Oh My Gosh Shyvonne, RUN as far away from that place as you can get. Don’t subject yourself to that abuse anymore. What he is doing is sexual harassment!!! It’s frikkin illegal to talk to a customer like that! Love you! ❤
absolutely a lot of young girls need to hear this!! When you are a young girl, even young woman 20's for some comments like that may seem cute but young girls need to know that, that is not cute, it's not the way you want any man to approach you, and it's disrespectful! If a man really likes you and he is mature and respect you his approach will be waaaayy different. I think it's disgusting when grown men do that smh. Like, you would think they know better smh
From the first time that he tried me like that I wouldn't even let him touch my head, I would have got up and walked out of there.I don't care how good of a Barber he is. There are too many other good Barbershop in this world. Keep praying and you will find them.
You are better than most, because as woman you truly have to stand for something. I would have never oblige my time or answer any questions no matter who you are! That's give them a little window of space to ask more in depth questions. Find a salon Sis! This man will not stop with the questions, listen to your spirit and the truth that was given. Be careful out there hun
You answered way too many questions for someone you’re uncomfortable with and I think you said this wasn’t the first time. No matter what you can do for yourself, your self worth is priceless.
I was thinking the very same thing. I let men know that I don't appreciate this level of questioning. that puts a stop to it. He is so unprofessional. She spoke way to much.
Three suggestions Shyvonne…Contact the better business bureau about the way he treats his customers, give him a poor rating on Google to warn other women about his harassment, and find another barber!!! Don’t go back- not even with your daughters!
Hey Queen yes get a new barber quick and Sister get you 2 sets of pepper spray my daughter and grands have some and so do i we are from New York City and I am Not playing with these fools out here in these streets😢😢
I would find a new barber point blank. I would not keep patronizing this business and letting this man disrespect me. Your personal life is none of his business. Peace,Love and Blessings!!!!!!!!
OK, Shyvonne, by Continuing to go to THIS barber you are "Impying" that this type of coversation And behavior is ok with you. The First Inappropriate comment should have been your Last visit Periodt!!!
You should have dropped him from the beginning of the disrespect. There are too many barbers out here for you to go to. You go back, then we have to question "the why". Sis move on and be the queen you are. ❤❤
Now, saying this in love, there is a reason why you still go to him, correct? There are plenty of barber's and many opportunities to not return. I have the same cut as you and my hair is in long twist braids. I keep my fade tight and do it myself with clippers I have owned for 15+ years. Male barbers tend to cut women around the ears like a male. You can do it!😊
PLEASE DONT GO BACK TO THAT BARBER . He gives me a very bad feeling. He may be getting mixed signals from you simply because you have gone back for a trim. He sounds like a predator. He said “There is something about you” They can smell prey from a mile away. The fact that he went to prison for over 20 years proves that he did serious time for a serious crime. Also, A married man should never speak like that in any case!! I am so proud of you Shyvonne!! I agree with everything you said. RESPECT ✊ You are a Queen ✨
Sounds like you need to change barbers, he don't know boundaries. If he makes you uncomfortable then why continue to go to him, he won't stop. Change barbers chica!!
Eww. Yeah very inappropriate, I would not go back! But, good for you, telling him like it is, a strong, independent, confident woman who knows what she wants! Preach!! ❤❤
It’s very intimidating going to an all male barbershop. My cousin was our family barber for years until he moved states away. MY experiences in barbershops have all been tricky. I now send my boys inside and wait for them in the car. And because I wear a braided mohawk, I’ve learned to cut my own hair at home. It’s hard out here. I’m so sorry you’ve experienced this nonsense. Because he was so out of line.
Yessssssss girl ! I’ve been celibate since 2009. After me and my husband at that time separated and now divorced. I have no urges,no desires nothing. I’m enjoying my peace and my joy❤ Still not interested. That man is so disgusting 🤢 disrespectful!
That's right don't ever let a Man disrespect you or you lose respect for yourself, Everyone Woman should know their Worth and stop letting these Men make them feel worthless ❤
Married🙋🏽♀️…but my Sis has been single for years with a “friend” who I’ve nicknamed the “ service” man 😂😂😂😂😂 he can not move in, meet any of the family formally and she meters out time spent with him……anywho, I’ve noticed that men who approach women with sexual talk think single women are just lusty….they see a woman handling her business, taking care of home and family and want to join in……keep your standards high ladies….make them prove themselves….if they don’t have their own place, job and car….and have these things for years prior to meeting you they have nothing for you and don’t understand responsibility…. Thanks for the story time and nuggets of wisdom💕
You were dealing with a narcissist. Never explain. He’s just playing with you and loving that you are explaining yourself. They are just really sick. I appreciate that you thought you were dealing with normal, he’s not normal.
