Sir jb se apko suna men smjhti hun k meri thinking bht change ho rai Alhamdulilah.... mashaAllah sir Allah Pak ne apko wo talent dia k apki bat asar krti dusre pe ...kaash k apki baat koi smjhe or seerat hisa bn jaye hmare syllabus ka from grade one
You are right sir that both genders are at fault for a broken family. "Tali dunu haton sy bajti hy". Problem is that we don't evaluate our actions and it's very easy to blame others. So we need to learn the justice . If we are wrong, accept the responsibility and try to fix things for better future.
Pakistan aurat jaisi aurat dunya may kahi nahi hay,wah Sahir bhai you nailed it ,mtlb khoon barha dia hay mera hahah,jokes apart,the topic n the points you told were so amazing
Mostly men are too focused on earning and providing the necessities of life. He does not spend much time to communicate with family and that's how he loses everything when divorce happens. Later he reflects where he made the mistake. On the other hand Women don't appreciate the hard work of man and are full of jealously. they don't want to share the love and attention of their husbands with in law's and that's how the problems escalate. At the end both suffer and specifically the children suffer more than parents. Later those children become adult with negative psychology and it effects their relationships. Cycle goes on.
According to the book "Languages of Love".... Man wants respect from woman and woman wants love and attention from the man. So if you instill this information in both genders then they can understand their responsibility and rights.
Apki baat theek h par sawal ye h k install kre kaise aur karega kon..? Jinki zimmedaari thi wo to so rae hn aur na unhe ab qaum se koi matlab mar rai h marne do kat rai h katne do jahannum ki taraf badh rai h badhne do ghar ka nizam khraab ho chuka h hone do qaum bigad chuki h bigadne do hme Firqawariyat k maslo ko dekhna h aur puri zindagi isi m barbaad karni h baaki bahar kya ho ra h hme koi matlab nahi.. Aur Hamara education system ki to kya baat kre use bhi isse koi matlab nahi na hi koi aise chapters hn Nursery se PHD syllabus tak chale jaiye kuch nahi milega apko.. Deeni Madaris m chale jaiye waha bhi apko kuch nahi milega.. Madaris m sirf Kanoon aur Firqawariyat padhai ja rai h.. Morals Ethics Manners Seerat of our Beloved Nabi Seerat of Ummehatul Momineen Ye cheeze na padhai jaati hn aur na ye cheeze padhne se install hoti h character m balke individually inko seekhna padega kyu k ye cheeze sirf seekhne se hi character m install ho sakti hn aur uske liye sab se pehle jo Full time institution h wo h Ghar aur us ghar k log kyu k bachcha 90 percent time ghar m hi bitata h Madarse aur school part time institution hn.. Bachcha ghar k mahol se hi mutasir hota h Maa Baap ko dekhr kr isiliye tarbiyat k role model asal m Maa Baap hn aur aap dekhle unglia bhi unhi par uthti hn jab unka bachcha koi kisi galat kaam m pad jata h koi bhi school k ya madarse k ustaad ko nahi kehta maa baap par ungli uthate hn sab.. Actually Hamari psychology m problem h asal m.. Bigad chuki h puri tarah se.. Desensitized kar dia gya h puri qaum ko wo muslim ho hindu ho sikh ho ya koi aur Har taraf behayai besharmi begairati badsulooki jahiliyat badtameezi badmaashi tharkipan sab filmo se youTube se tiktok aur bhi aap janti hn kya kuch nahi ho ra aur Hum logo ne Full time institution ko part time kar dia h aur part time ko Full time. Kyu k ab time hi nhi h na apni aulaad k liye bhi time nahi h to wo janwaro ki tarah pal rae hn aur bade ho kar janwaro jesa hi sulook kar rae hn maa baap k saath jo k m samajhta hu k bilkul theek h kyu k maa baap ne apni aulaad ko bachpan m janwaro ki tarah