"It was not my fault." The thing we all need to remember. The ONLY thing that causes rape is a rapist. Quit blaming victims, we blame ourselves enough.
@Rules Of Engagement Wth? No, no no. She was a teen just at a party having fun with friends. She did not go to a guy, she did not lead them on and she had every right to dress however she wanted. She did not ask to be raped. It’s disgusting you’re blaming her. Think about it this way. You’re having fun at a party, having a couple drinks. But then you start feeling dizzy, you feel panic kick in. Your body is out of control you can’t ask for help. Right before you pass out you know you’ve been drugged and can’t protect yourself in any way. You wake up and realize your being raped. What was slutty about that huh? Think before you say such a thing.
@Rules Of Engagement so cool and original of you to blame the victim. I was molested when I was 11 by my mom's boyfriend. I called her instead of the police, she didn't believe me. So I never spoke of it again for 10 years. There is absolutely NO reason to lie about getting raped, there's no glory in it & it's not like it garners you sympathy, just a bunch of rude dickheads like yourself claiming she's a liar.
That's why I get enraged when people start blaming women for rape. Clinton, Trump, Epstein etc...we really have to own up to a culture that does not take rape seriously and the women who vote against legislation that would protect women.
I hope so too but when you go through something like that, it’s hard to ever completely get over it. The best you can do is to try and move on from it and with your life.
I was raped when I was 18. It took me years to move past it. I would cry, feel hate, sadness and guilt. I never told my mom and she still doesn't know... I'm 29 now. Thank you for sharing Nikki
I am so sorry that happened to you. That is no way your fault. I can't imagine what you are going through. You should not keep it in. Maybe when you are ready, go talk to a therapist? I lost my dad on Fathers Day and I am dealing with grief. I had a few great sessions with a therapist to cope and don't let the stimga of seeing a therapist deter you. It is actually a great thing. I learned alot and how to help deal with my grief/anger. Sending love!
I’m so sorry you’ve gone through that I have 3 family members who I won’t mention that have gone through what you have and to see the affects it has on 2 of my family members that went through it is horrible I can’t even imagine the pain and sorrow you felt I’m so sorry that had to happen to you I can’t offer much as I’ve never been in that position but I wish you the best in life and can only hope for more positive and good things to happen in your life going forward you are a brave person for sharing 💕😊
She’s so strong. She’s amazing. Her story made me feel safe enough to come out about being molested as a child. She’s brought me and so many others strength. What a woman.
I was raped the first time I joined campus back in 2015 after I attended a party. I blame myself for being there but you know what I have a good support system so I've been fine over the years. Thank God
Basically she can raise her son to be just like Artem. People probably thought her commitment issues came from John but they went way back for her. I'm happy she's doing better now.
At first I was like, this is weird to put in a reality show, shouldn't she keep this private? But then I realized, no, this is incredibly brave and vulnerable to put out in public. So many r*pe victims feel alone and like they have to stay silent and in the shadows and Nikki is being open and upfront about how this has affected her and her real fears about sharing this with her partner. I hope her bravery inspires others to know they are not alone.
Well, she put it in her book first, so it was already public. But you are so right, that is why it was so brave and powerful for her to share, both in her book and on the show.
Artem said he had no idea what to say...yet said absolutely the sweetest thing that it won't change his mind about Nikki and that he loves her and accepts her
She said that “a friend” took her virginity. That’s not a friend of they took advantage of her while she was unconscious. I remember being at a party with a friend and she had a little too much to drink. I sobered up real quick realizing that I needed to watch out and take care of her. Some guy (don’t remember who he was) offered to take care of her. I told him no and I that I had it taken care of. I try not to drink too much around people I don’t know.
Gosh, can’t imagine going through this. It shows how strong she is. (And not to bash JC really) but for her to be so in love with him and him make her sign a relationship pre nup (not even mariage, just to be a guest in his home, which he made clear was HIS) - she just wanted to be loved. That shows how strong and brave she is and how she keeps getting back up. And now she trusts again and she’s found a man whose saying “I’m here no matter what” and “her past doesn’t change how I feel about her” - it’s so much healthier than “oh I won’t marry you, I will but no kids, no I won’t, decide now” I’m so happy for her
He dint make her sign the prenup as she she could have left him. She also knew from the very beginning he dint want marriage or kids but she kept dating him. So she not a victim
@@rachelwalsh6116 I never said she was a victim. I said she was strong. And her past trauma makes her want to be loved. Neither of those are bad things. (And she is a victim from unfortunately and heartbreakingly being raped twice) And also yes, he did not physically force her to sign - but when you’ve been through stuff such as traumatic as being raped and god - twice: sometimes it alters your brain on what your version of love is and sometimes you’ll do stuff to keep people in your life even if it makes you sad - because you just want love, at any (for lack of a better word) “cost”.