Seems like there is some sort of disconnect with her on certain things. Way too gullible; there seems to be a child or at least a teenager vibe with her that invites this type of inappropriate energy into her space. Plus, she over explains herself too much
When I had got out of a bad relationship I made the decision to be celibate. I stood on that. My next relationship I wanted a deeper connection with someone. My husband approached me it was everything I prayed for. We remained celibate together till we were married. We didn’t even live together till 2 weeks before our wedding. We been together 10 years and married for almost 8 years. I’m saying that to say “STAND ON BUSINESS” it will happen in God’s timing.
It seems to me she does… she did say she knew she was beautiful a few times and her wholeeeee life people called her beautiful And she brings a lot to the table and respects her self??? this is why it don’t make any sense going to this man?
Shyvonne, why did you continue to engage in an uncomfortable and disrespectful conversation? By continuing to go back, sit in his chair, engage and entertain his unprofessional behavior, you made him think that it was okay and/or received as being flattered vs disrespected. Especially being a plus size woman. Often times men feel like they can speak in such a manner to a plus size woman cause they assume that all attention is good attention or that we yearn for their attention which is not the case for most. People only continue to do what we allow so you should have checked him from jump and anyone else in the shop that were having inappropriate conversations in your presence. They would have known from that moment what IS and what WILL NOT be tolerated.
Got you woman! I feel the exact same way since divorcing my ex of 25yrs. My body is my temple and not everyone can have access. Wait for GOD's timing and he will reveal or put him in your path. A real connection
Happy Belated Birthday!!!!🎂🎂🎂Just saw your short abt the bathroom transformation where you mentioned your b'day. I hope it was WONDERFUL with many Blessings!
Definition of insanity…doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. Clearly this man behaviour will not change ..removing yourself from the situation is the obvious solution. By returning to that barbershop you were giving him reason to believe in his distorted mind ,that you were interested. You are not required to engage in such distasteful conversation…or offer any explanation for your reasons not to do so….what a truly vulgar person he is,not to mention menacing. Don’t for one minute think you are the only person he behaves this way towards. Why on earth would you ever return after being made to feel so uncomfortable and devalued. New barber for sure.
Enjoyed the video. I was just telling my Granddaughter, you can't even speak to a man, unless he thinks you want him. It makes me so angry. I be like, please sir, I was just speaking. Don't want you. Thanks for storytime.
So glad to hear you talk about your worth! This is wonderful for young women and all women to hear! And when you say that you are a higher caliber, that is not being egotistical, that is just the truth! We need to hear more of this. I am like you and that I know my value and I think it’s very difficult to find a man of the quality that I expect. So I am not looking either if someone of a high caliber comes along, so be it. I’ll see. But in the meantime, I am, focusing on the quality of my life. Thank you for stating your high standards! 💖
You caught me on that.. don’t harass me and don’t ask me that😮 I couldn’t wait to click and watch the video😂😂😊omg😮28 years in jail find a new barber🤢🫣🤢 that’s disgusting🤢
Sis you are amazing. I’ve been single for 11 years. Within that time I a went back to college and got my bachelor’s and landed a great job with Nabisco. I would love to be married again but the selection out there is terrible. I love me more!
The first time he made an inappropriate comment you should have never returned! That’s sexual harassment I’m sure you know that but the fact you went back and had to keep explaining yourself to this creep is weird! Apparently it didn’t rise to the occasion of you walking out and never returning!This is a very serious matter and should be treated as such!
Know your worth and please don’t patronize that barber. I’m more than sure that he’s not faithful to his wife. You are a queen! Show your daughter’s how queens are treated and respected.💜💜💜
Hello Shyvonne, I loved the story time ,and I feel that it is best to find another barber.This unsavory barber is displaying signs of sexual harassment. It was hailing because it may be a tornado nearby, please head to safety. Love Deborah
Shyvonne, most women has experience men talking to them vulgar! Those type of men women need to run fast, don't look👀 back. I hear you we all want to date quality people. I feel you on doing things with your family & husband. I was in a dark place like that with my ex. Never had time for the family. I had four children by 28. Lost my youngest son in a drowning accident 1993 killed my spirit.🙏 I been single since the age of 27. Never dated. I'm 61 and I love being by myself. To all the young women get to know your date. Get background checks and no sex for several months. If he like you, he love how much your respect yourself. Get to know what he or she like and dislike. Good luck to you all and many blessing.🙏❤️
I am not for everybody! Such a GREAT Mantra! Men need to improve their approach and women need to remember and act their TRUE WORTH! GREAT STORY TIME!!!!
