Helena Hart - Amazing content guys ! Very informative and well thought out video. Really appreciated you providing real life scenarios to back up the concepts discussed. Thanks you both ! x
Thank you Clayton. Everything you said was so brilliant and real communication you can possibly have between two loving people. What a relief to know that God is in my heart to be able to allow myself to feel confident enough to be down to earth. We are truly blessed to know that all people really have some of the same feelings and vulnerabilities. Thank you for sharing 💙💦
Thank you for bringing this video out to us women's to help us with being real with the men we meet. You are truly a beautiful person and you have such a good heart. You're doing amazing!!! 💟
Man this is a great vid’ I love what you said about taking the time and dance with your desires to go towards the next level ( I kno not verbatim.) but this concept is so visual and doable!!! Love LOVE this advice
I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💜 These videos I recorded with Clayton might also be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/v-deo.html, ua-cam.com/video/8P32rpdllNo/v-deo.html, ua-cam.com/video/IbjlEyH8Yio/v-deo.html, ua-cam.com/video/oAE5yHzH24g/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/zeCZRti1taY/v-deo.html.
This video is AMAZING!! I’ve watched you both n you together is so clear n right on!! So nice to hear the different but same male n female opinions n answers!!! I’ll be much different n better in my next relationship because of you two!! I’ll be in touch n thank you so much!!
💛 Thanks for this video you two, it touched me. We tend to think we should become tougher, but boundaries and standards are nothing without vulnerability, trust and deep respect.
You’re welcome, Diana! 💜 Here are a couple more videos I recorded with Clayton that should also be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/zeCZRti1taY/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/v-deo.html.
I’m glad you enjoyed it! These livestreams I did with Clayton should also be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/oAE5yHzH24g/v-deo.html.
I would like to add solething regarding trust... it becomes hard to trust nowadays with the digital world. I trusted my BF! Untill at a point my gut was telling me something was wrong... and yes I found out, through a friend that he was back on dating apps. So he broke my trust, and we broke up. Honestly I really trust people when I start a relationship with them, friends, man I date, familly, ... often people call me naïve!!! Till now my trust has been broken often... how can we trust, while we do not really know the intentions of somebody?
Trust your own intuitions. How do you feel when you are with someone? Good , nervous or awesome... Trust yourself, acknowledge your emotions , your feelings what they say to you..., Just relax and enjoy your own self. Never do anything that you don't want to. Soothe yourself... We are all humans.
Loved this! I've heard these things before but the way he explained everything made me understand it on a much deeper level. He's such a good communicator and sees things so clearly. Really appreciated this.
I’m glad you enjoyed this! Here the latest livestream I did with Clayton if you’d like to check it out (I’d love to hear your thoughts on it if you do!): ua-cam.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/v-deo.html
I appreciate both of these coaches so much!! Their personal perspective as well as professional perspective and ability to be vulnerable With Their audience really sets them apart. I'm especially impressed with Clayton because most men can't really Express the root of these things and I can really see the effort to produce quality content that is authentic and an excellent foundation for any relationship. Excellent video.
Would love to learn more about deepening a long distance relationship and manuevering the different stages from early dating to getting to long term commitment/ marriage. Theres just not enough content on this and it certainly adds another complexity to the relationship. Helena I just admire your inner strength to take on a channel like this you are truly dedicated to helping women better themselves. Thank you!
You’re welcome! I’ll definitely keep this in mind for future videos. I have one coming out soon on how to navigate going from the early stages of dating to getting into a long-term committed relationship.
A few years ago the man I was dating literally told me that he was "in awe" at my "range of emotion". I think he said that when I was really sad & cried when he told me of a bully experience he had growing up. He said it respectfully, but I still wondered if it was a negative thing for him to see. I really appreciate your explanations which are helping me to understand better.
I have fully trusted and been completely burned by a man more than three times. It’s foolish to trust a stranger you just met. It’s important to have conversations around issues that potentially break trust. Once you’ve established you can trust the man then you can truly be vulnerable with him.
Right, we’re not talking about trusting a stranger - it’s about trusting the man you’re in a relationship with (and trusting YOURSELF to not get into a relationship with a man you can’t trust). 💙
My 2 favourite coaches together! You guys give authentic and helpful advice. Thank you. I am personally learning and I hope to one day wake up empowered in a loving relationship .
You're welcome, I'm glad this was helpful! You'll LOVE Clayton's free webinar too, here's where you can sign up if you haven't already: claytonolsoncoaching.com/3-Keys-Webinar-Helena
Excellent work guys!! These tools and concepts are insightful and very very true on many levels (C.A.R.D.S) concept. Side note: you two are compatible 🙂
CARDS - Challenge - Awe - Respect - Desire - Safe (emotionally) Risking being hurt again is the opposite side of the same coin, with risking to be healed in a relationship, be able to grow. Brilliant video - 2 of my favourite coaches out there together :) Thank you!