chorh dia tha bade hone ko to ab jab bachpan se janwar pana seekha h wahi wo unhe return kar rae hn Kyu k Tarbiyat ki zimmedaari jiski thi usne utha k School aur madarso k teachero pe phek di tha ab bhugto... Aur pichle 50 saal m jo bigaad paida ho chuka h Aaj kal k Maa Baap ko kisi baat ki tameez nhi aur na knowledge k Maa Baap hona kya cheez hoti h kya zimmedaari hoti hn bhul chuke hn unhe Mia Biwi k rishte k baare m koi cheez yaad nahi ab aur new generation ki to kya kehne unki jitni tareef ki jae kam h.... Ab Yahudio ne bigaad failaya ho ya kisi aur ne Jo kuch hona tha ho chuka behayai besharmi k tufaan m uljha diya ab ye zahir k nikaalne k liye to daala ni tha to Ab jo ho sakta h wo sirf ye h k individually ho sakta h Ab deen ko har musalmaan ko khud seekhna padega youtube se ya jaise bhi warna ab apko koi ghar sikhane nahi aane waala ye jaan le ache se aur na deen ab madarso m baaki bacha h islamic schoolo m jo thoda bohot tha wo bhi khatam hone ko h Har kisi ki ab individually zimmedaari h k wo apne deen ko khud padhe samjhe seekhe jo ho raha h usko side m rakh kar.. Baaki raha Maulvio ka ulamae deen ka masla to scholars ki jo zimmedaari thi lagta h k wo bhul chuke hn Firqawariyat ki jango m uljhe hue hn buri tarah se kon sahi kon galat kon muslim kon kafir kon jannati kon jahannami aur munazre baazi m lage hue hn jisme haram halal jaiz na jaiz bid at aur sunnat k masle unke asle masail hn zindagi k Qaum kidhar ja rai h kya bigaad ho chuka h kya kuch ho chuka h unhe isse koi ilm nahi is baat ka na unhe koi matlab unhe apni behes baazi se fursat mile tab idhar dekhe na.. Isilye ab har koi apne aap deen ko seekhe samjhe padhe padhae samjhae sikhae..
Sir jb husband wife ko deen p ane ka kahe or wo inkar kre or libral or modern bani rhe to phr b usy divorce ni deni chahye ? Or ak hadees h k Allah us shakhsh ki dua qabul ni krta js ki bv badzaban ho or wo usy talaq na de raha ho .
ap iss barey mn kia kahen gy k media aur motivational speekers bivi ko. shoher ko qabu mn rakhney k leaye ek model girl banney k tareeqy btatey rehty hain,,,, yani haya aur emaan koi cheez nai :( shayed logon ko bura lagy ,, leader ship esi maaen peda karen gi jo sari energy shoher ko qabu mn rakhny pe e lga ri ho.:)A .s.
yeah tu necessary nhi k agar broken family disorder hobtab hi kill capacity waley loag hun.. I have seen many people who are lethal and they belong to normal family...
Aoa sir Hope u will good by the blessing ov Allah Almighty Plz help me with ur advise Mery husband addicted hain my son is 6 years old he is growing up and questioning me about all this he drank all day and night What should i do how could i realize him he has to stop it immediately.
@@abdulwahab181 Sorry to say bro but in my point of view there is only one merciful in our whole world so best way is to define Raham is like forgive him (Forgive someone)
@@motivationalspeakers8099 bro if Allah is merciful it doesn't mean no one else could be and similarly all other characteristic what Allah has human can have too but no creature could reach that level .
@@abdulwahab181 Yes exactly you got my point but merciful is like Reham dill bro I don't think so that we are able to do mercy at someone because we all know that we are not perfect we do many sins in our daily life even a very big sins which have no forgiveness but Allah Almighty do Mercy on us and forgive us if we feel bad and pray to Allah so as we know we are all not good we do many sins so how we do mercy on another person just Allah Almighty do mercy on us we are not able to do mercy just we forgive someone because we have only that right to forgive someone. I hope you will understand with my explanation now.