Amen, Sis, you are one of many who choose to remain abstinent. Our bodies are temples, and we don't owe anybody an explanation. We choose to crucify our flesh daily & trust God to lead us and bring the "One" ❤who is worthy of us!!!
Lord, have mercy! I wouldn't go back to him at all. I really don't understand why some men dont get it. I waited on my husband. For me personally, I had to be mentally connected to engage in relations. If it wasn't a mental connection, it wasn't happening period.
You told him! It's totally none of his business. He is the essence of a "Dirty Old Man". Shyvonne pray that God gives you another Barber. I use to go to a Barber and he was very protective of me. But I did not enjoy the sexual comments that were made in my presence. I stopped going to him cold turkey. Thank you for standing up for yourself. Lady you know your worth as a woman. I appreciate you. Gods continued Blessings to you and your family. Please find a new Barber for real!!❤
This is dixie from texas, back in my parents day in the 1940s, there was alot of romance My dad courted my mom, romantic, thet were married 76 yrs. I recently lost my dad 1st and my mom a yr later they were 97 yrs old, daddy was in ww2, navy, and mom loved him in uniform, but daddy was so respectful of my mother when they were dating this is what she told me, this is what she loved about my dad. He was respectful. I like that you feel as you do. Just take care of your kids, and enjoy them. Todays day and age dating i am sure its hard, i am 64 and married, but i hear alot of how crazy it is out here.
Oh my gosh I'm watching this storytime and just hollering at all the facts your giving her, my life is so similar, was married, got divorced and have been single for many yrs now, I so am happy to hear another woman speak her truth and see their worth, thanks for sharing Lady, I watch you faithfully but don't usually comment because I'm usually watching along with my daughter on TV. But had to say something again, thank you for sharing.❤❤❤❤❤
As a woman you should’ve got up cussed him out and left. Respect yourself or no one will that’s completely out of line. think of your daughters. how would you want them to respond? Would you want them to sit there and be sexually harassed in public all for a hair cut? I’m disgusted report that man never go back find you a nice young lady or man who is respectable and can cut hair. Additionally, never allow a man or anyone to get this comfortable to think he can disrespect you in this way as soon as boundaries regarding sexual history or anything not pertaining to hair you need to put your food down right away.
Girl drop him,he is dangerous. He’s dealing with your hair, hair is precious. And holds lots energy, Don’t let him touch your hair again.thanks for your story time..
Hello Shyvonne, please get yourself another barber. From what you are saying, you are not safe there. You shouldn't be explaining anything to him nor to us. He was so out of line.
I enjoyed this segment of your story time. You are me and we are twins because this is how I feel about men too! The everybody can't have access to you is a deal breaker because that's how you should think of your body keep that mindset. THAT FOR THE TEACHING AND THE THOUGHTS!!!!😊😊
Shyvonne, you bring such love and Honesty, and good vibes and loving the Workout videos, I like how you spend time with your kids ,you go above in everything you do. ♥️ love from. Texas, I hope oneday you will find a Man who has a Heart like yours
Find a new barber he is a hot mess Just keep doing you . When you are ready and God will see you through. I have been single for 4 years I am good as well and yes our body is a temple not for a man to eat a bag a chips then throw it away Ms. Shyvonne you are my kind of friend and I don’t even know you. You stated your truth and I love it. Keep up the good work God Bless ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Hey Shyvonne, great talk I enjoyed it so much. I just want to say some of these men think women are revolving doors, you can just run in and out, or you are a drive thru or something, or better yet women are Motel 6 where they leave the light on for them, SORRY not happening. You put it out there for him and I commend you for that. I hope that a lot of women watched this vlog, an truly listened an learned from what you were saying. I Amen to you thank you for the talk. I love this channel. BE BLESSED I think a new barber is the best thing for you.
I absolutely love your content. Let me say this on the topic, you train people how to treat you! When people won’t respect your boundaries then you can’t keep going there! Find a new barber.
