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- Опубліковано 15 вер 2024
- The plaintiff says the defendant got pregnant three months after they started dating, but he claims she still flirted and texted with other men. He’s suing his ex for a loan and emotional distress. The defendant says the plaintiff stalked her on social media, and she alleges he had another woman on the side. She denies owing him for anything.
#JudgeMathis #RealityTV #Court
I hate when people claims somebody stalked them on social media like the block option isn't there
Right
😂
You must’ve not understand how stalking works. People will create many accounts just to access the person they’re stalking. I’ve blocked someone multiple times and they just create more accounts. I also have seen women make fake pages to taunt other women. Be realistic
Most times people make fake social media accounts..so cyber stalking is valid
But if someone is truly stalking you then they’ll create fake accounts
"After I got pregnant, he was still cheating.'' If he was cheating when y'all were only dating for 3 months, why continue to be with him?
Sometimes it's easier than walking away facts. Me and my partner been thru something's but we made it work. Blessings.
She was young herself. She was innocent and trusting. This is a problem for many girls.
@@filmtressmu8552 Facts me and my partner both were young but we made it work. Blessings.
Because she loved him 🙄
@@Crystal-Love more than she loved herself? clearly.
The end conversation prove exactly what judge Mathis was saying. He's saying he takes care of his child. Then she's saying he doesn't pay what he says he do. He better put himself on child support.
WOMEN!!!
If he didn’t take care of his child tht should had been the first an main thing tht he don’t take care of his child an her body language example her guilt🤦🏾♂️
Saying things like “he wouldn’t take no for an answer” can be really damaging. Especially when she clearly wasn’t bothered by his flirting, because instead of blocking him, she linked. He better cover his ass, she seems vindictive.
Damn in his case he better put himself on child support especially if she's on bulshit.
Taking care of the child IS child support. It’s crazy how they treat good fathers
Precisely.. I am strongly opposed to JM suggesting this guy put himself on child support. A man should Stay Away from the system. If he's paying daycare expenses, assisting with clothing, etc. then he's supporting the child. The child support system was created so state's could recoup welfare expenditures. It is not intended to benefit women and children.
this is how good fathers can get in trouble. How do u not understand that. The woman can easily say she never got anything from the father..i hope he takes JM advice seriously
@@bigtank6465 u dumber than a brick wall...i aint even American and I understand this. If he was on child support he would be spending less on the child and have paperwork showing he paid for his child. he lucky the child jus 1yr old. 17yrs down the line the mother can easily say he didnt pay nothing and sue him for all those years.
Just sad I see this happen so much to good fathers
Because.a.woman.can.take.him.to.court.and.say.he.never.gave.her.anything.Putting.him.on.child.support.protects.the.man.Not.to.mention.is.stops.the.woman.from.taking.advantage@@bigtank6465
I like the defendant. She's too cute. The plaintiff is respectable to the judge and a cutie pie. They both were too young for adulting.
Adult ingredients. You just made a new word! I'm gonna start using it. Lol
They grown! 20 & 19
Legally adults!
@@andrejamal5438legally maybe not mentally! 😟
The plaintiff definitely shot himself in the foot pursuing and getting the defendant pregnant. She across as simple minded and a big cheat.
Well, you gotta pick one. A cheat ain’t simple minded. He stuck fa life. He the simple one.
Sounds like he was cheating in the beginning and that’s when she started cheating too. The best kept secret from serial cheating men is their wives and gfs are always doing their dirt and not getting caught too. Nobody’s ego can take that long term without getting your lick back
He better stop being a simp for her and she thinks she cute 😒
It’s crazy how you can meet someone let them enter you unprotected knowing them less than a year and getting pregnant it’s mind blowing to me
U a good girl 👏
😂😂. Folks are “entering” the same night unprotected
@@sblaque07 😂😂😂
Many women doing that...unbelievable!
@@sblaque07 😂😂😅
The way the lady in the red shirt looked at her when she walked past. 😅
Them cougars be hating on us youngins lol
Lmaoo I just looked back didn't even notice
😂😂😂
The lady in red looked her up and down.
That was an ole school look! Chile what u doing on here! That was not a hating on look.
He's a good father, he just needs to know better.
I agree ❤
He wouldn't take no for an answer...girl that's weak. Block and delete. You both wanted each other. If he's a good father and supports his daughter be thankful and move on.
She’s raggedy. He didn’t have to take out that loan. She doesn’t know the blessing she has…plz wake up baby girl.
😂😂🤣 "raggedy" 🤣🤣🤣😂 the accuracy!! Raggedy as a mf!
