My ex used the mentally ill thing for 14 years as an excuse not to do a thing and guess what? When I left and he had no choice, he was suddenly miraculously well enough to work. He made a fool of me for 14 years and ruined my life. Please don’t let this happen to you. Tell that man he needs to pull his weight or get down the road. Period. 😡
I’m sorry, but your husband needs to find any job to help you out, it’s not right that you are working and stressing with debts and he is jobless. Thanks for sharing your story.
If he is not sick or deathly ill, he needs to get his butt up and work. Some people think they are too good to work certain jobs, even if they are dead broke.
Why would you go negative in your account to bring your husbands account current? Your getting negative fees on both. I don’t see how that makes sense. Or how you are going to use a credit card to pay for gas when you made enough cash to pay for all of “your” bills, get gas. Sorry if this comes off rude but help yourself before you can help him.
U need to leave u husband he’s dead weight and dragging u back. Theres too many sound cloud Aspiring rappers & musician & they never made any money. U could easily double u income if he comes to work with u or gets a job anywhere he should be adding to u life not dragging u ..he should be a man
With all due respect, bringing your husband's account into positive balance territory is not remotely as important as ensuring you have enough money to pay that CC bill. And that Google Photo storage expense is a want, not a need, at this point. Those photos, no matter how much sentimental value they may hold, should not be a drag on your very precarious finances. And, I'll say this as a man, your husband better got off his @$$ and go find a job cleaning dishes or at a car wash drying cars. That is 100% unacceptable, that he gets to engage in some "side-hustle" while you go bust your ass at Marshalls. Side-hustles are for folks who have a job. It seems he has the idea completely backwards. I know my words are a tough, but y'all both got yourselves into your current predicament, and y'all both have a duty to get out of it together. And dude is most certainly not carrying his weight. No excuses.
I’m a married woman, a lot older than you. Thank you for sharing your story with us. I’m sure it will help many, and maybe some of the comments can help you and others as they read. It’s wonderful that your husband is talented, and you are right to encourage him. We immediately joined our finances upon marriage, same account all these years (28). Please consider a joint account where you both shoulder the financial weight and know what is going where and when. Hopefully it inspires him to create more, as well as work a day job while his music path continues to develop. Two oxen pulling the yoke in tandem will get you further and faster to your goal than two unequally yoked oxen pulling at different paces in different directions 🙏.
@@deathrowtodisneyworld5030 A joint account in this situation is a HORRIBLE idea. She's the one making the money they can do a joint account when he's also putting money into that account. Until then, she needs to be controlling the finances cuz clearly one of them has to.
@ I understand your concern. During our marriage, one of us was the main bread winner. It always fluctuated sometimes me sometimes him, and now these days, it’s me. He has been medically disabled to a work injury however, he still contribute to the household with doing what chores he can do around the house and getting his disability money deposited. We are a team, and everything goes into the one account and we pay the bills, get what we both need, and what we both want. We feel like we’re married, and not just roommates.
@deathrowtodisneyworld5030 My husband and I each have our own bank accounts where our payroll goes into and we have a house account that we both contribute to pay the house bills. Bank accounts have nothing to do with how we feel about each other. We have been through homelessness, unemployment, severe illness, and substance abuse (mine), in the 17 years we've been together and have dealt with it all as a team. I always feel like fully sharing finances is where trouble starts. I always recommend that women have their own finances. ALWAYS.
With respect, why isn't your husband working? Especially now when seasonal help is needed everywhere? UPS is hiring at $20/hr in my area and Walmart will take on anyone. I work 2 jobs. One full-time corporate job that pays the bills, and another part-time at Walmart making $16/hr to pay down debt and school loans. I literally work 7 days a week. But, my husband also works 2 jobs. How do you keep the resentment from growing? Unless, he was injured or something preventing work, no sir, I'm not working this hard for you to dream about making it in the music business. You can dream and bring in an income at the same time.
good question, so we live with his mom and she works random days of the week but works friday sat and sun definitely every week. we don't have enough money to pay for day care, my job hours make it difficult for him to get a job, also I go to the community college in the mornings. He has been applying for jobs here and there, but he also struggles with real bad clinical depression and has several mental health problems apart from the severe depression. He should be on disability but they denied him I don't know why....
