You're not joking. I had a girl come over and a pickup book was full screen on my 86" tv. Not sure if she read it before I was able to close the window or not. Oops.
@@ignoreme1141 No, it's more like most of his audience is extremely logical guys who work in fields like tech who can appreciate the black and white, 0 and 1s approach. When it comes to women though, there's nuance to the interactions. It's never black and white
2 Upcoming video ideas: - Great first dates ideas (with examples) - How to actually have a great first date (with examples of good "crucial conversations" and actions that lead to a good first date and progressively escalate the interaction)
You left out that the girl probably wants you to succeed otherwise she wasted her time on a bad date. She may actually nudge the trajectory of the date in the right general direction, because she doesn't want to have a bad time. It's almost like the rubber banding in Mario Kart so the races stay somewhat competitive. You can still lose if you mess up really bad. You might win or lose due to a stroke of luck at a pivotal moment. Skill usually wins over luck but it's not purely a game of skill. Most importantly, have fun and don't think you're a bad person for losing because it happens to everyone. You get a fresh start next time and hopefully you've improved with practice.
Man the new format of your videos is amazing, very easy to follow and understand the key information. Unlike RSD videos that are very very long and hard to focus on for a long time. Great work Todd I like this new approach very much!
It's like laps in a race. Every lap (point of esculation) you accomplish smoothly and in good time, makes the overall race time and performance much better.
Plottwist: The girls we're trying to get are watching even nerdier stuff from a female version of todd wich tells them how to set the best shittests and/or how to play hard to get etc in even crazier graphs and stuff xD
This is kinda like when mystery explains “time” . That the first 3 seconds buys you the next 3 minutes, the next 3 minutes buys you the next 30 minutes, the next 30 min buys you the rest of the night. .. except axplained with a Ti-graphing calculator 😂
People tend to prefer consistent improvement, whether it is financially, emotionally, or in terms of good and bad news. They prefer this to inconsistent or declining experiences, even when the overall average is higher. Application: don’t wait to take all the risks in the back half of the date, be willing to take some risks earlier. If you have stories or routines that work consistently or you expect to work well, don’t burn them all in the first part of the date.
I'd love to see you take apart a strategy for building a relationship after the initial success. You've told numerous times that relationships either improve or get worse, they don't stay on the same level. What would be a set of relationship goals after the start?
That really depends on you personally. If you want a girlfriend, then having more dates works. If you want a friends with benefits thing, see the girl max 1-2 a week.
@@AssasinZorro So, in general you should already have heavily screened the girl for qualities you like and compatibility . Do not just make any girl your girlfriend. So, when she is your girlfriend she has qualities you like and you guys have things in common. One thing to do is having an activity in common like hiking. Just something you can do together. Look into these books: 5 love languages and crucial conversations
I usually make a date 1hour - 1.5 hour tops- escalate kiss couple times and then leave. Might be exceptions of going to my place but that model works nicely. I just w8 for her to hit me back with something.
A new Beginner- I have just hit the rock bottom, I have realized whatever I was doing in order to attract women is not working. But I am a fighter, I didn’t accept my situation, some how I knew there is a way. I didn’t believe in this path, but the other path wasn’t even leading me anywhere. The frustration has now become my fuel of this journey. I started searching for all the answers and came to know the problem is not the outside but is in the inside. I started learning ,observing and patterns start to emerge and things are now making sense which I learned and gained faith that it could be done. Now it’s my turn to play in the field and Started playing the Game. Here comes my very first approach- “Sweating my body, red are my ears. Here comes the beauti but I have got fear. I know she is human but now she seems a Martian. Seems all the insecurities and the fear just staring at me from the corner near by But Stacks are high meantime I wanna run away and outfly. Now She walks by I gazed her eye and I said hi and she actually reply. Talked we for minutes and we walked to the restaurant near corner by. exchanged our numbers and I said her bye.”