@@rachelwalsh6116 I clearly said I was not bashing Cena. I just don’t agree with how he treated her. I don’t feel it’s good to say stuff like “You’re not even on the list” when talking about life altering decisions, the fact he asked her to sign that thing at all, and many others. I didn’t like the way it looked and I’m saying Nikki looks way happier and healthier and Artem is in my eyes a better match.
@@katherinetusa181 he had very restrict rules witch was idioulous. Now the prenum i understood after he explained it. He was taking care of his mom and family and after what happened with his ex wife then it was completely understandable asking her to sign a prenum. Yes she looks happier but she even said you dont know what happens behind closed doors after it was said a dancing with the stars pro and wife are divorcing. She and artem having some issues as she said they going to couples therapy after he gets done with dancing with the Stars. I sometimes things she donst treat artem right.
I think that it is really powerful that she has realised that she's been blessed with a son for a reason , thank you for speaking about it Nicole, you are powerful beyond measure. And to Artem - I really hope that we aren't looking through rose coloured glasses. You are the perfect gentleman ♥️
Artem literally didn’t say anything to her. He just looked at her....Y’all give so much credit to attractive white men and they give y’all the bare minimum and get away with it cause you can’t stop that WAP 😂
This guy is Heavenly sent... Women need more people like him in our world today.. because some people judge us based on our past .. Overall he is an Angel. God bless you
Yeah, he loves her. They both seems like very secure, deeper-than-average people, so that's good!.. So sorry that she went through this. Just because a Woman is unusually Beautiful --that's NOT EVER a "Green light"!!... :/
She was very fearless in telling her story. In all fairness, she did include it in the book. I know she will be a great mom and raise her son to be the most loving and respectful man.
I never knew she went through this ... I kinda appreciate Nikki for her opening up and how matured she explain her situation ... I legit cried rape is horrible 😥😥😥💔💔
I was raped when I was 12yrs old by the Male of a couple I used to babysit for across the street. I didnt say anything until I was 14. He got 6months in jail and ended up moving down the street from me after he got out. Still see him everywhere and our kids oddly enough go to school together. I still freeze and shut down to this day every time that day comes around. It's a struggle everyday but I can relate to her
The majority of women on this earth have gone through this horrible trauma at least once and for her to have to deal with that twice, I looked up to Nikki my whole life and knowing she too sadly went through simular pain. It connects her to her fans more personally than before. I respect that she came forward. 💯 🙌 🙏 Love you Nikki. It truly is a time for healing. Blessings to you and your family.
She is so strong it's admirable seeing her comfortable enough to share this. I know how difficult it is to talk about as I have been sexually assaulted many times and still struggle on a daily basis with blaming myself so seeing this and hearing her talk about her story is really comforting to me
I'm so happy she has decided to come public with this it will help so many people out there. I had the same situation as her when I was 16. I didn't even utter the words till I was 22 and then a similar situation occurred when I was 27 and I was assaulted by my boss. It takes great courage to talk about these things. I'm so proud of her for using her platform to shed light on her pain and to see how strong she is being... Makes me want to cry and hug her so closely. To anyone who has experienced any kind of trauma, assault, harrasment, rape..... I am sending you so many healing vibes... We are not victims we are survivors and we are strong and worthy ❤️
That’s what I call a true man , I was raped in my own homes it took me a long time to tell anyone, the hardest person to tell my dad, he held me and said it’s wasn’t your faults .
I do admire how artem comforted her after her telling him what happened and just her being vulnerable with him that takes a lot for her to talk about it
I was raped in 2017 and I got pregnant and i decided to put the baby up for adoption and my ex boyfriend wasn't really there for me through it and wasn't there when I gave birth and went through depression and we been on break for 2 years but im now in a more happier place with a more understanding guy who makes me happy
that moment at the end was absolutely beautiful and his love language is touch you can tell through the way he uses his kisses to convey what he couldn't through words.
So proud of her for sharing a story so many people sweep under the rug. Awareness is always good to share out of experiences like that we love you Nikki
I love this couple! I respect how transparent the twins are about their lives and use their platform to shine a light on important issues, truly beautiful on the inside out
I’m so sorry you went through all that. You are so blessed to have found a wonderful man that truly loves you. I just love the way he loves you, it’s amazing!
I looooove that he’s letting her come to him on her own time and clearly doesn’t push. He said it’s “really up to you” when she asked if he wanted to talk about it now. He’s too good to her 😭😭
@@Wadinginlifeswaters she never said keep him away forever. Just that she would want to be the one to keep the child for most of the time meaning that the child would live with her .