Helena, I enjoy all of you videos - your content is excellent and I love how you present them! Warmly and enthusiastically. It's really good to watch :)
It’s also a vulnerability thing for some women like myself to open up and tell him compliments like “you’re the most amazing lover I’ve had”, etc. I guess I have to work on that with myself.
Wow Helena,and Clayton, what a fantastic, awesome video. I love the C A.R.D.S concept.I can clearly see how our bond has matured over the years . Its always nice to hear the things you already doing,is the right thing.
Thanks Rina, I’m glad you enjoyed this! Here’s my latest livestream I did with Clayton if you’d like to check it out: ua-cam.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/v-deo.html
Really good practical advice and examples. Great discussion, thank you both for the breakdown! These points help me to come back to my centre and bring me back to feeling human again.
Clayton’s explanation about how to be Awe inspiring to a man resonates with me. Finally, it makes more sense to me now. I am not afraid to show my vulnerable side to my man. I am not strong all the time, but I do overcome my trials & tribulations. This explains why my man is drawn to me. I’m being my authentic feminine energy. It’s so good to hear it from a man’s perspective. Like a breath of fresh air. Thanks Clayton....and Helena please bring Clayton back for more videos. Both of you make a great team. With so much appreciation! ~Lyn
I’m glad that resonated with you! Thanks for sharing your experience here. The livestream we did recently should also be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/hxZC9vnOtTI/v-deo.html
Thanks to this video! I must admit I needed these kind of lessons to understand more about relationship dynamics and be able to open myself up to good quality men out there. Thanks for your input Clayton!
This is my favorite video I've seen on your channel! I love that you referenced Bruce Lipton and Biology of Belief. His work has been a game changer and I feel even more confidence in your work knowing that you follow him as well.
Hi Hina, we talked about this issue more in depth in our livestream, it should be helpful for you (I’d love to hear your thoughts on it!): ua-cam.com/video/hxZC9vnOtTI/v-deo.html
CARDS - CHALLENGED AWE RESPECTED DESIRE/DESIRED SAFE Trust = respected and safe. Innocent until proven guilty. All those letters - too complicated to remember. The most I can handle is dignity and happiness. Vulnerability is a good one. Compassion. Communication.
Why would a man play as victim when confronted and not ready to accept where he's lagging in a relationship. Communication doesn't happen at all, it's mostly one sided... The blame always seems pointless.. No energy comes from this guy except when he needs something and am not ready to provide him the advantage of picking on my emotional vulnerability ever again !!
Really goid video!!! Question regarding the standards and boundries. The intimacy part... i always hear: when a fuy wants to sleep with you and you feel is going too fast... you have to set your boundry! I agree! But what if for you as a woman it feels natural to sleep with him soon cause you just really like him! When I am attracted to a guy and after lets say 3 or 4 dates maybe sometimes after the second date I really like him from a love place I want to sleep with him cause for me it is the natural way to show love and affection, it is "making love". Should I just put this boundry even it does not feel natural to me?
It's done to build emotional attraction and connection. This must be for BOTH. For a liberal guy u can have sex early ( he will still chase u) but for a conservative guy....u take things slowly. Men don't bond through sex but woman do.
The longer you can make him wait, the more he will pursue you. They don't appreciate what they don't work for. Steve Harvey says wait 3 months. I think 3 months or more is enough at minimum.
Too late for that ..we slept already ...lol .. all wrong 🤦♀️ we are casually seeing each other still... but i just wish he can open up a bit more show his emotions be more communicative.
Wow, just wow! You just affirmed some of the subconscious actions I’ve already employed in my relationships. Also, I totally learned some intricacies that paved a road map for me. Thank you for doing what you do. I don’t feel so inadequate or crippled any longer. 🙂
What if the chemistry is gone after the exhausting no label relationship. But if ever there's opportunity to try again. If would ve possible to happen?
You n Clayton are my absolute favorites!! So much valuable information! I’m feeling more prepared n corrected than ever n I’ll be reuniting with a man I’m looking forward to getting to know better in January. I feel in my power (for the first time in my life) n excited abt trying some of these techniques. Thank you for all you share!!! I’ve been watching both of you for several months !!
You’re welcome! 💜 Here’s the latest episode I recorded with Clayton if anyone would like to check it out: ua-cam.com/users/live6U4mjbqLE_8?si=zvTPbAazqQUNtnbX
I have been watching your videos and absorbing the info like a sponge. However, my man is blind from birth. He is a keeper though, and I need your help.
Hi Coaches, After close time spent with a man I met online, he told me that he loved me but was not in love. Since then, I have not seen him for 10 weeks. I’ve done NC which he broke. I lean back and he has done all of the initial reaches.
