Thank you for sharing that-it means a lot to know this resonated with you! 😊 Looking back, it really did feel like the universe was pushing me to leave and explore something more meaningful. Sometimes, stepping away is exactly what we need to find clarity and fulfillment. Wishing you all the best on your journey and thanks for watching!
I worked in IT consulting, it was such a drain, I started a construction business instead, and it’s weird, while I have gotten into debt to make it work, and it has been stressful, nothing can compare to the anxiety I got from consulting, the pointless meetings, the buck stopping with you even though there is supposed to be leadership, and yes! I was a self employed contractor, I have always had an issue where they would call me or whatever at any time they pleased
@744shinryu, That’s awesome you made the leap into something new! I used to love consulting work too-especially as a W2-contract employee. It gave me so much flexibility and variety, and I really appreciated those breaks in between jobs. I loved taking vacations longer than the standard 2 weeks 🤣. They were such a great reset, as long as I had enough money saved up to cover the gaps. But I totally get how things have changed-contractors used to be exempt from things like pager duty, and now it’s gotten so much worse. The constant calls, leadership issues, and blurred lines between contractor and full-time responsibilities can really wear you down. Starting your construction business, while challenging, sounds like a bold and inspiring move toward building something that truly aligns with what you want. Big props to you for taking that leap! I’m still trying to figure out if I can do the same myself. Thanks for watching!
My husband worked for a newspaper and his employer not only expected him to use his own car for working appointments, also his private cellphone. So advertisment costumers of the newspaper, clubs and political paties called him on his private phone to get their stuff in the newspaper. Most of them respected weekends or late evening time and did not call on those times, but others did not. Also working times have been very long as the employer expects him to go to meetings of clubs, political parties, local councils and art exebitions which are mostly after regular working times at weekends or in the evening. All the work with our house was left to me, an early retired due to health problems. I could not ask him for help as he was at work. It was a drain for both of us until he changed the employer. But I feel times are changing now, because Germany is short on labour force. A lot of ld people is going to retire soon, migration is blocked due to political will and the country isn´t as intresting for lots of migrants anymore as a lot of them have been from eastern Europe. Their economy is booming and they find equal good work at home.
Wow. I'm not sure where to start. This sounds incredibly draining for both of you! The expectation for employees to use their personal car and cellphone is sooo unfair, especially when people don’t respect boundaries. It’s like work was following him everywhere. I can’t imagine how tough that must have been, especially with you managing everything at home while dealing with health challenges. It’s good to hear he was able to change employers, though-I bet that was a huge relief. And you’re right, things are shifting. With labor shortages, hopefully companies start realizing they can’t keep pushing employees to their breaking point without consequences. Workers are realizing their worth, and it’s about time! I hope that it turns around here in the U.S. soon too...meaning more in favor of the workers especially in tech. Germany’s situation with migration and an aging workforce really adds another layer to it all. Fingers crossed that these changes lead to more balanced and respectful work environments!
Similar to you, I have golden handcuffs, but I also have one successful exit under my belt from previous company. I realised this type of work only ends with burnout at some point. So I started preparing, I bought apartments to rent to people, I have 3 right now and the rest is in SP500 and Nasdaq 100. I'm still working, but I'm slacking a lot, I hate looking at code, I read news at work most of the day. I probably have enough to quit, but I just need few more months to pay some stuff off. Being unemployed probably feels great, but how will you make money?
Sounds like you’ve got a solid setup with the rentals and investments-props for preparing ahead! I totally get the 'just a few more months' mindset; it’s hard to make that final leap when you’re so close to clearing everything. As for being unemployed, it does feel freeing, but I’m definitely not coasting forever. I’ve got several investments too, mostly in ETFs, and they’ve been more than enough to keep me afloat. I’ve also minimized my expenses and gotten super frugal about certain things, which has definitely helped slow the bleeding a lot. It’s less about making tons of money and more about living on my terms. You’re almost there-keep at it! I appreciate you watching the video.
This bullshit that we're working less because we're working from home is hilarious. My friend worked in tech too and, in his mid-30s, decided to diversify his income by buying rental properties. He's 41 now and living off his savings, investments, and rental income. He does part-time work for a local school district, now doing basic IT work just out of boredom.
Right? The whole 'working less from home' narrative is such a joke. Your friend sounds like he cracked the code though-tech grind in his 30s, then pivoting to something more chill. I love that he’s doing IT part-time just for kicks now. Honestly, that’s the dream: setting yourself up so work becomes optional. Big respect to him! Thanks for watching!
I hoped you saved a few hundred thousand dollars & invested 💵 👍 Thts wht I will do so whenever I get tired of a job I just go home not having to worry about money 💰
Exactly, that’s the way to do it! 💯 I’ve got some amount of money stashed away and mostly invested in ETFs-it’s been a game changer. Not having to stress about money gives you so much freedom to step back and reevaluate when work gets overwhelming. Sounds like you’ve got a solid plan too-here’s to making work optional! 💪💵
You just literally told my story. Thanks for this. It's nice to know I'm not the only one and perhaps it was a good choice after all.
