Vlogtember with Mrs D Day 6 - Marital woes

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  • @kitchenworker446
    @kitchenworker446 Рік тому +7

    Paula,,,you are one of the funniest ladies on the internet...i could sit and listen to you chattering on about stuff all day! xx

  • @greenlambkinyarn
    @greenlambkinyarn Рік тому +9

    Those minis are flipping gorgeous. To me they would smell of pumpkin pie, gingerbread and bonfire toffee.

  • @debs_SoggyBottom
    @debs_SoggyBottom Рік тому +14

    Women are from Venus, men are from Mars ... you and James are exactly like me and Mr C. We never think in the same way! I totally understand your frustration Paula, but it will never change. xx

    • @mozit8063
      @mozit8063 Рік тому +4

      So so true. We cross lines all the time . Then we laugh about it later. x

    • @marionlamont8548
      @marionlamont8548 Рік тому +2

      Totally agree mars & Venus and cloth ears !!

    • @debs_SoggyBottom
      @debs_SoggyBottom Рік тому

      @@marionlamont8548 I saw a post a while back that said "Nobody told me that when you get a husband, the ears come separately".

    • @sandiking1584
      @sandiking1584 Рік тому +1

      🤣🤣@@debs_SoggyBottom

  • @alisonf7113
    @alisonf7113 Рік тому +8

    Love these vlogs and spending a little time with you, it’s like listening to a friend ☺️ lovely to see James too he’s a good sport 😂 xx

  • @lenorerhodes8110
    @lenorerhodes8110 Рік тому +5

    Omg, I think all blokes are the same. 😂😂❤️🌺

    • @donmetz11
      @donmetz11 Рік тому

      😂please read my experience 😁 above!

  • @ruthstamper2915
    @ruthstamper2915 Рік тому +6

    Poor James, you two are so funny together 😂. Men and women definately think in a different way to women, we think what we ask/mean is obvious but they remain oblivious. Lovely of him to sort it for you at that late time, sounds like it confused Lillian too. Your guinea pigs are gorgeous, those little faces 😁.

  • @sewsweetsamuel4865
    @sewsweetsamuel4865 Рік тому +4

    Good luck Lizzie for tomorrow xx
    Yes, why can’t men just do what you ask when you ask, and also why can’t they move things when they are looking for something- if it doesn’t jump out the cupboard it’s not there!!! No you might have to actually move something!!! Lovely autumn yarn. Xx

  • @jillipepper5353
    @jillipepper5353 Рік тому +1

    Typical situation , men hear things differently than we think lol , Dryer is gone now. 👍🏼glad to hear you two are still together😂🙋🏼‍♀️

  • @calicaister4675
    @calicaister4675 Рік тому +5

    So glad your vlogging this month as you are so entertaining. It was great seeing you and James together as you make a brilliant team and can't wait till Tuesday . Thought we might have to wait till Christmas when you both do your taste tests . Your James reminds me of Liam from Emmerdale , very handsome x

  • @conniewatson1659
    @conniewatson1659 Рік тому

    You and James are so funny,.. I enjoy watching y'all ,. Y'all are beautiful couples,.. that's good that y'all can put a smile on our face... Just be yourself,. That's what makes it so special.... 😁🙂👍💜❤️☺️😊. Happy Knitting..

  • @annehayward3506
    @annehayward3506 Рік тому +3

    James is so cute he has a lovely smile. Pleased your tumble dryer was taken away alright. Love and hugs xx

  • @terichiarelli6210
    @terichiarelli6210 Рік тому +2

    Paula I let my husband listen to the part about moving the dryer…he was laughing and said, “see! She should have told him earlier in the day🙄😡” This happens in my house ALL THE TIME! Married for 30 years🤷‍♀️🤗😂