Have a question for a video my man has a really labor intensive job where hes very busy and very relied on he recently told me that he loved me and a couple times and I told him recently that I loved him but since then I haven't heard much from him and hes not responding to my text hesays a he loves mean I'm the love of his life do u think it's possible me telling I loved him knowing he loves me is to much? I just haven't heard from him and am wirried
@28:20 give examples of trust, when you think he's blowing you off for someone else, not thinking nicely about you, silent treatment for a long time, etc
These sound like red flags to me. This video should be helpful in terms of building up your intuition around this: ua-cam.com/video/Nw1smRqzd6E/v-deo.html
Helenaaa darling...only asking u bcz u explain soo well...how do we show 'care' n 'love' to men when they asking for it..(in a committed relationship wid masculine guy)
I just called him now a guy Im going on a date with applied these things and he said thank you and that he really understands it as he was coming on to strong with me and we never even had a date yet. Now there is another guy I do like but he has not got back to me but he has done things to let me know that he does like me. Thanks
Wow, just wow, this was so good, so helpful and enlightening. I just recently saw a video of Clayton's for the first time, and I loved it. So I was very excited to see a video with you and Clayton together. I love the whole "CARDS" explanation. This was an excellent video, it has given me a lot to think about, and I hope there will be more! You are both fantastic and the exchanges between you are so harmonious. Thanks again!!
While I don’t know the details of your situation, these videos might be helpful for anyone who can’t stop thinking about someone who’s no longer “there”: ua-cam.com/users/livevUfa6RMLMFg?si=daUrONPVpsycE7_V and ua-cam.com/video/tC3GHtPkzII/v-deo.htmlsi=65xj62ZbgbPUO9mS.
Thank you! You might enjoy our latest livestream too if you haven’t seen it yet (I’d love to hear your thoughts on it!): ua-cam.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/v-deo.html
I love the way Clayton explains these concepts, his ability to illustrate what certain things in C.A.R.D.S looks like makes it so easy to understand---finally someone speaks my language and I make sense of this dynamic.
I’m glad this resonated with you, Ashley! Here are a few livestreams I’ve done with Clayton that might also be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/v-deo.html, ua-cam.com/video/zeCZRti1taY/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/oAE5yHzH24g/v-deo.html.
A fantastic video that really helped me to understand how to love and honor myself in a better way, as well as my man! Helena and Clayton always create the most heartfelt and truly inspiring content in their video’s! Thank you both so much!
You’re welcome! These videos I recorded with Clayton might also be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/v-deo.html, ua-cam.com/video/zeCZRti1taY/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/oAE5yHzH24g/v-deo.html.
@@HelenaHartCoaching I'm a widower for a little more than in years now. I was raised by a father and because of that, I never learned how to date. I'm watching these now because an old friend can into my life when I decided to date, who I knew when I was a pre-teen and an a young woman. I've always been attracted to him but I didn't fully understand it. You have to understand that I'm closer to my brother and my dad's and male cousins. I would like to get to know him better but at that the same time, because I grew up with my dad , I have more of masculine qualities with with the directness of a man and understanding more of a man because that's all I had in my life. Yes I'm a tomboy ;however, I'm an old-fashioned Woman Like My mother. Yes that means tanning sewing cutting here cleaning house baking cooking I do all that plus more yard work mowing trimming painting stuff men normally do. So this is very important to me to learn this from a woman's perspective. I've never learned any real negative traits from A Woman Like nagging bitching withdrawing things like that. My mother was a gentle soul. She died when I was just six. I just started watching these videos in the last month. Thank you.
My name is tianie Elly Mitchell Jerry Mitchell was my husband. this is his phone. I misplaced mine and I can't seem to get his name off of the Metro phone. And if you have any ideas for that I would love to hear it I don't want to text a man and have him think I'm another man interested
Helena..this is Sandy the lady who has that great guy next door!! I took your advice from a comment you gave me because of our mutual attraction for over four years but no dates because you said he may be afraid or to shy! So you mentioned to ask him out and see his response and I did in around about way!! It was a day recently where he brought me a take out dinner after he had come home from work.He knocked on my door I was again appreciative said as he walked away " John ,wait a minute " why dont you asked me out for dinner sometime? I went on.." I would love to go out with a guy like you" he replied back ..but "Im busy" he goes on " alot during the week and not much time but sometimes on weekends" (?) but no difinate reply and then a little small talk ( weather) as he walked away! I tried and I'm wondering if it was the right comment from me at the time!! Since this happaned two weeks ago..I'm laying back for now ..your reply? Your so kind Helena thank you so much!!
