To all the wonderful people who have Chiron in house 11: You are loved and enough. Your ideas are original and you have the courage to remain true to your vision. It’s hard when there is a group event going on and you have mysteriously not received an invitation. It’s hard to email someone and get no response after you’ve seemed interested in collaborating or becoming friends. It’s hard when you have the only dissenting view in a group. It’s hard when friends disappear. All of these things have happened to me numerous times. But I’m proud to stand on my own two feet. Be proud of your own power to be an individual in a world with so much group-think. ❤️
🫂💗🙏🏽 Thank you for speaking on your experiences that closely mirror mine!! It’s been painful! And it’s resulted in CPTSD. But with ceres conjunct my path is leading me towards healing and helping others do the same through my own journey. That being said I’ve dug deeper into a multitude of modalities. Nonetheless it’s a painful aspect to be a trailblazer as most of the time we do it alone. One positive so far is I can’t be brainwashed 😂 that would mean I actually trust others.
This is such a gift. Thank you. My initial would d was literally my mom + her whole family giving me up. My healing came with parenting myself + then being the mom everyone could come to. I built the world I keeled when I was younger. Thanknyou for this validation. My Leo stellium has truly saved me. My sun in Cancer, second house, really wanted my mom. I became the mom I needed. To the world. Im gonna research this more. ❤
I have Mars and Chiron in libra in the 11th house. literally dealt with this all my life. Ive dealt with bullying and social awkwardness. Ive never fit in, was always called strange or unique by others. But have always felt ostracized. I’ve had “friends” / people laugh at me for doing seemingly normal things and I would be Called weird for it but when someone else does it, it’s not? Just seems like people can make fun of you easily with this placement, because of jealousy or feeling inferior in one way or another. I also noticed people feeling drawn to me but not including me in things, I’ve learned to become more outspoken and embracing of my true nature as I age and I couldn’t be happier. I know I will find my tribe someday.
hmm... interesting because i have mars in leo and chiron in the 11th house!! I feel every freaking word you said, especially doing shit that people would label normal, but when you do it, people look at you crazy!!! This is how I know astrology is real!! oh my!! I feel the last sentence in my soul too omg!!
@@devonsmith8891yeah I have even had family members try to turn my male friends against me and make me look bad in front of strangers . I would introduce her to people then I would be outcasted from the group. She would steal my personality and looks too etc it currently happened and has been happening on and off for 3-4 years now. I’m completely alone and drained so yes this placement can be damaging. I’m trying to heal currently.
You expressed this so accurately. Even though I have my Chiron and Mars in Taurus in the 11th house, you have perfectly described my life experience. Until doing more research recently on my Chiron placement, I never understood why I have always felt so rejected, ostracized, socially awkward, dealt with lots of jealousy issues and being bullied and why I can’t ever maintain friendships/relationships of any kind. It’s such an intense pain in my soul. My whole life I’ve just wanted to fit in somewhere. I have also dealt with this same dynamic in my family too. Thank you for your post. It made me not feel so completely alone and hopeless and that maybe there’s hope of finding my tribe one day. 🙏
I have a chiron and lilith moon in house 11 (moon rules my house 12). my mother is narcissistic and did not give me love in childhood. I was only able to relate better when I sought help (daughters of a narcissistic mother) when I managed to insert this love into the brain (the brain does not save time, I inserted it at the age of 31 and it worked) after inserting love I was able to understand the mechanics of social groups.
Oh God you are brilliant ! I have spent too long trying to fit into groups who reject me, oppress my expression. 14 years as a child officer where my coworkers actually refused to work with me, ( I had different ideas than them ) constantly trying to get me fired ( would of done me a favour ) bar 1 individual. In a housing cooperative where I am outcasted, rejected cos I stood up and spoke out over our anti social neighbours. The coop members did nothing and labeled me the trouble maker ! I'm now working in a Library, but the group of Library friend's niche do not invite me to any of their get togethers. I know I have to find my people , and now I have the red flag from you. F**k it I will find them, the one's who get me and my ideas. Blessings
I feel your pain on such a deep level. I have experienced those same feelings and reactions from others. It is absolutely emotionally torturous. I’m sorry for the way you’ve been treated. I totally understand this type of pain. I hope we both find our people. I wish everyone in the world had a supportive tribe. Life is so much easier, more enjoyable, and less painful with support from positive people who want and see the best in us.
Wow, that story about the baby wanting to reach out and connect..it wasn’t about me, but holy was it about me. I constantly asked my Mom if I was adopted, and almost begged for it to be true, never feeling at home at home. My neighbour became my refuge however, even though my Mom and her were friends at the beginning, it did not stay that way long. I was 11 when I met this ‘other Mother’ , and she even called me her ‘ long lost daughter’. By the time I was 13 or 14, Mom and her were no longer friends, fighting about me. Oh fuck man, it’s been like that my whole life. If I wanted a new tribe I was rejected by the other. A friend in high school made a schedule for me for when to hang out with her and when I could hang out with another friend. How fucked is that?