She looks dishonest
Where should the child be living at and who is mean to pay for it??
He’s raggedy too. Lol
We ain’t skip over the fact that he was in a relationship raw dogging his girlfriend and other women who had his phone number…. enough for them to say that he got them pregnant… that’s out of line & dangerous. And she was pregnant at the time? 🤢🤢🤢
Aside from him assisting with their daughter which is the BAREA MINIMUM, what makes him a blessing? When he doesn’t respect her. He said she was cheating but failed to mention he was allegedly another woman’s baby daddy
They were BOTH cheating. So why are you only calling HER raggedy???
If I was him i will get DNA to make sure that child is his.
💯
Go get on child support. People act like they’re out here paying Rick Ross prices for child support. I guarantee you’re not gonna be paying enough for a woman or man (depending on who’s getting the child support) to live off of what you’re ordered to pay.
Right, dudes be ducking that 78 dollar a month child support order.
Child support is cheaper than dealing with a headache woman.
@@thatlsk my cousin is a female and has been dodging 42$ a month for 3 years because she’s mad at her bd.
That whole spill on child support smh…JM just put that girl on game and now she finna get that back pay. I would’ve been in there like “please STfU, your honor”
As she should. Are you a deadbeat and is that why you see an issue with it?
But it’s common knowledge . If it’s not in court it’s not child support . I know someone now their child is in their 40s who pays the mother money to this day because of that he always paid out of child support
It was also better for him to know though, because that is a decision she could make at any time.
@@piinkam0r Not so common. It's assumed that we are taught the system as we should be, but that's not the case at all.
Its better for him to know when the child is only one years old than to wait until the child is 7 or 8 then the back pay would really be high!!
“How old were y’all when you started dating? You look…. SHE looks young.”
I caught that too
They both look young
@@wintersantiago2274 They do. Ol Greg was low key throwing shade.
Well the young man was a cutie. Favors Usher
if he is paying the day care directly, it would not be considered a gift because they give receipts and it's a tax write off.
So basically she got pregnant by a stranger she meet on social media? Smh
That’s the game now…happens a lot had a few of my friends meet people from the internet and make kids
It goes both ways. He impregnated her so you need to be judging him like you’re judging her.
To be honest everybody is a stranger I don’t care if you met them at church they can be the worst ones in fact I don’t know doesn’t matter how long you’ve known him you never truly know a person so she did three months that’s on her you could do 10 years five years three years and still be with a person who is exactly like her have a great day
@@XxiliketwinkiesxX a man can’t have sexy with a woman if she doesn’t open her legs
she got off easy..he didnt slit her throat and leave her for dead !!
She just wanted a baby and a free ride. I think she believes being pretty will get her through life. He needs to stop having unprotected sex and officially get on child support. Focus on growing money not throwing money.
She could have gotten with someone older, more emotionally mature and with a far better job if she was looking for money.
Greetings what made you think that he had unprotected sex they were two people him and her so you’re saying they both had unprotected sex or did the condom break or did the birth control pill not work properly it happens happy Monday
@@eris1279 she dont want no 😁old man
3 months and already popping out a baby. What’s wrong with people? 😢
It was a mutual decision 🤷🏽♀️
@@Alex-sq3kp I never said it was a one way street.
she got off easy ...
Tricks are for Kids, you got her with tricks and lost with tricks, now yall both stuck in a tricky situation...🤦🏿🤦🏿🤷🏿
Damn!!! Sad situation
I know a few people who don't involve the court for child support. I wish more parents could do that. The court doesn't always need to be involved
True! Any smart primary parent knows time is worth more any way
Exactly no one was there to tell you how to have sex so they shouldn't have to be there to tell you how to take care of responsibilities
If you can worked for my family.
@@reneerenee5073 time and financial support are both necessary
AMEN
imagine getting pregnant by someone who wouldn't take no for an answer
Exactly
Then moving in with him, paying no bills then getting a loan from and continuing to take over $1000 a month in support for her and the kid. Imagine that??? Oh... no Imagination required. Its happening.
I wish them both the best
Young Love or Young Lust ?! 🤔😯🤔
You should be the one adding the titles to their vids 👏🙌
I hate to say, that man should have ate that $1500 cause her next stop is straight to child support court; if she hasn't already started the process
He refuses to take no for an answer? Sounds like something to go to prison for... 🥶
Righttttt
Then moving in with him, paying no bills then getting a loan from and continuing to take over $1000 a month in support for her and the kid. Imagine that??? Oh... no Imagination required. Its happening.