  • @donmetz11
    @donmetz11 Рік тому +2

    💐Hi Paula, I just have to comment today. When I see your video come up, I immediately watch! I could listen to you all day! I wish you were my neighbor 😊. I must tell you that our dog, small Cairn Terrier, was also restless all night last night and we got up tired today. She was still the same this morning until my husband told me to give her her Xanax from her vet! We live in Southern California in US. This is very strange. Wonder why? I do wish that I could knit socks like you do! I’m glad that James loves the ones you knit. I get a kick out of watching him because he is so good looking and so self-conscious 😂. You two are so cute and funny together! Please keep your visits with us coming!😊👍👏🌸
    Oh, I must add to this! I commented before I had finished watching because I had to run off to a hair appointment. (Unlike you, I keep my hair very blond!😁). As I watched you and James, I had to start laughing! It sounded so like my husband and I😂. I will speak VERY clearly to him in simple sentences, watching to see if he is hearing me, asking him to do something… No action. Should I repeat it and be accused of nagging?🤨. No. I will wait. Nothing. Finally, I ask him and he has either NO MEMORY of me asking, OR, TOTALLY misunderstood what I said🥺. My conclusion at 71 years of age is this: I think men’s brains up front SEEM very normal. In the back of their brains, the wiring is unbelievably tangled, screwed up, and CRAZY!!!😂. I don’t care how young or old or how smart or not as smart. My husband is a retired pharmacist. They are all very similar in this way. I have come to the conclusion of: say very little, do it yourself, or go up to your craft room!!!!! 😁👍👏❤️

  • @dialuario514
    @dialuario514 Рік тому +2

    Paula, I love seeing you and James together. You make such a beautiful couple. Men & women speak very different languages……I swear, I can say something to my husband nicely all day and it will never get done but as soon as I get mad he understands! I hate to nag but it’s a necessity if anything is to get accomplished. Oh, and I’ve been married 43 years….it never gets better. But when we were first married, I only had to hint at something and it would appear! Those were the days! Good luck in the heat tomorrow. You’re very smart to get out there early. I love that Lizzy likes to go with you. You have a very sweet family. ❤

  • @cathylittle6752
    @cathylittle6752 Рік тому

    I love the way your eyes light up when you and James look at each other. You're both beautiful people.

  • @JoyfulStitching
    @JoyfulStitching Рік тому +4

    HAHA. So good to see men are the same no matter what side of the ocean, lol, what a sweetheart to do that middle of night !! Happy Anniversary BTW :). OMG Paula your face when he suggested 2 months for a sock. Haha.

  • @jacobashepherd3397
    @jacobashepherd3397 Рік тому

    Oh my , James and you made me laugh so hard . I could just see James , rearranging the house 😂 See you tomorrow ❤

  • @ingridspinknitlove1192
    @ingridspinknitlove1192 Рік тому +3

    I love how you gave James the choice and he wanted the Christmas yarn and then you re-routed him. I do this to my husband ALL THE TIME! 😂

    • @judepicton6252
      @judepicton6252 Рік тому +2

      Yes you can choose whatever you want ,so long as it's this one. 😂

  • @allthingsthread
    @allthingsthread Рік тому +2

    Your crossed wires over the dryer made me laugh out loud, partnerships/marriages are the same world wide. We just celebrated our 45th and are still having conversations like you and James.
    Really enjoying the vlogtember. 🇨🇦

  • @mrspilgrim327
    @mrspilgrim327 Рік тому

    Im just catching up with your vlogs and after I heard again about the neighbourhood antics surrounding poor Doug I had to recount it all to the hubby. He suggested putting a collar on Doug with some engraved metal tags stipulating the necessities, something bright and noticable, we used to use red collars with studs on our cats, very cute. We had a very socialble seal point siamese and a not so social moggy that looks just like Kim, we had the same issues. Thanks for making my day feel a little bit more normal Paula.

  • @sandiking1584
    @sandiking1584 Рік тому

    You and James made me giggle....it reminded me many years ago I would ask my then husband if he could just wash the kitchen floor on a Saturday morning (I worked and did the rest of the house cleaning) he would carry on as if I had asked him to clean the whole house....on repeat every Saturday morning. Sundays I would make sandwiches and bake 4-5 batches of biscuits for his lunches for the week. It used to make me so angry haha
    Your Pixie yarns smell like orange sorbet and pumpkin and cinnamon

  • @deborahsmith2912
    @deborahsmith2912 Рік тому +2

    You and James are definitely solid, sure to enjoy many, many happy anniversaries :) . Thank you for doing these vlogs, you brighten my day. Good luck to Lizzie as she returns to school!