Gina Soto you absolutely can. My mom is 67 and marrying her true love in 10 days. They dated in college, but he admits his pride in his youth got in their way. They were both young with a lot left to learn about relationships. They both moved on, married (both to toxic people) with families of their own. They’ve been through a lot. Been treated terrible. My dad walked out 10 years ago. & moms now fiancé was also divorced + ex wife passed 2 years ago. He was taking care of his mom before she passed, & she had saved my moms letters to him from college. He called the school, found a number on file for her, and they’ve been reunited for a year now. The love between them is beyond words. They endured a lot & waited a long time to find this happiness together. Life unfolds in mysterious ways. Be open to receiving wonderful things from the universe. “Those who leave everything in the hands of God, will see Gods hands in everything.” 💕
Let us know what you think about this video, we love hearing from you! You can sign up for Clayton’s FREE webinar here: becomingtheone.us/hh-co-ytvid
Helena Hart - Amazing content guys ! Very informative and well thought out video. Really appreciated you providing real life scenarios to back up the concepts discussed. Thanks you both ! x
You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it!
Thank you Clayton. Everything you said was so brilliant and real communication you can possibly have between two loving people. What a relief to know that God is in my heart to be able to allow myself to feel confident enough to be down to earth. We are truly blessed to know that all people really have some of the same feelings and vulnerabilities. Thank you for sharing 💙💦
You’re welcome, Cheryl! ❤️
Thank you for bringing this video out to us women's to help us with being real with the men we meet. You are truly a beautiful person and you have such a good heart. You're doing amazing!!! 💟
Love this discussion. Basically be yourself and nurture your relationships.
Thanks JSM, I'm glad you enjoyed this!
Be with someone you can totally be yourself with!!
I agree with person above me. To be with someone you can be yourself with, your best self though.
He’s very awesome. Love his delivery and information. Easy You understand speaking delivery to make application in our every day lives
I’m glad you enjoyed this, Terrie! 💗
Great video. One of the best descriptions of men's emotions that I've heard. You two compliment each other really well.
Thank you!
Man this is a great vid’ I love what you said about taking the time and dance with your desires to go towards the next level ( I kno not verbatim.) but this concept is so visual and doable!!! Love LOVE this advice
I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💜 These videos I recorded with Clayton might also be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/v-deo.html, ua-cam.com/video/8P32rpdllNo/v-deo.html, ua-cam.com/video/IbjlEyH8Yio/v-deo.html, ua-cam.com/video/oAE5yHzH24g/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/zeCZRti1taY/v-deo.html.
This video is AMAZING!! I’ve watched you both n you together is so clear n right on!! So nice to hear the different but same male n female opinions n answers!!! I’ll be much different n better in my next relationship because of you two!! I’ll be in touch n thank you so much!!
You’re welcome! I’m glad you enjoyed it, thanks for watching!
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Thanks for this video you two, it touched me. We tend to think we should become tougher, but boundaries and standards are nothing without vulnerability, trust and deep respect.
You’re welcome, Diana! 💜 Here are a couple more videos I recorded with Clayton that should also be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/zeCZRti1taY/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/v-deo.html.
@@HelenaHartCoaching merci 😊
Super valuable. I love how you explain challenge. Ive never heard it framed this way
I’m glad this was helpful and gave you a new perspective! 💜
I loved this video ♥️
I’m glad you enjoyed it! These livestreams I did with Clayton should also be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/oAE5yHzH24g/v-deo.html.
Really good, informative video. 👍❤️
Thank you, Sam! I’m glad you enjoyed it.
How can we learn to be more vulnerable?
Great question! This video might be a helpful place to start: ua-cam.com/video/xdgxS6Sxmjw/v-deo.html
Helena Hart thank you!
You’re welcome! 💕
Can't make a idiot fall in love with you
what happens to if you in a relationship with a man and you have not set up boundaries, is it too late to set them now?
It's not too late! This video should be helpful for you: ua-cam.com/video/ggTZAJZn1NI/v-deo.html
I luv u guys,♥️🇹🇹♥️
Aww thank you, Soloma!
Is Matt Helena’s husband?
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"Stop being the cool girl" - wow! So important!! Especially when the man is afraid because it can makes us confused and with some defenses.
Probably the best relationship video I have ever watched.
Thank you Gabriela, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💕
I’m kind of in love with Clayton... 💕
Right! I just want Clayton
I would like to add solething regarding trust... it becomes hard to trust nowadays with the digital world. I trusted my BF! Untill at a point my gut was telling me something was wrong... and yes I found out, through a friend that he was back on dating apps. So he broke my trust, and we broke up.
Honestly I really trust people when I start a relationship with them, friends, man I date, familly, ... often people call me naïve!!! Till now my trust has been broken often... how can we trust, while we do not really know the intentions of somebody?
Trust your own intuitions. How do you feel when you are with someone? Good , nervous or awesome... Trust yourself, acknowledge your emotions , your feelings what they say to you..., Just relax and enjoy your own self. Never do anything that you don't want to. Soothe yourself... We are all humans.
Loved this! I've heard these things before but the way he explained everything made me understand it on a much deeper level. He's such a good communicator and sees things so clearly. Really appreciated this.