Why are you trying to explain their status on the situation when they haven't even explained it ? Also, what happens is their business and not ours because it's THEIR child. I don't see how any of this would affect you anyways. Get a life please and stop focusing on other
@@Wadinginlifeswaters still not your place to tell them what's right or wrong. Whatever happens to them happens and your opinion doesn't matter to them at all LMAO. They're just getting more successful while you cry over their statues
It's conversations like these that make me doubt Artem actually put his hands on her. SHE is always the drama queen who is aggressive. She runs over Artem whereas John put her in her place.
Omg I’ve always wondered about this! They seemed like party girls and so am I and have put my self in not the best situations but doesn’t mean we deserve to be taken advantage of!
When Nikki tells Artem about the rape, I think that should have been discussed during their dating phase that is when you know if this relationship might be the one. So you open up and discuss all your hopes and dreams and all your life experiences. Not after you have a baby together and engaged it just can ruin everything. Then you end up being a Single mom with no relationship with the baby's father. And everyone loses.
Thank God you made it through that storm. My heart breaks for you 💔. I have been there so I know the feeling. So very proud of you and to know that you are now experiencing real joy with your beautiful baby boy and Artem❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Love you Nikki I hope you’re okay, being raped at such a young age those scars never leave you they’ll always be there but you did an amazing job with moving forward. I was very young when this happened to me so I get it
I lost mine by rape as well. So this really hit home. I thinks so so dope she talked about it on the show. It took me years to tell the people I loved.
So brave for Nikki to air this deep personal experience out in the public. Having dealt with this myself, seeing the episode when she first aired it, I broke down not only for her and her experience (being a celebrity and portraying such a happy-perfect bubbly life) but I guess it did something to me personally, bad memories etc. Ugg it just sucks that some people think they have the right to do these things to others. Thank you Nikki for being so BRAVE! and sharing something so deeply personal, you are helping so many other children/women/men just by sharing. Our voices are so powerful when we decide to use them for good. Lets stay strong together!
Its heart breaking to go through a stuff situation. May God heal your wound. Ur a beautiful momma. I luv how artem kisses all her face and tells her he loves her.
Thank you for talking about it. Having a daughter and being there before it scares me. The numbers are staggering of how many girls have been sexually assaulted before they turn 18. We as boy moms need to do better and stop making excuses for boys behavior badly.
Nikki this is not easy to talk about.I can relate to you .I not trying to take this away from you but i am glad you share.Thanks for sharing because you have just let other women know that they are not alone!
Oh this breaks my heart ❤ but I'm so very happy that you didn't let it take you down like it has so many others and I do pray for them, your an angel!xo
I love Nikki and let me just say Artem is an amazing man. Everything he says is supportive of her and their relationship. Im so happy to see her in this place.
Nikki, Since I start supporting you and Brie way back when I'm still 9 years old I know that there is something in you that women should be inspired of. And it's being strong. To all the hardness and toughness of the world, You, as a woman still stand up and continue the life cause life must go on. I just wanted to say that, You are a strong woman, I am so proud of you and never gonna turn my back on you whatever happens. I love you❤
What a terrible experience you’ve been through Nikki and others especially children who went through that experience. Thank God you have an amazing and supportive man like Artem. God bless you both and your handsome little Teo!!!
This is scary, I can’t imagine the pain Nikki must have gone through. I never liked parties, never went to one, this makes me even less interested in going. I know rape can happen anywhere, but there are places that it will most likely happen. Nikki is strong tho, takes courage to talk about sensitive topics, let alone talk about it publicly!
Anyone that rapes and sexually abuses a person is lower than gutter trash. I have zero empathy for those that inflict pain on others for self gratification and walk free. Those that have empathy for people that do this stuff are usually those that have never been through it so can chat a load of crap, until God forbid it happens to them.
I was raped in my 20s and I didn't admit it to myself til I was 38. He was a "friend" of my sisters boyfriend. At the time I was a single mother of two and couldn't afford to break down (had to stay strong for my babies) so I suppressed it for almost two decades. Being a Woman is tough. Maybe that's why God gave me two boys so I could raise them right. And that I did.
Nikki because you find the strength to talk about how you were raped as a teenager I admire you. It takes a lot for a victim of RAPE to come forward. I hope that by you speaking about what happened to you, victims of this vicious crime will come forward. We should also remember that it happens to both females and males. Thanks for sharing your story. 🙏🏻❤
I’ve never gone through anything like this and I’m grateful I haven’t but I really feel deeply for people that have gone through this woman, men and young children in general I have 3 family members that got harmed and to see how it affected 2 of them mentally thankfully they keep going on with life but I still feel the sorrow for them I find whenever that happens to people and they keep going in life they’re the most bravest people in the world it’s good seeing Nikki come out as it can help others in life but I feel deeply saddened for her glad to see she’s overcome that obstacle she’s a brave person like anyone else that’s gone through this 💕
i hate this was put on a reality show but it also shows strength for her and other women. i’m so sorry she went through that & i agree with what artem said, you can never really know what to say but be there for them.. but he’s such a real genuine man and i’m happy for them both.