@@leeunfiltered 3rd shift work pays more and he won't really have to deal with people. Is he planning on getting his depression under control? I know our healthcare system is trash but nothing changes if nothing changes. I don't mean to sound callous, but I see a woman carrying the weight of the world on her shoulders with very little help and, aside from the YT taking off, no light at the end of the tunnel. No wonder you're feeling drained! It's a lot for one person. You're in school too? You are strong, but a person can only take so much. Look out for yourself as much as you can.
I'm the only breadwinner, my brother lives with me and refuses to work. It's been like this for years. The resentment just builds but I try to channel it to something positive like a daily a walk.
This video is so real, I live alone on one income and after all my bills are paid I’m typically left in the negatives. My side hustle is what keeps me afloat in between paychecks but it’s not much.
Look I don’t mean to criticize yuor life but I’m noticing that yuor husband it’s a lazy man but he uses his job loss to say he’s mentally and he’s depressed but let me tell yuo bills don’t wait they keep piling yuo need to stop enabling his depression and he need to get motivated and go look go apply and man up and be the breadwinner and yuo can yes work but saving for emergencies yuo stop being the nice wife and don’t give him money and because he will get any job to bring income until yuo both pay off and then see what next keep looking for something better I understand daycare it’s expensive so he needs to work nights but don’t justify him or he will never be the man yuo want him to be a real man of integrity doesn’t allow this but
I feel he doesn't love this woman at all. I was without a job recently. I'm back to work now and while I was unemployed for like a month my husband would give me his whole regular checks. He has a weekend job and that the only money he kept for himself and to pay for his personal bills. However you slice it it's financial abuse. I didn't give him anything for Xmas because I had not gotten paid yet and he gave me $500 as my Xmas gift. He said he didn't want to waste money on stuff. Get yourself somebody with some empathy. That's what real love looks like.
Sorry you’re going through these challenges; you certainly aren’t alone. I hope your husband feels more hopeful and inspired soon. Even in times of adversity, we can find a functional path forward. You are demonstrating that! I’m in a bit of a pinch myself, nothing critical but it will be if I don’t radically change my cost of living. Good luck to you.
Let me get this straight. You are working a seasonal job that pays you only $12.00 an hour for less than 40 hours a week, have two kids yet your husband doesn't have a job and expects you to support the entire family? I'm just going to be honest and say that this is also why you're depressed. Please demand that your husband get a job to help you and the kids out. That's what a responsible and good husband and father does. Please know that you are worth so much more and deserve so much better than this ❤
He helps by providing childcare and since it's his mother's house they aren't paying rent because of him as well. He should get a job i agree, but it's not that he isn't providing as well. Childcare would eat any paycheck he might bring in
Sign up with all of the market research companies. Have your hubby do it, too. They generally pay $50 or more to get people to do taste tests or give their opinion on products. It's actually pretty fun!
I feel so sorry for you. I’ve been out of work for 9 months and I have a Master’s degree in IT. I pray to God that I will find a good job with benefits soon. How are you affording housing? An average one bedroom costs over $1k a month. I just had an unexpected $2k car repair bill. Fortunately, I had family to help me out. I’m also single with no kids but still have bills too. What’s your long-term plan? Do you have any certificates or degrees or network connections? Merry Christmas to you! Good luck with things.
I can definitely agree with these comments. The hubby sounds like an issue. He has no income because he is focused on his music?? Being a musician is not an excuse to not have a job. I don't know the situation but I could not imagine living in your situation going negative for someone (don't care who that someone is).. I'm sorry and I hope things get better for you ❤
Do you have breweries or restaurants near your home? As a musician, the breweries will keep him booked. There’s always just a man and his guitar at the breweries in my area. Food trucks and musicians make bank at these spots!
You should get a external hard drive for your google photos and transfer them onto it, you can get one for 50-80 bucks for a 500gig (more then enough room for photos) and it will save you the 10 per month on google, long term savings, if I was in your situation I’d cut everything i could 😇
Uber, DoorDash, Lyft, instacart, etc. It is too many ways out here to make extra money. Just keep applying and have faith! Starting a budget is a great start, but with today’s economy, one source of income is not enough.
You need to pause your community college education and either you or your husband go work full time while the other takes care of the kids. Sell the survival equipment to pay debt. Bring your income up. Get out of this hole first. Follow Dave Ramsey’s baby steps.
If there is a man in the house and you are the only source of income, you need a new man! That is unacceptable to struggle this way. What is the point marriage if you can't help one another out.