I’m glad you enjoyed this! Here the latest livestream I did with Clayton if you’d like to check it out (I’d love to hear your thoughts on it if you do!): ua-cam.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/v-deo.html
Explosion of wisdom, every woman should watch this
Thank you!
I appreciate both of these coaches so much!! Their personal perspective as well as professional perspective and ability to be vulnerable With Their audience really sets them apart. I'm especially impressed with Clayton because most men can't really Express the root of these things and I can really see the effort to produce quality content that is authentic and an excellent foundation for any relationship. Excellent video.
Thank you so much, Angela! ❤️
Would love to learn more about deepening a long distance relationship and manuevering the different stages from early dating to getting to long term commitment/ marriage. Theres just not enough content on this and it certainly adds another complexity to the relationship. Helena I just admire your inner strength to take on a channel like this you are truly dedicated to helping women better themselves. Thank you!
You’re welcome! I’ll definitely keep this in mind for future videos. I have one coming out soon on how to navigate going from the early stages of dating to getting into a long-term committed relationship.
A few years ago the man I was dating literally told me that he was "in awe" at my "range of emotion". I think he said that when I was really sad & cried when he told me of a bully experience he had growing up. He said it respectfully, but I still wondered if it was a negative thing for him to see. I really appreciate your explanations which are helping me to understand better.
I'm glad this was helpful for you Sarah, thanks for sharing your experience here!
This video is a GEM. Don’t ever delete it.
I’m glad you enjoyed it, thanks for watching! 💕
One of the best conversations I've heard...hands down..helping me to formulate my words and thought process.. Thank you!
You’re welcome Patricia, I’m so glad this was helpful! 💗
omg my two fav coaches together!!! this was pure magic, hope you two do more videos! thank u so much
You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed the video! 💕
I have fully trusted and been completely burned by a man more than three times. It’s foolish to trust a stranger you just met. It’s important to have conversations around issues that potentially break trust. Once you’ve established you can trust the man then you can truly be vulnerable with him.
Right, we’re not talking about trusting a stranger - it’s about trusting the man you’re in a relationship with (and trusting YOURSELF to not get into a relationship with a man you can’t trust). 💙
My 2 favourite coaches together! You guys give authentic and helpful advice. Thank you. I am personally learning and I hope to one day wake up empowered in a loving relationship .
You're welcome, I'm glad this was helpful! You'll LOVE Clayton's free webinar too, here's where you can sign up if you haven't already: claytonolsoncoaching.com/3-Keys-Webinar-Helena
I love how Helena is always able to admit her own blind spots ! 💕 feels authentic!
Thanks Rachael!
Excellent work guys!! These tools and concepts are insightful and very very true on many levels (C.A.R.D.S) concept. Side note: you two are compatible 🙂
I agree!!!
Thank you! 💕
im sO hAppy tO bOth of yoU...& GoodLuck...hOpE yOu reAlly find yoUr HAppinEs...🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
CARDS - Challenge - Awe - Respect - Desire - Safe (emotionally)
Risking being hurt again is the opposite side of the same coin, with risking to be healed in a relationship, be able to grow.
Brilliant video - 2 of my favourite coaches out there together :) Thank you!
You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💜
Helena, I enjoy all of you videos - your content is excellent and I love how you present them! Warmly and enthusiastically. It's really good to watch :)
Thank you so much!
♥️ 🌻
*My wife left me 5years ago with just 1 lovely girl child, I hope to find love again*
Hello friend, do you really want your ex back?
Hope not lost
Don't give up on him
I can recommend you to father EDIALE he can help you manifest your ex back, he is the best
M e s s a g e h I m n o w
V i a W h a t s A p p💯💯💯
I absolutely adore Clayton and thank him for his work
It’s also a vulnerability thing for some women like myself to open up and tell him compliments like “you’re the most amazing lover I’ve had”, etc. I guess I have to work on that with myself.
We talked more about vulnerability in this livestream if you want to check it out: ua-cam.com/video/hxZC9vnOtTI/v-deo.html
Wow Helena,and Clayton, what a fantastic, awesome video. I love the C
A.R.D.S concept.I can clearly see how our bond has matured over the years .
Its always nice to hear the things you already doing,is the right thing.
Thanks Rina, I’m glad you enjoyed this! Here’s my latest livestream I did with Clayton if you’d like to check it out: ua-cam.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/v-deo.html
Really good practical advice and examples. Great discussion, thank you both for the breakdown! These points help me to come back to my centre and bring me back to feeling human again.
