How To Identify The HIDDEN WAYS of A COVERT Narcissist? Most Manipulative NPD Type
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- Опубліковано 1 жов 2024
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This is an in-depth Hindi video on identifying the multiple traits of Covert or Vulnerable Narcissists; one of the most difficult to identify narcissism due to its hidden, & not obvious nature. Although much attention has been given to Overt Narcissism in recent times, Covert Narcissism still remains a mystery to most people, allowing Covert Narcissists to get away with even greater damage in all kinds of relationships whether as family members, professional superiors & colleagues; community workers, public figures, etc. It also aims to bring awareness about why narcissism, especially the Covert kind can create traumas for a lifetime; through deeply emotionally & psychologically debilitating, & even dangerous ways. This video is the 2nd in a series of videos discussing various crucial aspects of Narcissism, including how one can deal with it, protect against it, begin to heal from it, and avoid it from infiltrating our lives in the first place.
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DISCLAIMER: The content shared here is not a substitute for professional support. It is only a tool to help create understanding & awareness. No information shared in this video is intended to diagnose or cure any individual or any health conditions. If you are experiencing any concerns with your mental, physical, emotional, or psychological health, OR feel your well-being or safety is being seriously affected by a Narcissist, please proceed cautiously; & connect with a counselor or professional health care practitioner who has experience with dealing with Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
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Not all Narcissists are monsters, they are just more self oriented than other. When this self obssession becomes so high then they can be destructive but when the self obssession is in their control then they are not dangerous.
Or vese bhi thode bhot narcissistic characters to sab me hote h.👍
I’m not sure you’ve actually really dealt with someone with NPD. Please don’t confuse “having a few narcissistic characters” with being an actual ‘Narcissist’ or having ‘NPD’ which is a fully clinically recognizable personality disorder. (Infact, the very 1st thing I do in my 1st video, ‘Types of Narcissism’ is clear this misconception because people misuse this term & use it loosely). 2ndly, one may choose to call an actual Narc. “Monsters” or not, or choose to exchange stronger words for soft ones like “self oriented” for them, but words do not change facts. And nothing is an excuse for being ignorant of the highly toxic, gaslighting, & destructive behavior Narcs. bring into the lives of those who they choose to make their fuel or scapegoats. I suggest you educate yourself well on this topic since there’s plenty of great publicly available research & thousands of first hand shares & comments of those around the works; every age group, gender, background, & ethnicity who’ve suffered deeply at the hands of Narc. partners, parents, siblings etc. Please do not trivialize the actual mental/emotional/psychological or physical trauma of having to deal long term with a Narc. nor underestimate the capacity of a Narc. to consciously & deliberately destroy the fabric of happiness & peace of those around them. They lack core inner happiness, moral compass & much more.
Also, I don’t know how you define terms like “self oriented”, or “success”. When defined right, those are actually INNER traits of strong character, courage, truth, self awareness, & wisdom which translate positively into outer life at home & work. As far as “self obsession”, goes, “obsession” of any kind in itself speaks of a negativity & inner imbalance & need of inner work & healing. Not being a Narcissist but still manipulating, seducing, or bullying others in whichever ways for one’s own growth, agendas is not an excuse; nor is it smart work. It still makes one a terribly toxic personality on the way to great long term inner unhappiness & others have every right to protect themselves from such a person! That’s part of what’s wrong with the world. Narcissistic traits are being glorified outwardly as something necessary or impressive. In reality, they’re only symptomatic of great inner emptiness & misery! As far as difference between narcs & non narc toxic people go, I actually have an entire video on it to make sure people do not wrongly label everyone toxic as a Narcissist.
Finally, no one is responsible for making a Narc. “more destructive”. In fact, that’s where the gaslighting continues in the belief that someone else can do something more or something better to keep the Narc. happy! In reality, Narcs. are insatiable & ungrateful to the core & are themselves responsible for what they create in their life. Others can choose to hold compassion for the Narc. in their hearts but they still don’t hold any responsibility to change the Narc. And they have every right to be educated about Narcs. & about how to maintain their own health, sanity & happiness, & boundaries & to protect the fabric of their life👍
Narcs are destructive in every sense. They are extremely destructive
Narsist narsist ho tha hai our kya 😢😢😢😮😮😮yuk
Narcissist appear nice and confident sometimes even caring but the total opposite personality is shown to their family and relationships. Their self obsession comes with a greater cost to their close ones as they try to break your confidence to feel great. They find fault in your behavior to justify their toxicity. If you are a friend or aquintance of a narcissist chances are quite high you will never see their ugly side. The side that is highly jealous insecure physically emotionally abusive that constantly scan you for faults and try to control your life from what you wear to what you speak what you eat and how you sleep so please educate yourself
My wife has all the points in this vdo.. nd we are on the verge of divorce after 8 yrs of marraige with a 1.5 yr old daughter.