  • @janeferguson8678
    @janeferguson8678 Рік тому +1

    James is so lovely. But i understand your frustration. Happens in my house all the time. Gets worse as you get older. Remember to be kind to each other. It's a long road together.

  • @warronchavers2209
    @warronchavers2209 Рік тому

    Hi, Mrs.D, liked day 6, 😊 the guinea pigs are a cute pair. Do they bite? Liked the socks, I have to have a class on how to knit them. We men know that, if we jump right away at some things that you want, we may have to get up off of our easy chair and miss the football game. Lol. No, really I do enjoy your work, and content. Have a great day. 👍

  • @christytschappat2592
    @christytschappat2592 Рік тому

    The green socks remind me of the children’s story characters frog and toad ❤

  • @bridgetrsews
    @bridgetrsews Рік тому +1

    Lovely to see James again ! I think these conversations about domestic issues and misinterpretations between couples go on the world over . I know they do in our house 😂. I look forward to your singing, James should have been in a boy band , he’s got the good looks . Bridget R

  • @govidgordana2293
    @govidgordana2293 Рік тому

    Hi Paula, I love it when you and James are on together🤗

  • @Stumpybear7640
    @Stumpybear7640 Рік тому

    😂 you 2 are the best! I had such a laugh at you and James recounting the tumble drier incident! I use a dehumidifier to dry off my clothes, it's much cheaper, but u do have lots more washing than me, so it may not be suitable. I know you love each other very much otherwise u wouldn't be able to fight so well. It's a good thing. I live alone and could do with a good barney😂😅😊 Much love to you all. Ps Ìt is hard to learn about how people abuse children. Give Meg a special cuddle.

  • @heathertucker7056
    @heathertucker7056 Рік тому

    Love seeing you and James together! I know exactly what you mean when you have to ask for something to be done multiple times then it sounds like nagging! Hope Meg is OK now as she sounded very upset.

  • @jeantompkins67
    @jeantompkins67 Рік тому +2

    You are such a joy to chat with. Have a super day.

  • @jeandunlop2922
    @jeandunlop2922 Рік тому +1

    Love your vlogs. Thank you so much.

  • @kezmez1464
    @kezmez1464 Рік тому

    it always seems such a fine line between asking and nagging, its so frustrating!

  • @lauralea86
    @lauralea86 Рік тому

    Sure glad to know my husband and I are not the only couple to have discussions similar to the "dryer" instance. 😂

  • @carolinecobbold2378
    @carolinecobbold2378 Рік тому

    I make a similar noise when I run down the stairs patsy. But it’s more my knees, and more of a crunching noise.

  • @stephaniemiller1975
    @stephaniemiller1975 Рік тому

    OMGEEEEE....you both are too cute and funny together😁 reminds me of me and my hubby 😂 hope you both have a very blessed day.

  • @MsPoodlelove
    @MsPoodlelove Рік тому

    Love these vlogs. The two bags of sock yarn looks very interesting. Would you be able to go through on a future vlog what each ball of yarn is? Apologises if you’ve already done this in an earlier vlog. Thanks Dianne 😀

  • @carlamonico4739
    @carlamonico4739 Рік тому

    Great VLOG Paula Fun to see James and your marriage banter. Happy Anniversary. And those vegetable boxes are so fun. I wish I could order one….Loving your September VLOGs.

  • @pammyers1982
    @pammyers1982 Рік тому

    The Autumn Equinox minis are beautiful!