sab se bara ZULM sahil bhai yeh hai jab husband bivi pe dusri auret ko terjeeh deta hai jo haram taluq ko enjoy ker ri hoti hai. aur jo din raat apky bachon k leaye sab kuch seh rahi hoti hai usko sawal kerny pe dhutkaar dia jata hai , iss mn unperh ya parhi likhi aurt dono k saath esa ho raha :( ............a.s
Duniya Allah nay imtyhan k liye banaii hay . Jitna mushkil question paper ho ga number bhi zyada hongay . Husband life nahi life partner hota hay it means 50%. Rishton ko oun ki jaga par rakhna chahiyye chahay husband hi Kun na ho. Is condition may bachchay maa ki attention k zyada haqdar hoty han. JazakAllah ho khayr
@@hindimangriobhai911 assalamualaikum Jis insaan nay ous ourat ki Zindagi kharab ki ous hi ki wajha say ous ourat nay apni aakhirrat bhi kharab Kar li. Allah aysi soch rakhnay vallon par raham karay. Aameen
Assalamoalaikum wrwb. Brother can i use your video on my page. I’m a lawyer & working on a project Legal talks in that we talk about the root causes of family matters etc!
He's so wrong. So much wrong. ALLAH u AKBER kabira. Prophet Hazrat Mohammed Sallalaho alaihi wasallum was without father and mother when he was 6. But relationship with ALLAH SUBHANA WA TA'ALA made him the strongest man on earth. He's applying psychology without considering relationship with ALLAH SUBHANA WA TA'ALA. He has no solution for any person. He can just describe cases.
sir you are a factory of knowledge nowadays ALLAH Bless you always Stay healthy you are in my prayers sahil sir
Me too
Sir jb se apko suna men smjhti hun k meri thinking bht change ho rai Alhamdulilah.... mashaAllah sir Allah Pak ne apko wo talent dia k apki bat asar krti dusre pe ...kaash k apki baat koi smjhe or seerat hisa bn jaye hmare syllabus ka from grade one
Salute you Sahil bhai......You are doing a great service. Allah bless you
You are right sir that both genders are at fault for a broken family. "Tali dunu haton sy bajti hy". Problem is that we don't evaluate our actions and it's very easy to blame others. So we need to learn the justice . If we are wrong, accept the responsibility and try to fix things for better future.
Subhan Allah kesi zbrdast batein apne samjha di hn
Subhan Allah. Zabardast
Love and respect
Thanks sahil bhai for such a great video
darasl apky parents great hain
Great description. Kindly speak on tauheed and tawaqul. The true sense of that. I have been asking on different videos in comments
Really appreciable. Jazakallah u Khair
Pakistan aurat jaisi aurat dunya may kahi nahi hay,wah Sahir bhai you nailed it ,mtlb khoon barha dia hay mera hahah,jokes apart,the topic n the points you told were so amazing
JazakAllah khair❤
I wish k 100000 likes hoty or mai like krti
Assalam o alaikum
Sahil bhai please suggest me books on child psychology and parenting.
Mostly men are too focused on earning and providing the necessities of life. He does not spend much time to communicate with family and that's how he loses everything when divorce happens. Later he reflects where he made the mistake. On the other hand Women don't appreciate the hard work of man and are full of jealously. they don't want to share the love and attention of their husbands with in law's and that's how the problems escalate. At the end both suffer and specifically the children suffer more than parents. Later those children become adult with negative psychology and it effects their relationships. Cycle goes on.
What’s the solution then?
Assalamulikum sir ap Isreal aur unki temples per history ki timeline detail explains kare religious and historically
According to the book "Languages of Love".... Man wants respect from woman and woman wants love and attention from the man. So if you instill this information in both genders then they can understand their responsibility and rights.
Apki baat theek h par sawal ye h k install kre kaise aur karega kon..? Jinki zimmedaari thi wo to so rae hn aur na unhe ab qaum se koi matlab mar rai h marne do kat rai h katne do jahannum ki taraf badh rai h badhne do ghar ka nizam khraab ho chuka h hone do qaum bigad chuki h bigadne do hme Firqawariyat k maslo ko dekhna h aur puri zindagi isi m barbaad karni h baaki bahar kya ho ra h hme koi matlab nahi..
Aur Hamara education system ki to kya baat kre use bhi isse koi matlab nahi na hi koi aise chapters hn Nursery se PHD syllabus tak chale jaiye kuch nahi milega apko..
Deeni Madaris m chale jaiye waha bhi apko kuch nahi milega.. Madaris m sirf Kanoon aur Firqawariyat padhai ja rai h..