You’re welcome Sophie, I’m glad this was helpful! 💕
Clayton’s explanation about how to be Awe inspiring to a man resonates with me. Finally, it makes more sense to me now. I am not afraid to show my vulnerable side to my man. I am not strong all the time, but I do overcome my trials & tribulations. This explains why my man is drawn to me. I’m being my authentic feminine energy. It’s so good to hear it from a man’s perspective. Like a breath of fresh air. Thanks Clayton....and Helena please bring Clayton back for more videos. Both of you make a great team. With so much appreciation! ~Lyn
I’m glad that resonated with you! Thanks for sharing your experience here. The livestream we did recently should also be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/hxZC9vnOtTI/v-deo.html
Helena Hart Jan 17th I already have a previous engagement. 🙁 I’ll look out for Clayton’s vid afterwards. Thanks anyways Helena. 💖
SewDiva5691 - The replay is available now, you can watch it here: ua-cam.com/video/hxZC9vnOtTI/v-deo.html.
Thanks to this video! I must admit I needed these kind of lessons to understand more about relationship dynamics and be able to open myself up to good quality men out there. Thanks for your input Clayton!
You're welcome, I'm glad this was helpful!
This stuff will STOP DIVORCE❤️❤️❤️❤️
This is my favorite video I've seen on your channel! I love that you referenced Bruce Lipton and Biology of Belief. His work has been a game changer and I feel even more confidence in your work knowing that you follow him as well.
Thank you, Samira! This video we did together should also be helpful (I'd love to hear your thoughts on it!): ua-cam.com/video/oAE5yHzH24g/v-deo.html
soo true i'm rigid wid my man with boundaries bcz im afraid il be taken lightly or advantage of in the sense he won't honour them :(
Hi Hina, we talked about this issue more in depth in our livestream, it should be helpful for you (I’d love to hear your thoughts on it!): ua-cam.com/video/hxZC9vnOtTI/v-deo.html
Clayton! You are awesome!
CARDS - CHALLENGED AWE RESPECTED DESIRE/DESIRED SAFE
Trust = respected and safe. Innocent until proven guilty.
All those letters - too complicated to remember. The most I can handle is dignity and happiness. Vulnerability is a good one. Compassion. Communication.
Why would a man play as victim when confronted and not ready to accept where he's lagging in a relationship. Communication doesn't happen at all, it's mostly one sided... The blame always seems pointless.. No energy comes from this guy except when he needs something and am not ready to provide him the advantage of picking on my emotional vulnerability ever again !!
It sounds like this man is not willing or able to have the kind of relationship you want - I would move on. 💜
Really goid video!!!
Question regarding the standards and boundries. The intimacy part... i always hear: when a fuy wants to sleep with you and you feel is going too fast... you have to set your boundry! I agree! But what if for you as a woman it feels natural to sleep with him soon cause you just really like him! When I am attracted to a guy and after lets say 3 or 4 dates maybe sometimes after the second date I really like him from a love place I want to sleep with him cause for me it is the natural way to show love and affection, it is "making love". Should I just put this boundry even it does not feel natural to me?
Nathalie De Pondt yeah these videos keep going on about it but at my age that seems stupid
It's done to build emotional attraction and connection. This must be for BOTH.
For a liberal guy u can have sex early ( he will still chase u) but for a conservative guy....u take things slowly.
Men don't bond through sex but woman do.
The longer you can make him wait, the more he will pursue you. They don't appreciate what they don't work for. Steve Harvey says wait 3 months. I think 3 months or more is enough at minimum.
Too late for that ..we slept already ...lol .. all wrong 🤦♀️ we are casually seeing each other still... but i just wish he can open up a bit more show his emotions be more communicative.
Hi Rina, the livestream we did yesterday might be helpful for your situation: ua-cam.com/video/hxZC9vnOtTI/v-deo.html
@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you
You’re welcome! 💕
Wow, just wow! You just affirmed some of the subconscious actions I’ve already employed in my relationships. Also, I totally learned some intricacies that paved a road map for me. Thank you for doing what you do. I don’t feel so inadequate or crippled any longer. 🙂
You're welcome Amy, I'm so happy to hear this was helpful for you!
Wow. This is mind-blowing and so valuable. Thank you, thank you for this video...both of you rock!
You’re welcome, Lisa! This one should also be helpful if you haven’t seen it yet: ua-cam.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/v-deo.html
Thankyou so much.. lots of insightful information in this :)
You’re welcome Charlotte, I’m glad it was helpful! 💕
Yellow roses!!! \○/
They are gorgeous!🌹
What if the chemistry is gone after the exhausting no label relationship. But if ever there's opportunity to try again. If would ve possible to happen?
Most helpful advice. Thanks to you both!
You’re welcome, I’m glad this was helpful! 💕
This young man is far more educated and respectful compared to the other young man who you’ve done many vids with. This is a good video.
Clayton's cool.
okay they have great chemistry
yes definitely!!
You n Clayton are my absolute favorites!! So much valuable information! I’m feeling more prepared n corrected than ever n I’ll be reuniting with a man I’m looking forward to getting to know better in January. I feel in my power (for the first time in my life) n excited abt trying some of these techniques. Thank you for all you share!!! I’ve been watching both of you for several months !!