Great video todd. Been following you since the rsd days and your style definitely fits my vibe. Been pushing myself over the years out of my comfort zone but it wasnt until 2020 that its all coming together. Been going on multiple dates with amazing women that I never would have dreamed of getting before, but I know I cant stop here and have to keep pushing myself! Keep up the great content!
Iv been on heaps of tinder dates probably close to 100 and i have no problems getting girls but I still watch Todds videos and the way he can translate these thoughts into graphs is so accurate. It just kinda cements the knowledge of already have.
Hey love the math formulas for objective guidelines. You could also use an example of how much time until a soft limit you would usually have so the individual girl is also part of the model. Right now you're guessing a lot what the girl is like as the guy, instead of assuming something specific. Like in a math way, there is now a formula, but which of the unknown variables should you expect can usually solve the formula, maybe something like the 7 hour rule, with 4-10 hours as a range, is the solution to the math formula, where there are clear wrong and right numbers to insert into the formula. That way you might set up enough time in the planning stage that the date can succeed, instead of guess how much time is the time you need. So if you know she needs to go to work tomorrow, you could use the model to project how much time you need left at the start the date? Right now that's not a part of the model. How do you solve for f(time)=sex when planning the date.
I do Coffee =comfort 1 hour -2 Walk to next venue banter/teasing maybe hand holding establishing physical intimacy Arrive at next venue, both now feeling comfortable Go for kiss. Finish.
I think escalation can also span over multiple dates. Can keep building up sexual tension over like 3 or 4 dates before getting fully intimate. I think lots of girls aren’t comfortable being intimate on a first date
Yeah I love Todd's content but i wish he would factor-in dating strategies for those guys who actually want to take it slow, over weeks even, without loosing value or tension. To be fair, he has started doing this more recently.
@@celticviolaandfiddle I think girls want intimacy as much as guys, but tend to be hesitant. Maybe from evolutionary perspective women have to be choosy due to huge investment of having a kid. There’s a tension of keeping momentum but also being patient enough. Also just aspect of chemistry / compatibility which very hard to change. Often easier just to keep searching for someone better match
well traditionally its, first, second, third and home. lol, first = kissing/makeout, second = groping/getting handsy, third = hands in pants, Home = sexy time.
Usually they have to go particulary on the first date when they see that their date is not Tatum channing and is just an ordinary good guy ....they keep falling for the Bad Boy Crap who most of the time leave them on the side of the road after the've conquered them .
I recently went on a first date with a beautiful girl and I did the mistake of trying to start it really high energy and positivity and she was quickly shit testing even worse silent and un responsive then made an excuse to leave 20 minutes in so this makes a lot of sense
That feeling when time is running out and you realize you didn't escalate enough yet...haha I had that on my last date, which should have been a layup. Luckily I didn't completely blow it and I have another shot this weekend.
If a women likes you on a dating app at 1 or 2 am and you don’t see it until the next morning, is that a missed opportunity? If not when is the best time to like and message her?
I had a first date with a girl that went seemingly well. We actually met at my house, smoked, went to an art show, and came back to my place. She ended up staying until 3 am which was super positive feedback. I ended up not even kissing her because she told me during our date that she actually lives with her ex-boyfriend, which I told her I was a little uneasy about. She did seem genuine though in that she was really over him. She even said she didnt want to leave but she had to. I really liked this girl as she seemed exceptional in her thinking compared to most women. Somehow I ended up fucking up getting her on the second date. She flaked on me when she said she was coming over after work on a Thursday. Didn't hear from her for about two weeks. Turns out she ended up being hospitalized that same weekend and couldnt respond until the following week. I got a few long form text convos after she told me she was okay, after I had sent some long thing asking about where things were after she flaked on me and I didn't hear from her not knowing she had been in the ICU for a week. I had written her this stupid long text basically saying "do you like me because i like you, but no pressure" something like how a middle schooler would think. She even said she had written something out in the hospital but ended up not sending it. But I started noticing this pattern where she'll send me long form texts and seem really interested in talking and then just wont respond out of the blue. The mixed signals really fuck me up. And then throw in the fact that she got sick to confuse things further. Fuck dude, I hadn't had such an easy connection in a long time, I just don't know when to give up. I sent her this text a couple days ago "Hi pretty one, I hope your recovery is still going well. kissyface" and no response. Then i sent another long form thing basically saying I was super confused and would really appreciate some kind of explanation. Is that crazy? I'd appreciate anyone's take on that, as really don't know what to make of it other than a super drawn out rejection. Also, she initiated with me in the first place, which is why I was somewhat convinced things were off to a good start. And this is after not even hanging out with a girl in over 5 years. It felt like someone sent me an angel just to tease me, and then she vanished. God damnit.