Morals Ethics Manners Seerat of our Beloved Nabi
Seerat of Ummehatul Momineen
Ye cheeze na padhai jaati hn aur na ye cheeze padhne se install hoti h character m balke individually inko seekhna padega kyu k ye cheeze sirf seekhne se hi character m install ho sakti hn aur uske liye sab se pehle jo Full time institution h wo h Ghar aur us ghar k log kyu k bachcha 90 percent time ghar m hi bitata h Madarse aur school part time institution hn.. Bachcha ghar k mahol se hi mutasir hota h Maa Baap ko dekhr kr isiliye tarbiyat k role model asal m Maa Baap hn aur aap dekhle unglia bhi unhi par uthti hn jab unka bachcha koi kisi galat kaam m pad jata h koi bhi school k ya madarse k ustaad ko nahi kehta maa baap par ungli uthate hn sab..
Actually Hamari psychology m problem h asal m.. Bigad chuki h puri tarah se.. Desensitized kar dia gya h puri qaum ko wo muslim ho hindu ho sikh ho ya koi aur
Har taraf behayai besharmi begairati badsulooki jahiliyat badtameezi badmaashi tharkipan sab filmo se youTube se tiktok aur bhi aap janti hn kya kuch nahi ho ra aur Hum logo ne Full time institution ko part time kar dia h aur part time ko Full time. Kyu k ab time hi nhi h na apni aulaad k liye bhi time nahi h to wo janwaro ki tarah pal rae hn aur bade ho kar janwaro jesa hi sulook kar rae hn maa baap k saath jo k m samajhta hu k bilkul theek h kyu k maa baap ne apni aulaad ko bachpan m janwaro ki tarah chorh dia tha bade hone ko to ab jab bachpan se janwar pana seekha h wahi wo unhe return kar rae hn
Kyu k Tarbiyat ki zimmedaari jiski thi usne utha k School aur madarso k teachero pe phek di tha ab bhugto...
Aur pichle 50 saal m jo bigaad paida ho chuka h Aaj kal k Maa Baap ko kisi baat ki tameez nhi aur na knowledge k Maa Baap hona kya cheez hoti h kya zimmedaari hoti hn bhul chuke hn unhe Mia Biwi k rishte k baare m koi cheez yaad nahi ab aur new generation ki to kya kehne unki jitni tareef ki jae kam h....
Ab Yahudio ne bigaad failaya ho ya kisi aur ne Jo kuch hona tha ho chuka behayai besharmi k tufaan m uljha diya ab ye zahir k nikaalne k liye to daala ni tha to Ab jo ho sakta h wo sirf ye h k individually ho sakta h Ab deen ko har musalmaan ko khud seekhna padega youtube se ya jaise bhi warna ab apko koi ghar sikhane nahi aane waala ye jaan le ache se aur na deen ab madarso m baaki bacha h islamic schoolo m jo thoda bohot tha wo bhi khatam hone ko h Har kisi ki ab individually zimmedaari h k wo apne deen ko khud padhe samjhe seekhe jo ho raha h usko side m rakh kar..
Baaki raha Maulvio ka ulamae deen ka masla to scholars ki jo zimmedaari thi lagta h k wo bhul chuke hn Firqawariyat ki jango m uljhe hue hn buri tarah se kon sahi kon galat kon muslim kon kafir kon jannati kon jahannami aur munazre baazi m lage hue hn jisme haram halal jaiz na jaiz bid at aur sunnat k masle unke asle masail hn zindagi k Qaum kidhar ja rai h kya bigaad ho chuka h kya kuch ho chuka h unhe isse koi ilm nahi is baat ka na unhe koi matlab unhe apni behes baazi se fursat mile tab idhar dekhe na.. Isilye ab har koi apne aap deen ko seekhe samjhe padhe padhae samjhae sikhae..
Plz upload the complete videos.
Assalamualaikum...
From India
zaberdast ,you are great.....:)
Sahil bhai ke saath wale ne Choti kyu daal rakhi h🤔? Video kafi Informative h
Sir jb husband wife ko deen p ane ka kahe or wo inkar kre or libral or modern bani rhe to phr b usy divorce ni deni chahye ? Or ak hadees h k Allah us shakhsh ki dua qabul ni krta js ki bv badzaban ho or wo usy talaq na de raha ho .
aap ne kis nabz pe hath rakh dia?