Tom, thank you so much for this. You have such a beautiful understanding and a gift for relating the knowledge. Even your delivery is healing. Much love to you for the work you do.
How precise and accurate about taking care of oneself and give care tithe child in us who has been neglected but as an adult shower the self with love affection and attention and listen to the self !thanks for sharing this valuable information i needed to learn this!
My Chiron return comes April 19, 2021. Sun Conj Chiron in the 11th.,,,involved in a T square with Mars in the 8th, Uranus in the 5th...I'm going through things now. Moon is being opposed by Transiting Pluto at this moment too.
And then it’s funny when you have other people telling you that you have an emotional insensitivity when really you have so much of an emotional sensitivity that people don’t understand what it is that you say or what you explain. It’s almost like you have to break it down to the most simple stupidest explanation that you can give before people can finally even understand just an inkling, of what you truly understand about things. honestly, I feel like it’s a double edge sword. It’s a gift and a curse because you’re always going to be drawn to learning and understanding and finding out about information, and then there’s always going to be people stopping you from doing that, specially as a Capricorn, I would say, but you know we find our strengths we get rid of our weaknesses and that’s why we go just so happens that once that happens, we stand in our true power
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To all the wonderful people who have Chiron in house 11: You are loved and enough. Your ideas are original and you have the courage to remain true to your vision. It’s hard when there is a group event going on and you have mysteriously not received an invitation. It’s hard to email someone and get no response after you’ve seemed interested in collaborating or becoming friends. It’s hard when you have the only dissenting view in a group. It’s hard when friends disappear. All of these things have happened to me numerous times. But I’m proud to stand on my own two feet. Be proud of your own power to be an individual in a world with so much group-think. ❤️
I’m glad you came to this understanding. It’s a blessing in disguise.
🫂💗🙏🏽
Thank you for speaking on your experiences that closely mirror mine!!
It’s been painful! And it’s resulted in CPTSD. But with ceres conjunct my path is leading me towards healing and helping others do the same through my own journey. That being said I’ve dug deeper into a multitude of modalities.
Nonetheless it’s a painful aspect to be a trailblazer as most of the time we do it alone.
One positive so far is I can’t be brainwashed 😂 that would mean I actually trust others.
This is why I create my own groups... I’m always the creator and leader of the group.. therefore no rejection 😌
Ha ha that's how we do it, we form our own groups, yes !
You're a star, so...
This is such a gift. Thank you. My initial would d was literally my mom + her whole family giving me up. My healing came with parenting myself + then being the mom everyone could come to. I built the world I keeled when I was younger. Thanknyou for this validation. My Leo stellium has truly saved me. My sun in Cancer, second house, really wanted my mom. I became the mom I needed. To the world. Im gonna research this more. ❤
I have Mars and Chiron in libra in the 11th house. literally dealt with this all my life. Ive dealt with bullying and social awkwardness. Ive never fit in, was always called strange or unique by others. But have always felt ostracized. I’ve had “friends” / people laugh at me for doing seemingly normal things and I would be Called weird for it but when someone else does it, it’s not? Just seems like people can make fun of you easily with this placement, because of jealousy or feeling inferior in one way or another. I also noticed people feeling drawn to me but not including me in things, I’ve learned to become more outspoken and embracing of my true nature as I age and I couldn’t be happier. I know I will find my tribe someday.
hmm... interesting because i have mars in leo and chiron in the 11th house!! I feel every freaking word you said, especially doing shit that people would label normal, but when you do it, people look at you crazy!!! This is how I know astrology is real!! oh my!! I feel the last sentence in my soul too omg!!
@@devonsmith8891yeah I have even had family members try to turn my male friends against me and make me look bad in front of strangers . I would introduce her to people then I would be outcasted from the group. She would steal my personality and looks too etc it currently happened and has been happening on and off for 3-4 years now. I’m completely alone and drained so yes this placement can be damaging. I’m trying to heal currently.
You expressed this so accurately. Even though I have my Chiron and Mars in Taurus in the 11th house, you have perfectly described my life experience. Until doing more research recently on my Chiron placement, I never understood why I have always felt so rejected, ostracized, socially awkward, dealt with lots of jealousy issues and being bullied and why I can’t ever maintain friendships/relationships of any kind. It’s such an intense pain in my soul. My whole life I’ve just wanted to fit in somewhere. I have also dealt with this same dynamic in my family too. Thank you for your post. It made me not feel so completely alone and hopeless and that maybe there’s hope of finding my tribe one day. 🙏
Yes, having a vision & finding support has been such a shitty situation for me.