This is a nice explanation but still doesn't help those of us who have no idea what to talk to girls about. Would be nice to have a video on keeping conversation going and interesting
I still don't approach people outside of my friend or work group (and sometimes not even my work group) because I feel like if they ask me "Why did you start this conversation?" or "Do you just want to f*ck me?" or "Do you just like one important personality attribute of mine, and want to be fwb?" My answer is "Because I'm looking for more FB, FWB." "Yes." and "Yes.". And even though I know that's every man's desire and intention, it makes it less worth it to me. Playing all of these "Games", not initiating texts even if I'm able to between my work from home. All of the things that seem to be necessary to sleep with women who aren't already into me feels gross a lot of the time. Especially since I'm an honest, blatant, truth over comfort type personality. The last part really only when with friends or if the other person asks for advice. I'm 26 and I just finally just recently discovered what I want to do and how I can do them without going to college and spending absurd amounts of $ and time. And I spent my $ traveling because I always thought I'd either die or move out of the country, so I never saved for a car. Now I'm here just beginning, knowing that most people don't find what they want to do, and actually start doing it, yet I feel like a loser. And the thought of approaching a woman to be fwb makes me afraid of being rejected and percieved by her as an A-hole at the same time. Please advise.
@Todd V Dating, (or anyone else who has an opinion on it) what are your thoughts on kissing a girl on the lips briefly at the start of the date at the train station you meet her at instead of the hug?
Hey my question is are we suppose to close first date? Does this apply to date 1 or date 5. My issue is not knowing when to stop communicating after a first date and when to maintain communication because she’s shit testing. I get laid but still struggle with this.
I’ve never flown a plane so it’d be weird if I gave you advice on how to be a pilot. Same energy for taking dating advice from an incel who’s never been on a date
Shouldn't the soft limit line be sloped with a positive gradient, so it extends further when she is bought in more? Instead of having to keep shifting it along?
Hope you guys enjoy the nerdy breakdown of dating! Let me know if you've been making the mistakes mentioned.
Me: Dating is an art
Todd: I've mathematically broken it all down
Me: Dating is science
Love it
Edit: to answer the question my tendency is too slow at start and either run out of time or forced too steep at the end
I've nominated you for a Nobel peace prize
Thanks bro
Absolutely amazing
It was hard to believe how good it was with graphs
Hide the graph so she doesn't find it when she comes back to your place
sheeeeeeeyit
😁
Lol!
You're not joking. I had a girl come over and a pickup book was full screen on my 86" tv. Not sure if she read it before I was able to close the window or not. Oops.
I think Todd really knows his audience when he's using so many charts and graphs lol.
Why you gotta do us like that haha
So his audience is smart people? 😏
Hahaha
@@ignoreme1141 No, it's more like most of his audience is extremely logical guys who work in fields like tech who can appreciate the black and white, 0 and 1s approach. When it comes to women though, there's nuance to the interactions. It's never black and white
Hahahahah, totally !
This has got to be the nerdiest breakdown of a date i have ever seen. Awesome work Todd
So like, youre just never gonna run out of good content , are ya ?
Nnnnope.