  • @julielines3281
    @julielines3281 Рік тому

    Oh you do make me laugh 😂 x thank you for sharing x

  • @cynthiawilson8687
    @cynthiawilson8687 Рік тому

    Paula, I look forward to watching EVERY video you make! Totally relate to the frustration w!hubs delaying the request! It’s maddening when they do that! We’re married almost 35 years and we get along very well. But it drives me crazy when I need him to do something and he procrastinates til the last minute, and tops it off with, “ Why didn’t you say it was top priority??” 🤪
    Autumn Equinox is gorgeous! What kind of blanket will you make? I’m currently crocheting a rose afghan granny square blanket for my grand daughter who is to be born any day now.
    Thanks for all the family member updates. Hugs to you and the family❤

  • @juliadroy1179
    @juliadroy1179 Рік тому

    You two are the funniest pair I laughed so much, lovely veg box

  • @cathrinesommer9811
    @cathrinesommer9811 Рік тому

    I know with you mean….. I SO know with you mean!!! 😄😄😄

  • @mooziet652
    @mooziet652 Рік тому

    He is such a cutie pie 😀

  • @sarahmiddle5028
    @sarahmiddle5028 Рік тому

    Oh you did make me laugh, I have exactly the same problem with my husband and asking him to do things, anyone would think I'm speaking double dutch. Hope Lilian has been sleeping better

  • @sherithurber7847
    @sherithurber7847 Рік тому

    🤣🤣🤣! You make me laugh.

  • @paulinestevens
    @paulinestevens Рік тому +1

    Wow, Paula, I’ve just looked ‘down below’ and you’re doing so well with sponsorship! Amazing!! Well done ! Can’t wait to see poor James next Tuesday, bless him! 😂

  • @pennyspearing2731
    @pennyspearing2731 Рік тому

    Your vlogs are the best and always bring a smile to my face. Men are always good at putting things off and if we remind them we get accused of nagging 😂

  • @MumMatthews-v8b
    @MumMatthews-v8b Рік тому

    Enjoying your vlogs again glad your ok and your fam 🙏

  • @Scout1052
    @Scout1052 Рік тому

    I felt like I was watching Lucy and Desi Arnez trying to communicate ………. Hilarious. We all have ‘unrealistic expectations’ of our spouses, and often assume we’ve not only been heard but understood. Best to laugh at ourselves….. we’re only human.

  • @myjulie60
    @myjulie60 Рік тому +1

    Had to text him to see if we are still together. I’m still laughing so funny 😂😂

  • @sue7621
    @sue7621 Рік тому +1

    Pay attention James 🤗😸😹😸😹
    So funny you two together! 😘😘🙌🙌🤗🤗sending love from a Geordie from Newcastle living in Wales

  • @mcarthurpark6655
    @mcarthurpark6655 Рік тому

    Great thumbnail 💕😂

  • @souffle53
    @souffle53 Рік тому

    Love seeing you two.

  • @coressaclark6354
    @coressaclark6354 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @doje2810
    @doje2810 Рік тому

    Crack me up! 💜 u two!

  • @suecoles7824
    @suecoles7824 Рік тому

    Paula, I think they hear, but just keep putting it off what needs to be done, and then forget about it! Convenient 😅 as he said he thought the men would just do it. Snap! My favourite apples are Discovery too, and I first had them when we stayed in Worcester a long time ago, which is where they are mostly grown, their lovely and tangy with so much flavour, it’s a shame the season is so short. “How is it all down below” 😅 I’ve said that so many times😂😂 So good to see James, the two of you are a hoot! Suze. 🥰🤗🧶 xxx

  • @TheUnnur81
    @TheUnnur81 Рік тому +3

    YES! Why can't men sometimes just DO the things?!? I'm glad I'm not the only woman feeling like this 🤣❤ Lovely video❤

  • @suedale1865
    @suedale1865 Рік тому

    How nice to see James on the vlog ❤
    Sorry Meg was upset at some of life’s cruelties it’s hard when you have a loving family home life but a reality of some lives ( big virtual hug Meg )
    I think James should have Autumn socks 😂🤣 he needed to the job before bed time selective hearing (happens in most homes ) 😤
    See you tomorrow ❤️💜💙💕

  • @whathayleymade5851
    @whathayleymade5851 Рік тому

    I love these vlogs ❤

  • @FoxyRockyLou
    @FoxyRockyLou Рік тому

    Oh you do make me laugh - down below 😂😂😂 always love to see you both together - keep on running! Xx

  • @OllieandMay
    @OllieandMay Рік тому

    😂😂 You 2 Make me laugh, looking forward to the Anniversary Singalong 😮…❤

  • @clairenason4869
    @clairenason4869 Рік тому

    Things need to be spelled out to the letter when you want something done.