How can these big companies still only pay people $12 an hour? If they just bumped it up by a few bucks even, it would help so many people, and they wouldn’t even feel the “loss”.
@@leeunfilteredyou're right they don't care. I didn't go to college and I make almost $30 an hour working as a medical coder for a hospital, so I am very lucky
Your “husband” is taking advantage of you. He needs to grow up . Right now you basically have three kids . I know you will take none of the advice here ,but I will throw my two bits in , Divorce him .. I guarantee he will suddenly be ok enough to work. I think they call it forced motivation.
@@leeunfiltered your not alone. I went down that rabbit hole too, watching the preppers…buying a bunch of stuff, canned foods and stuff I ended up throwing out when it expired and now I’m in debt too. I’m also trying to pay off these credit cards. I know exactly how you’re feeling.
I dont have a job a feiend helps me out and i does the patch study and that comes in handy, its hard to find a job with everything closing down and the competition is high and not enough to go around
I like youre money management videos from the looks it looks like a struggle with youre check all those bills with that little bit of money i know the struggle have you considered getting rid of goggle?? Thatll save you 10 bucks less you have to pay and pay off ya credit card and dont use it or disgaurd it thats a less bill to pay
Being honest about how you got into the debt is great in this video, but then trying to give other people financial advice to buy crypto at the top when the economy is on the verge of recession isn't. You can take the time to strengthen your own ability to make good financial decisions before advising anyone about crypto, imo. I didnt unsubscribe but if the channel became regular bad financial advice I certainly would.
i understand, i was on the fence about it but seeing how my one video about almost being a shib millionaire did so well almsot getting 20k views i thought maybe why not talk about crypto then, but I don't think it's going to be something I talk about at all honestly because it's a touchy subject.
@@leeunfilteredTalk about whatever you want, not everyone is going to like it. Crypto is a great investment. UA-cam is going to make your skin tough and hopefully you won't care as much what others think. I just subscribed 😊
Crypto is here to stay. Everything changes. People just cant grasp that money is going digital...eventually . You are way ahead of many people. Good for you.
Call the local high school and ask them to do oil changes and tune ups. You just get a list of supplies and drop it off. Local churches do the same. Call around.
If he can side hustle, he can get a full time job. Why do women continue to act as mothers vs. partners? So many women are better off financially without a man dragging them down. He is not contributing, dump the dead weight. Man-child.
Your husband needs to go to a temp agency and see if you can find something that he can deal with so you both can support yourselves and your children. He can find a job sitting down that isn't customer facing. It doesn't have to be full time but even just to contribute something. It's just too hard with so many people to feed. He could try applying for disability, but the payment might not be enough to support much. Doing it alone is too much.
Hi there thanks for the question, I live with my mother in law and she doesn't charge us to live here, we do pay for the Internet though and $120 for a shared mobile plan.
Do you still have any survivalist items that you went into debt for that you could maybe sell on Facebook marketplace or Craigslist? Or any other unwanted items around the house? Try to flip and make some extra cash for the bills.
You forgot to put your husbands link in the description .... Also there is no shame in putting your cashapp or papal or whatever link to send money to you , cuz we all need help and if having an extra 30 dollars will help you out from being negative then please do it and every little bit helps so you dont keep falling into debt .
Do you go to your local food bank? Have you applied for SNAP benefits? There is a channel on UA-cam call "Living on a Dime to Get Rich". The woman isn't my cup of tea and there is a lot of Christian stuff but she does know how to save money. Hubby needs to get off his rear and get a job, any job.
yes! I go to the food bank church when they are open, also i do have food stamps, but close to loosing it, also yes i use to watch her she makes good videos :D thank you for your comment!
People need to stop saying the husband needs to get a job their are plenty of women out there that don't have jobs that the men is taking care of them.
And these men typically end up alone, divorced or unalive themselves because they realize they're absolute failures. It's okay for women because that's your role as a man, to provide. Your woman provides you a legacy and you provide security. Imagine your woman giving you 2 children and you being unable to provide even the smallest of comforts for her to try and be a "rapper". Lol, lmao even 😂😂
@@heisrisen560possible but it’s difficult to get a job in retail after the holidays, that’s when they let go of a lot of the seasonal people and aren’t usually looking to hire new people bc it’s their slow period.