*has 5 whiteboards full of just future UA-cam vid titles*
Absolutely not
Todd can describe colour to a blind man
2 Upcoming video ideas:
- Great first dates ideas (with examples)
- How to actually have a great first date (with examples of good "crucial conversations" and actions that lead to a good first date and progressively escalate the interaction)
You left out that the girl probably wants you to succeed otherwise she wasted her time on a bad date.
She may actually nudge the trajectory of the date in the right general direction, because she doesn't want to have a bad time.
It's almost like the rubber banding in Mario Kart so the races stay somewhat competitive. You can still lose if you mess up really bad. You might win or lose due to a stroke of luck at a pivotal moment. Skill usually wins over luck but it's not purely a game of skill. Most importantly, have fun and don't think you're a bad person for losing because it happens to everyone. You get a fresh start next time and hopefully you've improved with practice.
Dude, if that's the results you're getting, you're killing it! I got stood up on 4 of the last 5 dates I had lol.
Man the new format of your videos is amazing, very easy to follow and understand the key information. Unlike RSD videos that are very very long and hard to focus on for a long time. Great work Todd I like this new approach very much!
Yep, Todd killin’ it 🔥
whats a rds video?
RS Who?
"I engineered dating down to a mathematical model". Lol.
I don't need this video right now, but I'll save it for later when I am out there dating again because Todd's content is that good.
It's like laps in a race. Every lap (point of esculation) you accomplish smoothly and in good time, makes the overall race time and performance much better.
Plottwist: The girls we're trying to get are watching even nerdier stuff from a female version of todd wich tells them how to set the best shittests and/or how to play hard to get etc in even crazier graphs and stuff xD
women no like math.
Wouldn't surprise me. I was dating this girl and she was doing gamey shit that would have 100% tripped me up if I didn't know about it from Todd.
@@johntrollson5352 which Video from Todd helped you in this case?
It's very simple. When men stop playing women's games - they will change.
@@johntrollson5352 she's wasn't even worth your time. If she's lot excited to meet you - she ain't the one.
Great vid. Screening the girl so she understands it is a man to woman interaction is important.
I want to show my math teacher this and see what she thinks 😅
😂😂😂🙌🏿
Haha nerd level 💯. This is why I love Todd... Does anyone really break things down any better?
This is why I do. Game recognizes game right?
www.google.com/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/cringe/comments/m0p12m/pro_pickup_artist_just_cant_take_a_hint/
This is kinda like when mystery explains “time” . That the first 3 seconds buys you the next 3 minutes, the next 3 minutes buys you the next 30 minutes, the next 30 min buys you the rest of the night. .. except axplained with a Ti-graphing calculator 😂
Hi 🥰
People tend to prefer consistent improvement, whether it is financially, emotionally, or in terms of good and bad news. They prefer this to inconsistent or declining experiences, even when the overall average is higher. Application: don’t wait to take all the risks in the back half of the date, be willing to take some risks earlier. If you have stories or routines that work consistently or you expect to work well, don’t burn them all in the first part of the date.
I'd love to see you take apart a strategy for building a relationship after the initial success. You've told numerous times that relationships either improve or get worse, they don't stay on the same level.
What would be a set of relationship goals after the start?
That really depends on you personally. If you want a girlfriend, then having more dates works. If you want a friends with benefits thing, see the girl max 1-2 a week.
I meant even more long term. Say you already live with her and you don't want your relationship to regress.
@@AssasinZorro So, in general you should already have heavily screened the girl for qualities you like and compatibility . Do not just make any girl your girlfriend. So, when she is your girlfriend she has qualities you like and you guys have things in common. One thing to do is having an activity in common like hiking. Just something you can do together. Look into these books: 5 love languages and crucial conversations
This should be the new standard for all future content. Meant as a compliment, obviously. Fucking amazing, keep on doing great work!
I usually make a date 1hour - 1.5 hour tops- escalate kiss couple times and then leave. Might be exceptions of going to my place but that model works nicely. I just w8 for her to hit me back with something.
Why not smash when it's going good?
I never kiss on a date unless we go up to her or my place
A new Beginner-
I have just hit the rock bottom, I have realized whatever I was doing in order to attract women is not working.