  • @barbararadzeviciusbondi4150

    James is so funny. He chose a colour and you tried to convince him another was more him 😁.
    Q. What is your favourite thing to knit?
    Q. What are your preferences when buying wool?
    Q. What does James do in his spare time?
    Its Spring here in Sydney Australia and I'm not looking forward to 100 % Summer humidity and woolly knits.

  • @carolyncampbell6149
    @carolyncampbell6149 Рік тому +2

    Poor Meg, it’s tough for her, glad she’s got her Mum to talk to.
    I don’t like the heat full stop and I’m in the north of Scotland!
    I know what you mean about nagging, I think they just don’t do things the first ten times you ask them so that they can say stop nagging!😂

  • @donnamarks9799
    @donnamarks9799 Рік тому

    Entertaining marital today 🤣

  • @giddygrub7176
    @giddygrub7176 Рік тому +1

    I'm here for the Ford Fiesta socks

  • @jillyrosex6099
    @jillyrosex6099 Рік тому

    Can we have a James 'crap' episode again please 😂

  • @AliH-r9s
    @AliH-r9s Рік тому

    So funny😂 Sounds like our house.

  • @mandymaxwell3249
    @mandymaxwell3249 Рік тому +1

  • @sue7621
    @sue7621 Рік тому

    Don’t worry James we are the same! 😸😹🤗😘🙌😸

  • @mitzikolody4569
    @mitzikolody4569 Рік тому

    Bless I just love your blogs xx

  • @terryanderson2685
    @terryanderson2685 Рік тому

    Happy early anniversary! Nice y’all made me laugh.

  • @cheryllwatts2796
    @cheryllwatts2796 Рік тому

    Another lovely catch up, hope Lizzie has a good day back at school. Has James had a new tattoo?

  • @carolb8073
    @carolb8073 Рік тому

    I’m curious, you said in the past you order a veg box. Is that special order or from the grocery store ?
    I love the Pixie Yarn mini colors. Very pretty. I love the fall colors.

  • @carols_crafting_space
    @carols_crafting_space Рік тому +1

    Haha…you sound like me, only I ask twice and then throw a strop and try to do it myself while making a fuss about it 🤣😂

  • @paulinedutton8576
    @paulinedutton8576 Рік тому

    Who tells or asks us women to do things??? We just know what to do but Men say if you ask me I’ll do it🤬 🤣 it did make me laugh though you two . Stay cool in this terrifically hot weather 🥵

  • @jackieleipert1950
    @jackieleipert1950 Рік тому

    Selective Hearing is what men have. It gets worse when the refuse to get a hearing aid.

  • @TheCatlady63
    @TheCatlady63 Рік тому +2

    I've got one just like him. :Lol

  • @carolb8073
    @carolb8073 Рік тому

    Lol that’s the same for every man. Mine wouldn’t have got up after he was in bed without cussing the whole way lol

  • @MollyInEngland
    @MollyInEngland Рік тому

    I know where you are coming from Paula. I just think James likes to live dangerously once in a while. 😅

  • @christinephillips2069
    @christinephillips2069 Рік тому +4

    Omg…….. you both remind me of me and my husband ….. and yes Paula I know exactly what you mean 😉 what I say to my hubby is …. If you just did it in the first place when I asked you I wouldn’t be nagging you would I? Then he starts moaning …

  • @carolinestreeter975
    @carolinestreeter975 Рік тому +1

    Wish it was cool here! 🥵

  • @coressaclark6354
    @coressaclark6354 22 дні тому

    I dont like exercising on purpose

  • @caroldaley7187
    @caroldaley7187 Рік тому

    It has to be a man thing,lol.