Weather you realize it or not, you are giving him encouragement by going to him to cut your hair. Your style is super easy for any barber. Find a new one.
Wow!!! Very crazy!!! That’s the reason I’ve stop going to barbershops. Now I go to a barber that has their individual salon suite. Look into that. It may be a little bit pricey but the service is great.
You can control your flesh or your flesh can control you. Well said Shyvonne!! You have control, it’s a matter if you wanting to control it or not. You letting men have access to your body like it’s nothing, say what about you as person. We as women deserve better and should expect better. And until you can get that, protect your TEMPLE.
OMG girlfriend I loveddddd this story time. This is my life now, but I wasn’t married. I was engaged to my high school sweetheart and he passed away in a motorcycle accident and it hasn’t been the same. Buttt, yessss I’m with you on this “I’m not a Walmart bag I’m a Chanel, Prada, etc. I lovvvvveddd this!!!! Much blessings and peace my sister🤎
Girl.. no no no I would have ran out of there real quick.. I think you definitely spoke to him way to much and explained things to him that is none of his business… I can’t let any man touch me who makes me uncomfortable… Definitely find a New Barber…
Well said Shyvonne , I love your style it says a lot about you , your a woman with all your senses when it comes to respect yourself , your kids are your’re main priority , your a good mother And an excellent provider , enjoyed it your video and all that you had to say!!! God bless you and your family .
What a creeper! Definitely do not return. Some men have no self control. Btw that hail hit here in DE yesterday it was crazy weather. Love you and you keep being the amazing human that you are! ❤❤
Hello Shyvoone, and family. That barber,was very inappropriate to you,asking you questions like that,and saying those thing's. You're right our bodies are our temple, and we must treat it with pride, and dignity. Don't go back there anymore. Thank's for sharing ❤
Oh my goodness! I watched this story time today as I was cleaning my room. I had a gift from a student that I had not fully opened sitting on my table for a couple weeks. I knew it was perfume by the label on the box but I had no idea which kind. I opened it to put it away and it is the EXACT perfume you mentioned in this video. That has got to be a sign, for what, I don’t know. But it’s pretty unbelievable.
Do Not Go Back To Him!! Period!!👎🏾
Damn Straight!!!💯💯💯💯
Well said!
Amen
PERIOD!!!
Oh My Gosh Shyvonne,
RUN as far away from that place as you can get. Don’t subject yourself to that abuse anymore. What he is doing is sexual harassment!!! It’s frikkin illegal to talk to a customer like that! Love you! ❤
self love =self respect! a lot of young girls need to hear this!
absolutely a lot of young girls need to hear this!! When you are a young girl, even young woman 20's for some comments like that may seem cute but young girls need to know that, that is not cute, it's not the way you want any man to approach you, and it's disrespectful! If a man really likes you and he is mature and respect you his approach will be waaaayy different. I think it's disgusting when grown men do that smh. Like, you would think they know better smh
Yes they do, he tried Shyvonne because he’s had prior success with some ignorant young women 🤢🤢
❤❤❤ AMEN AMEN AMEN
Most women don't have self love or respect. How are they going to teach the young girls anything??
From the first time that he tried me like that I wouldn't even let him touch my head, I would have got up and walked out of there.I don't care how good of a Barber he is. There are too many other good Barbershop in this world. Keep praying and you will find them.
send him a cease and desist the dirty old bastard
You are better than most, because as woman you truly have to stand for something. I would have never oblige my time or answer any questions no matter who you are! That's give them a little window of space to ask more in depth questions. Find a salon Sis! This man will not stop with the questions, listen to your spirit and the truth that was given. Be careful out there hun
You answered way too many questions for someone you’re uncomfortable with and I think you said this wasn’t the first time. No matter what you can do for yourself, your self worth is priceless.
Exactly-like your a 40 year ol woman-why is she even entertaining that nonsense?
I was thinking the very same thing. I let men know that I don't appreciate this level of questioning. that puts a stop to it. He is so unprofessional. She spoke way to much.
Shyvonne I Just don't know about her. You are kind of immature. To me. You behave like a teen.
I would find a new barber. That’s just weird and unprofessional.
Three suggestions Shyvonne…Contact the better business bureau about the way he treats his customers, give him a poor rating on Google to warn other women about his harassment, and find another barber!!! Don’t go back- not even with your daughters!
Agree! There are other barbers out there who are just as capable of cutting hair as he can.