But I am a fighter, I didn’t accept my situation, some how I knew there is a way.
I didn’t believe in this path, but the other path wasn’t even leading me anywhere. The frustration has now become my fuel of this journey.
I started searching for all the answers and came to know the problem is not the outside but is in the inside.
I started learning ,observing and patterns start to emerge and things are now making sense which I learned and gained faith that it could be done.
Now it’s my turn to play in the field and Started playing the Game.
Here comes my very first approach-
“Sweating my body, red are my ears. Here comes the beauti but I have got fear.
I know she is human but now she seems a Martian.
Seems all the insecurities and the fear just staring at me from the corner near by
But Stacks are high meantime I wanna run away and outfly.
Now She walks by I gazed her eye and I said hi and she actually reply.
Talked we for minutes and we walked to the restaurant near corner by.
exchanged our numbers and I said her bye.”
Great video todd. Been following you since the rsd days and your style definitely fits my vibe. Been pushing myself over the years out of my comfort zone but it wasnt until 2020 that its all coming together. Been going on multiple dates with amazing women that I never would have dreamed of getting before, but I know I cant stop here and have to keep pushing myself!
Keep up the great content!
That's some High quality stuff as expected from you genius
Iv been on heaps of tinder dates probably close to 100 and i have no problems getting girls but I still watch Todds videos and the way he can translate these thoughts into graphs is so accurate. It just kinda cements the knowledge of already have.
how many of those escalated to kiss? How many rejections to kiss or other physical advancements? Pls tell
An underrated video (or rather under-discovered by the world since the rating itself is already, deservedly excellent)
Freakin genius, best pick up artist on youtube currently
I love the mathematical aspect of game :P
Hey I really like that timestamps makes it really easy to comprehend... Thanks Mr. Editor Guy and Todd obviously for giving out that info lol
Looks like the Hot/Crazy scale! lol
Hey love the math formulas for objective guidelines. You could also use an example of how much time until a soft limit you would usually have so the individual girl is also part of the model. Right now you're guessing a lot what the girl is like as the guy, instead of assuming something specific. Like in a math way, there is now a formula, but which of the unknown variables should you expect can usually solve the formula, maybe something like the 7 hour rule, with 4-10 hours as a range, is the solution to the math formula, where there are clear wrong and right numbers to insert into the formula. That way you might set up enough time in the planning stage that the date can succeed, instead of guess how much time is the time you need. So if you know she needs to go to work tomorrow, you could use the model to project how much time you need left at the start the date? Right now that's not a part of the model. How do you solve for f(time)=sex when planning the date.
There isn't one formula that works. Everyone is different, every dynamic is different and you need to adjust for that. That's all there is to it.
Daddy chill 😂
This man really the professor of game
I remember when I was young, older dudes always used to tell me : “the guy who figures out women will be a rich man.” Todd is that guy
Thanks for confirming! I've actualy been doing things right by instinct😄
Awesome video thanks Todd
These videos have saved me
I think Todd is the only coach that breaks it down scientifically... But WHAT are the WAYPOINTS? Need more nerdy breakdowns please.
The thing i struggle with is physical - kissing is fine but more into sex. Like I want it to happen naturally rather then me basically asking.
Todd is a genius, holy shit
I do
Coffee =comfort 1 hour -2
Walk to next venue banter/teasing maybe hand holding establishing physical intimacy
Arrive at next venue, both now feeling comfortable
Go for kiss.
Finish.
Very well-laid-out, Todd! Bravo
You just described the red queen problem and the narrow corridor.
I think escalation can also span over multiple dates. Can keep building up sexual tension over like 3 or 4 dates before getting fully intimate. I think lots of girls aren’t comfortable being intimate on a first date
Yeah I love Todd's content but i wish he would factor-in dating strategies for those guys who actually want to take it slow, over weeks even, without loosing value or tension. To be fair, he has started doing this more recently.