"It was not my fault."
The thing we all need to remember. The ONLY thing that causes rape is a rapist. Quit blaming victims, we blame ourselves enough.
@Rules Of Engagement Wth? No, no no. She was a teen just at a party having fun with friends. She did not go to a guy, she did not lead them on and she had every right to dress however she wanted. She did not ask to be raped. It’s disgusting you’re blaming her.
Think about it this way. You’re having fun at a party, having a couple drinks. But then you start feeling dizzy, you feel panic kick in. Your body is out of control you can’t ask for help. Right before you pass out you know you’ve been drugged and can’t protect yourself in any way. You wake up and realize your being raped. What was slutty about that huh? Think before you say such a thing.
@Rules Of Engagement so cool and original of you to blame the victim. I was molested when I was 11 by my mom's boyfriend. I called her instead of the police, she didn't believe me. So I never spoke of it again for 10 years.
There is absolutely NO reason to lie about getting raped, there's no glory in it & it's not like it garners you sympathy, just a bunch of rude dickheads like yourself claiming she's a liar.
@Rules Of Engagement I'm sorry to say but your line if argument is idiotic
@@lydiafaye3647 I’m so so so sorry that you went through that. I hope you’re okay and happier with life now. Stay strong, beautiful woman ❤️
I notice you said "we", portraying yourself as a victim, if this is true, I'm sorry and please don't think all men are like this
People that rape other people are wicked. I feel bad for Nikki but I hope she can heal completely from her trauma
That's why I get enraged when people start blaming women for rape. Clinton, Trump, Epstein etc...we really have to own up to a culture that does not take rape seriously and the women who vote against legislation that would protect women.
She was raped at age 15😨😨😨
But at least she’s fearless
@@jccatalan2163 she said 16 and 17. It happened twice
@@jccatalan2163 some people have been at like the age of 7 or 10
I hope so too but when you go through something like that, it’s hard to ever completely get over it. The best you can do is to try and move on from it and with your life.
I was raped when I was 18. It took me years to move past it. I would cry, feel hate, sadness and guilt. I never told my mom and she still doesn't know... I'm 29 now. Thank you for sharing Nikki
Sending you all love and happiness. ❤️❤️🙏
I am so sorry that happened to you. That is no way your fault. I can't imagine what you are going through. You should not keep it in. Maybe when you are ready, go talk to a therapist? I lost my dad on Fathers Day and I am dealing with grief. I had a few great sessions with a therapist to cope and don't let the stimga of seeing a therapist deter you. It is actually a great thing. I learned alot and how to help deal with my grief/anger. Sending love!
I can relate to that but I was so little when it happened I was 8 years old an i just block it all out to be honest
I’m so sorry you’ve gone through that I have 3 family members who I won’t mention that have gone through what you have and to see the affects it has on 2 of my family members that went through it is horrible I can’t even imagine the pain and sorrow you felt I’m so sorry that had to happen to you I can’t offer much as I’ve never been in that position but I wish you the best in life and can only hope for more positive and good things to happen in your life going forward you are a brave person for sharing 💕😊
Hugggs! ❤️
this is so sad. its awful that many women go through this.
It’s not just woman yes majority of them are woman which is really sad and crap but it’s not just woman
Not really some of them ask for it
@@saxonkush2376 what is wrong with you
@@saxonkush2376 wth no one asked for it if they did it wouldn’t be called rape
Happens to boys and men
She’s so strong. She’s amazing. Her story made me feel safe enough to come out about being molested as a child. She’s brought me and so many others strength. What a woman.
I'm so sorry you went through that.
I was raped the first time I joined campus back in 2015 after I attended a party. I blame myself for being there but you know what I have a good support system so I've been fine over the years. Thank God
@@MissReen I’m so proud of you for getting through that! It is in no way, shape or form your fault. You did nothing wrong. You’ve got this!!
So sorry to hear❤️ Thank you for sharing.
Sorry that happened to you. You are so strong, thanks for telling your story.
It's disgusting how common situations are like this for women to have to go through. My heart goes out to anyone who has dealt with this
What happened?
Thank you
@@rebekahbrown4728 It’s literally in the title of the video. Nikki was raped two times.
Thank you❤️
Thank you!
Nikki is a strong woman! I am a huge fan regardless of what the haters say.
Me too
I love her so much
Me Too!
You are right!