I wouldn’t go back to that barber !
Hey Queen yes get a new barber quick and Sister get you 2 sets of pepper spray my daughter and grands have some and so do i we are from New York City and I am Not playing with these fools out here in these streets😢😢
I would find a new barber point blank. I would not keep patronizing this business and letting this man disrespect me. Your personal life is none of his business. Peace,Love and Blessings!!!!!!!!
You are doing the right thing...your kid's come 1st..you have little girls and you need to protect them 1st...
OK, Shyvonne, by Continuing to go to THIS barber you are "Impying" that this type of coversation And behavior is ok with you. The First Inappropriate comment should have been your Last visit Periodt!!!
Exactly.
That conversation went on way too long with him
You should have dropped him from the beginning of the disrespect. There are too many barbers out here for you to go to. You go back, then we have to question "the why". Sis move on and be the queen you are. ❤❤
Now, saying this in love, there is a reason why you still go to him, correct? There are plenty of barber's and many opportunities to not return. I have the same cut as you and my hair is in long twist braids. I keep my fade tight and do it myself with clippers I have owned for 15+ years. Male barbers tend to cut women around the ears like a male. You can do it!😊
Why would she continue going if she feels so disrespected?
Chiile, That Man Crossed All Kinds of BOUNDARIES!! 😮
PLEASE DONT GO BACK TO THAT BARBER . He gives me a very bad feeling. He may be getting mixed signals from you simply because you have gone back for a trim. He sounds like a predator. He said “There is something about you” They can smell prey from a mile away. The fact that he went to prison for over 20 years proves that he did serious time for a serious crime.
Also, A married man should never speak like that in any case!!
I am so proud of you Shyvonne!!
I agree with everything you said. RESPECT ✊ You are a Queen ✨
Sounds like you need to change barbers, he don't know boundaries. If he makes you uncomfortable then why continue to go to him, he won't stop. Change barbers chica!!
Amen sis!!! Leave that barber in the past.❤
Eww. Yeah very inappropriate, I would not go back! But, good for you, telling him like it is, a strong, independent, confident woman who knows what she wants! Preach!! ❤❤
It’s very intimidating going to an all male barbershop. My cousin was our family barber for years until he moved states away. MY experiences in barbershops have all been tricky. I now send my boys inside and wait for them in the car. And because I wear a braided mohawk, I’ve learned to cut my own hair at home. It’s hard out here. I’m so sorry you’ve experienced this nonsense. Because he was so out of line.
Yessssssss girl ! I’ve been celibate since 2009. After me and my husband at that time separated and now divorced. I have no urges,no desires nothing. I’m enjoying my peace and my joy❤ Still not interested. That man is so disgusting 🤢 disrespectful!
Shyvonne, this was a great video! You are amazing and deserve only the best. I love your spirit and values. Stay strong and stay YOU!
That's right don't ever let a Man disrespect you or you lose respect for yourself, Everyone Woman should know their Worth and stop letting these Men make them feel worthless ❤
Married🙋🏽♀️…but my Sis has been single for years with a “friend” who I’ve nicknamed the “ service” man 😂😂😂😂😂 he can not move in, meet any of the family formally and she meters out time spent with him……anywho, I’ve noticed that men who approach women with sexual talk think single women are just lusty….they see a woman handling her business, taking care of home and family and want to join in……keep your standards high ladies….make them prove themselves….if they don’t have their own place, job and car….and have these things for years prior to meeting you they have nothing for you and don’t understand responsibility…. Thanks for the story time and nuggets of wisdom💕
You were dealing with a narcissist. Never explain. He’s just playing with you and loving that you are explaining yourself. They are just really sick. I appreciate that you thought you were dealing with normal, he’s not normal.
100% agree! I wish she wouldn’t have explained herself.
You're a smart woman. Stop going to the barber.
She should be able to figure it out right??
Seems like there is some sort of disconnect with her on certain things. Way too gullible; there seems to be a child or at least a teenager vibe with her that invites this type of inappropriate energy into her space. Plus, she over explains herself too much
@@amirawilliams8385 Yes she does I would've told his ass off and walked out never to come back girl bye smh
Except for the barber, I’ve been through that too. And yes. I’m fine by myself. There’s no room in my closet for someone else’s shoes. No thank you!