You getting signs from the universe. Youre on the right path. Keep the faith....i am an honest person so i have to wonder why your partner cant shlep at a part time job like you? You need help in the physical plane too.....
I know but I don't have any other options right now where I live the job market is really bad and competitive there's like 300 people applying for the same job, I found out about this because I went to the job application a few days later and it said 300 people have applied for this position
I feel like this is really inconsiderate. This may be all that is available in her area. I get where you are coming from but I felt it was a little inconsiderate
Miss GET ON FOODSTAMPS! you need to get your guy working he can work temp jobs if he dont wanna go through getting hired he can work at a temp and start working tommorow also if he wants it easy he can go into security its cake its not hard labor and most people will hire you fast just until you can get this whole youtube thing off the ground and another thing being in retail WILL NEVER PAY THE BILLS the way you need them to not pushing you in any direction but maybe you should consider working as a medical assistant and its entry level pay that pays the bills also if you really want to maybe consider reselling you cant start w the stuff in your house you dont need or want and flip it locally on facebook market or ebay GOOD LUCK oh and consider banking w a credit union ive had great support w mine w things that a normal bank would never do like refinancing loans or getting a credit card
hi welcome to my channel! So few things, I do have food stamps already BUT i'm close to loosing my food stamps because they lowered the bar for qualifying. Also , i'm currently going to college for cosmetology. I hope that I can find a decent paying position doing something in the beauty industry.
Call the local high school and ask them to do oil changes and tune ups. You just get a list of supplies and drop it off. Local churches do the same. Call around.
My ex used the mentally ill thing for 14 years as an excuse not to do a thing and guess what? When I left and he had no choice, he was suddenly miraculously well enough to work. He made a fool of me for 14 years and ruined my life. Please don’t let this happen to you. Tell that man he needs to pull his weight or get down the road. Period. 😡
I agree . it sounds harsh. there are plenty of mentally ill people working full time in the world.
I’m sorry, but your husband needs to find any job to help you out, it’s not right that you are working and stressing with debts and he is jobless. Thanks for sharing your story.
If he is not sick or deathly ill, he needs to get his butt up and work. Some people think they are too good to work certain jobs, even if they are dead broke.
@@allofthenames77 right! Get him a job at marshals too!
There are lots of warehouse jobs for your husband!!
Nooo! One income is impossible.
Agreed with everyone commenting on this thread. Please try to convince your man to at least get a job at McDonalds or something...
You need to be into Jesus 🙏He will guide you and help you.
Why would you go negative in your account to bring your husbands account current? Your getting negative fees on both. I don’t see how that makes sense. Or how you are going to use a credit card to pay for gas when you made enough cash to pay for all of “your” bills, get gas.
Sorry if this comes off rude but help yourself before you can help him.
My bank takes a while to charge for a negative, his is faster to charge for some reason.
Why does your husband have a bank account but no job??
Just closed the account.
It's her husband. Not some guy that is just hanging out at her house.
@@Peace-nm6bxThat’s my question😕
U need to leave u husband he’s dead weight and dragging u back. Theres too many sound cloud Aspiring rappers & musician & they never made any money. U could easily double u income if he comes to work with u or gets a job anywhere he should be adding to u life not dragging u ..he should be a man
With all due respect, bringing your husband's account into positive balance territory is not remotely as important as ensuring you have enough money to pay that CC bill. And that Google Photo storage expense is a want, not a need, at this point. Those photos, no matter how much sentimental value they may hold, should not be a drag on your very precarious finances. And, I'll say this as a man, your husband better got off his @$$ and go find a job cleaning dishes or at a car wash drying cars. That is 100% unacceptable, that he gets to engage in some "side-hustle" while you go bust your ass at Marshalls. Side-hustles are for folks who have a job. It seems he has the idea completely backwards. I know my words are a tough, but y'all both got yourselves into your current predicament, and y'all both have a duty to get out of it together. And dude is most certainly not carrying his weight. No excuses.
I have to agree with this 1000%
👏THIS!!
I’m a married woman, a lot older than you. Thank you for sharing your story with us. I’m sure it will help many, and maybe some of the comments can help you and others as they read. It’s wonderful that your husband is talented, and you are right to encourage him. We immediately joined our finances upon marriage, same account all these years (28). Please consider a joint account where you both shoulder the financial weight and know what is going where and when. Hopefully it inspires him to create more, as well as work a day job while his music path continues to develop. Two oxen pulling the yoke in tandem will get you further and faster to your goal than two unequally yoked oxen pulling at different paces in different directions 🙏.