Me too. Nikki Bella is a strong woman.
im so happy she is in a happy place of her life now, she deserves it all
You deserve it all. I hope the energy you put out, comes back to you. 100× more
Basically she can raise her son to be just like Artem. People probably thought her commitment issues came from John but they went way back for her. I'm happy she's doing better now.
And people said she's kinda self absorbed. Well yeah I would be too if I held something in for 20 years
I agree
@@Wadinginlifeswaters there was more to that conversation. Gotta watch it when it shows
@@Wadinginlifeswaters maybe it was a hypothetical talk? And artem has agreed during the talk? Don't judge until you know everything
@@Wadinginlifeswaters Thank you! Finally someone sees it. She just wanted to be a mom. After Cena she settled
At first I was like, this is weird to put in a reality show, shouldn't she keep this private? But then I realized, no, this is incredibly brave and vulnerable to put out in public. So many r*pe victims feel alone and like they have to stay silent and in the shadows and Nikki is being open and upfront about how this has affected her and her real fears about sharing this with her partner. I hope her bravery inspires others to know they are not alone.
yes and to think people blame the victims just disgust me
Well, she put it in her book first, so it was already public. But you are so right, that is why it was so brave and powerful for her to share, both in her book and on the show.
It’s all fake
@krob2327 her being raped is real
Artem said he had no idea what to say...yet said absolutely the sweetest thing that it won't change his mind about Nikki and that he loves her and accepts her
She said that “a friend” took her virginity. That’s not a friend of they took advantage of her while she was unconscious. I remember being at a party with a friend and she had a little too much to drink. I sobered up real quick realizing that I needed to watch out and take care of her. Some guy (don’t remember who he was) offered to take care of her. I told him no and I that I had it taken care of. I try not to drink too much around people I don’t know.
You’re a real friend, it’s so nice to hear that there’s people like you looking out for a friend. ❤️
Maybe don't drink at all when your around people you don't know just saying
@@rosemaryerives9026 then that means that no one should ever drink anywhere also you sound like you are blaming her
@@courts1436 well women need to learn personal responsibility.
@@samg873 men need to learn to not rape
So happy she has artem now! They are meant for each other.
Artem seems like such a quality person
So true.
@little bit of everything I love it.
@@jlewis122 is do x
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Gosh, can’t imagine going through this. It shows how strong she is. (And not to bash JC really) but for her to be so in love with him and him make her sign a relationship pre nup (not even mariage, just to be a guest in his home, which he made clear was HIS) - she just wanted to be loved. That shows how strong and brave she is and how she keeps getting back up. And now she trusts again and she’s found a man whose saying “I’m here no matter what” and “her past doesn’t change how I feel about her” - it’s so much healthier than “oh I won’t marry you, I will but no kids, no I won’t, decide now” I’m so happy for her
He dint make her sign the prenup as she she could have left him. She also knew from the very beginning he dint want marriage or kids but she kept dating him. So she not a victim
@@rachelwalsh6116 I never said she was a victim. I said she was strong. And her past trauma makes her want to be loved. Neither of those are bad things. (And she is a victim from unfortunately and heartbreakingly being raped twice)
And also yes, he did not physically force her to sign - but when you’ve been through stuff such as traumatic as being raped and god - twice: sometimes it alters your brain on what your version of love is and sometimes you’ll do stuff to keep people in your life even if it makes you sad - because you just want love, at any (for lack of a better word) “cost”.
@@katherinetusa181 I feel for her too on being raped. I just don't believe cena was wrong as he was honest with her from the very beginning.
@@rachelwalsh6116 I clearly said I was not bashing Cena. I just don’t agree with how he treated her. I don’t feel it’s good to say stuff like “You’re not even on the list” when talking about life altering decisions, the fact he asked her to sign that thing at all, and many others. I didn’t like the way it looked and I’m saying Nikki looks way happier and healthier and Artem is in my eyes a better match.
@@katherinetusa181 he had very restrict rules witch was idioulous. Now the prenum i understood after he explained it. He was taking care of his mom and family and after what happened with his ex wife then it was completely understandable asking her to sign a prenum. Yes she looks happier but she even said you dont know what happens behind closed doors after it was said a dancing with the stars pro and wife are divorcing. She and artem having some issues as she said they going to couples therapy after he gets done with dancing with the Stars. I sometimes things she donst treat artem right.
Unfortunately i think every woman goes through some kind of assault in their lives. Its disgusting
I did at 6
Not really
I agree... most probably do. I was touched inappropriately by my friends dad
Men's too, every person, men's women's, all got raped.