When I had got out of a bad relationship I made the decision to be celibate. I stood on that. My next relationship I wanted a deeper connection with someone. My husband approached me it was everything I prayed for. We remained celibate together till we were married. We didn’t even live together till 2 weeks before our wedding. We been together 10 years and married for almost 8 years. I’m saying that to say “STAND ON BUSINESS” it will happen in God’s timing.
Basically***You know your WORTH!
It seems to me she does… she did say she knew she was beautiful a few times and her wholeeeee life people called her beautiful And she brings a lot to the table and respects her self??? this is why it don’t make any sense going to this man?
Shyvonne, why did you continue to engage in an uncomfortable and disrespectful conversation? By continuing to go back, sit in his chair, engage and entertain his unprofessional behavior, you made him think that it was okay and/or received as being flattered vs disrespected. Especially being a plus size woman.
Often times men feel like they can speak in such a manner to a plus size woman cause they assume that all attention is good attention or that we yearn for their attention which is not the case for most. People only continue to do what we allow so you should have checked him from jump and anyone else in the shop that were having inappropriate conversations in your presence. They would have known from that moment what IS and what WILL NOT be tolerated.
Hi Shyvonne. He was totally inappropriate!! I’m glad you let him know how you felt. You are a prize!!
Got you woman! I feel the exact same way since divorcing my ex of 25yrs. My body is my temple and not everyone can have access. Wait for GOD's timing and he will reveal or put him in your path. A real connection
I definitely would not go back to him,I love how you handled yourself!😊❤
Happy Belated Birthday!!!!🎂🎂🎂Just saw your short abt the bathroom transformation where you mentioned your b'day. I hope it was WONDERFUL with many Blessings!
He is not a gentleman, you on the other hand are a classy lady with morals and values and it is so refreshing to see 🩷
Definition of insanity…doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
Clearly this man behaviour will not change ..removing yourself from the situation is the obvious solution.
By returning to that barbershop you were giving him reason to believe in his distorted mind ,that you were interested.
You are not required to engage in such distasteful conversation…or offer any explanation for your reasons not to do so….what a truly vulgar person he is,not to mention menacing.
Don’t for one minute think you are the only person he behaves this way towards.
Why on earth would you ever return after being made to feel so uncomfortable and devalued.
New barber for sure.
Enjoyed the video. I was just telling my Granddaughter, you can't even speak to a man, unless he thinks you want him. It makes me so angry. I be like, please sir, I was just speaking. Don't want you. Thanks for storytime.
So glad to hear you talk about your worth! This is wonderful for young women and all women to hear! And when you say that you are a higher caliber, that is not being egotistical, that is just the truth! We need to hear more of this. I am like you and that I know my value and I think it’s very difficult to find a man of the quality that I expect. So I am not looking either if someone of a high caliber comes along, so be it. I’ll see. But in the meantime, I am, focusing on the quality of my life. Thank you for stating your high standards! 💖
You caught me on that.. don’t harass me and don’t ask me that😮 I couldn’t wait to click and watch the video😂😂😊omg😮28 years in jail find a new barber🤢🫣🤢 that’s disgusting🤢
Yay! I had to share. I will get better with story time's because I have a few stories I want to share.
Thank you for sharing❤
Find a female barber, hairdressers have barber skills
Sis you are amazing. I’ve been single for 11 years. Within that time I a went back to college and got my bachelor’s and landed a great job with Nabisco. I would love to be married again but the selection out there is terrible. I love me more!
Amen sis amen!!!! I totally agree with everything you are saying 😊
Do not go back to that barber he is sick the audacity of him To talk in that manner to woman. he need to seek some professional help
The first time he made an inappropriate comment you should have never returned! That’s sexual harassment I’m sure you know that but the fact you went back and had to keep explaining yourself to this creep is weird! Apparently it didn’t rise to the occasion of you walking out and never returning!This is a very serious matter and should be treated as such!
I think she likes the attention
❤, a real woman! So proud of you, example to your children 👍
Everybody don't need access to you felt that 💯
Amen!!
You are beautiful and I love when you said not everyone deserves access to you. Preach❤
Know your worth and please don’t patronize that barber. I’m more than sure that he’s not faithful to his wife. You are a queen! Show your daughter’s how queens are treated and respected.💜💜💜
Hello Shyvonne, I loved the story time ,and I feel that it is best to find another barber.This unsavory barber is displaying signs of sexual harassment. It was hailing because it may be a tornado nearby, please head to safety. Love Deborah
Yasssssss!!!!!! We are not for everyone my queen, I definitely feel you. But I wouldn't not go back to him. You are all that and then some!!!