@@deathrowtodisneyworld5030 A joint account in this situation is a HORRIBLE idea. She's the one making the money they can do a joint account when he's also putting money into that account. Until then, she needs to be controlling the finances cuz clearly one of them has to.
@ I understand your concern. During our marriage, one of us was the main bread winner. It always fluctuated sometimes me sometimes him, and now these days, it’s me. He has been medically disabled to a work injury however, he still contribute to the household with doing what chores he can do around the house and getting his disability money deposited. We are a team, and everything goes into the one account and we pay the bills, get what we both need, and what we both want. We feel like we’re married, and not just roommates.
@deathrowtodisneyworld5030 My husband and I each have our own bank accounts where our payroll goes into and we have a house account that we both contribute to pay the house bills. Bank accounts have nothing to do with how we feel about each other. We have been through homelessness, unemployment, severe illness, and substance abuse (mine), in the 17 years we've been together and have dealt with it all as a team. I always feel like fully sharing finances is where trouble starts. I always recommend that women have their own finances. ALWAYS.
With respect, why isn't your husband working? Especially now when seasonal help is needed everywhere? UPS is hiring at $20/hr in my area and Walmart will take on anyone. I work 2 jobs. One full-time corporate job that pays the bills, and another part-time at Walmart making $16/hr to pay down debt and school loans. I literally work 7 days a week. But, my husband also works 2 jobs. How do you keep the resentment from growing? Unless, he was injured or something preventing work, no sir, I'm not working this hard for you to dream about making it in the music business. You can dream and bring in an income at the same time.
good question, so we live with his mom and she works random days of the week but works friday sat and sun definitely every week. we don't have enough money to pay for day care, my job hours make it difficult for him to get a job, also I go to the community college in the mornings. He has been applying for jobs here and there, but he also struggles with real bad clinical depression and has several mental health problems apart from the severe depression. He should be on disability but they denied him I don't know why....
@@leeunfiltered 3rd shift work pays more and he won't really have to deal with people. Is he planning on getting his depression under control? I know our healthcare system is trash but nothing changes if nothing changes. I don't mean to sound callous, but I see a woman carrying the weight of the world on her shoulders with very little help and, aside from the YT taking off, no light at the end of the tunnel. No wonder you're feeling drained! It's a lot for one person. You're in school too? You are strong, but a person can only take so much. Look out for yourself as much as you can.
I'm the only breadwinner, my brother lives with me and refuses to work. It's been like this for years. The resentment just builds but I try to channel it to something positive like a daily a walk.
Great question! All the burden should not be on her to get them out of debt!
Dang I'm sorry your in that situation, I guess we just do what we can with what we have. Don't give up, maybe start making small changes
This video is so real, I live alone on one income and after all my bills are paid I’m typically left in the negatives. My side hustle is what keeps me afloat in between paychecks but it’s not much.
What is your side hustle if you don’t mind me asking? I definitely need a side hustle anything helps haha.
Look I don’t mean to criticize yuor life but I’m noticing that yuor husband it’s a lazy man but he uses his job loss to say he’s mentally and he’s depressed but let me tell yuo bills don’t wait they keep piling yuo need to stop enabling his depression and he need to get motivated and go look go apply and man up and be the breadwinner and yuo can yes work but saving for emergencies yuo stop being the nice wife and don’t give him money and because he will get any job to bring income until yuo both pay off and then see what next keep looking for something better I understand daycare it’s expensive so he needs to work nights but don’t justify him or he will never be the man yuo want him to be a real man of integrity doesn’t allow this but
Exactly and I'm sure she's depressed too having to carry the load
@@livelynnlipstick they need to sit down and eat all that survival food.
breakfast lunch and dinner. that'll save a few dollars.
@@timewa851they're on food stamps.
I feel he doesn't love this woman at all. I was without a job recently. I'm back to work now and while I was unemployed for like a month my husband would give me his whole regular checks. He has a weekend job and that the only money he kept for himself and to pay for his personal bills. However you slice it it's financial abuse. I didn't give him anything for Xmas because I had not gotten paid yet and he gave me $500 as my Xmas gift. He said he didn't want to waste money on stuff. Get yourself somebody with some empathy. That's what real love looks like.