:( I hate peeps sometimes what can we do to confront assaulters more so to stop this from occurring
I think that it is really powerful that she has realised that she's been blessed with a son for a reason , thank you for speaking about it Nicole, you are powerful beyond measure. And to Artem - I really hope that we aren't looking through rose coloured glasses. You are the perfect gentleman ♥️
It is sad that she grew up thinking it was her fault. She was scared to go to cops. Artem still loves her.
All women deserve a man like Artem.
@@Wadinginlifeswaters yeah the woman he has
Artem literally didn’t say anything to her. He just looked at her....Y’all give so much credit to attractive white men and they give y’all the bare minimum and get away with it cause you can’t stop that WAP 😂
Brayden Harris yes seem to be he didn’t even care
@@braydentheslayer when someone tells you some thing like that happened to them, it's not exactly easy to know what to say
@@braydentheslayer actually he does say he’s sorry.
I really admire this woman to have the courage to share something so personal and helping other victims
This is so traumatic I’m so happy for her she seems to have come to some kind of peace with her past and is ready to move on to her future
This guy is Heavenly sent... Women need more people like him in our world today.. because some people judge us based on our past .. Overall he is an Angel. God bless you
Nikki is a strong woman. I don’t care what the haters say about her. Nikki is beautiful and has a heart of gold.
Ik
@loucia I agree!
Anyone else just LOVE and adore how patient he is with her!!!? 🥺😭💞 Ugh, Artem is perfect for her!
Nikki is so strong, and Artem is such a gentle soul.
Artem is such a sweet soul. They both deserved the happiness in life. Nikki, u have a good man right there don't let him go. ❤️🙂
Yeah, he loves her. They both seems like very secure, deeper-than-average people, so that's good!.. So sorry that she went through this. Just because a Woman is unusually Beautiful --that's NOT EVER a "Green light"!!... :/
The way he kissed her face its very gentle and it shows connection and bond
My heart brakes watching this, i love how far shes come and how happy she is now
I’m not gone lie , I wanted her to keep this off the media because of the rudeness out here but I love how strong you are Nikki stay fearless
She was very fearless in telling her story. In all fairness, she did include it in the book. I know she will be a great mom and raise her son to be the most loving and respectful man.
I never knew she went through this ... I kinda appreciate Nikki for her opening up and how matured she explain her situation ... I legit cried rape is horrible 😥😥😥💔💔
I was raped when I was 12yrs old by the Male of a couple I used to babysit for across the street. I didnt say anything until I was 14. He got 6months in jail and ended up moving down the street from me after he got out. Still see him everywhere and our kids oddly enough go to school together. I still freeze and shut down to this day every time that day comes around. It's a struggle everyday but I can relate to her
How old are u now also I’m srry that that happened to u no one should ever go through that!
The majority of women on this earth have gone through this horrible trauma at least once and for her to have to deal with that twice, I looked up to Nikki my whole life and knowing she too sadly went through simular pain. It connects her to her fans more personally than before. I respect that she came forward. 💯 🙌 🙏 Love you Nikki.
It truly is a time for healing.
Blessings to you and your family.
Wow my heart breaks for her. So sorry to hear something like this happened to you.
My heart broke because of John. Dammit John ☹☹😭😭
Xhesian Mulgeci bruh it’s nothing to do with John have some respect
@@rihannabish79 do not talk to me about respect
Xhesian Mulgeci just did
She is so strong it's admirable seeing her comfortable enough to share this. I know how difficult it is to talk about as I have been sexually assaulted many times and still struggle on a daily basis with blaming myself so seeing this and hearing her talk about her story is really comforting to me
The way he loves her and listens to her. I Love it
The saddest part is that this happens all the time. 💔
This is so sad. I know it must been so hard to talk about it, but I'm glad she's telling Artem about it.
They are perfect for each other artem is perfect for nicole
@@Wadinginlifeswaters that is cap
I'm so happy she has decided to come public with this it will help so many people out there. I had the same situation as her when I was 16. I didn't even utter the words till I was 22 and then a similar situation occurred when I was 27 and I was assaulted by my boss.
It takes great courage to talk about these things. I'm so proud of her for using her platform to shed light on her pain and to see how strong she is being... Makes me want to cry and hug her so closely.
To anyone who has experienced any kind of trauma, assault, harrasment, rape..... I am sending you so many healing vibes... We are not victims we are survivors and we are strong and worthy ❤️
That’s what I call a true man , I was raped in my own homes it took me a long time to tell anyone, the hardest person to tell my dad, he held me and said it’s wasn’t your faults .
The kisses at the end .... awwwwww Artem !!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wow. This really hit me hard. I’m crying. I love how brave Nicole is. And I love how sweet Artem is. 🥺
I do admire how artem comforted her after her telling him what happened and just her being vulnerable with him that takes a lot for her to talk about it
Oh... she’s in a good place with him ❤️ melts my heart!