Shyvonne, most women has experience men talking to them vulgar! Those type of men women need to run fast, don't look👀 back. I hear you we all want to date quality people. I feel you on doing things with your family & husband. I was in a dark place like that with my ex. Never had time for the family. I had four children by 28. Lost my youngest son in a drowning accident 1993 killed my spirit.🙏 I been single since the age of 27. Never dated. I'm 61 and I love being by myself. To all the young women get to know your date. Get background checks and no sex for several months. If he like you, he love how much your respect yourself. Get to know what he or she like and dislike. Good luck to you all and many blessing.🙏❤️
I am not for everybody! Such a GREAT Mantra! Men need to improve their approach and women need to remember and act their TRUE WORTH! GREAT STORY TIME!!!!
Amen, Sis, you are one of many who choose to remain abstinent. Our bodies are temples, and we don't owe anybody an explanation. We choose to crucify our flesh daily & trust God to lead us and bring the "One" ❤who is worthy of us!!!
Lord, have mercy! I wouldn't go back to him at all. I really don't understand why some men dont get it. I waited on my husband. For me personally, I had to be mentally connected to engage in relations. If it wasn't a mental connection, it wasn't happening period.
Thanks for sharing. But girl, you need to separate yourself from that situation. It’s just blatantly inappropriate. You deserve better than that.
You ARE beautiful. Take your time and be selective. It's crazy out here.
It's ok to feel how ever you feel! No one deserves access to you!
You told him! It's totally none of his business. He is the essence of a "Dirty Old Man". Shyvonne pray that God gives you another Barber. I use to go to a Barber and he was very protective of me. But I did not enjoy the sexual comments that were made in my presence. I stopped going to him cold turkey. Thank you for standing up for yourself. Lady you know your worth as a woman. I appreciate you. Gods continued Blessings to you and your family. Please find a new Barber for real!!❤
I admire your determination to do things on your own terms! ❤❤❤
He's creepy! I would definitely find another barber Queen! Keep Queening! 👸🏾
Love the story time and yes, you made the right decision to not go back
I’m so sorry friend u are going through that!! Im glad u hold ur own with that man! U are a lady indeed!
This is dixie from texas, back in my parents day in the 1940s, there was alot of romance
My dad courted my mom, romantic, thet were married 76 yrs. I recently lost my dad 1st and my mom a yr later they were 97 yrs old, daddy was in ww2, navy, and mom loved him in uniform, but daddy was so respectful of my mother when they were dating this is what she told me, this is what she loved about my dad. He was respectful. I like that you feel as you do. Just take care of your kids, and enjoy them. Todays day and age dating i am sure its hard, i am 64 and married, but i hear alot of how crazy it is out here.
Oh my gosh I'm watching this storytime and just hollering at all the facts your giving her, my life is so similar, was married, got divorced and have been single for many yrs now, I so am happy to hear another woman speak her truth and see their worth, thanks for sharing Lady, I watch you faithfully but don't usually comment because I'm usually watching along with my daughter on TV. But had to say something again, thank you for sharing.❤❤❤❤❤
Yes, Shyvonne. Please find a new barber. You shouldn't have to put up with being sexually harassed to get a haircut. It's despicable. Shame on him.
Good for you Shyvonna, you are a classy lady.
As a woman you should’ve got up cussed him out and left. Respect yourself or no one will that’s completely out of line. think of your daughters. how would you want them to respond? Would you want them to sit there and be sexually harassed in public all for a hair cut? I’m disgusted report that man never go back find you a nice young lady or man who is respectable and can cut hair. Additionally, never allow a man or anyone to get this comfortable to think he can disrespect you in this way as soon as boundaries regarding sexual history or anything not pertaining to hair you need to put your food down right away.
Girl drop him,he is dangerous. He’s dealing with your hair, hair is precious. And holds lots energy, Don’t let him touch your hair again.thanks for your story time..
Change Barbers asap! Just the disrespect even if he was not married.
Hello Shyvonne, please get yourself another barber. From what you are saying, you are not safe there. You shouldn't be explaining anything to him nor to us. He was so out of line.
We as women have to addressed this behavior immediately. Like you did but more aggressively.
This conversation is the sign that it's time to move on. At the age of 60, he'll never change. People come into your life for a season.