Sorry you’re going through these challenges; you certainly aren’t alone. I hope your husband feels more hopeful and inspired soon. Even in times of adversity, we can find a functional path forward. You are demonstrating that! I’m in a bit of a pinch myself, nothing critical but it will be if I don’t radically change my cost of living. Good luck to you.
My first job was at Marshals and the pay was very bad back then! I quickly quit and so happy I did.
Seriously, hubby needs a "real job" he can create music as a hobby or side hustle.
Doing a marathon watching all your videos to try and get your hours up!
wow thank you so much for that!
Amazon pays way more. If you are near one try there. Youll be on your foot more but it will pay 17-20 an hour depending your state
Let me get this straight. You are working a seasonal job that pays you only $12.00 an hour for less than 40 hours a week, have two kids yet your husband doesn't have a job and expects you to support the entire family? I'm just going to be honest and say that this is also why you're depressed. Please demand that your husband get a job to help you and the kids out. That's what a responsible and good husband and father does. Please know that you are worth so much more and deserve so much better than this ❤
He helps by providing childcare and since it's his mother's house they aren't paying rent because of him as well. He should get a job i agree, but it's not that he isn't providing as well. Childcare would eat any paycheck he might bring in
@@cottoncandiez8872 Yeah but he needs to work as the man and she take care of the kids that’s how it’s supposed to be!
@@valpal_0112 yikes
Sign up with all of the market research companies. Have your hubby do it, too. They generally pay $50 or more to get people to do taste tests or give their opinion on products. It's actually pretty fun!
How do you pay rent or even qualify because apartments have so many rules
I feel so sorry for you. I’ve been out of work for 9 months and I have a Master’s degree in IT. I pray to God that I will find a good job with benefits soon. How are you affording housing? An average one bedroom costs over $1k a month. I just had an unexpected $2k car repair bill. Fortunately, I had family to help me out. I’m also single with no kids but still have bills too. What’s your long-term plan? Do you have any certificates or degrees or network connections? Merry Christmas to you! Good luck with things.
I know she said she lived with her mother in law. I don't think they are being charged for rent or utilities as far as I can tell.
I can definitely agree with these comments. The hubby sounds like an issue. He has no income because he is focused on his music?? Being a musician is not an excuse to not have a job. I don't know the situation but I could not imagine living in your situation going negative for someone (don't care who that someone is).. I'm sorry and I hope things get better for you ❤
Do you have breweries or restaurants near your home? As a musician, the breweries will keep him booked. There’s always just a man and his guitar at the breweries in my area. Food trucks and musicians make bank at these spots!
Hopefully he watches the kids or at least handles that .....I see everyone complaining he needs to work but maybe he cares for the kids
You should get a external hard drive for your google photos and transfer them onto it, you can get one for 50-80 bucks for a 500gig (more then enough room for photos) and it will save you the 10 per month on google, long term savings, if I was in your situation I’d cut everything i could 😇
I subscribe to u cuz u keep it so real
Have you tried doing uber eats or Walmart delivery might pay more than Marshalls and more flexible hours for you
Yes I applied at Walmart but got denied I'm assuming my schedule
Not cashiering doing grocery deliveries
Uber, DoorDash, Lyft, instacart, etc. It is too many ways out here to make extra money. Just keep applying and have faith! Starting a budget is a great start, but with today’s economy, one source of income is not enough.
You can make $30 an hour doing Door Dash...
Why is your husband not working?
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Is he able to do DoorDash or Uber? Thanks for sharing ❤
You need to pause your community college education and either you or your husband go work full time while the other takes care of the kids. Sell the survival equipment to pay debt. Bring your income up. Get out of this hole first. Follow Dave Ramsey’s baby steps.
If there is a man in the house and you are the only source of income, you need a new man! That is unacceptable to struggle this way. What is the point marriage if you can't help one another out.
I ❤ paying my bills . Its part of life . I try to be posative . I can't help you out i'm on low income disability.
No worries mam! Hopefully one day once I’m making money on UA-cam I can help you guys out.
How can these big companies still only pay people $12 an hour? If they just bumped it up by a few bucks even, it would help so many people, and they wouldn’t even feel the “loss”.