You’re welcome, thanks for watching! 💜
Amazing! Everything here is very realistic and understandable. Thank you for the tips
You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💕
Wow this episode is so powerful and eye opening. Thank u ❤
You’re welcome! 💜 Here’s the latest episode I recorded with Clayton if anyone would like to check it out: ua-cam.com/users/live6U4mjbqLE_8?si=zvTPbAazqQUNtnbX
I have been watching your videos and absorbing the info like a sponge. However, my man is blind from birth. He is a keeper though, and I need your help.
Great conversation 👍
Thanks Lucy! 💕
Hi Coaches, After close time spent with a man I met online, he told me that he loved me but was not in love. Since then, I have not seen him for 10 weeks. I’ve done NC which he broke. I lean back and he has done all of the initial reaches.
Hello friend, do you really want your ex back?
Hope not lost
I can recommend you to father EDIALE he can help you manifest your ex back, he is the best
M e s s a g e h I m n o w
V i a W h a t s A p p💯💯
Have a question for a video my man has a really labor intensive job where hes very busy and very relied on he recently told me that he loved me and a couple times and I told him recently that I loved him but since then I haven't heard much from him and hes not responding to my text hesays a he loves mean I'm the love of his life do u think it's possible me telling I loved him knowing he loves me is to much? I just haven't heard from him and am wirried
If he told you he loves you and you’re the love of his life, I don’t believe you saying that back would push him away.
Amazing content to listen to right now during quarantine ❤️ thank you!
You’re welcome Natalie, I’m glad you enjoyed this! 💚
@28:20 give examples of trust, when you think he's blowing you off for someone else, not thinking nicely about you, silent treatment for a long time, etc
These sound like red flags to me. This video should be helpful in terms of building up your intuition around this: ua-cam.com/video/Nw1smRqzd6E/v-deo.html
Helenaaa darling...only asking u bcz u explain soo well...how do we show 'care' n 'love' to men when they asking for it..(in a committed relationship wid masculine guy)
Great question! We talked about exactly how to do this here in secrets #3 and #4: ua-cam.com/video/hxZC9vnOtTI/v-deo.html
Real talk from a man- and seemingly well awakened one. Yes!
im just trAyiNg tO mOvinG-ON..& i nEEd tO sAy thiS..A Litle bit hurtinG..😔🙏
I like this. The info comes right in and is compact not scattered around or too long. Good. Thumbs up!
Thanks Paulina, I'm glad you enjoyed this!
I just called him now a guy Im going on a date with applied these things and he said thank you and that he really understands it as he was coming on to strong with me and we never even had a date yet. Now there is another guy I do like but he has not got back to me but he has done things to let me know that he does like me. Thanks
You're welcome!
Helena, I’d like to connect with you for a private session. Need info regarding that, please. Thank you.
Hi Diana, you can contact me through my website: helenahartcoaching.com/contact-me/
Hi Helena, this video was really very good! Thank you!
You’re welcome Diana, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💕
Great video thank you ❤️
You’re welcome! 💝
Love this conversation!
I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💕
you guys, you rock 🇵🇭🇵🇭God bless you ❤❤❤
Thank you! 💜
Thank you Mam Helena and sir Clayton ❤️
You’re welcome! 💕
Helena Hart I’ve watched your relationship advises. And I’m hoping that I will finally find the man I’m praying for
When he says “i love that”... i love that.
Hello friend, do you really want your ex back?
Hope not lost
Don't give up on him
I can recommend you to father EDIALE he can help you manifest your ex back, he is the best
M e s s a g e h I m n o w
V i a W h a t s A p p💯💯💯
Wow, just wow, this was so good, so helpful and enlightening. I just recently saw a video of Clayton's for the first time, and I loved it. So I was very excited to see a video with you and Clayton together. I love the whole "CARDS" explanation. This was an excellent video, it has given me a lot to think about, and I hope there will be more! You are both fantastic and the exchanges between you are so harmonious. Thanks again!!
You’re welcome, I’m so glad this was helpful! ❤️
This melted me into tears, because I can't imagine not being in love with my INFJ. ( Not that he is still around)
While I don’t know the details of your situation, these videos might be helpful for anyone who can’t stop thinking about someone who’s no longer “there”: ua-cam.com/users/livevUfa6RMLMFg?si=daUrONPVpsycE7_V and ua-cam.com/video/tC3GHtPkzII/v-deo.htmlsi=65xj62ZbgbPUO9mS.
He is not listening! He wants casual sex. I do not. He keeps thinking he’s going to score.
clayton wowsome..evrything is hitting home
I'm glad this is resonating with you!
Well done both of you,excellent content.Love from Ireland 💗,have been watching you both for sometime,your just the loveliest !!!
