care that it feels silly- do it!!!
So many hugs from me to y'all 💖💖💖💖
The setup by having the Mom come along... YIKES, the manipulation. 😮
There has to be something about Dubai and heartbreaks. I too had my heart broken just before leaving Dubai back to the states. I tell ya, it was the longest 14hrs of my life!
12:50 i think it was because he was at the bar with her, but he was posting about being on a fishing trip on social media.
Can't mow your lawn until the forks are removed. Known as "Forking A Lawn" in some circles 😊
If you're super petty, you break the handles off at the height of the grass.
so early!!! love you potato queen ❤
19:14 I wouldn't recommend trashing someone's car, even if he/she deserves it. You could get charged with destruction of property.
Couple #1- What a beautiful woman!!! She is stunning. And what about the MVP of the 1st story!!! That lady that told her what’s up is 💯% a girls girl. Big props to her and she’ll always be in my prayers. And the bugs you should put in all the vents, and get the biggest amount of glitter as possible and also put as much as you can in the vent too. Make sure you turn off the air conditioning or heater. When they go to turn it back on it’s like a snow globe when you shake it. And I’ve also suggested to some of my girlfriends to put some in their exes’s suit pockets or whatever they work in pockets.
CHARLOTTE I don't think our definition of raw doggin is the same!😂😂
Lol watching this while riding in a Tesla uber 😁
Our 👸 looking glowingly-gorgeous!!
Like this comment if you, like me, have never ridden in a Tesla 😂
I've never ridden in one and really don't want to... I prefer other cars... and definitely not electric ones... no thanks 😊
12:03 they do want to commit but not to the person they are with at the moment 😂😂😂
When you said "mmmkay." Sounded so Canadian. 😂 Lol love u potato queen!! ❤❤
Charlotte, in Dutch culture it is very normal to be engaged for 10+ years, together even longer, live together with children & then finally decide to get married. They're the happiest & most stable marriages I've witnessed. It really depends on cultural context.
This makes sense to me-As long as both parents are committed to remaining in their children’s lives no matter what, I don’t see why two adults have to marry within some fixed period of time to form a stable family. In fact, rather the opposite! The keys are both the culture AND the maturity of the individuals involved.
Yup, I am French, and it irks me every time I hear "If you are not married after several years of relationship, that's a red flag". Like, no ? People can live their whole life together without being married, that doesn't make them less commited to the relationship.
Also talked about putting pressure on people for nothing. We are not in the 50's anymore, people !
Right. But neither of these people were Dutch? So it’s not normal for them.
@@redeye1016 Yeah, we all got that-the point was just that the expectations of marriage after X years together is far from universal.
This definitely seems to be North American culture thing it's just something that is expected to happen
Yes I'd like to fall in love and get married but at 55 the odd are not in my favor not saying it won't I also believe at some point cheating be came expected not nearly as much anymore
Yay! A Sunday Charlotte Queen video!
3:56 you’re crazy-- the easiest cover up 😂
In these kind of situations, if someone calls you crazy then you already know that they are the actual crazy ones. And they are actually cheating.
That’s the go to when they really know WE KNOW THE TRUTH… what’s really crazy is them trying to convince us we are their problem!!. I shld work for the FBI I PROMISE YOU ILL FIND YOU DEAD GRANDMA S SECRETS
Charlotte!! HE FORKED UP!! 🤣🤣🤣
I’m the queen of missing the plot but ND to the point where obscure stuff is the air I breathe.. 😜👍
The man who broke up threw text sooooo tryed to get back with that girl afterwards
Love seeing Charlotte! Today is a moody cold rainy day! Thank you Petty Queen!
I wouldn't recommend the Jolly Rangers on the car. There's an episode of The People's Court where the sun melted them into the paint and it costed her a lot to fix the car 😂
I didn't see People's Court, but I did see a short posted by a girl who did this and when the guy pulled them off, the paint came right with it! Maybe it's her...
I heard that on tiktok! 😂😂
The original story was gummy bears.... interesting how quickly a tale gets warped & changed!!!😂
Not that ANY of this is ok regarding that girl who was going with a guy for 13 years - BUT, 3 guys I knew (1 was never a boyfriend, but just a friend) visited me right before they got married - the one who was just a friend, gave me a long kiss, the other two who I had dated wanted to have $%x with me and one of them wanted to break up with his fiance 2 WEEKS before the wedding if I would marry him. I have no idea why they would even THINK I would do any of those. And yes, the last two eventually got divorced from their wives.
she seems like a nice person...hope she finds someone that will really love her
My bestie got stood up one night. Bros excuse was mom had a heart attack and was in the hospital. Well, we called every hospital in the lower mainland. She was not admitted to any of them.
Didn't let him know that... but...
Next date. Needless to say...
He was stood up 😂 ☠️
Don't underestimate a womans detective skills.