Exactly, but they don't give two shits. It's like well if you don't have a college degree oh well good luck, maybe you should have gone to college
@@leeunfilteredyou're right they don't care. I didn't go to college and I make almost $30 an hour working as a medical coder for a hospital, so I am very lucky
Oh, hell to the no! You husband needs to get a job and you need to stop supporting him. Music is a HOBBY for him. He needs to grow up and be a man.
Your “husband” is taking advantage of you. He needs to grow up . Right now you basically have three kids . I know you will take none of the advice here ,but I will throw my two bits in , Divorce him .. I guarantee he will suddenly be ok enough to work. I think they call it forced motivation.
Where yall planning on becoming like off grid people or something(the 14k debt thing)?
Yeah we were trying to be self reliant like survivalist kinda thing in case the system collapsed we were watching too many news
@@leeunfilteredya'll need get real jobs
@@leeunfiltered your not alone. I went down that rabbit hole too, watching the preppers…buying a bunch of stuff, canned foods and stuff I ended up throwing out when it expired and now I’m in debt too. I’m also trying to pay off these credit cards. I know exactly how you’re feeling.
Good way to be smart with your money
Your husband would be making more than his side hustle by working in fast food or retail
He told me he's going to start applying again
Marshall's employee here ! 11 years in! I'm not cashing, though. I do backroom.
Oh okay I hear that's hard too
I liked working in the backroom unloading the trucks but i hated getting up early tho. @@leeunfiltered
@ yeah that part is rough for real it gets tiring
Why would they only pay you $12 an hour? That's not even minimum wage in most states.
That’s what they pay here in Texas
Hate to say this but your jobless hubby needs to pick up the slack!!!
I dont have a job a feiend helps me out and i does the patch study and that comes in handy, its hard to find a job with everything closing down and the competition is high and not enough to go around
I like youre money management videos from the looks it looks like a struggle with youre check all those bills with that little bit of money i know the struggle have you considered getting rid of goggle?? Thatll save you 10 bucks less you have to pay and pay off ya credit card and dont use it or disgaurd it thats a less bill to pay
I have in the past thought of getting rid of Google but I have so many photos and videos that would be lost :(
@@leeunfilteredhow many of those photos are actual photos though? Not repeats, similar shots, random pictures of things etc?
Being honest about how you got into the debt is great in this video, but then trying to give other people financial advice to buy crypto at the top when the economy is on the verge of recession isn't. You can take the time to strengthen your own ability to make good financial decisions before advising anyone about crypto, imo. I didnt unsubscribe but if the channel became regular bad financial advice I certainly would.
i understand, i was on the fence about it but seeing how my one video about almost being a shib millionaire did so well almsot getting 20k views i thought maybe why not talk about crypto then, but I don't think it's going to be something I talk about at all honestly because it's a touchy subject.
@@leeunfilteredTalk about whatever you want, not everyone is going to like it. Crypto is a great investment. UA-cam is going to make your skin tough and hopefully you won't care as much what others think. I just subscribed 😊
@@alwaysjamila hi thank you! i don't care the only thing i care about is reaching my goals!!!
Crypto is here to stay. Everything changes. People just cant grasp that money is going digital...eventually . You are way ahead of many people. Good for you.
Door dash. You can make money the same day that you sign up. Flexible hours. I love it. Great side gig.
My door dash account is stuck on the background check, I don't know why it has never worked.
@leeunfiltered Try again. Start from the beinning. Sounds like a glitch
@leeunfiltered Also,call door dash support if it happens again.
Call the local high school and ask them to do oil changes and tune ups. You just get a list of supplies and drop it off. Local churches do the same. Call around.
you need a new husband 😅 you're carrying his weight & he can't even door dash or something to bring money to the table ?
If he can side hustle, he can get a full time job. Why do women continue to act as mothers vs. partners? So many women are better off financially without a man dragging them down. He is not contributing, dump the dead weight. Man-child.
Your husband needs to go to a temp agency and see if you can find something that he can deal with so you both can support yourselves and your children. He can find a job sitting down that isn't customer facing. It doesn't have to be full time but even just to contribute something. It's just too hard with so many people to feed. He could try applying for disability, but the payment might not be enough to support much. Doing it alone is too much.
So how much is it for her housing,other utilities,food
Hi there thanks for the question, I live with my mother in law and she doesn't charge us to live here, we do pay for the Internet though and $120 for a shared mobile plan.
Girl we need to get you into some side hustles I have so many
You need to get her a divorce lawyer.
Have y’all ever heard of the Dave Ramsey Show? Y’all need to tune in and learn about money.