With her first story when she was 15, this happened to me (but I was 19). And I thought I was alone. She's so brave for talking about it publicly.
I was raped in 2017 and I got pregnant and i decided to put the baby up for adoption and my ex boyfriend wasn't really there for me through it and wasn't there when I gave birth and went through depression and we been on break for 2 years but im now in a more happier place with a more understanding guy who makes me happy
I’m so so sorry that happened u are so so strong and I’m so happy u have settled :( u deserve all the happiness in the world
I’m so glad your happy now!!
@@ryanboss8958 thank you very much and thank you for the support 💞
Wow
More blessings sister
You have Artem and Mateo now Nikki, everything will be ok❤️
that moment at the end was absolutely beautiful and his love language is touch you can tell through the way he uses his kisses to convey what he couldn't through words.
So proud of her for sharing a story so many people sweep under the rug. Awareness is always good to share out of experiences like that we love you Nikki
I love this couple! I respect how transparent the twins are about their lives and use their platform to shine a light on important issues, truly beautiful on the inside out
Omg this is sad yo.....what she said though about growing Matteo into a good man to know how to respect woman is so amazing!!! Keep going!
she’s such a strong woman i’m so angry that that’s happened to her.
Nikki it's so wonderful that you have a man like Artem that listens and loves you with all his heart! Communication is so important! 💙❤
I’m so sorry you went through all that. You are so blessed to have found a wonderful man that truly loves you. I just love the way he loves you, it’s amazing!
Nikki, I’m so sorry you went through that... We ❤️ you and support you!!!! Please know you are not alone.
Artem is such a perfect guy for Nikki. Such an understanding man... Glad Nikki was able to talk to Artem. Such a good couple.
They are so sweet! I am glad she feels safe and comfortable to open up to him.
Artem is such a great guy for making nikki feel secure and protected always :)
HE IS SO UNDERSTANDING
I love how artem loves Nikki no matter what she has gone through.
Im glad she has finally found happiness. Artem seems like a really great guy and their baby is the absolute CUTEST!
I was raped at 16 again then a couple of times as I grew up you never get over it 😭 it's hard but you have to keep going stay strong Nikki 🥰
Omg that is heart breaking! Nobody should have to go through that. Love and light to you Bella Queen.
I looooove that he’s letting her come to him on her own time and clearly doesn’t push. He said it’s “really up to you” when she asked if he wanted to talk about it now. He’s too good to her 😭😭
@@Wadinginlifeswaters it's her baby that she pushed out of her, if they break up she deserves to keep the child.
@@Wadinginlifeswaters she never said keep him away forever. Just that she would want to be the one to keep the child for most of the time meaning that the child would live with her .
Why are you trying to explain their status on the situation when they haven't even explained it ? Also, what happens is their business and not ours because it's THEIR child. I don't see how any of this would affect you anyways. Get a life please and stop focusing on other
@@Wadinginlifeswaters still not your place to tell them what's right or wrong. Whatever happens to them happens and your opinion doesn't matter to them at all LMAO. They're just getting more successful while you cry over their statues
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It's conversations like these that make me doubt Artem actually put his hands on her. SHE is always the drama queen who is aggressive. She runs over Artem whereas John put her in her place.
Omg I’ve always wondered about this! They seemed like party girls and so am I and have put my self in not the best situations but doesn’t mean we deserve to be taken advantage of!
When Nikki tells Artem about the rape, I think that should have been discussed during their dating phase that is when you know if this relationship might be the one. So you open up and discuss all your hopes and dreams and all your life experiences. Not after you have a baby together and engaged it just can ruin everything. Then you end up being a Single mom with no relationship with the baby's father. And everyone loses.
You can see how artem tears up and So proud of her and how far she’s come❤️
This really shows how we don’t know what happens in someone’s life
Thank God you made it through that storm. My heart breaks for you 💔. I have been there so I know the feeling. So very proud of you and to know that you are now experiencing real joy with your beautiful baby boy and Artem❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Love you Nikki I hope you’re okay, being raped at such a young age those scars never leave you they’ll always be there but you did an amazing job with moving forward. I was very young when this happened to me so I get it
He is so supportive awewww
I lost mine by rape as well. So this really hit home. I thinks so so dope she talked about it on the show. It took me years to tell the people I loved.
So brave for Nikki to air this deep personal experience out in the public. Having dealt with this myself, seeing the episode when she first aired it, I broke down not only for her and her experience (being a celebrity and portraying such a happy-perfect bubbly life) but I guess it did something to me personally, bad memories etc. Ugg it just sucks that some people think they have the right to do these things to others. Thank you Nikki for being so BRAVE! and sharing something so deeply personal, you are helping so many other children/women/men just by sharing. Our voices are so powerful when we decide to use them for good. Lets stay strong together!