I have a chiron and lilith moon in house 11 (moon rules my house 12). my mother is narcissistic and did not give me love in childhood. I was only able to relate better when I sought help (daughters of a narcissistic mother) when I managed to insert this love into the brain (the brain does not save time, I inserted it at the age of 31 and it worked) after inserting love I was able to understand the mechanics of social groups.
How did u insert this type of love? Can you detail a bit. Thanks
Oh God you are brilliant ! I have spent too long trying to fit into groups who reject me, oppress my expression. 14 years as a child officer where my coworkers actually refused to work with me, ( I had different ideas than them ) constantly trying to get me fired ( would of done me a favour ) bar 1 individual. In a housing cooperative where I am outcasted, rejected cos I stood up and spoke out over our anti social neighbours. The coop members did nothing and labeled me the trouble maker ! I'm now working in a Library, but the group of Library friend's niche do not invite me to any of their get togethers. I know I have to find my people , and now I have the red flag from you. F**k it I will find them, the one's who get me and my ideas. Blessings
Insert love in your brain
I feel your pain on such a deep level. I have experienced those same feelings and reactions from others. It is absolutely emotionally torturous. I’m sorry for the way you’ve been treated. I totally understand this type of pain. I hope we both find our people. I wish everyone in the world had a supportive tribe. Life is so much easier, more enjoyable, and less painful with support from positive people who want and see the best in us.
Wow, that story about the baby wanting to reach out and connect..it wasn’t about me, but holy was it about me. I constantly asked my Mom if I was adopted, and almost begged for it to be true, never feeling at home at home. My neighbour became my refuge however, even though my Mom and her were friends at the beginning, it did not stay that way long. I was 11 when I met this ‘other Mother’ , and she even called me her ‘ long lost daughter’. By the time I was 13 or 14, Mom and her were no longer friends, fighting about me. Oh fuck man, it’s been like that my whole life. If I wanted a new tribe I was rejected by the other. A friend in high school made a schedule for me for when to hang out with her and when I could hang out with another friend. How fucked is that?
Tom, thank you so much for this. You have such a beautiful understanding and a gift for relating the knowledge. Even your delivery is healing. Much love to you for the work you do.
Thanks, Andrea, much appreciated.
Thankyou for sharing your profound expression on this. Love the way you have approached this!
you explained this so well. thank you.
How precise and accurate about taking care of oneself and give care tithe child in us who has been neglected but as an adult shower the self with love affection and attention and listen to the self !thanks for sharing this valuable information i needed to learn this!
Yes i uave this in the 11th and i feel the energy all around me it sometimes suck i dont know if its my energy or others
Tom you are so good at explaining. And this vid is spot on. I'm currently working with a practioner on shadow & inner child work.
So powerful! Thank you 🙏💗⭐️
I have Lilith in the 9th and Chiron in the 11th. It’s exhausting but I’m learning to work through/with it!
Well done!
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My Chiron return comes April 19, 2021. Sun Conj Chiron in the 11th.,,,involved in a T square with Mars in the 8th, Uranus in the 5th...I'm going through things now. Moon is being opposed by Transiting Pluto at this moment too.
Please do chiron on Libra, Leo, pisces xx thanks for this video big love to ya ❤
I love how you explained it. Thank you!
THANK YOU SO MUCH. THAT WAS SO ON POINT.
Thank you - insightful!
Thank you for the support!
🤘thank you!
Awesome! Thanks
Which Astrology software for PC not Mac, would you recommend?
I have this position directly conjunct Pluto what does that mean
Appreciate the information
Such powerful insight. Thanks Tom!
Thank you
I was rejected in the womb. She didn't want me
Thanks so much
Thank u
Thank you so much ❤️❤️
So true!. Thank you so much for the advice! 🙏🙏🙏
Fascinating! Loving your videos. You’ve got my wheels spinning. 💕
Your messages/videos are so insightful! - Amazing! Thank you!
My placement
Wow. Spot on. Thank you !!!
You're welcome, Lana! Be well
Fantastic , can we get married now
sure
I'm free Monday
I also have Lilith in the 11th - mmm hmmm
Usefull thnk u.
so accurate, thank you.
And then it’s funny when you have other people telling you that you have an emotional insensitivity when really you have so much of an emotional sensitivity that people don’t understand what it is that you say or what you explain. It’s almost like you have to break it down to the most simple stupidest explanation that you can give before people can finally even understand just an inkling, of what you truly understand about things. honestly, I feel like it’s a double edge sword. It’s a gift and a curse because you’re always going to be drawn to learning and understanding and finding out about information, and then there’s always going to be people stopping you from doing that, specially as a Capricorn, I would say, but you know we find our strengths we get rid of our weaknesses and that’s why we go just so happens that once that happens, we stand in our true power
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