Trust me. no one wants to be with a covert NPD, and when u find out, ur life and soul is litetally sucked out
I have got to know after 15 years of marriage... He was faking entire relationship.. He has his secret life.. When he ll b exposed, I am waiting for his reactions 😂 he thought he spoiled my life. I ll cry.. No... I am facing with bravery... I defeated him.
bravo 🎉
Aise covert narcissist aksar introverts hote hai aur chupke war karthe hai.... The most dangerous types.... Has haske zehar pilane Wale...Kam baat karke logonka bharosa jeeth Lethe hai... Maasomiyat ka dong inse jyaada koi nahi kar sakthe
@@srks21 muje ek ese hi insaan se pyaar ho gaya tha or kese us insaan ne mere emotions ke sath khela ki muje pta hi nhi chala or ab mene usko block kr diya hai
22 years bitane ke bad Vedio dekhane ke bad pata chala ki husband narc hai ,mai hamesha use kaise khush karu ki o angerry na ho laikin wo koi bhi chotasa point nikal ke gussa nikalta raha
I’m so sorry to hear about your pain! Keep watching all videos of this series. I truly hope aap apne healing ke liye aage ka raasta bana sakein. You deserve a better life for yourself❤️
They can never be happy
Mere father bhi aise he hai ...... He's sick
Mere sath ye hi ho rha hai... Sara din hsane ki koshish karte raho bss... Unko khush karo... 13 saal ho gye... Khud ro ro ke sona pdta hai
Actually the thing is you can never please a narcissist.
They can't be changed.
They'll die with their disorder.
So don't try it at all.
If you do, you'll lose your sanity.
You're damn right. A covert narcissist is at least 10 times dangerous than their overt counterparts. It's really hard to figure it out that someone in your life is actually a covert narcissist. They're terribly adept at hiding their true self from those around them. For instance, I'm the master mind (INTJ),but I couldn't figure it out that one of my parents is a covert narcissist until recently. Now, my covert narcissistic parent is in their late 60s and nobody except me know who they really are.
In order to spread awareness about narcissistic personality disorder please keep up the good job so that people in general can understand what a narcissist especially a covert narcissist actually is, how they abuse those around them, and how they operate under the facade.
Thank you very much for spreading awareness. 🌼
🙏🤍❤️
After 21 years I know my wife is narcissistic personality disorder.
What you are saying I knowing deeply . No one can understand, only one who lives with them, they only knows. Each word is true. Thanks for this invaluable knowledge. I am happy somebody knows us. Thanku.
There are thousands across the continents who have experienced life around a narcissist; & seek to take back their own right to live a higher life through true awareness. You’re def. not alone. Wish u much power👍❣️
They will make us zinda lass live dead, they destroyed ur socially economically mentally. When u drained, it has no impact on them and it give them power
Sir please save your mental health and leave her nothing she offers is worth the trauma you are going through God bless u
आप हिन्दी Videos में 10% Eng term के अतरिक्त पूरा हिन्दी में ही बोलें
अन्यथा Videos कबाड़ बनते रहेंगे,
Not interesting
True everything you said. Had horrible experience with a friend.Very painful experience. I consider her as a friend. But she considered me as a supply.I had no idea about empath & Narcissist.
Same here
This is life only empath suffer and Narc enjoy. I have been suffering for last 11 years.
@Fahima Yousuf it's easy to leave them if they are friends, but if they are your partner, you got jahnnum in this world, and our Asian culture put ghee in fire.
मॅडम ज्यादा से ज्यादा हिंदी बोलने का प्रयास किजिए समजने मे मदत होगी 👍
Sure!:)
You give an example as (Katha movie). It is more understandable than that. If someone can give an example of a movie then you should see it, it will be good for you.❤❤❤❤
very very true , and facts to point
After 20 years i know my husband is a narcissist parson.