Its heart breaking to go through a stuff situation. May God heal your wound. Ur a beautiful momma. I luv how artem kisses all her face and tells her he loves her.
Thank you for talking about it. Having a daughter and being there before it scares me. The numbers are staggering of how many girls have been sexually assaulted before they turn 18. We as boy moms need to do better and stop making excuses for boys behavior badly.
Nikki this is not easy to talk about.I can relate to you .I not trying to take this away from you but i am glad you share.Thanks for sharing because you have just let other women know that they are not alone!
This is really sad no one should have to experience something like especially losing there virginity like this
So sweet how he listened then comforted her with a bunch of kisses ♥️ love them together
Oh this breaks my heart ❤ but I'm so very happy that you didn't let it take you down like it has so many others and I do pray for them, your an angel!xo
I love Nikki and let me just say Artem is an amazing man. Everything he says is supportive of her and their relationship. Im so happy to see her in this place.
Nikki, Since I start supporting you and Brie way back when I'm still 9 years old I know that there is something in you that women should be inspired of. And it's being strong. To all the hardness and toughness of the world, You, as a woman still stand up and continue the life cause life must go on. I just wanted to say that, You are a strong woman, I am so proud of you and never gonna turn my back on you whatever happens. I love you❤
Been through it. It is hard to tell a loved one about it.
There is no way for him to "say the right thing"... Just be supportive.
It’s very good to get this stuff out
What a terrible experience you’ve been through Nikki and others especially children who went through that experience. Thank God you have an amazing and supportive man like Artem. God bless you both and your handsome little Teo!!!
he's a sweetheart omg.
This is scary, I can’t imagine the pain Nikki must have gone through. I never liked parties, never went to one, this makes me even less interested in going. I know rape can happen anywhere, but there are places that it will most likely happen. Nikki is strong tho, takes courage to talk about sensitive topics, let alone talk about it publicly!
She’s so strong! And I love her and artem together he’s so sweet 🥰
Anyone that rapes and sexually abuses a person is lower than gutter trash. I have zero empathy for those that inflict pain on others for self gratification and walk free. Those that have empathy for people that do this stuff are usually those that have never been through it so can chat a load of crap, until God forbid it happens to them.
I was raped in my 20s and I didn't admit it to myself til I was 38. He was a "friend" of my sisters boyfriend. At the time I was a single mother of two and couldn't afford to break down (had to stay strong for my babies) so I suppressed it for almost two decades. Being a Woman is tough. Maybe that's why God gave me two boys so I could raise them right. And that I did.
Nikki because you find the strength to talk about how you were raped as a teenager I admire you. It takes a lot for a victim of RAPE to come forward. I hope that by you speaking about what happened to you, victims of this vicious crime will come forward. We should also remember that it happens to both females and males. Thanks for sharing your story. 🙏🏻❤
They are absolutely an amazing couple .God bless them and their family always .
I teared up...growing up watching the Bella's it just make my heart hurt :(
I 💘 love how supportive and caring he is towards her!
Artem is so sweet it's not his fault and he said sorry
Nikki is so lucky to have Artem! Put a ring on that man alreadyy lol
they engaged
@@abbieconnie2012 im pretty aware of that.
@@qrstuv9558 then your comment is kinda stupid
@@TropicalMonney then you’re pretty dumb if you don’t get what im trying to say lmao. 40 other people seems to get it.
@@qrstuv9558 yep coz technically he put a ring on her now she needs to put a ring on him, right after walking down that aisle 😆
Artem we looóoooooooove so much for loving our Nicole
Awww he is so sweet to Nikki I am happy she finally got a real man that makes her feel so special u r beautiful girl
I’ve never gone through anything like this and I’m grateful I haven’t but I really feel deeply for people that have gone through this woman, men and young children in general I have 3 family members that got harmed and to see how it affected 2 of them mentally thankfully they keep going on with life but I still feel the sorrow for them I find whenever that happens to people and they keep going in life they’re the most bravest people in the world it’s good seeing Nikki come out as it can help others in life but I feel deeply saddened for her glad to see she’s overcome that obstacle she’s a brave person like anyone else that’s gone through this 💕
LOVING THIS COUPLE. HE A REAL MAN. NIKKI YOUR STORY will help so many girls. Bless you and your family.
She use to get that uncomfortable look a lot when she was with john
Really? Even normal conversation too? I'm curious.
yeah generally she would just always look uncomfortable with john
i hate this was put on a reality show but it also shows strength for her and other women. i’m so sorry she went through that & i agree with what artem said, you can never really know what to say but be there for them.. but he’s such a real genuine man and i’m happy for them both.