He just had a strong interest in her
She wasn’t bothered by his persistence because she could’ve easily blocked him. Instead she linked with him.
Maybe it's just me...I grew up in a era where No means No - like in a date rape situation or Perhaps stalking. Whenever I heard No I kept it moving 💯
She gives me "I'm a slick cheater" vibes.
Judge Mathis always keeps it real and dishes out sound advice.
&& he better listen. Bc the ending told me she will do exactly what JM said. No ur honor I’ve never received a dime from him & he gone owe her $15K
That is not sound advice! If a man takes care of his children don’t lie to the court stating he don’t. Perjury is 5yrs in jail I wish they would put that on these lying ass women
Chile please. Always gives unwarranted or unwanted advise. He’s an asshole!! Period!!
If you met her by Flirting why would you not expect others to dig her too
Facts. Most folks got options period.
Why Judge Mathis don't believe her testimony 🤔
He looks like Usher from the side..👁️
Immaturity. I hope they both survive it for the sake of their child.
It's amazing how greedy some women get when it comes to the kids, if the father is in the child's life and plus spending as much as her and even more than her then why worry about how much money he spending, seems to me like she was trying to make a good guy look bad for no reason..
People need to love themselves and value your body more.. and all you need in life is yourself and GOD ✊🏿
Those two were just young and caught up into playing house now the reality has set in it’s not that fun with a kid and a detached relationship
Exactly! You got to the core of the matter!
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 that part!
Judge is ridiculous. He believes him but not her?? 🙄
He believed her up until she said he told her to stay at home and be pregnant and he going to do this and that. Majority of us with common sense was believing her and still do about the text messages. We don’t believe a man like him was bold enough to tell a pregnant woman that he going to cheat and she need to stay home. She reached on that part, which hurt her credibility.
Me too
Damn u mad. You definitely are single
@@techoperatives2232 👀well damn 😂😂😂
@@britanimckinney1964 I know men who have that agreement with women. The man takes care of all the financial needs the woman takes care of home and gets taken care of. In exchange the man gets to play. Now granted they're dope boys but it does happen
She’s very pretty & sadly he’s a fool because he’s a playboy as well.🤦🏽♂️
cute but no brains....
She was a real big flirt but you continued to pursue her...smh these people have all this stuff going on !!! And to immature to be in relationship. This is why men need to do it through the courts !!!
Women like this always think they can do better until they meet Pookie & Ray-ray...
Realistically, she can do better. She’s going to have to clean up her act and mature though. That vindictive nasty behavior is fun and games when you’re immature, but no one quality will deal with that longterm
@@eris1279 She has a man spending more on expenses for their child than if he would be if he was under child support.
She will easily find someone else but will she find someone of this nature? It’ll be tough for het
My ? Is is he the father 🤷🏾
The best thing this man can do is “PUT HISSELF” on child support and take care of your daughter and leave this woman right ALONE
Himself**
Wow, even at the end he was like I still love u and u know that I'm a great father and here her ungrateful ass still knocking him down smh🤦
His cheatin ahh ain’t shit so what u mean??? He ain’t innocent
All she said was they share the amount he claimed to pay all of. A “knock down” is saying he’s a deadbeat who pays nothing and goes missing when she knows that’s not true. Men aren’t super dads for doing the bare minimum.
we don’t know what his level of involvement is with the child
After all the stuff he said about her in the courtroom, her reaction is valid. You are beyond s t u p ! d for that statement.
You dnt know what really goes on behind doors
Wow. Her knocking him for paying only half of the day care(if that’s even true) & trying to downplay his capabilities as a dad is very sad to see. Even if he was only paying half the daycare he is a hell of a lot more then some of these young fathers out here do. He seems like a hard worker & a provider, she should be grateful to have his help at all & that he didn’t just disappear on them. A good chunk of young men who have kids out of wedlock before they’re even able to legally drink aren’t very present & do not help financially, shit some won’t even claim the child. So her downplaying his parenting shows more about her then it does about him IMO.
Typical for women like her. When the relationship fails, he's all of a sudden the worst father ever. Lol that's why it's important to have children with women of good character and integrity. And vice versa. It's better for the kids whether the relationship works out or not
@@Big_Bake I couldn’t agree with you more! It’s sad how bitter people can get after a break up when it involves kids, they think they’re only hurting their ex but are punishing their kids in the process. My mom was that type of woman, used to put my dad down to my face as if it wouldn’t bother me at all. Thankfully it made me want to be the complete opposite for my kids.