Amazing! You deserve at least one billion subscribers, if not more, for what you actually deserve.
my husband is narc , i lost my father 11yrs ago jab oske thode din bad jab maine mummy ko mere ghar bulaya tabbmin or mummy hall me so rahe the tabbsuab around 3. 45 am maine mummy ko husband ke bedrooms ke bahar ate dekha mine itnahi dekha per mein khud ko samzake chup rahi . muz per subah se rat tak gussa karte he . waise ghar ke kam me help karte he dusro ko bhi help karte he sab onko accha bolte he kisiko yakin nahi hoga ki muzse kaise behve karte he ghar me help karte he per jatate rahte he muze bahut taklif hoti he vichar karti hu kitni choti hoti he jindagi per isme bhi log pyar se koy nahi rahate.
Please take care of yourself, I hope you find ways to stand up for yourself & come out of the abusive cycle. Wishing you healing, peace, & light❣️
Most common symptom is they need over admiration in 2.5 year i trying to cure him and in that process I m completely drained out. But now my brain is acept that its not gonna changed.......
You cannot cure or change narcissists.
😈😈😈
क्या ऐसे लोग जीवन मे कभी सुधर सकते हैं?
You have an extraordinary understanding of the covert narcissist. After watching the video, not only did I like your video, but I also subscribed to your channel. I have to explore your entire channel to gain wisdom. Sending love from Pakistan!
Thank u & Welcome to this healing space of self awareness & expansion🙏❣️
Perfect Sister! Well explained.
I have experience and have done good amount of research on Narcissist and I can validate all your Information.
Best available info in Hindi. Appreciate your Work.
Thank you!🙏❣️Stay aware & help
spread awareness on NPD👍
Kya aise logo ka normalisation ho sakta hai? Kya aap se contact ho sakta hai…. I feel listening a vdo even heals for wounds and give understanding of tangled unsolved past situations… so if get opportunity for one to one session.. it may be great healing effect even with online session… kindly reply… may I reach to u💐🙏🏻
You might want to seek services of a narcissism specialized mental health professional for your specific needs. At this time, I only provide Reiki healing & tarot guidance, mostly in U.S. I might at some later point make extra online general inner healing guidance available to interested people through purchasing my UA-cam channel membership. Whenever I do so, I’ll announce it. For general narcissism guidance, please feel free to watch my entire Narcissism playlist as well as relationships playlist👍❣️🙏
Trust issue tobh hota hay job barbar logatar tutta hay
Trust ke bad na rehena issue nehi reality
Aap sahi ja rahe ho , pr english jyada ho raha hai aur thoda jaldi jaldi ho raha hai baki sabko touch kiya hai .
Thank you it's help me alot
Maam e narcissist log hum jaise empath soul ke piche padte hain zada😡.In logo ke bajase life ruin ho jati hain .Depression hone lagti hain 😏.In se kaise bachu maam deal kaise karu 😫.
Here is the video to help you on how to better deal with Narcissists, if you have not already watched.
ua-cam.com/video/5YkJQvgClRE/v-deo.html
@@SoulfulnesswithShuchi thank u ma'am 😊.
Abhi hi leave them, ignore them, no contact. And never look back. We are with you ❤
@@mohitgarhwal5049 narssissict to humse nhi vagte to hum empath ko kue inse vagna padta hain. Akhir hum kabtak vage inse. Kya kabhi wo din ayegi ki hum bhi unlogo ki tarah life lead kar payenge. Empath life is poisonous for me. Narssissict kitne acche se life lead karta hain 😫😣😩. Hum empath log kue inke jaise life lead nhi kar sakte.
@@divinesoulpragatiscreativi8526 your are right. Hum bhag rahe hain. Jaise aap nadi kinaare baithoge na ki naali ke😅. Aap agar naye Or sacche acche dost banaoge toh unki waise hi jal jayegi😂. Or aap dheere dheere thik or accha feel karne lagoge unko छोड़ kar
Lekin wo kabhi khush nahi hote, prem nahi hota unko. Unka sabse bada डर है, अकेलेपन। Be brave 😎💪and happy😊. Main bhi victim tha narcissist abuse ka isliye bata raha hun.