Do you still have any survivalist items that you went into debt for that you could maybe sell on Facebook marketplace or Craigslist? Or any other unwanted items around the house? Try to flip and make some extra cash for the bills.
You forgot to put your husbands link in the description .... Also there is no shame in putting your cashapp or papal or whatever link to send money to you , cuz we all need help and if having an extra 30 dollars will help you out from being negative then please do it and every little bit helps so you dont keep falling into debt .
Project 2025 contributor. Marshall’s, Home Foods, and Tj Maxx
25 million retail jobs will disappear another 1.7 million federal jobs.
Its going to get far worse than that.
@ just like people being aware of where they’re spending their money.
Yikes I had no idea!!!
@ yup.
Good luck
Do you go to your local food bank? Have you applied for SNAP benefits? There is a channel on UA-cam call "Living on a Dime to Get Rich". The woman isn't my cup of tea and there is a lot of Christian stuff but she does know how to save money. Hubby needs to get off his rear and get a job, any job.
yes! I go to the food bank church when they are open, also i do have food stamps, but close to loosing it, also yes i use to watch her she makes good videos :D thank you for your comment!
People need to stop saying the husband needs to get a job their are plenty of women out there that don't have jobs that the men is taking care of them.
And these men typically end up alone, divorced or unalive themselves because they realize they're absolute failures. It's okay for women because that's your role as a man, to provide. Your woman provides you a legacy and you provide security. Imagine your woman giving you 2 children and you being unable to provide even the smallest of comforts for her to try and be a "rapper". Lol, lmao even 😂😂
Have your husband reapply for disability. I have heard from someone that works there they always deny the first or second time. Don't give up on that.
This 👆 and get a disability lawyer.
Okay I will let him know today
If he can side gig, he can work. Disability should deny people like that.
Is your husband actively applying for jobs?
Yeah he's applying so far nothing, it's a very competitive job market
@@leeunfilteredI wish him good luck and will keep you guys in my prayers
@@leeunfilteredmaybe you can get him a job where you work? 🤷♂️ just a random thought 💭
@@heisrisen560possible but it’s difficult to get a job in retail after the holidays, that’s when they let go of a lot of the seasonal people and aren’t usually looking to hire new people bc it’s their slow period.
333, an Angel number. I dont know what it means but i know its a good sign. 🙏
You getting signs from the universe. Youre on the right path. Keep the faith....i am an honest person so i have to wonder why your partner cant shlep at a part time job like you? You need help in the physical plane too.....
You don’t make enough an hour they are just using you !
I know but I don't have any other options right now where I live the job market is really bad and competitive there's like 300 people applying for the same job, I found out about this because I went to the job application a few days later and it said 300 people have applied for this position
Yes, and she's using them. Mutual exchange. They plan on keeping her on full time
Why on earth are you pulling your husband who provides no income out of the negative when you are just going to put yourself in the negative?
In California McDonald’s worker make starting $21 an hour lol more than some healthcare workers
You and your husband need go and found paying jobs out there
I feel like this is really inconsiderate. This may be all that is available in her area. I get where you are coming from but I felt it was a little inconsiderate
Easier said then done in this economy.. everyones struggling and no one’s hiring
@@heisrisen560 exactly.
Miss GET ON FOODSTAMPS! you need to get your guy working he can work temp jobs if he dont wanna go through getting hired he can work at a temp and start working tommorow also if he wants it easy he can go into security its cake its not hard labor and most people will hire you fast just until you can get this whole youtube thing off the ground and another thing being in retail WILL NEVER PAY THE BILLS the way you need them to not pushing you in any direction but maybe you should consider working as a medical assistant and its entry level pay that pays the bills also if you really want to maybe consider reselling you cant start w the stuff in your house you dont need or want and flip it locally on facebook market or ebay GOOD LUCK oh and consider banking w a credit union ive had great support w mine w things that a normal bank would never do like refinancing loans or getting a credit card
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So few things, I do have food stamps already BUT i'm close to loosing my food stamps because they lowered the bar for qualifying.
Also , i'm currently going to college for cosmetology. I hope that I can find a decent paying position doing something in the beauty industry.
thaat money for the collapse of the world was an awesome investment.
Call the local high school and ask them to do oil changes and tune ups. You just get a list of supplies and drop it off. Local churches do the same. Call around.