@@celticviolaandfiddle I think girls want intimacy as much as guys, but tend to be hesitant.
Maybe from evolutionary perspective women have to be choosy due to huge investment of having a kid.
There’s a tension of keeping momentum but also being patient enough.
Also just aspect of chemistry / compatibility which very hard to change. Often easier just to keep searching for someone better match
The point about high energy is very good.
can you just give us what escalation point to do at each point of the graph
That would be extremely useful
That is impossible, because every date situation is different. That is why calibration is important.
well traditionally its, first, second, third and home. lol, first = kissing/makeout, second = groping/getting handsy, third = hands in pants, Home = sexy time.
Usually they have to go particulary on the first date when they see that their date is not Tatum channing and is just an ordinary good guy ....they keep falling for the Bad Boy Crap who most of the time leave them on the side of the road after the've conquered them .
This is great! Now all I have to do is get a date...
Those Edits thoo🔥🔥
yo this video is amazing i cant belive this
I think ima buy the system
Awesome content and edit, bro! Keep killing it
Todd comes across way more authentic than Bobby rio and his friends
I recently went on a first date with a beautiful girl and I did the mistake of trying to start it really high energy and positivity and she was quickly shit testing even worse silent and un responsive then made an excuse to leave 20 minutes in so this makes a lot of sense
This is hilarious but also kind of useful
Informative!
I was stunned by her beauty walls went up and relied on the lamest how was your day questions kind of game lol
Does Todd have a book or ebook? I'd buy it in a heart beat
That feeling when time is running out and you realize you didn't escalate enough yet...haha I had that on my last date, which should have been a layup. Luckily I didn't completely blow it and I have another shot this weekend.
If a women likes you on a dating app at 1 or 2 am and you don’t see it until the next morning, is that a missed opportunity? If not when is the best time to like and message her?
Todd bout to pull out the Kanban board and 2 week sprint cycles.
I had a first date with a girl that went seemingly well. We actually met at my house, smoked, went to an art show, and came back to my place. She ended up staying until 3 am which was super positive feedback. I ended up not even kissing her because she told me during our date that she actually lives with her ex-boyfriend, which I told her I was a little uneasy about. She did seem genuine though in that she was really over him. She even said she didnt want to leave but she had to. I really liked this girl as she seemed exceptional in her thinking compared to most women. Somehow I ended up fucking up getting her on the second date. She flaked on me when she said she was coming over after work on a Thursday. Didn't hear from her for about two weeks. Turns out she ended up being hospitalized that same weekend and couldnt respond until the following week. I got a few long form text convos after she told me she was okay, after I had sent some long thing asking about where things were after she flaked on me and I didn't hear from her not knowing she had been in the ICU for a week. I had written her this stupid long text basically saying "do you like me because i like you, but no pressure" something like how a middle schooler would think. She even said she had written something out in the hospital but ended up not sending it. But I started noticing this pattern where she'll send me long form texts and seem really interested in talking and then just wont respond out of the blue. The mixed signals really fuck me up. And then throw in the fact that she got sick to confuse things further. Fuck dude, I hadn't had such an easy connection in a long time, I just don't know when to give up. I sent her this text a couple days ago "Hi pretty one, I hope your recovery is still going well. kissyface" and no response. Then i sent another long form thing basically saying I was super confused and would really appreciate some kind of explanation. Is that crazy? I'd appreciate anyone's take on that, as really don't know what to make of it other than a super drawn out rejection.
Also, she initiated with me in the first place, which is why I was somewhat convinced things were off to a good start. And this is after not even hanging out with a girl in over 5 years. It felt like someone sent me an angel just to tease me, and then she vanished. God damnit.