@@angelastone4806 And the kids pick up on that stuff just like you did. Because in the end, kids love their parents and they don't want to hear all that negativity
@@Big_Bake Absolutely! Not going to lie, the things my mom said about my father weren’t factually wrong a majority of the time. But as a child it just wasn’t my business nor should it have been dumped on me the way it was/shouldn’t be dumped on any child!
i don’t think i will ever understand couples looking at each other’s text messages? i’m more than 6 decades on this earth and my hubby and i had our 28th anniversary this year. we know each other’s passwords for our cell phones and Ipads, etc but i seriously can’t imagine bothering to have a peak at his text messages? if i felt that way our relationship would be Done. i honestly think people just like stupid drama!? smdh crazy
Exactly. And u should know. Congrats on making it almost 30 years by the way
Cheaper to keep her....get her back and work it out.
HOW HAS HER CREDIBILITY BEEN DAMAGED BECAUSE HE SAID THAT HE DIDN'T SAY IT? HE COULD BE LYING.
If JM would allow people to speak sometimes, he would’ve caught the plaintiff in a lie. He asked a direct question about if he told the defendant to stay home and take his toxic ways (in so many ways) but judge cut him off before he finished not allowing him to get caught in his lie.
So she dated, lived with, then gave her "stalker" a baby. 🙄
Child support doesn't make you a great father. Why would she even fix her mouth to say something so stupid 😒
The both of you were two young to be living together in an relationship, eighteen and nineteen, where were their parents. Most of ALL having a Baby too why didn’t they USE Birth Control to alleviate the situation. 🤷🏽♀️
Truth be told not much you can do once they turn 18. Talk and pray for them. Blessings.
Moral of the story is, don't have kids until you get married!!
These womenz are a mess. Leave them alone. They are trouble. Per Antoinette
😂😂😂You beat me to it ❤
Forgive me for being nosey but who is Antoinette???
@@scottrogue946 🤣😂😂😂
@@symontemplar1418 I’ll have Scott explain it to you - please explain Scott.
@@scottrogue946 please explain to the other person.
Just look at the lady wearing the red floral dress when the defendant walked in.
She probably thought she looked adorable
In the end she down played him and said that he wasn’t that great of a father. Sad
It’s crazy how everybody in the comments are getting on her when he was cheating as well and never denied it either.
Yep, bc taking your child to another man house while u live at home with the father is equivalent smh
Because sadly, men are always excuses of cheating.
Too young for this bs.
"Three months after dating her she got pregnant"... Translation: No, sir; you got her pregnant - I can assure you she didn't do that to herself.
LOOOL true.
"I got pregnant and after that the road just went down hill from that.."
Poor little baby.. Smfh You went down hill, the baby was a blessing no matter how it happened..
Why these judges always tell men pay child support, why can't they tell them get custody 50:50 then do child support. Them numbers get real different plus you raising your child. Men be men
Even when the man is present physically and financially… he still can’t win smh
"He stalked me" and I had his child.... Sounds like a pot of bull💩 to me!!
He should've let her keep that money and called it gift cause now she's really about to put him on child support.
Oh' Yeah, He did ALL that and then some. He act's like he's entitled. . .
Where did you see all of that and if he did she admittedly was cheating also.
@@FinDom1 right cause what did we miss
The Young Lady did what she did out of Hurt and Confusion; She really never thought Dude would DO what He did to Her. He tried to make lite of it, like it was something they just both do. That really wasn't the Case, He knows he really hurt that Young Lady. Folks can listen to his foolish behind if they want too. The Young Lady needs to step away, there's no telling What he has.🤔
@@ANGELAKCLAY she could have left
@@eris1279 Sometimes, easier said than done. The same guy that cared SO much; is now the same guy that could care less. All that play'in WIFE to some dude' Not FOR REAL. Women need to know and learn they're WORTH.
She said she pays half of the daycare at the end, why didn't she speak up and say that???
I actually believe her when she says he said that to her about wanting to sleep with other women. My ex said that same thing to me.
At the age he was, he was either going to straight up say it or do it and not say anything. Men that age aren’t ready to settle down
Exactly. People will be amazed at how bold and disrespectful some men really are
That's so foul knowing that woman can decide to say a guy isn't doing anything then go back & get money dam near double jeopardy
Exactly why I don’t want kids that’s ridiculous
I would say that having a sexual relationship, getting pregnant, having boundaries that denote exclusiveness is NOT DATING. Dating is not a relationship. Maybe there needs to be a meeting of the minds on definitions.