Assalamulikum... Im from India too
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ap iss barey mn kia kahen gy k media aur motivational speekers bivi ko. shoher ko qabu mn rakhney k leaye ek model girl banney k tareeqy btatey rehty hain,,,, yani haya aur emaan koi cheez nai :( shayed logon ko bura lagy ,, leader ship esi maaen peda karen gi jo sari energy shoher ko qabu mn rakhny pe e lga ri ho.:)A .s.
yeah tu necessary nhi k agar broken family disorder hobtab hi kill capacity waley loag hun.. I have seen many people who are lethal and they belong to normal family...
Tell us about sumerian civilization
I hope u ll answer me as sadka e jaria
Is it alow to make choti for a man ?
Aoa sir
Hope u will good by the blessing ov Allah Almighty
Plz help me with ur advise
Mery husband addicted hain my son is 6 years old he is growing up and questioning me about all this he drank all day and night
What should i do how could i realize him he has to stop it immediately.
Uff sir Mai is lecture ko direct attend krna chahti hon is it possible
Big love 😍
@sahiladeem
Raham and mawadda
Please make a seesion of zulqarnain
@Sahil Adeem , Can you pls define 'Raham'. I still can't understand its true meaning.
Raham means being kind being merciful being caring.
@@abdulwahab181 Sorry to say bro but in my point of view there is only one merciful in our whole world so best way is to define Raham is like forgive him (Forgive someone)
@@motivationalspeakers8099 bro if Allah is merciful it doesn't mean no one else could be and similarly all other characteristic what Allah has human can have too but no creature could reach that level .
@@abdulwahab181 Yes exactly you got my point but merciful is like Reham dill bro I don't think so that we are able to do mercy at someone because we all know that we are not perfect we do many sins in our daily life even a very big sins which have no forgiveness but Allah Almighty do Mercy on us and forgive us if we feel bad and pray to Allah so as we know we are all not good we do many sins so how we do mercy on another person just Allah Almighty do mercy on us we are not able to do mercy just we forgive someone because we have only that right to forgive someone.
I hope you will understand with my explanation now.
You can call it unconditional love
Salute you
Please reply
Hii can anyone tell me who is this guy with sir sahil? He is from the surah kahaf series and id like to listen to more of his videos..
he is the brother of sahil adeem.
Name
When you guys going to be upload the Surah-kahaf ?
Please go on A simple Argument
No plans to upload that here.
Thank you
Is it OK to have such type hairstayl according to Islam
Not exactly
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sab se bara ZULM sahil bhai yeh hai jab husband bivi pe dusri auret ko terjeeh deta hai jo haram taluq ko enjoy ker ri hoti hai. aur jo din raat apky bachon k leaye sab kuch seh rahi hoti hai usko sawal kerny pe dhutkaar dia jata hai , iss mn unperh ya parhi likhi aurt dono k saath esa ho raha :( ............a.s
Aisa hi maamle me kal yaha india me aik ladki ne sucide kr diya ,dariya me kood kar
Allah us par rahm kare
Duniya Allah nay imtyhan k liye banaii hay .
Jitna mushkil question paper ho ga number bhi zyada hongay .
Husband life nahi life partner hota hay it means 50%.
Rishton ko oun ki jaga par rakhna chahiyye chahay husband hi Kun na ho.
Is condition may bachchay maa ki attention k zyada haqdar hoty han.
JazakAllah ho khayr
@@hindimangriobhai911 assalamualaikum
Jis insaan nay ous ourat ki Zindagi kharab ki ous hi ki wajha say ous ourat nay apni aakhirrat bhi kharab Kar li.
Allah aysi soch rakhnay vallon par raham karay.
Aameen
Assalamoalaikum wrwb. Brother can i use your video on my page. I’m a lawyer & working on a project Legal talks in that we talk about the root causes of family matters etc!
Sure plz go ahead
He's so wrong. So much wrong.
ALLAH u AKBER kabira.
Prophet
Hazrat Mohammed Sallalaho alaihi wasallum was without father and mother when he was 6. But relationship with ALLAH SUBHANA WA TA'ALA made him the strongest man on earth.
He's applying psychology without considering relationship with ALLAH SUBHANA WA TA'ALA.
He has no solution for any person.
He can just describe cases.