Thank you! You might enjoy our latest livestream too if you haven’t seen it yet (I’d love to hear your thoughts on it!): ua-cam.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/v-deo.html
I love the way Clayton explains these concepts, his ability to illustrate what certain things in C.A.R.D.S looks like makes it so easy to understand---finally someone speaks my language and I make sense of this dynamic.
I’m glad this resonated with you, Ashley! Here are a few livestreams I’ve done with Clayton that might also be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/v-deo.html, ua-cam.com/video/zeCZRti1taY/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/oAE5yHzH24g/v-deo.html.
This video was excellent!
Thank you!
A fantastic video that really helped me to understand how to love and honor myself in a better way, as well as my man! Helena and Clayton always create the most heartfelt and truly inspiring content in their video’s! Thank you both so much!
You're welcome Heather, I'm so happy to hear that!
Someone ought to start a page for people who are in recovery from drugs and alcohol and dating
The 2 best from UA-cam
Aww thank you, Monica! ❤️
@@HelenaHartCoaching ♥☆☆☆
Thank you very informative ... It gave me more insight to myself ...
You’re welcome! These videos I recorded with Clayton might also be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/v-deo.html, ua-cam.com/video/zeCZRti1taY/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/oAE5yHzH24g/v-deo.html.
I really enjoyed this!
Thanks Chi, I’m glad you liked it! 💜
❤️🙏🏻✨
I love the recap at the end. ❤️
Thanks Maribel! 💕
This was great thank you.
You’re welcome!
@@HelenaHartCoaching I'm a widower for a little more than in years now.
I was raised by a father and because of that, I never learned how to date.
I'm watching these now because an old friend can into my life when I decided to date, who I knew when I was a pre-teen and an a young woman.
I've always been attracted to him but I didn't fully understand it.
You have to understand that I'm closer to my brother and my dad's and male cousins.
I would like to get to know him better but at that the same time, because I grew up with my dad , I have more of masculine qualities with with the directness of a man and understanding more of a man because that's all I had in my life.
Yes I'm a tomboy ;however,
I'm an old-fashioned Woman Like My mother. Yes that means tanning sewing cutting here cleaning house baking cooking I do all that plus more yard work mowing trimming painting stuff men normally do.
So this is very important to me to learn this from a woman's perspective.
I've never learned any real negative traits from A Woman Like nagging bitching withdrawing things like that. My mother was a gentle soul. She died when I was just six.
I just started watching these videos in the last month.
Thank you.
My name is tianie Elly Mitchell Jerry Mitchell was my husband. this is his phone. I misplaced mine and I can't seem to get his name off of the Metro phone.
And if you have any ideas for that I would love to hear it I don't want to text a man and have him think I'm another man interested
My videos on feminine energy should be helpful for you, here’s the playlist with all of them: ua-cam.com/play/PLfrD0nnKRylSrGjt0EopOLiv6OhC8UuZE.html
Clayton wow
If you missed our livestream yesterday, you can watch the replay here: ua-cam.com/video/hxZC9vnOtTI/v-deo.html
Helena..this is Sandy the lady who has that great guy next door!! I took your advice from a comment you gave me because of our mutual attraction for over four years but no dates because you said he may be afraid or to shy! So you mentioned to ask him out and see his response and I did in around about way!! It was a day recently where he brought me a take out dinner after he had come home from work.He knocked on my door I was again appreciative said as he walked away " John ,wait a minute " why dont you asked me out for dinner sometime? I went on.." I would love to go out with a guy like you" he replied back ..but "Im busy" he goes on " alot during the week and not much time but sometimes on weekends" (?) but no difinate reply and then a little small talk ( weather) as he walked away! I tried and I'm wondering if it was the right comment from me at the time!! Since this happaned two weeks ago..I'm laying back for now ..your reply? Your so kind Helena thank you so much!!
Can you really find true love after age 50? I feel like it may be too late for me
Gina Soto you absolutely can. My mom is 67 and marrying her true love in 10 days. They dated in college, but he admits his pride in his youth got in their way. They were both young with a lot left to learn about relationships. They both moved on, married (both to toxic people) with families of their own. They’ve been through a lot. Been treated terrible. My dad walked out 10 years ago. & moms now fiancé was also divorced + ex wife passed 2 years ago. He was taking care of his mom before she passed, & she had saved my moms letters to him from college. He called the school, found a number on file for her, and they’ve been reunited for a year now. The love between them is beyond words. They endured a lot & waited a long time to find this happiness together. Life unfolds in mysterious ways. Be open to receiving wonderful things from the universe. “Those who leave everything in the hands of God, will see Gods hands in everything.” 💕
My father did!
@@J.S.4ever Such a nice Story .
Amazing
Thank you!
ThisIsAllSpotOn👍👍👍👍👍
Thank you, Annie! 💕
Enjoyed this!!
Thank you, I'm glad you enjoyed it!
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