YES YES YES, so many touchpoints.. over time it came to be in bits and pieces (our brain is a wonderful gift) and today watching this is validation to all those realisations. I'm glad also that it's in hindi so can reach more people and that it's also extensive info and not just the popular pointers.. hopefully it comes to the aid of many like me who suffered first hand.
sadly it was my 'best friend'
Yes, the realization that someone is a ‘narcissist’ often comes quite late; sometimes after years, when all the bits & pieces suddenly connect. But once it does, next time onwards it should be quite easy to recognize esp. if one is wise & aware❣️That’s also why the immense research behind this topic is truly life clarifying & appreciated in present times:)
आप एग्जांपल देते हो जैसा( katha movie) .का उससे ज्यादा समझ में आता है और कोई मूवी का एग्जांपल दे सकता है तो आप देखे तुम्हें अच्छा रहेगा।❤❤❤❤
Mri mother covert narc hai
excellent explaination ... BPD p bhi bnana )femalecovert narc) ... im one of the victim discared 2 yrs back ... she changed 3 personality within 2 year obviously to lure ne supply
Kya vo hamesh jhuth b bolte hai ?
90% jhoot 10%sach
They are pythalogical lier... They lie compulsively
Mere husband 😓
Thanks a lot for the valuable information.
Mam ya to hindi me bolo ya fir english
Aise to samajh kam aa rahi hai
Ye narcissism ke shuru ke kush videos hain. Baki sab mein iss baat ka dhyaan rakha gaya hai:)👍
I am married for 50 years I did not recognise . Only last one year I realised :(
Suffered a lot
Very very nice explanation. Bcoz I suffered it for12 years😅.not now .Thanks alot.
Teacher narcist hn kia krun ? I m empath he is trying to insult me n playing mind games whtshould i do?
Even Pani lena bhi insabke k beech ek bada struggle hai
I would like you to explain.that will be helpful
@@archanajain738 😢😢
U r one of the best explainer of this subject, I have seen various Indian and abroad videos on this subject as I have been staying with a covert for last 11 years and have a lovely son who is suffering now too due to this person. Everything u explain its story of my life.
Mam I deal with narcrestic saas sasur and husband and not even inlaws unke Bhai sab mam meri life hell ban chuki hai or unki khud ki beti ko wo puri tarah barbad krna chahte hai
I’m sorry to hear that. Yes, there can be narcissistic as well flying monkeys family members under the same roof & that would be a horrible situation. However, just remember that all the people you talk about actually must display all or most of the specific’ narcissism traits’ in order to fall under NPD spectrum. Other people can be toxic too, but they won’t be labeled as ‘Narcissists’. So, it’s very important to have this clarity when dealing with difficult people of being able to differentiate between Narcissists & those who are not Narcissists!
@@SoulfulnesswithShuchi mam pls tell wht I do
@@archanajain738 Pls use whatever tips are possible for you at this time, from this video. ua-cam.com/video/5YkJQvgClRE/v-deo.html
Once u start them; stick to them! Aur narcissists se heal hona/ apni santulan wapas lena ek journey hai; ye ek din mei poori nahi hogi. Move forward slowly with right understanding & courage. I hope my videos help u in this. You can also seek help from any clinical psychologist who deals specially with narcissism. ❤️
Yes absolutely right because she show herself as a very cheap lady but in real she is highly narcassist.
Mujhe aap se baat Karni hai please no dijiye 😢zaruri hai
Koi solution hai iska😢? Kaise treatment hoskta hai cover narcissist ke logo ka ?? Plz reply 🙏
You can watch this playlist for guidance
ua-cam.com/play/PLZJgNLVULTLrbvSlscFcVuqSuWKqbfEmP.html&si=jaJEeZ6F_m_LLWEQ
Beautiful & brilliant ⭐🌟✨🥇💯☀️
Pls also help for treatment and such other solution for victim of narcassistic abuse
I recently came out from the relationship of 9 months with my girlfriend, when she started giving excuses to leave me, i was extremely upset, under depression, having no sleep for so many days that this can not be the reason, i was like what i have done wrong with her, because till now i considered her that she is so kind, humble, loving and caring but later I got to know that these all was masks just to get my sympathy, attention and to control me emotionally. Ultimately i could see that her real face is completely a devil. she always manipulated me, even she was cheating me also. And end of day when I proved everything in front of her, first when i was talking to her on call, she tried to cover up everything, again tried to manipulate me that i am right. But when she thought that now i dont have any way to escape then started saying sorry again that artificial crocodile tears, said i am feeling guity that i did wrong with you, i am not even able to forgiveness. After so many days we did last meeting to clear the things i saw that her sorries was just words, not any real realisation.
This is what i thought to share about my recent experience.