If I cover daughter expenses why should I pay child support. This Man love that word 🤦🏿♂️
I always tell my son’s dating is just that dating…until you make a woman your wife you both have the right to do what you want the law doesn’t recognize bf/gf…all the going through the phones &nd you cheating on me…you want someone all for you marry them…
Bet he is a great father you just felt entitled to the loan and didn't want to pay
Once again young men please be careful of who you lay down with and impregnate because you will go through hell if it’s the wrong young lady and most of all the child suffers yet again. JM has put some thoughts in her head and now she’s gonna use it against him in court. She already started in the hallway at the end saying he doesn’t pay all of the daycare fees and he’s not the good father he said he is. SMH
she said he pays half the daycare fees, like he should, not the whole thing as he led judge mathis to believe. I hope after having two kids at 20 by two different women he’s learned his lesson
How is her credibility sucks when he was cheating ? Like how has that became a disagreement …
Double standards. It’s looked down on when a woman cheats but a man can cheat all he wants. 🙄 this is a classic case of a man can’t take what he dishes out
Her credibility was messed up because of that story of him telling her to stay at home and I’m going out and blah blah. That man didn’t say that. What typical man is bold enough to tell his pregnant woman that he is going to cheat? Had she said kept it about text messages, that’s believable. That other stuff she said, doubt it and it messed her credibility up. Plain and simple
@@XxiliketwinkiesxX RIGHT !!
@@britanimckinney1964 she gave him his answer of course she didn’t mean he actually told her to stay home and cheat like i said HOW DID HER CREDIBILITY SUCK ITS NOT LIKE SHE WAS BEING SARCASTIC, if so I’ve seen plenty of people phrase it this way 🤷🏽♀️
@@Alex-sq3kp seems like you don't watch Judge Mathis often.. He is that way (some times he takes it too far) this is why he asks for backgrounds and characteristics from each other cause if it's not actual evidence he looks at he'll look at credibility smh
When she mentioned child support I knew it was over for him.
My opinion on child support if you & the father has an agreement on things & his history is good as far as being a good dad child support shouldn’t be a thought.
Besides the government can careless if the child is fed, thru just want they cut 🤷🏾♀️
That's not true, the government doesn't get a "cut" unless they're (ie. The county) trying to get reimbursed from the custodial parent who is on government assistance. And in many cases the child support arrangement can beneficial to the non custodial parent.
She should repay the loan she admittedly borrowing money from him that's why it's not good to lend money it will either make you, or break you.
Every time I watch these cases I say yup if my son ever have a child I will be letting him know to put his self on child support no women going to be using my son child against him
Smart
@@condesabeatriz9303 yup because I see first hand how they like to play
They both immature, 😢
Dang that judge really took his side, sheesh. Judge Judy is usually much more fair and doesn’t pick sides.
Clearly he was cheating if another woman was claiming she was pregnant. JM kills me with the whole I DON'T BELIEVE IT. And I love JM but he is wrong sometimes
I find it hard to believe she played hard to get seeing as how she was pregnant 3mths after knowing a supposed stalker. Hope he got a DNA test and took Judge advice. She seems like she already building a case from her ending statement. Now she act like he ain't hitting on shii 🙄
When you are young U pay the Price to learn
Stop meeting ppl and having babies..3 months? Wtf....and she needs to stop hanging with guys..esp with his child...
So all he has to do is say no and he automatically is the one telling the truth. Why he didn't ask what happened like he did with her
She's really cute. You can tell he must have lied about how much he pays monthly in daycare by their conversation in the hallway
You know I love you mannnn I hate when men say that & on national TV!!!
kids are far too expensive, no thank you
DANG.. he stalked you and you still got into a relationship with him and had a child with him 😮
I’ll never & I mean NEVER understand how folks meet somebody & immediately within weeks-a few months bring a child into the world. 1st off folk he broke….2, ppl don’t check medical histories or criminal backgrounds or nothing just snatch their clothes off & have children. It’s mind blowing.
Stop having kids Young
I was pregnant with my daughter and I also went through my child’s father phone and a girl was also pregnant . My child’s father was asking her to have an abortion smh I went through hell with my child’s father
Too young to be having a baby.
Screw JM and all that “pay child support“ , if your a good man or woman doing the right thing and taking care of your child 100% like you should then all that BS aint needed.
These young social media relationships...smh
That’s better than a dead beat that pays nothing
Giirrrlllll ...He Trying 💶for His Daughter '💗 ..Not You 😒
Facts!!! Handle your child support!
her daddy must not been in her life ..
“He’s stalked me on Instagram” You mean he stalked the things you posted🤔