I enjoyed this segment of your story time. You are me and we are twins because this is how I feel about men too! The everybody can't have access to you is a deal breaker because that's how you should think of your body keep that mindset. THAT FOR THE TEACHING AND THE THOUGHTS!!!!😊😊
Yesssssah gurl know your worth. I wish more young ladies had your mindset. You go girl. ❤🎉
Love your Response be in search for a New barber you don’t Need to be attacked and harassed when you Just trying to get your haircut
Shyvonne, you bring such love and Honesty, and good vibes and loving the Workout videos, I like how you spend time with your kids ,you go above in everything you do. ♥️ love from. Texas, I hope oneday you will find a Man who has a Heart like yours
Find a new barber he is a hot mess Just keep doing you . When you are ready and God will see you through. I have been single for 4 years I am good as well and yes our body is a temple not for a man to eat a bag a chips then throw it away Ms. Shyvonne you are my kind of friend and I don’t even know you. You stated your truth and I love it. Keep up the good work God Bless ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Tell him like it is. Tell him true. And will find true love and you know your value❤
It is definitely time to find another barber!
You go girl. Preach it Sister
Hey Shyvonne, great talk I enjoyed it so much. I just want to say some of these men think women are revolving doors, you can just run in and out, or you are a drive thru or something, or better yet women are Motel 6 where they leave the light on for them, SORRY not happening. You put it out there for him and I commend you for that. I hope that a lot of women watched this vlog, an truly listened an learned from what you were saying. I Amen to you thank you for the talk. I love this channel. BE BLESSED I think a new barber is the best thing for you.
I absolutely love your content. Let me say this on the topic, you train people how to treat you! When people won’t respect your boundaries then you can’t keep going there! Find a new barber.
Weather you realize it or not, you are giving him encouragement by going to him to cut your hair. Your style is super easy for any barber. Find a new one.
Shyvonne, continue to hold yourself in the highest Respect with Great Regards to yourself. ❤
Wow!!! Very crazy!!! That’s the reason I’ve stop going to barbershops. Now I go to a barber that has their individual salon suite. Look into that. It may be a little bit pricey but the service is great.
It’s great that you know what and how you deserve to be treated and please never settle for less.
You can control your flesh or your flesh can control you. Well said Shyvonne!! You have control, it’s a matter if you wanting to control it or not. You letting men have access to your body like it’s nothing, say what about you as person. We as women deserve better and should expect better. And until you can get that, protect your TEMPLE.
OMG girlfriend I loveddddd this story time. This is my life now, but I wasn’t married. I was engaged to my high school sweetheart and he passed away in a motorcycle accident and it hasn’t been the same. Buttt, yessss I’m with you on this “I’m not a Walmart bag I’m a Chanel, Prada, etc. I lovvvvveddd this!!!! Much blessings and peace my sister🤎
Girl.. no no no I would have ran out of there real quick.. I think you definitely spoke to him way to much and explained things to him that is none of his business… I can’t let any man touch me who makes me uncomfortable… Definitely find a New Barber…
Well said Shyvonne , I love your style it says a lot about you , your a woman with all your senses when it comes to respect yourself , your kids are your’re main priority , your a good mother And an excellent provider , enjoyed it your video and all that you had to say!!!
God bless you and your family .
I wish more women thought the same as you and not settle for less. We women must have a high self esteem and not accept just anything.
Yes sis you are on point with the dating scene
What a creeper! Definitely do not return. Some men have no self control. Btw that hail hit here in DE yesterday it was crazy weather. Love you and you keep being the amazing human that you are! ❤❤
😂 Maybe Your perfume is driving men crazy. I wouldn't go back to that barber...that's just not right to talk to you like that.
Hello Shyvoone, and family. That barber,was very inappropriate to you,asking you questions like that,and saying those thing's. You're right our bodies are our temple, and we must treat it with pride, and dignity. Don't go back there anymore. Thank's for sharing ❤
Don’t go back to him. End of story🥂!
Happy Friday thank you for sharing ❤
Oh my goodness! I watched this story time today as I was cleaning my room. I had a gift from a student that I had not fully opened sitting on my table for a couple weeks. I knew it was perfume by the label on the box but I had no idea which kind. I opened it to put it away and it is the EXACT perfume you mentioned in this video. That has got to be a sign, for what, I don’t know. But it’s pretty unbelievable.
He sees you keep coming back. He feels you must want something. People can only say and do to you what you allow.
Exactly 💯💯💯💯💯, I really enjoyed your story time 💯💯💯,