Todd 2.0
Very nice presentation
I think Todd just invented the concept of _escalation stalling_, where you crash and burn if you're going too steep for too long 😄
I feel like I’m back in intermediate macro in college lol
6:10 start every date with at least a hug
So nerdy but legit and dope😂
@Todd V Dating --- *Who does your graphics? I need to hire them!*
(Not jesting. Totally serious.)
what should we actually do on a date tho
This is a nice explanation but still doesn't help those of us who have no idea what to talk to girls about. Would be nice to have a video on keeping conversation going and interesting
Phew, now we know it's exponential
bUt wHaT aBoUt tHe aReA uNdEr tHe cUrVe???
HAHA THIS GUY IS A GENIUS OF CONTENT JAHAHAH
What if she loses interest after first date? How to keep the same amount of excitement after first date?
Just dont contact .If she called you back she is interested if not she isnt comppatible.
@@Han-nk3io I feel like compatibility is manufacturable though
@@brennanbets that is what you feel.Not her.
@@Han-nk3io how do you know? Study some psychology, you'll see
Cease all contact.
How do you get matches on Tinder when you just sit at home all day, have nothing special to show off and have no social life?
U kinda answered ur question
Well, you start by not being at home sited all day and by getting fucking friends.
Delete Tinder, build a life that someone will want to share with you, and then you can use Tinder to find somebody worth sharing with. Get to work.
Title should be "technical analysis of dating dynamics"
What are some good things to say to “escalate “ or reach the high point
I still don't approach people outside of my friend or work group (and sometimes not even my work group) because I feel like if they ask me "Why did you start this conversation?" or "Do you just want to f*ck me?" or "Do you just like one important personality attribute of mine, and want to be fwb?" My answer is "Because I'm looking for more FB, FWB." "Yes." and "Yes.". And even though I know that's every man's desire and intention, it makes it less worth it to me. Playing all of these "Games", not initiating texts even if I'm able to between my work from home. All of the things that seem to be necessary to sleep with women who aren't already into me feels gross a lot of the time. Especially since I'm an honest, blatant, truth over comfort type personality. The last part really only when with friends or if the other person asks for advice. I'm 26 and I just finally just recently discovered what I want to do and how I can do them without going to college and spending absurd amounts of $ and time. And I spent my $ traveling because I always thought I'd either die or move out of the country, so I never saved for a car. Now I'm here just beginning, knowing that most people don't find what they want to do, and actually start doing it, yet I feel like a loser. And the thought of approaching a woman to be fwb makes me afraid of being rejected and percieved by her as an A-hole at the same time.
Please advise.
Thank you
Very cool graph Todd! I wonder if we could add potential negative externalities in some sort of 3d graph
Bro is the Stephen Hawkins of Dating
@Todd V Dating, (or anyone else who has an opinion on it) what are your thoughts on kissing a girl on the lips briefly at the start of the date at the train station you meet her at instead of the hug?
Instant rejection
We aren’t trying to date these hos
I'll go on dates w a 304, just wont commit to a relationship
Mysgonistic? Seems like you're an angry chap
Nor should you really. 90% of them ain't worth it.
@@mhballer93 shut up pleb
You are the God of pickup
God of losers
Finally I understand women!
Analytics people living charts🤣
What are the sub goals?
Miss these animations
Solid as always
Hey my question is are we suppose to close first date? Does this apply to date 1 or date 5. My issue is not knowing when to stop communicating after a first date and when to maintain communication because she’s shit testing. I get laid but still struggle with this.
How can we talk to todd
Holy shit Im a virgin but these videos are entertaining af
I’ve never flown a plane so it’d be weird if I gave you advice on how to be a pilot. Same energy for taking dating advice from an incel who’s never been on a date
I don't understand, are you calling Todd an Incel?
Scientific dating is crazy
What is the name of the intro song?
dude it seems that it does not exist elsewhere
Genius!
So, what's the formula (equation)?
So I have to give her an emotional rollercoaster within the limits then
You have to give her an emotional rollercoaster without going escalating to fast or de-escalating to far.
That was beautiful explained Todd
Shouldn't the soft limit line be sloped with a positive gradient, so it extends further when she is bought in more? Instead of having to keep shifting it along?
Can you make a video to how to CTL+Z please