Thank you for sharing that-it means a lot to know this resonated with you! 😊 Looking back, it really did feel like the universe was pushing me to leave and explore something more meaningful. Sometimes, stepping away is exactly what we need to find clarity and fulfillment. Wishing you all the best on your journey and thanks for watching!
God Bless you SIR. Wise words
God Bless. Thanks for watching!
I worked in IT consulting, it was such a drain, I started a construction business instead, and it’s weird, while I have gotten into debt to make it work, and it has been stressful, nothing can compare to the anxiety I got from consulting, the pointless meetings, the buck stopping with you even though there is supposed to be leadership, and yes! I was a self employed contractor, I have always had an issue where they would call me or whatever at any time they pleased
@744shinryu, That’s awesome you made the leap into something new! I used to love consulting work too-especially as a W2-contract employee. It gave me so much flexibility and variety, and I really appreciated those breaks in between jobs. I loved taking vacations longer than the standard 2 weeks 🤣. They were such a great reset, as long as I had enough money saved up to cover the gaps.
But I totally get how things have changed-contractors used to be exempt from things like pager duty, and now it’s gotten so much worse. The constant calls, leadership issues, and blurred lines between contractor and full-time responsibilities can really wear you down. Starting your construction business, while challenging, sounds like a bold and inspiring move toward building something that truly aligns with what you want.
Big props to you for taking that leap! I’m still trying to figure out if I can do the same myself. Thanks for watching!
Very honest video and a very wise take!
Thanks for watching ❤
My husband worked for a newspaper and his employer not only expected him to use his own car for working appointments, also his private cellphone.
So advertisment costumers of the newspaper, clubs and political paties called him on his private phone to get their stuff in the newspaper. Most of them respected weekends or late evening time and did not call on those times, but others did not. Also working times have been very long as the employer expects him to go to meetings of clubs, political parties, local councils and art exebitions which are mostly after regular working times at weekends or in the evening.
All the work with our house was left to me, an early retired due to health problems. I could not ask him for help as he was at work. It was a drain for both of us until he changed the employer.
But I feel times are changing now, because Germany is short on labour force. A lot of ld people is going to retire soon, migration is blocked due to political will and the country isn´t as intresting for lots of migrants anymore as a lot of them have been from eastern Europe. Their economy is booming and they find equal good work at home.
Wow. I'm not sure where to start. This sounds incredibly draining for both of you! The expectation for employees to use their personal car and cellphone is sooo unfair, especially when people don’t respect boundaries. It’s like work was following him everywhere. I can’t imagine how tough that must have been, especially with you managing everything at home while dealing with health challenges. It’s good to hear he was able to change employers, though-I bet that was a huge relief.
And you’re right, things are shifting. With labor shortages, hopefully companies start realizing they can’t keep pushing employees to their breaking point without consequences. Workers are realizing their worth, and it’s about time! I hope that it turns around here in the U.S. soon too...meaning more in favor of the workers especially in tech. Germany’s situation with migration and an aging workforce really adds another layer to it all. Fingers crossed that these changes lead to more balanced and respectful work environments!
Similar to you, I have golden handcuffs, but I also have one successful exit under my belt from previous company. I realised this type of work only ends with burnout at some point. So I started preparing, I bought apartments to rent to people, I have 3 right now and the rest is in SP500 and Nasdaq 100. I'm still working, but I'm slacking a lot, I hate looking at code, I read news at work most of the day. I probably have enough to quit, but I just need few more months to pay some stuff off. Being unemployed probably feels great, but how will you make money?
Sounds like you’ve got a solid setup with the rentals and investments-props for preparing ahead! I totally get the 'just a few more months' mindset; it’s hard to make that final leap when you’re so close to clearing everything. As for being unemployed, it does feel freeing, but I’m definitely not coasting forever. I’ve got several investments too, mostly in ETFs, and they’ve been more than enough to keep me afloat. I’ve also minimized my expenses and gotten super frugal about certain things, which has definitely helped slow the bleeding a lot. It’s less about making tons of money and more about living on my terms. You’re almost there-keep at it! I appreciate you watching the video.
I literally feel like the guy in office space, but i'm starting to see another path.
Love that movie. Keep in touch.
This bullshit that we're working less because we're working from home is hilarious. My friend worked in tech too and, in his mid-30s, decided to diversify his income by buying rental properties. He's 41 now and living off his savings, investments, and rental income. He does part-time work for a local school district, now doing basic IT work just out of boredom.
Right? The whole 'working less from home' narrative is such a joke. Your friend sounds like he cracked the code though-tech grind in his 30s, then pivoting to something more chill. I love that he’s doing IT part-time just for kicks now. Honestly, that’s the dream: setting yourself up so work becomes optional. Big respect to him! Thanks for watching!
I hoped you saved a few hundred thousand dollars & invested 💵 👍
Thts wht I will do so whenever I get tired of a job I just go home not having to worry about money 💰
Exactly, that’s the way to do it! 💯 I’ve got some amount of money stashed away and mostly invested in ETFs-it’s been a game changer. Not having to stress about money gives you so much freedom to step back and reevaluate when work gets overwhelming. Sounds like you’ve got a solid plan too-here’s to making work optional! 💪💵
@ yes sir 🫡 stay strong! 💪