And mam your videos has really helped me a lot to heal myself. Thanku so much mam for your efforts. May god bless you abundantly. ❤️🙏
Thank u & happy to know!🤍 Keep working on your inner self & settle for nothing less than what you’re worthy of! Stand up for your truth in relationships👍
Please mam narsasstic mom ke helper child ke baare mein bole
Mam me covert narcissist hu,pls how to self treat it.
Plz mam😢😢😢
Agar genuine desire andar sach mei hai toh start deep inner self reflection. True spiritual inner work will help. Also seek the services of a credible, professional Narcissism aware clinical counsellor near you.
It's like an essay on my wife.
Please help
Can she change?
Please use the videos of this playlist for guidance on this huge subject & for wise decision making
ua-cam.com/play/PLZJgNLVULTLrbvSlscFcVuqSuWKqbfEmP.html&si=jaJEeZ6F_m_LLWEQ
22 yrs baad pta chala narc ka now I try to escape from net
He is Covered narc
Mame you talk right over wred narrisit zada khatarnak hota hai kab kaha sa hamla karda pata nahi chalta hai
I understand, iam dealing with this
Very good explanation thanks
Thank you for the information.
Oh my god you are awesome
Thank you so much 🙏🙏
I feel im a narcissist
If you truly feel so, your self introspection & honesty is appreciable. If you feel that your loved ones & you deserve a better life, & that you’re committed to understanding this better & to healing, the next step perhaps would be reaching out to a clinical psychologist who specializes in narcissism & can guide u better.
very helpful
Thank you 🙏🙏❤️❤️
Very true
Mere husband mein saare signs hain 70% percent jo aap ne batae aur bohot saare ajeeb extra signs bhi hain isse hatkar.😭
Stay well informed & aware on narcissism; take care & protect yourself❣️
God bless you
Thanks❤🌹🙏 mem.
Nice vedio
Meri Mata hai covert narcissistic
Sorry to hear that. You can check out my separate videos on traits of narc parents & how to deal & heal from narc parents as adults, in the narcissism playlist.
My god…my ex would take wrong turns and go round and round for hrs and I couldn’t tell him anything if I knew directions. And later he would blame for not giving him directions. If I did I got in trouble if didn’t I got in trouble. At the end I stopped talking to him. I was so scared to talk to him. Every small thing he used against us. And if I really needed him for something..like I had to go for my exam for MBA and I hurt my leg. First he said he will drive and then he picked a fight for no reason where I didn’t utter a word and i knew he won’t take me. And in the morning I was crying and he was hiding behind the door and laughing.
You got it! With a covert narc, you’re doomed if you don’t do something; you’re damned if you do. But, since you say “ex”, I assume he’s not part of your life any more. So good riddance! And hope you take the invaluable lessons & wisdom you gained ahead & they stand u in good stead in creating truly worthy relationships!❣️
@@SoulfulnesswithShuchi …Thankyou…I think he was mix of all. Grandiose is another one for him because nothing was ever enough. Was cheating everyone. Very shallow ego…used to get hurt for no reason. I didn’t know much about narcissism although his business partner told me that he is a narcissist. His business partner named him cancer and I named him monster.
@@SoulfulnesswithShuchi ..he would wear a facade in front of others. After staying with him for 14 years ..he felt like a strangers. No emotions. I never argued after seeing cheating, lashing, silent treatments and what not.
Thank-you so much for educating so many people. A lot of people are not aware of narcissism in India. Hugs for you.love and light for you.
How crazy is this…just listening and getting amazed and sending msgs. I couldn’t advice him even he was going to hell. One day he was making milkshake with orange and it came out of me that …doodh phat jayega. He screened and said …I like it like that and he drank it. After few days he said….I wanted to win that’s why I drank …plata hua milk shake. What is there to 🥇…hehe. I can go on and on. Got married to me for green card.
Its true ji your each words are right bcs i am dealing with this type of lady tell.me what to do for future Aapka ek ek word mere relation mei ho raha hai
I share many tips to deal with Narcissists in this video. ua-cam.com/video/5YkJQvgClRE/v-deo.html
I also suggest you to go through all other narcissism/NPD related videos in my Narcissism playlist. Links are given under each video info.
How to Take him to doctor if he don't Go
Even if you think someone is a narcissist, you cannot force them to seek professional counseling unless they are willing. You can only work on your own protection. I will soon be posting a video on how to deal.
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